WEBVTT - The Wedding Planner

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<v Speaker 1>This is the most dramatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Harrison and Lauren Zema coming to you from the

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<v Speaker 1>home office in Austin, Texas. And it is week two

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<v Speaker 1>of Taylor Gate. I thought, you know, this story might

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<v Speaker 1>kind of just go off into the ether. But last

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<v Speaker 1>night we're taping this on Monday. It is Sunday Night Football.

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<v Speaker 2>Sunday Night Taylor.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm Sunday Night Taylor. It is Taylor Swift

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<v Speaker 1>at New York to see the Kansas City Chiefs and

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<v Speaker 1>of course Travis Kelcey play the New York Jets. And

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<v Speaker 1>the entire broadcast started off with Taylor Swift talking about

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor Swift. We go to the sideline reporter to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about Taylor Swift. It is her walking into the game.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a huge, huge deal.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so I did not think it was just going

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<v Speaker 2>to go away, but I thought it can go one

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<v Speaker 2>of two ways. If they're really starting to kind of

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<v Speaker 2>date each other, then she's going to be at this game,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's going to be at subsequent games, and they're

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<v Speaker 2>going to totally play into this. If it was just

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<v Speaker 2>a one time publicity thing and they were kind of

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<v Speaker 2>given the fans a little show and both capitalizing on it,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know, all in good fun. Then it would

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<v Speaker 2>have been a one off. So now I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>real and they're really starting to date.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I just thought, Taylor Swift is a busy woman,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, she's.

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<v Speaker 2>Taking a break right now before the world stops of

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<v Speaker 2>her tour, before the internationaliste.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how it is when you are the most influential,

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<v Speaker 1>the most famous woman in the world. Even though you're

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<v Speaker 1>on a break, you're not on a break. She's doing

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<v Speaker 1>a million things, probably shooting commercials and all this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just figured, is she going to have time

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<v Speaker 1>to go to New York and show up at a games?

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<v Speaker 2>What's a better commercial? I know, for her upcoming theatrical

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<v Speaker 2>release of her documentary and for her world tour stops.

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<v Speaker 2>What's better press? Then? Isn't Sunday Night Football the biggest

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<v Speaker 2>television event period.

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<v Speaker 1>Sunday Night Football is huge, The ratings are massive.

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<v Speaker 2>It has ever beat Sunday Night Football.

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<v Speaker 1>It involved the biggest network market in the world, New

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<v Speaker 1>York City. She's in the big Apple. Obviously, she has

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<v Speaker 1>a song, so it worked out perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to New York.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Welcome to New York, Taylor Swift. And so here's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing about the size the scope of Taylor Swift.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know, look, I got both sides of the coin.

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<v Speaker 1>People are like, I'm so done with this. I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's the fascinating thing to me. Lots of celebrities,

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<v Speaker 1>tons of celebrities go to football games every week. Blake Lively,

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Reynolds, and Hugh Jackman show up to this game.

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<v Speaker 1>I know they're with Taylor, but if they had just

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<v Speaker 1>shown up, I don't think anyone would have ever known.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody would care.

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<v Speaker 2>You might hear about it, like on the team's accounts,

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<v Speaker 2>but it wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is cut away whatever, but the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that Taylor's Swift is overshadowing it is. It's why, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor Bachelorette worked for twenty years, and it never

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<v Speaker 1>goes away. We have an insatiable appetite for all things love.

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<v Speaker 1>When we used to like Harry and Megan, Remember when

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<v Speaker 1>the world really liked Harry and Meghan.

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<v Speaker 2>To be honest, I missed those days. It was a

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<v Speaker 2>positive time.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember when they But when we all believed in this

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<v Speaker 1>love story and she's becoming a process.

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<v Speaker 2>The actress becoming a royal. Yes, it was beautiful America

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<v Speaker 2>and Britain reuniting is yes, before.

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<v Speaker 1>We kind of found out what they were really like

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<v Speaker 1>and we were like scratching our head, going, what who

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<v Speaker 1>are these people? That we had this insatiable appetite to

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<v Speaker 1>devour this love story, this romance. You flew to London

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<v Speaker 1>for this, I mean it changed everything.

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<v Speaker 2>To clarify, I was covering the royal wedding. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>like a stalker.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, that's what I mean for entertainment tonight. But I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's the attention it drew. So we have this

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<v Speaker 1>appetite for all things love. So I think deep down

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<v Speaker 1>we are all hopeful for a great love story, and

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<v Speaker 1>the theater of it all has drawn us in. Whether

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<v Speaker 1>you're male, female, young, old, football, non football, this transcends

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<v Speaker 1>all that because it goes back to the core thing

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<v Speaker 1>we all desire love, a great love story.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a love story. Maybe just say yes that's a

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor Swift song. No I got that? Yeah, No, Look

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<v Speaker 2>I completely agree with you, and who better to speak

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<v Speaker 2>on this topic than you. You sold love and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't mean that in a like a gross way, but

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<v Speaker 2>people want to buy it. For twenty years he was

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<v Speaker 2>a p It's okay, And now I will give you

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<v Speaker 2>one caveat on that though. Yes, this is Taylor Swift.

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<v Speaker 2>That's also why this is so big. I mean, Taylor

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<v Speaker 2>Swift is the biggest star in the world right now.

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<v Speaker 2>And if it was, say, let's go back to your

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<v Speaker 2>example thing, don't okay. Taylor Swift also had Sabrina Carpenter,

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<v Speaker 2>that was another friend of hers in the stands with

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<v Speaker 2>her last night, and she I believe a single right now.

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<v Speaker 2>If Sabrina Carpenter, who has tens of millions of followers,

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<v Speaker 2>who's a famous singer, actress, but if she was in

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<v Speaker 2>the stands for dating a football player.

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<v Speaker 1>Dating traveler for the Jets, Zach Wilson.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course it wouldn't be on this level. This is love, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's also Taylor Swift. And you kind of got

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<v Speaker 2>a little You got some heat last night on Instagram

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<v Speaker 2>A little I didn't get you. You got some back

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<v Speaker 2>and forth, yeah, because you know, I mean not you

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<v Speaker 2>were I mean you were getting into a theater.

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<v Speaker 1>Well here's the thing, my I want to believe in this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know me. I love love and I'm and I

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<v Speaker 1>love Taylor Swift. I'm a big Swift ye. I love

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<v Speaker 1>this story. I do. I love the theater of it all,

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<v Speaker 1>and I love the love story that I'm hopeful for.

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<v Speaker 1>When I saw Taylor and they did the typical cutaway

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<v Speaker 1>and they rolled, Mike Turrico mentions this, so this is

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<v Speaker 1>clearly scripted and set up. Mike Ico sets this up

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<v Speaker 1>with a cutaway going to commercial break. They rolled right

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<v Speaker 1>in to an era's tour movie promo. So clearly Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well let me stop there, because when I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>caught heat, people were coming at me saying, oh, you

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<v Speaker 1>think Taylor Swift needs promo? You think she needs the publicity.

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<v Speaker 1>I got this comment because you. So this is a

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<v Speaker 1>direct message from Let's see who is this from. This

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<v Speaker 1>is from Sally who says she doesn't need the promotion

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<v Speaker 1>of her new movie. Are you kidding me that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't comprehend how big of a following she has. She

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<v Speaker 1>certainly doesn't need to go to the NFL to promote

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<v Speaker 1>her new movie. It's sold out in most theaters the

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<v Speaker 1>first two days of showings. Sally, I understand how big

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor Swift is. I get it. She is the most

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<v Speaker 1>famous person in the world, but that doesn't negate the

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<v Speaker 1>fact the promo ran on Sunday night football. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>making this up. I'm not saying I wonder if they

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<v Speaker 1>thought about it. I saw the promo. They ran an advertisement.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody paid to have that commercial run after a cutaway

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<v Speaker 1>of Taylor Switzer.

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<v Speaker 2>And Taylor and her family have financed this movie privately

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<v Speaker 2>on their own, So the only person paying for promo

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<v Speaker 2>of the movie is Taylor. This isn't a studio.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know who's distributing the.

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<v Speaker 2>They did a direct deal with theaters and her family did,

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<v Speaker 2>so they have to be clear. It is a special case.

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<v Speaker 2>They have gone completely outside the traditional route of creating

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<v Speaker 2>and promoting a movie. Studios are not involved. Taylor. Her

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<v Speaker 2>dad negotiated these deals. He's a finance guy. They financed

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<v Speaker 2>the movie themselves, and they did a direct deal with theaters.

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<v Speaker 1>So someone either her or on her team, said hey,

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<v Speaker 1>let's take advantage of this. Now. Is that a bad thing? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not. Can two things be true at once? And

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<v Speaker 1>that is my main point today, Yes, two things can

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<v Speaker 1>very much be true. She could be having the time

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<v Speaker 1>of her life. She could be finding new love and

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's where this is. I don't think they're

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<v Speaker 1>in love yet. This is flirty and fun. And the

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<v Speaker 1>way she was kind of talking to Blake Lively at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the game, it was like kind of

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<v Speaker 1>two high school girls crushing on a boy and it

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<v Speaker 1>was really cute. But two things can be true at once.

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<v Speaker 1>She can be savvy as hell, which she is and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>let's run a promo for the Eras Tour movie. So

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<v Speaker 1>to those swifty fans that are immediately defensive of don't

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<v Speaker 1>come at me with this. The commercial ran, it ran twice.

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<v Speaker 1>They then went to a big time square shot of

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<v Speaker 1>the Eras movie. So they're promoting it, which is wonderful.

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<v Speaker 1>It's smart, and I think Taylor Swift or someone on

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<v Speaker 1>our team said, Hey, the NFL is for sure taking

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<v Speaker 1>advantage of us. They're promoting the crap out of you

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<v Speaker 1>being there. How about we do the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Why wouldn't you one hundred percent? And I would point

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<v Speaker 2>out what's the most storied brand drink brand in America?

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<v Speaker 1>Coke?

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<v Speaker 2>Coke Coke. We learned about this when I was in

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<v Speaker 2>advertising classes in journalism school, we learned about coke because

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<v Speaker 2>Coke has like the most well known Maybe Coke and

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<v Speaker 2>Nike have the most applauded ad campaigns in the history

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<v Speaker 2>of American brands. Coca Cola never stops advertising. You see

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<v Speaker 2>commercials for Coca Cola, and that's part of their secret

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<v Speaker 2>and why they've maintained their success for so long, because

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<v Speaker 2>everybody knows what a coke is. You grow up knowing coke,

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<v Speaker 2>but you still see commercials, and that's part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's if you feed it, it grows. The machine keeps going,

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<v Speaker 2>and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think images in your mind of what coke means.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Taylor's being very smart right now. She's she knows.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, listen, that's another thing swifty fans should know.

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<v Speaker 2>What Swifty fans all say is nothing by accident. So

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<v Speaker 2>if you think that Taylor's not doing anything by accident,

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<v Speaker 2>which I agree she isn't, she's brilliant. Yes, if you

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<v Speaker 2>think that Taylor Swift plans everything, I mean she says

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<v Speaker 2>that in her songs. Her lyrics say, you know, nothing

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<v Speaker 2>is by accident. I do this, I write lists, I

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<v Speaker 2>plan it all. Well, then of course she's planning all this,

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<v Speaker 2>and like you said two things can be true. I

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<v Speaker 2>think probably Travis Kelsey had rather adorably pursued her publicly.

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor thought, hey, you know, okay, I'll give this guy

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<v Speaker 2>a try and see what there it goes, and then

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<v Speaker 2>maybe it's growing into something real now and maybe also,

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<v Speaker 2>of course they should both take advantage of it. Of course,

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<v Speaker 2>why wouldn't you. The thing is he he is guarantee

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<v Speaker 2>like like they actually kind of can't be too private

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<v Speaker 2>with this. I think because he's in the middle of

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<v Speaker 2>a season, he's gonna be on television. If you want

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<v Speaker 2>to go support him, you gotta go to the game,

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<v Speaker 2>So it's sort of a little bit unavoidable unless they

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<v Speaker 2>want to totally take this into dark corners. But I

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<v Speaker 2>think Taylor with Joe Alwin, I think that whole relationship

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<v Speaker 2>was in dark corners, right, And maybe she's sick of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she's like, you know what, I just want to

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<v Speaker 2>have fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to live out loud. Yeah, and she has

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who can live out loud with her. Yes, he

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<v Speaker 1>can embrace this. It's not going to tarnish his career,

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<v Speaker 1>his life.

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<v Speaker 2>She's trying something new here. She's done the I'm dating

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<v Speaker 2>actors and singers. In fact, that's all she's ever done,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's dated people in her industry. She's trying something new,

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<v Speaker 2>she's having fun, she's totally embracing it, bringing a bunch

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<v Speaker 2>of her best friends to the game having a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what, I listen. Also, I'm not trying

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<v Speaker 2>to be judgmental or anything, but the fact is Taylor

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<v Speaker 2>Swift has had only breakups up till this point. So

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<v Speaker 2>try something new. Maybe this new VI's work out.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to say that when people came on The Bachelor,

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<v Speaker 1>you've tried everything up to this point. Let's try somebody new.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's try something new, break out of your comfort zone.

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<v Speaker 1>And I applaud Taylor because whatever is behind this, whatever's

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<v Speaker 1>going on, she is trying something new. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's always healthy in life to kind of shake the

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<v Speaker 1>snow globe up a little bit. And I love the

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<v Speaker 1>residual bounce, you know. The Travis Kelcey of at All

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<v Speaker 1>people Come, you know, came at me and my direct

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<v Speaker 1>message of saying, well, nobody's talking about Travis kelce and

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<v Speaker 1>how he's benefiting. Of course he is. Everybody's talking about this.

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<v Speaker 1>Travis Kelcey is on this train as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Totally. He had commercials in there or whatever brands he's

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<v Speaker 2>working with, they bought more ads because he's having a moment.

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<v Speaker 2>For sure.

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<v Speaker 1>They went from Travis Kelce catching a ball last night

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<v Speaker 1>to a Taylor Swift cutaway to a commercial break that

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<v Speaker 1>two of the commercials had Travis Kelce in them.

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<v Speaker 2>And he knows what he's doing. At that first game,

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<v Speaker 2>he wore the nineteen eighty nine matching jeans and jacket

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<v Speaker 2>suit thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing is on accident, as you said. And by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>he might even be calling Taylor saying, hey, tell me

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<v Speaker 1>what I should be doing, because you are the marketing genius.

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<v Speaker 1>And so now he is benefiting. Of course he's benefiting

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<v Speaker 1>his mom. Donna is benefiting his mom. Donna was great.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I'll admit it, I'll own it. I am no

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<v Speaker 2>sports fan. For the first time in my life, I

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<v Speaker 2>sat down to watch a football game on television. That

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<v Speaker 2>is the power of Taylor Swift. Yeah, and what was

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<v Speaker 2>a little upsetting. And I spoke about this on Instagram

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<v Speaker 2>and many of you seem to relate. Now, I thought

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<v Speaker 2>they showed Taylor Swift very little, but you, as a

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<v Speaker 2>sports fan, seem to think they showed her quite a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think sports fans felt like it was too much?

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<v Speaker 2>Are they annoyed? I'm in the camp of give the

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<v Speaker 2>people what they want. I have only tuned in for Taylor.

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<v Speaker 2>Your ratings are spiking because I'm tuning in for Taylor.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they did a good job. I thought they

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<v Speaker 1>hit a nice balance. Turned out to be a damn

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<v Speaker 1>good football game, so they had to and they did

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<v Speaker 1>a good job.

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<v Speaker 2>So they actually had to cover the game right.

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<v Speaker 1>They actually had to go. I think they were going

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<v Speaker 1>to probably lean on Taylor more, but then the game

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<v Speaker 1>turned out to be good, so they leaned back into

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<v Speaker 1>the game, and at that point you can't go always

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<v Speaker 1>back to Taylor. I think they could have actually done more.

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<v Speaker 1>I think early on they could have done more. They

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<v Speaker 1>could have hung on those shots a little more. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to see who else was in the suite. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean her with Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds right there,

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<v Speaker 1>Brittany Mahomes was there. That's the quarterback's wife.

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<v Speaker 2>Ryan brought.

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<v Speaker 1>Hugh Jackman, and Hugh Jackman is there.

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<v Speaker 2>Hugh Jackman freshly single, sad story, I mean they had

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<v Speaker 2>a long marriage. That makes me upset, but you looking good?

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<v Speaker 1>Is Hugh there also looking for love?

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<v Speaker 2>Sophie Turner was there? I mean Taylor has again. She

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<v Speaker 2>tells us what to think in her song lyrics. She

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<v Speaker 2>says me a picture me with your ex wife in

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<v Speaker 2>one of her songs, Sophie Turner Joe Jonas's ex. They

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<v Speaker 2>have been thick as thieves as of late. Loved that

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<v Speaker 2>she brought Sophie. She had a whole crew there. What

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<v Speaker 2>I think they should have done they had to know

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<v Speaker 2>and the NFL overall has been really smart about this,

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<v Speaker 2>like using their Twitter accounts saying NFL Taylor's version all that.

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<v Speaker 2>They've been clever and fun and smart. But I thought

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<v Speaker 2>the mistake they made was in the beginning of the game,

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<v Speaker 2>before the game really got going. They should have shown

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<v Speaker 2>more Taylor there because you also had people like me

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<v Speaker 2>tuning in to see her in the beginning. For sure,

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<v Speaker 2>No matter what, I didn't last the whole game, and

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<v Speaker 2>we probably weren't going.

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<v Speaker 1>You definitely should have leaned on.

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<v Speaker 2>It more, lean in in the beginning and then let

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<v Speaker 2>it go.

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<v Speaker 1>It was Yeah, I thought they could have done a

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<v Speaker 1>little better. I think, you know, I get the director

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<v Speaker 1>is probably sitting in the booth going, oh, man, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>is this too much? I don't want to piss off

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<v Speaker 1>all the football fans, but I felt the same way

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<v Speaker 1>watching you. There are so many teenage girls, there are

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<v Speaker 1>so many wives, and look, I know there are plenty

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<v Speaker 1>of women out there that love football, so they're tuning in.

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<v Speaker 1>But there were a lot of people watching last night

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<v Speaker 1>that don't love football. Give them what they want early on,

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<v Speaker 1>feed them because we're all going to sit there and

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<v Speaker 1>watch the football game anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, it's a new audience and it's not like.

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<v Speaker 1>We missed a play or anything like that. It reminds

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<v Speaker 1>me again of being on the show and a couple

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<v Speaker 1>gets engaged on the show and people immediately say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>they're never gonna last, they're going to break up. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what the percentages are with you, They are

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<v Speaker 1>going against the dice. The percentages show that they will

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<v Speaker 1>break up, that they're not gonna make it, because most

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<v Speaker 1>couples don't. It's hard. That's why we want to believe

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<v Speaker 1>in love. That's why we want to see love stories

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<v Speaker 1>so much. So it's so easy to be negative and

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<v Speaker 1>say they're not going to make it, because that's what

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<v Speaker 1>the percentages say so, I always just said this when

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<v Speaker 1>someone got engaged on the show. How about we just

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<v Speaker 1>root for them? How about we just root for love

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<v Speaker 1>and root for them and support them, have fun with it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, stay on top of it and enjoy this

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<v Speaker 1>story for what it is, or ignore it if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to. But I always just said, how about we

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<v Speaker 1>just believe in it and enjoy it while it lasts,

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<v Speaker 1>and then let it happen. It's just easy to be

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<v Speaker 1>so negative.

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<v Speaker 2>I am rooting for it in the stands. I am

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<v Speaker 2>rooting for it as a fan, you know, not for

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<v Speaker 2>the game, but for the game of love.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm cheering for I can't wait. And here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to see what's next. That's how I

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<v Speaker 1>know this is a powerful story because I already can't

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<v Speaker 1>wait to see what the next chapter is, and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>be talking about it. We also need to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>a big week that you had.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, our love story, Oh my gosh, we're getting into

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<v Speaker 2>it with like, you know, we're really kind of winding

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<v Speaker 2>down here to the wedding, and we're having different wedding

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<v Speaker 2>celebrations and activities and our wonderful local friends here in

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<v Speaker 2>Austin that we've made over the past year of living here.

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<v Speaker 2>They said to me, look, Lauren, the lady said, we

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<v Speaker 2>love to throw your bridle shower. I said, that is

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<v Speaker 2>so kind. You don't have to like we want to.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, well, here's the thing. I don't want a

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<v Speaker 2>bridle shower. I know thyself. I don't want what if

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<v Speaker 2>people get at bridle showers. First of all, let me

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<v Speaker 2>go on a small rant. Bridal showers typically during the day.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like a daytime party. Maybe there are a

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<v Speaker 2>couple and no, no, you know what, no, never mind.

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<v Speaker 2>If I'm on a boat, I want a sunset cruise.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want a tailgate during the day for a

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<v Speaker 2>football game. If I have to do that, I want

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<v Speaker 2>it to be at night. I'll be honest. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>like to go to a baby shower during the day.

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<v Speaker 2>To me, and I don't want to go to a

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<v Speaker 2>bridle shower. When you have those events during the day,

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<v Speaker 2>it takes up the whole day. I say, bridle shower

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<v Speaker 2>happy hour, it should always be in the evening. That's

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<v Speaker 2>point one point two. Do you agree with me? Can

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<v Speaker 2>you think of one drinking or partying activity you like

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<v Speaker 2>to do during the day.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you know me, I'm with you. That's one of

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<v Speaker 1>the things we definitely bond on. We're not big day drinkers.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not big partiers. During the day.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd like to get up, workout, do my stuff, and

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<v Speaker 2>then like have.

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<v Speaker 1>A cop I like to enjoy my day. And then yeah, because.

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<v Speaker 2>When you drink during the day, then your whole night's over.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you because you're like, I've been drinking, I'm done. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So I said that, and then I said, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want a bridle shower because what do you typically get

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<v Speaker 2>at a bridle shower? And blenders, KitchenAid mixers, a.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice crock pot, a pressure cooker.

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<v Speaker 2>It's generally home in kitchen appliances, and I haven't. You

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<v Speaker 2>don't even let me cook anymore. You think I burn

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<v Speaker 2>the pants or well you do. Actually there's receipts. So

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want any of that. And my friend Wendy said,

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<v Speaker 2>what about a lingerie shower? I said, Wendy, that wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>even really something I'd heard of or thought of. If

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<v Speaker 2>you all have, maybe these used to be bigger. If not,

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<v Speaker 2>let's bring them back. It was so much fun. It

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<v Speaker 2>was a nighttime event. They had my favorite tequila, Siemprey Tequila.

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<v Speaker 2>Try it if you haven't. It's a beautiful, clean tequila brand,

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<v Speaker 2>well priced and so good. Also, they have little roses

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<v Speaker 2>on your preservatives.

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<v Speaker 1>Very clean.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it's very cute for us because their labels of roses.

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<v Speaker 2>So I love it. And they had like fun games

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<v Speaker 2>but not gross. It was the ladies got together in

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<v Speaker 2>the evening. They had a balloon arch for days.

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<v Speaker 1>The incredibly the layout. I dropped you off and uh

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<v Speaker 1>so I could pick you up later so you wouldn't drive.

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<v Speaker 1>It was amazing. They really rolled out the red carpet.

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<v Speaker 1>It was spectacular, and I'll be honest, I was intrigued

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as I heard lingerie party because I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I win, Like I feel like this party was

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<v Speaker 1>really for me. And I didn't have to go because

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<v Speaker 1>I was only going to benefit from every gift you got.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's true, you do do benefit. And well, here's

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<v Speaker 2>what else is great about it. At something like a

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<v Speaker 2>lingerie shower, I think you're you're getting gifts you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>by yourself, like I don't normally if I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>go get myself pajamas. Honestly, and maybe I should be

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<v Speaker 2>better about it. But I'm looking for comfort bowl cute

0:20:01.359 --> 0:20:03.960
<v Speaker 2>but company pajamas. I go on Amazon and get them.

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<v Speaker 2>At a lingerie shower, you get not just lingerie, but

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<v Speaker 2>I got like satiny pajamas and cute robes and also yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>truly lingerie that I probably wouldn't have gone and bought

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<v Speaker 2>for myself, because your friends are going to really want to,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, celebrate you and luxury it and get you

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<v Speaker 2>something special. I think when you're registering for things for

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<v Speaker 2>like a bridal shower, you are getting stuff that is

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<v Speaker 2>like usually quite practical, like either the ideas fill your home,

0:20:29.840 --> 0:20:32.399
<v Speaker 2>I need this thing or that. So I loved the

0:20:32.440 --> 0:20:36.240
<v Speaker 2>lingerie shower from just the fun luxurious part of it too.

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<v Speaker 1>And you guys had a great time. You played games.

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<v Speaker 1>There were I.

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<v Speaker 2>Took I think at least six, if not more, shots

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<v Speaker 2>of tequila.

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<v Speaker 1>Out of the penis shot glass.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't a penis shot glass. There was no penis show.

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<v Speaker 1>There were penises. There were, Okay, one of these penises

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<v Speaker 1>unfortunately made it into one of our social media posts.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, we do you guys know.

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<v Speaker 1>The squishy balls like the stress. So one of one

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<v Speaker 1>of the penises is like a squishy stress ball, and

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<v Speaker 1>as a joke, Lauren brought it home and it was

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<v Speaker 1>sitting on a shelf and we did a social media

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<v Speaker 1>post during the Taylor Swift Sunday Night football appearance, and

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<v Speaker 1>I realized there was a penis over my head.

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<v Speaker 2>You had the best line, you said, you've heard of

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<v Speaker 2>elf on the shelf? Yes, I okay, let me ask

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<v Speaker 2>your opinion. Were you at all? I didn't know going

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<v Speaker 2>into this lingerie shower, by the way, I didn't really

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<v Speaker 2>know how dirty or not they were going to make it.

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<v Speaker 2>I did. I didn't really do a big bachelorette party.

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<v Speaker 2>But even when I first got married, I told all

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<v Speaker 2>my friends I've never been into the stripper thing. I said,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't ever want to be surprised with a stripper.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like it. I'm not a big fan. But

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, I call it elegant genitalia, A tasteful penis. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't mind. They had a little cute at the

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<v Speaker 2>lawn d shower, like penis little candies spread across the table.

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<v Speaker 2>They had these stressful penis. Yeah, and they had kind

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<v Speaker 2>of a silly, very y two k frosted tips man

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<v Speaker 2>on a poster, frosted tips hair, not the other kind

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<v Speaker 2>of tip, and we played pin the tail on the penis.

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<v Speaker 2>It was silly little stuff. Does that make you uncomfortable

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<v Speaker 2>at all? Did you, as would you have an issue

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<v Speaker 2>with any of.

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<v Speaker 1>That, like you doing all that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>No, god no, I mean I honestly wouldn't even have

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<v Speaker 1>an issue if like they had hired a stripper to

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<v Speaker 1>come in. I don't care because it's nothing personal, it's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing romantic.

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<v Speaker 2>It's there's no I wouldn't have liked a stripper for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I well, here's the thing. I know you don't love that,

0:22:44.720 --> 0:22:46.880
<v Speaker 1>and I think you know that about me too. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not my thing. It never has been. And so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if they if they had, oh we hired this cop

0:22:53.160 --> 0:22:56.199
<v Speaker 1>guy or whatever, they came in and did it, or

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<v Speaker 1>you probably would have for you would have been like

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<v Speaker 1>a Voldemort, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Well voldemor that would have been weird. But my girlfriend

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<v Speaker 2>of mine, a very good friend of mine, did have

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<v Speaker 2>no a Harry Potter stripper. I wasn't at that. I

0:23:05.840 --> 0:23:07.840
<v Speaker 2>couldn't make her bachelor at party, but it was brilliant

0:23:07.880 --> 0:23:10.199
<v Speaker 2>and apparently it was the strippers first ever request to

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<v Speaker 2>be Harry Potter.

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<v Speaker 1>But going to the lingerie party for you, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was just fun. I was glad that your girls,

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<v Speaker 1>your crew here, your squad, if you will, Taylor Swift

0:23:18.840 --> 0:23:21.000
<v Speaker 1>to throw you a big party and it was an

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<v Speaker 1>absolute blast everybody. Thank you, Yes and the whole neighborhood

0:23:25.200 --> 0:23:27.359
<v Speaker 1>crew that really ruled. Yeah, thank you, rolled out the

0:23:27.400 --> 0:23:28.719
<v Speaker 1>red penises.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh hopefully not red eh read another Taylor Swift album reference. God,

0:23:34.040 --> 0:23:36.560
<v Speaker 2>I love all the t Swift references. It was funny

0:23:36.720 --> 0:23:39.200
<v Speaker 2>in the game. A lot of the Swifties were like, God,

0:23:39.200 --> 0:23:41.480
<v Speaker 2>they're really trying here, but can we not do Cornelia

0:23:41.520 --> 0:23:44.119
<v Speaker 2>Street references stuff like that. They were really critiquing the

0:23:44.200 --> 0:23:56.320
<v Speaker 2>NFL for the references that were being made.

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<v Speaker 1>There were a couple questions about our wedding oh coming

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<v Speaker 1>out that some people had, and so we'll hammer some

0:24:03.560 --> 0:24:05.920
<v Speaker 1>of these out because you know, we appreciate you guys

0:24:05.920 --> 0:24:08.520
<v Speaker 1>reaching out via direct message. You can go to at

0:24:08.560 --> 0:24:11.480
<v Speaker 1>the most Dramatic pod ever. That's our official site. We

0:24:11.560 --> 0:24:14.840
<v Speaker 1>get those. Our lovely producer Kendall gets those questions and

0:24:14.880 --> 0:24:17.240
<v Speaker 1>polls the for us. You can always find at Lauren

0:24:17.320 --> 0:24:20.800
<v Speaker 1>Zima and at Chris B. Harrison Fire questions to us.

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<v Speaker 1>The first question, because you know we're kind of zeroing

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<v Speaker 1>in on our wedding, are you too getting nervous?

0:24:29.119 --> 0:24:30.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I don't feel nervous at all.

0:24:30.880 --> 0:24:32.840
<v Speaker 1>I would say the tensions have risen.

0:24:33.119 --> 0:24:34.760
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's true. The stress is right, the.

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<v Speaker 1>Stress has risen. We have been very stress free, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think we have been rolling through this together very

0:24:42.240 --> 0:24:45.040
<v Speaker 1>very well, and we still are. But this last week,

0:24:45.119 --> 0:24:48.320
<v Speaker 1>for sure, the stress level has been notched up, just

0:24:48.320 --> 0:24:50.760
<v Speaker 1>because we have more things that we just got to

0:24:50.800 --> 0:24:53.320
<v Speaker 1>get done now, all those things that you know you

0:24:53.400 --> 0:24:55.040
<v Speaker 1>just as you start hitting that deadline.

0:24:55.160 --> 0:24:57.720
<v Speaker 2>I always think wedding planning goes like this a long

0:24:57.800 --> 0:24:59.640
<v Speaker 2>time out. You have to book the really big stuff

0:24:59.680 --> 0:25:02.760
<v Speaker 2>you got it, nail down your venue, and then then

0:25:02.800 --> 0:25:04.840
<v Speaker 2>there's a time when like you kind of actually can't

0:25:04.880 --> 0:25:07.000
<v Speaker 2>do that much because the vendors have other stuff going

0:25:07.040 --> 0:25:08.840
<v Speaker 2>on and they're sort of like, ma'am, I know you're

0:25:08.840 --> 0:25:11.000
<v Speaker 2>worried about your flowers, but we have thirty weddings before

0:25:11.080 --> 0:25:12.600
<v Speaker 2>years and we can't buy your flowers till the week

0:25:12.640 --> 0:25:15.919
<v Speaker 2>of anyway, so you can kind of pause. Now. I

0:25:16.000 --> 0:25:18.400
<v Speaker 2>do think maybe I paused quite a lot. My mom

0:25:18.440 --> 0:25:21.560
<v Speaker 2>and my sister were my sister, especially who got married

0:25:21.600 --> 0:25:23.400
<v Speaker 2>not long ago. I apparently I just found this out

0:25:23.400 --> 0:25:26.200
<v Speaker 2>from my mom. My sister was telling my mom Lauren's

0:25:26.200 --> 0:25:28.000
<v Speaker 2>not getting enough done. She needs to do more. I'm

0:25:28.000 --> 0:25:31.080
<v Speaker 2>worried about her. And my mom actually said to her, Christina,

0:25:31.600 --> 0:25:35.440
<v Speaker 2>Lauren's always been like this. She's very deadline oriented. She's

0:25:35.480 --> 0:25:37.440
<v Speaker 2>just gonna like It's like in high school, I was

0:25:37.480 --> 0:25:39.640
<v Speaker 2>the type of person who I would have a book

0:25:39.640 --> 0:25:41.480
<v Speaker 2>report due for months and I would get it done

0:25:41.600 --> 0:25:45.119
<v Speaker 2>two days before. Yeah, that's how I operate best. Sometimes

0:25:45.160 --> 0:25:46.960
<v Speaker 2>it does mess me up. Sometimes I should be a

0:25:46.960 --> 0:25:48.879
<v Speaker 2>little better about getting stuff done early. But I can't

0:25:48.920 --> 0:25:49.280
<v Speaker 2>change you.

0:25:49.320 --> 0:25:51.000
<v Speaker 1>I am Donna should have called me and given me

0:25:51.040 --> 0:25:54.240
<v Speaker 1>this note. Should have but I so far, I think

0:25:54.280 --> 0:25:56.000
<v Speaker 1>we've done well. And obviously the stress is going to

0:25:56.040 --> 0:25:57.920
<v Speaker 1>build a little bit, but it's in a good way.

0:25:58.119 --> 0:25:59.840
<v Speaker 2>And I straight up told you this week I will

0:25:59.840 --> 0:26:02.200
<v Speaker 2>say I think you did. I think communication is important.

0:26:02.240 --> 0:26:04.960
<v Speaker 2>I said to you. I want you to know I'm

0:26:05.000 --> 0:26:07.159
<v Speaker 2>going to get a little stressed at this point. I

0:26:07.240 --> 0:26:09.840
<v Speaker 2>love you, Like, just be prepared for the tension to

0:26:09.840 --> 0:26:10.480
<v Speaker 2>be a little high.

0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:12.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I'm by the way. I'm feeling it too,

0:26:12.480 --> 0:26:14.560
<v Speaker 1>just because there are, you know, things we just got

0:26:14.600 --> 0:26:17.400
<v Speaker 1>to do and and it feels big, and we don't

0:26:17.440 --> 0:26:19.360
<v Speaker 1>have a wedding planner per se. We have people kind

0:26:19.359 --> 0:26:20.720
<v Speaker 1>of helping and they thought.

0:26:20.600 --> 0:26:23.280
<v Speaker 2>I was insane. I told somebody that, They said, you

0:26:23.280 --> 0:26:24.800
<v Speaker 2>don't have a wedding planner, Like, no.

0:26:25.320 --> 0:26:27.760
<v Speaker 1>We have someone for sure in our camp that's helping us.

0:26:28.160 --> 0:26:29.879
<v Speaker 1>And then we have you know, a couple other people

0:26:29.880 --> 0:26:31.480
<v Speaker 1>at these sites, the venues.

0:26:31.119 --> 0:26:32.960
<v Speaker 2>And you've been a great partner in it all. Baby,

0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:35.880
<v Speaker 2>you are so not the and I'll admit I think

0:26:35.920 --> 0:26:38.359
<v Speaker 2>it's I don't know, I think it's It could potentially

0:26:38.359 --> 0:26:41.240
<v Speaker 2>be a red flag if you've got a partner who's

0:26:41.280 --> 0:26:44.080
<v Speaker 2>not into helping doing stuff, getting stuff done. You need

0:26:44.080 --> 0:26:46.200
<v Speaker 2>a teammate in there. This is planning a big event

0:26:46.240 --> 0:26:48.680
<v Speaker 2>in your life. You very much. You've taken on stuff

0:26:48.680 --> 0:26:50.439
<v Speaker 2>you're good at. I think I've taken things on and

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:52.800
<v Speaker 2>we've had a fairly equitable distribution. Is the work?

0:26:52.840 --> 0:26:55.000
<v Speaker 1>Another one asked, you know if this is if planning

0:26:55.000 --> 0:26:58.080
<v Speaker 1>this together has caused fights or brought you closer together,

0:26:58.080 --> 0:27:00.600
<v Speaker 1>how it's affected our relationship in it it has brought

0:27:00.680 --> 0:27:03.399
<v Speaker 1>us closer together. It's just Laura and I are so

0:27:03.560 --> 0:27:06.520
<v Speaker 1>aligned on so many things, on our vision on what

0:27:06.560 --> 0:27:08.320
<v Speaker 1>we want to do, and then we'll sit down and

0:27:08.400 --> 0:27:10.879
<v Speaker 1>kind of have a brainstorming meeting of like, Okay, how

0:27:10.920 --> 0:27:12.600
<v Speaker 1>do we want to come in? What kind of music

0:27:12.600 --> 0:27:14.640
<v Speaker 1>do you want? Like just we just hammer things out

0:27:14.640 --> 0:27:16.240
<v Speaker 1>and kind of you know what it is. I think

0:27:16.280 --> 0:27:19.159
<v Speaker 1>we're both producers at heart. We're writers and producers, and

0:27:19.200 --> 0:27:20.560
<v Speaker 1>so we like producing.

0:27:20.160 --> 0:27:22.840
<v Speaker 2>Together, producing our wedding. We are we are producing wrong

0:27:22.920 --> 0:27:26.320
<v Speaker 2>our wedding. Yeah, I know we are, I mean, which

0:27:26.400 --> 0:27:27.840
<v Speaker 2>is a good sign. I felt this way. We did

0:27:27.840 --> 0:27:30.400
<v Speaker 2>our house too. But for example, you had to take

0:27:30.400 --> 0:27:33.919
<v Speaker 2>a call that I couldn't be on talking about the

0:27:33.960 --> 0:27:37.439
<v Speaker 2>catering and the food, and you texted me no cake, right,

0:27:37.520 --> 0:27:39.800
<v Speaker 2>and I said, yeah, definitely, no cake. Like we just

0:27:39.840 --> 0:27:42.400
<v Speaker 2>I think we're aligned on it. Stuff's been pretty easy.

0:27:42.400 --> 0:27:43.960
<v Speaker 2>I trust your judgment. And no, we're not having a

0:27:43.960 --> 0:27:44.680
<v Speaker 2>wedding cake either.

0:27:44.800 --> 0:27:47.240
<v Speaker 1>And so you know, someone else asked, you know who's

0:27:47.240 --> 0:27:50.880
<v Speaker 1>doing what and how are you splitting this up? We

0:27:50.960 --> 0:27:53.840
<v Speaker 1>just are like we definitely. It's not like hey, I'll

0:27:53.840 --> 0:27:57.480
<v Speaker 1>cook you clean. It's not like we've had specific rules

0:27:57.480 --> 0:27:59.400
<v Speaker 1>there's just things that Lauren, well.

0:27:59.359 --> 0:28:01.000
<v Speaker 2>Maybe we both know what the other's good at.

0:28:01.119 --> 0:28:03.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think that's I think that's true. And you

0:28:03.800 --> 0:28:09.639
<v Speaker 1>are such a great organizer. Lauren is more meticulous I

0:28:09.680 --> 0:28:10.600
<v Speaker 1>think than I am.

0:28:10.800 --> 0:28:13.120
<v Speaker 2>And you're a good connector, like you're like this person

0:28:13.160 --> 0:28:13.919
<v Speaker 2>would be great for this.

0:28:14.160 --> 0:28:16.280
<v Speaker 1>I like to start things, You're right, I like to

0:28:16.320 --> 0:28:19.200
<v Speaker 1>start connect whatever, and then I'm not great at getting

0:28:19.200 --> 0:28:21.560
<v Speaker 1>into the weeds. I need people to kind of come

0:28:21.560 --> 0:28:23.200
<v Speaker 1>in and finish and polish things off.

0:28:23.280 --> 0:28:25.080
<v Speaker 2>But some of the stuff's been really fun to do together.

0:28:25.080 --> 0:28:26.720
<v Speaker 2>I don't mean to make it sound like, oh, we

0:28:26.720 --> 0:28:28.639
<v Speaker 2>don't have a wedding cake, and we're like we have

0:28:28.680 --> 0:28:30.840
<v Speaker 2>a lot of really beautiful moments planned, and.

0:28:30.920 --> 0:28:32.040
<v Speaker 1>I think all of it's been fun.

0:28:32.119 --> 0:28:34.720
<v Speaker 2>It has like I've loved doing the seating chart together.

0:28:34.840 --> 0:28:36.800
<v Speaker 1>I've loved you know what I thought of what you

0:28:36.840 --> 0:28:39.200
<v Speaker 1>know about not having a wedding planner. Yeah, it's been

0:28:39.240 --> 0:28:41.520
<v Speaker 1>stressful and I thought at times were idiots.

0:28:41.920 --> 0:28:42.080
<v Speaker 2>But.

0:28:43.800 --> 0:28:48.080
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't want to just because I was thinking about

0:28:48.080 --> 0:28:51.880
<v Speaker 1>my first wedding and I just showed up. I didn't

0:28:51.880 --> 0:28:54.040
<v Speaker 1>do anything. I was twenty two years old, so what

0:28:54.080 --> 0:28:56.360
<v Speaker 1>could I have done? But I didn't do jack, I

0:28:56.480 --> 0:28:59.360
<v Speaker 1>just showed up. I'm glad. I was just thinking, I'm glad.

0:28:59.360 --> 0:29:01.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't just want to show up to this.

0:29:01.280 --> 0:29:05.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad. I know every aspect of this we both do.

0:29:05.160 --> 0:29:08.160
<v Speaker 1>We have planned everything meticulously, down to our guests where

0:29:08.160 --> 0:29:12.400
<v Speaker 1>they're staying, like everything, and I can kind of own

0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:16.320
<v Speaker 1>this whole thing. I feel much closer to it. Yeah, then, hey,

0:29:17.200 --> 0:29:19.040
<v Speaker 1>we have a three o'clock wedding next Saturday.

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 2>Show up like right, well, and probably your first time

0:29:22.040 --> 0:29:24.280
<v Speaker 2>around it was like your your ex and your mom

0:29:24.400 --> 0:29:26.080
<v Speaker 2>wanted to do it all and so what could you.

0:29:26.520 --> 0:29:29.120
<v Speaker 1>Honestly, I don't know who did it really.

0:29:29.160 --> 0:29:31.240
<v Speaker 2>Maybe that is on you, But I think maybe what

0:29:31.320 --> 0:29:35.360
<v Speaker 2>I've grown from with my first wedding was to be honest,

0:29:35.520 --> 0:29:39.080
<v Speaker 2>not being so for lack of a better word, invested,

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:42.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm invested, but not but knowing what matters and what doesn't.

0:29:42.840 --> 0:29:44.959
<v Speaker 2>Like when you're a bride for the first time and

0:29:45.000 --> 0:29:46.840
<v Speaker 2>I look, I hope out there everybody only does it

0:29:46.920 --> 0:29:49.880
<v Speaker 2>one time, but we grow up with this idea of

0:29:49.920 --> 0:29:53.320
<v Speaker 2>weddings and it's so big and you're so stressed, and

0:29:53.320 --> 0:29:55.280
<v Speaker 2>and this time I'm just like, look, I know at

0:29:55.280 --> 0:29:58.000
<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, we have great people, We're

0:29:58.000 --> 0:30:00.520
<v Speaker 2>gonna have great wine, we're gonna have good music, and

0:30:01.240 --> 0:30:04.440
<v Speaker 2>that's really all you need. And I do think this

0:30:04.480 --> 0:30:06.840
<v Speaker 2>could be a hot take. Please DM me if you disagree,

0:30:07.200 --> 0:30:09.360
<v Speaker 2>But I think there are some things that you need

0:30:09.760 --> 0:30:12.560
<v Speaker 2>that people don't remember, and those are the things you

0:30:12.600 --> 0:30:15.240
<v Speaker 2>should not stress yourself out about. Flowers is one of those.

0:30:15.680 --> 0:30:18.080
<v Speaker 2>Do you need flowers? Sure, you don't want the room

0:30:18.120 --> 0:30:19.600
<v Speaker 2>to look like crap. You want people to feel like

0:30:19.640 --> 0:30:22.840
<v Speaker 2>it's special and beautiful. But I've never left a wedding

0:30:22.920 --> 0:30:26.520
<v Speaker 2>and years later thought, God, that wedding had the best flowers. Right,

0:30:26.920 --> 0:30:28.840
<v Speaker 2>You look back and you're like, we danced, we had

0:30:28.880 --> 0:30:31.880
<v Speaker 2>so much fun, the toasts were great. You don't think

0:30:31.960 --> 0:30:38.200
<v Speaker 2>I can't get over those floral center pieces. So I'm

0:30:38.280 --> 0:30:42.000
<v Speaker 2>not stressing so much about everything. I'm focusing on what's

0:30:42.120 --> 0:30:44.760
<v Speaker 2>just a necessity. But what will people really remember?

0:30:44.840 --> 0:30:47.560
<v Speaker 1>Definitely, older and wiser, you and I have perspective, which

0:30:47.560 --> 0:30:50.360
<v Speaker 1>is wonderful to go through this again with two people

0:30:50.360 --> 0:30:53.800
<v Speaker 1>that have perspectives. So we know there's gonna be hurdles.

0:30:53.840 --> 0:30:55.960
<v Speaker 1>We know we're going to trip and fall on some stuff.

0:30:56.120 --> 0:30:58.400
<v Speaker 1>Things are going to go awry. We just deal with it,

0:30:58.640 --> 0:31:00.360
<v Speaker 1>right if something doesn't show up in the mail that

0:31:00.400 --> 0:31:02.640
<v Speaker 1>we ordered or whatever, like, okay, we'll fix it. It's

0:31:02.640 --> 0:31:04.440
<v Speaker 1>all good because at the end of the day, we

0:31:04.480 --> 0:31:06.560
<v Speaker 1>know we're going to get married and that's really what

0:31:06.600 --> 0:31:08.640
<v Speaker 1>we care about, and our friends and family will be there,

0:31:08.680 --> 0:31:11.320
<v Speaker 1>and I know there's going to be spectacular wine. It'll

0:31:11.320 --> 0:31:15.280
<v Speaker 1>be great. A couple more questions thought, and this is

0:31:15.320 --> 0:31:16.920
<v Speaker 1>interesting because we talked about this and we almost had

0:31:16.960 --> 0:31:20.520
<v Speaker 1>this issue. Thoughts on not letting someone bring a plus one.

0:31:20.800 --> 0:31:23.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh, and I have gotten a few texts from a

0:31:23.640 --> 0:31:24.560
<v Speaker 2>few guests about this.

0:31:24.880 --> 0:31:29.720
<v Speaker 1>So we have had a very specific situation where one

0:31:29.720 --> 0:31:32.880
<v Speaker 1>of our very dear friends has somebody, but they also

0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:35.920
<v Speaker 1>can break up and date other people quite often. And

0:31:35.960 --> 0:31:39.920
<v Speaker 1>we talked about, hey, if this happens, we don't want

0:31:39.920 --> 0:31:42.480
<v Speaker 1>a stranger at our wedding. We don't want to meet

0:31:42.480 --> 0:31:43.480
<v Speaker 1>somebody for the first time.

0:31:43.600 --> 0:31:47.280
<v Speaker 2>I said, if he's with the person he's currently with, yes,

0:31:47.440 --> 0:31:50.200
<v Speaker 2>and they've been together for a while. Great with this

0:31:50.240 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 2>discussion months ago, I said, if they break up pretty

0:31:53.520 --> 0:31:56.080
<v Speaker 2>like fairly sooner before the wedding, then we're going to

0:31:56.160 --> 0:31:58.040
<v Speaker 2>tell him please come on your own, do not just

0:31:58.080 --> 0:32:00.200
<v Speaker 2>find a date, even though we gave you a plus one.

0:32:00.280 --> 0:32:01.960
<v Speaker 2>I was going to have you call and have that conversation.

0:32:02.240 --> 0:32:03.760
<v Speaker 1>And I'm by the way, I was right there with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was the best line that I've heard. Was

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<v Speaker 1>neither one of us want to meet a stranger at

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<v Speaker 1>our wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>And we have to give credit. We got that takeaway

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<v Speaker 2>from Wells Adams's brother and his right who had that

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<v Speaker 2>policy at their wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye. Yes, and I love that. I am all for that.

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<v Speaker 1>So we were not. You know, luckily we haven't had

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<v Speaker 1>to jump off that bridge, but we were prepared to.

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<v Speaker 2>It's you know what, though, let's get into it is

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<v Speaker 2>amazing and I've talked to other friends about this, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think everyone out there who's been married can relate.

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<v Speaker 2>It's amazing the crap people will say and do. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>when it's your wedding. I don't know what happens I

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<v Speaker 2>think people, And I don't mean to sound negative, you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>I've lost my voice again from the lingerie shower. I

0:32:44.600 --> 0:32:46.480
<v Speaker 2>honestly think I need to see a doctor about my voice.

0:32:46.520 --> 0:32:49.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm a little worried, but so I hope I don't

0:32:49.320 --> 0:32:51.479
<v Speaker 2>sound negative. I'm very happy right now. My voice has

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<v Speaker 2>just gone. But people will there's something about a wedding

0:32:56.240 --> 0:32:58.959
<v Speaker 2>where people are emboldened. It's kind of like a funeral.

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<v Speaker 2>When there's a big life event, people say and do

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<v Speaker 2>the weirdest crap. I had someone ask me if like

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<v Speaker 2>their kid could come and their kid could bring a

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<v Speaker 2>plus one, and I was like, I barely know your kid,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know what it's like. And the fact that

0:33:16.400 --> 0:33:18.560
<v Speaker 2>I was a little like, I kind of can't believe

0:33:19.200 --> 0:33:19.959
<v Speaker 2>they asked that.

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<v Speaker 1>Or and I know you guys like, look, if there's

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<v Speaker 1>a destination wedding, say you're going to Kansas City, back

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<v Speaker 1>to Taylor.

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<v Speaker 2>Destination Kansas City made.

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<v Speaker 1>Me call wrid or groom and say, what's the weather

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<v Speaker 1>going to be like in Kansas City?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, if you can google it, don't ask

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<v Speaker 2>me about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, Try not to ask the brighter groom or

0:33:39.120 --> 0:33:43.680
<v Speaker 1>whoever anything that you know, Oh you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what the dress is, Well, yeah you do, it's

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<v Speaker 1>on it's on the invitation, or just try to not

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<v Speaker 1>ask them.

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<v Speaker 2>The most I did. I've had a couple of people

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<v Speaker 2>ask me because we have a wedding website and I've

0:33:56.360 --> 0:33:58.080
<v Speaker 2>had a couple of people be like, hey, can you

0:33:58.120 --> 0:33:59.680
<v Speaker 2>remind me, like what time this is or what time

0:33:59.680 --> 0:34:02.240
<v Speaker 2>it's like, and I've said it's on the website. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I know that. I know that text is not

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<v Speaker 2>coming across great. I know it's coming across a little shady,

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<v Speaker 2>but I can't. I'm like, I can either type out

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<v Speaker 2>a whole paragraph explaining it, or I can tell you

0:34:10.480 --> 0:34:12.400
<v Speaker 2>it's on the website. And I did the website myself,

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<v Speaker 2>so I already type that paragraph.

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<v Speaker 1>At big events and this goes back to lingerie party

0:34:18.040 --> 0:34:24.759
<v Speaker 1>or bachelor, bacherette party, funeral, wedding, whatever the big event, graduation,

0:34:25.719 --> 0:34:30.600
<v Speaker 1>whenever any individual or a couple someone is being honored,

0:34:30.800 --> 0:34:33.319
<v Speaker 1>it's for them. The night is in their name, it's

0:34:33.360 --> 0:34:38.160
<v Speaker 1>for them. Don't make it about you. You don't get

0:34:38.200 --> 0:34:42.160
<v Speaker 1>to do that that one day, that one night. Don't

0:34:42.320 --> 0:34:46.800
<v Speaker 1>end up, you know, being the center of attention, whether

0:34:46.840 --> 0:34:48.080
<v Speaker 1>it's drama, whatever.

0:34:48.280 --> 0:34:50.680
<v Speaker 2>I would love stories, can you, guys? I just I mean,

0:34:50.719 --> 0:34:53.200
<v Speaker 2>I would just it's always fun to hear drama, no

0:34:53.280 --> 0:34:56.040
<v Speaker 2>matter even especially it's about people you don't know. Please

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<v Speaker 2>dm us if you have stories of crazy stuff people

0:34:59.800 --> 0:35:01.120
<v Speaker 2>did at your wedding.

0:35:01.200 --> 0:35:03.480
<v Speaker 1>One of our friends has a story where her best

0:35:03.520 --> 0:35:05.880
<v Speaker 1>friend locked herself in a bathroom and was bawling.

0:35:06.160 --> 0:35:08.360
<v Speaker 2>The best friend was upset. This is wild and stuff

0:35:08.400 --> 0:35:10.600
<v Speaker 2>like this, we'd love to hear our dear friend. Her

0:35:10.640 --> 0:35:14.440
<v Speaker 2>best friend was a bridesmaid, but was upset she wasn't

0:35:14.480 --> 0:35:17.840
<v Speaker 2>made the maid of honor. The maid of honor was

0:35:17.880 --> 0:35:21.000
<v Speaker 2>the bride's sister. So the best friend is upset that

0:35:21.080 --> 0:35:23.480
<v Speaker 2>the sister is the maid of honor. And it all

0:35:23.480 --> 0:35:25.480
<v Speaker 2>came out on the wedding day. Apparently she'd been holding

0:35:25.480 --> 0:35:27.799
<v Speaker 2>it in, locked herself in a bathroom crying, and the

0:35:27.800 --> 0:35:29.640
<v Speaker 2>bride had to go be like, can you please come

0:35:29.640 --> 0:35:32.200
<v Speaker 2>out for the wedding? How wild is that? People become

0:35:32.280 --> 0:35:32.600
<v Speaker 2>n hinge?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't be that person.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, any other question?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, last question. This is a big one because we

0:35:37.200 --> 0:35:40.840
<v Speaker 1>just had this conversation last night. Have you two written

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<v Speaker 1>your vows?

0:35:41.600 --> 0:35:43.760
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, we did just talk about this Lesbon

0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:45.200
<v Speaker 2>and attorney instead of you started.

0:35:45.360 --> 0:35:47.160
<v Speaker 1>The answer is no, we have not.

0:35:47.600 --> 0:35:51.680
<v Speaker 2>I've thought about much. Yeah, if marinated in my mind?

0:35:51.760 --> 0:35:53.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, me too. I think about it a lot. If

0:35:53.520 --> 0:35:55.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm at the gym, whatever, I start kind of going

0:35:55.120 --> 0:35:55.400
<v Speaker 1>through it.

0:35:55.440 --> 0:35:57.920
<v Speaker 2>Part of it is what we've been together a lot,

0:35:58.760 --> 0:36:00.200
<v Speaker 2>and I sort of feel like I need to like

0:36:00.960 --> 0:36:03.239
<v Speaker 2>separate from you, get to write it out, Yeah, write

0:36:03.280 --> 0:36:06.000
<v Speaker 2>it out on my own, like I can't. I don't know.

0:36:06.280 --> 0:36:08.760
<v Speaker 2>I think there's something maybe a little romantic about it. Honestly,

0:36:08.800 --> 0:36:11.879
<v Speaker 2>I need to be away from you for a day

0:36:11.960 --> 0:36:13.200
<v Speaker 2>or something to be able to do it.

0:36:13.239 --> 0:36:15.360
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, So the answer is yes, we're going to

0:36:15.520 --> 0:36:19.520
<v Speaker 1>The answer is no, we haven't. And I've become Lauren

0:36:19.520 --> 0:36:22.000
<v Speaker 1>where I'm just kicking this can down the road. It'll

0:36:22.000 --> 0:36:25.359
<v Speaker 1>be it's not gonna be last minute, but we will

0:36:25.400 --> 0:36:26.920
<v Speaker 1>get it done. But it's funny. We just had this

0:36:26.960 --> 0:36:28.040
<v Speaker 1>conversation last night.

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:30.960
<v Speaker 2>Well one of the questions was, are you nervous. I'm

0:36:30.960 --> 0:36:35.279
<v Speaker 2>not nervous, like we said, I'm stressed. I am. The

0:36:35.800 --> 0:36:38.560
<v Speaker 2>only thing I might be a little nervous about is

0:36:38.600 --> 0:36:44.239
<v Speaker 2>the vows. Yeah, I don't want to. I love you

0:36:44.280 --> 0:36:45.960
<v Speaker 2>and I'm afraid of disappointing you.

0:36:46.600 --> 0:36:48.239
<v Speaker 1>If we're putting a lot of pressure on each other

0:36:48.239 --> 0:36:50.920
<v Speaker 1>for this, I know, and it's self imposed both ways,

0:36:50.920 --> 0:36:55.319
<v Speaker 1>because I've admitted the same thing. Yeah, we've imposed our

0:36:55.400 --> 0:37:00.080
<v Speaker 1>own pressure to perform it from the other I think.

0:37:00.080 --> 0:37:02.800
<v Speaker 2>It's very difficult. And I said this to you yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>We have to take some of this stress and pressure

0:37:05.800 --> 0:37:12.680
<v Speaker 2>off ourselves because it is incredibly tough to summarize your relationship,

0:37:12.880 --> 0:37:15.720
<v Speaker 2>your love. Yeah, in just a few minutes of words.

0:37:15.880 --> 0:37:17.080
<v Speaker 1>I need a Taylor Swift song.

0:37:17.600 --> 0:37:21.880
<v Speaker 2>I need a whole album. And the shower was so thoughtful.

0:37:22.760 --> 0:37:25.319
<v Speaker 2>They just had so many great details, framed pictures of

0:37:25.400 --> 0:37:32.359
<v Speaker 2>us and future Missus Napkins and a Missus Harrison.

0:37:32.719 --> 0:37:35.600
<v Speaker 1>Veil future mister and Missus Harrison veil. I saw it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it just said Missus Harrison and it was so

0:37:39.000 --> 0:37:42.239
<v Speaker 2>funny because I felt bad. They literally had a cute

0:37:42.239 --> 0:37:46.000
<v Speaker 2>little veil mate, and it had Missus Harrison printed in

0:37:46.080 --> 0:37:49.040
<v Speaker 2>gold on the veil, and they said, yeah, we had

0:37:49.040 --> 0:37:51.640
<v Speaker 2>this mean before we heard your podcast rant about how

0:37:51.680 --> 0:37:53.319
<v Speaker 2>you caught changing your name.

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<v Speaker 1>See, you know what's funny. Though, I like seeing it,

0:37:57.520 --> 0:37:59.879
<v Speaker 1>like I like hearing it, and I like seeing it,

0:38:00.480 --> 0:38:02.400
<v Speaker 1>and I know that you're not going to take my

0:38:02.480 --> 0:38:04.760
<v Speaker 1>name and that's fine, and I really am it doesn't

0:38:04.800 --> 0:38:07.000
<v Speaker 1>hurt me and it doesn't hurt my feelings, but I

0:38:07.040 --> 0:38:09.200
<v Speaker 1>also is it okay? Again? Two things can be true

0:38:09.200 --> 0:38:11.400
<v Speaker 1>at once. I still like hearing it.

0:38:12.440 --> 0:38:16.560
<v Speaker 2>And let me say I didn't dislike it. I said

0:38:16.560 --> 0:38:18.120
<v Speaker 2>to them that night, I said, you know what, this

0:38:18.200 --> 0:38:22.239
<v Speaker 2>feels cute. I like it. It's not that I would

0:38:22.320 --> 0:38:26.319
<v Speaker 2>have an issue with taking your name and us being

0:38:26.400 --> 0:38:29.040
<v Speaker 2>one in that way. I just think people should be

0:38:29.120 --> 0:38:31.719
<v Speaker 2>with partners who are also willing to go the other way.

0:38:31.719 --> 0:38:33.160
<v Speaker 2>And it's a red flag to me if you're not.

0:38:33.560 --> 0:38:37.319
<v Speaker 2>And I should applaud you because we actually have a

0:38:37.320 --> 0:38:40.400
<v Speaker 2>group text going with like our very closest friends who

0:38:40.440 --> 0:38:43.080
<v Speaker 2>are coming to the wedding to kind of get excited,

0:38:43.880 --> 0:38:46.680
<v Speaker 2>and this was your idea. We named the group text

0:38:47.000 --> 0:38:51.960
<v Speaker 2>mister and missus Zema. So you're right there withn't me, babe,

0:38:51.960 --> 0:38:52.759
<v Speaker 2>And that's why I love you.

0:38:52.880 --> 0:38:54.920
<v Speaker 1>And that happens often too. We talked about that when

0:38:54.920 --> 0:38:58.200
<v Speaker 1>we're hotels or resorts or whatever, people you know, whatever

0:38:58.280 --> 0:39:00.880
<v Speaker 1>name is on the reservation, they'll say, mister Zema, how

0:39:00.920 --> 0:39:03.319
<v Speaker 1>are you doing this morning? You know, so I get

0:39:03.360 --> 0:39:04.439
<v Speaker 1>called mister Zema all.

0:39:04.360 --> 0:39:06.000
<v Speaker 2>The times, Harrison.

0:39:06.040 --> 0:39:07.879
<v Speaker 1>You get called missus Harrison. Neither one of us are

0:39:07.880 --> 0:39:10.239
<v Speaker 1>offended by it, and in fact I like it. I

0:39:10.280 --> 0:39:12.120
<v Speaker 1>like when I'm called mister Zema. I like when you're

0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:14.800
<v Speaker 1>called missus Harrison. I think it's great. It just shows

0:39:14.800 --> 0:39:17.000
<v Speaker 1>that we're we're one and we are a couple, and

0:39:17.239 --> 0:39:20.200
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't mean we need to change our names or should.

0:39:20.840 --> 0:39:23.279
<v Speaker 1>We've already covered that in a prior podcast, but I

0:39:23.360 --> 0:39:25.080
<v Speaker 1>did enjoy seeing that.

0:39:25.080 --> 0:39:28.520
<v Speaker 2>On the veil the Harrizemas the Zema Sins.

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<v Speaker 1>What a crazy week it has been. Full of Taylor Swift,

0:39:32.719 --> 0:39:35.719
<v Speaker 1>full of Travis Kelcey, full of penises, oh my gosh,

0:39:35.920 --> 0:39:38.960
<v Speaker 1>lots of celebrations and it's all good. It's all good,

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<v Speaker 1>and we appreciate you guys being with us as always

0:39:41.360 --> 0:39:43.760
<v Speaker 1>and again. You can find us at the drumost Somatic

0:39:43.800 --> 0:39:49.000
<v Speaker 1>pod at Lauren Zema at Chris B. Harrison always good

0:39:49.040 --> 0:39:51.920
<v Speaker 1>talking to you. Take care of yourself, take care of

0:39:51.960 --> 0:39:55.080
<v Speaker 1>each other, and we'll talk to you next time because

0:39:55.080 --> 0:39:58.000
<v Speaker 1>we have a lot more to talk about. Thanks for listening.

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