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Speaker 1: Jewels Second Date Update. It's been a while since we

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Speaker 1: got an email for a second date update where somebody

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Speaker 1: says they found the one on their first date. And

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Speaker 1: Justin is on the phone right now. He says that

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Speaker 1: the girl he went out with is the one, Wow,

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Speaker 1: and he never wants her to escape his firm grass okay,

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Speaker 1: now wants to grab her and make sure she always

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Speaker 1: stays in his life and that the one won't slip away. Hey, Justin,

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Speaker 1: before we start this second date update, you don't have

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Speaker 1: the one chained up in your basement, do you? No? Okay? Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, because I won't be involved in that again.

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Speaker 1: All right? That should be a hard no laugh. No,

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Speaker 1: your email did say, though, that you think this woman

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Speaker 1: of ours. It's kind of like an old high school

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Speaker 1: you never hung out with girls like effort. I think

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Speaker 1: long time. I definitely girls, but it's been a while.

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Speaker 1: So I just I just did a blind date, and

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Speaker 1: I mean I thought she was the one. I still

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Speaker 1: ever felt that way about someone before? No? Never, I

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Speaker 1: mean I've I've always been you know, pretty pretty stingy,

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Speaker 1: a way to marry this girl. She's perfectly Yeah. These

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Speaker 1: you're just tuning in for today's second date update. Justin

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Speaker 1: she's number three because the pool's not very large for Justin.

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Speaker 1: He said that he's only been out with two other

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Speaker 1: oh you said glowing at the said growing swan. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hi? Is this Martha? Hi speaking? Hi.

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Um, okay, how are you am?

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Speaker 1: the Second Date Update. Are you familiar with that at all?

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Speaker 1: What is that? Well, it's the thing we do on

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Speaker 1: romantic dude, say you're a bunch of flowers. You guys

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Speaker 1: went wine tasting. Unless I've got the completely wrong. Martha

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Speaker 1: what's that you know him? I know, justin Okay, so

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Speaker 1: of it. It was a pretty good date, to be honest.

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Speaker 1: I think I maybe would have called him back. What

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Speaker 1: Well that explains why you weren't calling him back, Martha.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, curiously, Yeah, Justin and you're still there? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Love is crazy and and love makes you do and

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Speaker 1: I meant it as a compliment, and compliment as a compliment.

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Speaker 1: You're your childbearing body. It's you. Oh my god, my god, stop,

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Speaker 1: You don't you told me your middle name? I know everything.

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Speaker 1: We will pay for it. Yeah, well, we can't pay

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Speaker 1: no thank you, Justin furiously. I wish you had best

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Speaker 1: It's not me. I'm not next. Okay, Artha, you can't

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Speaker 1: We have to try to make this work. Please, please,

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Speaker 1: you'll die with me. Well, then you won't die alone, right,

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Speaker 1: because you'll have Martha in your heart. Oh. I wish

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Speaker 1: in that sweet womb of yourself. It sounds amazing, Oh

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