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Speaker 1: What's up at your nation? Welcome back to Batchel Happy Hour.

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Speaker 1: We have a good one for you this week. The

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Speaker 1: Bachelorette is finally hair Charity. Welcome, Welcome to the Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: Thank you guys for having me. I'm excited to be here.

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Speaker 2: Ready to chat it up. See what we're dub into today.

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Speaker 1: Let's do it. Serena is I am as well. Serena

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Speaker 1: is very excited to meet you.

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Speaker 3: I am. I'm so excited. I don't believe it's halfway

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Speaker 3: through your season. We haven't had you on yet, so

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Speaker 3: it's about to cover. It's going back to so fast. Wow,

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Speaker 3: it must feel even faster for you.

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Speaker 2: For sure it does because I'm like we just started this,

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Speaker 2: but like I'm lucky ready to be like trying to

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Speaker 2: get it in. Yeah, was the was.

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Speaker 1: The lead up? How long did it feel for the

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Speaker 1: lead up to the show, like you know, after you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I felt like forever? Truly. I was like, because

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Speaker 2: we wrapped like sometime in May, like the first week

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Speaker 2: in May, and then obviously like my premiere wasn't until

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Speaker 2: like Jane twenty six, I was like this that window

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Speaker 2: in between and then obviously doing so much. It was

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Speaker 2: a lot but like I was like, come on, let's

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Speaker 2: let's get this going. And now it's like it's a breazing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like, the sooner it starts, the sooner it ends,

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Speaker 3: let's go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Were there ever? Were there ever days where you were

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Speaker 1: like totally forgot that you had just filmed a show?

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Speaker 3: No, no, okay, Joe Joe saying that because he filmed

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Speaker 3: a show a few months ago and it doesn't air

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Speaker 3: for like a year. So there's days where you're like, wow, man,

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Speaker 3: I literally forgot it was on that show. It hasn't

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Speaker 3: even aired yet. But I feel like for you the

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Speaker 3: two month window, it's like all you're probably thinking about

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Speaker 3: is like, okay, six weeks, five weeks, four weeks.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I mean my whole life is honestly this right now.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, And it's different.

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Speaker 1: When you're I mean, you're the lead of the shu.

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Speaker 1: The show is literally all it's about you. Yeah. Do

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Speaker 1: you ever think you're gonna have a show about you?

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Speaker 3: Where?

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Speaker 1: Where are you now? Where are you in the world?

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Speaker 2: So I am in Charlotte, North Carolina right now, and

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Speaker 2: so just kind of going back and forth between here

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Speaker 2: in La but.

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Speaker 1: Okay that that's where you live. Oh you like North Carolina,

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Speaker 1: I do.

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Speaker 2: I do very sharp, like a good like combination of

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Speaker 2: like city but also like I mean, I'm obviously from

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Speaker 2: the South, so I'm used to like the small town feel.

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Speaker 2: It kind of has like a good blend of those two. Okay, nice.

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Speaker 3: We're getting married in South Carolina and South Carolina, so okay,

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Speaker 3: my American geography isn't that good. But we're getting married

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Speaker 3: in South Carolina in Charleston, which is different.

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Speaker 2: It's so beautiful. Oh my goodness, Charleston is beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it'll be fine. And then we hear you've got

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Speaker 3: an exciting trip starting today.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we'll headed out to Miami coming up this

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Speaker 2: weekend and be a little girls trip with a couple

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Speaker 2: of Batchelor the girls meet kat Kylie, Jesse Meorsades.

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Speaker 3: I feel like your season more than most you guys

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Speaker 3: have done so many girls trips, Like you've stayed really close,

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Speaker 3: which is nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is actually really refreshing, obviously, Like it's a

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Speaker 2: blessing to come into like this whole experience and like

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Speaker 2: to have like or to find friends, and these girls

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Speaker 2: truly are everything to me, so it's it's really good

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Speaker 2: to have them still obviously in my corner as I'm

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Speaker 2: navigating this too on my AM.

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, where are you guys staying in Miami?

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Speaker 2: Were at the Good Time Hotel?

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Speaker 1: You didn't have to give me the hotel. It is

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Speaker 1: more like a feature. We here is the address.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, but I was like, here you get you want

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Speaker 2: the room number?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, the Good Time Hotel. It is eight twenty

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Speaker 1: six South Beach Avenue. Nice. Don't worry. This podcast is

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Speaker 1: going to come out when you're you're only going for

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Speaker 1: the weekend. I'm assuming, Yeah, yeah, you're good, you'll be back.

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Speaker 1: You guys gonna go to Bodega. Go to Bodega. That's

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Speaker 1: a cool old bar.

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Speaker 2: And okay, I'll put it on the list. I'll put

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Speaker 2: it on this for us.

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Speaker 1: That's a fun one.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: We should probably we should probably get into some kind

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Speaker 1: of an interview. Let's do it, Okay, So Charity Bachelorette.

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Speaker 1: I guess my first question is when did it? When

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Speaker 1: did it finally hit you that you wore the Bachelorette,

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Speaker 1: Like after after Zach season wrap, they ask you, but

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Speaker 1: like when does it really like, oh, this shit's real.

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Speaker 2: It honestly didn't hit me until I want to say

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Speaker 2: a little bit leading up tonight one, which is like

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Speaker 2: so much further down the line, not even while I

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Speaker 2: was doing like the big like press shoot for ABC

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Speaker 2: like that, Like it was so surreal. Still in that moment,

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Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, I'm just kind of go through

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Speaker 2: leading up tonight one and like kind of getting those

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Speaker 2: that moment for me where I was like, oh, like

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Speaker 2: be the one that is in control leading this show.

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Speaker 2: In night one, obviously I just was almost blacked out.

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Speaker 1: So okay, what guys, what guys? Night one left the

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Speaker 1: biggest impression.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, after Night one, I would have to.

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Speaker 2: Say Warwick and then Joey, even though we lacked eye contact,

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Speaker 2: well that whole conversation, it was the one good conversation.

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Speaker 2: I would have to say Dott and Blema. Entrance was

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Speaker 2: Aaron b he was great and Xavior.

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Speaker 3: So it's so interesting because I feel like the guys

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Speaker 3: you listed four of them. Yes, we really saw the connection.

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Speaker 3: One of them, specifically Warwick. We saw that connection did

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Speaker 3: not develop as I'm assuming you expected it too.

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Speaker 2: I definitely I think I put I don't want to

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Speaker 2: say I put expectations on him, but like it's obviously like,

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Speaker 2: oh I I had a good person impression of him,

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Speaker 2: and it's like, oh, I'm eager to learn more. And

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Speaker 2: so that's truly why I felt like I gave him

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Speaker 2: that one on one. I was like, I'm I'm wanting

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Speaker 2: just was a date that just we were on two

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Speaker 2: But it was awkward.

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Speaker 1: You see, I thought for me, I don't know, maybe

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Speaker 1: I probably overthink it, but I thought you asked Warwick

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Speaker 2: Well you're not, I guess, yeah, like a little bit

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Speaker 2: of both. It's like I definitely wanted to get to

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Speaker 2: No more. But like it's always like that what if

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Speaker 2: but like I definitely was not expecting it to go

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Speaker 2: he's going to give me something. When I got nothing,

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Speaker 2: that's when I was like, all right, yeah, that's.

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Speaker 3: Not It seemed like, yeah, there was just no connection

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Speaker 3: on both sides, Like it seemed like you both want

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Speaker 2: He was like bye, Charity, that's right, taking map in

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Speaker 2: the cars Like I wish I could do that. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: now we were we were real good term so it's good.

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Speaker 1: So Charity, we got you lying already on the podcast

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Speaker 1: cause you didn't mention Braiden and you gave him the

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Speaker 1: first impression. Rose.

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Speaker 2: That's so sad that telling lie number one.

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Speaker 1: So you but we do see. I want to talk

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Speaker 1: about the conversation with you and your brother where he's

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Speaker 1: like I don't trust this Braiden guy, and I'm not

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Speaker 1: ready yeah to him, and you kind of just went opposite,

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Speaker 1: good for you, like, like I believe you're taking in

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Speaker 1: his information. But you're going to make your own decisions.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, let's talk about that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean it's like I feel like I get

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Speaker 2: I think what we see is honestly as real as

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Speaker 2: it was in the moment too, for like me and

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Speaker 2: Braiden's relationship, and especially after night one, like the conversation,

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Speaker 2: him just like bringing up like, you know, the qualities

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Speaker 2: So it's like I felt really comfortable around him. And

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Speaker 2: that night is extremely chaotic. There's a lot going on,

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Speaker 2: So I was really caught off guard obviously, like watching

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Speaker 2: to talk to me that night, he did share a

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Speaker 2: lot more about like a few other guys, but like

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Speaker 2: in specifics, like Branden was kind of one that kind

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Speaker 2: something that I'm really looking for in a guy. And

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Speaker 2: so when I had that conversation, I was like, I

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Speaker 2: don't know, it's like almost part of me was a

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Speaker 2: little defensive because I was like, that's not what I

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Speaker 2: got from him, Like I didn't get like cocky, but

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Speaker 2: obviously you're seeing something that I'm not, So I didn't

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Speaker 2: want to add too prematurely on it. So I was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to take your information, but we'll see, Like obviously,

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Speaker 2: we'll keep him around and see if that obviously plays

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Speaker 2: out to be what it is, and if not, then

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Speaker 2: I'll be right in this situation.

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Speaker 3: Okay, No, I like that. I like that you were like,

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Speaker 3: I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt

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Speaker 3: right now, because you know your brother. Obviously you trust

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Speaker 3: his advice. He's your brother, but you've also been in

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Speaker 3: branden choose where it's like it's night wine, it's so hectic,

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Speaker 3: like it's a whole new experience, So like maybe he

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Speaker 3: just needs to kind of like settle into that. Obviously

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Speaker 3: it didn't work out, but not but that's okay. You

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Speaker 3: know you're only gonna end with one.

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Speaker 1: Guy, right, And I promise you this whole interview is

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Speaker 1: not going to be about Branden. But since you woke

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Speaker 1: since you woke up and you were ready to go

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Speaker 1: this morning, is what you told us. There was a comment,

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Speaker 1: can she just not be the bachelorette herself?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What do you say that that that comment? Honestly, it's

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Speaker 2: for me. The excuse me. But when it comes to

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Speaker 2: that comment, Branden actually did share that with me on

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Speaker 2: And so I was trying to be like very comforting

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Speaker 2: Like there's no like non authentic version of myself. And

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Speaker 2: so that's kind of what I took it when he

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Speaker 2: don't get to be off, Like I don't know what

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Speaker 2: you mean by that. It's like I'm the bachelorette, but

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Speaker 2: like I'm also not just a bachelorette. I'm cheerity, Like

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Speaker 2: I don't know what you mean by this. But I

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Speaker 2: think for him, like that was like a tactic for

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Speaker 2: it came across to me as like he was trying

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Speaker 2: I could be wrong, but there's no turning off the bachelorette. Sorry.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you're like you might not be seeing every

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Speaker 3: single side of me right now because I'm the bacherette.

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Speaker 3: But besides, you are seeing are one hundred percent me

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Speaker 3: it's kind of like, yeah, it's it's hard. What was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, it was. I probably I don't want to

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Speaker 2: you know, the moment where I'm like threatening to like

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Speaker 2: but I was like in my head, I always like

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Speaker 2: whole skamania, like on that group day, Braden was really just,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, no, I was like, why are you

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Speaker 2: I was like, okay, this, like we're gonna have to

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Speaker 2: saying like I can't do this anymore, like I would

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Speaker 1: I think he's I think he's a nice guy. I

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Speaker 1: just think he wasn't ready, you know, Like I agree,

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Speaker 1: it's just just as simple as that, Like he just

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Speaker 1: really wasn't ready for the show. Okay, what about let's

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Speaker 1: talk a little bit about Aaron B. Because he brought

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I think I made it well. I don't

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Speaker 2: I didn't want that to be the case because I

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Speaker 2: know how it can go. It like it takes up

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I mean there were a plethora of guys

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Speaker 3: you know, we focus on him because he's the one

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Speaker 3: is still here. How did that affect your connection because

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Speaker 3: obviously he's a strong enough connection, he's going to hometown's,

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Speaker 3: But how did him bring the brain and drama to you?

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Speaker 3: Do you feel like it brought you closer? Do you

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Speaker 2: I think not necessarily, like I guess it focusing like

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Speaker 2: I don't really appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: What's more exhausting being being contestine or being the lead?

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Speaker 2: The lead? Hands down? Yeah down, there's no way and

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Speaker 1: Hey, has there ever been Was there ever a moment

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Speaker 2: Yeah? It definitely picked up around Fantasy Suites, like after

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Speaker 3: Yeah? And I feel like even this past week, we

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Speaker 3: Hot Sean, I'm so sorry. Have you heard about Hot

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Speaker 3: Sean missing Sean Sean To fill you in, we were

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Speaker 3: Are you and Tanner? And feel free to like correct

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Speaker 2: And we'll talk about yeah, yeah, But with Sean, I

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Speaker 2: Like Tanner was someone WHOID did obviously start off really slow,

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Speaker 2: just like the emotional goodbyes with Sean and Tanner two

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Speaker 2: Being on a too on one is not ideal in

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Speaker 2: But also yeah, at some point, to some degree, we

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Speaker 3: No, that's great insight. And it's funny because Joey when

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Speaker 3: was kind of waiting to see that with him. We

435
00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,000
Speaker 3: just never really got a chance. So getting to hear

436
00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:18,000
Speaker 3: like that there were these meaningful conversations had that we

437
00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,000
Speaker 3: just weren't privy to see does kind of give a

438
00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:22,720
Speaker 3: little bit of context to these really heartfelt goodbyes.

439
00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:25,120
Speaker 2: Right, And everyone's probably gonna be confused, but it's okay.

440
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,680
Speaker 1: True He's he's a likable guy too. Something I want

441
00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:33,679
Speaker 1: to ask because I felt this one when I was

442
00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:36,560
Speaker 1: in Paradise and you're just curious when you were on

443
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:40,120
Speaker 1: the Barbie day Jojo and Jordan were there, seeing them

444
00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:42,320
Speaker 1: like seeing them for I don't know if you met

445
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,719
Speaker 1: her before, but like seeing them together in that moment

446
00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:49,040
Speaker 1: and then being part of the show, does it give

447
00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 1: you hope like this this could work.

448
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,639
Speaker 2: It definitely did, And I think I've said that on

449
00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:57,320
Speaker 2: the day. It's just like they are such an inspiration.

450
00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,320
Speaker 2: Obviously I watched Jodo's season, so like that was my

451
00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:03,399
Speaker 2: first time like actually meeting her like in person, and

452
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,800
Speaker 2: so like obviously to have her there and then to

453
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:09,679
Speaker 2: see Jordan with her, like their interactions, like they're just

454
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 2: such a loving couple, and I realized, like obviously they're

455
00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:15,320
Speaker 2: still together. So it does work. And I think for

456
00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,840
Speaker 2: the guys like me, explaining that and talking about their

457
00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:21,199
Speaker 2: relationship really did give me hope that you know, at

458
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 2: the end of all of this, no matter how hard

459
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:24,440
Speaker 2: it is, it's gonna all be worth it.

460
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 1: So yeah, nice because I felt that, like when we

461
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,399
Speaker 1: were in Paradise and Dean and Kaylen came down and

462
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:33,960
Speaker 1: I was, yeah, yeah.

463
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 3: Well that's good because that was the exactly you proposed

464
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:37,480
Speaker 3: to me. So I'm glad they gave you some help

465
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 3: on our proposal day.

466
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,919
Speaker 1: No, no, no, they came down. They came down, and

467
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 1: then I proposed a few days later. But they were

468
00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 1: there for the people.

469
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 3: You're right, Sorry, you're right, you're right. Little did I

470
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 3: know Dean Calen pushed it.

471
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 2: Over the edge proposal.

472
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 1: I just want to be like Dan Caylen. Okay, So

473
00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:02,400
Speaker 1: let's talk a little bit about we've kind of I've

474
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:07,440
Speaker 1: Dotton's been my favorite from the beginning as far as

475
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 1: like your connection with him, You've been You've been giving

476
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 1: him some like extra time, it seems like or.

477
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 3: At least like intentional private time.

478
00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, talk about that.

479
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,159
Speaker 3: And then he's got to back to back one on

480
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:27,159
Speaker 3: one dates. So what was kind of the motivation to

481
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,120
Speaker 3: give that second one and one to Dotton versus maybe

482
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,439
Speaker 3: someone like Aaron b who hasn't had a one on

483
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:33,040
Speaker 3: one in a while.

484
00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 2: So with Dawton, obviously, I think we see him as

485
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 2: someone who is extremely like, he has this emotional depth

486
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 2: to him, and so our conversations, like, I mean, we

487
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,920
Speaker 2: saw it on our first one on one date. When

488
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:48,960
Speaker 2: I'm with him, there's a lot of like things that

489
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:52,200
Speaker 2: like we talk about and that I haven't necessarily shared

490
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,639
Speaker 2: with a lot of other people. So I think for

491
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 2: me that like it's almost stimulating in a sense that

492
00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:00,240
Speaker 2: it's like it leaves me like wanting or craving from war.

493
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 2: And so following the bungee jumping date and then heading

494
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 2: into New Orleans, that was a date that was like

495
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 2: super early we did the Christient Classic City Run and

496
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 2: so I that was early morning, and I was like, okay,

497
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,239
Speaker 2: like when I knew I was doing that date and

498
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 2: I had to figure out, like who did I want

499
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 2: to take on that date. I obviously did like go

500
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 2: down the line of like who possibly I could take

501
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 2: and what that would be like. But with Dawton, it

502
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, like why not, like let's continue our connection.

503
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,960
Speaker 2: Obviously it did rub a lot of the guys wrong,

504
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 2: especially Aaron b because like that was a city that

505
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 2: was like super relevant to him. But at that time,

506
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 2: I obviously there's a lot going on and I just

507
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 2: didn't like honestly even think of that. But yeah, with Dawton,

508
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,199
Speaker 2: it's just like there's there's something special and it was

509
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 2: a special time that we had and we got to

510
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 2: spend in New Orleans together. So yeah, I'm not regretful

511
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 2: for giving him one on ones back to back.

512
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: I yeah, I thank you as a viewer. Like, and

513
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 1: why I like your connection with Dotton the most is

514
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 1: you just seem the most comfortable. It just it just

515
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: seems like you guys are, like we said it, like

516
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:17,919
Speaker 1: you were like watching you in your living room, Like

517
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: you guys are just kind of chilling, and that makes sense. Yeah,

518
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 1: I think you. I think you made the right choice.

519
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 1: Then Okay, who else? Who else do we got here?

520
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 1: Let's we have Joey. We'll touch on Joey. Okay, I

521
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 1: want to talk about Xavier because Xab when you went

522
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 1: on the one on one date with Xavier, and I

523
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 1: felt the same way. This is kind of how I

524
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 1: felt about the Warwick date. I felt like you were

525
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:46,640
Speaker 1: sending an Xavier home until he opened up at the conference.

526
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 1: Is that is that right?

527
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:48,680
Speaker 2: That is correct?

528
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:50,400
Speaker 1: Job?

529
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was in my head all day about that

530
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 2: date in Washington. It's just like Xavier does have like

531
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 2: he's such a contagious person, but like at times he

532
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 2: has these like tactics that I don't know if he

533
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 2: just has done in his past dating experience, but it's

534
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:10,439
Speaker 2: like for me, I'm also craving for a guy that

535
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 2: can just give emotional depth to and have this emotional intelligence,

536
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 2: and I like asking questions that are going to challenge you.

537
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 2: And I feel like sometimes and we don't really always

538
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 2: see it, but we see it a little bit. On

539
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 2: you know, the day in Washington, he kind of deflects

540
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 2: a little bit and he uses like flirtation.

541
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 1: Like we're hitting on you. Like I was like quite

542
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 1: hitting on you.

543
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,240
Speaker 2: As like like kind of avoid the conversation. And I

544
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 2: picked up on that. So then that's kind of like

545
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,879
Speaker 2: where I'm referring to is like he reminds me of

546
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 2: my ex because it's like I could never get past

547
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 2: a certain point. So like that whole like narrative of like,

548
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 2: oh can he be a boyfriend? Sure, but is he husband?

549
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 2: Like I don't know if he can get there. But

550
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:53,719
Speaker 2: then obviously like he got extremely vulnerable at that dinner

551
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 2: and so like hearing about his mom, hearing about like,

552
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:58,719
Speaker 2: you know, his pursuit in his career as to why

553
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 2: like he feels like that's his purpose is Like that

554
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 2: really did resonate a lot with me, and we talked

555
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:05,679
Speaker 2: a lot more about family and also like just what

556
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 2: his goals are in life, and so yeah, that was

557
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 2: honestly the saving grace for him, because otherwise I think

558
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,400
Speaker 2: he would have probably would have been.

559
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 1: Out of the Yeah, it makes sense.

560
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've liked seeing your guys' connection grow because one

561
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 3: hundred percent that first one and one is really when

562
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 3: we first got to see you guys together, and Joe

563
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 3: was like, this guy is on the date actually, like

564
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 3: he's trying to pick her up to go on a date,

565
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 3: Like you already have the date yet She's like, you're

566
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 3: on the date, buddy, like you are currently on the

567
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 3: date with the girls. Stop hitting on her. It was

568
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 3: fun and flirty and cute. I think we as yours

569
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 3: were also waiting for him to kind of get deep

570
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 3: and open up, and obviously we saw his story in

571
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 3: his intro package for the show, but we weren't able

572
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,120
Speaker 3: to have that conversation for the two of you yet.

573
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:52,399
Speaker 3: And then the night portion, I feel like we as

574
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 3: viewers saw you kind of relax and be like okay,

575
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 3: like there's a deeper connection here Toyork.

576
00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 2: With for sure, for sure.

577
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: And then this week we see exac I like exager,

578
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 1: we see him drop another bomb where he's just like, yeah,

579
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 1: you know, I just I don't know if I'm ready

580
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: for just.

581
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 2: That's the thing again, that was the struggle. It's just

582
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 2: like it's this constant like one week we're here and

583
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 2: then one week, you know, we're feeling different, and so

584
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 2: it's like this constant like just shift And that was

585
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 2: a lot for me. So yeah, we'll see how things

586
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 2: like obviously play out, but it was a lot.

587
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,919
Speaker 3: Not not to be like ageist right now, but how

588
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 3: old is he.

589
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 2: He is twenty seven, he's the same ages.

590
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,959
Speaker 1: Okay, well, what was his saving grace though in this

591
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,360
Speaker 1: week's episode, because after he did say that, I was like,

592
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 1: you were you you were like, oh, that's that's not good.

593
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 2: I think the saving grace again was just like the

594
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,640
Speaker 2: fat and and this is like maybe like sad to say,

595
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,199
Speaker 2: but I think it's like the fact that he was

596
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,159
Speaker 2: willing to like continue to try and willing to see.

597
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 2: I can't fault him for like not knowing right now

598
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 2: that oh on one hundred percent set on an engagement.

599
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 2: I know I can because truly that's probably a little

600
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 2: bit unrealistic. But the fact that I think he was

601
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 2: just like still open to it and he didn't completely

602
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 2: close off. That's why I was like, Okay, let's you know,

603
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,880
Speaker 2: let's give this thing a shot. And obviously where I

604
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,679
Speaker 2: was at and where my numbers fell with who I

605
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 2: had left, like Sewan and Tanner, our connection, like I

606
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 2: just did not feel comfortable going to meet their families

607
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 2: and not having that that time or that connection where

608
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 2: it should be. So Xavier was further, much further along.

609
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 2: I obviously still could have sent him home, but I

610
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 2: wanted to kind of just see if we could get there.

611
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 3: I don't think that's sad to say at all. I

612
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 3: think that totally makes sense. Like we felt that his

613
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 3: fear was kind of relatable in a way of like,

614
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 3: oh my god, like one person for the rest of

615
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 3: my life can be scary for people. But he definitely

616
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 3: saved himself from that comment of like, but I'm still

617
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 3: I still want that in my life, right, Like, it

618
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 3: wasn't like he was like I'm scared and like I

619
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 3: don't know if I'm ready for that or if I

620
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 3: even want that, but let's.

621
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 2: Keep dating, right, were right? Yeah, No, he definitely he

622
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 2: saved himself so good.

623
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 3: He also just looked really tired.

624
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 2: I was like, maybe he's just always looks tired, like

625
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 2: I'm watching his it back and I'm like, Xavier, open

626
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 2: your eyes.

627
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 3: I was trailing off after time he doesn't interview, Like

628
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 3: it must be like two in the morning.

629
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 2: He looks so tired, and I'm on a day with

630
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 2: a beautiful girl, but we chan't see your eyes.

631
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 3: That's okay. So last person in your top four that

632
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 3: chat about is Joey.

633
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: And I would say, besides the no eye contact night one, like,

634
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 1: it seems like it's very smooth and is that how

635
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: it is?

636
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 2: Yes, me and Joey's connection continuously grows at a just

637
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 2: very like consistent and good rate. It's not too quickly

638
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 2: and it's not like we're trailing behind. And I feel

639
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 2: like for me and him, like obviously this was like

640
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 2: another turning point in our relationship this week in New

641
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 2: Orleans where we have a very important conversation surrounding like

642
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 2: interracial dating and just like meeting his family. I think

643
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 2: me not realizing maybe ahead of time as open as

644
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 2: Joey was, I think for me like that was like

645
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 2: something that I really like, like it just continued to

646
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 2: captivate me. And so, yeah, Joey is someone who's just

647
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 2: super special. He has just a pure heart and I

648
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 2: feel like I'm I get the full Joey every time

649
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 2: I'm with him. But he's also just had a calming presence,

650
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 2: so like for me, like that's really what I need

651
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 2: as a lead in the show, but like in real life,

652
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 2: like he's just a rock.

653
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

654
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's interesting you say you feel like you got

655
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 3: the full Joey the entire time, because then we see

656
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 3: in the promo for next week for Hometowns, I believe

657
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 3: it's his dad that is saying, are you getting the

658
00:30:57,560 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 3: full Joey? Can you kind of tease going to next

659
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 3: week what we're to get from Joey's family and all

660
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 3: the other guys' families.

661
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, for the most part, hometowns do you

662
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 2: go pretty smoothly, but you know, it's not truly a

663
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 2: hometown episode without some some families asking hard hitting questions,

664
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 2: and so we do see in the preview with Joey's family,

665
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: his uncle Uncle Joe mentioned that he questions to me,

666
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 2: do I feel like I'm getting the fool Joey or

667
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 2: do I feel like I'm seeing the full Joey? And

668
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 2: for me, that was extremely scary to hear or to

669
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 2: have that like brought up to me, because like I

670
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 2: just said, I feel like I get the whole Joey

671
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 2: every time that I'm in and so yeah, that that

672
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 2: definitely left me feeling a little uneasy. I'm not gonna lie,

673
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 2: and so that potentially could be a problem for us

674
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 2: later down the road. But yeah, and I think even

675
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 2: with like Xavier's family, like we have a lot of

676
00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 2: conversations revolving the readiness of the guys and just kind

677
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 2: of seeing what their families have to say about that,

678
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 2: which might be a different take on what some of

679
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 2: the guys have expressed to me. So it's very interesting.

680
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 2: So we'll see how how next week plays out, but

681
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 2: it'll be a good one.

682
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 3: That is such a scary question to me, joey'sdad asking

683
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 3: do you feel like you're getting the whole Joey, because

684
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 3: that was my deepest fear on the show the whole time. Yeah,

685
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 3: you can't know. You just have to trust that they're

686
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 3: showing you everything, but you don't know what you don't know,

687
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 3: so you can't be like, no i am or I'm not.

688
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 3: Like it's that's your best guess.

689
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: And that's yeah, what I said I'm Joey. I'm like, hey, uncle,

690
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: go fuck yourself. Why do you ask that kind of

691
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: question right now?

692
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 3: Right?

693
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 2: And I'm sure it left him like probably feeling, you know,

694
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 2: a certain type of way, and he probably was like,

695
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 2: that's not a question that should be brought up. But

696
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 2: you know, I'm not mad at it. Obviously. I appreciate

697
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 2: the challenging questions because it allows me to kind of now,

698
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 2: like get not now I'm always in la la land,

699
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 2: but it kind of allows me like, ship here's a

700
00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 2: little bit and be like, all right, let's be like

701
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 2: realistic as much possible here.

702
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

703
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 1: Also, no offense to Joey's uncle, I'm just joking.

704
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 3: Wait, speaking of families, how has your family and friends

705
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 3: been watching the season back? How did they feel when

706
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 3: you became the bachelorrette all the way up until now?

707
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 3: Has it been like nothing but love, support, hesitation.

708
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it has been nothing but love and support. You know,

709
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 2: as we've seen, my family's just tremendous and they're just

710
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 2: the greatest. So obviously my brother is having the best time.

711
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 2: He is like I'm ready to see really like how

712
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 2: all this really turns out? But yeah, my mom and

713
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 2: dad are doing gray my other stiling they're just everyone's

714
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 2: just back home watching it and tuning in every week.

715
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 2: But my friends, I think they're also like just now

716
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 2: becoming super Bachelor fans, which is so funny because a

717
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 2: lot of them didn't really watch the show before, so

718
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 2: now they're just like all really into it and just

719
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 2: being being good friends.

720
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 3: That's so fun. As my friends have said many times,

721
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 3: the show will never be more exciting than when you

722
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 3: know someone someone on it.

723
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 1: Absolutely, Yeah, what two questions real quick? What was the

724
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: best thing you ate in New Orleans?

725
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,919
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, so me? And yes, oh my god,

726
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 2: those oysters are like so good I would eat like

727
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 2: two does. It's like I'm in saying so.

728
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's They're They're incredible. And then quick question before

729
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 1: because I know you have something too. Out of the

730
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 1: last four guys, the four hometown guys, were there any

731
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 1: of those guys that were up for potentially not getting

732
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 1: a rose night one?

733
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 3: Oh that's a good question, Like, was there anyone that

734
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 3: she was about to send home? Like wide based off

735
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 3: first impression that now is here?

736
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's interesting, not really, but if anything, I'd have

737
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 2: to say it would be maybe not just because we

738
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 2: didn't get time, but like again, like I was like

739
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 2: his limo entrance still captivated me and down to where

740
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,279
Speaker 2: I was like, we clearly have something here even if

741
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,839
Speaker 2: we didn't have a full conversation to sit down. So like,

742
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 2: I mean that was that's the best way. I can't

743
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 2: answer that, but like I feel like the top four

744
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 2: I definitely like hit it out the part from the

745
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,720
Speaker 2: question from night one to where we're at now, Yeah.

746
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well we had him on the podcast. He was like,

747
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 3: I didn't get to talk to her night once. So

748
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 3: he's like, and I was one of the last roses,

749
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 3: so I really didn't know what was going to happen.

750
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,439
Speaker 3: I was like, don you're pretty good looking and quite tall,

751
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 3: Like I feel like you're gonna be okay. I do

752
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 3: want to ask you on the topic of you know,

753
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 3: your friends and family. You've seen a lot of love

754
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 3: and support. I feel like people are loving you as

755
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 3: bachelor at but you did wake up this morning and

756
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 3: choose violence and we cannot not chat about it. So

757
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:41,439
Speaker 3: you put on threads I did, which I can't believe

758
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 3: we're talking threads now, Like, oh my god, rip Twitter

759
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 3: and on your Instagram store. I'm going to read it

760
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 3: for people. Charity said, maybe it's time we stop getting

761
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 3: dating advice from unqualified TV personalities who like bashing women

762
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 3: for the sake of us. And then the little hands

763
00:35:56,280 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 3: up emoji, which is my favorite emojidus personally, do you

764
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 3: want to comment on that at all or expand or

765
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 3: tell us where that's.

766
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 2: And I will say start off with the disclaimer. I

767
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 2: have only listened to like two, not even fully all

768
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 2: the way through. I don't even want to give him

769
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 2: that much credit, but two of Nick Vile's podcasts and

770
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 2: just some of his takes on my season. It's just

771
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 2: very interesting because I feel like it is extremely harsh

772
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 2: at times, and not that like opinions really matter, but

773
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 2: it's like to the point where it's like it's so

774
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 2: vastly different than clearly what the rest of America is seeing,

775
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 2: and it's like you, I don't know if you have

776
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 2: something against me, I don't know, you've never met you.

777
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 2: But like just some of the like burbige that he uses,

778
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:45,799
Speaker 2: like I have extremely like ridiculous pick me energy. I'm

779
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 2: a recovering pick me saying I like pretty guys. That's

780
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:51,800
Speaker 2: why I would never end up with like certain casts

781
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 2: like some of the contestants. I was like, this is

782
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:57,359
Speaker 2: like also just respectful to them. It's just it's a reach.

783
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 2: It's a reach, and we know why he's doing it

784
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 2: because obviously it's click bait and it gets people like listening.

785
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 2: But he can find someone else to do that one

786
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:08,479
Speaker 2: because it's not welcome over here. So so sorry, Nick, Well, we.

787
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 3: Love some clap back energy from our botch Wrette. Will

788
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 3: we be seeing this at the Mental Hell coming up

789
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 3: because we are going to be visiting with all the

790
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 3: men again, which Jo and I are very excited to watch.

791
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 2: Absolutely we will. So everyone on the stage.

792
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, actually I'm looking forward to seeing, uh, seeing you

793
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 1: on the Mental Hall. Who are you nervous to see?

794
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: Is there anyone you're nervous to see? And you can't

795
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 1: obviously can't spoil anything either.

796
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 2: By 're right, I'm not nervous to see anyone. What

797
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 2: type of energy will they come in with? Obviously we know,

798
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,359
Speaker 2: like I feel like the obvious Braidon's going to come in,

799
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 2: and whether or not he will come in with this

800
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 2: erratic energy or not, I don't know. But I will

801
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 2: always meet people with grace. But I think it's important

802
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 2: that you know, I hope he takes accountability for like

803
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 2: some of like his behaviors and you know, some of

804
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 2: the things that we were seeing in comparison with how

805
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 2: he taught to me and then what he shared with

806
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 2: the guys, not bashing him in any sense of like

807
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 2: the stuff he talked about was being realistic, but just

808
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 2: some of those behaviors that were at times I think manipulative,

809
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 2: especially when he came back to apologize, like that apology

810
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,839
Speaker 2: was not even for me, it was for himself. So

811
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 2: we'll see how everything plays out, but if anything, I

812
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 2: feel like he's going to be just a topic of discussion.

813
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:27,880
Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, well he definitely will.

814
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 3: I feel like that if he had just left when

815
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 3: you guys want your separate ways, it might have been

816
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 3: a little different. I think him coming back to basically

817
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 3: accept your apology that you weren't giving to him, yeah,

818
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 3: kind of shot him in the foot, and I feel

819
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,400
Speaker 3: like that is going to make it such a hot topic,

820
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 3: and that is probably the conversation I'm most excited to hear,

821
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 3: just because I feel like there's a lot to be

822
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,879
Speaker 3: said between the two of you, especially after being able

823
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:54,760
Speaker 3: to watch it back.

824
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,839
Speaker 2: And absolutely as Ims, absolutely there will be a lot

825
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 2: that will be shared, so yeah, can't right?

826
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:02,879
Speaker 1: Do you want to you want to play a game

827
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:03,319
Speaker 1: with us?

828
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:04,760
Speaker 2: Absolutely? I love games.

829
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:06,759
Speaker 1: All right, let's do it. Rabid Fire, you want to

830
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: read them off? Sure, rabbit Fire, Charity. First thing that

831
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: comes your head boom?

832
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 2: All right?

833
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 3: Are you ready?

834
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 2: Yes? Yes, yes, okay.

835
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,359
Speaker 3: What is the first thing you do when you wake

836
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 3: up in the morning.

837
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 2: I do three gratitude. Well, I hit snooze first, but

838
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 2: then I do my three gratitude so I find the

839
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 2: things I'm thankful for.

840
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 3: The people on your season are so healthy. I wake up,

841
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 3: I see file or three times and that I scroll

842
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 3: on my phone for about twenty minutes. Honestly, I need to.

843
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 2: I need to treat it. I do not afterwards, but

844
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 2: like I have to, Like I programmed my I was like,

845
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 2: let's get out, let's say my gratitude. Then then we'll

846
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 2: get out of bed.

847
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 3: So that's amazing. I need some new habits. How how

848
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 3: do you like your pizza?

849
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 2: I'm pretty classic, so cheese and pepperoni like nice? Yeah, nice.

850
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 1: Every majority of guys in your season all said pineapple.

851
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh god, yeah. Everyone we've had except I think

852
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 3: Dowton has said pineapple plus like mushrooms or pineapple and ham.

853
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes me scared. You should be scared.

854
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 3: You got okay it is Yeah, it's a West Coast thing.

855
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:14,720
Speaker 2: They're gone.

856
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 3: The best dating advice you ever received, best.

857
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 2: Dating advice to love yourself first before you can love

858
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 2: anyone else. Become secure, know yourself in and out, so

859
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 2: that that way when you're getting to know someone else

860
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 2: as well, like it's just easier.

861
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 3: What is your go to cocktail?

862
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,880
Speaker 2: I'm a friend Sony fab really like champagne is like

863
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 2: my go to, but I love let's add a little

864
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 2: shot of tequila or vokan there origin I like switch

865
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:47,879
Speaker 2: it up so dom so yeah, I love that.

866
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,720
Speaker 1: That's I hate champagne. Is that weird?

867
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 2: What do you guys gonna do on your wedding day?

868
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 3: I like champagne. I think we're just gonna do Joe's

869
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 3: gonna have an old fashion everyone else will champagne.

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Speaker 1: Toast I mean out, you know, like I'll toast and

871
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,439
Speaker 1: I'll have a sip. I hates a strong word.

872
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 3: I just like, I like given to. You'll drink it,

873
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 3: but you will never.

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00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: Ever order you know what. I think it's because it

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00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: gives me a headache. Yeah that's fair. This is also

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00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: not a not about me. So I literally yelled and

877
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 1: said rapid fire and I haven't shut up.

878
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 3: So okay, who is one person living or not that

879
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 3: you would like to have dinner with?

880
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 2: Does my celebrity crush count?

881
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: Of course?

882
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 2: Michael B. Jordan. That's a good one.

883
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 3: What is one word or phrase that your friends used

884
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:40,799
Speaker 3: to describe you?

885
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 2: M compassionate?

886
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 3: Do you have any bad habits?

887
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 2: Bad habit? I don't know if this is a habit,

888
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 2: but I don't drink enough water so that I yeah,

889
00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 2: I gotta get I gotta get right.

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00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, there you go. So first three gratitudes in

891
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:08,359
Speaker 3: the morning. Second chucks, What is your go to karaoke song?

892
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 2: Anything by Whitney Houston? So like dance with somebody, I

893
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,240
Speaker 2: Will always love you. That's like really when the vocals

894
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:20,840
Speaker 2: come out.

895
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: So you're getting up there singing I will.

896
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 2: That's after a few glass I gotta really be bored

897
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 2: and then I'll just let it loose.

898
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 3: But yeah, what is the current screensaver photo on your phone?

899
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, all right, shout out to Crawford. This

900
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 2: one is like my little canvas bag with my face

901
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 2: on it, so like he let me obviously take a

902
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 2: picture with him, which I don't know if he's ever

903
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 2: done with anyone, So no, I don't think he has.

904
00:42:54,360 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 3: That's so cute icon for people listening. Bradford is one

905
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 3: of the producers on the show, and every season he

906
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 3: takes photos holding these two plastic bags like they're so

907
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:11,360
Speaker 3: like old. He's been using them for forever and Charity

908
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 3: got a bag photo with Bradford, which is iconic. If

909
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 3: you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

910
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 2: I feel like my answer hasn't changed because I still

911
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 2: haven't been yet, but Greece. I really want to go

912
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 2: to Santorini, and I need to go quickly seately next summer.

913
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:28,160
Speaker 2: We'll try and get that on my list.

914
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: That would be amazing, No, I think, I think, well,

915
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:32,839
Speaker 1: I mean, we don't know if you're engaged, but if

916
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 1: I have.

917
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:37,800
Speaker 3: A pretty romantic maybe maybe a Sancherini wedding, who knows.

918
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 2: Maybe listen, that would be amazing.

919
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:44,880
Speaker 3: And then the last question is what is your favorite

920
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,800
Speaker 3: outfit of the season. You have had such amazing fashion.

921
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 3: You're also so petite, so I can imagine like they're

922
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 3: doing a lot of alterations on your clothes as like

923
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 3: another petique girl, but like love it. You and Carrie

924
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 3: probably had so much fun.

925
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 2: Me and Carrier are like the dream team truly. I

926
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 2: will have to say, I'll do you like favorite output

927
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:04,800
Speaker 2: in the favorite Rose ceremony. So my favorite Rose ceremony

928
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 2: dress is the Hometown one. So we see it in

929
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 2: the previews at the black one with the little like

930
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 2: kind of bow on the side and like the high split,

931
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 2: best look ever. And then obviously the red pants. I

932
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 2: think that was just like something we haven't really seen

933
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 2: a lot. And the hair, the makeup, it was, the

934
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:26,399
Speaker 2: whole look was a ten out of ten. And you're

935
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,959
Speaker 2: my two favorite, so good do you get to keep those?

936
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:32,799
Speaker 2: Some of them? I told you I specifically wanted that

937
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 2: black dress of me.

938
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 3: I guess, like, where are you gonna wear twelve?

939
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 2: I don't know exact I don't think I need and

940
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 2: I definitely don't have the space for twelve gowns in

941
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,399
Speaker 2: my closet, but yeah, the ones that I really fell

942
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 2: in love with, obviously, I was like, can I please have?

943
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:48,720
Speaker 3: So? Yeah?

944
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:52,439
Speaker 1: Nice? Okay, Well one last question? All right, keep going,

945
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: I mean keep going. Sorry, she's got to catch a flight.

946
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 1: She's got to go to Miami.

947
00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 3: Last question, so we just annailed the Golden Baucher. We

948
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 3: it wasn't nuts. The franchise now is the Golden Bachelor Gary.

949
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:08,240
Speaker 3: Do you have you met Gary? What are your thoughts

950
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 3: on it? Do you have any advice for him?

951
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 2: I have not met Geary, but I could imagine that

952
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:16,240
Speaker 2: I will be meeting Gary very soon. I hope at least.

953
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:20,360
Speaker 2: Gary is truly the most precious thing I've ever seen.

954
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 2: And so I saw his good Morning Leerica interview. I mean,

955
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 2: his backstory is incredible. I just love, like the whole

956
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 2: idea of this show and the spin off. It's like,

957
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,840
Speaker 2: obviously we don't really see this in reality TV. Just

958
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 2: like this population of people getting a shot at love again,

959
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 2: and so I'm really excited for it. I'm excited for Geary.

960
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 2: I hope he finds his person. I don't really know

961
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 2: the format. I'm assuming it's the same way, but I

962
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 2: don't know what the format is going to be. But

963
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:50,399
Speaker 2: any advice for Geary. I'm sure he doesn't need any.

964
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 2: He's lived a lot and he has probably so much experience.

965
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,360
Speaker 2: But for me, what helped me the most was just

966
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 2: being present and try to be present in every day

967
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,839
Speaker 2: and not look too far ahead. I think that can

968
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 2: sometimes consume you, gets you like, you know, caught up

969
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 2: in it makes you anxious. So just like taking it

970
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 2: day by day and really just going with what you

971
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 2: feel is best. No one else knows, only you do.

972
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's what I can get to Geary.

973
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:21,240
Speaker 1: Great advice, great advice. Enjoy, enjoy, have fun in Miami.

974
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 1: Stop giving people your address. Thank you so much for

975
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:26,800
Speaker 1: being here, and thank you to our listeners for always

976
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:27,319
Speaker 1: tuning in.

977
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 3: And don't forget New episodes of The Bocht air every

978
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 3: Monday at eight seven Central on ABC and then stream

979
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 3: the next day on Hulu.

980
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: Yes, and make sure to tune in to new episode

981
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 1: to Badger Happy Hour every week. We're going to have

982
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 1: some great guests on. We've got all kinds of exclusive

983
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 1: interviews coming up, so don't forget to hit that subscribe button.

984
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 3: Thanks again, everyone, Charity, thanks for being here and we

985
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 3: will see you next time.

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Speaker 2: Bye bye, y'all. Thank you,