1 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: Queen Sugar is the critically acclaimed drama series on Owned 2 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 1: from Academy Award nominated filmmaker Eva du Varney and executive 3 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: producer Oprah Winfrey. Queen Sugar is a visually stunning family 4 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: drama that is as powerful as it is poetic and 5 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: the very definition of prestige DV. Season one is now 6 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: streaming only on Hulu so you can catch up before 7 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: the two nights season premier event starts on Tuesday, June 8 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: at nine Central only on Own, and if you missed 9 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: the premiere, you can watch it anytime anywhere on the 10 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:52,200 Speaker 1: watch on app. All right, well it's that time, Strawberry. 11 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: Let a time buck hold on tight shirtish rout beer, 12 00:00:56,680 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: Thank you, junior. Subject my husband's secret children. Dear Stephen Shirley. 13 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: My husband never wanted me on Facebook, but I made 14 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 1: an account anyway to keep in touch with family and friends. 15 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 1: We've been married for two years and I loved and 16 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: admired him until recently. Fast forward to one of the 17 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: worst days of my life. I was scrolling on Facebook 18 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:24,119 Speaker 1: and came across a picture of my husband's daughter and 19 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: another little girl. The hashtags under the picture were hashtag sisters. 20 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: And hashtag looking like their daddy. I knew my husband 21 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:36,919 Speaker 1: had one daughter before I met him, so I waited 22 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: a couple of days and I called my husband's baby 23 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: mama to ask her about the picture with the two girls. 24 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: To my surprise, she told me that my husband has 25 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: a total of four children and that the other little 26 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: girl is my husband's daughter too. I asked my husband 27 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: about it, and he won't tell me everything. I'm hurt 28 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: on so many levels. My husband had all of the 29 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: children before he got married, but I'm still hurt. I'm 30 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: his wife. I should know everything. Should I leave him 31 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: because he won't come clean? Please help? Yeah? I would 32 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: be hurt too in this situation. Uh. Something does stink 33 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: in this marriage? Um, his lying, his omission, his negligence, 34 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 1: and telling you about something as important as having another 35 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: daughter or two or three or whatever the situation is 36 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: is so important. I mean, why is he keeping them 37 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: a secret? Is the question? Is he ashamed of them? Uh? 38 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: And I hardly think that's the answer, since they're all 39 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: over Facebook with hashtags talking about looking like their daddy 40 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: and all of that. So the question is how could 41 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,359 Speaker 1: he not want you, his wife, to know about his children. 42 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: I mean, if you guys have children, if you guys, 43 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: uh are you're you're married, and you decide to have children, 44 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: then these secret children will be their siblings and and 45 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: they definitely should know about each other. So so it 46 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 1: just reeks of something not cool. I'm glad you do 47 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 1: have intact with this baby mama, um, even though that 48 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: might be a little crazy, because at least you were 49 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: able to get the truth about the kids. Even if 50 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: she has ulterior motives in the situation, like you know, 51 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:14,639 Speaker 1: still wanting him ers or or whatever the situation. Now 52 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:18,959 Speaker 1: you know the truth about that. Um. Yeah, he has secrets. 53 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: He's not coming clean. Just something stinks. Now should you 54 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 1: leave him because of that? Uh? It depends on what 55 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: else he's lying about. Steve, who I didn't I'm just 56 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: saying it depends. Just do your answer. Well you know, 57 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: wait a minute, wait, wait a minute. Just well, well 58 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: it's not like you know him personally. Just do your answer. 59 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it. Okay, Well good, because it's your 60 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: husband and I'm gonna do it. I ain't got no ink, 61 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: pian or nothing. I couldn't even take no notes. Men'll 62 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: be okay, watched this thought. I made a Facebook account 63 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 1: any damn way, and told me he didn't want me 64 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: on them. Well, I made one. I'm trying to stay 65 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,600 Speaker 1: in touch with my family free it was married for 66 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: two years. You love that, admired him and tercently. Then 67 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 1: somehow them you say it was one of the worst 68 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 1: days in your life. Scrolling on Facebook and came across 69 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: the picture of my husband's daughter. Now you knew about 70 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 1: this and another little girl the hairtag on the picture 71 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: with assistance looking like their daddy. I knew my husband 72 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 1: had one daughter before I met him, so I waited 73 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: a couple of days and I called my husband's baby 74 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 1: mama to ask her about the picture with the two girls. 75 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: To my surprise, she told me my husband gotta told 76 00:04:56,920 --> 00:05:00,040 Speaker 1: of folk children and that the other girl is my 77 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: husband's daughter too. I asked my husband about it. He 78 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: won't tell me everything. I'm hurt on so many levels. 79 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: Not the husband had the child before y'all got married, 80 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: but I'm still hurt. I'm his wife. I shouldn't know everything. 81 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: Should I leave him because he won't come clean. Now 82 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: I can assure you this is what happened somewhere in 83 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 1: y'all's dating experience. You might have made some statements. So 84 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: somewhere to this man, I can accept one child, but 85 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be doing with a whole lot of 86 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 1: baby mama drama. He saw the fact that he could 87 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:43,359 Speaker 1: lose you, so he decided not to bring up the 88 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: other baby mama drapa. I'm telling you exactly, Jay, Am 89 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:52,160 Speaker 1: I right about that? Absolutely? Right here? Am I right 90 00:05:52,200 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 1: about somewhere in this conversation. And it's not your fault. 91 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: I'm not blaming the wife that's writing this letter. Don't 92 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: get me wrong. She's absolutely one correct and feeling what 93 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: she's feeling. I'm just trying to give you why he lied. 94 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 1: And here's the other shocking part for most women. He 95 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 1: did not lie. Uh, he just ain't tell you every 96 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: we must omission and listen to me. Is not a lie? 97 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 1: What and omission is an omission? A lie is telling 98 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 1: a falsehood about a fact. But if he don't bring 99 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: up the fact it is it is a record of omission. Now, 100 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 1: after years go by, you can't say, well, hell, you 101 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 1: ain't never asked me. Oh, I forgot right. You can't 102 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 1: forget kids. Now. The important thing in this whole that is, 103 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 1: is he taking care of the children. That is his 104 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: responsibility he has. Should you have known, Yes, you should 105 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 1: have because you you deserve the right to know exactly 106 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: everything you're getting into. But the fact of losing you 107 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: if you knew everything you're getting into, prohibited him from 108 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 1: telling you everything you needed to know. I'm just giving 109 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: you the insight to the working of the male species. 110 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: This is how we think. Absolutely. It may be wrong, Shirley, 111 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: but that's so to us. It ain't. It ain't to us. 112 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm apologizing for him. I'm sorry, understand. Yeah, 113 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: you're right, man, I feel you don't stay out of 114 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: comp you don't even have kids. But we come back 115 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: Age seven seven twenty nine, Steve. If there's a man 116 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: in here to know what I'm talking about, Age seven 117 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 1: seven lying, We'll be back. My Husband's Secret Children, Part 118 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 1: two coming up. Queen Sugar is the critically acclaimed drama 119 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 1: series on Owned from Academy Award nominated visionary filmmaker Ava 120 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 1: du Vernay, the director of Selma and Thirteenth, and executive 121 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 1: producer Oprah Winfrey. Queen Sugar is a visually stunning family 122 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 1: drama that is as powerful as it is poetic. And 123 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: the very definition of prestige TV. In a game changing move, 124 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: a team of all female directors were brought on to 125 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 1: create the first season, and season two will be no different. 126 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 1: Queen Sugar follows the three Borderline siblings, Charlie, Nova and 127 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 1: Ralph Angel as they struggled to move forward with their 128 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: lives while striving to honor the legacy of their father 129 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 1: following his unexpected passing. Together, they must learn to rely 130 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 1: on each other as they navigate what it means to 131 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 1: be family. Season one is now streaming only on Hulu 132 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 1: so you can catch up on all thirteen episodes before 133 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: the two nights season premiere event starts on Tuesday, June 134 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: at nine Central only on Owned, and if you missed 135 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 1: the premiere, you can watch it anytime anywhere on the 136 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: watch Own. Act alright, Steve, Part two of your response 137 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: to the Strawberry Letters subject my husband's Secret Children. I 138 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 1: asked people to call because Shirley, you and Carla in 139 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:41,559 Speaker 1: Monica in background, Paul appalled at this man and the response, 140 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to help y'all understand why he did it, 141 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:50,719 Speaker 1: Why he did it? Does that make it all right? No? No, 142 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: of course not. But you need to understand the thinking 143 00:09:56,320 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 1: behind here's a land that had a childish you found 144 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: out about. She probably said someone in the conversation, Yeah, 145 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: I could do one, but I can't do it now. 146 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 1: He got mold, so he went with, Damn, I'm gonna 147 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: lose the chicken my dreams because I'd have made some 148 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: mistakes as a younger. Man. Oh man, just let me 149 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: not talk about this my kids, this being my kids 150 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 1: that I but you know he didn't tell her, but 151 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: he having the beers. Obviously she didn't want no relationship 152 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 1: with him. That could be a too See, y'all don't know. 153 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna be putting up with all these kids 154 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: I do this one. If you say something like that 155 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 1: to him, man, he's gonna he's gonna somebody. Let's go 156 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: to phone. All right, let's go. Let's talk in all guys. 157 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: Let's talk to Adam online one out of Georgia. Adam, 158 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 1: have you been listening to the Strawberry Letter? Adam? Yes, 159 00:10:56,640 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: do you have surely what I'm It's called a set up? 160 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: Girls at see what's wrong? Is you mad? Because it's 161 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 1: all guys, that's what it's fall Just ain't about you 162 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 1: I'm not mad. Okay, go ahead then, so we don't 163 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 1: know what. We've been together since two thousand and twelve. 164 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: That was the first one of the first thing she 165 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 1: had to do you have any kids? That has been 166 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: a constant question for the past three years since we've 167 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 1: been married, And even now she is uh fifteen weeks 168 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: pregnant with twins, and she's still asking me that question, 169 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 1: do you have kids? I just don't know why it's 170 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 1: continuing to come up after I've given her a definitive note. 171 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 1: Every time she's seen it happen to some girlfriends, she 172 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: may have had it happened to herself in her past. 173 00:11:57,200 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 1: How old is you want? She is nine twenty nine? 174 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: Could in her past she had been dating a man 175 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 1: and find out that he had kids? Day No, none, none, 176 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 1: telling me about kids? Maybe on her? But that's about it, right. 177 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 1: But see, because she ain't told it to you, don't 178 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 1: mean that ain't happen. I'm not saying anything about your 179 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 1: wife negatively. He don't take it that one. I'm just saying, 180 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:29,439 Speaker 1: maybe a guy who cheated on her also had a 181 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: baby somewhere she found out about it. That's what she's 182 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: talking about. And that's all it is. Man. If it 183 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:39,839 Speaker 1: be just a suspicious have you done anything to make her? 184 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: Thank you? Another kid? No? No, nothing? Okay, well then 185 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 1: you're straight though. See one thing about it. When they're 186 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 1: accusing you or something that ain't true, that's a good one. Yeah, 187 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 1: that's good man. You and you and you, you know, 188 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:59,079 Speaker 1: ride that one out because you're gonna need that one. 189 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 1: That's get out to jail free card because you're gonna 190 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: do something in a minute. Line, who's gonna take place? 191 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 1: Thank you, Adam. All right, let's go to line too 192 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 1: and talk to Kenneth out of Texas. Yeah, so you 193 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 1: heard the letter. You got a comment on it. Yeah, 194 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,079 Speaker 1: First of all, I want to say, hello, Steeve Harvey. 195 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:25,439 Speaker 1: How are you doing. I'm good. I've been uh listening 196 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:29,839 Speaker 1: to you for over thirty years now. I'm tired military 197 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 1: for the five years, but I've been following you every 198 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,839 Speaker 1: place i've been. I've been listening to you, and I 199 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 1: admire you, and I I praise Gods for you for 200 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 1: the things that you're doing with the Minium camp and 201 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: everything else. You know, I just prayed that God continue 202 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: to keep blessing you in the morning shows to grow 203 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: bigger and go high and high every day. First though, 204 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 1: I want to say, yeah, I was in the same 205 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: situation like this. I was in the same situation like 206 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: this when I met my wife. Uh she you know that, 207 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:01,319 Speaker 1: we begin to talk and everything, and he, uh, he 208 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 1: did set something to the factor where uh she didn't 209 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: want any kids and uh she wasn't trying to think 210 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: nobody with a bunch of kids and stuff like that, 211 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:13,839 Speaker 1: and so I just didn't say hing about it, and 212 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: then never came up and uh, we get married and 213 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 1: you're standing in line, end up coming out that I 214 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: did have some children. Uh. But she has accepted my children. Uh, 215 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 1: she loved my children. And you know, we've we've moved 216 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 1: on past that point and we have a matter of fact, 217 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 1: we have a child of our own now. Well, but 218 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 1: let me ask you a question, why did you Why 219 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 1: did you not tell her about the kids? Tell tell 220 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: Sheirley and Colin and how many? Because because at that point, 221 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: at that point we had all beginning to talk weird. 222 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 1: I fell in love and I didn't want to uh 223 00:14:55,000 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 1: lose what I had I had been, what I had 224 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 1: been in a previous relationship where it was violent, it 225 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 1: wasn't violent on my animal viols on the other end, 226 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 1: and I wasn't. I didn't want to go through that. 227 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: And I finally found somebody where I loved him. I admired, 228 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 1: my appreciate and I didn't want to lose this. Jewels 229 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 1: is down in the rough to God that that I know, 230 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 1: God that I'm talking Now, let me this for sure, Shirley. 231 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: Wonder how many kids did you have? Uh? I had 232 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 1: three PM? Just like what else was she gotta do? 233 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: But you're married? What you're doing this? I mean and 234 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: and and my kids are my kids are grown? Uh 235 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 1: we we've been married, uh nine years and or we're 236 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: about to three knew our vials. My kids are grown. 237 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 1: Like I said, she she loved him, No, she oh, 238 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: she's right there for me. She encouraged me too to 239 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 1: see him and go see them and everything. So in 240 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 1: a minute, don't see Shirley, I don't want to date. 241 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 1: No man, I ain't even to have all this. Sometime 242 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 1: we keep it to yourself until you grow up. Yeah, 243 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 1: but they're married. What is she gonna do? They're married? 244 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 1: Or mean she's gonna I mean she she? Uh? You 245 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:18,440 Speaker 1: and I've even such it even came up. You know, 246 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 1: after she found out, she was kind of upset, but 247 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: you know, she had We even talked about. I said, well, 248 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 1: you know, if this isn't what you want, you have 249 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 1: the option to go. Well, hey man, hang on, man, 250 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 1: we gotta go. We'll be back. This is how I 251 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: told you should whatever, he's still lying. You're listening to 252 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.