1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: Spending time with people my age who had just lost blocked, 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: ones that were murdered in a school due to gun 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:10,039 Speaker 1: violence changed my whole life. 4 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 2: Maxwell Frost made history as the first Gen Z member 5 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 2: elected to Congress, but long before the Capitol, he helped 6 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 2: build one of the largest youth led movements this country 7 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:21,799 Speaker 2: has ever seen. 8 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: And I got to the point where I said, you 9 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: know what to change the politics, We need to change 10 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: the politicians. 11 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 2: From gun violence to the housing crisis to racism. Congressman 12 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 2: Frost confronts the challenges defining a generation. 13 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: No, I try to be in the moment with people. 14 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 1: There's real pain in this country, and we were in 15 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: this place where the wealthiest among us owned the most, 16 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:46,200 Speaker 1: and they want us to blame each other. 17 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 2: Joined by his dad and biggest cheerleader, Patrick Frost. 18 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 3: If you tell Max he can't do it, that's you're 19 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 3: just putting fuel on the fire. 20 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 2: Join hosts Martin Luther King the Third, Andrea Waters King, 21 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 2: Mark Kilberger, and Craig Kilberger. We're an unfiltered conversation with 22 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 2: Congressman Maxwell Frost about courage, compassion, and creating change. 23 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: He ended up being one of the biggest stories about 24 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 1: me to this day. I mean, I'll be walking around 25 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: a street of a random city and somebody will come 26 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: up and be like, honey, did you. 27 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 4: Welcome to my Legacy. Today's guest is Congressman Maxwell Frost. 28 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 4: His journey from organizing to the halls of Congress was 29 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 4: inspired by family, faith, and the fight against injustice. Congressman 30 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 4: Frost were thrilled to have you with us here today. 31 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,759 Speaker 4: And as you know, at my Legacy, we don't only 32 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 4: invite extraordinary individuals, we ask them to invite someone who 33 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 4: knows them incredibly. Well, would you do us the honor 34 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 4: of introducing us to your plus one today? 35 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 1: Wow? Well, thank you so much for having me on. 36 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: So today I have none other than my dad, Patrick Frost, 37 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: who is you know, one of the biggest reasons I'm 38 00:01:56,440 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: a congressman today. You know, ever since I was literally born, 39 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: there's always been music in the house. That a lot 40 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: of people don't know this, but I'm a musician. My 41 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: whole life, I've really been a drummer. And my dad 42 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: has a love of both music and politics that I 43 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 1: have today, and so some of my most fond memories 44 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: are getting to perform with him all around Orlando, learning 45 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 1: about what music is, but not just on a page, 46 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: but on a deeper level as well. And you know, 47 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: something I always talk about is the fact that my 48 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: dad invited me to be vulnerable with him as we 49 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: listen to music throughout my life, which I know, especially 50 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 1: as a young man, is something that maybe it took 51 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: for granted growing up, but as I speak with a 52 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: lot of people my age and older, I find out 53 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 1: that I was one of the luckiest people in the 54 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: world to have grown up with someone who invited me 55 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: to be vulnerable, to put my heart on a table 56 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: through the arts and so here with my dad, Patrick Frost. 57 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 4: I love that that is awesome. As a dad myself 58 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:55,839 Speaker 4: a heart kind of like, you know, swelling a little 59 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 4: bit here. 60 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: Of that one exactly, you know. 61 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 5: And we've had so many different common nations on the show, 62 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 5: but I believe this is our first father son combination. 63 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 5: So this is very exciting to have you all both 64 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 5: on with us today. And also we're very excited because 65 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 5: for our family March for our lives is you know, 66 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 5: something that's so close and dear to our heart. From 67 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 5: our daughter speaking, we've worked with you all, We've seen 68 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 5: you all in so many iterations over the years, so 69 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 5: it really feels like being with family today. And Congressman Frost, 70 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 5: one of the beautiful things that you speak about is 71 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 5: your multi cultural background. So not only are you the 72 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 5: first gen Z congressman elected, but I believe you're also 73 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 5: the first Afro Cuban elected to Congress. And you talk 74 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 5: about how your parents were open with you from the 75 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 5: beginning about being adopted at birth. How did that shape 76 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 5: your sense of identity growing up? 77 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: Interesting because my my yeah, my parents were always open 78 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: with me about it. Now, to be honest, as you 79 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: can see, I think we kind of knew too from 80 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 1: a young age. And but my dad and my mom always, uh, 81 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: you know, offered to give me, you know, more information 82 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: stuff like that, and to be honest, and and Dad, 83 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: I'm muchure if you remember too, Like when I was 84 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 1: growing up in church, there was a group of like 85 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 1: adoptees that I would there. You know, it wasn't like 86 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,599 Speaker 1: a support group, but it was like a Sunday school 87 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: kind of thing. And I always felt like the auto 88 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 1: man out because you know, I was adopted at birth 89 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: and I never really had this want to find out 90 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:39,159 Speaker 1: more if that makes sense, and it it didn't come 91 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 1: from like a negative place. I just didn't. I didn't 92 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 1: really care, like I have my mom and my dad, 93 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 1: my sister who's my life and uh and uh and 94 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: so I never really, you know, looked for more information. 95 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: It really wasn't until I was thinking about running for 96 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 1: Congress that I went to my dad and my mom 97 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: and asked them for some more information. To be honest, 98 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 1: up until a few years ago, I've been saying that 99 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: it's because I wanted to dig into my past to 100 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 1: feel inspired. But the real reason is because somebody who 101 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: has helped mentor me at different points said, Max, you 102 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: need to look in your past and see what's in 103 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 1: there before you run for office. You know, Yeah, you 104 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 1: gotta do some research. And so I spoke with my 105 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: dad and mom about it. But you know, part of 106 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: the thing is I my mom came here from Cuban 107 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: late nineteen sixties. My dad is he'll talk more about it, 108 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 1: like he is a steel pan player but also a 109 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: multi instrumentalist. He's a composer, very deeply and classically musically, 110 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: training and jazz and everything. Really and so I grew 111 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,159 Speaker 1: up in this multi cultural house from the music that 112 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 1: I heard from like soca blasting in the living room studio, 113 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 1: which God bless my mom for letting my dad have 114 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: his studio in the living. 115 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 5: Room, and for letting you have a drum set as. 116 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 1: A child, and then then for letting me become a drummer, 117 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,480 Speaker 1: and even the people my dad would bring over his 118 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: friends right from all around the world, playing many different 119 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: types of music to my mom and my mom having 120 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: you know her grandma or sorry, her mom, my grandma 121 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: yea yea, who passed away a few years ago, but 122 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: she only spoke Spanish, and so that's kind of like 123 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: one of the main reasons I would speak Spanish in 124 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: the house was to communicate with my grandma. Growing up, 125 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 1: every summer we go to Miami, and it was just 126 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 1: a normal thing. I feel like it partially grew up 127 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 1: in Miami just because we spent our summer's there. But 128 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 1: you know, it's interesting because I represent one of the 129 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 1: most diverse districts in Congress by far, and I feel 130 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: like I grew up like that as well in the household, 131 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: but also in the school I went to as well. 132 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 6: Patrick, You've said Maxwell has been precocious and driven since 133 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 6: he was a toddler. Can you share a story from 134 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 6: his childhood that gives a glimpse into what a young 135 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 6: Maxwell was like. 136 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 4: If I could just add though, as a dad, Patrick, 137 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 4: I actually have to say, I love how you were 138 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 4: smiling so glowing with a light bulb. That's the question 139 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 4: was even being asked. 140 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 3: The person that you see here is the same little 141 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 3: guy that that was, that we that was. My son 142 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 3: always has a plan and he's always producing. He's always 143 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 3: uh creating a show, creating or selling. Something I told 144 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 3: him one time when he was probably in junior high school, 145 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 3: I said, you could go across the street to the 146 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 3: car dealership and make more money than I do as 147 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 3: a performer at your age right now. You could go 148 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 3: over there and and and and this is the funny thing. 149 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 3: When he turned about I think maybe eighteen. 150 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: He did that. 151 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 3: He went across the street and got a job as 152 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 3: a car sales wow. And and he's said he was 153 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 3: doing very good. And then and here's what is they 154 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 3: put they and I hope I can. They brought him 155 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 3: into a meeting with the other car salesman and they said, 156 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 3: we want to teach you how to basically get people 157 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 3: in debt and get them to spend more money than 158 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 3: they should spend because we went to sell cars and 159 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 3: it's so, we're going to teach you how to get 160 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 3: people to make a mistake in their finances and over buy. 161 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 3: And Max got up and walked out and came. He 162 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 3: came home early. I said, what are you doing. Aren't 163 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 3: you at work? Why are you Why did you come home? 164 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 3: And he goes, I quit And I said why did 165 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 3: you quit? He goes, because they wanted to teach me 166 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 3: how to cheek people. That's really the truth. And he 167 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 3: said he wouldn't do it. He said, I'm not going 168 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 3: to do that. So he just quit his job and 169 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 3: walked out. He didn't give him two weeks notice, he 170 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 3: just walked out the door. 171 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 4: Well, I love that speaks to your heart. 172 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 3: I love it. 173 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 4: And I also, by the way, I love the honesty 174 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 4: I've passually you turning. It was like I said, okay, 175 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 4: if I shared this story. This is what we love 176 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 4: this conversation because it gets those great stories that often 177 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 4: you don't hear before. 178 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 6: Congressman, let me ask one question when when you look 179 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 6: back over your childhood and the fact that you always 180 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 6: engage with music with your dad, what did those years 181 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 6: of music together actually teach you about life, and how 182 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 6: do you apply any of that to what your job 183 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 6: is today. 184 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 1: Honestly, I brought this up at the beginning a little bit. 185 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:13,079 Speaker 1: But one of the things people tell me a lot 186 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: after interviews or town halls or this and that is, 187 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 1: I appreciate how candid you are, and I appreciate your vulnerability. 188 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: You know, you're willing to talk about mistakes or like 189 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 1: the feelings you have that maybe people aren't used to 190 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: politicians kind of just saying. And I really do attribute 191 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 1: that to my dad, and I really do attribute that. 192 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 1: I actually to sitting in the studio, sitting in the 193 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 1: car listening to music and being invited to feel, you know, 194 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 1: being invited to express how I feel. And I remember 195 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:48,199 Speaker 1: the first time, I think it's the first time, if 196 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: not one of the first times I ever cried to music. 197 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: And we were sitting in the studio and I think 198 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 1: I was like a round like seven eight nine or 199 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: something like that, and it was the Swan that you 200 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 1: played for me, which is a a solo or really 201 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 1: a duo with a piano, but it's a cello piece, 202 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 1: and and I just remember the young kids in there 203 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: crying I think we cried together at that song, and 204 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 1: it's and like, you know, you don't, you don't think 205 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: much of it. When you're a kid, You wipe your tears, 206 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 1: you just continue to go on. But there we had 207 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: a lot of moments like that, listening to music together, 208 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 1: going to concerts together, performing together. Like if you if 209 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 1: you go on if you go on YouTube and you 210 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 1: you go deep, deep, deep, you're gonna find a bunch 211 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: of videos of my dad and I performed together, usually 212 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 1: me auditioning for some jazz program and my dad's on 213 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 1: piano or whatever, and and growing and growing that. But 214 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 1: you know, for me, learning like being a musician, being 215 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: invited to be vulnerable and then being okay with putting 216 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: it out there, putting it out there in front of 217 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 1: my dad and then putting it out there in front 218 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 1: of an audience is something I'll, you know, have with 219 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: me the whole the rest of my life. In second grade, 220 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:56,319 Speaker 1: my dad got me a drum set, which was important, 221 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 1: But there's actually the most important thing that he got me. 222 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: Even more important than rum set was the private lessons 223 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: that came with the drum set. But I always felt 224 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 1: like in school, at least for I had something that 225 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 1: a lot of other people that have. I had an 226 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:14,560 Speaker 1: understanding of the music, not just because I, you know, 227 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 1: I'm better than everyone, but because of my dad, you know, 228 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 1: taught me how to listen to music, and I felt, 229 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: you know, and that's what I'm trying to say. He 230 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: taught me how to listen to music. And you know, 231 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 1: my band instructor in middle school, Russ Weaver, it was 232 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: very common for him to come in the band class 233 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: sixth grade. Right this is called beginner's band. Most people 234 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: in there have never really played an instrument, but they 235 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 1: showed proficiency and you know, music skills generally. But I 236 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 1: came in since the second grade playing music and having 237 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 1: musician dad. And something well mister Weaver would always do 238 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 1: is he would play a song at the top of 239 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 1: the hour and just have a sit in silence and 240 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: listen to it. And that's very hard for six grades 241 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 1: to do. And I honestly wasn't the most well behaved 242 00:11:56,679 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 1: kid in the sixth grade, but when he played the song, 243 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 1: I would sit there at my eyes and listen to 244 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,439 Speaker 1: a degree where like I'd have friends in the percussion section, 245 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 1: which if you know anything about band, everyone has to 246 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: sit in their seat, but the percussionists are kind of 247 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 1: walking around the back being you know, you know, we 248 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 1: have a little bit more freedom, so we're usually making 249 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 1: jokes and stuff. My friends would always be like, why 250 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: so silent, Like you're always so loud and telling jokes 251 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: and stuff. But I felt like I knew how to 252 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 1: really listen to the music because of my dad, and 253 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: so I don't know, that's something that really means a 254 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: lot to me, and I still play to this day. 255 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: So when I go to events, Congressman, there's a drum 256 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 1: set here, why don't you play it? And so I 257 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: play a lot of Or when I go to churches, 258 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: I don't even get asked. The bishop will be like, 259 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: there's the drum set, Congressman. You know, like get on it. 260 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 5: So for all of our listeners, you should, if you 261 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 5: have a moment, go down the rabbit hole and find 262 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 5: young Congressman Frost and find some of his old videos 263 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 5: and and then let's do a contest who can find 264 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:07,079 Speaker 5: the oldest one. Now, Patrick, Because I'm a big believer 265 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 5: that our children are our greatest teachers in so many capacities, 266 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 5: and I know that you've talked about many things that 267 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 5: you've learned from your son. In particular, you said that 268 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 5: raising Max, as you called him, open your eyes to 269 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 5: the discrimination that many minorities face. Is there one particular 270 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 5: story that you would like to share with us and 271 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 5: our audience that still sticks with you. 272 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. 273 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:38,839 Speaker 3: Max was probably maybe thirteen or fourteen, maybe fifteen years old, 274 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 3: and it was a Saturday afternoon, and he had gone 275 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:44,719 Speaker 3: to the Loop, which is a shopping center near us, 276 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 3: probably with some friends. And he was gone for most 277 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 3: of the morning and part of the afternoon. And he 278 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 3: came home and he said, Dad, strangest thing happened. I 279 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 3: was in sports authority and I was just walking around 280 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:01,679 Speaker 3: looking at stuff, you know, and uh I noticed this 281 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 3: this man. Every time I turned the corner, there was 282 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 3: this man was here and he was looking, watching, watching me. 283 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 3: And uh so, you know, when I was in college 284 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 3: at University of Miami, I I got into a retail security. 285 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:16,680 Speaker 3: I was a store detective at a at a department 286 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 3: store at the shopping at the Midway Mall. And uh 287 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 3: I learned about store security. So when he started describing 288 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 3: this man kept he kept showing up wherever Max turned, 289 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 3: Denial and there was this guy I knew what it was. 290 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 3: It was a store attack and and and Max, and 291 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 3: I said to Max, I said, Max, that was a 292 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 3: store security guard. He was watching you because he thought 293 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 3: you were going to steal and and and and Max 294 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 3: said to me, why would he Why would he think 295 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 3: I was going to steal and? And I I remember 296 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 3: putting my head that because we'd never had this kind 297 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 3: of conversation. And I said, Max, it's it's most likely 298 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 3: because of the because of the color of your skin, 299 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 3: that is the most likely reason that he chose to 300 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 3: follow you instead of somebody else. And I remembered how 301 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:14,360 Speaker 3: tough it was for me to telling that, and I 302 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 3: kind of remember looking at him and he looked confused. 303 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 3: And that is the one that sticks with me more 304 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 3: than any and is trying to explain that to him. 305 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 3: And I didn't understand it because it never happened to 306 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 3: me that way. You know. I never went to my 307 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 3: mother and father when I was in junior high school 308 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 3: or early high school and said somebody was following me 309 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 3: at the wol Coast or down at the shopping center. 310 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 3: That never happened. It's an experience I didn't have. And 311 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 3: so I was trying to teach Max but I was 312 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 3: also learning myself that this is not fake, This really 313 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 3: happens to people of color. 314 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: Do you remember that, Max, Yeah, very well? And then 315 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: what did that moment? Also? 316 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 5: Did it change you and even in your parenting or 317 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 5: even just seeing the world, like when you see other 318 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 5: young black men out in the world, did it in 319 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 5: any way or or even like with other black parents, 320 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 5: did it any way impact you in that way as well? 321 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 3: You know, my mother and father they're both gone now. 322 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 3: When when we had when Max was born, you see, 323 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 3: we didn't Max's birth mother couldn't positively identify who the 324 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 3: father was. So when Max was born, we didn't realize 325 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 3: he was going to be mixed race. And I remember 326 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 3: calling my mother and and I think that my mother 327 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 3: thought this whole idea of us adopting a baby from 328 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 3: from this woman at birth was was something that we 329 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 3: weren't going to go through with. It was almost I 330 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 3: think that she thought we were just kidding around. And 331 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 3: I remember calling her. She was in probably Ohio still yeah, yeah, 332 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 3: And and I said, Mom, are our son was born. 333 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 3: We have a son. His name is Maxwell, And she 334 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 3: I remember, uh somehow, And after she got a photograph, 335 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 3: we probably said I can't remember how we transmitted back 336 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 3: in nineteen ninety seven, but we sent her a picture 337 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 3: of some kind of and and uh, probably it was 338 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 3: kind of kind of quiet, you know, there was not 339 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 3: a celebratory thing happening. And what I wanted to try 340 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 3: and say is this, having Max in our family taught 341 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 3: my mother and father that they have to escape what 342 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,200 Speaker 3: they grew up with. As you know, both of them 343 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 3: were raised on farms in the in the in the 344 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 3: out in the country, and they they brought ther you know, 345 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 3: I mean, it was it was an age of racism 346 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:43,120 Speaker 3: was normal. It was normal. 347 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 1: They were good. 348 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 3: People that they had they had that they had that 349 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 3: component in them, and Max exercised that component in them 350 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 3: and gave them. You know, they went to heaven with 351 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 3: the peace that they they managed that racism, you know, 352 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 3: because of because of Max. You can't not love this kid, 353 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:04,120 Speaker 3: you know, you can't not. 354 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 1: Love this All of America we love him. 355 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Patrick, I was tearing up because it 356 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 4: is true and it is the reality of our world. 357 00:18:11,040 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 4: And I appreciate the honesty and I just appreciate the vulnerability, 358 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 4: Like clearly you muddeled this for your son, like we 359 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:18,680 Speaker 4: understand where your son comes. 360 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 2: From, coming up the viral story that set off ten 361 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 2: thousand calls, texts, and females, fueling Congressman Maxwell Frost's biggest 362 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 2: fight for change. 363 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:33,160 Speaker 5: Now back to my legacy. 364 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 4: Congressman Frost, So fifteen years old, you have this pivotal 365 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 4: moment as an activist when you're out of vigil in 366 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 4: DC and you meet family members who lost children in 367 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 4: the Sandy Hook massacre. Can you share with us those 368 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:54,680 Speaker 4: conversations that were so pivotal for your life and how 369 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:56,439 Speaker 4: those impact you even today. 370 00:18:56,840 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 1: Well, you know, Samuel happened right before I was getting 371 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:02,919 Speaker 1: ready to perform in a jazz band concert in school. 372 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:05,439 Speaker 1: We were there at a Chili's or something, eating and 373 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 1: this silence falls across the whole restaurant, like a palpable silence, 374 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 1: and everyone's looking at each other, like what's going on? 375 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 1: And we see that everyone's staring at the TVs at 376 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 1: the bar, and we look at the TV screens and 377 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 1: we see the news somebody walked into this elementary school 378 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: and murdered all these children and teachers at Sandy Hook, 379 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 1: And we all kind of went to the concert with 380 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 1: this eerie feeling. But I had an intense amount of anxiety. 381 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 1: I played one of the worst shows I've ever played 382 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,719 Speaker 1: in my life, because you know where I was drumming 383 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: the stage doors right behind me, and I kept looking 384 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 1: over at the stage door, and I couldn't stop thinking 385 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,159 Speaker 1: about it. And I actually, well, this is the thing 386 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 1: my dad and I share. We both have kind of 387 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: obsessive personalities, and so if something gets in our mind, 388 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,639 Speaker 1: we just keep thinking about. And I kept thinking about 389 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:54,959 Speaker 1: this horrible thing that happened in Sandy Hook. I never 390 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:56,679 Speaker 1: heard of Sandy Hook. I don't know what new Town is. 391 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 1: I never heard about any these places. And I went 392 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:04,199 Speaker 1: online and I started seeing on Facebook that, you know, 393 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,879 Speaker 1: there were some young people speaking out about it. And 394 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:08,919 Speaker 1: one of them, her name is Sarah Clements or her 395 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 1: mother Abby, was a teacher at Sandy Hook. She survived 396 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 1: the shooting. And I sent a message to Sarah. We 397 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 1: became kind of pen pals, and she sent me a 398 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 1: form and said, we're hosting a vigil and like this 399 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 1: week of action in DC if you want to come, 400 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 1: fill this out. So I filled it out, and I 401 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: asked my parents and I filled it out. I didn't 402 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:33,040 Speaker 1: know this until about two years ago. As a member 403 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 1: of Congress. I went and spoke at the vigil I 404 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 1: went to when I was fifteen, and the board members 405 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:40,160 Speaker 1: told the story of how they were, you know, doing 406 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,239 Speaker 1: the manifest for the bus and everything, and then they 407 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 1: had this one application from a fifteen year old in 408 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: Florida that no one had ever heard of if that 409 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 1: was me, and they apparently they had a whole board 410 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 1: meeting debating should we allow him to come. He's going 411 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:55,199 Speaker 1: to come alone, we don't know who he is. And 412 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,199 Speaker 1: they decided to let me come, which you know, is 413 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 1: a huge decision in my life that they made because 414 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 1: going there to change my life. And I went alone, 415 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:07,640 Speaker 1: but you know, they had chaperones and everything. But spending 416 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 1: time with people my age who had just lost loved 417 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: ones that were murdered in a school due to gun 418 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 1: violence changed my whole life. And the vigil was very powerful. 419 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,679 Speaker 1: But I to be honest, it wasn't even just the vigil. 420 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:25,360 Speaker 1: It was being with them and like being kids with them. 421 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 1: You know, the whole time wasn't completely five days of seriousness. 422 00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: We laughed, we were telling jokes, we were bringing kids. 423 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,159 Speaker 1: We were running around Capitol Hill delivering letters and inviting 424 00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 1: people to the vigil, and then taking those first couple 425 00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 1: days and then my last day there after the vigil 426 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 1: at the hotel, we were saying, like a Virginia hotel 427 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:48,159 Speaker 1: like a dais in or something where the pools like 428 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,399 Speaker 1: in the basement, and we're all in this basement pool 429 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: waiting our feet in the water, and everyone just starts 430 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 1: opening up about their sibling that they lost, and I 431 00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:59,439 Speaker 1: just kind of sat there and listened to everybody. And 432 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 1: I remember after that, I like ran in my hotel room. 433 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,200 Speaker 1: I called my mom. I was crying. I was like, Mom, 434 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,400 Speaker 1: you know, this was my experience. And then I ended 435 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:11,159 Speaker 1: up coming home and started organizing. You know, I started 436 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 1: like organizing on a gun violence prevention locally. I'd go 437 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 1: to my school board meetings. I became obsessed with figuring 438 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 1: out how to use student government in schools to like 439 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 1: advocate for policies instead of it just being planning the homecoming. 440 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:27,919 Speaker 1: And so I ran for student government president and got 441 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 1: elected there, and so then we started doing like real 442 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:34,119 Speaker 1: political advocacy in the student government. And then I organized 443 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 1: all the student governments in my school district to do 444 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 1: a county wide thing where we'd all come together you know, 445 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 1: once quarter and it's just like that trip really did 446 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:46,680 Speaker 1: change my life. But it wasn't just what we did 447 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,800 Speaker 1: on that trip, but it was meeting those people my 448 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:54,159 Speaker 1: age who were going through a sense of grief and 449 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 1: loss that I've never experienced in my life. Gun violence 450 00:22:58,359 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 1: wasn't a part of my day to day life, you know, 451 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 1: and so I think is part of the reason why 452 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,520 Speaker 1: seeing those images on the screen jarred me so much, 453 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,879 Speaker 1: and it really put things in a perspective for me. 454 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 1: And the good thing is the foundation was always there because, 455 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 1: like I mentioned before, my dad's you know, very musical obviously, 456 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 1: but he's also very political. And uh, I'll they'll take 457 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 1: this the wrong way. But I'd grow up listening to 458 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: my dad yell at the news. But but it you know, 459 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: it's I would listen. I wasn't you know. I wasn't 460 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 1: just saying, oh, there's dad yell at the news. I 461 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 1: would sit there and listen, and he would talk to 462 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 1: me about stuff to the point where I'd try to 463 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: go to school, elementary school and debate with people. I 464 00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 1: don't know what the heck I was talking about, But 465 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 1: but there was a foundation there that my dad laid 466 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 1: right on politics that you know, I knew like these 467 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 1: are these are where my values lie. But I had 468 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 1: to kind of you know, you have to figure that 469 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,119 Speaker 1: out for yourself. What what what you believe? 470 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:53,639 Speaker 6: You know? 471 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:55,879 Speaker 1: And that was one of the first moments outside of 472 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 1: the home and outside of my community that I started 473 00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 1: to figure out what I believe in. 474 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 5: Congressman Frost, you recently joined speaking of going out into community, 475 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 5: Senator to Chris Murphy for town halls all across the 476 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 5: country and many were in or not many, I think 477 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:16,399 Speaker 5: they all were in Republican districts. Yeah, so you actually 478 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 5: were stepping into rooms where you knew that many disagreed 479 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:24,639 Speaker 5: with you. What have you learned about how to listen 480 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 5: and talk across disagreement on that. 481 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:30,439 Speaker 1: Tour, Yeah, and this and you know, connecting all this together. 482 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 1: One of the first politicians I ever met was Sata 483 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,159 Speaker 1: Chris Murphy when I was fifteen years old at that 484 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,200 Speaker 1: vigil and so it's just you know, full snirgle to 485 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 1: be on the road with him now. And we also 486 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:44,400 Speaker 1: introduced the Office of Gun Violence Prevention built together now 487 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 1: through about three years ago, which you know President Biden 488 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 1: enacted through executive or Trump got rid of it on 489 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 1: day two. When I used to work for candidates as 490 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,880 Speaker 1: an organizer, I was always you know, there was things 491 00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 1: I took that inspired me. But I also kept the list, 492 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 1: the mental list of things I would never do if 493 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 1: I was ever in that position. And something you learn 494 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,120 Speaker 1: from knocking doors, which is all I did right at 495 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,000 Speaker 1: it fresh eighteen after I did my three months stint 496 00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: at the at the dealership and then I started working 497 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 1: at on campaigns. Knocking doors solely you learn how to 498 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 1: be a listener because for a few reasons, it's a 499 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:25,440 Speaker 1: tactical thing. Because you know, when you're out a door 500 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 1: and you're talking to people and you talk too long 501 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 1: and you start seeing them, you know it's not looking 502 00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 1: around either, get a little antsy either, trying to move 503 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:33,879 Speaker 1: on with their life. But I need to tell you 504 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 1: about the candidate. I need to tell you about this 505 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,240 Speaker 1: person who wants to fight for you that I believe 506 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 1: in and I want to make sure you go vote. 507 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 1: And so what you do is you put it back 508 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 1: on them. You ask them a question, and that opportunity 509 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 1: for them to speak. The longer they speak, the longer 510 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 1: you get to have that you know, conversation with them. 511 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 1: That experience with them, and so you want the other 512 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: person to speak a lot. And I've found that, you know, 513 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 1: a lot of times, especially politicians, you have these town 514 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,400 Speaker 1: hall that aren't really town halls, right, you know, there's 515 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 1: questions that have already been predetermined. And I try to 516 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,479 Speaker 1: replicate being at the door with somebody as much as 517 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 1: I can and everything as part of what I tell 518 00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 1: my team when we're coming up with our messaging, will this, 519 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,879 Speaker 1: will this sentence get the door slammed in my face? 520 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,919 Speaker 1: Or leave the door open? Right at the town halls 521 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 1: when we're doing on traveling with Chris or with Senator Murphy, 522 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:24,920 Speaker 1: how are we you know, we're gonna give some of 523 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 1: the micro we'ren lew to say whatever they want to say, right, 524 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 1: and we're going to really listen to them. And I 525 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,159 Speaker 1: don't know, I just feel like I've learned the power 526 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:37,159 Speaker 1: of listening so much by knocking doors and how it 527 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 1: important it is to be an active listener and then 528 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 1: given a real answer to people, because that's what you know, 529 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 1: we hear it all the time politicians they give non answers. 530 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,200 Speaker 1: And to connect this to our conversation from before, I 531 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 1: think part of it is where politicians are usually that 532 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: risk adverse. And you know, the more vulnerable you are 533 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,440 Speaker 1: and the more real you are, the more you might 534 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 1: say something that maybe five years or ten years down 535 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,479 Speaker 1: the line, when you run for higher office, it won't 536 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 1: be advantageous to you. And I just don't really even 537 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 1: think about that kind of stuff. I like to, you know, 538 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,400 Speaker 1: I try to be in the moment with people. There's 539 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:15,479 Speaker 1: real pain in this country. The wealth inequality has gotten 540 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 1: worse and worse and worse and worse and worse, to 541 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 1: the point where people have done everything that you're supposed 542 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 1: to do still can't pay for everything. And we're in 543 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 1: this place where the wealthiest among us own the most, 544 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:34,639 Speaker 1: and they want us to blame each other, even you know, 545 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,760 Speaker 1: down the party line. And I talk about this all 546 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 1: the time, and I'm in these districts where I say, 547 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:40,680 Speaker 1: they want us to hate each other because you're a 548 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 1: Republican versus Democrat, when at the end of the day, 549 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 1: there's these billionaires and mega corporations that have been leaving 550 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 1: us crumbs and for generations, really and and we have 551 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,200 Speaker 1: to look beyond that. And you know, I always bring 552 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:03,560 Speaker 1: up that Trump is is is that too? You know? 553 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 1: There's just this saying be ruthless to our systems and 554 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,680 Speaker 1: great and give grace to people. And that's the way 555 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 1: I always think. I'm always very you know, I always 556 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: go through my emails and everything. When my staff is right, 557 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,639 Speaker 1: I say, never just say republicans. Always say Republicans in Congress, 558 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 1: or Republicans in the White House or this and that, 559 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,399 Speaker 1: because I'm trying to reach out to people who a 560 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 1: lot of folks have been lied to and a lot 561 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 1: of people bought the lie. And you know, I mean, 562 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,479 Speaker 1: look what I'm talking to. Movement, as we all know, 563 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 1: is about addition, not subtraction, and I'm always looking to 564 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 1: bring more people into it. 565 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 4: Mike, follow and subscribe to the My Legacy podcast, and 566 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 4: most importantly, share this with someone who needs a reminder 567 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 4: of their strength today. Now back to My Legacy. 568 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 6: At twenty four, when you first ran from office, it 569 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 6: was certainly maybe not glamorous. You were driving uber and 570 00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 6: count surfing basically just to make ends meet. How did 571 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 6: living through those challenges prepare you to represent people facing 572 00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 6: their own difficult struggles. 573 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 1: It was just kind of the perfect storm that put 574 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 1: me in this position. So essentially there was a rent 575 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,920 Speaker 1: hike more freeze in Florida during the pandemic, which was 576 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 1: lifted the rent. I was living with my partner and 577 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 1: my sister at the time, and we were living in 578 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 1: a part of town that essentially after the rent hike 579 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 1: was taken off, our rent went up like thirty thirty 580 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:45,719 Speaker 1: three percent. Now I quit my job to run for Congress, 581 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 1: so I had some savings, so I didn't have a ton. 582 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:49,240 Speaker 1: I thought it would be enough for a year and 583 00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:52,280 Speaker 1: a half. I quickly learned it was there, and for 584 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: two months we didn't have a place to live. And 585 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 1: the thing here is this wasn't the height of COVID 586 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 1: at the time. I was about my grandma. My ninety 587 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 1: seven year old grandma was living with my parents, and 588 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: this is when the Delta variant was going crazy, and 589 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,720 Speaker 1: I'm not doing campaigns, so going home was not really 590 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,280 Speaker 1: to say what my parents was not really an option 591 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:18,479 Speaker 1: for me due to COVID and my grandma, And so 592 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 1: I ended up emptying all my savings into this airbnb 593 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 1: for a month, and I was like, future Max will 594 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,000 Speaker 1: have a solution. Well, a month passed and future Max 595 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 1: did not have a solution. So then for the month 596 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 1: after I just couchsurf with friends and different things like that. 597 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:39,080 Speaker 1: And I quickly figured out I need an income and 598 00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 1: I need to figure that out. So I decided to 599 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,080 Speaker 1: do Uber because of the to be a little bit 600 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 1: more flexible, because what I didn't want to do, I 601 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:47,640 Speaker 1: was actually gonna go. There was a time I also 602 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 1: worked at Olive Garden as a server because all my 603 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 1: friends were working there and I want to join them. 604 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,680 Speaker 1: And I was actually a really good server, and I 605 00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 1: was like, let me go back to that. I'll make 606 00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 1: good tips. But we're on a campaign. You get those calls, Hey, 607 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 1: this person wants to interview you in an hour? Can 608 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 1: you do it? And what I learned about running a 609 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 1: campaign for a year and a half is there's not 610 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: like a silver bullet. It's the collection of all these 611 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 1: good decisions right that lead you to winning. And I 612 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,400 Speaker 1: didn't want to miss one. I didn't want to miss 613 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 1: one of them. And I knew that either the job 614 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 1: would suffer or the campaign would suffer. And I'm not 615 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 1: one of these people that's gonna like, I don't want 616 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: to get a job and then be the person that 617 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 1: everyone hates because I'm calling out all the time. That's 618 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 1: why I decided to do uber, but I do think 619 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 1: you know that those two years taught me a lot 620 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,400 Speaker 1: about the housing crisis in a way that I'd never 621 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:41,480 Speaker 1: experienced before, because, believe it or not, I didn't pay 622 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 1: my first I didn't sign my first lease until the pandemic. 623 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 1: And the reason why is because I was a campaign organizer. 624 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:53,720 Speaker 1: And if anyone's worked a campaign before, you know that 625 00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 1: you're moving around the country every eight months or every year, 626 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 1: and you're living in people's spare bedroom, right, You're living 627 00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 1: at supporter housing, right. So I was always living in 628 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 1: a spare bedroom of some supporter of the campaign from 629 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:13,120 Speaker 1: eighteen to twenty four or to twenty three. So it 630 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 1: was my first experience going for a lease, seeing the 631 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 1: rent increase, having to leave because I couldn't pay the rent, 632 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 1: experience essentially experiencing homelessness during that time, getting into a place, 633 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:28,840 Speaker 1: saying if I get elected to Congress, I'll never have 634 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,920 Speaker 1: to deal with this again. Getting elected to Congress, going 635 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:35,560 Speaker 1: to DC, applying to apartments, getting denied every apartment I 636 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:40,400 Speaker 1: applied to because my credit was poor because I wasn't 637 00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 1: really making an income during the campaign. And this is 638 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 1: part of the reason why I'm doing so much and 639 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 1: introducing so much legislation on housing because it's very personal 640 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 1: for me going through that experience. In fact, my first 641 00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: housing bill, the n Junk Bis for Renters Act, and 642 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 1: my second one that has to do with ending credit 643 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:02,680 Speaker 1: scores edding credit score screening, all came from my story, 644 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 1: and it all came from that story. And in fact, 645 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 1: I remember in January when I got torn in I'm 646 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,800 Speaker 1: doing an ABC interview and they're asking me where are 647 00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:11,800 Speaker 1: you gonna live? And I casually was like, well, I 648 00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:13,560 Speaker 1: just got denied all the apartments I applied to. I 649 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 1: think I'm gonna, like, you know, coutrip with a friend 650 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 1: for a few weeks and then figure it out. I said, 651 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 1: I didn't think it would be a big deal at all, 652 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 1: and ended up being one of the biggest stories about 653 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 1: me to this day. I mean, I'll be walking around 654 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 1: a street of a random city and somebody will come 655 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 1: up and be like, honey, did you find a place 656 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 1: to live? And breaking news. I'm good now, having a 657 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 1: part of everything is okay. But when that news broke 658 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,560 Speaker 1: and it became incredibly viral that this new congressman could 659 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 1: have had a place to live in DC. I received 660 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 1: over ten thousand letters, emails, phone calls, messages from people 661 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:52,840 Speaker 1: around the country telling me their stories of how they 662 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 1: experienced similar stuff. So we took those stories and we 663 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:59,680 Speaker 1: wrote a bunch of housing legislation on you know, making 664 00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 1: sure that we eliminate barriers to housing right. And I 665 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:08,399 Speaker 1: experienced that as a new congressman. I had the income right, 666 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,399 Speaker 1: But what happened is because my credit was poor. These 667 00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 1: algorithms just deny you and they don't look at the 668 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,480 Speaker 1: vitality of a person. And we know every study shows 669 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,600 Speaker 1: us that credit scores are not a good indication on 670 00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,400 Speaker 1: whether or not someone's going to pay their rent or not. 671 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:22,880 Speaker 1: Why well, number one, paying your rent doesn't help your 672 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:26,240 Speaker 1: credit score, and number two, when a working person falls 673 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,239 Speaker 1: on hard times, what are the first two things they 674 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 1: always cut from food and medicine, what's the last thing 675 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,920 Speaker 1: they cut from rent and mortgage? It's literally the last 676 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 1: thing somebody will touch even when they're having a hard time. 677 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,279 Speaker 1: And so it's keeping a bunch of people from having 678 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 1: the honor of paying the high rent. And then I 679 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,840 Speaker 1: have bills to attack the high rent as well. So 680 00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:49,719 Speaker 1: it all comes from that, from experiencing it which is 681 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:51,839 Speaker 1: part of the reason housing is one of my top 682 00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:52,839 Speaker 1: priorities right now. 683 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,360 Speaker 4: Well, and I think no matter your political beliefs, to 684 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,520 Speaker 4: all of our listeners have views out there. People appreciate 685 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,880 Speaker 4: the fact that because do you have lived that experience, 686 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,879 Speaker 4: you're able to advocate on that issue because so many people, 687 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 4: to your point, if a member of Congress, for goodness sakes, 688 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 4: and that's why I went viral, obviously is denied a 689 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:13,920 Speaker 4: place to stay. How many are struggling. And Patrick, as 690 00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,799 Speaker 4: a father watching all of this unfold for your son 691 00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,200 Speaker 4: going into debt, experiencing homelessness, driving an uber just to 692 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,839 Speaker 4: stay afloat, I'm sure if he was going to win 693 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 4: running for Congress at the stage of his life. Reflecting 694 00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,880 Speaker 4: back on this, was there a particular moment where you 695 00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:35,399 Speaker 4: felt extraordinary pride or frankly extraordinary worry for him. 696 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,399 Speaker 3: I want to push back on one thing. I from 697 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,760 Speaker 3: the minute he said he was going to run for Congress, 698 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:41,839 Speaker 3: I knew he was going to win. 699 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 1: Well, I knew, I knew. I love I love it. 700 00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:52,080 Speaker 3: This is twenty twelve, Barack Obama has been re elected 701 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:56,160 Speaker 3: and his inaugural parade is on the on the event 702 00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 3: screen and Max said to me, Hey, you know. 703 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 1: You come, I can. 704 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,200 Speaker 3: He had a salsa band at the time. He had 705 00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 3: created a sausa band with his friends. He said, you know, Uh, 706 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:10,239 Speaker 3: I can still submit an audition tape to the inaugural 707 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,200 Speaker 3: committee and they could maybe select us and we could 708 00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 3: maybe be in the inaugural parade. I said, And I 709 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:17,440 Speaker 3: was tired of come home home where I said, Yeah, 710 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:18,799 Speaker 3: that's great, Max, go ahead, go to do it, do 711 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,760 Speaker 3: your thing, and I went to bed. Uh. Next week 712 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 3: came and I and hey, Dad, guess what we submitted. 713 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:28,600 Speaker 3: We put together a video and we submitted it to 714 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,239 Speaker 3: the inaugural committee in DC. Uh, maybe they're going to 715 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:32,799 Speaker 3: pick us. And I said, that's great, Max, I'm going 716 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:36,319 Speaker 3: to bed. Two weeks later, I come home from work. 717 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,880 Speaker 3: He goes, Dad, you're not going to believe this. I 718 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,839 Speaker 3: got an email from the inaugural committee. They really liked 719 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,040 Speaker 3: art video and they invited us to be in the 720 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,719 Speaker 3: inaugural parade. And so then at that point, I set 721 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 3: my instruments down that are carried in the house, and 722 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:50,840 Speaker 3: I was sitting in his room and I said, Max, 723 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:52,960 Speaker 3: you can't do that. I've been in the music business. 724 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:53,480 Speaker 1: My whole life. 725 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:57,080 Speaker 3: You're gonna need to go to the inaugural parade. I said, 726 00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,400 Speaker 3: they're not. They're just inviting you. They're not paying for 727 00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,560 Speaker 3: They don't pay. And I said, so now you need. 728 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:04,960 Speaker 3: You need two sober Ego buses with two drivers in 729 00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:08,800 Speaker 3: each bus. You need, I said, bottom line, you need. 730 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:12,239 Speaker 3: You're all minors, so you need sponsors, you need, you 731 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:16,760 Speaker 3: need chafferones. You need fifteen thousand dollars. You need fifteen 732 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,239 Speaker 3: thousand dollars, and you need it right now. You're not 733 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:20,759 Speaker 3: going to be able to raise it. You're not going 734 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:25,080 Speaker 3: to be able to go without that. And Max quiet, 735 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:29,840 Speaker 3: he said it nicer than this. And he met with 736 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 3: a woman who was kind of a local politician. She 737 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,440 Speaker 3: was a mayor of a small town, and she was 738 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:39,160 Speaker 3: her name is Donna Hart, Donna Harts. He's a wonderful lady. 739 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,919 Speaker 3: She was in the school teaching also, and I saw 740 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 3: that her and Max had gotten together and they were fundraising, 741 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:52,400 Speaker 3: and to long story short, he raised so much money 742 00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:55,520 Speaker 3: for this trip that when we I went up as 743 00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:58,719 Speaker 3: a chaperone, of course, I don't remember ever taking my 744 00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 3: wallet out of my pants. Everything was paid for by 745 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:06,160 Speaker 3: the money that that him and and Donna raised. 746 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:10,320 Speaker 1: We took a few weeks and we put together, you know, uh, 747 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 1: the letter, and we we hand delivered it to tons 748 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:16,360 Speaker 1: of businesses and we found incredible a ton of support. 749 00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 1: And I remember, you know it was it was you 750 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:20,520 Speaker 1: and the principal of my school, and a lot of 751 00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,880 Speaker 1: people were like, Max, it's great you did this, but 752 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,759 Speaker 1: like we you know, our school is a very underfunded 753 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:29,440 Speaker 1: public arts school, and so they were like, you know, 754 00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:30,919 Speaker 1: we don't We're not sure we can raise the money 755 00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:32,200 Speaker 1: in a week, you know, we need we had like 756 00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:35,400 Speaker 1: a week or something. But but Donna, you know, who 757 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 1: was a teacher at the school and she was the 758 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,640 Speaker 1: former mayor of one of our small towns, was like, 759 00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,080 Speaker 1: let's do it. And so her and I went out 760 00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:44,160 Speaker 1: and we got every meal donated. We got the bus 761 00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:47,120 Speaker 1: was don I mean, everything was donated, and we ended 762 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,160 Speaker 1: up getting our float donated too, and we all went 763 00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:52,839 Speaker 1: up and performed that We were the first salsa band 764 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 1: to ever perform in a presidential inaugural parade. 765 00:38:56,120 --> 00:39:01,040 Speaker 5: You have so many first already. 766 00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:05,080 Speaker 3: So I always tell people, if you tell Max he 767 00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,880 Speaker 3: can't do it, that's just you're just putting fuel on 768 00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,440 Speaker 3: the fire. He's gonna he's gonna prove you that. So 769 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:12,799 Speaker 3: when Elon Musk came out and said that he was 770 00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:16,320 Speaker 3: going to fund a challenger for Max, I just laughed. 771 00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:18,319 Speaker 3: I said, you know what you need to do, Elon Musk, 772 00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:20,440 Speaker 3: you need to come down to Eatonville and march in 773 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,920 Speaker 3: the Martin Luther King kared in Eatonville with Maxwell and 774 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,239 Speaker 3: see if you think you have enough money to knock 775 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:30,480 Speaker 3: him out. Because you don't. But you but you have 776 00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:32,160 Speaker 3: fun trying. You have fun trying. 777 00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:40,960 Speaker 6: Congressman, you know, my father's dream was for freedom, justice, equality, 778 00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:45,440 Speaker 6: and so many other things that have not happened in 779 00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 6: our nation. Yet, how do you see yourself connected to 780 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:55,239 Speaker 6: that dream or I'd say vision, because the vision has 781 00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:59,640 Speaker 6: not yet been realized. And some might even say we're 782 00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:03,960 Speaker 6: for they're away from where we need to be. So 783 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:07,320 Speaker 6: as a young leader, as you know, Dad was twenty 784 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:12,319 Speaker 6: seven when he led the Montgomery bus boycott after Miss 785 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:16,480 Speaker 6: Parks had been arrested. And so people forget that, by 786 00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:20,759 Speaker 6: the way, yeah, because you always think about leadership as 787 00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:25,760 Speaker 6: being older. I know that your representation inspires so many 788 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:29,600 Speaker 6: other young people and we badly need that leadership in 789 00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:30,560 Speaker 6: Congress today. 790 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:33,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I appreciate it. And you know, I think 791 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:38,959 Speaker 1: because I come from grassroots organizing and movement and work, 792 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:44,040 Speaker 1: I'm very clear eyed about my role right now. And 793 00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 1: what I mean by that is I spent most of 794 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:54,400 Speaker 1: my advocacy in organizing career sitting in rooms with politicians 795 00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:59,200 Speaker 1: who would cry with us. I remember this, Marco Rubia. 796 00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,279 Speaker 1: We would cry with the US and hug US on 797 00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,360 Speaker 1: gun violence prevention, and then the votes were always the same, 798 00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:09,520 Speaker 1: and I always questioned, you know, are we doing it right? 799 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:11,560 Speaker 1: You know, I was questioning myself, are we doing it right? 800 00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,200 Speaker 1: What did we do wrong? And I got to the 801 00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:17,080 Speaker 1: point where I said, you know what, to change the politics, 802 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:19,560 Speaker 1: we need to change the politicians sometimes, and that's why 803 00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 1: I decided to run for Congress. And but I think 804 00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,920 Speaker 1: part of the problem is sometimes we see politicians on 805 00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:30,680 Speaker 1: a pedestal or as the sole leaders of a movement. 806 00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,680 Speaker 1: And what I'm clear about is the fact that I'm 807 00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:37,400 Speaker 1: still an organizer. I just organized in a different place. 808 00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:40,959 Speaker 1: I organized in Congress. You know, so many people would 809 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:45,480 Speaker 1: disparage me during my race. You know, it was distasteful 810 00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:47,879 Speaker 1: for people to say my opponents to say he's too young, 811 00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:50,040 Speaker 1: so no one would say that, but they'd say, he's 812 00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:53,240 Speaker 1: just an organizer, you know, all the he's just an organizer, 813 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,800 Speaker 1: is just an advocate. And when I got to Congress, 814 00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,640 Speaker 1: I would sit in the back of the chamber and 815 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 1: just look around and encourage people at Curve and DC 816 00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 1: go sit in the gallery during votes and watch because 817 00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:08,800 Speaker 1: what you'll see is a fish bowl of organizing. Everyone 818 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,640 Speaker 1: talking to each other, trying to convince people, Hey, can 819 00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:14,040 Speaker 1: you come, can you sign on my bill for my constituents? 820 00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:16,080 Speaker 1: Can you come to this press conference? It's important to me, 821 00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:19,719 Speaker 1: it's important for my people. Everyone's organizing. I say, I'm 822 00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:23,760 Speaker 1: I so believe that it's we need more organizers in office, 823 00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:30,319 Speaker 1: especially in representative government and where you're serving as a 824 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:32,520 Speaker 1: part of a body. I always tell people, you know, 825 00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:35,359 Speaker 1: I'm not a chief executive, I'm not a mayor, I'm 826 00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:38,239 Speaker 1: not a governor, I'm not a president. That you know. 827 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,440 Speaker 1: This is something Nancy Pelosi says that is you know, 828 00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:43,040 Speaker 1: the way I like to think about it is the 829 00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 1: job descriptions in the title representative, right, I'm I'm doing 830 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,080 Speaker 1: the same thing I did when I was fifteen and 831 00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:54,520 Speaker 1: sixteen years old, different level, different place, I'm an advocate 832 00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 1: on behalf of the people in my home that I 833 00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,200 Speaker 1: live in and the brain this up because the connection 834 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:05,040 Speaker 1: I see between this the work of your father, the 835 00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:07,319 Speaker 1: work of all of those in the civil rights era, 836 00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:13,799 Speaker 1: Ella Baker, Danny lu Hamer, all you know, organizers, is 837 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,520 Speaker 1: that I'm just I'm doing the same thing I've done, 838 00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:21,880 Speaker 1: and I'm a small part in a very long timeline 839 00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,560 Speaker 1: for justice. And I'm honored to play to be a 840 00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:25,400 Speaker 1: part of that puzzle. 841 00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:29,960 Speaker 5: The power of speaking to people, not at people. 842 00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:36,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, Congressman Frost Patrick, thank you for sharing your love 843 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:41,360 Speaker 4: of music, sharing your passion for organizing and impact, sharing 844 00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:45,160 Speaker 4: the importance of being vulnerable, and sharing both of your 845 00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:50,720 Speaker 4: remarkable life stories, and for Congressman for sharing the message 846 00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:53,799 Speaker 4: that this generation won't be silent. 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