WEBVTT - No Shoes En Mi Casa! 0:00:03.600 --> 0:00:06.000 I'm Honey Germany. My parents are Dominican. I was born 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:08.440 and raised in New York City. I love sneakers and 0:00:08.480 --> 0:00:09.960 I'm a body positive advocate. 0:00:10.240 --> 0:00:13.600 I'm Carolina Bermudez Sony Nikaa wins it. But I was 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:17.040 born and raised in Ohio. I'm a wife, a mama, 0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:18.520 and a worker bee. 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:20.760 This is life in Spanglish. 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:24.200 By now, the saying is so famous. I mean, you 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:25.119 can't get away from it. 0:00:25.160 --> 0:00:32.440 But mikasas Sukassa betro sing Saato because Honey brought this 0:00:32.600 --> 0:00:33.920 up to me and she wanted to know. 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:36.320 She's like, I want to know what is your policy 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:38.280 at your house? And I said, girl, do you really 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:38.919 want to know this? 0:00:39.040 --> 0:00:40.480 You don't know me by now? 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:43.800 Yeah, I really really really want to know this, Carolina, 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:46.440 because I don't know. I feel a way when people 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:48.080 tell me to take my shoes off when they go 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:48.760 to their house. 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:51.800 Oh my gosh. Okay, so I thought you were going 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:54.360 to be on my side. See, Honey, I took you 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:56.960 as I look at your instagrams. 0:00:57.160 --> 0:00:58.520 You have an immaculate home. 0:00:59.000 --> 0:01:02.240 Yeah, house is super clean anybody who comes here. 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:04.720 Yeah, and I am the same. I mean, the one 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:08.560 thing that I've always been very very strict about are 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:12.560 my floors. You will come into my home, even with 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:17.000 a dog that sheds, I swiffer twice a day, you 0:01:17.080 --> 0:01:20.600 will not find anything nasty on my floors. And I 0:01:20.640 --> 0:01:22.600 did this from the time that the boys were little, 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:24.319 because you know, you have little babies. 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:25.199 There crawling floor. 0:01:25.400 --> 0:01:29.160 Yeah, so from the time even before this, when we 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:33.520 lived in Brooklyn, there was a strict rule. You did 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:36.080 not even before that in a Homebooken, are you kidding 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:36.440 me right now? 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:38.959 I'm taking it way back from a single every. 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:40.720 Where you've been no shoes in your house. 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:45.720 You do not wear shoes in the house, and especially 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:49.680 in this area. Ladies, gentlemen, if you're listening, do you 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:53.040 feel me like seriously comment at Eli's spanguish and let 0:01:53.120 --> 0:01:55.640 me know what your policy is, because we are very 0:01:55.640 --> 0:01:57.120 strict about it in this household. 0:01:57.480 --> 0:01:59.920 I don't know, Carolyn. I always kind of like reserve 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:03.000 that for like if let's say you're from Asia, or 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:05.760 you're from the Middle East, or you're Japanese. Like I 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:09.200 understood that as a sign of respect for certain cultures, 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:15.760 people from certain countries. But I feel away, and I 0:02:15.800 --> 0:02:17.720 still feel away. I guess maybe because I didn't grow 0:02:17.800 --> 0:02:19.679 up with that. It's like you would run around the 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:21.480 house you had your shoes off, And I didn't know 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:23.560 any Latinos that would say you have to take your 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:26.160 shoes off when you come to my house. So now, 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:29.400 even now, I recently bought a house in Jersey and 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:32.480 I redid all the floors. They're live beige Krolina, I 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:35.520 could not fix my face to tell someone take your 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:37.520 shoes off when they come in my house, Like I 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:40.160 feel like they would be so offended, like I would 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:41.080 think they're dirty. 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:43.720 I'm sorry you're offended, but this is my home. 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:47.320 No teach me your ways, Caroline. I really have not 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:51.240 been able to like even fix my face to tell 0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:54.320 one person. I remember Nala, who worked with us, came 0:02:54.360 --> 0:02:55.919 to my house and she was like, should I take 0:02:55.960 --> 0:02:57.200 off my shoes? And I was like, no, no, no, why 0:02:57.200 --> 0:02:58.920 would you take off your shoes? And she's like, oh, 0:02:59.000 --> 0:03:01.320 my mom would make people take off their shoes, and 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:03.960 one hundred percent that she took them off and she 0:03:04.040 --> 0:03:06.200 walked around and has socks. But then I thought about it, 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:09.400 I was like, that's kind of weird and I don't 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:11.280 like it either when I go to people's houses. 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:14.120 Well, then you know what, you bring your own slippers, baby, 0:03:14.200 --> 0:03:16.839 because I am not even kidding around. When you come 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:18.799 to my home, see this is the thing you can 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:21.239 walk in through my front entry. 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:22.440 You can walk in in. 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:24.720 That area because then, by the way, you do know 0:03:24.720 --> 0:03:27.040 when you leave, I'm gonna get out me being as 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:29.240 al and I'm gonna go ahead and I'm gonna mop 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:31.760 that area because you walked in it with your shoes 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:32.560 from outside. 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:35.680 But you know, I've been traveling so much. 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:37.600 Lately, and this is hilarious because this will just tell 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:39.280 you guys a lot about my personality. 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:43.640 I do not waste anything. And you know, since E has. 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:46.360 Been flying me back and forth to La, you know, 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:48.760 I am going to grab those slippers and I'm going 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:51.040 to save them. So when you come to my house, 0:03:51.240 --> 0:03:53.560 if you don't want to walk around barefoot, that's okay. 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:57.240 I can offer you little socks, or I can offer 0:03:57.280 --> 0:04:00.840 you the Delta plane slippers that have no been used, 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:03.600 because I would never bring plane slippers into my own 0:04:03.600 --> 0:04:04.080 home too. 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:05.680 That's a whole other discussion. 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:08.480 And I have something to provide for you so that 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:11.120 you don't feel uncomfortable, because I will say I have 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:14.400 been to other people's houses, and they got some skanky 0:04:14.440 --> 0:04:17.080 floors with some crumbs on, and they got dog hair, 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:19.240 and I feel like I want to take off my 0:04:19.360 --> 0:04:23.240 shoes and walk around barefoot and that environment. So why 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:25.440 would I want anybody to feel that way in my home. 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:28.560 That's definitely a thing, because you know, some people might 0:04:28.600 --> 0:04:30.240 not want to show their socks. I say they got 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:32.760 some ratty socks with some holes in it, or even 0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:34.640 the bare feet. Let's say you haven't gotten petticure of 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:36.880 forever and yet feet it just tore up curently. No, 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:38.840 that's another reason why people might be like, I don't 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:41.040 want to take off my shoes, and there I am 0:04:41.120 --> 0:04:43.440 at your door, like, so I can't visit you unless 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:45.800 I expose my raggedy ass feet that haven't had a 0:04:45.839 --> 0:04:48.080 petticure in three months. Okay, no problem. 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:50.919 Well, no, you know what, it don't feel bad at me? Nope, 0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:51.640 I sure don't. 0:04:51.680 --> 0:04:54.120 You want to know why, because it's my house and 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:56.720 it's and I live here, and if you're gonna come 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:58.800 in my house, my house, my rules. 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:01.560 But you know what I do with I want. 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:02.800 You to pack you to attacked. 0:05:02.839 --> 0:05:05.440 Okay, I think I tried to you know this is 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:07.520 the problem, though, So I have a mother in law 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:12.520 who selectively forgets every time she comes to visit us 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:15.080 that we do not wear shoes in the house. And 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:17.640 I understand it's out of habit and a lot of 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:19.880 people don't do it, and so I do give her 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:21.839 a pass because it's like, hey, listen, if you wear 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:23.960 your shoes in your house, that's on you. But we 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:27.360 don't do it here. I have even gone so far 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:30.080 as to purchase her a pair of house slippers. Like, 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:31.800 by the way, I will tell you, I have a 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:35.360 pair of like birkenstocks that I wear in my house. 0:05:35.560 --> 0:05:39.520 These don't leave my house. They don't go anywhere but 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:42.320 my house. They're little plastic ones, right, because I also 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:44.960 have a bad back, so I need that foot support. 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:47.480 But I went so far as to buy her a 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:50.000 pair of sandals so that when she comes to New York, 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:52.560 I always say, oh, you know, Jackie, we don't wear 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:54.560 shoes in the household on, let me get you your slippers, 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:57.159 so then she can put those on. And it's almost 0:05:57.200 --> 0:05:58.600 like training her. 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:02.080 Girl, this is an older person. This is not a 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:04.039 thing like I'm telling you it was. This never a 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:07.080 thing for me, like any house I visit it growing up, 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:09.320 not my black friends, not my Latino friends, not my 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:13.000 white friends. So for me, it's just weird as hell. 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:15.799 No, there's just too much funk out in these streets sometimes. 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:18.479 Well that is true. I know that, you know, it's 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:21.680 very unsanitary, especially like us. We travel in trains, we 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:24.640 take ubers, we be in airports, so your shoes are 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:26.560 super contaminated and disgusting. 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:29.840 Oh and the other thing too, since you're talking about 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:34.159 the airports. My suitcase doesn't go into my bedroom because 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:35.159 that suitcase has. 0:06:35.000 --> 0:06:36.560 Been here, there, everywhere. 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:39.240 There are certain things that I just like won't allow 0:06:39.520 --> 0:06:43.719 into my like sanctuary, you know. And I know that 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:45.320 it's not like there are so many people who just 0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:47.360 don't care and they're like, oh, life's too sure, Why 0:06:47.360 --> 0:06:48.440 do you worry about things like that? 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:49.919 This is like a thing. 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:52.800 So I think that, like the pandemic actually made it 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:54.880 worse because I've always been a germ of fobe. 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:57.400 I was just gonna asked girl during the pandemic, what 0:06:57.640 --> 0:06:59.080 was going down in your house? If you don't even 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:00.320 bring the suitcase in that house? 0:07:00.760 --> 0:07:03.240 Next level, I was one of the ones that was 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:06.960 life selling the groceries on the outside and doing all 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:09.560 of that business. But you know what, I do think 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:13.880 that like it definitely heightened my awareness for germs and things. 0:07:13.640 --> 0:07:14.960 Like that, which was not good. 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:17.040 It didn't get me to a good place, but I 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:19.840 think that I definitely relaxed a little bit more Like 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:22.200 with the kids. First thing you do when you go home? 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:23.800 What's the first thing that you do, honey? Other than 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:25.640 take off your you don't take off your shoes. So 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:27.440 what's the first thing that you do when you walk 0:07:27.440 --> 0:07:27.840 in the door. 0:07:28.080 --> 0:07:32.000 As soon as I walk in the house, Carolina, put 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:34.360 my sunglasses down. I go right to the fridge, get 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:35.480 me a beverage. 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:38.880 Oh oh, you missed a step. See this is where 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:40.520 we do not agree. 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:44.520 The first thing you do walk into this house? 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:46.840 Oh your house. We're talking about when I walk into 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:47.760 your house? On my house? 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:48.800 No, your house. 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:49.480 No, you were right. 0:07:49.520 --> 0:07:50.600 You were right about the thing. 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:51.880 Like the difference between us. 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:54.760 Is that, like the first thing that I do is 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:57.680 wash my hands. I will still even have my purse 0:07:58.200 --> 0:07:59.920 on my on my shoulder. 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:03.520 Yeah yeah, thinking about that, right, I know. 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:05.320 But that's what I'm saying. It's like for some people, 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:07.640 it's almost like an illness. You know what I mean, 0:08:07.760 --> 0:08:09.640 like to be that consumed by it. 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:11.680 I thought you want to be that dirty like me. 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:14.720 No, I'm saying you're normal. 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:17.280 Like what you do is normal. What I do is 0:08:17.400 --> 0:08:19.640 over the top. It's too much. Like even my sister 0:08:19.760 --> 0:08:22.920 says sometimes she's like yeah, you know, and I'm like, no, 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:26.320 it will like it's the kind of stuff that keeps 0:08:26.320 --> 0:08:26.960 me up at night. 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:30.000 But you know what, like after you started talking about this, 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:32.320 you don't be like we're recording and we're talking and 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:34.640 I'm googling. I'm just like all over the place. And 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:37.760 then I was just looking and I'm like, what's on shoes? 0:08:37.840 --> 0:08:41.760 And I'm reading this article and it says ecla is 0:08:41.760 --> 0:08:42.360 on shoes? 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:43.160 Babe. 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:46.880 You know the Upper east Side. So the Upper east 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:48.880 Side has this really bad problem. And you would think 0:08:48.960 --> 0:08:52.160 all of these rich people with their little dog walkers 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:54.720 and all the people that got money, you know, that 0:08:54.880 --> 0:08:58.080 they would be a little bit more clean and that 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.760 they would be a little more tidy and consider it. 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:03.920 Wait until I tell you the issue that is happening 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:06.040 on the Upper east Side when we get back from 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:11.880 this break. So before we went to break, Okay, this 0:09:12.040 --> 0:09:14.280 is something that is happening now. If you're listening to 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:17.720 us anywhere on the iHeartRadio app, God bless you, because 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:20.120 if you're living in Ohio, if you're living somewhere else 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:23.520 like in Texas or you know, Washington City, you probably 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:26.440 don't run into the issues that we are running into here. 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:31.000 On the Upper east Side. There is a dog poop problem. 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:35.640 On the Upper east Side, they have a surplus honey 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:38.200 of dog poop to the point where they had to 0:09:38.240 --> 0:09:41.480 start an initiative to tell people that you need to 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:44.600 clean up your dog's mess. So imagine we're on fifty 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:45.760 fifth and six. 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:48.480 And let me paint this to you. Guys. We are 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:50.920 in the middle of the theater district. So you see 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:53.760 all these Broadway shows that you know, everyone wants to 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:55.320 come see in New York. We're right in the middle 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:56.920 of that mix, right. 0:09:56.960 --> 0:09:59.360 So then you imagine that there's people from the Upper 0:09:59.400 --> 0:10:01.719 east Side coming over to our area. We're going over 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:04.400 to their area whatever, you know, like the we're very 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:05.040 truancy of. 0:10:05.080 --> 0:10:08.000 People New Yorkers. We were here there everywhere. Right. 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:14.079 You're bringing whatever that little dog just did, that mess 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:17.600 that they made, you're bringing that into your home on 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:21.439 your shoes next to your family. Some people. Okay, this 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:23.720 is what drives me insane. I've been at other people's 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:25.760 houses where they put their feet up on the coffee 0:10:25.800 --> 0:10:27.240 table and they have their shoes. 0:10:26.960 --> 0:10:29.800 On, and then they eat on the coffee table. 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:34.840 No, it is that is enough to make my skin crawl. 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:38.600 Now you're making me feel like I need to tell 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:40.560 people to take their shoes off, especially if they coming 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:43.800 from the BX, the upper east side, the lower east side. 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:46.000 Where are you coming from? Oh, the subway is disgusting. 0:10:46.000 --> 0:10:48.079 I used to start. You're right, Carolina, I used to 0:10:48.120 --> 0:10:50.520 step on piss all the time. I get I was 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:52.600 dry pissed, and then my sneakerld be stuck on it. 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:56.040 Now you're giving me that, Carolina, And my position on 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:59.440 shoes and Mikasa might just have to change, because now 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:01.760 I'm seeing him as a health hazard, not just like 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:05.560 you know what is ap come visit me. It's like 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:09.920 a look. It's like the shoes. And my older sister 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:13.319 she comes, It's like she has just shoes on Valentino. 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:18.400 Sometimes the Balanciaga sneakers match the hat. How I look 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:20.960 being like, I know you got this whole fit and 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:23.040 this whole drip and this look going. But can you 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:24.360 take off your shoes? I want to see kind of 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:26.800 stocks you got under there? Slip aside time. 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:31.840 But you know what if they both that, you know 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:34.000 what I mean, Like, you're not trying to impress anybody 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:36.080 in my house. And that's where I feel like, you know, 0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:39.640 maybe people will feel more comfortable. Look, I understand if 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:41.839 it's uncomfortable for you and you're not used to it, 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:44.079 but I also want you to feel like you can 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:47.160 relax in my home. And I'm not relaxing if you 0:11:47.200 --> 0:11:49.520 are coming through and you got all of that stuff 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:51.920 on you, like, no way, no, how Now, I do 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:54.280 know that I can push the limit and that it 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:56.280 is a bit much. And that's where my sister was 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:58.600 telling me. She's like, you know, you can't be that 0:11:58.640 --> 0:12:00.320 way with people, and I said, no, I know that 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:02.680 I can't be that way with people. But it's also 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:05.960 still my house, you know, so there has to be 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:07.080 a little bit of a give and take. 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:12.880 I guess you gotta respect everyone's I guess I want 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:14.760 to tell people take off their shoes, but I feel 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:17.880 like trash. I don't know why, Carolina, I just know it, 0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:20.000 But I'm going to tell you. I'm going to tell 0:12:20.000 --> 0:12:22.600 you this is the type of person I am. I 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:25.520 went to a party one time a couple of years ago, 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:30.600 and they had a porta potty and they were like, oh, 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:32.679 we don't want nobody in our house. Whoever has to 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:36.600 piss has to use a porta partty in Carolina, I left. 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:40.679 Yeah, see that's next. 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:44.840 I felt wildly disrespected. I said, wait, hold on, you 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:48.199 want me here to celebrate a big life event for you, 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:50.640 but I am not worthy of going into your home 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:54.640 and pissing on your toilet. I am sure as hell 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:57.280 am not going to piss in no por to potty. 0:12:57.320 --> 0:12:59.800 And you know why, Carolina. I made my rounds. I said, 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:02.480 I dropped off my gift. I had a drink, and 0:13:02.520 --> 0:13:05.360 I broke out. I'm sorry, Carolina. And I feel like 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:08.440 people would take me telling them to take off their 0:13:08.440 --> 0:13:10.760 shoes the same way I took as somebody telling me 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:11.920 go pissing a porta potty. 0:13:12.280 --> 0:13:14.400 So the thing with the porta potty okay, And I'm 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:16.040 just gonna play Devil's advocate. 0:13:15.640 --> 0:13:19.000 Here, Please do so, because that traumatized me for life. 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:20.880 I would be traumatized too, and I don't think that 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:22.840 I could bring myself to pee in the porta potty. 0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:24.640 Legit, I would not be able. 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:27.400 I probably would have done the same beautiful home. 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:30.560 It was a beautiful home with multiple bathrooms, and it 0:13:30.600 --> 0:13:32.240 was the porter partty was in the driveway. 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:36.640 My only thought process for that where it's acceptable, where 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:39.920 I would be like, Okay, it's understandable is if they 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:42.600 had are doing work or renovations in their home. 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:44.360 But other than that, if you just have a porta 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:46.880 potty because you don't want people coming into your home, 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:49.319 that's an issue for me, and I feel like that 0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:51.920 is rude. I feel like that's bad manners. 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:55.800 Okay, all right, so I agree with you. The porta 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:57.160 potty is like next level. 0:13:57.160 --> 0:13:58.720 That's taking it a step too far, because like, what 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:00.480 do you expect that people are? First, Well, you have 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:02.280 to trust your guests like that they're not going to 0:14:02.280 --> 0:14:04.400 come into your home and absolutely destroy it. 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:06.679 Right exactly like you invited me here, but now I 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:08.920 can't piss in your toilet and my you know what 0:14:09.040 --> 0:14:12.120 Nuni said, absolutely no, my wife not putting her ass on. No, damn. 0:14:12.120 --> 0:14:15.160 Porta poppa is precious and we don't take it. 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:18.840 But no, but if you are but if you're doing 0:14:18.880 --> 0:14:21.400 renovations to your home or if there's something that could 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:25.240 be potentially dangerous for your guests, I could see why, Like, listen, 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:27.880 I'm providing you with the porta potty because you cannot 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:29.160 come into my home because. 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:31.720 Of X y Z. I feel like that is considerate. 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:35.080 But if you're doing it because you just don't want 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:38.680 like people to be in your house, like that's messed up. 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:42.440 Back to the shoes, Karlina, I will say one thing though. 0:14:43.120 --> 0:14:46.160 While I was I've been recovering from my stroke, I 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:49.080 did wear a shoe brace and I've been to houses 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:53.000 where people are like, no shoes, and I'm like, I apologize, 0:14:53.120 --> 0:14:54.640 I have to wear my shoes. 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:58.200 Oh but honey, no, See that's like a whole different situation. 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:00.800 I'm not like this is that that to me? It's like, 0:15:00.840 --> 0:15:03.160 you have to respect that somebody is going through something. 0:15:03.200 --> 0:15:05.280 I would never expect you to do that if you 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:05.640 were to. 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:06.560 Come to my home at that point. 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:09.680 And I felt like so awkward the whole time, Like 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:11.520 it happened to me twice and I'm like, oh my god, 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:13.680 I know they're probably so mad. I have my shoes on. 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:15.600 And I was like, but I can't walk without my 0:15:15.600 --> 0:15:18.120 brace and I can't wear my brace without my shoes. 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:20.200 Right, No, I mean I think that you have to 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:23.160 kind of gauge, like I mean, obviously if it's somebody's like, 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:26.160 you know, like for example, my mother in law totally 0:15:26.200 --> 0:15:27.520 able bodied, you. 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:28.040 Know she's not. 0:15:28.120 --> 0:15:30.080 No, I'm serious, like if she were in a walker 0:15:30.320 --> 0:15:32.040 or something like, yes, I'm not going to be like, 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:34.119 oh second. 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:36.200 Yeah, I'm safe, right right. 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:37.920 I think like you have to gauge like with each 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:38.720 person and stuff. 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:41.320 But like I do think that people need to recognize 0:15:41.360 --> 0:15:43.800 like the things that they're bringing into their home because 0:15:43.840 --> 0:15:44.320 I don't. 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:45.040 Think people see it. 0:15:45.080 --> 0:15:47.600 And after like everything that we went through, I am sorry. 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:50.760 I am not trying to track any kind of bugs 0:15:51.000 --> 0:15:53.840 or you know, any kind of mess in my house 0:15:53.960 --> 0:15:55.080 after what we went through. 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:56.800 No, thank you, ma'am. 0:15:57.760 --> 0:15:58.960 And all I got to say is, thank god you 0:15:58.960 --> 0:16:01.320 don't have no carpeting house, Karlina, because I have her 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:06.080 carpets are like a playground for bacteria, germs, and even 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:09.560 if you have an animal or be that day, I'm sorry, 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:11.080 I don't even have an area rug at my house 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:12.080 because I'm so shook. 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:17.360 I'm telling you, like she is limited to where our 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.920 kitchen is, you know, like we have one rug there 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:22.960 in like the main area because obviously like we have 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:25.880 a couch like and a coffee table or whatever. 0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:28.720 But like she is not allowed to just roam free 0:16:28.760 --> 0:16:29.320 in this home. 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:37.400 No way, no how, no no no no. 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:39.680 Trust me, I saved her from the sawdust. She's fine. 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:42.120 She's better than she would have been if she would 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:44.160 have stayed in that same place. So no, she's winning 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:46.280 right now. She stays winning. Right now. 0:16:46.320 --> 0:16:48.480 You're winning in the yard and in the kitchen. Just 0:16:48.760 --> 0:16:50.640 enjoy what you have, okay girl. 0:16:50.800 --> 0:16:52.760 Right No, And like you know, one quick thing that 0:16:52.800 --> 0:16:55.040 I will say, it's like this is this is something 0:16:55.080 --> 0:16:58.880 that I adopt everywhere. I don't care if I am 0:16:59.240 --> 0:17:01.240 you know that I act actually bring my own socks 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:03.160 with me if I go to other people's houses, like 0:17:03.240 --> 0:17:04.600 just because it's like, oh okay, if I want to 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:06.399 feel comfortable, if they want me to take off my 0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:08.280 shoes there, like I'm gonna take them off and I'm 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:08.840 gonna put. 0:17:08.720 --> 0:17:10.159