1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: Okay, so we were just talking about some cheating at 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: least emotional, but uh, we actually have a caller coming 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: in with our. 4 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 2: Own cheating story. 5 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: Okay, so let's read the transcript if you want to 6 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 1: call it with your own story called four four zero 7 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: five or eight six five sixty seven. So my very 8 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: first husband, I've been married twice. So my very first 9 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: husband was a pretty remarkable man. Even though he was 10 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 1: really super into fashion. I probably should have known something up. 11 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: Oh no, simple fact that he designed everything in our 12 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: entire wedding, including my wedding dress and my engagement ring. 13 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: I mean, boom here got style. I mean hey, at 14 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: least he, you know, just had great design skills. He 15 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: picked out the flower arrangements and everything. So, after spending 16 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: several years in Latin America as volunteers, my first husband 17 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: and I came back to the US and I went 18 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: quickly back to school at Baltimore City Community College. Well 19 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: I was there, I would attend classes. Well he was 20 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: going to work as a teacher. And one I go 21 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: to school and it was a student's day. So there 22 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: was all these carnival games, there was free food and 23 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: a lot of other things going on. But classes were canceled, 24 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:11,680 Speaker 1: and since I was a little older than most of 25 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: the kids that had gone to college there, I decided 26 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:16,960 Speaker 1: I was going to go back home. And when I 27 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: got back home, I was like, Oh, I'm going to 28 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: make some dinner, I'm going to clean the house. I'm 29 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: going to have everything ready for when my husband gets 30 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: out of school, because he was a high school teacher 31 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:28,680 Speaker 1: at the time. And I get into my apartment and 32 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: I start hearing some strange noises and I walked to 33 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: our bedroom where I find my husband on the receiving 34 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: end of some homosexual pleasure. I left two days later, 35 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 1: which was the first day I could get a bus 36 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 1: ticket home. Call me if you have any questions. Wow, 37 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: I have questions. And the thing I want to know 38 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 1: is are there any more red flags that you see? 39 00:01:56,600 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 2: Now? Yeah, that's kind of well, let's see if they 40 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 2: pick up. 41 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 3: Let's find out. Hey, if we call you gotta pick up, 42 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 3: you gotta do it. 43 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: You gotta pick up. Wow, I want to know. I 44 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 2: have so many questions. Yeah, yeah, what what are some 45 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 2: of your questions? 46 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: Well, I want to know one what she said when 47 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: she caught him, to have any conversations post like just 48 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 1: breaking up, did they ever talk again? And three, now 49 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: that she knows the truth, what were the red flags beforehand? 50 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:41,079 Speaker 2: Yeah? 51 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 4: I wonder, like, because you know, we've we've read lots 52 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 4: of stories that involve divorce, and it seems pretty varied 53 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 4: in terms of like, sometimes people are literally just be 54 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:52,359 Speaker 4: able to be like I sign a piece of paper 55 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 4: and it's done. Other times there's like all these massive 56 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 4: complications like a home and joint bank accounts and like 57 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 4: ending all this time and money to get divorced. So, like, 58 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 4: I wonder if hopefully a thing like this, like catching 59 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 4: catching your partner cheating is literally like you know, and 60 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 4: low key having evidence that he probably never loved you, 61 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 4: potentially potentially by Yeah, he could be by so it's 62 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 4: it's not one hundred percent guaranteed, But yeah. 63 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: I would love to know the fallout of this. I 64 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: need more info. We might get a call back from 65 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: Ope and Sarah, hopefully by the end of this episode, 66 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: so stay tuned. Yes, but uh, what do you think 67 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: Op should do? Do you think Op should go no 68 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: contact with the ex essman? I think that's pretty no 69 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: contact worthy. But we've also read a lot of stories where. 70 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 4: The person, like in this case, the husband was like, 71 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 4: you know, maybe the fan he would be exiled from 72 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 4: the family or maybe even be in danger. So you know, 73 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 4: there there's reasons and and to be empathetic to that 74 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 4: I think is great. But I think you can also 75 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 4: are totally entitled to say, like, hey, I do truly 76 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 4: wish you the best, but like I need to like 77 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 4: move on with my life and find someone dis myself 78 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 4: be a loving partner. 79 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, so let us know what. 80 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: You think OPI should do, and hopefully we'll be able 81 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: to find out by the end of this episode. That's 82 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 1: I hear you have another calling episode for us. 83 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 2: I guess I do. 84 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 4: And again, if you want to call in your story, 85 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 4: it's four ur zero five six five sixty seven. So 86 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 4: Liz says, my extreated on me with the high schooler. Okay, 87 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 4: so hi, Hi, Hey Liz. This story happened about ten 88 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 4: years ago. But I was dating my high school sweetheart, 89 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 4: the tragic tragic irony. Oh man, we will call him 90 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,559 Speaker 4: Opie left her heart in high school. I guess, oh 91 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 4: God or not op I guess oh this guy, this guy, 92 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:48,720 Speaker 4: we will call him Bob, just for privacy's sake. But 93 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 4: Bob and I were in high school sweethearts. But Bob 94 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 4: and I we were together in high school. 95 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: He did break up with me right after I graduated, 96 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 1: though he is two years younger than me, and back 97 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 1: then we got back together when I was in the 98 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: middle of college. He was working at a pizza delivery 99 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 1: joint at the time, and there was this one girl there. 100 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 2: A high school girl I'm imagining. 101 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 1: And she was the classic girl that you were told 102 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: not to worry about. Oh no, but at the time 103 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: she was sixteen. Oh, this is very important. He was 104 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: twenty three, not a good luck dude. Again, this girl 105 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 1: was sixteen. We will call her Abby. So I was 106 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: always told by Bob, don't worry about Abby. Don't worry 107 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: about Abby. She's like a little sister to me. 108 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 2: Oh god Jesus. 109 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 4: We were together for two and a half years. He 110 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 4: had proposed to me on my birthday. He proposed because 111 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 4: he forgot about my birthday. 112 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, that's actually kind of smart because then 113 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: you get a two for one birthday and anniversary, right, yeah. 114 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I was just keep it all together, but if 115 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 4: you miss it, screwed. So he just thought a proposal 116 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 4: would be fine. That's a whole nother story. But on 117 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:10,359 Speaker 4: Valentine's Day, one year later we broke up. He comes 118 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 4: home from work and says, oh. 119 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 1: By the way, Abby's moving in the sixteen year old. 120 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 2: Oh, I guess it's two years later. 121 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, so now, actually it's like eighteen two and a half, 122 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,159 Speaker 4: so she's like eighteen nineteen, possibly twenty. 123 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 2: Now. It wasn't discussed with me. It was not discussed 124 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 2: with me. I wasn't told before at all. But he's 125 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 2: just like, Abby's moving in. 126 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 4: She just turned seventeen, and she said she needed a 127 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 4: place to stay, and he didn't understand the concept of 128 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 4: an emotional affair. All these people that don't understand the 129 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 4: concept of an emotional affair, they're just choosing that. 130 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Yeah, like maybe you've never heard of the 131 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: term ignorance. Maybe you've heard of the term you know 132 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: what's wrong, But once you're explaining, yeah, yeah, and you 133 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: know what's wrong, you know what's wrong. 134 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. 135 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:55,919 Speaker 1: But he's in love with Abby the entire time they 136 00:06:56,160 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: were out together. Apparently they did sleep together, but I 137 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,359 Speaker 1: didn't find that out until he kicked me out of 138 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:06,600 Speaker 1: his house. You got replaced by a sixteen or seventeen 139 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 1: year old God, that sucks, Opie. 140 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 4: Afterwards, I had a drink so I couldn't drive home, 141 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 4: and he lives like forty minutes outside of any major city, 142 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 4: so I was trapped out in the middle of nowhere. 143 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 4: And he had broken up with me for a seventeen 144 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 4: year old girl that he moved in with the very 145 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 4: next night. Oh, he immediately changed his Facebook status to 146 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 4: being in a relationship with her after two and a half. 147 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: Years of being engaged to me? Why would you like 148 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: blast out on social media? 149 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 2: Like? Is that not illegal? Dude? 150 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 4: And like even beyond that, even if people don't like 151 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 4: because I don't think they would see the age immediately, 152 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 4: but they would probably see the relationship status change, Like 153 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 4: Bob went. 154 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 2: From engaged to in a relationship. 155 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: It's like wait, wait, wait one day later, like my god, 156 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: the next morning. 157 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 2: So that was fun. 158 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 4: I hope you enjoyed my story, and if you have 159 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 4: more questions, feel free to call back. 160 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 2: I have so many questions. One is he still with her? Oh, 161 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 2: that's the biggest one. So I think ladies and gentlemen, 162 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 2: there is and. 163 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: And as I always say on the show, there have 164 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: to be red flags before were there any red flags? 165 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 4: I mean it seems like there were red flags by 166 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 4: the time he started like talking to her in the 167 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 4: pizza shop job, but like anything before that, when when 168 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 4: they were in high school, you know, like anytime before then. 169 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 4: We we want to know, So, uh, let's call and 170 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 4: find out. 171 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 2: Hey, hey, is this Liz. This is hello Liz. This 172 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 2: is John and Sam and Riley from the okop Show. 173 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 2: How are you doing? 174 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: Good protein? 175 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 5: What's going on? 176 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 2: Oh you're you're a real fan man, of. 177 00:08:58,200 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 5: Course, of course I'm watch you guys. 178 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 2: Every Oh my gosh, wow, oh my heart is cool. 179 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. 180 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 4: I wish I was calling to ask you about happy 181 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 4: or more heart feeling collects. 182 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 6: Oh my god, y'all are in for a ride. 183 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 5: I'm so excited to tell you about this. I have 184 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 5: been wanting to tell somebody. 185 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 2: And oh we listen, we are. We are so glad 186 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 2: to be your alete. 187 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 4: So we just finished reading your transcript to everyone. One 188 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 4: one place we would like to start with is obviously, uh, 189 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 4: you know Bob was you know, he had the pizza 190 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 4: shop job. But like, did you see any red flags 191 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 4: before that, maybe like even initially in your like high 192 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 4: school relationship. 193 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 7: So in high school, I didn't see anything. And it 194 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 7: was just so strange because we were very loyal and 195 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 7: together and like very in pinc By. We then got 196 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,839 Speaker 7: to like a couple of years between my senior year 197 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 7: of high school and when I graduated to when we 198 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,959 Speaker 7: started sivoting again, and that when he was working the 199 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 7: crappy job, and that's when I noticed the first red flag, 200 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 7: And that's when I should have left. 201 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 4: Do do you think now, looking back with the rose 202 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 4: tinted glasses completely off, do you think there was any 203 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 4: red red flags in that time period now or or 204 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:20,319 Speaker 4: still no clear signs until the pizza shop job, you know, 205 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 4: not even the. 206 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 7: Pizza top job, there was no reflags, Like, just looking 207 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 7: back at it, it was that was when the red 208 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 7: flag came up. 209 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 5: Because she was the girl that he was now that we. 210 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 7: Found out he was cheating with, she was even younger 211 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 7: that then. I think at that point she would have 212 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 7: she would have been like fifteen. 213 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 2: Wow, wait, so like what did you see? Like? Like 214 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 2: what was he like? Was it? What was he doing? 215 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 7: He wanted to go to kind of weird, Yeah, he 216 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 7: wanted to go to her firsted party. He was spending 217 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 7: extra time after he clwked out of work, he'd stay 218 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 7: there and talk with her gay be gaining together on 219 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:00,079 Speaker 7: his gay off while I was in the room, and 220 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 7: he would completely ignore me. He prioritized a couple of 221 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:06,559 Speaker 7: things over for her over me. 222 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 2: He would invite her over, like to your place that 223 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 2: you shared. 224 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 5: Not invite over, but it would like a little voice shot. Okay, 225 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 5: it was like PlayStation voice shot. 226 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 7: But he'd cautphones on the whole time, and he would 227 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 7: be laughing at everything she said, and you know, having 228 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 7: these really deep conversations like that would last hours, and 229 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 7: I'd be sitting there doing school work or like doing. 230 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 5: Stuff for college or all the way up through my 231 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 5: first actual like professional job. 232 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:41,599 Speaker 7: I'd be catching up on like sales and client emails, 233 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 7: and he'd be. 234 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 5: Like chatting away. 235 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 2: Literally he really was. 236 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 5: And it was that was the biggest breaking point. 237 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 7: And like the night we had a huge fight the 238 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 7: night that I guess the. 239 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 5: Night that we broke up, and I had already had 240 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 5: like had a beer already, so like I wasn't safe 241 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 5: to tactically drive. 242 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:05,839 Speaker 7: But he came home and he's like, oh, yeah, she's 243 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:08,679 Speaker 7: moving in and she had just turned seventeen. 244 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god, what what state are you in? Like, 245 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 1: is that legal because you said you put. 246 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:19,200 Speaker 7: It in Arizona. No, that happened back in Arizona. So no, 247 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 7: she was still a minor because in Arizona you are ere. 248 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 5: I think it's eighteen? 249 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 2: Wow? 250 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 5: Right, why is he and she would still in herteen 251 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:27,200 Speaker 5: year of high school? 252 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:27,560 Speaker 7: Like? 253 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 5: Which is more crazy? Oh? 254 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot? 255 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 4: Like we were literally like, wait a second, this guy 256 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 4: literally changes Facebook relationship status the next day. Was he 257 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 4: not even like worried about people like clicking number one 258 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 4: like that, he just got out of a relationship and 259 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 4: into another one immediately. 260 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 2: Number two about her age? 261 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 7: Well, okay, number one there was an engagement ring involved too, 262 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:54,079 Speaker 7: so there was an engagement. 263 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:54,560 Speaker 2: Wow. 264 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, he jumped his he being twenty three dumped his 265 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:03,319 Speaker 7: fond day four, a seventeen year old. 266 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 5: But yeah, apparently he got a lot of questions about it, 267 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 5: and all a bunch of his coworkers found out. 268 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:13,439 Speaker 7: I guess they went to management at his job, and 269 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 7: she got she didn't get fired, she got transferred, and 270 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 7: then he were He faced no replicassion. 271 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 2: You're kidding me, that's he faced nothing. 272 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 5: He got nothing out of that. 273 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 2: But sure, that's so insane. 274 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 7: Oh totally one thousand percent, and that's why we were 275 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 7: a bunch of us were picked and because nothing got done. 276 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 5: And like he broke he definitely broke the law. Well 277 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 5: but that story. 278 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, okay, so my biggest question, the biggest question, 279 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: are they still together? 280 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 5: No, sheuc seated on him? 281 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:53,839 Speaker 2: Oh god? Yeah, oh god. 282 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 8: She apparently peated on him two years later and he 283 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 8: crawling back and saying, he was like, I'm so sorry 284 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,959 Speaker 8: I put you through that and she cheated. 285 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 5: On me and I feel awful and I don't know 286 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 5: what to do. 287 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 7: And I'm like, oh, so the way that you cheated 288 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 7: on And he said, well, I never cheated on you. 289 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 5: So he didn't believe he did anything wrong. 290 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 2: And does it the concept of emotional cheating? 291 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 7: My god, No, definitely not. But I I've always been 292 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 7: under the assumption of something more. 293 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 6: What happens. 294 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, used to get her drunk all the time. 295 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: Oh wow, so disgusting. Please tell me that you kicked 296 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 1: him to the curb. 297 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 7: Oh I did, absolutely, And oh okay, I have a 298 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 7: petty my petty revenge and all of it. 299 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 5: Okay, I went, I went super petty. 300 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 7: So the week after I went and returned all of 301 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 7: this stuff because I had some of his stuff back 302 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 7: at my parents house, and so it was like a 303 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 7: there was like a P three, a TZ and. 304 00:14:58,920 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 5: Some other things. 305 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 7: He opened the door and I had my phone abnormally 306 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 7: flat like because I was like going through my phone, 307 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 7: but I. 308 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 5: Left it flat enough so he could see what I 309 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 5: was doing. And I was matching with multiple people on dinner. 310 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: Oh a little bit, honestly, not even that bad. 311 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like. 312 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a nice subtle, punctuated fallty. 313 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 7: And you could you could just see the face of like, 314 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 7: oh my god, what did I just do? 315 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 4: Seriously, So I'm curious, like just an insane thing to 316 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 4: have to go through, like what have you taken like 317 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 4: like navigating new relationships or are you like have you 318 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 4: been off relationships? Like like what have you kind of like 319 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 4: taken away from this? And how how do you engage 320 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 4: in new relationship? 321 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 2: Lesson? Because this sucks? 322 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:56,640 Speaker 5: I okay, so this happened a long time ago. I 323 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 5: now have them married. 324 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, and he actually my now husband, I'll call 325 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 7: him frozen for a private seriason. He now he actually 326 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 7: had to help me navigate a couple of situations where 327 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 7: the where Bob came back and tried to cause problems 328 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 7: and yeah, so he's he's gotten to see the BS 329 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 7: all up front. So's it's been really nice and dirty, 330 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 7: and it's just nice to be in a healthier relationship 331 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 7: where we make each other laugh and have a lot 332 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 7: of common interest but also just support each other's separate interests. 333 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 7: So but everything's been really good. 334 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 2: But I'm glad that it all worked out. There's a 335 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 2: happy ending. 336 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 5: You know me too. If it wasn't, if he had 337 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 5: not done what he did, I wouldn't have met my husband. 338 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 7: So at the end of the day, I'm really grateful, 339 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 7: But also in the moment, what a weird thing to 340 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 7: have to go to you go back to your parents 341 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 7: and explain, oh, yeah, I had to like Beyonce and 342 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 7: I broke up because he was being you know, yeah. 343 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:08,919 Speaker 4: Well you know one one other other consolation prize is 344 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 4: we got to meet you and you got to be 345 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:14,160 Speaker 4: on the show. So Liz, truly thank you so much 346 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 4: for sharing your story of being on the show today. 347 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 5: Thank you all three of you. 348 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 7: I am so excited to get to finally talk to 349 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 7: my daily work routine because I work from home and 350 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 7: I actually watch you guys while I while I write 351 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 7: for my job. 352 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:34,400 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. That's huge. 353 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 5: All right, you're have you ever you want more stories. 354 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 2: And we will call you back. 355 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:45,360 Speaker 5: Okay, absolutely sounds good. 356 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:49,159 Speaker 2: Have a good one, Lysia, bye bye. 357 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 1: So this was all about five years ago. My boyfriend 358 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 1: went into surgery, very minor surgery, and this was in Hawaii. 359 00:17:57,600 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 1: He gave me all this ship and I'm just like 360 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:02,159 Speaker 1: to go through his phone because why not. He was 361 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 1: not very good looking, so I didn't really expect to 362 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:06,120 Speaker 1: find anything. 363 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:09,880 Speaker 2: Oh god, I was way ahead of his league. 364 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:12,680 Speaker 1: So I go through his phone find out he had 365 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 1: you known me actually a couple of weeks after my 366 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 1: birthday that year, right after he had taken me out 367 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 1: to dinner and bought me a hotel room and took 368 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 1: me to my first strip club. 369 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:23,880 Speaker 2: And this is my twentieth birthday. 370 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 1: And yeah, so I saw where he was snapchatting a 371 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,120 Speaker 1: girl who I knew he had met up with prior 372 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:32,479 Speaker 1: and didn't really think anything of or back then. I 373 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: told him, let me know if he was going to 374 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 1: be hanging out with that girl alone. He claimed she 375 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: was just a friend, but his snapchat proved otherwise. He 376 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: was texting her and straight up I'm just not trying 377 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:48,439 Speaker 1: to beat around the bush. Just said, do you, And 378 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 1: I saw that immediately went red and called his best 379 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,199 Speaker 1: friend to come pick him up, and then called his 380 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: mom to ask if Josh had ever cheated on girlfriends before. Yes, 381 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 1: that is his real name, she said, not that I 382 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:02,200 Speaker 1: know of. 383 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 2: Anyway. 384 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: I leave him there because I have to go to work, 385 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: and he shows up a few hours into my shift 386 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 1: with flowers and needs to get his ship out of 387 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 1: my car whatever. He's outside my work and convinces me 388 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 1: to get back together with him. 389 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 2: Oh P, nod. 390 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: Before I move away and go to Colorado, where in 391 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 1: the first couple of weeks of me being there, I 392 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 1: actually cheat on him back. 393 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 2: Oh no, no, By. 394 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 1: The way, he said, he didn't do anything with that girl. 395 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:34,399 Speaker 1: He was just asking, which obviously is still considered cheating. 396 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:36,960 Speaker 1: He made me feel bad about something I had done 397 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,719 Speaker 1: in the past. We were very toxic and yeah, I 398 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 1: ended up feeding him a We don't know because. 399 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 2: The voicemail cuts off there. Oh P, that is a messy. Wow. 400 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:52,239 Speaker 2: Hope he is the a hole. Based on this, I 401 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 2: think I think everyone's a hold on this story. 402 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 1: The boyfriend way worse, way worse but like the retaliate, 403 00:19:58,680 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: like it's just it's just. 404 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 2: It's hilarious though, it's so funny. But OPI I think 405 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:07,400 Speaker 2: we need to call you and get some more info. Yeah, 406 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 2: we do. Hello, Hello, this is Sam from the ok 407 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 2: O P Show and John. 408 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 5: Wait. 409 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 1: Actually yes, actually truly in the flesh. 410 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 2: Actually we are here. We were just listening to your voicemail. 411 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 6: Oh my god, how are you. I'm good. 412 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 2: How are we all doing? Fantastic? 413 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 1: So we actually with the voice mail got cut off 414 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:37,400 Speaker 1: right at the end where it said you fed him 415 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: a blank blank? 416 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 2: What? What? What were you feeding him? 417 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:43,120 Speaker 8: Wait? 418 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 2: No, that one, I said, what did you say? 419 00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 6: I don't remember. Wait give me a seconds. 420 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 2: We'll play it to you feel. 421 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 5: Bad about something I had done in the past. 422 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 6: We were very toxic and yeah, so I ended up. 423 00:20:56,680 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 1: Hitting him, we said, I ended up cheating him, beating 424 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:02,680 Speaker 1: him maybe cheating cheating him? 425 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 2: So wait what what what? 426 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 6: Cheating on him? 427 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:08,160 Speaker 2: Right right right? So that when you were in Colorado? 428 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, that was like two weeks after I got 429 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 6: to Colorado. 430 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,159 Speaker 2: What what did you do? How did it have this? 431 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:14,720 Speaker 6: What? 432 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 2: What? What was the story? Spill the tea? 433 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 6: Basically, I went to a party, met a guy kissed 434 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 6: him and my it was my roommate's friend, and my 435 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:30,400 Speaker 6: roommate ended up being like, no, you have a boyfriend, 436 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,679 Speaker 6: like stop, And we went home and we actually and 437 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 6: I had sleeping together. 438 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 2: With the roommate there. 439 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah. 440 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:57,679 Speaker 6: And then his girlfriend found out yeah, and then threatened me. 441 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,960 Speaker 2: So that was funke. What did she say? 442 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,879 Speaker 6: She told me that she was going to fly to 443 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,200 Speaker 6: Colorado and slip by broke that. 444 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 1: That damn, that is a threat if I've never heard one. 445 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 2: Yikes, did you say anything back? 446 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:15,439 Speaker 6: I yeah, I think I just laughed. 447 00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:22,200 Speaker 2: O God, I see you dry. So after having done 448 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 2: all this, what was the fallout? 449 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,399 Speaker 6: So? Actually, like right after it happened, I called my 450 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 6: boyfriend and told him like we were done. 451 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:32,200 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, good good great. 452 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 1: Would have been better to do it before, but good 453 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 1: to at least do it after. 454 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, like I was obviously I was like, well, 455 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 6: this isn't kinda, this isn't working. Yeah, I can't believe 456 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:47,680 Speaker 6: I'm actually talking to you guys right now? 457 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 2: Where is he now? 458 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 6: The boyfriend? 459 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:51,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 460 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 6: No idea good blocked. 461 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah there we go. Looked at the roommate though. 462 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 2: That had to listen to the noises. 463 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:05,880 Speaker 6: Of Oh, we don't talk anymore because his girlfriend told 464 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 6: me that I ever reached out to him, she would 465 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,959 Speaker 6: kill me. So as soon as I moved out. You know, 466 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 6: it's been like three years. I haven't really talked about all. 467 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:18,399 Speaker 1: Because, yeah, because there the roommate is friends, probably with 468 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 1: the friend too. 469 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, oh the roommate's friend. Okay, so we actually ended 470 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 6: up being like friends and senats for like a while. 471 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 6: And then U they were still in a relationship with 472 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:32,960 Speaker 6: with his friend that that had kissed the first one. 473 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 2: But wasn't he in a relationship at the. 474 00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 5: Time the roommate was, Oh, the roommate. 475 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:38,200 Speaker 2: Was in a relationship. 476 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So the guy that you had hooked up 477 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:42,600 Speaker 1: with was not in a relationship. Wait, but he was 478 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: in a relationship. Oh, there was two different people. One 479 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 1: person that you kissed and one person that you hooked 480 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 1: up with. 481 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 2: Yes, okay, got it? Okay, okay, okay, Wow. Yeah, Colorado 482 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 2: is a crazy it's a crazy place. What happens in 483 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 2: stays in Colorado. Okay, And so. 484 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 5: Are you dating now I'm engaged. 485 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:10,919 Speaker 2: Let's go what's the what's the t ld R of 486 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 2: that story? How did you meet him. 487 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 6: I met him at a traffic light. 488 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,360 Speaker 4: Actually really, wait, so how did that go down? Did 489 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 4: you just walk up to your window and be like, 490 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 4: what's up baby? 491 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 2: How you doing? 492 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 8: No? 493 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:25,719 Speaker 6: I cat called him, Oh, I said, hey, your hottest 494 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:30,239 Speaker 6: let's go. And then the girl I was with who 495 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 6: was driving, actually knew his passenger and got me his snapchat. 496 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 2: Wow, that's crit. Do you live in like a small 497 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:41,399 Speaker 2: town or something like? That's okay? Okay, so there we go. 498 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 2: So this relationship more healthy? 499 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, for sure. 500 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:50,320 Speaker 2: A great to hear. We're very happy for you. I 501 00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 2: love a good idea. 502 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm glad that your wilden days are mostly behind you. 503 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 5: They're they're far far mind. 504 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 2: Yes, there we go. We love to hear it. Well, 505 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 2: thank you so much for calling in sharing your stars. 506 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:09,239 Speaker 6: I wish I had more time and privacy to go 507 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:13,160 Speaker 6: more into the show with you guys, but I'm I'm 508 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,199 Speaker 6: amazed that you guys call me. Thank you so much 509 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 6: for calling me back. 510 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 1: Please please call us with more stories. Oh yes, if 511 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 1: you have them. And also the details you gave were phenomenal. 512 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,760 Speaker 6: Yes, thank you. I was like so nervous when I'm 513 00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 6: first called. 514 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 5: That's why I sounded like out of bread. 515 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 2: You did great, crushed it, you showed like a star. 516 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:36,400 Speaker 2: Thanks for answering. 517 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 5: All right, well I've got to get back. 518 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,680 Speaker 2: I have a great one talk so bye, all. 519 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:43,639 Speaker 6: Right, thank you bye. 520 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:45,200 Speaker 2: Well there you have it. 521 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 4: My gosh, there's it's always the tip of the iceberg, right. 522 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,360 Speaker 1: So glad it ended happy though, Yeah, what do you engage? 523 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,679 Speaker 1: What a hilarious way to meet your meet your husband? 524 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 4: You you you can't call him and then find his 525 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 4: snapchat because your friend knows the passage our. 526 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 2: Small town so wild? So I mean, I don't even 527 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 2: I'm a little flammergast. Where where do we? 528 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,160 Speaker 1: I mean, like I would say, it is a whole 529 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,800 Speaker 1: behavior to cheat, to revenge. 530 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 2: Cheat, Yeah, yeah, to revenge cheat. 531 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 1: But good on Op for not for like ending it 532 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 1: right after Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah that was good move 533 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:24,120 Speaker 1: for a good move. 534 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 4: Again, there was like different instances of if it was 535 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,199 Speaker 4: like okay, they're veng cheating, like that was in a 536 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:31,680 Speaker 4: whole move, you know, but uh it seemed like Op 537 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:36,400 Speaker 4: has has has learned from is in a great relationship 538 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 4: with third. 539 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 1: Happy for up and thank you for being part of 540 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,120 Speaker 1: the the Okay Biscuit family. 541 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:46,879 Speaker 2: We love you. So much that they want to be 542 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 2: called biscuit. Biscuit. Okay, we'll get to that to that 543 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:50,360 Speaker 2: one person, but. 544 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks for calling it. If you want to call 545 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 1: it a leave your story. We are responding and reacting 546 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,160 Speaker 1: and call you guys. Call us at four for zero 547 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,879 Speaker 1: five or eight six five sixty seven. If you love us, 548 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:04,080 Speaker 1: make sure to subscribe. We love you and see you tomorrow. 549 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time 550 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 2: for okop. 551 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:14,440 Speaker 1: Rewam scammer steals my identity and convince my friend's family 552 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 1: and ex boyfriend that I. 553 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 2: Am going insane. Identity THEFTI is not a joke. It's 554 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 2: not a joke, Jim. Yeah, come on, Jim. 555 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 1: I always think of the office the office quote Identity 556 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 1: theftist not a joke, Jim, it's a joke. 557 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:29,119 Speaker 4: I was thinking of the one where he put the 558 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 4: stapler and gelatin or like all his stuff, and this is. 559 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 1: Like he literally tried Jim tries to steal. Wait, now 560 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:38,399 Speaker 1: what does he do? 561 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 2: Oh? He dresses like him. He dresses is just like Dwight. 562 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was getting that mixed up with the one 563 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 1: where Asian Jim comes in. 564 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:51,160 Speaker 2: That was a good one too. 565 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,679 Speaker 4: We should start office pranking each other. Oh yeah, like 566 00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,160 Speaker 4: we walk in and we sit down at our desk 567 00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:09,199 Speaker 4: and the microphone explodes in your face and destroys our redness. Hilarious. 568 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 4: So last week, while on an extended trip to California, 569 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,920 Speaker 4: I live in New York, I received a text from 570 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:18,400 Speaker 4: my former landlord stating that she could no longer keep 571 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 4: in touch with me. 572 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 2: Why that's kind of a weird thing to get right. 573 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,640 Speaker 1: I feel like the landlord is someone that you needed 574 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,200 Speaker 1: to be okay about, like Pegg rents. 575 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, maybe my toilet is broken. No, I will 576 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:30,360 Speaker 2: never talk. 577 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,880 Speaker 1: To you again, you know, maybe the maybe not paying 578 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:38,440 Speaker 1: rent anymore? So win Hey, hey pre red rent. Yeah, 579 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 1: I won't talk to you anymore. Those checks don't know 580 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 1: what happened to them. 581 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 2: She said she. 582 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:45,000 Speaker 4: Stopped talking to me because I violated her house rules 583 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:49,200 Speaker 4: and her beliefs by having a terminated pregnancy, which did 584 00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 4: not happen. 585 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 2: Okay, where wait wait wait? Where is this? Is this 586 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 2: in California? This is in New York? Either way? Bro, 587 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 2: that's like that's like a violation or something. Bro, I 588 00:28:59,600 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 2: don't know. 589 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 4: This is a very very strange scenario. And also that 590 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 4: I lied to her about it and set a bad 591 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 4: example for her teenage daughter, who's like a sister to me. 592 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 2: Wait, what this is a very weird I'm confused by 593 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 2: this date, and. 594 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 1: So basically thought she thought she got an abortion, and 595 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:20,200 Speaker 1: the landlord is like personally offended because of this, or 596 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 1: the landlord her friend's mother her father. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 597 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 1: So she's very close with her landlord and her landlord's daughter, 598 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,440 Speaker 1: who is like a sister, like a younger sister. So 599 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 1: they were landlords to her first before they were like friends. 600 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 601 00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 4: Now they're like very close friends. But apparently some lie 602 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:45,280 Speaker 4: that she had an abortion has some random reasons sprung about. 603 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 2: It's very odd. Rubs mustache inquisitively carols the tips of 604 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 2: my mustache. 605 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 4: Now here's the thing. I am very close to my landlord. 606 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 4: She is like the mother I never had. 607 00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's a weird relationship with landlord. Really is though. 608 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:05,719 Speaker 2: I guess my parents were my landlords before. That's one 609 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 2: way to look at it. That's hilarious. 610 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 4: I spend my weekends with her, tell her all my secrets, 611 00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:12,040 Speaker 4: et cetera, et cetera. 612 00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 2: Man, this is just a lot. Opie, where's your friends? 613 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:15,800 Speaker 6: Yeah? 614 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, seriously give please expand your friend group. 615 00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, this kind of reminds me of like the lonely 616 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,960 Speaker 1: kid in uh in like middle school that like the 617 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 1: lunch lady is their best friend. 618 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, like Bridge out Branch. 619 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 4: The text contained details that made it seem very very convincing, 620 00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 4: like mentioning her son by name, and a mention of 621 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,280 Speaker 4: my ex boyfriend by name, who is the one who 622 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 4: supposedly told her what. It was really strange and out 623 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 4: of the blue, mostly because I knew she would be 624 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 4: in a remote part of upstate New York without any service, 625 00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 4: and her and my ex rarely ever talk. I was 626 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 4: unable to reach her to discuss it, and I was 627 00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 4: extremely worried because she's usually a person who will call 628 00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 4: and not just text something like that. 629 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 1: Why would you text that the blue, especially if you 630 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 1: have like this really deep relationship with your landlord. 631 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's it's very strange, very strange. That's so weird. 632 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:17,239 Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like the text is coming from like 633 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 1: the landlord. I feel like there's maybe like a hacken 634 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 1: that's like come into the phone system, like put a 635 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 1: bunch of malware in, Like she needs Guardia to protect 636 00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:24,760 Speaker 1: her from all that. 637 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 2: She really does. This is way too sus so. 638 00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,480 Speaker 4: I sent a screenshot of the text to my ex boyfriend, 639 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,200 Speaker 4: asking if he had said something to her or her 640 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:33,960 Speaker 4: family he still keeps in touch with them? 641 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 2: He said he hadn't. 642 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,360 Speaker 1: Why is everyone keeping in touch with the landlord? Everyone 643 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 1: just is this socialite, social butterfly landlord. Yeah, I feel 644 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 1: like this landlord is like something else. 645 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 4: Bro, Yeah, this is that's a whole other renaissany Yeah, 646 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 4: how my landlord became my mommy. 647 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:55,920 Speaker 1: Or it's like the Great Gatsby. The landlord is the 648 00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 1: Great Gatsby, just throwing all these parties in, all these people, 649 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 1: having connected with all the people in the New York area. 650 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 4: They are the nexus. When we finally spoke, she told 651 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 4: me that she had never sent that text. I sent 652 00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 4: her a screenshot of our conversation and she sent one 653 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,480 Speaker 4: back without that message in it. My ex spoke to 654 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 4: her as well, and she told him that we spoke, 655 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 4: that she never sent this text and none of this 656 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 4: ever happened. 657 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,520 Speaker 1: Okay, this is weird. This is funky. Something is funky. 658 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 1: Something is a miss suit someone like got on her phone. 659 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 1: I guess this is but someone who also knew all 660 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:32,800 Speaker 1: that information. They know a lot of info, So how 661 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 1: do they know? I guess we're going to have to 662 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 1: find out. 663 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 4: But then my ex tried to convince her that I 664 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,640 Speaker 4: was lying about the entire thing and could have doctored 665 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 4: the photo myself plot to us. Now, now the boyfriend's 666 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 4: inspiring again. Bro, everyone's just like coming for OP right now. 667 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 4: This is crazy. Wait the X I guess is maybe salty, 668 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 4: and it's just like coming to just grasping onto this 669 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:56,960 Speaker 4: opportunity to like. 670 00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 1: So wait, wait, wait, So the ex boyfriend is trying 671 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 1: to convince the landlord that OP do this photo. 672 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 4: Yes to met to fuck with them or ruin the 673 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:13,240 Speaker 4: relationship or something. I don't know what. It's crazy, bro, 674 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 4: it's crazy confused. I would never do so, Opie says, 675 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 4: I would never do so. She means the world to me. 676 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 4: So this is so ridiculous and would backfire insanely. It's 677 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:26,240 Speaker 4: something I would never do. And another similar incident also 678 00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 4: recently happened in which a former colleague of mine that 679 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,680 Speaker 4: I now freelance with send me a text stating that 680 00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:35,800 Speaker 4: they had requested I take over a project and provide 681 00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 4: files to a client and that they hadn't heard back 682 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 4: from me. They said that I had in jeopardized the 683 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 4: client's entire business and they would be escalating a report 684 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 4: directly to the lead marketing manager and canceling my contract 685 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 4: with them. What the hell, bro, she's opie is getting 686 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,240 Speaker 4: messed with hardcore right now? 687 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:57,280 Speaker 2: Wow? What is happening? Like? 688 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,960 Speaker 4: And like the motive of the part, Like what motive? 689 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 4: What are you gonna get money out of her doing this? 690 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 2: No? 691 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:05,800 Speaker 1: Like this is a I don't know about it because 692 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:10,400 Speaker 1: maybe like with this this second thing, like with the business, 693 00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:14,440 Speaker 1: like maybe they're trying to get information and so it's 694 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 1: like a phishing scam. Yes, but with the landlord and 695 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,800 Speaker 1: the abortion stuff, like where crazy where are they fishing? 696 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 1: They would have to know so many details, Yeah, about 697 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:25,720 Speaker 1: to make it. 698 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really weird. 699 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 4: This was a little surprising because we make requests over 700 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 4: base camp or email, never text, and as a freelancer, 701 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,759 Speaker 4: I don't have a direct report to their clients. So 702 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 4: now see some of their intel ain't adding up anymore. 703 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 4: They're there, the cracks are starting to show. I immediately 704 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,280 Speaker 4: jumped on a call with them to discuss saving the account, 705 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,319 Speaker 4: only to find they were totally clueless to what I 706 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:51,760 Speaker 4: was talking about. What she keeps getting these messages? 707 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 1: Bro, dude, I don't I don't even know how, Like 708 00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 1: how could they have some pro level hacker stuff? 709 00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, so like she's definitely being hacked. Yeah, I 710 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 2: I mean there's either that or God aids. 711 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:07,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, are the only two options getting smited? 712 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 4: Ah, So here's what I've done already. I went to 713 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,400 Speaker 4: the police in California. I fouled a report of the 714 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 4: text and I sent a money request, but they advised 715 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 4: the police department in my home jurisdiction would be more 716 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,920 Speaker 4: capable of helping me. The officer advised off the record 717 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,439 Speaker 4: that if I'm concerned that I'm being watched, I could 718 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,360 Speaker 4: download some sort of spyware app to see if someone 719 00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 4: was spying on my computer. Someone also commented, sounds like 720 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 4: you have a rat virus or remote access trojan that 721 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:35,200 Speaker 4: is literally something that allows someone to control your entire device. 722 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 1: Like it's completely insane. Okay, this person definitely needs like 723 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:42,719 Speaker 1: some protection. They need Guardio to make sure they're not 724 00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:46,319 Speaker 1: getting hacked and not having all these crazy people with 725 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:47,520 Speaker 1: crazy accusations. 726 00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, Guardio might just save Opie's life. Honestly, like, this 727 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 4: is a life or death situation. And Guardio actually just 728 00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,920 Speaker 4: released a new feature that allows you to block any 729 00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:58,800 Speaker 4: rat viruses on your devices. 730 00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, they blocked like militia downloads too. It's like that's. 731 00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:03,880 Speaker 4: Everything exactly, So make sure you don't get in a 732 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:04,719 Speaker 4: situation like op. 733 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,400 Speaker 1: You'll get Guardio now to be protected online. Okay, so 734 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:08,719 Speaker 1: what happened next after that? 735 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 4: I immediately filed a police report at my local department. 736 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:12,839 Speaker 2: When I returned to New York. 737 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,920 Speaker 4: They reiterated what this officer said in California that unless 738 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,680 Speaker 4: someone is hurt and or money is exchanged, there's not 739 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,759 Speaker 4: much they can do in terms of investigating. 740 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,439 Speaker 2: They just filed a report. Damn, the police don't do shit. 741 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:25,799 Speaker 6: Bruh. 742 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 2: Come on now. 743 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 4: Meanwhile, OPI's entire life is like frawing apart. They stated 744 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,239 Speaker 4: that it's a common scam for people to use your 745 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:38,200 Speaker 4: phone number to impersonate or to solicit money from friends. 746 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,919 Speaker 1: But like where they haven't gotten to the soliciting money 747 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:41,719 Speaker 1: part though. 748 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:44,000 Speaker 4: Exactly, Like this person is literally just like destroying her 749 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,040 Speaker 4: life for seemingly no reason whatsoever. 750 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:47,560 Speaker 2: Feel like it's the boyfriend, bro. 751 00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:51,759 Speaker 1: I feel like the boyfriend like install this on her 752 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:55,879 Speaker 1: phone while they were dating, and then uh, and now 753 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:57,919 Speaker 1: has access to all her shit and it's just trying 754 00:36:57,920 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 1: to fuck with her. 755 00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:02,400 Speaker 4: Dude, that that is the theory because that used it 756 00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:05,279 Speaker 4: against her once it popped up. So yeah, this is 757 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:05,759 Speaker 4: pretty fun. 758 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 2: Dude. Yeah, I think I think you're right. 759 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:12,759 Speaker 4: They said that detailed text impersonation usually targets older individuals 760 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:16,000 Speaker 4: and usually results in wire fraud or something similar. They've 761 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 4: seen this before, but the landlord slash work context is 762 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:20,120 Speaker 4: very unusual. 763 00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:21,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems weird. 764 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:23,879 Speaker 4: Yeah, just very strange. There's like no money involved. Yes, 765 00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:25,920 Speaker 4: I've given them a list of anyone who might want 766 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:27,960 Speaker 4: to harm me and then I might have upset in 767 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,480 Speaker 4: the last three years. 768 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,640 Speaker 2: Still hard to think of anyone who would want to 769 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:31,920 Speaker 2: do that. 770 00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:34,560 Speaker 4: I mean, like like thinking right now, is there anyone 771 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:36,600 Speaker 4: that would want to be like who would do this 772 00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:37,160 Speaker 4: to you? 773 00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,360 Speaker 1: You know, like you says girl I dated. That was 774 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:43,640 Speaker 1: a Disney princess that kind of was like a little crazy, 775 00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:48,399 Speaker 1: like like a like a crack pot like like kind 776 00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 1: of like like a manipulator, but not like not a 777 00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,879 Speaker 1: smart one, like you know, I like, she wasn't good 778 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:59,759 Speaker 1: at manipulator. But she was like trying her best, and uh. 779 00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,480 Speaker 2: She's your parents. I'm pregnant. Yeah she was. 780 00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:07,840 Speaker 1: She got pretty. She was not happy with me at all, 781 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 1: and so I could see her. 782 00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 2: There's probably a couple of you. You've been through some 783 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,760 Speaker 2: these women be doing you dirty. Man well. 784 00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 1: With her, with her, I stepped out of that situation 785 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:26,919 Speaker 1: that but she's like going crazy on you. Yeah, yeah, 786 00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:30,200 Speaker 1: it's wild, dude. I'm here, I'll tell I'll tell you, 787 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,359 Speaker 1: I tell you started after the. 788 00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:34,640 Speaker 4: Officer working with me advised that I check all of 789 00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:37,840 Speaker 4: my credit card statements and reports for anything suspicious. I 790 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 4: found two charges from Florida on one of my credit cards, 791 00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,240 Speaker 4: which I haven't visited in almost a year, duplicate charges 792 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,760 Speaker 4: from the gas station, and a small purchase I couldn't confirm. 793 00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 4: So I canceled all my credit cards and completely froze 794 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,800 Speaker 4: my credit just to be safe. My god, like someone's 795 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,640 Speaker 4: infected her whole life. Having to do the absolute most. 796 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,839 Speaker 4: A site said that my information was detected in eighteen 797 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,960 Speaker 4: different data breach is based on the credit cards and 798 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,319 Speaker 4: the data breach info and the police advise that I 799 00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:07,600 Speaker 4: file an additional report for identity theft and also freeze 800 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,359 Speaker 4: my credit. Finally, they advised me that had changed my number, 801 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,080 Speaker 4: which I've already done and got a completely new phone 802 00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:15,920 Speaker 4: as well. I've only shared my number with four people 803 00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:19,120 Speaker 4: closest to me. But I'm wondering where the hell do 804 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:20,000 Speaker 4: I go from here? 805 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,480 Speaker 2: Dude, I think you go off grid. Honestly, Get a cabin. 806 00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, get a cabin, take all of your money out, 807 00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 1: get to transfer it from fiat currency to gold, you know, 808 00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:34,600 Speaker 1: go from the paper money to the gold money. Carry 809 00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,120 Speaker 1: it next to the cabin. But a little bit far away, 810 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 1: like maybe like one hundred meters or so. People can't 811 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,480 Speaker 1: find it in Canada. So you're using meters, you know, 812 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,799 Speaker 1: move move out of the States. I mean, you go 813 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,359 Speaker 1: back from London. It was they're talking all meters there. 814 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:56,799 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I know they use meters. But yeah, dude, 815 00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 1: this person's kidding so screwed. I feel so, so, so 816 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:03,239 Speaker 1: bad for them. But wait, so do you have a 817 00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,920 Speaker 1: story that is oh just like okay, yeah, so I 818 00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:08,759 Speaker 1: I I'm And so there was this girl that I 819 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,520 Speaker 1: dated a little bit ago, like a couple of years ago, 820 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:14,759 Speaker 1: and she was she was super cute. She was like 821 00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:18,719 Speaker 1: an actress. She was a Disney princess, super cute, and 822 00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:21,439 Speaker 1: I like literally a Disney princess at like Disney. Yeah, 823 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 1: like yeah, like she was at Disney and she was 824 00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,680 Speaker 1: super cute. And I ran into her at a coffee shop. 825 00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:31,480 Speaker 1: I was with my sister and she was there and 826 00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:33,560 Speaker 1: I recognized her because I went to high school with her, okay, 827 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:35,040 Speaker 1: or not with her, but she was like in my 828 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:38,560 Speaker 1: friend like friend group, not group, but like like on 829 00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,759 Speaker 1: the outskirts, and I'm like, hey, how's it going, and 830 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,200 Speaker 1: like she'd had a glow up. I had a glow up, 831 00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:45,959 Speaker 1: and so we're like, oh, like let's let's let's chat. 832 00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:49,879 Speaker 1: And I got her number and then we started hanging out, 833 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:53,960 Speaker 1: but like instantly it was just like really weird and 834 00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:55,880 Speaker 1: she would get like mad at me for no reason. 835 00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,759 Speaker 1: And also I was like I had just broken up 836 00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 1: with my ex girlfriend, so I was kind of like 837 00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:05,480 Speaker 1: in an emotionless mode and very like robotic, but I 838 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:10,960 Speaker 1: remember like, uh, she is like she like texted me like, hey, 839 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,200 Speaker 1: do you want to come over? And I'm like sure, 840 00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,360 Speaker 1: like that yeah, So I go over to her apartment 841 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:22,839 Speaker 1: and then I get there and immediately she's just like 842 00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:25,200 Speaker 1: you just came over here to have sex with me, 843 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:31,000 Speaker 1: didn't you? And I'm like, what, like is that the 844 00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:32,719 Speaker 1: first thing that you said? I like, I mean like 845 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:36,040 Speaker 1: I'm down, but right, but like I'm like, that's not 846 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:40,360 Speaker 1: that's not they do it. Like I was like, it 847 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 1: was like so A cues to her. It'll like like 848 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:45,279 Speaker 1: open the door and just yell yeah yeah, like like 849 00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,799 Speaker 1: like like like two seconds in and I'm like, yo, 850 00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:52,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave then, like this is weird. And then 851 00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:56,719 Speaker 1: she's like you're just gonna leave after you. Like I'm like, what. 852 00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:57,439 Speaker 2: Do you want? 853 00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:00,520 Speaker 1: What do you want? Like what do you want me 854 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:04,400 Speaker 1: to say? And so I was just like I was 855 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:09,000 Speaker 1: so confused. I remember just being like like baffled that 856 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:12,759 Speaker 1: like someone could be this I. 857 00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:16,719 Speaker 2: Don't know, just like on like disconnected. Yeah. It just 858 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,399 Speaker 2: it just felt like I like, I'm like I don't 859 00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 2: understand what's going on? Yeah yeah. 860 00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:25,240 Speaker 1: And then yeah oh and then and then she she 861 00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:29,280 Speaker 1: got free tickets to Disneyland for me and my cousins, 862 00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:31,400 Speaker 1: which is super nice. I appreciate that she gets like 863 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,960 Speaker 1: a watch of tickets that free. And I remember I 864 00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:38,080 Speaker 1: was with all of my I was with all of 865 00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:44,120 Speaker 1: my cousins and she was like working her shift. And 866 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:47,400 Speaker 1: then I was with my cousins and my my sister 867 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:51,200 Speaker 1: and I hadn't seen them in a while, right, and 868 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:56,560 Speaker 1: she went in line with us, and then she just 869 00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 1: decided like, hey, like I need like I want to leave. 870 00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:01,440 Speaker 1: And then and we had been waiting in line for 871 00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:03,480 Speaker 1: like an hour and a half, She's like, hey, I 872 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:05,480 Speaker 1: want to leave. And then she's like, can you walk 873 00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:09,440 Speaker 1: me out of the park. And I'm like, yo, with 874 00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:12,320 Speaker 1: my cousins and my sister and like, you got to 875 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:16,719 Speaker 1: know this play is like I think you could do yourself. 876 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:19,400 Speaker 2: What was her response? 877 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,640 Speaker 1: And she got so pissed. Bro, she got and see 878 00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:25,200 Speaker 1: that feels like a setup. Yeah, Like I said, up, 879 00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:27,240 Speaker 1: like you wait in line and then you just leave 880 00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:30,040 Speaker 1: and then like you want me to walk all the 881 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,200 Speaker 1: way out of the park. That's like, come on, that's 882 00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,719 Speaker 1: a bit nuts. And it's not like we're dating. We 883 00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:37,959 Speaker 1: were dating, but it's not like you're seeing we're seeing 884 00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:41,080 Speaker 1: each other. It just feels like she was like trying 885 00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:42,840 Speaker 1: to set me up all the time. 886 00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:44,279 Speaker 2: I love it. 887 00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:51,400 Speaker 4: She was cute though, listen that bella though, yeah, bells 888 00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:53,760 Speaker 4: if you catch my dress? 889 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:56,600 Speaker 2: She was super cute. She was super cute, and she's 890 00:43:56,600 --> 00:44:05,600 Speaker 2: a great actor. I think maybe, mate, she was method acting. 891 00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,239 Speaker 4: She was coming up the crazy big role and look 892 00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:12,560 Speaker 4: if she told you that would ruin like because she 893 00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:16,120 Speaker 4: has to like be in the authentic whatever headspace. So 894 00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,680 Speaker 4: she was preparing for the biggest method acting role for 895 00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:20,080 Speaker 4: life as a toxic queen. 896 00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:24,480 Speaker 1: Yes, And so I think to conclusion, I think I 897 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:25,960 Speaker 1: think she would hack my phone? 898 00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,439 Speaker 2: Got it? Yeah? Got it? Wow? And then maybe one 899 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:30,920 Speaker 2: other girl that I've dated. 900 00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,040 Speaker 4: Sam is just like running down the roll with dex 901 00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,160 Speaker 4: of exes who wanted to destroy his life. 902 00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:40,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, like a decent about like I did. Well. 903 00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:49,719 Speaker 2: This other one that's for another story. That's for another story.