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Speaker 1: It can be complicated changing careers later in life.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, oh yeah about not me.

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Speaker 1: It just made me think of when Brooks Uncle Soupy

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Speaker 2: Come on, I say, we haven't seen him at a

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Speaker 1: Well, and they said it all while honking their noses

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Speaker 3: Everyone's spraying with your flower.

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Speaker 1: Oh tough crowd. Well, we've got another dramatic career change

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Speaker 2: If you don't know, that's not good in clown work,

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Speaker 1: And you're gonna hear why in your brand new awkward

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Speaker 4: What do you mean, like when you care about someone, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: You start thinking like are they eating healthy enough to

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Speaker 1: dressing nice enough to attend this fancy dinner with me?

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Speaker 2: What these are the things you worry? But you can't

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Speaker 1: These are just natural things that come up in normal relationships.

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Speaker 1: Not that you wouldn't know anything about that. But one

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Speaker 1: Aaron Man, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Look, so guys, hey, we're good.

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Speaker 2: How long have you and your girlfriend been together? Almost

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Speaker 5: Isn't that okay?

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Speaker 1: Four years? Wow? As a chunk, you're starting to get

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Speaker 5: Yeah, definitely the number one person in my life.

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Speaker 2: You guys live together too?

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, we do?

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Speaker 1: All right? So, uh, you said that in your email

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Speaker 5: She worked an office job, you know, an administrative assistant,

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Speaker 2: Oh, she's going to be a police officer.

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Speaker 1: Really needed right now. Quite a shift from office administrator

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Speaker 5: What I'm saying. I'm just nervous because I did the

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Speaker 4: And maybe she feels like true calling to go out

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but like I feel like there's other ways to

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Speaker 1: But I do get bonuses and stuff sometimes and you

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Speaker 2: Is she in police school?

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Speaker 3: What do you call that academy?

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Speaker 5: She's looking into it, but like I think she has

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Speaker 5: Anytime I try to say anything about the dangerous stuff,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I think it's natural to worry, like

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Speaker 3: She also wants you to take her seriously.

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Speaker 5: I stand that Blake, maybe start off on the mall

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Speaker 1: Like, no, I don't want to do that.

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Speaker 5: It's just a lot to take in right now. And again,

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Speaker 5: I want to have this conversation about all the risks

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Speaker 4: It feels a little weird for you to be explaining

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Speaker 5: But not a passion of her It's been something that

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Speaker 2: I think it's normal to feel hesitation.

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Speaker 4: I think to say that she doesn't understand the dangers

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Speaker 3: Something sounds like you you feel like you're gonna say

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Speaker 4: There's guns involved, No, girl, I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: Wait up, CoP's too dangerous thing.

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Speaker 3: You can do your thing.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Regret he's totally regretting calling you. We're going

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Speaker 5: fully support her. I'm just more worried because she's focused

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Speaker 2: Right, money comes and goes your life is precious, right.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's not a good idea.

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Speaker 3: Well, she probably knows what it takes to be a

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Speaker 3: One of the highest divorce rates in society or cops.

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Speaker 1: That's interesting threatening her with divorce.

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Speaker 6: Divorce were already high.

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Speaker 2: Okay, or interrupt if you start man explaining, we'll.

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Speaker 1: Stop you from doing that. You're on it, all right.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call your girlfriend here. Sorry what was her

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Speaker 5: Hello, by babe, how are you? Oh?

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Speaker 6: Hey, how's it going?

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Speaker 5: You know, I love you, and you know that whatever

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, I just want it to be a

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Speaker 5: I mean you're going out at night, first of all,

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Speaker 6: What what are you even saying? Why is it risky?

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Speaker 5: What do you mean how is it risk I'm worried.

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Speaker 6: Well, of course it is good money and it's gonna

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Speaker 5: We're talking about it, and you care about a boat.

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Speaker 5: Who cares about the boat? I'm worried about you getting shot. What.

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Speaker 4: No one has guns.

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Speaker 6: You have to everybody has guns.

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Speaker 5: No, nobody has.

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Speaker 6: Guns when they're a mortgage officer. What I mean? Have

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Speaker 5: Like, what are you talking about? Oh I'm so confused.

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Speaker 1: Yeh, Fiona, I'm just going to jump in here because

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Speaker 2: Of your guys, is killer a couple communication.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't killer, I'll get to get my dangerous words

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Speaker 1: you're using. Oh you too, Lien's going on?

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Speaker 5: Guy?

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Speaker 1: Yea Fiona, this is called an awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 1: Your boyfriend, Aaron reached out to us because he said

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Speaker 1: he was worried that you were considering changing careers and

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I am not going to be a police officer.

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Speaker 6: A mortgage officer was the plan all along?

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Speaker 2: Oh you never thought police? How did you get police

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Speaker 1: From the word officer, Aaron, where was your head at.

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Speaker 5: A mortgage officer? A police officer who evicts people that

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Speaker 6: That is not what a warriage officer.

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Speaker 1: I think you're thinking about deputies who evict people when

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Speaker 1: they're not paying. That's not a mortgage officer. That's just

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Speaker 2: This officer someone you go to when you need.

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Speaker 4: A house loan and they do all the paperwork and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think they make good money too.

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Speaker 2: It's literally so boring.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I would work for like a bank or a

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Speaker 1: You've spoken about the dangers of banking or paper cuts, papercuts, Aaron,

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Speaker 1: is this making sense to you? So it's not dangerous?

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Speaker 4: No, we all just heard the light bulb, buddy, So

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess I just never heard the term. I

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I just okay.

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Speaker 2: If it makes you feel better. Erin, my husband thought

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Speaker 1: So okay, okay, he's still hearing about it from Brook

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Speaker 1: and that was five years ago.

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Speaker 2: That is part of my arsenal, for sure. It's a

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Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah, So clearly this was a giant misunderstanding. I'm

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Speaker 2: And you use your pros and cons list.

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Speaker 1: can we just forget this call I've happened the.

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Speaker 4: Definitely not, she saidship for the rest of your life.

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Speaker 1: The good news is your boyfriend, Aaron was genuinely concerned

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Speaker 4: So it makes sense why he thought you didn't understand

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Speaker 1: Job actual about it, because they basically are none.

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Speaker 6: Right, Yes, this does make a lot more sense now.

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Speaker 1: Well, good luck to the two of you as your

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Speaker 2: Let's hope those feds drop the rate, right.

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Speaker 7: D brooking Jeffrey in the morning, getting a lot of

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Speaker 3: Okay, but did anybody think it was that extreme?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I get it, though, if you've never bought a house

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what it is, but I wouldn't jump the cop.

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Speaker 1: Ever, it's confusing if you've never heard mortgage officer before,

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Speaker 4: I mean not to insult any mortgage officers listening or anything.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, I mean I say that in the

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Speaker 2: Why do you do the paperwork?

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Speaker 1: That's right. I do have a feeling though, when Aaron

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, it sounds like he just wanted the handcuffs.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you don't need a job title for those.

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Speaker 1: No you don't. Yeah, we'll send you a link to

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Speaker 1: get your own, Aaron, if you want those. But if

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Speaker 1: you ever want some of our advice, some of our help,

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Speaker 1: you can always email the show. We'll try and help

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Speaker 2: Yeah, misunderstanding.

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Speaker 1: Either way, We're there for you. Just find us online

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Speaker 1: at Brook and Jeffrey