1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: What's your type. It's a jewel show. Everybody has those 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 1: things that they look for in potential partners. For example, 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: if you're a convicted felon, that can be a huge 4 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 1: turn off or a huge turn on for someone else. 5 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: It's a kink or a great sense of humor. That 6 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: depends too. What do you find funny? Right? Right? Is funny? 7 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:21,639 Speaker 1: Like actual content that is funny, or someone who doesn't 8 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 1: care about the content as long as there's an overly loud, 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: inappropriate time laugh track in the background, you know, like funny. 10 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: It's different times. It doesn't. But some people think that anyway, 11 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 1: some people's dating life is so non existent they're just 12 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: happy to find someone who breathe and has a heart 13 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,599 Speaker 1: that beats. Yeah. Anyway, a survey ask people what qualities 14 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: they look for in a potential partner, and the number 15 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: one answer is going to surprise you because it's not 16 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: even about the person or anything emotional or anything really 17 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: that has to do with a relationship. That's kind of sad. Yeah, 18 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:53,319 Speaker 1: it is, if you think about it, we'll go over 19 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 1: some of the other ones. I'll tell you what number 20 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: one is in just a second. I text in four 21 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: one or six one what do you look for in 22 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: a potential partner. Here are some of the top answers 23 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 1: from this survey, similar hobbies as you. Forty points seven 24 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,320 Speaker 1: percent of people said they look for that. One's very 25 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 1: obvious to me. Yeah, I mean, if you're not going 26 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:11,320 Speaker 1: to do the same stuff as me, then obviously you're 27 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: not gonna be my girlfriends. Right. But there are those 28 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: couples out there who don't do anything together, which I 29 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: find very odd. It is super weird. Who doesn't want 30 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: to spend time with theirs? I know, well, every relationship 31 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: that I've had before Alex, Alex and I rare, by 32 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 1: the way, you didn't know that not great relationships, right. 33 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: I learned bad relationship cycles from my horrible household growing up, 34 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 1: and I carried those through my life until now. And 35 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 1: it feels pretty good to not have those. So if 36 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 1: you have those, drop them. But anyway, those relationship I 37 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 1: never want to spend any time with them. I would 38 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 1: try to find other things to do. I would spend 39 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 1: a lot of all the time with them though, because codependency, 40 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: but whatever, But I was not happy. When you're actually happy, 41 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: you do want to spend all of your time with 42 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: a person like Alex and I do everything together well. 43 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: And people always make fun of relationships too, where the 44 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: significant others are like they say, oh, we're best friends, 45 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: but like, actually, it's so nice when you are best friends. 46 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: It makes a relationship so much better totally. And I 47 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: used to hate on those people all the time. I 48 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: used to hate on them every single time. Yeah, right, 49 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: your best friends were okay, whatever, No you're not. Actually, 50 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:09,959 Speaker 1: if you find the person that's right for you, can't 51 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: be us friends Because Alex is my best friend. We 52 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: do like I said, we do everything together and it's awesome. Yeah, 53 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 1: we change actually want to spend all the time together. God, 54 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: we don't want to hang all our friends. But I'm like, no, 55 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: let's hanging with each other. Yea, I have the most fun. Okay. 56 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: The number two answer though, on the list of things 57 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: that people look for in a potential partner, remember number 58 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,839 Speaker 1: one has nothing to do with anything really relationship, which 59 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: is weird. The number two answer, which is very important 60 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 1: in a relationship. Sixty two point six percent of people 61 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 1: who took to survey say they want someone trustworthy. They 62 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 1: look for someone trustworthy. That's very high for me. Again, yeah, 63 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: of course, don't you want to trust your partner. I'm 64 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 1: just gonna leave it at that so we can get 65 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 1: right to the next one, because I want you to remember, 66 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: trust is number two what people are looking for in 67 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: a potential partner, the number one thing, according to this survey, 68 00:02:56,200 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 1: that everybody wants from a potential partner. Yeah, a good cook. 69 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: Oh so it's like, I mean, they might cheat on me. 70 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: But also have you tasted the souffle they made yesterday? 71 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:16,519 Speaker 1: So out of all those things, be kind, honest, respect, 72 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: and humor. Trustworthy is number two over a good cook. 73 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:24,119 Speaker 1: That's how much people like don't trust other people. It's 74 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,239 Speaker 1: just the norm. That is sad. Yeah, but my girlfriend 75 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: not ranking very highly on number one. Oh no cook. 76 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: I know it's bad to say, but she is. Well 77 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: hopefully she's got the trust thing she doesn't have to trust. 78 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: That was just crazy to me when I thought, I 79 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: was like, okay, so that is how much we like food. 80 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: I don't care if I don't trust my partner. Like 81 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: if I could just meet a chef, I would even 82 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: just change my sexual preference. It doesn't matter. If I 83 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: could meet a Michelin chef, I would be so happy 84 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: and love Okay, which by the way, speaking of chefs, 85 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: why do you only meet and male chefs? But the 86 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,119 Speaker 1: stereotypical norm is that woman should be able to cook. 87 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: So weird. I think it's because of like corporate America. 88 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: So like corporate America obviously, like they have this backwards 89 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: thing of where they value men more so then like 90 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: they have the more like high ranking chef jobs. I've 91 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: never understood that. Yeah, and then there's the stereotype from dudes, 92 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 1: like ignorant dudes that are like, I'm not cooking. I'm 93 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: I'm not a chick, I don't cook. But then they'll 94 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 1: be like that Gordon Ramsey guys dope, Right, he's a 95 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 1: cook and a guy, yeah, and a dude and you 96 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:33,479 Speaker 1: like him. Like, it's just weird to me. I don't 97 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 1: understand it either. Well, there you go. If you're not 98 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 1: happy a relationship but at least they're a good cook, 99 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: then it seems like you're like everybody else in this country. 100 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 1: If your phone break is coming up in just a 101 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: few minutes, it's a duple show.