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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the Second Date Podcast. Thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for being here. And we don't normally do this,

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Speaker 1: but you are really special to us. So Jose is

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Speaker 1: going to give out his personal phone number right now. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: okay if you need to call him, so text seven two. Okay,

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Speaker 1: show's text board.

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Speaker 2: If you're lonely, you can text us. I'm on it

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Speaker 2: all night long.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you're on it more than your own phone texting. Basically,

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Speaker 1: I mean it's a better way to reach him, That's

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Speaker 1: all we're saying. And don't forget. We've got forty five

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Speaker 1: more minutes, a full show, an hour long. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: could you take that much? If you want it, go

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Speaker 1: for it. It's over at the Brook and Jeffrey main

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Speaker 1: podcast feed. But right now we're all about the Second Date,

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Speaker 1: so let's get it started.

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Speaker 2: Second Date Update. Where's the worst place to take a

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Speaker 2: woman on a first date?

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Speaker 3: The worst?

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Home of the Second

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Speaker 2: Date Update? I mean, like a garbage dump?

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Speaker 1: Are you going to give us options? Because I have

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Speaker 1: some ideas.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, crematorium comes to mind than the garbage dump,

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Speaker 2: especially if you talked about having barbecue already that there

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Speaker 2: is something that might be worse than that. There's no way,

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Speaker 2: Jeff Well, I was gonna say, chure Nobyl, but you

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Speaker 2: know what, let's okay, let's talk to our listener htt

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Speaker 2: because he thinks he may have taken his date someplace

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Speaker 2: pretty regrettable.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's all you have to do is come

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Speaker 1: on our show and you'll feel better by comparison.

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Speaker 2: Before we find out about this woman, just tell us

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Speaker 2: the place that you took her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I took her to my ex's house.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, what I okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we got a backup, not even like the restaurant

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Speaker 1: where my ex works.

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Speaker 3: I know, the bad idea.

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Speaker 2: Now, okay, it's good that you realize that. But let's

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Speaker 2: go back and let's start from the beginning. Where did

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Speaker 2: you meet this woman? And what's her name?

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Speaker 1: And not yours?

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Speaker 3: And took out the girl that I took out. Her

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Speaker 3: name's Chrisena. We met at a hiking club, a small

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Speaker 3: group of people that get together and take hikes on

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Speaker 2: Let me guess you reached for the same cashew in

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Speaker 3: Mix, and.

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Speaker 1: How did you turn it from hiking to a date.

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Speaker 3: So we're both cat people. So that's kind of how

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, hiking and cat people. Yeah, that's true. So

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Speaker 1: I mean you guys had a pretty good relationship then,

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Speaker 1: probably before you actually moved into the romantic world, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean we had tons of talks and I mean

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Speaker 3: I showed her tons of pictures. My cat's name is Sorbet.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I like how you said your house. That's good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we were gonna make pizzas at my place. I

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Speaker 3: We didn't burn anything. That's usually a good sign.

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Speaker 1: I mean, were you able to have because you guys

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Speaker 1: some flirty moments.

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Speaker 2: Like come up behind her and need the pizza, like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we got like a little ghost moment with the pizza.

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Speaker 1: Do do not say you did that.

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Speaker 3: I'm just kidding. Yeah, it was still flirty, a little

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Speaker 3: flower getting everywhere, but nothing crazy Oh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, that's cute. I mean it sounds like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like a great setup to go over

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Speaker 3: So, I mean I kept calling for the cat. The

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Speaker 1: And right, I mean, cats notoriously don't come when you

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Speaker 3: And then I remembered that I actually had dropped the

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Speaker 1: How could you forget that it was the whole date center?

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Speaker 3: I had a pretty busy day and it split my mind.

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Speaker 3: I mean I had out there things to worry about.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, that is a lot to tackle, both pepperoni

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Speaker 3: So right after we ate, I was pretty disappointed that

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Speaker 1: Yeah okay, yeah, but just chalk it up and you

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I wish I would have done that. That's

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Speaker 3: I'd swing by my exes and introduce her to Sorbet.

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Speaker 1: No making her home.

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Speaker 2: You brought Christina over to your ex's house. Oh no, it.

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Speaker 3: Sounds really bad when you say it like that.

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Speaker 4: It is.

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Speaker 1: I didn't warn either woman. So you show up unexpectedly

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but usually my ex is pretty cool. If I

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Speaker 2: Yeah? How did that go?

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Speaker 3: So? I mean when when we showed up, it was fine,

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Speaker 3: uh to see the cat?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah shocking.

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Speaker 2: I can see why you you guys broke up. She's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a lot of silence and patting the

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Speaker 1: You're all sitting on the couch together. Why did I

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like say hi to the cat. Then everybody parts.

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Speaker 2: You're like a scene a funny movie.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you guys all spent the night at your

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Speaker 2: how did that go?

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Speaker 3: That didn't happened? Thank god?

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Speaker 2: Okay, good.

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Speaker 3: The whole time ended in like a real big fight.

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Speaker 1: Wait, a fight with who you in the ex or

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Speaker 1: what you in the cat?

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Speaker 3: Everybody kind of ended up shouting, yeah, Christina didn't like

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Speaker 3: my ex was being rude. My my accident like that,

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Speaker 3: I brought a girl there. It was. It was a

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Speaker 1: Why are you wanting to call this girl again? Christina

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to have anything to.

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Speaker 4: Do with you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but your show says you help people get second

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Speaker 3: dates and.

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Speaker 2: Miracles over here.

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Speaker 1: But oh my gosh, can I just ask when you

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Speaker 1: drop Christina off at her door, what was the last

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Speaker 1: thing she said to you?

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Speaker 3: She actually gave me the finger, but I don't think.

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Speaker 3: She mentioned.

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Speaker 2: If it's a finger that I'm thinking of, then it

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Speaker 2: could be a good thing.

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Speaker 1: She still took the right and then put off.

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Speaker 3: Wow, she was emotional. Now that we've had some space,

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Speaker 3: it's been about a week or so, so I figured

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Speaker 2: Guys, at least this will be a great story, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm very eager to hear how Christina felt the experience.

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Speaker 1: This one was gonna be cussing.

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Speaker 2: We don't know. We're gonna call her, we'll see how

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Speaker 2: she's doing, but we do your second date update right

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Speaker 2: after this second date update. What went wrong on Rhett's

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Speaker 2: first date a little hard to say because there was pizza,

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Speaker 2: when I say tiny, I mean like minuscule. There was

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Speaker 2: in a certain finger being pointed at Rhett when he

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Speaker 2: dropped Christina off at home. It was proposal with the

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Speaker 2: wedding ring. Other than that, though a plus date, Wrett,

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Speaker 3: Other than all of that, I guess it was fine, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Wait, I have a question. Have you had a chance

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Speaker 3: Well, that's the biggest thing is I just haven't seen

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Speaker 3: I just I didn't want to mess that up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and don't you didn't.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure necessarily think you're the one who needs to apologize.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like your ex girlfriend owes her an apology

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Speaker 2: for not being cool about that.

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Speaker 1: He needs to apologize to both women house. We can't

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Speaker 1: bring a date to your ex's house, especially unannounced.

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Speaker 2: I don't know who does that. I'm just clearly read

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Speaker 2: I don't know why you guys are holding onto this

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Speaker 1: Deal your ex shows up at your house today.

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Speaker 2: I don't have one, all right, But we don't know

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Speaker 2: the whole story. We have a hunch of what went wrong.

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Speaker 2: We need to get Stina's angle to really understand the

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Speaker 2: full scope.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear her story. And the thing

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Speaker 1: is is that you actually sound like a really nice

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Speaker 1: guy that just made dumb choices.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just a really nice guy who made one

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Speaker 3: dumb choice, and I told you the whole story.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, but her perspective is going to be interesting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, perspective. Well, let's find out what that is. I'm

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Speaker 2: going to dial her right now. Hopefully she has nothing

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Speaker 2: but good things to.

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Speaker 1: Say about you, or she doesn't just cuss at us

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see how this goes. I'm dialing she flips

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Speaker 2: see it, we'll be able to feel it here.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey is this Christina? Yeah, hey Christina, good morning. We've

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Speaker 2: all been very eager to talk to you. Where a

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Speaker 2: radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning And uh,

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Even know where to begin, Christina, how are you doing.

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Speaker 4: Fine? What is this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: This is this is a radio show and we're doing

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Speaker 2: that you went on a date with recently. His name

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Speaker 2: is Rhett.

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Speaker 4: Uh what yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean actually that's a better response than I expected

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Speaker 2: Because we heard about your guys' hangout. We won't rehash

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Speaker 2: the whole story.

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Speaker 4: Wait a second, called you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, he emailed us.

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Speaker 4: Why is he doing that?

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Speaker 2: Well, obviously because he likes you.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean just that, like you guys were friends

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Can I just hear the story, like I want to

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Speaker 1: hear from your perspective, Like, you show up to his

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Speaker 1: ex's house. Did you know that's where you were going?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: He was like, Oh, I've got something to show you.

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Speaker 4: I really want you to see that I've fallen for

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Speaker 4: that one before. Yeah, okay, I mean at first I

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Speaker 3: She called me, ah, oh god, okay, but what we

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Speaker 4: Petting the cat to that get some major insecurity issues

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Speaker 4: or jumping because she was like, well, do you know

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Speaker 4: what he likes? Because I know what he likes?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, okay, we did not know that part of

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I said, she yelled at me and called

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Speaker 4: me a what did do?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 4: He was yeeling back at her. It was just it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I'm gonna tell you on the thirty second

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Speaker 1: date that would not be okay.

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Speaker 2: Look, I know that we all feel terrible about that.

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Speaker 2: Rehet feels sorry for even making the decision to bring

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Speaker 2: you over there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, he honestly sounds like a nice guy

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Speaker 4: I don't know. He lied to me too, okay, just.

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Speaker 2: Like about bringing you over there to introduce you to

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Speaker 4: No before that, so I knew him from hiking. We

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Speaker 4: five and my cat is five two. So I was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: that's cool to the same age. But then his ex

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and the name Colin.

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Speaker 4: White doesn't look a five year different. That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Okay. That was worse to you than the argument that

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I think that he lied about his cat's age

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean, we do hear a lot of people

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Speaker 2: lying about their age on dating apps to impress somebody,

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Speaker 2: not usually lying about their cats age to impress each other.

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Speaker 4: But well, yeah, but like that's important to me.

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Speaker 3: I have something to say here.

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Speaker 2: You shut your mouth, you liar. I really hope you would,

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Speaker 2: because we need to tell you, Christina that Ret's been

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Speaker 4: Want to do.

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Speaker 1: And hopefully apologize.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I mean I'm going to apologize for the fight,

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Speaker 3: but not not for my cat being a different age.

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Speaker 3: I mean, those are just details.

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Speaker 4: Well you might not think that's important, but I do.

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Speaker 4: I don't have kids and not painting. I'm having kids

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Speaker 4: any time soon. My cat is my world. Like, I

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Speaker 4: don't want my cat to be the little second side

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Speaker 3: Well maybe if your cat was more mature, it'd be okay,

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Speaker 3: hanging out with my old cat.

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Speaker 4: Okay, my cat is plenty mature.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like it's where the top hat.

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Speaker 1: I don't get it in I thought we'd really be

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Speaker 1: concentrated on the name college. Yeah, ex's house here, Well.

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Speaker 4: That wasn't cool, but neither in lying about the age

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Speaker 4: of your cat. Why would you do that? Why don't

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Speaker 4: you why about anything like that?

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Speaker 1: What if the ex is lying?

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Speaker 3: I mean, my ex wasn't lying about that. He is nine.

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Speaker 3: And then if if that's the only thing standing in

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Speaker 3: get a five year old cat.

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Speaker 2: Okay, there are a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of cats that need especially you're dating.

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Speaker 2: I like the problem solving. That's a positive.

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Speaker 4: So my cat's a third wheel.

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Speaker 3: Now that's great.

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Speaker 1: What what you're upset at?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you find very interesting things important for your dating life.

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Speaker 4: You got to think of it from my perspective. If

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Speaker 4: this does work out and we're together, No, we've got

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Speaker 4: we're suffling back and forth between a deck. Who thinks

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Speaker 4: I'm a hoot? What?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean I could see that part, but I mean

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Speaker 1: it's nine. It's not like you're gonna have to do

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Speaker 1: it for many years.

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Speaker 3: But I take offense to that because my cat maybe nine,

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Speaker 3: but she looks seven at worst.

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Speaker 2: How many lives has left.

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Speaker 1: But we are really stuck on this.

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Speaker 2: I know she's very upset that she got cat cat fished.

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Speaker 2: That's the big issue.

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Speaker 1: I think fish I think it's just cat fit.

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Speaker 4: It is you did cat catfish me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, the double cat rat.

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Speaker 2: You're very sorry, right, tell her how sorry you are

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I mean, I'm I'm very sorry for telling

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Speaker 3: going forward, I swear I won't lie to you about

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Speaker 1: Something like that. Why would you? Why would you just

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Speaker 3: Well, because that's like super important. I want her to

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Speaker 3: know how important it is that I'm taking her cat

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean, honestly, Christina, he is taking it into account,

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Speaker 2: Brook is basically saying team rat, team rat. And so

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Speaker 2: we would like to offer to send you out on

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Speaker 2: another date with him, and we would pay for it.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Two cats, three cats, one cat, no cat, whatever, however

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Speaker 1: Yeah, find a five year old one perfect well.

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Speaker 4: I doubt he wants to go out again with att.

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Speaker 2: What do you think?

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Speaker 3: I mean, as long as the price is right, I

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Speaker 3: I would love to have a second try at this.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you went through all this effort to make this

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Speaker 2: do you say, Christina? One more date with Rhett? I

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Speaker 2: need a yes or a no?

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Speaker 4: Fine? Yeah whatever?

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Speaker 2: Are you fine?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's still emotional. She'll get over and I'm okay

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Speaker 1: Are we miracle workers? Because that is insane.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we should take all the credit for king Jeffrey

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Speaker 2: in the morning. You know what really makes me happy

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Speaker 2: hearing someone regrettably agreed to go out on a date again.

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Speaker 1: Fine, Joe, Fine, they're going to.

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Speaker 2: Look back and listen to this on their wedding day.

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Speaker 2: Right before, Christina turns to the past and was like, fine,

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm pretty sure the ex is going to show

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just hope the cats show up.

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Speaker 1: I don't think anybody is showing up. I think he's

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Speaker 1: gonna host it at their house.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's a good reminder that everybody crazy. Everybody values different

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Speaker 2: things in their relationships, and for Christina, she values honesty

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Speaker 2: about your cat's real age. That's number one on the relationship.

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Speaker 4: I mean, maybe you could have still been dating the Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Abound Number five is x name calling.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it still mattered to her, just not quite as hot. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but everyone's got different priorities and we know that now.

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Speaker 2: So whatever is important to you, we will call that

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Speaker 2: person who's not calling you back. Email the show so

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Speaker 2: we can help, and go check out all of our

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Speaker 2: Seconday podcast wherever you get yours at Brooke and

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