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Speaker 2: You know, on dating apps now, where the average decent

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Speaker 2: looking woman gets two thousand matches per day, and that's

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Speaker 2: like two thousand guys messaging her and complimenting her, trying

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Speaker 2: to take her out. It's more important than ever for

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Speaker 2: guys to be creative and witty when they're talking, or

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Speaker 2: at least google something creative and witty and then copy

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Speaker 3: So it's like, Hi, how are you not enough?

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Speaker 1: Oh you're getting blocked?

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Speaker 4: Stop stop yeah no all lower case letters ew.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But that's exactly what happened to one of our

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Speaker 2: listeners May recently when she matched with a guy online

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Speaker 2: named Doug, and their conversation apparently got pretty interesting, but

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Speaker 2: his first line was just straight up asking her out.

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Speaker 2: And May, what did you immediately notice from Doug's dating profile, Well,

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Speaker 5: A couple funny things on his profile. In his pictures,

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Speaker 5: he had a woman in it.

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Speaker 3: WI.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a bold thing on a dating app, like

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Speaker 5: No, it seemed like like maybe a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Or girls do this too. And you know, I always

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Speaker 1: slept left. I'm like, why would your main profile be

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Speaker 3: To prove that you can actually go out with someone.

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Speaker 1: So what did you write back when you saw that

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Speaker 1: there's another woman in his pictures?

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Speaker 5: I frankly said, is your girlfriend going to be okay

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Speaker 4: I can't believe you still wrote him back, you know,

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Speaker 4: but like, okay.

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Speaker 1: Give me back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good to call somebody out to ye like, hey,

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Speaker 2: you know, did he have a response.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he responded that he doesn't have a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well I would believe him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 2: Just trust just whatever guys say, and all the time,

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Speaker 4: So who is the woman? What did he say she was?

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Speaker 4: What was the explanation?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 5: So I obviously asked, who's this woman in the photo?

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Speaker 5: And he responds, Oh, that's my wife, but we're just friends.

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Speaker 7: With a laughing emoji.

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Speaker 2: Jo it's called sarcasm and sarcasm he doubled.

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Speaker 4: Down to down like's so.

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Speaker 1: That or did you think it was funny?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 5: I thought it was funny. I obviously knew it was

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Speaker 4: Explain the joke after he said it.

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Speaker 3: So that's cool though, So you guys are on the

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I really liked his humor. And he did this

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Speaker 5: other thing that I thought was really funny too, is

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Speaker 5: you know, he was telling me that dating apps are

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Speaker 5: really hard for guys, and in his experience, it's been tough. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: he's ghosted so many times.

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Speaker 2: Sorry to say that he's been ghosted or he has

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Speaker 5: He said that he's been ghosts.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but he.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. He sent me a photo of him at a

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Speaker 4: Oh, it's funny.

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Speaker 2: I think he's being self deprecating, saying, like, see, nobody

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Speaker 4: It's a dangerous area to tread because at some point

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Speaker 4: it will start to make you look kind.

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Speaker 3: You know how hard you going?

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Speaker 2: Well, how many people showed up to my birthday party?

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Speaker 1: I'm alone?

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Speaker 2: Brook just helped me realize it's probably my problem. You

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean you have to get somebody's attension. You know,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Well so you did you guys end

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Speaker 4: And what was that like the first time you saw

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Speaker 5: It was nice. I mean he seemed really nice, a

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Speaker 4: Because he was so bold and sarcastic.

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Speaker 1: He's writing.

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Speaker 5: But I mean it was fun. He seemed like a

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Speaker 1: What's the reputation?

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Speaker 4: Are you kidding?

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Speaker 1: They're talented?

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Speaker 4: No, I'm not talking about parody songs.

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Speaker 1: I think he's a keeper. Don't let this one go.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I thought it was cool. I really enjoyed the conversation.

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Speaker 5: I thought we really got along. We even kissed at

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Speaker 1: Who and musicians never can wow? Okay, so what's happened

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Speaker 5: I honestly just haven't really been able to get a

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Speaker 1: Is he ghost you, the irony that he's the one

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's a weird thing. Like he's like talking

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Speaker 5: I just want to quickly correct myself. I'm not able

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's not totally silent.

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Speaker 5: I mean, the thing is, I have a lot of options.

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Speaker 4: Or right, like like there's always some truth in every joke, right,

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Speaker 4: Maybe he's just so used to being ghosted he doesn't

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Speaker 1: She's like, let's go out again. He's like, don't mock me. Yeah, Okay,

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Speaker 1: We'll find out. We'll come back call him and try

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Speaker 1: and get your second date update.

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Speaker 2: Right now, second date update, if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 2: We're on the phone with one of our listeners, May

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Speaker 2: who in her own words, is a woman with lots

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Speaker 2: and lots of other male options online.

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Speaker 4: I mean, so she's a woman.

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Speaker 1: Yes, she is quite the woman.

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Speaker 2: Her bumble hinge notifications are blowing up on the rag.

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Speaker 2: But she's not thinking about all those other dudes Thurston

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Speaker 2: after her and her picks. She's thinking about one guy

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Speaker 2: who went on one day with her and immediately got

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Speaker 3: Even though Doug went on and on about how terrible

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Speaker 2: Him, which has may worried that maybe he actually might

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Speaker 3: It's one of those things where he's like, well, I.

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Speaker 2: Told her, how mad would you be if we get

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Speaker 2: is his wife?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Not as upset as his wife would be. I'm just

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Speaker 2: Who would be angrier his wife maybe we'll find out

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Speaker 1: Here we make it a really angry Texan. Wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: my husband. But now let's just call it Doug and

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Speaker 5: I am?

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Speaker 1: Okay, good job, Jeff.

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Speaker 6: Here we go.

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Speaker 7: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey, is this Doug?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: This is Doug.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Doug, you don't have to sound so skeptical. It's okay,

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Speaker 2: nothing sinister going on on our end. We're just a

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Speaker 4: Hey, Doug, what's.

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Speaker 7: What's going on here?

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Speaker 2: What's going on is a segment we do called the

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Speaker 2: Second Date Update, and you're gonna be our featured star

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Speaker 2: for the day.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't believe you, Doug.

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Speaker 6: He's honest.

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Speaker 2: I think you're more excited than you're letting on because

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Speaker 2: listeners who you've already been out on a date with,

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Speaker 2: and she just wants to see you one more time.

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Speaker 1: Her name's May.

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Speaker 7: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she sounds darling, and it sounds like you guys

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Speaker 4: had a great time together.

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Speaker 1: Yes, with all the noises, Doug, she's into you. That's

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Speaker 1: that's a good thing.

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Speaker 4: I thought dating was so hard for you, Like, this

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Speaker 1: You got one.

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Speaker 7: I was like, you guys know a lot about me.

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Speaker 2: Well, we've heard some stuff from you. From May herself,

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Speaker 2: she we asked her to describe your date and she

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Speaker 2: had glowing reviews.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, she said you're really funny, and.

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Speaker 1: She thought your profile's funny too.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, she talked about the profile.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it came up, yeah, that you had a funny

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Speaker 4: Well, we asked because we thought that the girl was

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Speaker 4: a ready Yeah, yeah, you should change that.

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Speaker 1: That's not the reason why we call.

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Speaker 2: We're not calling to criticize your dating profile though, yeah

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Speaker 2: we could, But now we're we're really focused on May

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Speaker 2: because she's really confused.

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Speaker 1: She wants to see you. She feels like she's been

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Speaker 1: reaching out trying to arrange a date and you keep

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Speaker 4: Is she reading that right?

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Speaker 7: I mean she does keep suggesting nights, you know.

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Speaker 1: Unless you're not into her, if there's some other problem.

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Speaker 7: That's two Friday night. She asked to see my band

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Speaker 8: She wants to come to me and perform and like

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Speaker 1: That's nice, you have a show.

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Speaker 4: She's even interested in, like your hobbies.

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Speaker 1: Why you're saying it like it's a bad thing.

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Speaker 5: I don't, I don't, I don't.

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Speaker 7: I didn't even know how to answer her, Like, what

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Speaker 7: do you mean?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 7: She was even asking for a one on one concert

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Speaker 2: That's her flirting with you, Doug. That means she wants

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Speaker 5: On a stage in my house.

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Speaker 3: Too much pressure.

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Speaker 1: You probably have to put on an entire concert. She

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Speaker 4: I don't think she cares about the basic bro.

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Speaker 7: Oh, there's pressure when like she thinks that I know

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Speaker 8: A band, Like I'm not.

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Speaker 7: I'm not really musical at all.

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Speaker 1: You said you're not a page. You told her that

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Speaker 7: Well, I need something to sound cool like and make

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Speaker 4: You chose do something that you actually do. I'm sure

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Speaker 7: Yeah, there's cool things about me, like, but you gotta

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean I get it, Like you're in a

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Speaker 4: it's a lot of pressure, you're having a hard time dating,

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Speaker 4: like with the apps and stuff. You want to stand out,

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Speaker 4: and then suddenly this lie is snowballing, is what it

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and I really liked her and I didn't know

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Speaker 5: She looked.

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Speaker 2: That's why you're not getting this date because she's asking

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Speaker 2: based on the lie that you've told her that you're

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Speaker 3: But that's a lot better lie than he was married.

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Speaker 2: It really is.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's kind of cute.

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Speaker 4: You're trying to impress her, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, And that's that's a rough lie to go with, though,

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Speaker 2: Like if you're not in a band, how are you

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Speaker 3: The panicked Jeff Okay came to mind.

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Speaker 7: Is gonna go with that? Or be a Formula one

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Speaker 2: That is?

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Speaker 3: Those jackets are brilliant style right now for girls.

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Speaker 1: And a guy that lives dangerously on the race track.

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Speaker 2: Had no Americans watch, so you could say you're like

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Speaker 2: from France, that's that one.

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Speaker 7: At least I could have said I was in an

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Speaker 7: off season right.

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Speaker 3: Now, just driving your kia around.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I've heard enough.

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Speaker 1: Oh you have what?

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Speaker 7: What? What?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Doug, he didn't know. That's May who's been listening

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Speaker 3: To being honest now, whether you wanted to or not.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, look, I'm I'm sorry.

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Speaker 8: Like you were like so pretty and then cool and

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Speaker 8: like I just I wanted you to like me. I

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Speaker 8: just I felt like I had to say something cool.

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Speaker 5: You know, that's really sweet. But also we've spent half

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Speaker 5: of the time I'm on our first date talking about

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Speaker 5: your band.

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Speaker 4: WoT bro.

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Speaker 7: Here's the thing though, like immediately after already, like I

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Speaker 7: signed up for piano lessons.

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Speaker 4: Can't count the band not quite as sexy, usually the

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Speaker 4: least sexy of a band as a keyboardist.

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Speaker 1: But did you say you played guitar in the band though, Doug.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but the guitar lessons were more.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play the triangle.

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Speaker 5: May.

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Speaker 4: Do you feel like you know anything about him?

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Speaker 5: I know, like a couple of things about where he

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Speaker 5: grew up, and look, it was just the band thing,

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Speaker 5: like everything else was real.

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Speaker 1: Do you hear that everything else he said was real,

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Speaker 1: like the wife and his photos.

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Speaker 7: No, no, not that.

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Speaker 5: Everything else except for that I don't need any big,

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Speaker 5: fancy career or any you know, super impressive hobby. I'm

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Speaker 5: just looking for a really genuine, funny person.

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Speaker 4: And besides, Doug, do you know that when she told

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Speaker 4: us about the band, Alexis and I were both.

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Speaker 3: Like red flag. It's true, red Flag. You can't trust

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Speaker 7: And girls always loved mad boys in.

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Speaker 2: Band, but not for long my friend, would you honestly

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Speaker 2: have been interested in him if he did not say

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Speaker 5: Yeah? The thing that attracted me to him was his

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Speaker 5: humor and that he was funny.

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Speaker 3: Well did he come up with a good band name?

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Speaker 3: Maybe he had a funny band name?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he did the Chick a Noodle TU check out.

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Speaker 1: I like it at the very least.

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Speaker 2: May just talking to him now, he seems like a nice,

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Speaker 1: He is coming clean.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And Doug, I'm going to give you twenty seconds

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Speaker 2: here to say your final piece before we offer to

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Speaker 2: send you guys out on a date.

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Speaker 1: What do you want to say to May?

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Speaker 6: I just I should have been up front. I'm super sorry.

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Speaker 6: If you give me a second chance, I'll just anything

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Speaker 6: you want to know, straight honest truth, and I'll bet

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Speaker 6: my goofy normal self and you can either like me

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Speaker 6: for that or not.

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Speaker 4: That's good.

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Speaker 2: Plus we're going to offer to pay to send you

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Speaker 2: guys out on another date May.

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Speaker 1: So what do you say?

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Speaker 5: I will say that I do not like liars, and

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Speaker 5: I also am very attracted to people who are super

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Speaker 5: secure with themselves and who they are. However, I really

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Speaker 5: enjoyed talking to you, and so I will give you

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Speaker 5: a second chance.

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Speaker 1: Person. Yes, okay, so.

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Speaker 5: Yes, no, no, it's yes, I want to go and

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Speaker 5: it's like.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so to say, she's so excited to see you again.

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Speaker 2: She can't wait to hear your first piano lesson once

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Speaker 2: you figure it out.

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Speaker 7: Yes, man, you have no idea having this liar back

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Speaker 7: out less stressed.

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Speaker 5: I feel that's really sweet.

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Speaker 7: We can get together on Friday if you want.

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Speaker 4: Piano lessons and weekdays and your wife's cool with that dog.

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Speaker 7: Yes, my wife

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Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,