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Speaker 1: Jewels Second Date Update. It's been a while since we
Speaker 1: got an email for a second date update where somebody
Speaker 1: says they found the one on their first date. And
Speaker 1: Justin is on the phone right now. He says that
Speaker 1: the girl he went out with is the one, Wow,
Speaker 1: and he never wants her to escape his firm grass okay,
Speaker 1: now wants to grab her and make sure she always
Speaker 1: stays in his life and that the one won't slip away. Hey, Justin,
Speaker 1: before we start this second date update, you don't have
Speaker 1: the one chained up in your basement, do you? No? Okay? Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, because I won't be involved in that again.
Speaker 1: All right? That should be a hard no laugh. No,
Speaker 1: your email did say, though, that you think this woman
Speaker 1: is the one? Before we get into all that, where
Speaker 1: did you meet her? I met her through some friends
Speaker 1: of ours. It's kind of like an old high school
Speaker 1: buddy set me up with her. And I haven't really
Speaker 1: hung out with a whole lot of girls, and I
Speaker 1: was really eager to go on a date like ever,
Speaker 1: you never hung out with girls like effort. I think
Speaker 1: he means dates. Yeah, yeah, I haven't dated in a
Speaker 1: long time. I definitely girls, but it's been a while.
Speaker 1: So I just I just did a blind date, and
Speaker 1: I mean I thought she was the one. I still
Speaker 1: think she might be the one. Have you Have you
Speaker 1: ever felt that way about someone before? No? Never, I
Speaker 1: mean I've I've always been you know, pretty pretty stingy,
Speaker 1: and you know, I'm definitely not going to settle, and
Speaker 1: I think that no matter what, I've got to find
Speaker 1: a way to marry this girl. She's perfectly Yeah. These
Speaker 1: stories either end up really romantic if the girl reciprocates
Speaker 1: those feelings, or you end up looking like crazy. Well
Speaker 1: I'm crazy and love so well, tell us what you
Speaker 1: did for your date? Yeah, well, before we even went
Speaker 1: out on the date, I just really wanted to show
Speaker 1: her the kind of guy I am, so I sent
Speaker 1: her a bunch of flowers to her work, and I
Speaker 1: actually went and got one of each kind of flower
Speaker 1: because I wasn't sure which one was her favorite. So
Speaker 1: every flower, Yeah, well, I mean one of each of
Speaker 1: the ones that I could buy individually, it was like
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars with the flowers. All right, wait, hold up,
Speaker 1: this is for a person you've never even met. I mean,
Speaker 1: I wanted to start strong, real strong. What did she
Speaker 1: I mean, had you guys talked on the phone, even
Speaker 1: just basic texting like the set of the date? That's it. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you already are showing her that you're really into her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I just wanted everything to go perfect in
Speaker 1: case she was that special. And turned out that I
Speaker 1: was right, And I wrote her a note that said, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know which is your favorite flowers,
Speaker 1: so maybe when we meet you can let me know
Speaker 1: which one you like the best. Texted you back and
Speaker 1: said you had allergy And now she's in the hospital
Speaker 1: for a week because all those flowers? Would she say
Speaker 1: to the huge two hundred dollar bouquet, she said, wow,
Speaker 1: this is a lot, and she I mean, she said thanks,
Speaker 1: But I think maybe it was maybe it was a
Speaker 1: little much, but yeah, I don't know. At least she
Speaker 1: knows I'm serious. Oh my god, what did you do
Speaker 1: on the date? Then? If you started with that, in
Speaker 1: my mind, the perfect date, it was any girl's dream.
Speaker 1: We met for a winery tour. Man, Okay, so you're
Speaker 1: going all out. How was the wine tour? Not just
Speaker 1: like was it interesting? I mean, how was it with her?
Speaker 1: I'm sure it was kind of cool. Yeah, it was
Speaker 1: really good. I mean I was a little nervous and
Speaker 1: they were telling us to spit out the wine after
Speaker 1: we tasted not. I mean, I knew that that was
Speaker 1: what you're supposed to do, but I ended up drinking
Speaker 1: most of it, and so I got a little drunk.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's all right. Did you get drunk too? I
Speaker 1: think a little bit, But I think I was definitely
Speaker 1: more drunk. But I don't think she could tell. Okay,
Speaker 1: as long as you had a driver, you're good. And
Speaker 1: did you guys go to dinner after that? No? We
Speaker 1: just did the wine and her tour. Then it was
Speaker 1: pretty early still, so asked her she wanted to come
Speaker 1: back to my place, and I already had some more
Speaker 1: wine and cheese and snacks set up up on my rooftop. Wait,
Speaker 1: you had a rooftop picnic already planned? Yeah. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I had that set up. I set that up that morning.
Speaker 1: Didn't you all? What if what if you had met
Speaker 1: this girl and you hated her. Um, I guess you know,
Speaker 1: if she wasn't if we weren't meshing and I didn't
Speaker 1: really like her, I could have just not invited her
Speaker 1: back and could have just had the wine myself. Yeah,
Speaker 1: spend time with somebody you like, you know. But obviously
Speaker 1: it did go well, and you guys went back there,
Speaker 1: And how did that whole thing play out? Did you
Speaker 1: get a kiss or more? Oh my gosh, I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: she was in the middle. What I'm asking is, did
Speaker 1: you get any action? I didn't want to Again, I
Speaker 1: wanted to show her I was serious. And I mean
Speaker 1: she's just a striking girl, like just gorgeous, and I've
Speaker 1: never been that close I felt that close to a
Speaker 1: woman in my life. Maybe maybe my mom, but other
Speaker 1: than that, probably no one. Okay, I never compare romantic things.
Speaker 1: And then throwing your mom during that That's what she
Speaker 1: told me too, to just not bring up my mom.
Speaker 1: But but I'm really close with my mom. Wait did
Speaker 1: you did you bring up your mom a bunch while
Speaker 1: you guys were having wine at your place? Well, with
Speaker 1: the blanket we were sitting on, my mom had quilted it,
Speaker 1: and and um, so I was telling her about that.
Speaker 1: But then I stopped and I asked her if she
Speaker 1: wanted to kiss, and she did, said yeah, And we
Speaker 1: hung out for a while and we like looked at
Speaker 1: the stars and then it got kind of cold, so
Speaker 1: I just called her a cab home and and so
Speaker 1: I thought it was perfect. I mean I was just reeling,
Speaker 1: you know, I thought like, this is a girl. I
Speaker 1: was thinking about our wedding and whoa dude? All right?
Speaker 1: So she never called she never called me back. How
Speaker 1: many times have you called her? Um? A lot more
Speaker 1: than I want to count, you know. Okay, so you've
Speaker 1: called her a bunch and has she responded to anything. No,
Speaker 1: It's it's been like five days, and I just I
Speaker 1: hope she's okay. I haven't gotten anything. Do you have
Speaker 1: any idea why? Um? I mean I hope that maybe
Speaker 1: she lost her phone. Yeah yeah, Okay, Well you keep hoping,
Speaker 1: because I don't think that happened. I don't know. Maybe
Speaker 1: she wasn't digging it, but I thought she was all right. Well,
Speaker 1: she did kiss you, so that's a good sign. Yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah it was. It was a good kiss. Nice. Okay. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna play a song and then we'll come back
Speaker 1: and call her and get your second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, all right, hang on in the morning if
Speaker 1: you're just tuning in for today's second date update. Justin
Speaker 1: is on the phone, and Justin says, the girl he
Speaker 1: went out with is the one, So technically I think
Speaker 1: she's number three because the pool's not very large for Justin.
Speaker 1: He said that he's only been out with two other
Speaker 1: women before this. So I said, how can you be
Speaker 1: sure that number three is the one? Well, I think
Speaker 1: you just know, you know, when you know, you know
Speaker 1: it's I mean, she was she was just out of
Speaker 1: this world. She was like a glowing swan. When I
Speaker 1: saw her, I was just numb. Okay, I think you
Speaker 1: know what, anybody I've ever talked to that is currently
Speaker 1: with the one that said the same thing, glowing or
Speaker 1: oh you said glowing at the said growing swan. Anyway,
Speaker 1: they always refer to him as a swan. So I
Speaker 1: think you're right, Justin. Hopefully we can get her on
Speaker 1: the phone and find out why she's not calling you
Speaker 1: back though. Yeah, I just need to speak with her,
Speaker 1: whatever it takes, you know, I I'll move mountains to
Speaker 1: at least just see her again or speak with her.
Speaker 1: I kind of don't want to call her because I
Speaker 1: want to see you try to move a mountain. But
Speaker 1: we'll call her right now and see if we get
Speaker 1: her on the phone. You're ready, I'm ready? All right,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hi? Is this Martha? Hi speaking? Hi.
Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Um, okay, how are you am?
Speaker 1: I on the radio? That's a good question, but I
Speaker 1: asked how you were first, so I can't tell you
Speaker 1: that yet. You're good, I guess. Okay, yeah, you're on
Speaker 1: the radio. So the reason that we're calling you today
Speaker 1: is because we do a segment on our show called
Speaker 1: the Second Date Update. Are you familiar with that at all?
Speaker 1: What is that? Well, it's the thing we do on
Speaker 1: our show where if you go out on a date
Speaker 1: with somebody and then they don't call you back after,
Speaker 1: you can email us to get that person on the
Speaker 1: phone and ask what happened. And we got an email
Speaker 1: about you from a dude named Justin. Okay, okay, so
Speaker 1: romantic dude, say you're a bunch of flowers. You guys
Speaker 1: went wine tasting. Unless I've got the completely wrong. Martha
Speaker 1: on the phone and in that case, I'll let you
Speaker 1: what's that you know him? I know, justin Okay, so
Speaker 1: this is the Martha that went out with him wine tasting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's me. Okay. It sounds like he set up a
Speaker 1: really romantic date for you guys. I you know, it
Speaker 1: was fine. It was fine. It was good there that
Speaker 1: I mean, the way he described it, it was magical.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, he put a lot of like
Speaker 1: time and thought into it clearly, and uh, you know
Speaker 1: I could tell he thought it was special. Yeah, is that?
Speaker 1: Did you not think it was special? Yeah? No, I
Speaker 1: mean it was school. I had a good time. I
Speaker 1: just he was clearly thought that it was more special
Speaker 1: than I did. Yeah, I could see that. I mean,
Speaker 1: talking just briefly to him, he was a very eager person.
Speaker 1: He wanted to be the hopeless romantic for sure. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: I mean I think that's the right word, all right.
Speaker 1: And is that why you aren't calling him back because
Speaker 1: you just don't feel the same. I mean, it's part
Speaker 1: of it. It was a pretty good date, to be honest.
Speaker 1: If it weren't for like the end of the night,
Speaker 1: I think I maybe would have called him back. What
Speaker 1: happened at the end, Well, you know, we like made
Speaker 1: out a little bit or whatever, and I don't know,
Speaker 1: it just got kind of weird after that they start crying.
Speaker 1: I feel like he would have cried. Yeah, honestly, I
Speaker 1: think that would have been better if he would have cried.
Speaker 1: What or did he do something else? Like you kissed
Speaker 1: him and he just couldn't control himself and then you know,
Speaker 1: oh my god, yeah that happened. Oh my god. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no no. We were sitting down and he was
Speaker 1: looking up at the stars and he was like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, that's our constellation and that that looks like
Speaker 1: a heart, So that's our constellation. It's trying to be romantic.
Speaker 1: I think we talked to him a little bit, and
Speaker 1: he doesn't really go out with a lot of women,
Speaker 1: so I think is the old dating thing is kind
Speaker 1: of new for him, So I think he was just
Speaker 1: trying to be super romantic. Yeah, yeah, I guess, but
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like, no, never mind, never mind. Now
Speaker 1: you have to say you can't say never mind, no,
Speaker 1: this is so much worse. How at one point he
Speaker 1: like he leans over and he's like grabbing my stomach
Speaker 1: and he was just like my children are going to
Speaker 1: live here one day. Okay, I know, why I know,
Speaker 1: And he was like, oh it looks so cozy, so warm. Why,
Speaker 1: I know. I know. That's an interesting comment. For sure,
Speaker 1: What did you do? I would have screamed. I would
Speaker 1: have screamed, maybe hit somebody. I mean I pretty much
Speaker 1: is immediately just like, okay, gotta go. Yeah, that's understandable, dude.
Speaker 1: Well that explains why you weren't calling him back, Martha.
Speaker 1: He's actually on the other line listening to and wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you, though maybe he wants to see
Speaker 1: that space is still for rent. You know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, curiously, Yeah, Justin and you're still there? Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh my god, Justin, what are you doing? Well you guys,
Speaker 1: you guys are taking it out of context. It wasn't
Speaker 1: that bad. And Martha, it's hear your voice. She starts laughing.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I wanted to talk to you for forever.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's so like forever. It's been five days.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, how are you? Yeah, I'm fine.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's the issue is how she is.
Speaker 1: I think the issue is what you said to her. Justice.
Speaker 1: Did you not hear what she said, there's a lot
Speaker 1: of build up. There's a lot of build up, and
Speaker 1: there's a lot of wine, and it seemed like the
Speaker 1: right thing to do because we had talked about everything
Speaker 1: else and we were cuddling like that. It was so
Speaker 1: far over my line of what is acceptable on a
Speaker 1: first date. Like it's it's crazy, you know what, Martha.
Speaker 1: Love is crazy and and love makes you do and
Speaker 1: say and feel crazy. You don't love me, you don't
Speaker 1: love me. You might not think that, but there's love
Speaker 1: already in my heart for you, and he wants to
Speaker 1: put it in your belly. Oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: I know that you fall hard or whatever. But it's
Speaker 1: okay to tell somebody that you're gonna impregnate them and
Speaker 1: like have their baby on a first date. Like so much.
Speaker 1: I wasn't. I was just saying, what could happen? I wasn'
Speaker 1: gonna impregnate you on the first date. And I thought
Speaker 1: you'd like that. Jess, and I met you at like
Speaker 1: four o'clock that day. That was the first time we
Speaker 1: ever saw each other. And then by the evening, you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're gonna have my baby. It's like, it's so much
Speaker 1: I meant it as a compliment, and compliment as a compliment.
Speaker 1: You're your childbearing body. It's you. Oh my god, my god, stop,
Speaker 1: are you serious right now? You don't even know me?
Speaker 1: You don't you told me your middle name? I know everything.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, anyone that checks her I d knows
Speaker 1: her middle name. Why are you not hearing what she said? Like,
Speaker 1: why aren't you apologizing right now? I know came off
Speaker 1: maybe a little strong, but I feel like you're my
Speaker 1: soulmate and I will do anything just to hang out
Speaker 1: with you again. And I can, I can reel it back, inn,
Speaker 1: I can be less in ten, But I really think
Speaker 1: that I'm the guy for you. Justin. Justin, you can't
Speaker 1: like apologize and then say I'll dial it back and
Speaker 1: then call her your soulmate and then keep pressing for
Speaker 1: her to love you. Justin. You're like, you're a really
Speaker 1: nice person, but what you're doing is putting so much
Speaker 1: pressure on me, Like this is this is crazy. Listen
Speaker 1: to Martha. I know that you're scared right now, and
Speaker 1: I'm here too. I've been scared, and being scared is
Speaker 1: part of love. It's the first step of love. You
Speaker 1: should listen to Justin. He knows he's talking about. He's
Speaker 1: been on three days. I mean, I don't even know
Speaker 1: what to say right now. Um, well, you could say
Speaker 1: yes to Justin and go on another day, Martha, would
Speaker 1: you like to go on a second date with Justin?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it. Yeah, well, we can't pay
Speaker 1: for the in vitro if he wants to do that,
Speaker 1: but we will pay for you guys to go out
Speaker 1: on a date. I think that's part thank you, but
Speaker 1: no thank you, Justin furiously. I wish you had best
Speaker 1: in whatever comes next for you. I just like that.
Speaker 1: It's not me. I'm not next. Okay, Artha, you can't
Speaker 1: end now, you just don't. Don't nip this in the bud.
Speaker 1: We have to try to make this work. Please, please,
Speaker 1: please please, I mean, you're making me feel like a
Speaker 1: bad person here. I'm not a bad come on, I mean,
Speaker 1: am I rown here? No? No, of course, Justin, you're
Speaker 1: coming off too hard man. Like. I think it's sweet
Speaker 1: that you want love so badly, and I think it's
Speaker 1: sweet that you want romance so badly, But those things
Speaker 1: don't happen unless the other person feels the same way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, exactly, you can't teame love. You can't tame
Speaker 1: You're not listening, Justin. You are not listening at all.
Speaker 1: I am listening to my heart. Yeah, I'm listening. I'm
Speaker 1: listening to my heart too, and it's gonna be a
Speaker 1: hard path. Yet are arguing right now. I don't think
Speaker 1: they're gonna see eye to eye. I don't think you're
Speaker 1: going to get a second date out of this. Justin, Martha,
Speaker 1: we're perfect for one another. But if you don't see
Speaker 1: that now, I don't know. I can't choose. This is
Speaker 1: not my brain picking. What I want to do. This
Speaker 1: is my heart picking, and it's show them you and
Speaker 1: you're going to be there forever. Even if I die alone,
Speaker 1: you'll die with me. Well, then you won't die alone, right,
Speaker 1: just exactly, good point. Well, okay, congratulations, Justin. I think
Speaker 1: it's worked out for you. You will not die alone
Speaker 1: because you'll have Martha in your heart. Oh. I wish
Speaker 1: you the best, and I hope that you find that person. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm going to write you thought her and Martha.
Speaker 1: I hope someday you find somebody that puts a baby
Speaker 1: in that sweet womb of yourself. It sounds amazing, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, broken jewel in the morning,