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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject, get on in here and work.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I recently moved to the Big City

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Speaker 1: and I was hired on the spot by this dirty

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Speaker 1: old man that I ended up having sex with. He's

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Speaker 1: married and he has a girlfriend on the side, and

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Speaker 1: then he has me. I've been working under him for

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Speaker 1: only three months and I have already been promoted, so

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Speaker 1: my co workers are wondering if I am sleeping with

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Speaker 1: this man. I mention it to him, so now he

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Speaker 1: stuff like get on in here and work while I'm

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Speaker 1: out having a cigarette behind the building. If I am

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Speaker 1: at someone else's desk, he tells me to stop chit

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Speaker 1: I hate the harsh treatment, and he thinks is okay

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Speaker 1: to joke about it when we're intimate. Last night, he

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Speaker 1: walked into my bedroom and yelled for me to get

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Speaker 1: this is sexy talk, and I told him that it's

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Speaker 1: not cute. I'm afraid he will fire me or treat

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Speaker 1: me even worse than he does now in front of

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Speaker 1: my coworkers if I stop sleeping with him. He's a

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Speaker 1: white man, so the black men at my job try

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Speaker 1: to defend me against him. And this man is not

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Speaker 1: only giving me lots of money to get my house together,

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Speaker 1: he's giving me lots of mind boggling sex. This old

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Speaker 1: for now. I was in a bad relationship before before

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Speaker 1: I moved, and my new boss has made me forget

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Speaker 1: about that guy. But how long can we keep this up?

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Speaker 1: I should not have started sleeping with him. How do

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Speaker 1: Do you think I can reason with him?

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Speaker 3: All?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: The first line, the first thing in your letter, you

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Speaker 1: should listen to. You should not have started sleeping with him.

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Speaker 1: But it's too late now, of course. And what you

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Speaker 1: got to do is start looking, and you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, start looking for another job today. You got

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Speaker 1: to get out of there.

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Speaker 2: And that's it.

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Speaker 1: You created this situation for yourself, and now you got

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Speaker 1: to get yourself out of it because this is going nowhere.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, okay, he's giving you promotions and money,

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Speaker 1: but look at what.

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Speaker 2: You have to go through to get it.

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Speaker 1: You're scared all the time. He wants to laugh about

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Speaker 1: it later while you guys are having sex, but it's

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Speaker 1: not funny to you and he doesn't get that. So

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Speaker 1: clearly you know you've made a mistake because now you're

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Speaker 1: worried about getting fired and you don't like the hurtful

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Speaker 1: The brothers in the job could lose their jobs too

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Speaker 1: or get in trouble because they don't like how he

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Speaker 1: talks to you and up to him in your defense.

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Speaker 1: So this is just a big old mess at the job,

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Speaker 1: and before it gets really out of hand, you need

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Speaker 1: to put an end to it, get out of it

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Speaker 1: and leave. Now you could gamble and threaten to tell

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Speaker 1: could still get fired or worse. So I would say,

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Speaker 1: leave Steve.

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Speaker 3: Well, well, well, you know it's so much to unpacking

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Speaker 3: this letter that I want to say to this girl.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say it all.

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Speaker 3: And I know y'all gonna feel some kind of way

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Speaker 3: bout what I'm saying and all this here, but sometimes

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Speaker 3: you just got to say what it is.

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Speaker 2: Now. This whole thing, first of all, is your damn fault.

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Speaker 3: So now you know, I mean, I don't know what

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Speaker 3: to tell you. You said, did Steven Shirley? I moved

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Speaker 3: to the big city? Now right here, little country ass girl,

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Speaker 3: until I asked where you go? Oh you don't want

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Speaker 3: down there White's sofa. Now you have moved on up

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Speaker 3: to Charlotte, or you was down there and you're old.

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Speaker 3: You was down there in Apple Creek. Now you'd have

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Speaker 3: moved up to Richmond. Woo ooo, that big city now,

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Speaker 3: oh yeah, oh here, all your ass was down in

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Speaker 3: the Peach Street corners. Now you have moved all the

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Speaker 3: way up to Atlanta. Oh Lord Jesus, the feld is

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Speaker 3: so tall up hill. Okay, I was hired on the

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, what.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, wait a minute, you're rushing through this letter.

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Speaker 2: What was you left out so much?

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Speaker 3: You moved from this big city, you met this dirty

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Speaker 2: Okay, your self esteem is low.

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Speaker 3: He's married, he got a girlfriend on the side, and

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Speaker 3: he got me.

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Speaker 2: Damn he signed up for that. Huh.

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Speaker 3: All right, I've been working under him for only three

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Speaker 3: months and I've already been promoted. So my coworkers are

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Speaker 3: wondering if I'm sleeping with this man. I mentioned it

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Speaker 3: to him, So now he treats me like crap in

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Speaker 3: front of everybody.

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Speaker 2: He yells up like, get on to him, get to work.

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Speaker 3: No, wait, hold up, wrong, dude, Hey, get it here,

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Speaker 3: get to work. While I'm out having a cigarette behind

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Speaker 3: the building. If I'm at somebody else's desk, he yell

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Speaker 3: at me to stop chit chatting and get back to work.

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Speaker 2: Hey, stop all of that chitter chatting. Hey, we're here

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Speaker 2: to work, guys.

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Speaker 3: I've told him that I hate the hardest treatment, and

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Speaker 2: To joke about it when we're intimate.

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Speaker 3: Last night he walked into my bedroom and yelled from

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Speaker 3: to get on in this room and get to work.

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Speaker 3: Damn system with the white man. You don't, you don't.

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Speaker 3: You don't feel no kind of way about that. You

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Speaker 3: done forgot about the history. Oh so you just oh okay,

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Speaker 3: what damn? So, why don't you just put on the

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Speaker 3: long ape and put some dirt on your feet and

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Speaker 3: go on in there. Why don't you wrap your head?

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Speaker 3: Why don't you just why aren't you going there and

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Speaker 3: look like you're on a syrup bottle?

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Speaker 2: Why don't you just do that? Because that's where we're

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Speaker 2: at right now with me?

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Speaker 3: All right, I want to say that I will continue

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Speaker 3: some more that we're going down the dog path, and

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Speaker 3: we come back, y'all.

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Speaker 2: We'll be right back with more ignorance right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening morning show, all right? Come on, Steve, let's

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Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is get on in

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Speaker 1: here and work now.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know all this, but this woman right here

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Speaker 3: moved up to a big city. She met this dirty

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Speaker 3: sex with him. That's how the letter started. It just

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Speaker 3: she just jumped too many steps. But she got low

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Speaker 3: self esteem all through this letter. And so then she

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Speaker 3: told him that they having sex together. Now, get a

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Speaker 3: load of this. He's married, he got a girlfriend on

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Speaker 3: the side, and he got me. I've been working under

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Speaker 3: him for three months already, and Ben, you've got a promotion.

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Speaker 3: So the coworkers are wondering if I'm sleeping with this man.

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Speaker 3: I mentioned it to him, So now he treats me

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Speaker 2: He yells out stuff like, you know, in here and

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Speaker 2: get to work.

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Speaker 3: See that's where I've That's how I imagine him saying,

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Speaker 3: get on in here and get to work. If I'm

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Speaker 3: out a cigarette and having a cigarette behind the building,

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Speaker 3: if I'm at somebody else's desk, he hear me, stop

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Speaker 3: all that chit chatting, get.

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Speaker 2: On back to work.

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Speaker 3: I told him I hate the hardest treatment, and he

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Speaker 3: thinks it's okay to joke about it when we're intimate.

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Speaker 3: Last night he walked into my bedroom and yelled for

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Speaker 3: me to get on.

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Speaker 2: In this room and get to work.

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Speaker 3: He thinks this is sexy talk, and I told him

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Speaker 3: it's not cute. I'm afraid that he will fire me

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Speaker 3: or treat me even worse than he does now in

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Speaker 3: front of my coworkers. If I stopped sleeping with him,

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Speaker 3: then she dropped this jewel. He's a white man. Yeah see.

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Speaker 3: So now they get on in here and get to work.

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Speaker 3: That take on the whole new meaning, now don't it?

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Speaker 3: Ah shad that all that and hand got to walk now?

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, okay, so we don't. Oh oh we don't.

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Speaker 3: Oh we done went that far back. So you done

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Speaker 3: moved up to the big city then took and took

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Speaker 3: this slave ass mentality. You got on up to the

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Speaker 3: they used to happen in the past, and you still

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Speaker 3: doing it. And now you're afraid of him. He thinks

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Speaker 3: it's sexyy because now that's what he want to do.

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Speaker 3: Oh see he got you so now hear in it.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: Oh you want to be talk harsh too. Oh, now

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Speaker 3: it's funny to him. Get on in hand, get to work.

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Speaker 3: That's right up his alley. That's right up his alley.

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Speaker 3: He doing it just like his great grandfather did. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: oh oh, oh, oh oh oh oh, he right up

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Speaker 3: your alley. This man, and then you said he's a

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Speaker 3: white man, so the black man at the job try

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Speaker 3: to defend me against him. This man is not only

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Speaker 3: giving me lots of money to get my house together,

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Speaker 3: he gives me lots of mind boggling sex.

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Speaker 2: You know what I think. I think you don't know

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Speaker 2: what a good man is.

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Speaker 3: You don't know who the big city is, you don't

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Speaker 3: know what side piece is, and you don't know what

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Speaker 3: good sexy is.

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Speaker 2: That's what I think.

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Speaker 3: I just think you've been struggling with low self esteem

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Speaker 3: in every area of your life. But now this old

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Speaker 3: man is putting it down and he keeps me entertained

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Speaker 3: for now. I was in a bad relationship before I moved.

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Speaker 3: See right there, he was in a bad relationship. Now

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Speaker 3: you done got in this relationship and it appears to

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Speaker 3: be cool. Man, how bad was the relationship you was in?

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Speaker 2: And now? But how long can we keep this up?

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Speaker 2: My new boss has made me forget about that guy? Wait?

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Speaker 3: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Whoah? Your new boss who treats you this way? That

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Speaker 2: made you forget about that guy? Man? What the hell

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Speaker 2: did that dude?

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Speaker 1: Do?

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Speaker 2: See?

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Speaker 3: You done went from a bad relationship to a badder relationship.

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Speaker 3: But it looks better to you somehow, Lady, you need,

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Speaker 3: you need, you need to pump the brakes. But how

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Speaker 3: long can we keep this up? I should never have

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Speaker 3: started sleep with him. How do I break away without

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Speaker 3: him being really mean to me? Do you think I

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Speaker 3: can reason with him? Hell? Yeah, Wait a minute. You

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Speaker 3: You just said he got a girlfriend and he got you.

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Speaker 3: Do you think I can reason with him? Nah?

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Speaker 3: But Hall can eeoc can? Facebook can see all this

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Speaker 3: letting him married? Dude?

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Speaker 2: Buffalo you around, mistreat you and talk crazy?

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Speaker 3: You.

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Speaker 2: Do you think I could reason with him?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: But his wife can?

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Speaker 3: You got too many bullets in your gun and you

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Speaker 3: act like you ain't got no bullets. You got bullets

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Speaker 3: in your gun. Matter of fact, your revolver is loaded.

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Speaker 3: H y'all equal opportunity, Facebook, your new lawyer, your wife,

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Speaker 3: your cell phone up picture, Take a picture of your

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Speaker 3: furniture when it give you money. Laid on the bed,

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Speaker 3: take a picture of it. Lay next to the picture,

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Speaker 3: and Neil, take a picture of him. What you're talking about?

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Speaker 3: You ain't got to take none of this, Carol. You

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Speaker 3: can get treated any kind of way you want to

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Speaker 3: right now. You got leverage, but stop acting like a

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Speaker 3: damn victim and stop doing stuff to get yourself in

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Speaker 3: and too well, you got too much advantage. No, I

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Speaker 3: new lawyer and your cell phone and he'll be.

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Speaker 2: Able to treat you any treat you any kind of

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