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Speaker 1: Second date update. If you're a guy, you go out

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Speaker 1: forget to ask her about a second one. What's your

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Speaker 1: next course of action?

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Speaker 2: There?

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Speaker 1: You send her a simp text like, Hey, I like you?

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Speaker 3: Why is that.

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Speaker 1: We should talk again? Sometimes you text that's super simp,

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Speaker 1: it's not. Do you call her a year ago and beautiful?

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Speaker 1: Do you call her fifteen times at her work and

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Speaker 1: demand she pick up the phone because you two have

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Speaker 1: unfinished business. Now we're talking, and this is the business

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Speaker 1: you have to answer.

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Speaker 3: Is that the real man in you talking right now?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean I personally I would say both those options

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Speaker 1: as what our listener Daily did.

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Speaker 3: Oh you're just already beating and it.

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Speaker 1: Could be contributing to why this girl has been avoiding

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Speaker 1: him lately. So Daily, before we get to what you did,

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Speaker 1: you need to set the scene for us. Tell us

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Speaker 4: Well, her name's Crewdett.

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Speaker 3: That's cool.

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Speaker 4: We met on a bicycle factory tour.

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Speaker 1: What did you just say, bicycle factory tour.

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Speaker 3: It's a thing, and I sign up.

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Speaker 4: There's one in my city that there's like a big

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Speaker 4: so you can like go have some drinks, go look

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Speaker 4: at bikes drunk, and then basically go back and have drinks.

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Speaker 1: So you get to go do stuff but observe how

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Speaker 1: all the stuff you're doing was made.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so fun. And beers and bikes just go together.

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Speaker 3: A lot of bike and beer bars.

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Speaker 1: Shouldn't be because you shouldn't. Those probably aren't hobbies that

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Speaker 3: Helmet on.

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Speaker 1: There you go. You were already taking a tour there

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Speaker 4: Yeah, my friends and I kind of hit the brewery

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Speaker 4: and then we were doing the tour, and then in

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Speaker 4: the group of the tour, Crudette was with her mom,

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Speaker 4: so we all kind of just like started joking around

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Speaker 4: We were like became like a group of friends. Basically,

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: I bet her mom is eating this up. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: did if a guy ever hit on me with my

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Speaker 3: with a group of young guys around. She immediately texted

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Speaker 3: She doesn't give me details.

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Speaker 1: So at any point are you able to just be

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Speaker 4: It gets to that. So like at the end of

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Speaker 4: so I was like, hey, let's go back over to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you never see her pop the tires on, mom

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Speaker 4: Well, I didn't do that.

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Speaker 1: What was your genius idea?

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Speaker 4: So I actually just ran out to the parking lot

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Speaker 3: I can't ask you for a playdate.

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Speaker 1: Because it's still bold, yes, that of the parents respectful

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Speaker 4: Her mom was cool with it. She was cool with it,

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Speaker 1: They had to figure it out, like, come on, here's

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Speaker 3: You you got to stay for a little in case

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Speaker 4: Getting to that because I got her number, so I

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Speaker 3: How did that come out of your mouth?

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Speaker 4: It just slipped.

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Speaker 1: I don't know you were you drunk from the brewery?

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Speaker 4: No, this is like the next day.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, I love drunk from the brewery.

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Speaker 3: You use it like a man. I love you, you

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Speaker 2: I didn't even go on the date, and that's like she.

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Speaker 2: I would have called back immediately and left another voice

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Speaker 1: Alexis if a guy does this to you, says I

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Speaker 3: You can't even call after a first date. That's weird

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Speaker 3: in the first time the same day, that is so strange.

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Speaker 3: Next day so she knows all this. I feel sad

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Speaker 1: She hasn't responded at all since that voicemail.

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Speaker 4: No, and I'm and I wanted to call again, but

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Speaker 3: Here's a question, when we get her on the phone,

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Speaker 1: You know what, some people never check their voicemails.

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Speaker 2: You always read I always read the transcript, I don't listen,

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Speaker 1: The transcript every time, so she could have just literally

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Speaker 1: and try and get you your second date update coming

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Speaker 1: up right after this second date update. Welcome back to

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Speaker 1: your second date updates Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,

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Speaker 1: and we've been discussing off the air and on the

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Speaker 1: air previously. Should we bring up the voicemail that our

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Speaker 1: listener Daily left for Crew Debt after their first meet

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Speaker 1: up because he dropped in I love you in the

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Speaker 1: middle of the message, or did he I don't know, Daily,

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Speaker 1: did you mean to I.

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Speaker 4: Don't think so. I don't know, it just kind of

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Speaker 3: That's even sweeter response.

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Speaker 1: But feel for him. If she feels the same way,

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Speaker 1: it's creepy.

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Speaker 2: I know nobody feels the same way.

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Speaker 1: So we're trying to figure out what the reason is

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Speaker 1: and decided our best game plan is probably don't mention

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Speaker 3: Mean she'll bring it up. If it's yeah, we don't know.

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Speaker 1: Let's say that she does bring it up. Let's not

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Speaker 3: What do we do.

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Speaker 1: Let's just lean in and tell her daily only said

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Speaker 1: it to him first. It's happen.

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Speaker 2: That's exactly what that is.

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Speaker 3: That's gaslighting her doing. It's not super popular with women.

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Speaker 1: I don't fan, but if at the end of the

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Speaker 3: Just a whole lifetime of gaslighting.

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Speaker 4: I mean, there's better than nothing.

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Speaker 3: I guess that's the response.

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Speaker 1: Let's just hope it doesn't come up at all and

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Speaker 1: it's something totally unrelated to the voicemail. Maybe she hasn't

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Speaker 3: She's not that drunk at the brewery.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's find out. I'm gonna dial her number right now.

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Speaker 1: We'll see if she picks up. Here we go, Hey

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Speaker 1: is this crudette?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey, we're a morning radio show called Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: Hi. You know your name means tiny Italian sushi?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Does it? I just say I crudeo it was.

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Speaker 3: Bugging me so on the break, I was like, her

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Speaker 3: name isn't crude crudette, So a crude crudette would be

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Speaker 3: a small piece of Italian.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's cool. We're not just calling to tell you

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Speaker 1: a second meetup after you two hung out at a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounded like such a fun night.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, his name is Daily.

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, okay, wow.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, that's what this is about. What's called the second

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, has your mom been bugging you to

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Speaker 2: call him? My mom would be so invested.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we just we want to know less about your

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Speaker 1: get to your mom and her feelings later. We want

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Speaker 1: to know what you thought about your hangout with Daily.

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Speaker 5: I mean the hang out it was cool and you know,

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Speaker 5: like we had we had a good time.

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Speaker 1: Yes, those feelings.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what did you think when he came to the

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Speaker 2: and he like chased.

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Speaker 3: You guys down to get you to stay.

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Speaker 5: I mean I was a little a little intense, but honestly,

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Speaker 5: like six feet but it did get a crazy.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: The night did No, the night was fine. But did

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Speaker 5: he tell you guys about the voicemail you left me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Not voicemail?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: What's that?

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Speaker 3: What about the voicemail? Is maybe a good question?

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I don't know what is voicemail? Explain this to me.

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Speaker 5: It's the thing where you call somebody and they don't

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Speaker 5: answer and they leave them a message.

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Speaker 1: Why would anybody do that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you really tell him something?

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Speaker 5: And like, honestly, I was not expecting it at all.

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Speaker 3: You were expecting him to call you or you weren't

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, I figured he'd call me like we had

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Speaker 1: Are you sure? Maybe you misheard that. Maybe he said

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Speaker 3: Maybe that was it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love food?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 1: Is that possible?

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Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure he said I love you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, how did you receive.

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Speaker 5: That, So it was super intense, but not for the

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Speaker 5: I I kind of feel the same way.

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Speaker 1: What how did I not expect that you reciprocate those feelings?

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Speaker 3: Shut up?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I know it's crazy and like what

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Speaker 4: Then?

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Speaker 5: Look, the guy called me yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that happened yesterday.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I've been trying to figure out how to

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Speaker 4: I mean, this is crazy.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, you known percent.

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Speaker 5: Of the time I would be totally creeped out, you know, like,

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Speaker 3: This is so cute. Okay, we're forgetting that it hasn't

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Speaker 5: I honestly haven't told her any of this.

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Speaker 3: Are the first people that you're telling this to.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I you know, I do have a best

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Speaker 1: But you, well, I know, you think that you've only

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Speaker 5: My god, are you serious?

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Speaker 4: Daily? Bye?

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Speaker 3: Hie?

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Speaker 4: So are you saying you feel strongly about me? Also?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I I I I know this is insane. I

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Speaker 1: Huh what? Yeah, Daily? How does it feel to hear

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Speaker 4: It just it kind of feels off. It feels just

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Speaker 1: Is it?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: Is it kind of freaky to you? It's too much?

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Speaker 5: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. It just it just felt better when

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's because she said it fast, saying that she

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Speaker 3: She's just trying to say what you said.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, I know, I know. It's just a

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Speaker 1: Okay, started it? Is it? Maybe because it was said

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Speaker 4: I didn't want to use that word. But yeah, I

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Speaker 4: I think bigger than it ever could have been.

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Speaker 2: No matter what she said, I mean, no matter what,

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Speaker 3: I think that's what you should concentrate on.

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Speaker 1: Like the L word is a lot like and maybe

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Speaker 1: you just need to say it again one more time

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Speaker 1: because now the shock has worn off. Now it'll really

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Speaker 5: I think I'm good on the L word for now.

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Speaker 1: Are do I feel good? This time?

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Speaker 3: It was a smart call. Yeah, alets was gonna have

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, maybe you guys save it for when

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Speaker 5: I mean, I am, and you are.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm not going out with you.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be daily. You have to go out again.

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Speaker 3: You guys are so cute.

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Speaker 4: I'd be cool with it. I don't know, it just

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Speaker 1: Sure, it doesn't feel as as heartwarming anymore from Daily's part.

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Speaker 3: Nor that part. I need some love in my life

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Speaker 3: right now.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I guess I can understand, like you kind of

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Speaker 1: And that's kind of what true love is. What Brook

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Speaker 1: you're living it right now, the total letdown, that's true love.

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Speaker 1: That's why you're so desperate for it. Literally said, I

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Speaker 1: bump of love. So we'd like to facilitate that again. Daily,

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Speaker 1: You're you're up for it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh absolutely, Okay, okay, that's really sweet.

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Speaker 1: All right, congratulations you. I love you both.

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Speaker 4: Oh thank you.

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Speaker 3: It was not reciprocated brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: It's the classic story. Guy meets girl, guy likes girl.

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Speaker 1: Guy leaves a voicemail for girls saying I love you.

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Speaker 1: Girl ruins it by saying it back to him. Then

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Speaker 1: desperate married radio host gets disappointed because she doesn't have

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Speaker 1: enough love in her home life. Oh, as old as

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Speaker 1: time money Jack, but mostly for yourself. Oh.

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Speaker 2: I think they were so cute, and I totally get

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Speaker 3: All of it was way overwhelming.

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Speaker 1: They're even overwhelmed the feelings are happening.

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Speaker 2: Totally imagine how awkward that next meetup in person is

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Speaker 3: I guarantee you they're going to handshake.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so good. This is why I respect Alexis

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Speaker 1: because she would never say I love you back, not

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Speaker 1: even to her husband of twenty years.

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Speaker 3: Keep weigh in.

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Speaker 1: That's the way you win the dating.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I'll text to l U vow you like him

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Speaker 2: real emotionally unavailable.

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Speaker 1: That's right during the vows. It's like my heart handy.

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Speaker 3: That's really healthy.

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Speaker 1: Jeff close to the chess ladies.

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Speaker 3: We better get an update from.

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Speaker 1: Them, so we'll find out if they email us back.

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Speaker 1: But you can always email the show if you want

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Speaker 1: some help with your love life, and we'll call that

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Speaker 1: person who's not calling you back. Go check out all

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Speaker 1: of our Second Date podcast wherever you get yours Abrook

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey

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Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning