WEBVTT - Pride is a Riot

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, peeps, and welcome to woka F Daily with

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<v Speaker 1>Meet your Girl Danielle Moody recording from the Fucking Toe

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<v Speaker 1>reconstruction Zone and the Brooklyn Bunker. Happy Pride, folks, it

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<v Speaker 1>is officially June. I myself cannot believe that we have

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<v Speaker 1>made it here as a country as a group, but

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<v Speaker 1>we are here and for this pride on woke F.

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<v Speaker 1>We are conjuring up the spirits of our LGBTQ ancestors

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<v Speaker 1>and leaders, and we're going back to what the core

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<v Speaker 1>of pride has been and was born out of, which

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<v Speaker 1>is a riot. For many of you who listen to

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<v Speaker 1>me on a regular basis and have been listening to

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<v Speaker 1>and been a part of the woke a F community nation,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to understand that when pride originated, as

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<v Speaker 1>some folks know, came out of the Stonewall riots. And

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<v Speaker 1>Stonewall is a bar located in New York City, in Manhattan,

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<v Speaker 1>in Chelsea, an area that during the time was very

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<v Speaker 1>much frequented by LGBTQ plus people. And what we have

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<v Speaker 1>always known is that the queer community has never been

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<v Speaker 1>accepted and embraced. It has always been the ire of police, politicians.

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<v Speaker 1>You name it, and how pride began was out of

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<v Speaker 1>a sense of exhaustion, out of a sense of you know, folks,

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<v Speaker 1>particularly black, queer, black trans women saying, like Marsha P. Johnson,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had enough. We've had a fucking enough of cops

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<v Speaker 1>coming into this bar, hustling us from money, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>beating us, and we do nothing because we are forced

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<v Speaker 1>to live in the shadows, in the margins. And what

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<v Speaker 1>the Stonewall riots did was bring to the consciousness the

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<v Speaker 1>forefront of the New York City community, of the state

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<v Speaker 1>of the city, how dismally, how poorly, how disgustingly the

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<v Speaker 1>LGBTQ plus community has been treated, and from their pride

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<v Speaker 1>birth itself into not so much of a riot, but

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<v Speaker 1>instead of celebration, an unapologetic celebration of who we are,

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<v Speaker 1>who we love, how we exist in a world that

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<v Speaker 1>believes in boxes. And if you can't fit into said box,

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<v Speaker 1>then you were cast aside, you were ostracized, you were

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<v Speaker 1>made to feel small and insignificant and worse, violated in

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<v Speaker 1>ways that no one, no person should experience. There have

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<v Speaker 1>been so many markers of violence, and there continue to

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<v Speaker 1>be markers of violence. Black trans women are killed at

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<v Speaker 1>an alarming rate, their identities, their existence thrown literally and

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<v Speaker 1>figuratively in the trash. It is through our quest for

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<v Speaker 1>liberation that isn't about assimilation into what it means to

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<v Speaker 1>exist in the heteronormative confines. And funny enough, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>having a lot of this conversation as a person who

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<v Speaker 1>is still relatively newly divorced but really operated inside of

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<v Speaker 1>this assimilation model. We'd us like you, right, is you

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<v Speaker 1>know what the queer community was forced to say in

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<v Speaker 1>order to be able to access the same rights and

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<v Speaker 1>privileges that our straight neighbors and friends and colleagues have,

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<v Speaker 1>is that to bring down the level of hysteria and

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<v Speaker 1>threat that our opposition has made it seem as if

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<v Speaker 1>we are in society a threat, something to be locked away,

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<v Speaker 1>to never be spoken of, to be beaten into submission,

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<v Speaker 1>to be jailed, to be prosecuted. Is that we made

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<v Speaker 1>a campaign out of saying we're just like you. We

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<v Speaker 1>want to get married, we want to have kids, we

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<v Speaker 1>want to live full and complete lives. But the reality

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<v Speaker 1>is is that, yeah, I want to live a full

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<v Speaker 1>and complete life, but what I deem as full and

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<v Speaker 1>complete may not be what full and complete looks like

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<v Speaker 1>for you. I don't have to want to get married

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<v Speaker 1>in order to be seen as a full and complete

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<v Speaker 1>citizen of these United States. I don't have to conform

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<v Speaker 1>right and fold myself in order to fit into what

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<v Speaker 1>other people's beliefs and desires are. And I have only recently,

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<v Speaker 1>recently truly been able to really understand that because I

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<v Speaker 1>spent a large part of my career in politics, in

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<v Speaker 1>movement work, particularly around LGBTQ politics, with trying to fit in.

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<v Speaker 1>I became one of the voices for marriage equality back

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<v Speaker 1>in the early two thousands because who was speaking out

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<v Speaker 1>at that time were white gay men, double income, no kids.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where that saying came from. White men. As we know,

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<v Speaker 1>right outside of orientation, our gender identity are the oppressor,

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<v Speaker 1>right hold all the mechanisms of power. So when you

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<v Speaker 1>had white gay men in the beginning of the two

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<v Speaker 1>thousands talking about their rights and what they're being denied,

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<v Speaker 1>you think that that was invoking empathy. It's surely the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck was not. So enter the voices of black queer

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<v Speaker 1>people like myself, who at the time were getting married

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<v Speaker 1>or were married, and so we were able to insert

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<v Speaker 1>a different perspective into the conversation about what discriminatory policies

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<v Speaker 1>due to already marginalized communities. But as I have moved

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<v Speaker 1>through life and my own understanding of my identity how

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<v Speaker 1>I want to show up in the world, I realize

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<v Speaker 1>that assimilation is honestly what has been beat into us

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<v Speaker 1>since the beginning. When I talk about our public education

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<v Speaker 1>system being a product or a tool of white supremacy,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that, and I mean that in all senses.

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<v Speaker 1>I also mean it in terms of patriarchy and how

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<v Speaker 1>we come to understand who is supposed to be raising

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<v Speaker 1>their hand and who is supposed to sit quietly, who

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<v Speaker 1>was supposed to be playing with dolls and who's supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be playing with trucks. Who can be the aggressor

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<v Speaker 1>and situation and who has to be the submissive. You

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<v Speaker 1>learn all of these roles through societal standards, and where

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<v Speaker 1>do we learn society standards through school? So it makes

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<v Speaker 1>sense then that the opposition, the Republican cult, would turn

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<v Speaker 1>once again to our education system as a way to

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<v Speaker 1>pose their will on already marginalized and oppressed peoples. The

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<v Speaker 1>don't say gay bills, the bathroom bills, they're all directed

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<v Speaker 1>at queer youth at a time when you are young

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<v Speaker 1>and trying to understand who you are in the world

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<v Speaker 1>outside of your parents, gays, and outside of society's desires.

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<v Speaker 1>So how are we setting up our young people, whether

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<v Speaker 1>they are queer or not, to be able to be

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<v Speaker 1>critical thinkers, global citizens to feel safe in their own skin,

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<v Speaker 1>which means that if you are safe in your own skin,

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<v Speaker 1>then you are able to tackle some of society and

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<v Speaker 1>the world's biggest problems. But if I'm so busy looking

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<v Speaker 1>over my shoulder, how can I see into the future,

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<v Speaker 1>How can I offer myself as a way of being

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<v Speaker 1>of service. So I've been thinking a lot as a

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<v Speaker 1>person who has come from Even though I am black,

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<v Speaker 1>I am a woman, i am queer, I'm a child

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<v Speaker 1>of immigrants, I'm all of these things. I still have

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<v Speaker 1>points of privilege. I still grew up in a suburban

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<v Speaker 1>tree line street neighborhoods where I could walk to school

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<v Speaker 1>and go to the pizza place and get a slice

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<v Speaker 1>after school, where I played sports, where I had series

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<v Speaker 1>upon series of microaggressions but at the time didn't realize them.

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<v Speaker 1>It was upon reflection, but my orientation into the world

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<v Speaker 1>was important, which is why I feel like the way

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<v Speaker 1>that we treat our youth and how they show up

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<v Speaker 1>and how they are able to succeed is about our

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<v Speaker 1>own success as a country, as a people, and if

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<v Speaker 1>we're not nurturing our young people, whether they are queer

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<v Speaker 1>or straight, or non binary or somewhere on the spectrum,

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<v Speaker 1>that is about nurturing our own success. So this month,

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<v Speaker 1>during Pride Month, which also encapsulates June teenth, we were

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<v Speaker 1>going to tackle some of the biggest issues that are

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<v Speaker 1>facing the LGBTQ plus community, which are entwined with all

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<v Speaker 1>of the issues that we are all facing. But what

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<v Speaker 1>does it mean to face issues of voter suppression, of

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<v Speaker 1>living in a time of a police state right where

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<v Speaker 1>you can be shot dead because you are black, because

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<v Speaker 1>you were queer, because you exist at these overlapping intersections

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<v Speaker 1>of identity. So we're going to go throughout the weeks

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<v Speaker 1>of this month and talk to some of my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>some of my colleagues, people that I admire, whose work

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<v Speaker 1>that I cherish, to really get a better perspective of

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<v Speaker 1>who America is in this moment. For me, Pride over

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<v Speaker 1>the last decades plus has always been a celebration it's

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<v Speaker 1>when you get to dress up and go to the

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<v Speaker 1>marches and the parades and see old friends and dance

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<v Speaker 1>and literally be gay, be merry. But in the climate

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<v Speaker 1>that we are living in right now, I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>that level of joy. I know that it is important, however,

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<v Speaker 1>I know that it is necessary. It is necessary now

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<v Speaker 1>for us to be unapologetic in the streets with our

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<v Speaker 1>glitter and our rainbows and our you know, bearing our

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<v Speaker 1>vulnerabilities to the world and saying you don't get to

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<v Speaker 1>box me, you don't get to judge me, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>get to define me. I get to define myself. And

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<v Speaker 1>so for us here on Woke f this month, Pride

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<v Speaker 1>is a riot. It has always been a riot. And

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<v Speaker 1>what are riots? They are the voices of the unheard,

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<v Speaker 1>those that have been invisibilized. Right, And so this month,

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<v Speaker 1>during this time, we are going to paint the picture

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<v Speaker 1>of who this community is, who I am, what we

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<v Speaker 1>are up against, but also what we are looking forward to.

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<v Speaker 1>It isn't all bad, right, but there are a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of bad things on the horizon and a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>evils that we need to push back against. Coming up

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<v Speaker 1>in our first Pride conversation, is my friend, and you've

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<v Speaker 1>heard from him before, Preston Mitcham, who is the director

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<v Speaker 1>of Policy and government Affairs for the Trevor Project. The

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<v Speaker 1>Trevor Project is a national organization that works to prevent

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<v Speaker 1>LGBTQ suicides. You will hear in this conversation with my

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<v Speaker 1>dear friend Preston about how the suicide rates among LGBTQ

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<v Speaker 1>people and LGBTQ youth specifically are up. If you've listened

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<v Speaker 1>to the show over the past couple of months. I

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<v Speaker 1>also iterated that after I watched a special on sixty

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<v Speaker 1>Minutes which was just about youth across the board and

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<v Speaker 1>how youth are attempting suicides at higher rates than we

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<v Speaker 1>have ever seen and why is that? Because we are

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<v Speaker 1>all living in compounded trauma, living through compounded trauma. So,

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<v Speaker 1>if we're all struggling with a global health pandemic with

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<v Speaker 1>the rise of white supremacy, fascism, violence, and you are

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<v Speaker 1>also a queer youth, and you live in a state

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<v Speaker 1>where you're a you're governor like Rhonda Santis, Greg Abbott

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<v Speaker 1>and others are telling you that you are unworthy, that

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<v Speaker 1>your family should be criminalized for caring for you. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you seeing yourself? Years ago in the early aughts,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a campaign that was started called it Gets

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<v Speaker 1>Better because if you remember, in the early two thousands,

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<v Speaker 1>there were a rash of suicides ten year olds, twelve

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<v Speaker 1>year olds, thirteen year olds who had been bullied relentlessly

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<v Speaker 1>and took their own lives because they couldn't envision a future.

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<v Speaker 1>We know that Republicans are trying to create an environment

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<v Speaker 1>where we don't see past our present misery, which is

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<v Speaker 1>why pride as a riot and pride as joy is

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<v Speaker 1>so incredibly important now more than ever, because the lives

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<v Speaker 1>of our youth, of our community is at stake. So

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<v Speaker 1>Preston will discuss with us the latest numbers, the latest

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<v Speaker 1>data points from the Trevor Project offer us opportunities to

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<v Speaker 1>engage and then talk about what we can each do

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<v Speaker 1>for our own self care. That conversation, dear friends, is

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<v Speaker 1>am very excited to welcome back to Woke f Daily,

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<v Speaker 1>our friend, my friend over so many years. My god,

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<v Speaker 1>we won't even tell the kids. We just have good

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<v Speaker 1>skincare Preston Mitcham, who is the director of Advocacy and

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<v Speaker 1>Government Affairs at the Trevor Project. You know, the Trevor Project.

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<v Speaker 1>But I want to give Preston an opportunity before we

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<v Speaker 1>even jump into this important conversation this Pride Month, presdon

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<v Speaker 1>tell folks, remind folks what the Trevor Project is and

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<v Speaker 1>what the important work is that you all do. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm really excited to be here friend, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really excited to represent the Trevor Project as well.

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<v Speaker 1>And we are the world's largest suicide prevention and mental

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<v Speaker 1>health organization for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer and

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<v Speaker 1>questioning youth. And we know because of all of the

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<v Speaker 1>unprecedented attacks, we know that we need organizations like the

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<v Speaker 1>Trevor Project which really are life saving tools and providing

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<v Speaker 1>resources and advocacy and education and public trainings to the

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<v Speaker 1>general public, to schools, among others on how to save

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<v Speaker 1>LGBTQ youth lives. So, Preston, I mean I will say this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you, like my self, have been an LGBTQ

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<v Speaker 1>plus advocate for ever at this at this point right

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<v Speaker 1>like we have for our entire careers. I think we

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<v Speaker 1>have made it a point to always put our community upfront.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever, in the course of your career, not

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<v Speaker 1>just with the Trevor Project, but just in your career

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<v Speaker 1>in general, seen the types of unrelenting attacks against LGBTQ

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<v Speaker 1>plus people that we have been seeing over the last

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<v Speaker 1>two years. Have you seen this before? I certainly have not,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think many others would agree with that. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>we've certainly seen state based attacks through bills at the

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<v Speaker 1>state level, at the federal level as well, But right now,

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<v Speaker 1>it's such an unprecedented number of attacks that are happening

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<v Speaker 1>to LGBTQ people, especially LGBTQ young people. And not only

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<v Speaker 1>is it unprecedented, it's coordinated. So there seems to be

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<v Speaker 1>a nationwide coordinated campaign by anti LGBTQ organizations and elected

0:19:05.920 --> 0:19:11.400
<v Speaker 1>officials seeking political gain admitted election year especially, and again,

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<v Speaker 1>what they're once again doing or treating one of the

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<v Speaker 1>most marginalized groups in our country, trans youth and non

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<v Speaker 1>binary youth, especially as a political wedge issue when they

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<v Speaker 1>are certainly not. You know it every week aside from

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<v Speaker 1>us dealing with the gun violence and gun massacres that

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<v Speaker 1>are many being done so at the hands of white

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<v Speaker 1>supremacists right with manifestos that purport their ideology. And part

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<v Speaker 1>of that ideology isn't just about their hatred towards black

0:19:48.040 --> 0:19:51.960
<v Speaker 1>folks right or people of color by the bipop community,

0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:55.920
<v Speaker 1>it is also queer people. And we have seen through

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<v Speaker 1>Tucker Carlson's many, many segments on Fox News, through Ron

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<v Speaker 1>De Santis's statements as he is signing anti LGBTQ plus legislation,

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<v Speaker 1>that they are one and the same, right, that this

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<v Speaker 1>desire for white supremacy is at the hands of sis

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<v Speaker 1>white hetero men in this country. And so, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think or how can you tell us how these policies,

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<v Speaker 1>how this rhetoric that has now transformed into violence is

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<v Speaker 1>affecting LGBTQ plus people. What has the Trevor Project been

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<v Speaker 1>able to uncover over the past couple of years in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of where things are trending for the community. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad we started there because the truth of the

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<v Speaker 1>matter is that this year we've seen a record number

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<v Speaker 1>of anti LGBTQ bills, and right now, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be clear that we're at tracking more than two hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and forty bills that are sweeping the nation. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>broad wave of anti LGBTQ rhetoric that even targets trans

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<v Speaker 1>in our binary youth as Stata before. But also want

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<v Speaker 1>to be clear, it's it's to your point, it is

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<v Speaker 1>also things that expand the gamut. Right. So, of course

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<v Speaker 1>we do have these bills that you see the restrictability

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<v Speaker 1>of trans folks to play sports, receive gender framing care,

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<v Speaker 1>access bathrooms, and really be representing classrooms, discussions, and curriculums.

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<v Speaker 1>But we also see many of these same bills discussing

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<v Speaker 1>things like critical racing and other things that are related

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<v Speaker 1>to systemic racism too. And so that actually is backed

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<v Speaker 1>up by some of the data that we've seen in

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<v Speaker 1>so far as the people who we see are experiencing

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of mental health challenges and negative mental health

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<v Speaker 1>outcomes are LGBTQ people of color. So in early May,

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<v Speaker 1>the Trevor Project put out it's twenty twenty two National

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<v Speaker 1>Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental health. In particular, what we

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<v Speaker 1>saw as a racial disparity that worsens the mental health

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<v Speaker 1>impacts of and on bipod LGBTQUTH so that's black, Indigenous

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<v Speaker 1>and other people of color. To provide some data, we're

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<v Speaker 1>really excited because this year we surveyed nearly thirty four

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<v Speaker 1>thousand LGBTQ young people and that was across the entire

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<v Speaker 1>United States. It is also one of our most diverse

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<v Speaker 1>samples to date, and that forty five percent of respondents

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<v Speaker 1>were LGBTQUTH of color and nearly fifty percent were trans

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<v Speaker 1>or non binary. What we also saw was alarming and

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<v Speaker 1>sobering statistics that had trended upward for suicidal thoughts among

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<v Speaker 1>lgbtquth as well as well as focused on key barriers.

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<v Speaker 1>And we know the reasons why we're seeing these increases

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<v Speaker 1>suicidal thoughts among others is because of these wave of

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<v Speaker 1>unprecedented and coordinated attacks on LGBTQUTH. You know, it is

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<v Speaker 1>it is almost as if I believe, and let me

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<v Speaker 1>not put words in your mouth, I believe that it

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<v Speaker 1>is a coordinated attack. I believe that they absolutely are

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<v Speaker 1>going for our mental and emotional well being as well

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<v Speaker 1>as our physical safety. And so you know as you

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<v Speaker 1>all are you digging through these over two hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>forty plus pieces of legislation, what do they have in common, Preston,

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<v Speaker 1>and what do you perceive to be the ability to

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<v Speaker 1>work around Like, what are we missing on our side

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<v Speaker 1>that they have been able to replicate, replicate, replicate across

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<v Speaker 1>the country. One of the things that we're consistently seeing

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<v Speaker 1>quite frankly, albeit misguided policies, but they really do help

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<v Speaker 1>in particular election years. And so that is some of

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<v Speaker 1>the things that we're seeing, you know, while so while

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<v Speaker 1>we have elected officials who are continuing to target LGBTQ youth,

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<v Speaker 1>our polling data in particular has found a majority of

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<v Speaker 1>adults reject this government overreach that we are seeing across

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<v Speaker 1>the country. Even though there are still some consistency in

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<v Speaker 1>some popularity if we want to use that language among

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<v Speaker 1>certain communities, among certain and elected officials, we know that

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<v Speaker 1>written large, the general public reject them. And so, but

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<v Speaker 1>the things that are coordinated right are banning books, censoring

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<v Speaker 1>school curriculums, intervening in medical care decisions that we know

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<v Speaker 1>our best left to doctors and patients. And so those

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<v Speaker 1>are some of the coordinations that we're seeing. We're also

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<v Speaker 1>seeing this attack. You know, to the point earlier around

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<v Speaker 1>systemic racism, that it is rare that in most of

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<v Speaker 1>these bills, we're going to find an example where they're

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<v Speaker 1>attacking book bands and school curriculums and also not attacking

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<v Speaker 1>things like critical race theory. I want to be clear,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a lawyer. I went to law school, and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't take critical race theory until I went law school

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<v Speaker 1>and almost graduate. Are you sure are, Preston, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>part of your kindergarten first grade curriculum? You sure? Positive?

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely positive? Right? And so I think that is the

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<v Speaker 1>part for many of us that becomes quite frustrating, particularly

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<v Speaker 1>when we are black and queer or Latin X and queer,

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<v Speaker 1>or indigenous and queer, right, those of us who have multi,

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<v Speaker 1>multi faceted lives, and you know, we don't live single

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<v Speaker 1>issue struggles or lives for that matter, right, true to

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<v Speaker 1>our proogle word and even hearkening in Kimberly Crenshaw, and so,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when we see people are attacking every facet

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<v Speaker 1>of who we are, right, we know that we start

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<v Speaker 1>to then internalize, right, we then start to think differently

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<v Speaker 1>about ourselves and who we are, and that is actually

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<v Speaker 1>rooted in so much data and science, and so that

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<v Speaker 1>is why, even if it's not intentionally focused and targeted

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<v Speaker 1>on our mental health, we inherently start thinking negative thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>about who we are, about our own history because all

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<v Speaker 1>we know is a rature right, and so that is

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<v Speaker 1>what we're trying to combat every single day. So tell us, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what are some of the ways in which you are

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<v Speaker 1>tackling this moment that feels like preston. It's so difficult

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<v Speaker 1>to wrap our arms around, right, Like, how are you

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<v Speaker 1>able in this role to be able and the organization

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<v Speaker 1>as a whole to be able to tackle what feels

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<v Speaker 1>like everest at this moment? It does and many I

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<v Speaker 1>mean listen, you know, working obviously in like avoccing government

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<v Speaker 1>affairs and even in media in comms, one of the

0:26:23.119 --> 0:26:25.440
<v Speaker 1>things that we see is it feels like everything is

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<v Speaker 1>drinking from a fire hose. Right, There's so many things

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<v Speaker 1>happening all across the spectrum that you don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>to prioritize. And so one of the things that we

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<v Speaker 1>really wanted to get comfortable with was what does it

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<v Speaker 1>mean to prioritize the health and well being of LGBTQ

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<v Speaker 1>youth because we know our research in particular has found

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<v Speaker 1>that lgbtqth who lived in an accepting community and had

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<v Speaker 1>access to these LGBTQ affirming schools and are felt high

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<v Speaker 1>social support from family and France reported significantly lower rates

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<v Speaker 1>of attempting suicide in the past year. And so for us,

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<v Speaker 1>what that means is prioritizing safety by schools, prioritizing safety

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<v Speaker 1>and communities figuring out if you have any alliances in

0:27:07.000 --> 0:27:10.160
<v Speaker 1>your universities or your high schools or your middle schools,

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<v Speaker 1>and really figuring out how do we provide resources not

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<v Speaker 1>only to LGBTQ youth, but to their parents and to

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<v Speaker 1>their other family members and to their friends who are

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<v Speaker 1>really trying to understand a little bit more about what

0:27:21.840 --> 0:27:24.280
<v Speaker 1>that looks like. Right, And we know that some of

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<v Speaker 1>this has shifted because of COVID, So you know, mental

0:27:27.680 --> 0:27:30.399
<v Speaker 1>health challenges did not take place because of COVID, but

0:27:30.440 --> 0:27:34.000
<v Speaker 1>they certainly exacinate it. It's already in reality for people

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<v Speaker 1>pre COVID, and so for us, it's about resources. It's

0:27:37.320 --> 0:27:40.440
<v Speaker 1>about creating these affirming environment right, and it's on all

0:27:40.480 --> 0:27:44.159
<v Speaker 1>of us to create these safer, more accepting world for

0:27:44.320 --> 0:27:47.720
<v Speaker 1>LGBTQ youth, right, Like, I always try to think of

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<v Speaker 1>who I was and who I did not want to

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<v Speaker 1>be when I was younger, right, And so by that end, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm comfortable now, I'm confident, now, I'm securing who I

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<v Speaker 1>am now. Many lgbtqth don't have that environment and they

0:28:00.560 --> 0:28:02.840
<v Speaker 1>don't have that reality. So a lot of our research

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<v Speaker 1>and our advocacy work is really grow toward, grew toward

0:28:05.400 --> 0:28:09.040
<v Speaker 1>those people who frankly don't think they have possibility models

0:28:09.040 --> 0:28:13.440
<v Speaker 1>around them. What does it mean these days, Preston? Because

0:28:13.440 --> 0:28:17.240
<v Speaker 1>I learned that phrase from you, possibility model? What does

0:28:17.240 --> 0:28:22.000
<v Speaker 1>it mean these days for you? For myself too to

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<v Speaker 1>be that model? When frankly I'm scared, right, Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>am scared about my well being in safety as well

0:28:31.800 --> 0:28:35.080
<v Speaker 1>as those of my friends and family. But recognizing that

0:28:35.200 --> 0:28:38.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm not a young person going to middle school and

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<v Speaker 1>high school right now, right whose fear is so much

0:28:43.400 --> 0:28:47.200
<v Speaker 1>more compounded in terms of what they are experiencing. I

0:28:47.240 --> 0:28:50.440
<v Speaker 1>can choose not to go to set place or choose

0:28:50.480 --> 0:28:52.720
<v Speaker 1>not to do So what does it mean these days

0:28:52.880 --> 0:28:55.840
<v Speaker 1>for us to be possibility models? And how can we

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<v Speaker 1>show up more at a time. As LGBTQ plus adult

0:29:00.320 --> 0:29:03.719
<v Speaker 1>and those that are you know, quote unquote professionally gay

0:29:03.960 --> 0:29:07.520
<v Speaker 1>doing this work, how do we show up for our youth?

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to make sure we're not forgetting about them, right.

0:29:12.640 --> 0:29:15.640
<v Speaker 1>I think so often it's easy when we become a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more comfortable and who we are, to forget

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:21.840
<v Speaker 1>about the people who are who we've left behind sort

0:29:21.840 --> 0:29:24.880
<v Speaker 1>of speak. And I think that with organizations like the

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<v Speaker 1>Trevor Project and with us individually, will make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>that will not happen for us. Right. I want to

0:29:30.440 --> 0:29:33.360
<v Speaker 1>admit that I also am afraid. Yeah, right. I think

0:29:33.480 --> 0:29:36.680
<v Speaker 1>fear is such a valid emotion that many times we

0:29:36.720 --> 0:29:40.400
<v Speaker 1>attempt to go over or push to the side, But

0:29:40.600 --> 0:29:43.960
<v Speaker 1>it is a it is a healthy emotion, and it

0:29:44.080 --> 0:29:46.840
<v Speaker 1>is one that is a real emotion. So you know,

0:29:46.880 --> 0:29:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I always say we don't have to lie in sack.

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<v Speaker 1>We should not lie to young people when we are

0:29:52.640 --> 0:29:56.800
<v Speaker 1>feeling these exact feelings and thoughts. I also believe right

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<v Speaker 1>that when it comes to these coordinated attacks, have to

0:30:00.360 --> 0:30:02.239
<v Speaker 1>all be on the same page as far as like

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<v Speaker 1>who the enemy ultimately is. Oftentimes say that you know

0:30:06.880 --> 0:30:10.200
<v Speaker 1>our opponents regardless of what we're looking at may hate

0:30:10.320 --> 0:30:13.400
<v Speaker 1>understandings of intersectionality, but they sure do know how to

0:30:13.480 --> 0:30:19.520
<v Speaker 1>attack issues intersectionally. Right. That's one of the things that

0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:21.480
<v Speaker 1>I try to focus on so much. It's like it's

0:30:21.520 --> 0:30:25.000
<v Speaker 1>not either or it is oftentimes both. And so how

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<v Speaker 1>are we doing? Are we offering lines to people? Are

0:30:27.440 --> 0:30:30.880
<v Speaker 1>we offering crisis services of people? Are we offering resources?

0:30:31.080 --> 0:30:33.280
<v Speaker 1>And then sometimes you know, you'll have to offer things

0:30:33.360 --> 0:30:36.280
<v Speaker 1>that may meet people's material conditions a little earlier. Are

0:30:36.280 --> 0:30:40.080
<v Speaker 1>you offering them housing and shelter and access to food

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<v Speaker 1>and healthcare? And so there are many things we can do.

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<v Speaker 1>I just always want to make clear to people that

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<v Speaker 1>we all have a role to play, and everyone's role

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<v Speaker 1>is going to look different person. You know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know what the future holds, and I think that

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<v Speaker 1>you know, tell me if I'm wrong. But in a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of ways, that kind of drives attempted suicides, right,

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<v Speaker 1>not being able to see outside of the present moment

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<v Speaker 1>that there is possibility, there is hope, and at a

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<v Speaker 1>time when we are all struggling to find hopefulness. Right, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I tell people on this show to not marinate a

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<v Speaker 1>misery like I do, right, to try and find avenues

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<v Speaker 1>of joy, to find those pockets of joy connection. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what is your recommendation just as a member you know

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<v Speaker 1>of the community and somebody like you said you are

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<v Speaker 1>scared as I am scared, right, Like you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>always show up on the front lines for black trans

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<v Speaker 1>women that are murdered at an unrelenting rate. That again

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<v Speaker 1>does not make the headlines in the way that these

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<v Speaker 1>horrible bills and these horrible massacres make. And so what

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<v Speaker 1>what advice do you have for people in order to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to hold on to their joy, to seek

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<v Speaker 1>their joy and also seek the care of community. I

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<v Speaker 1>love this question because so often the data is hard

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<v Speaker 1>to actually extrapolate. How do we find joy and balance?

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<v Speaker 1>And so for me at least, that oftentimes means disconnecting

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm able to do so. Right, we can't just

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<v Speaker 1>sit with the reality of attacks every single day. We

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<v Speaker 1>have to, if we're able to do so, find an

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<v Speaker 1>outlet to joy, whether that's singing and dancing, whether that's

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<v Speaker 1>watching a movie right, whether that's writing or journaling, whether

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<v Speaker 1>that's drawing. Like, joy does not have to cost money, right,

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<v Speaker 1>there are so many ways we can connect with other

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<v Speaker 1>people with community members, right, So I think sometimes it

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<v Speaker 1>starts local most times, and start local, right, That means

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<v Speaker 1>it can start at home, at school, or in your community.

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<v Speaker 1>And again it's on all of us to create these

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<v Speaker 1>like more accepting environments. And the Term of Project even

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<v Speaker 1>has data that show at least one supportive person can

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<v Speaker 1>reduce thoughts of suicide considering suicide by forty five to percent.

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<v Speaker 1>So len mean just one person could actually make someone

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<v Speaker 1>think differently about their life or attempting or considering by

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<v Speaker 1>upwards of forty to forty five percent, And that is

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<v Speaker 1>a huge deal, because we know a little support can

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<v Speaker 1>go a long way and help save a young person's life.

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<v Speaker 1>And it will be remiss for me to not also

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<v Speaker 1>saying surely about research and what it show in terms

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<v Speaker 1>of youth of marginalized identities, and how many of us

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<v Speaker 1>experienced disapportionate rates of mental health challenges like bullying and

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<v Speaker 1>suicide risk and these things that may seem to bring

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<v Speaker 1>about lack of hope and despair, But it's because of

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<v Speaker 1>It's not because of who they are, right, It was

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<v Speaker 1>never because of who we are as queer people, but

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<v Speaker 1>because of how society, yes, right, how lawmakers sometimes treat

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<v Speaker 1>us how community members treat us, which of course drives stigma.

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<v Speaker 1>It drives discrimination, it drives criminalization, and to your point,

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<v Speaker 1>it drives thoughts of suicide and maybe even attempts of suicide.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that is why I always want to go

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<v Speaker 1>back to we all have a role to play, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So oftentimes people make it about parties, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for me, I'm not there. I am at a point

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<v Speaker 1>where I recognize that every single person has a role

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<v Speaker 1>to play, and surely we could argue that some do

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<v Speaker 1>better than others, but at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody needs to do better to support LGBTQ youth. Preston Mitcham,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for the work that you do,

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<v Speaker 1>for the work that you do with the Trevor Project,

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<v Speaker 1>for the work that you do on social media, for

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<v Speaker 1>the work that we have done over the decades together.

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<v Speaker 1>I just genuinely appreciate you, and I hope that you

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<v Speaker 1>will join us again and we wish you a happy pride.

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