WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Date Night Detour 0:00:00.440 --> 0:00:02.360 Hey, welcome to the Second Date Podcast. Thank you so 0:00:02.440 --> 0:00:04.320 much for being here. And we don't normally do this, 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:07.360 but you are really special to us. So Jose is 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:09.680 going to give out his personal phone number right now. Yeah, yeah, 0:00:10.039 --> 0:00:14.600 okay if you need to call him, so text seven two. Okay, 0:00:14.720 --> 0:00:15.680 show's text board. 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:17.599 If you're lonely, you can text us. I'm on it 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:18.160 all night long. 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:23.119 Okay, so you're on it more than your own phone texting. Basically, 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:24.680 I mean it's a better way to reach him, That's 0:00:24.680 --> 0:00:27.280 all we're saying. And don't forget. We've got forty five 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:30.080 more minutes, a full show, an hour long. Oh my god, 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:32.640 could you take that much? If you want it, go 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:34.479 for it. It's over at the Brook and Jeffrey main 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:37.239 podcast feed. But right now we're all about the Second Date, 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:38.320 so let's get it started. 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:44.080 Second Date Update. Where's the worst place to take a 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:45.600 woman on a first date? 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:46.960 The worst? 0:00:47.840 --> 0:00:49.840 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Home of the Second 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:52.680 Date Update? I mean, like a garbage dump? 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:54.240 Are you going to give us options? Because I have 0:00:54.320 --> 0:00:54.880 some ideas. 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:59.760 Yeah, I mean, crematorium comes to mind than the garbage dump, 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:09.520 especially if you talked about having barbecue already that there 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:13.000 is something that might be worse than that. There's no way, 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:15.319 Jeff Well, I was gonna say, chure Nobyl, but you 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:18.360 know what, let's okay, let's talk to our listener htt 0:01:18.760 --> 0:01:22.240 because he thinks he may have taken his date someplace 0:01:22.480 --> 0:01:23.360 pretty regrettable. 0:01:26.760 --> 0:01:27.920 I mean, that's all you have to do is come 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:29.600 on our show and you'll feel better by comparison. 0:01:30.120 --> 0:01:32.320 Before we find out about this woman, just tell us 0:01:32.319 --> 0:01:33.520 the place that you took her. 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:36.440 Yeah, I took her to my ex's house. 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:40.640 Oh god, what I okay. 0:01:40.480 --> 0:01:43.200 Yeah, we got a backup, not even like the restaurant 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:44.280 where my ex works. 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:46.720 I know, the bad idea. 0:01:46.800 --> 0:01:50.560 Now, okay, it's good that you realize that. But let's 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:53.240 go back and let's start from the beginning. Where did 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:55.320 you meet this woman? And what's her name? 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:56.000 And not yours? 0:01:56.760 --> 0:01:59.320 And took out the girl that I took out. Her 0:01:59.400 --> 0:02:04.279 name's Chrisena. We met at a hiking club, a small 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:06.800 group of people that get together and take hikes on 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:07.320 the weekend. 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:09.400 Let me guess you reached for the same cashew in 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:10.440 the bag of trail. 0:02:10.200 --> 0:02:10.560 Mix, and. 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:17.639 How did you turn it from hiking to a date. 0:02:18.280 --> 0:02:20.799 So we're both cat people. So that's kind of how 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:23.240 we came together a little bit on that. 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:30.200 Okay, okay, hiking and cat people. Yeah, that's true. So 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:32.360 I mean you guys had a pretty good relationship then, 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:36.440 probably before you actually moved into the romantic world, right, Yeah. 0:02:36.480 --> 0:02:38.120 I mean we had tons of talks and I mean 0:02:38.160 --> 0:02:41.160 I showed her tons of pictures. My cat's name is Sorbet. 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:44.440 So I set up a date at my house to 0:02:44.560 --> 0:02:45.520 help meet my cat. 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:47.880 Okay, I like how you said your house. That's good. 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:51.160 Yeah, we were gonna make pizzas at my place. I 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:55.440 got a fancy pizza oven, nice, so we wanted to 0:02:55.480 --> 0:02:58.720 do that. Introduced her to the cat. She looked real nice. 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:01.639 We didn't burn anything. That's usually a good sign. 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:03.560 I mean, were you able to have because you guys 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:05.320 had been friends already, were you able to have like 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:06.880 some flirty moments. 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:09.120 Like come up behind her and need the pizza, like 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:11.919 show her like grab her hands and show her show 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:12.640 her how to toss it. 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:15.960 Yeah, we got like a little ghost moment with the pizza. 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:18.400 Do do not say you did that. 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:21.679 I'm just kidding. Yeah, it was still flirty, a little 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:25.600 flower getting everywhere, but nothing crazy Oh. 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:27.400 Yeah, all right, that's cute. I mean it sounds like 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:28.880 a set up to a great evening. 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:31.040 Yeah, it sounds like a great setup to go over 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:33.959 to your ex's house, because how does that come into 0:03:33.960 --> 0:03:34.440 the picture. 0:03:34.840 --> 0:03:38.120 So, I mean I kept calling for the cat. The 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:40.640 cat likes to hide when new people are there, so 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:43.760 I figured they needed a little bit of time to 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:44.560 get used to her. 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:47.040 And right, I mean, cats notoriously don't come when you 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:49.200 call them, you know, right. 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:52.560 And then I remembered that I actually had dropped the 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:55.160 cat off at the cat moms that morning. 0:03:55.280 --> 0:03:58.800 What do you remembered. 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:01.720 You and your split custody of your cat? 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:04.680 Yeah, yeah, I mean it was kind of a contentious 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:07.040 part of the breakup there, but I mean we're good now. 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:10.600 How could you forget that it was the whole date center? 0:04:11.240 --> 0:04:14.480 I mean, that makes me look so bad. You're a 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:17.000 cat dad that doesn't remember where he left his cat. 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:20.599 I had a pretty busy day and it split my mind. 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:22.440 I mean I had out there things to worry about. 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:25.200 Okay, okay, that is a lot to tackle, both pepperoni 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:29.120 and cheese, so I can understand your head was totally full. 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:31.520 I still don't get how did you end up at 0:04:31.560 --> 0:04:32.279 your ex's house. 0:04:32.839 --> 0:04:35.720 So right after we ate, I was pretty disappointed that 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:37.039 she couldn't meet Sorbet. 0:04:37.320 --> 0:04:39.640 Yeah okay, yeah, but just chalk it up and you 0:04:39.680 --> 0:04:41.200 make a plan for the next time. 0:04:41.160 --> 0:04:43.400 Right, Yeah, I wish I would have done that. That's 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:47.120 a good point. On our way home, I just figured 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:50.359 I'd swing by my exes and introduce her to Sorbet. 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:52.440 No making her home. 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:56.880 You brought Christina over to your ex's house. Oh no, it. 0:04:56.839 --> 0:04:58.560 Sounds really bad when you say it like that. 0:04:59.160 --> 0:04:59.400 It is. 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:03.719 I didn't warn either woman. So you show up unexpectedly 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:06.840 with a date on your ex's door and Christina doesn't 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:08.119 even know that's where she's going. 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:10.919 Yeah, but usually my ex is pretty cool. If I 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:13.080 need to sling by and see the cat, you know, 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:16.320 he alone. 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:17.760 Yeah? How did that go? 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:21.080 So? I mean when when we showed up, it was fine, 0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:23.960 but I could kind of tell that she wasn't really 0:05:23.960 --> 0:05:27.560 digging it. X wasn't really happy that we showed up, 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:29.359 uh to see the cat? 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:30.080 Yeah? 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:30.480 Really? 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:31.560 Yeah shocking. 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:33.880 I can see why you you guys broke up. She's 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:35.200 not not accepting woman. 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:36.520 Yeah, that's it. 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:39.159 Yeah, it was a lot of silence and patting the 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:41.719 cat on the couch, and it was real awkward. She 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:43.680 was just staring at my date the whole time. 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:46.960 You're all sitting on the couch together. Why did I 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:48.760 imagine this just at a doorstep? 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:49.560 You know what I mean? 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:51.360 Like say hi to the cat. Then everybody parts. 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:53.479 You're like a scene a funny movie. 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:54.560 You're inside. 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:56.520 Okay, So you guys all spent the night at your 0:05:56.520 --> 0:05:58.599 ex's house and and when you left the next morning, 0:05:58.640 --> 0:05:59.240 how did that go? 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:00.920 That didn't happened? Thank god? 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:01.760 Okay, good. 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:04.960 The whole time ended in like a real big fight. 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:07.919 Wait, a fight with who you in the ex or 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:08.920 what you in the cat? 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:12.839 Everybody kind of ended up shouting, yeah, Christina didn't like 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:16.000 my ex was being rude. My my accident like that, 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:18.120 I brought a girl there. It was. It was a 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:18.640 whole thing. 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:23.480 Why are you wanting to call this girl again? Christina 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:24.800 doesn't want to have anything to. 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:25.240 Do with you. 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:28.320 Yeah, but your show says you help people get second 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:29.000 dates and. 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:32.279 Miracles over here. 0:06:32.320 --> 0:06:35.000 But oh my gosh, can I just ask when you 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:37.400 drop Christina off at her door, what was the last 0:06:37.440 --> 0:06:38.280 thing she said to you? 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:41.880 She actually gave me the finger, but I don't think. 0:06:41.960 --> 0:06:42.960 She mentioned. 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:46.680 If it's a finger that I'm thinking of, then it 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:50.320 could be a good thing. 0:06:51.480 --> 0:06:53.279 She still took the right and then put off. 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:56.919 Wow, she was emotional. Now that we've had some space, 0:06:56.960 --> 0:06:58.920 it's been about a week or so, so I figured 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:00.920 we could give it another and you guys could help 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:01.279 me out. 0:07:01.360 --> 0:07:03.760 Guys, at least this will be a great story, right, Yeah, 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:08.000 I'm very eager to hear how Christina felt the experience. 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:09.600 This one was gonna be cussing. 0:07:09.880 --> 0:07:11.640 We don't know. We're gonna call her, we'll see how 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:14.560 she's doing, but we do your second date update right 0:07:14.600 --> 0:07:20.960 after this second date update. What went wrong on Rhett's 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:26.000 first date a little hard to say because there was pizza, 0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:31.000 there was cute cats, and the one tiny mistake and 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:34.240 when I say tiny, I mean like minuscule. There was 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:37.920 kind of a fight at his ex's house that involved him, 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:42.400 his date, and his ex girlfriend, resulting at the end 0:07:42.480 --> 0:07:45.520 in a certain finger being pointed at Rhett when he 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:48.680 dropped Christina off at home. It was proposal with the 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:53.560 wedding ring. Other than that, though a plus date, Wrett, 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:55.600 you would agree, right, Yeah. 0:07:55.640 --> 0:08:01.000 Other than all of that, I guess it was fine, Okay. 0:08:00.760 --> 0:08:03.080 Wait, I have a question. Have you had a chance 0:08:03.120 --> 0:08:05.240 to apologize to Christina? 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:08.440 Well, that's the biggest thing is I just haven't seen 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:11.720 her in the hiking group at all, and it's not 0:08:11.800 --> 0:08:14.680 often you get to go from friends into dating. So 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:16.920 I just I didn't want to mess that up. 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:19.800 Yeah, yeah, and don't you didn't. 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:23.360 I'm sure necessarily think you're the one who needs to apologize. 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:26.440 It sounds like your ex girlfriend owes her an apology 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:27.560 for not being cool about that. 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:33.800 He needs to apologize to both women house. We can't 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:36.640 bring a date to your ex's house, especially unannounced. 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:40.440 I don't know who does that. I'm just clearly read 0:08:40.440 --> 0:08:42.960 as somebody that wants everybody to get along. Feels like 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:46.960 you should be able to move past ex grievances the ladies, 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:48.880 I don't know why you guys are holding onto this 0:08:48.960 --> 0:08:49.679 like it's a big. 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:51.480 Deal your ex shows up at your house today. 0:08:52.240 --> 0:08:57.000 I don't have one, all right, But we don't know 0:08:57.040 --> 0:08:59.160 the whole story. We have a hunch of what went wrong. 0:08:59.320 --> 0:09:01.920 We need to get Stina's angle to really understand the 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:02.439 full scope. 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:04.520 I can't wait to hear her story. And the thing 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:06.640 is is that you actually sound like a really nice 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:09.080 guy that just made dumb choices. 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:12.280 Yeah, I'm just a really nice guy who made one 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:14.959 dumb choice, and I told you the whole story. 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:17.960 Okay, yeah, but her perspective is going to be interesting. 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:21.080 Yeah, perspective. Well, let's find out what that is. I'm 0:09:21.080 --> 0:09:23.760 going to dial her right now. Hopefully she has nothing 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:24.480 but good things to. 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:26.440 Say about you, or she doesn't just cuss at us 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:26.920 and hang up. 0:09:27.080 --> 0:09:29.560 Okay, we'll see how this goes. I'm dialing she flips 0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:31.480 us off as she answers the phone be able to 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:33.440 see it, we'll be able to feel it here. 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:40.200 Hello. 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:48.719 Hey is this Christina? Yeah, hey Christina, good morning. We've 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:50.559 all been very eager to talk to you. Where a 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:55.679 radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning And uh, 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:56.240 I don't. 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:58.720 Even know where to begin, Christina, how are you doing. 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:01.199 Fine? What is this? 0:10:02.480 --> 0:10:02.640 Yeah? 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:05.760 This is this is a radio show and we're doing 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:07.920 a segment trying to help out one of our listeners 0:10:07.920 --> 0:10:10.559 that you went on a date with recently. His name 0:10:10.640 --> 0:10:12.319 is Rhett. 0:10:12.640 --> 0:10:15.720 Uh what yeah, yeah. 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:18.840 I mean actually that's a better response than I expected 0:10:18.840 --> 0:10:21.480 from you. To be honest, I'm being serious. 0:10:21.160 --> 0:10:24.160 Because we heard about your guys' hangout. We won't rehash 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:24.920 the whole story. 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:26.480 Wait a second, called you. 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:28.880 Yeah, yeah, he emailed us. 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:30.000 Why is he doing that? 0:10:30.800 --> 0:10:32.800 Well, obviously because he likes you. 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:36.040 Well, I mean just that, like you guys were friends 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:38.280 in the hiking group and then and then you had 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:40.440 one date and he knows he screwed it up. 0:10:40.800 --> 0:10:41.000 Yeah. 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:42.880 Can I just hear the story, like I want to 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:45.120 hear from your perspective, Like, you show up to his 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:47.480 ex's house. Did you know that's where you were going? 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:48.160 No? 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:50.280 He was like, Oh, I've got something to show you. 0:10:50.360 --> 0:10:53.280 I really want you to see that I've fallen for 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:57.920 that one before. Yeah, okay, I mean at first I 0:10:57.960 --> 0:10:59.720 just thought it was like his friend or something. I 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:02.080 didn't realized it was his X. And then when we 0:11:02.120 --> 0:11:03.479 get into this argument. 0:11:03.160 --> 0:11:09.199 She called me, ah, oh god, okay, but what we 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:10.480 go from. 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:14.040 Petting the cat to that get some major insecurity issues 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:16.920 or jumping because she was like, well, do you know 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:18.520 what he likes? Because I know what he likes? 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:22.920 Oh god, okay, we did not know that part of 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:23.400 the story. 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:25.840 Yeah, Like I said, she yelled at me and called 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:27.280 me a what did do? 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:29.280 Yes? 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:31.640 He was yeeling back at her. It was just it 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:34.120 was so dramatic, and this is the first date. 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:37.680 Yeah, okay, I'm gonna tell you on the thirty second 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:39.080 date that would not be okay. 0:11:39.320 --> 0:11:42.000 Look, I know that we all feel terrible about that. 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:45.440 Rehet feels sorry for even making the decision to bring 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:46.080 you over there. 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:49.120 Yeah, I mean, he honestly sounds like a nice guy 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:50.400 that made a dumb choice. 0:11:50.559 --> 0:11:53.800 I don't know. He lied to me too, okay, just. 0:11:54.280 --> 0:11:56.760 Like about bringing you over there to introduce you to 0:11:56.840 --> 0:11:57.200 his cat. 0:11:57.400 --> 0:12:00.240 No before that, so I knew him from hiking. We 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:02.840 hugged together with like a group, and we were talking 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:06.360 about our cats, and he told me that Sorbet is 0:12:06.520 --> 0:12:10.559 five and my cat is five two. So I was like, oh, 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:13.760 that's cool to the same age. But then his ex 0:12:13.840 --> 0:12:17.600 told me the Sorbet is nine. 0:12:18.720 --> 0:12:24.479 I don't know, and the name Colin. 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:26.840 White doesn't look a five year different. That's crazy. 0:12:27.040 --> 0:12:29.680 Okay. That was worse to you than the argument that 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:32.160 broke out between the three years. 0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:34.920 Honestly, I think that he lied about his cat's age 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:36.560 on purpose. I think he was trying to say that 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:38.000 it was the same age as my cat so that 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:38.840 they would get along. 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:41.120 Okay, I mean, we do hear a lot of people 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:43.920 lying about their age on dating apps to impress somebody, 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:46.720 not usually lying about their cats age to impress each other. 0:12:46.800 --> 0:12:48.960 But well, yeah, but like that's important to me. 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:50.559 I have something to say here. 0:12:52.880 --> 0:12:55.640 You shut your mouth, you liar. I really hope you would, 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:58.080 because we need to tell you, Christina that Ret's been 0:12:58.160 --> 0:12:59.560 on the other line listening to this call. 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:00.120 Want to do. 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:03.120 And hopefully apologize. 0:13:03.600 --> 0:13:05.880 Well, yeah, I mean I'm going to apologize for the fight, 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:08.520 but not not for my cat being a different age. 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:13.880 I mean, those are just details. 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:16.920 Well you might not think that's important, but I do. 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:19.000 I don't have kids and not painting. I'm having kids 0:13:19.000 --> 0:13:22.000 any time soon. My cat is my world. Like, I 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:24.960 don't want my cat to be the little second side 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:27.720 kit cat because you have this older leader meme cat. 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:31.160 Well maybe if your cat was more mature, it'd be okay, 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:33.240 hanging out with my old cat. 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:36.120 Okay, my cat is plenty mature. 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:40.400 It sounds like it's where the top hat. 0:13:40.960 --> 0:13:42.880 I don't get it in I thought we'd really be 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:46.680 concentrated on the name college. Yeah, ex's house here, Well. 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:48.840 That wasn't cool, but neither in lying about the age 0:13:48.840 --> 0:13:50.959 of your cat. Why would you do that? Why don't 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:52.160 you why about anything like that? 0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:55.359 What if the ex is lying? 0:13:55.400 --> 0:13:58.920 I mean, my ex wasn't lying about that. He is nine. 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:01.320 And then if if that's the only thing standing in 0:14:01.360 --> 0:14:03.040 the way of this, I mean, we can always go 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:04.600 get a five year old cat. 0:14:05.120 --> 0:14:06.199 Okay, there are a. 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:09.439 Lot of cats that need especially you're dating. 0:14:09.559 --> 0:14:11.480 I like the problem solving. That's a positive. 0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:13.079 So my cat's a third wheel. 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:13.880 Now that's great. 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:17.480 What what you're upset at? 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:20.840 Yeah, you find very interesting things important for your dating life. 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:23.280 You got to think of it from my perspective. If 0:14:23.280 --> 0:14:26.360 this does work out and we're together, No, we've got 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:28.880 two full time cats and one part time cat that 0:14:28.920 --> 0:14:31.240 we're suffling back and forth between a deck. Who thinks 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:32.120 I'm a hoot? What? 0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:34.360 Yeah? 0:14:34.760 --> 0:14:36.640 I mean I could see that part, but I mean 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:38.160 it's nine. It's not like you're gonna have to do 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:39.280 it for many years. 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:44.920 But I take offense to that because my cat maybe nine, 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:47.080 but she looks seven at worst. 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:49.960 How many lives has left. 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:53.600 But we are really stuck on this. 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:56.200 I know she's very upset that she got cat cat fished. 0:14:56.880 --> 0:14:57.880 That's the big issue. 0:14:57.920 --> 0:14:59.920 I think fish I think it's just cat fit. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:01.760 It is you did cat catfish me. 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:05.240 Okay, the double cat rat. 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:07.680 You're very sorry, right, tell her how sorry you are 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:08.120 for doing that? 0:15:08.400 --> 0:15:11.240 Yeah? Yeah, I mean, I'm I'm very sorry for telling 0:15:11.240 --> 0:15:13.480 you the wrong age of my cat. And I mean, 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.640 going forward, I swear I won't lie to you about 0:15:16.680 --> 0:15:17.760 something like that. 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:21.320 Something like that. Why would you? Why would you just 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:23.600 say I swear not lie to you anything. 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:27.200 Well, because that's like super important. I want her to 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:30.360 know how important it is that I'm taking her cat 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:32.560 age very importantly. I won't lie at all. 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:36.520 Okay, I mean, honestly, Christina, he is taking it into account, 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:39.200 and I think a lot of people would not be 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:39.760 so patient. 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:42.640 Brook is basically saying team rat, team rat. And so 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:44.640 we would like to offer to send you out on 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:47.000 another date with him, and we would pay for it. 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:47.720 I don't know. 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:50.880 Two cats, three cats, one cat, no cat, whatever, however 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:52.600 many cats you want or don't want on it? 0:15:53.640 --> 0:15:57.120 Yeah, find a five year old one perfect well. 0:15:57.200 --> 0:16:03.160 I doubt he wants to go out again with att. 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:03.840 What do you think? 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:07.080 I mean, as long as the price is right, I 0:16:07.120 --> 0:16:14.040 guess Okay, I know it's I'm kidding obviously I would. 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:16.200 I would love to have a second try at this. 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:18.480 Yes, you went through all this effort to make this 0:16:18.520 --> 0:16:20.520 happen and we're running out of time here. So what 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:23.080 do you say, Christina? One more date with Rhett? I 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:24.000 need a yes or a no? 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:25.800 Fine? Yeah whatever? 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:32.240 Are you fine? 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:35.640 Yeah, she's still emotional. She'll get over and I'm okay 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:36.160 with fine. 0:16:37.640 --> 0:16:40.240 Are we miracle workers? Because that is insane. 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:44.760 Yes, we should take all the credit for king Jeffrey 0:16:44.760 --> 0:16:47.560 in the morning. You know what really makes me happy 0:16:48.040 --> 0:16:51.240 hearing someone regrettably agreed to go out on a date again. 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:54.680 Fine, Joe, Fine, they're going to. 0:16:54.720 --> 0:16:57.160 Look back and listen to this on their wedding day. 0:16:57.360 --> 0:17:00.440 Right before, Christina turns to the past and was like, fine, 0:17:00.480 --> 0:17:00.800 I do. 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:03.360 Yeah, I'm pretty sure the ex is going to show 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:04.000 up to that wedding. 0:17:04.320 --> 0:17:06.760 Yeah, I just hope the cats show up. 0:17:08.400 --> 0:17:09.760 I don't think anybody is showing up. I think he's 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:11.080 gonna host it at their house. 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:13.680 Yeah. 0:17:13.760 --> 0:17:17.400 It's a good reminder that everybody crazy. Everybody values different 0:17:17.520 --> 0:17:21.320 things in their relationships, and for Christina, she values honesty 0:17:21.359 --> 0:17:24.440 about your cat's real age. That's number one on the relationship. 0:17:24.520 --> 0:17:26.800 I mean, maybe you could have still been dating the Yes, yeah, 0:17:27.040 --> 0:17:27.800