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<v Speaker 1>Jewels Second Date Update. It's been a while since we

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<v Speaker 1>got an email for a second date update where somebody

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<v Speaker 1>says they found the one on their first date. And

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<v Speaker 1>Justin is on the phone right now. He says that

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<v Speaker 1>the girl he went out with is the one, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>and he never wants her to escape his firm grass okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now wants to grab her and make sure she always

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<v Speaker 1>stays in his life and that the one won't slip away. Hey, Justin,

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<v Speaker 1>before we start this second date update, you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>the one chained up in your basement, do you? No? Okay? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, because I won't be involved in that again.

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<v Speaker 1>All right? That should be a hard no laugh. No,

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<v Speaker 1>your email did say, though, that you think this woman

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<v Speaker 1>is the one? Before we get into all that, where

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<v Speaker 1>did you meet her? I met her through some friends

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<v Speaker 1>of ours. It's kind of like an old high school

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<v Speaker 1>buddy set me up with her. And I haven't really

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<v Speaker 1>hung out with a whole lot of girls, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was really eager to go on a date like ever,

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<v Speaker 1>you never hung out with girls like effort. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he means dates. Yeah, yeah, I haven't dated in a

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<v Speaker 1>long time. I definitely girls, but it's been a while.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just I just did a blind date, and

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I thought she was the one. I still

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<v Speaker 1>think she might be the one. Have you Have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever felt that way about someone before? No? Never, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I've I've always been you know, pretty pretty stingy,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I'm definitely not going to settle, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think that no matter what, I've got to find

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<v Speaker 1>a way to marry this girl. She's perfectly Yeah. These

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<v Speaker 1>stories either end up really romantic if the girl reciprocates

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<v Speaker 1>those feelings, or you end up looking like crazy. Well

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<v Speaker 1>I'm crazy and love so well, tell us what you

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<v Speaker 1>did for your date? Yeah, well, before we even went

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<v Speaker 1>out on the date, I just really wanted to show

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<v Speaker 1>her the kind of guy I am, so I sent

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<v Speaker 1>her a bunch of flowers to her work, and I

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<v Speaker 1>actually went and got one of each kind of flower

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<v Speaker 1>because I wasn't sure which one was her favorite. So

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<v Speaker 1>every flower, Yeah, well, I mean one of each of

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<v Speaker 1>the ones that I could buy individually, it was like

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred dollars with the flowers. All right, wait, hold up,

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<v Speaker 1>this is for a person you've never even met. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to start strong, real strong. What did she

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, had you guys talked on the phone, even

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<v Speaker 1>just basic texting like the set of the date? That's it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you already are showing her that you're really into her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just wanted everything to go perfect in

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<v Speaker 1>case she was that special. And turned out that I

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<v Speaker 1>was right, And I wrote her a note that said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't know which is your favorite flowers,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe when we meet you can let me know

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<v Speaker 1>which one you like the best. Texted you back and

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<v Speaker 1>said you had allergy And now she's in the hospital

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<v Speaker 1>for a week because all those flowers? Would she say

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<v Speaker 1>to the huge two hundred dollar bouquet, she said, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a lot, and she I mean, she said thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>But I think maybe it was maybe it was a

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<v Speaker 1>little much, but yeah, I don't know. At least she

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<v Speaker 1>knows I'm serious. Oh my god, what did you do

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<v Speaker 1>on the date? Then? If you started with that, in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind, the perfect date, it was any girl's dream.

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<v Speaker 1>We met for a winery tour. Man, Okay, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>going all out. How was the wine tour? Not just

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<v Speaker 1>like was it interesting? I mean, how was it with her?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure it was kind of cool. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>really good. I mean I was a little nervous and

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<v Speaker 1>they were telling us to spit out the wine after

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<v Speaker 1>we tasted not. I mean, I knew that that was

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<v Speaker 1>what you're supposed to do, but I ended up drinking

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<v Speaker 1>most of it, and so I got a little drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's all right. Did you get drunk too? I

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<v Speaker 1>think a little bit, But I think I was definitely

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<v Speaker 1>more drunk. But I don't think she could tell. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as you had a driver, you're good. And

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys go to dinner after that? No? We

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<v Speaker 1>just did the wine and her tour. Then it was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty early still, so asked her she wanted to come

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<v Speaker 1>back to my place, and I already had some more

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<v Speaker 1>wine and cheese and snacks set up up on my rooftop. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you had a rooftop picnic already planned? Yeah. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I had that set up. I set that up that morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't you all? What if what if you had met

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<v Speaker 1>this girl and you hated her. Um, I guess you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if she wasn't if we weren't meshing and I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really like her, I could have just not invited her

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<v Speaker 1>back and could have just had the wine myself. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>spend time with somebody you like, you know. But obviously

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<v Speaker 1>it did go well, and you guys went back there,

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<v Speaker 1>And how did that whole thing play out? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>get a kiss or more? Oh my gosh, I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she was in the middle. What I'm asking is, did

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<v Speaker 1>you get any action? I didn't want to Again, I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to show her I was serious. And I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she's just a striking girl, like just gorgeous, and I've

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<v Speaker 1>never been that close I felt that close to a

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<v Speaker 1>woman in my life. Maybe maybe my mom, but other

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<v Speaker 1>than that, probably no one. Okay, I never compare romantic things.

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<v Speaker 1>And then throwing your mom during that That's what she

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<v Speaker 1>told me too, to just not bring up my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>But but I'm really close with my mom. Wait did

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<v Speaker 1>you did you bring up your mom a bunch while

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<v Speaker 1>you guys were having wine at your place? Well, with

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<v Speaker 1>the blanket we were sitting on, my mom had quilted it,

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<v Speaker 1>and and um, so I was telling her about that.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I stopped and I asked her if she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to kiss, and she did, said yeah, And we

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<v Speaker 1>hung out for a while and we like looked at

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<v Speaker 1>the stars and then it got kind of cold, so

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<v Speaker 1>I just called her a cab home and and so

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was perfect. I mean I was just reeling,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I thought like, this is a girl. I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking about our wedding and whoa dude? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>So she never called she never called me back. How

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<v Speaker 1>many times have you called her? Um? A lot more

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<v Speaker 1>than I want to count, you know. Okay, so you've

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<v Speaker 1>called her a bunch and has she responded to anything. No,

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's been like five days, and I just I

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<v Speaker 1>hope she's okay. I haven't gotten anything. Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>any idea why? Um? I mean I hope that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she lost her phone. Yeah yeah, Okay, Well you keep hoping,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't think that happened. I don't know. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't digging it, but I thought she was all right. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she did kiss you, so that's a good sign. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah it was. It was a good kiss. Nice. Okay. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna play a song and then we'll come back

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<v Speaker 1>and call her and get your second date update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, all right, hang on in the morning if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just tuning in for today's second date update. Justin

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone, and Justin says, the girl he

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<v Speaker 1>went out with is the one, So technically I think

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<v Speaker 1>she's number three because the pool's not very large for Justin.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that he's only been out with two other

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<v Speaker 1>women before this. So I said, how can you be

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<v Speaker 1>sure that number three is the one? Well, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you just know, you know, when you know, you know

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<v Speaker 1>it's I mean, she was she was just out of

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<v Speaker 1>this world. She was like a glowing swan. When I

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<v Speaker 1>saw her, I was just numb. Okay, I think you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, anybody I've ever talked to that is currently

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<v Speaker 1>with the one that said the same thing, glowing or

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<v Speaker 1>oh you said glowing at the said growing swan. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>they always refer to him as a swan. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're right, Justin. Hopefully we can get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and find out why she's not calling you

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<v Speaker 1>back though. Yeah, I just need to speak with her,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it takes, you know, I I'll move mountains to

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<v Speaker 1>at least just see her again or speak with her.

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of don't want to call her because I

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<v Speaker 1>want to see you try to move a mountain. But

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call her right now and see if we get

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone. You're ready, I'm ready? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello. Hi? Is this Martha? Hi speaking? Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. Um, okay, how are you am?

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<v Speaker 1>I on the radio? That's a good question, but I

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<v Speaker 1>asked how you were first, so I can't tell you

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<v Speaker 1>that yet. You're good, I guess. Okay, yeah, you're on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio. So the reason that we're calling you today

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<v Speaker 1>is because we do a segment on our show called

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<v Speaker 1>the Second Date Update. Are you familiar with that at all?

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<v Speaker 1>What is that? Well, it's the thing we do on

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<v Speaker 1>our show where if you go out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody and then they don't call you back after,

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<v Speaker 1>you can email us to get that person on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and ask what happened. And we got an email

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<v Speaker 1>about you from a dude named Justin. Okay, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>romantic dude, say you're a bunch of flowers. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>went wine tasting. Unless I've got the completely wrong. Martha

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and in that case, I'll let you

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<v Speaker 1>what's that you know him? I know, justin Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>this is the Martha that went out with him wine tasting. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's me. Okay. It sounds like he set up a

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<v Speaker 1>really romantic date for you guys. I you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was fine. It was fine. It was good there that

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the way he described it, it was magical.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, he put a lot of like

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<v Speaker 1>time and thought into it clearly, and uh, you know

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<v Speaker 1>I could tell he thought it was special. Yeah, is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you not think it was special? Yeah? No, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it was school. I had a good time. I

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<v Speaker 1>just he was clearly thought that it was more special

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<v Speaker 1>than I did. Yeah, I could see that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>talking just briefly to him, he was a very eager person.

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<v Speaker 1>He wanted to be the hopeless romantic for sure. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think that's the right word, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>And is that why you aren't calling him back because

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<v Speaker 1>you just don't feel the same. I mean, it's part

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<v Speaker 1>of it. It was a pretty good date, to be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>If it weren't for like the end of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I maybe would have called him back. What

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<v Speaker 1>happened at the end, Well, you know, we like made

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<v Speaker 1>out a little bit or whatever, and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>it just got kind of weird after that they start crying.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like he would have cried. Yeah, honestly, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that would have been better if he would have cried.

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<v Speaker 1>What or did he do something else? Like you kissed

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<v Speaker 1>him and he just couldn't control himself and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, yeah that happened. Oh my god. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no, no no no. We were sitting down and he was

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<v Speaker 1>looking up at the stars and he was like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, that's our constellation and that that looks like

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<v Speaker 1>a heart, So that's our constellation. It's trying to be romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we talked to him a little bit, and

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't really go out with a lot of women,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think is the old dating thing is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of new for him, So I think he was just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be super romantic. Yeah, yeah, I guess, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Like, no, never mind, never mind. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you have to say you can't say never mind, no,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so much worse. How at one point he

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<v Speaker 1>like he leans over and he's like grabbing my stomach

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<v Speaker 1>and he was just like my children are going to

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<v Speaker 1>live here one day. Okay, I know, why I know,

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like, oh it looks so cozy, so warm. Why,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I know. That's an interesting comment. For sure,

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<v Speaker 1>What did you do? I would have screamed. I would

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<v Speaker 1>have screamed, maybe hit somebody. I mean I pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>is immediately just like, okay, gotta go. Yeah, that's understandable, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that explains why you weren't calling him back, Martha.

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<v Speaker 1>He's actually on the other line listening to and wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you, though maybe he wants to see

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<v Speaker 1>that space is still for rent. You know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, curiously, Yeah, Justin and you're still there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, Justin, what are you doing? Well you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are taking it out of context. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>that bad. And Martha, it's hear your voice. She starts laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I wanted to talk to you for forever.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's so like forever. It's been five days.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I mean, how are you? Yeah, I'm fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's the issue is how she is.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the issue is what you said to her. Justice.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you not hear what she said, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of build up. There's a lot of build up, and

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of wine, and it seemed like the

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<v Speaker 1>right thing to do because we had talked about everything

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<v Speaker 1>else and we were cuddling like that. It was so

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<v Speaker 1>far over my line of what is acceptable on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. Like it's it's crazy, you know what, Martha.

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<v Speaker 1>Love is crazy and and love makes you do and

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<v Speaker 1>say and feel crazy. You don't love me, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>love me. You might not think that, but there's love

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<v Speaker 1>already in my heart for you, and he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>put it in your belly. Oh my god, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that you fall hard or whatever. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>okay to tell somebody that you're gonna impregnate them and

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<v Speaker 1>like have their baby on a first date. Like so much.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't. I was just saying, what could happen? I wasn'

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<v Speaker 1>gonna impregnate you on the first date. And I thought

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<v Speaker 1>you'd like that. Jess, and I met you at like

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<v Speaker 1>four o'clock that day. That was the first time we

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<v Speaker 1>ever saw each other. And then by the evening, you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have my baby. It's like, it's so much

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<v Speaker 1>I meant it as a compliment, and compliment as a compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>You're your childbearing body. It's you. Oh my god, my god, stop,

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<v Speaker 1>are you serious right now? You don't even know me?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't you told me your middle name? I know everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, anyone that checks her I d knows

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<v Speaker 1>her middle name. Why are you not hearing what she said? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why aren't you apologizing right now? I know came off

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a little strong, but I feel like you're my

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<v Speaker 1>soulmate and I will do anything just to hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with you again. And I can, I can reel it back, inn,

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<v Speaker 1>I can be less in ten, But I really think

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm the guy for you. Justin. Justin, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>like apologize and then say I'll dial it back and

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<v Speaker 1>then call her your soulmate and then keep pressing for

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<v Speaker 1>her to love you. Justin. You're like, you're a really

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<v Speaker 1>nice person, but what you're doing is putting so much

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<v Speaker 1>pressure on me, Like this is this is crazy. Listen

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<v Speaker 1>to Martha. I know that you're scared right now, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here too. I've been scared, and being scared is

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<v Speaker 1>part of love. It's the first step of love. You

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<v Speaker 1>should listen to Justin. He knows he's talking about. He's

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<v Speaker 1>been on three days. I mean, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>what to say right now. Um, well, you could say

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<v Speaker 1>yes to Justin and go on another day, Martha, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go on a second date with Justin?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. Yeah, well, we can't pay

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<v Speaker 1>for the in vitro if he wants to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>but we will pay for you guys to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. I think that's part thank you, but

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<v Speaker 1>no thank you, Justin furiously. I wish you had best

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<v Speaker 1>in whatever comes next for you. I just like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not me. I'm not next. Okay, Artha, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>end now, you just don't. Don't nip this in the bud.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to try to make this work. Please, please,

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<v Speaker 1>please please, I mean, you're making me feel like a

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<v Speaker 1>bad person here. I'm not a bad come on, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>am I rown here? No? No, of course, Justin, you're

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<v Speaker 1>coming off too hard man. Like. I think it's sweet

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<v Speaker 1>that you want love so badly, and I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>sweet that you want romance so badly, But those things

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<v Speaker 1>don't happen unless the other person feels the same way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, exactly, you can't teame love. You can't tame

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<v Speaker 1>You're not listening, Justin. You are not listening at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I am listening to my heart. Yeah, I'm listening. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>listening to my heart too, and it's gonna be a

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<v Speaker 1>hard path. Yet are arguing right now. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna see eye to eye. I don't think you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to get a second date out of this. Justin, Martha,

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<v Speaker 1>we're perfect for one another. But if you don't see

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<v Speaker 1>that now, I don't know. I can't choose. This is

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<v Speaker 1>not my brain picking. What I want to do. This

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<v Speaker 1>is my heart picking, and it's show them you and

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to be there forever. Even if I die alone,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll die with me. Well, then you won't die alone, right,

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<v Speaker 1>just exactly, good point. Well, okay, congratulations, Justin. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's worked out for you. You will not die alone

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<v Speaker 1>because you'll have Martha in your heart. Oh. I wish

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<v Speaker 1>you the best, and I hope that you find that person. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm going to write you thought her and Martha.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope someday you find somebody that puts a baby

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<v Speaker 1>in that sweet womb of yourself. It sounds amazing, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, broken jewel in the morning,