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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO. Our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Lacy and Sunrise says, my husband cheated and

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Speaker 1: we took a long break and got together last month.

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Speaker 1: Last night, my phone rang and I ignored it. My

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Speaker 1: husband accused me of being sneaky and I haven't done

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Speaker 1: a thing. Is he paranoid about me because he's the cheater?

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Speaker 2: Hell yeah, hell yeah, because he know if his phone

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Speaker 2: rang and he ignored, he know what that is, game

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Speaker 2: recognized game. So yeah, he's a little paranoid right now,

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Speaker 2: and as he should be.

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Speaker 3: And don't try to make him feel reassured. Let his ass.

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Speaker 2: Hang out there so he can see how I feel.

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Speaker 2: That's all you got to do. You ain't did nothing.

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Speaker 2: Let his ass see hide feel, leave him on out there.

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Speaker 4: Who I love that advice.

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Speaker 3: That is good for the male ego.

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Speaker 2: And nothing like when a woman says okay, okay, like

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Speaker 2: you ever been in a discussion with a woman at

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Speaker 2: debate and then she stop and go, okay, suppose I

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Speaker 2: did this to you, what would you do?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it makes sense. Yep, there you have it all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to a Damien and yonkers Damien, says my

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Speaker 1: wife claims she found her Christmas present while she was

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Speaker 1: cleaning out the storage room. She's never cleaned it before,

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Speaker 1: so I know she was snooping since she found it.

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Speaker 1: She said, I have to get her another gift. Does

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Speaker 1: that make sense?

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Speaker 4: Hell?

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Speaker 2: No, you ain't five. You ain't five. No, we all

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Speaker 2: know the real deal about Saturday Claus. You ain't five.

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Speaker 5: Huh.

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Speaker 2: You the doug around in there and found it. Now

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Speaker 2: you owe her another? No, I don't make no damn sense.

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Speaker 2: You found your Christmas bill, glad you tore it open.

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Speaker 2: Now what we could now, what we're gonna do is

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Speaker 2: were gonna rewrap it and put it in a box

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Speaker 2: under that tree.

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Speaker 3: That's what we're gonna do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: That, and you could play this any way you want to.

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Speaker 4: Getting my gifts before Christmas. I'm not a snooper, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Chanelle in Chicago, Chanell writes, my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: and I broke up last month, and I ran into

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Speaker 1: his cousin, who invited me to his New Year's Eve party.

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Speaker 1: I want to go, but I don't want to risk

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Speaker 1: seeing my ex there with a new girl. So should

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Speaker 1: I take a date just in case? Or should I

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Speaker 1: stay at home?

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Speaker 2: Now? Let me explain some t interesting Yes, so many

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Speaker 2: New Year's Ease functions you can go too.

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Speaker 3: Why would you do that to yourself? Why? Why?

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Speaker 4: Well, if she takes the day, she'll be all right.

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Speaker 2: Right, you still might run up into him and his ex.

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Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying. Or yesh, yeah that's what

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Speaker 2: I meant to say. Yeah, you still go run up

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Speaker 2: into him and his potential new chick. So you having

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Speaker 2: the date ain't gonna fix it. Well, you feel a

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Speaker 2: little more secure the date you get your.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 2: Get go down to that hotel and buy yourself that

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Speaker 2: New Year's Eve package and go home. Get you a

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Speaker 2: date down there, though, don't go to dude house. You

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Speaker 2: ain't gonna you ain't gonna enjoy. You're gonna get to

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Speaker 2: drinking and drink too much, and then you're gonna say

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Speaker 2: it it.

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Speaker 4: Shut up there, me o, hold on her.

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Speaker 2: Hand, hand, go.

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Speaker 5: On three.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to catch nobody but you.

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Speaker 3: I been Yeah, New Year, happy fool.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna be a drunken mess lady, hair all

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Speaker 2: over your head, and you took your shoes off, left

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Speaker 2: them in the corner, forgot where you left them. Don't

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Speaker 2: do that baby gone down to the holiday inn. The

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Speaker 2: nice little packages fifty nine ninety five be down there,

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Speaker 2: two dragons.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he said, all right, I'm just trying to fit

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Speaker 1: it in the budget.

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Speaker 3: So don't nobody think I'm bushy.

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Speaker 4: Oh shit, too late.

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Speaker 3: We already had that.

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Speaker 2: We're like, where is this that they call for? They

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Speaker 2: ain't got New Year's Eve package? Well, you know, they

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Speaker 2: had a free Continental breakfast. They're gonna set that out

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Speaker 2: at midnight. Going upstairs to your room and stuff with

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Speaker 2: that low grade carpet, feel like you're walking on pile.

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Speaker 1: All right, Moving on last one, Steve, This is from

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Speaker 1: Antonia in Pittsburgh. Antonia says, I'm thirty nine and my

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Speaker 1: husband is sixty seven, and he does not want me

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Speaker 1: to have a fortieth birthday party because his ex wife

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Speaker 1: and son don't know my age.

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Speaker 4: Why does he care what they think of me? Oh

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Speaker 4: it's great.

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Speaker 2: Still my ex wife and son y'all all there in

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Speaker 2: the same bill. What kind of the pole mess is this? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What difference do it make?

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Speaker 4: Exactly?

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Speaker 3: That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: So you're the same age as his boy, So.

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Speaker 1: So he doesn't want them to know how that he's

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Speaker 1: dating a much younger woman.

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Speaker 2: Well she don't. He don't want her to throw a party.

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Speaker 2: So but now let me ask you something. How close

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Speaker 2: are all they were? They gonna know this woman having

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Speaker 2: a party anyway, They all got to be in that

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Speaker 2: same circle complex something because other than that, why else

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Speaker 2: would they even know who this woman is?

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Speaker 3: So obviously they know.

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Speaker 4: This woman, well, especially his son. That's dad's white. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: so he's.

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Speaker 2: Gonna might be See that's he don't want you to

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Speaker 2: throw no party because it ain't the age he don't

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Speaker 2: want them to know.

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Speaker 3: Is she's you.

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Speaker 4: This particular woman you're saying, if they.

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Speaker 3: Know who she is, you know they done found out

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Speaker 3: how old she is? A woman? Ain't a woman?

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Speaker 2: They're gonna never not know all that infolk o woman

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Speaker 2: gonna figure that out. So obviously they don't know who

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Speaker 2: she is. So I don't think the fear is finding

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Speaker 2: out who you are. I mean finding out how old

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Speaker 2: you are. I think it's finding out who you are,

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Speaker 2: because why else think about that for a minute, y'all?

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Speaker 2: Why else with the ex wife and son even know

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Speaker 2: this woman is forty? If she throw the party, how

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Speaker 2: they gonna know where the party at? They got to

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Speaker 2: know this girl.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess for him, he's sixty seven and they

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Speaker 5: gonna be like, your wife is just forty?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, or check this out.

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Speaker 2: Though they don't know this woman, how do they know

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Speaker 2: she's even gonna have a birthday party?

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Speaker 3: Period?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 4: They might not know her, but they know he's dating

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Speaker 4: some more.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna get out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but they're married, she said, my host may you're married?

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Speaker 2: How but see, how do they it's gonna get back

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Speaker 2: to his side of the family this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 2: If they knew this woman, the ex wife would know

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Speaker 2: how old she is. Oh, you're gonna leave me for

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Speaker 2: this helper and she gonna be the blame. They don't

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Speaker 2: know who she is. He don't want to throw the

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Speaker 2: and then they find out who she is.

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Speaker 4: I think that's what's happened at the clo.

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Speaker 3: Well, I just think it ain't the age because how

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Speaker 3: why would they even know her? All right? Who knows?

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 4: Thank you, Celo, Good morning.

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Speaker 5: This is your girl Carla Farrell from the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 5: Morning Show. And my favorite Christmas memory is every year

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Speaker 5: my mom and grandma would decorate the home and play

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Speaker 5: the Temptations Christmas album. We were at Donnie Hathaway I

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Speaker 5: Mom with Jim every Christmas season, So have a wonderful

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Speaker 5: holiday season. We would have agnow my grandmother would make

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Speaker 5: homemade egnow just wonderful, wonderful memories. But have a wonderful

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Speaker 5: Holiday season. From Carla Ferrell and all of us here

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Speaker 5: our family to yours at the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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