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Speaker 1: This is the most dramatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Chris Harrison and Lauren Zema coming to you from the

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Speaker 1: home office in Austin, Texas. And it is week two

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Speaker 1: of Taylor Gate. I thought, you know, this story might

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Speaker 1: kind of just go off into the ether. But last

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Speaker 1: night we're taping this on Monday. It is Sunday Night Football.

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Speaker 2: Sunday Night Taylor.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm Sunday Night Taylor. It is Taylor Swift

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Speaker 1: at New York to see the Kansas City Chiefs and

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Speaker 1: of course Travis Kelcey play the New York Jets. And

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Speaker 1: the entire broadcast started off with Taylor Swift talking about

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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift. We go to the sideline reporter to talk

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Speaker 1: about Taylor Swift. It is her walking into the game.

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Speaker 1: It is a huge, huge deal.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I did not think it was just going

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Speaker 2: to go away, but I thought it can go one

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Speaker 2: of two ways. If they're really starting to kind of

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Speaker 2: date each other, then she's going to be at this game,

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Speaker 2: and she's going to be at subsequent games, and they're

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Speaker 2: going to totally play into this. If it was just

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Speaker 2: a one time publicity thing and they were kind of

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Speaker 2: given the fans a little show and both capitalizing on it,

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Speaker 2: but you know, all in good fun. Then it would

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Speaker 2: have been a one off. So now I think it's

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Speaker 2: real and they're really starting to date.

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Speaker 1: Well, I just thought, Taylor Swift is a busy woman,

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Speaker 1: and you know, she's.

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Speaker 2: Taking a break right now before the world stops of

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Speaker 2: her tour, before the internationaliste.

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Speaker 1: You know how it is when you are the most influential,

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Speaker 1: the most famous woman in the world. Even though you're

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Speaker 1: on a break, you're not on a break. She's doing

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Speaker 1: a million things, probably shooting commercials and all this stuff.

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Speaker 1: So I just figured, is she going to have time

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Speaker 1: to go to New York and show up at a games?

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Speaker 2: What's a better commercial? I know, for her upcoming theatrical

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Speaker 2: release of her documentary and for her world tour stops.

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Speaker 2: What's better press? Then? Isn't Sunday Night Football the biggest

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Speaker 2: television event period.

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Speaker 1: Sunday Night Football is huge, The ratings are massive.

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Speaker 2: It has ever beat Sunday Night Football.

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Speaker 1: It involved the biggest network market in the world, New

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Speaker 1: York City. She's in the big Apple. Obviously, she has

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Speaker 1: a song, so it worked out perfect.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to New York.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Welcome to New York, Taylor Swift. And so here's

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Speaker 1: the thing about the size the scope of Taylor Swift.

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Speaker 1: And I know, look, I got both sides of the coin.

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Speaker 1: People are like, I'm so done with this. I don't care.

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Speaker 1: But here's the fascinating thing to me. Lots of celebrities,

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Speaker 1: tons of celebrities go to football games every week. Blake Lively,

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Speaker 1: Ryan Reynolds, and Hugh Jackman show up to this game.

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Speaker 1: I know they're with Taylor, but if they had just

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Speaker 1: shown up, I don't think anyone would have ever known.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Nobody would care.

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Speaker 2: You might hear about it, like on the team's accounts,

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is cut away whatever, but the fact

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Speaker 1: the Bachelor Bachelorette worked for twenty years, and it never

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Speaker 1: goes away. We have an insatiable appetite for all things love.

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Speaker 1: When we used to like Harry and Megan, Remember when

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Speaker 1: the world really liked Harry and Meghan.

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Speaker 2: To be honest, I missed those days. It was a

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Speaker 1: Remember when they But when we all believed in this

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Speaker 1: love story and she's becoming a process.

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Speaker 2: The actress becoming a royal. Yes, it was beautiful America

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Speaker 2: and Britain reuniting is yes, before.

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Speaker 1: We kind of found out what they were really like

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Speaker 1: and we were like scratching our head, going, what who

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Speaker 1: are these people? That we had this insatiable appetite to

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Speaker 1: devour this love story, this romance. You flew to London

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Speaker 1: for this, I mean it changed everything.

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Speaker 2: To clarify, I was covering the royal wedding. I wasn't

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Speaker 2: like a stalker.

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Speaker 1: No, no, that's what I mean for entertainment tonight. But I

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Speaker 1: mean that's the attention it drew. So we have this

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Speaker 1: the theater of it all has drawn us in. Whether

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Speaker 1: you're male, female, young, old, football, non football, this transcends

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Speaker 1: all that because it goes back to the core thing

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Speaker 1: we all desire love, a great love story.

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Speaker 2: It's a love story. Maybe just say yes that's a

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Speaker 2: Taylor Swift song. No I got that? Yeah, No, Look

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Speaker 2: I completely agree with you, and who better to speak

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Speaker 2: don't mean that in a like a gross way, but

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Speaker 2: people want to buy it. For twenty years he was

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Speaker 2: a p It's okay, And now I will give you

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Speaker 2: one caveat on that though. Yes, this is Taylor Swift.

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Speaker 2: That's also why this is so big. I mean, Taylor

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Speaker 2: Swift is the biggest star in the world right now.

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Speaker 2: And if it was, say, let's go back to your

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Speaker 2: example thing, don't okay. Taylor Swift also had Sabrina Carpenter,

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Speaker 2: that was another friend of hers in the stands with

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Speaker 2: her last night, and she I believe a single right now.

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Speaker 2: If Sabrina Carpenter, who has tens of millions of followers,

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Speaker 2: who's a famous singer, actress, but if she was in

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Speaker 1: Dating traveler for the Jets, Zach Wilson.

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Speaker 2: Of course it wouldn't be on this level. This is love, yes,

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Speaker 2: but it's also Taylor Swift. And you kind of got

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Speaker 2: a little You got some heat last night on Instagram

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Speaker 2: A little I didn't get you. You got some back

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Speaker 2: and forth, yeah, because you know, I mean not you

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Speaker 2: were I mean you were getting into a theater.

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Speaker 1: Well here's the thing, my I want to believe in this.

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Speaker 1: You know me. I love love and I'm and I

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Speaker 1: love Taylor Swift. I'm a big Swift ye. I love

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Speaker 1: this story. I do. I love the theater of it all,

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Speaker 1: and I love the love story that I'm hopeful for.

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Speaker 1: When I saw Taylor and they did the typical cutaway

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Speaker 1: and they rolled, Mike Turrico mentions this, so this is

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Speaker 1: clearly scripted and set up. Mike Ico sets this up

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Speaker 1: in to an era's tour movie promo. So clearly Okay,

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Speaker 1: think Taylor Swift needs promo? You think she needs the publicity.

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Speaker 1: I got this comment because you. So this is a

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Speaker 1: is from Sally who says she doesn't need the promotion

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Speaker 1: certainly doesn't need to go to the NFL to promote

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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift is. I get it. She is the most

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Speaker 1: fact the promo ran on Sunday night football. I'm not

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Speaker 1: making this up. I'm not saying I wonder if they

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Speaker 1: thought about it. I saw the promo. They ran an advertisement.

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Speaker 1: Somebody paid to have that commercial run after a cutaway

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Speaker 2: And Taylor and her family have financed this movie privately

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Speaker 2: of the movie is Taylor. This isn't a studio.

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Speaker 1: I don't know who's distributing the.

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Speaker 2: They did a direct deal with theaters and her family did,

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Speaker 2: so they have to be clear. It is a special case.

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Speaker 2: They have gone completely outside the traditional route of creating

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Speaker 2: and promoting a movie. Studios are not involved. Taylor. Her

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Speaker 1: So someone either her or on her team, said hey,

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Speaker 1: let's take advantage of this. Now. Is that a bad thing? No,

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Speaker 1: it's not. Can two things be true at once? And

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Speaker 1: that is my main point today, Yes, two things can

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Speaker 1: let's run a promo for the Eras Tour movie. So

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Speaker 1: to those swifty fans that are immediately defensive of don't

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Speaker 1: come at me with this. The commercial ran, it ran twice.

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Speaker 1: the Eras movie. So they're promoting it, which is wonderful.

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Speaker 1: It's smart, and I think Taylor Swift or someone on

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Speaker 2: Why wouldn't you one hundred percent? And I would point

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Speaker 2: out what's the most storied brand drink brand in America?

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Speaker 2: Coke Coke. We learned about this when I was in

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Speaker 2: advertising classes in journalism school, we learned about coke because

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Speaker 2: Coke has like the most well known Maybe Coke and

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Speaker 2: but you still see commercials, and that's part of it.

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Speaker 1: Think images in your mind of what coke means.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Taylor's being very smart right now. She's she knows.

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Speaker 2: I mean, listen, that's another thing swifty fans should know.

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Speaker 2: What Swifty fans all say is nothing by accident. So

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Speaker 2: if you think that Taylor's not doing anything by accident,

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Speaker 2: which I agree she isn't, she's brilliant. Yes, if you

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Speaker 2: think that Taylor Swift plans everything, I mean she says

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Speaker 2: that in her songs. Her lyrics say, you know, nothing

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Speaker 2: plan it all. Well, then of course she's planning all this,

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Speaker 2: and like you said two things can be true. I

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Speaker 2: think probably Travis Kelsey had rather adorably pursued her publicly.

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Speaker 2: Taylor thought, hey, you know, okay, I'll give this guy

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Speaker 2: of course they should both take advantage of it. Of course,

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Speaker 2: a season, he's gonna be on television. If you want

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Speaker 2: to go support him, you gotta go to the game,

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Speaker 2: So it's sort of a little bit unavoidable unless they

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Speaker 2: want to totally take this into dark corners. But I

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Speaker 2: think Taylor with Joe Alwin, I think that whole relationship

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Speaker 2: was in dark corners, right, And maybe she's sick of that.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she's like, you know what, I just want to

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Speaker 1: I want to live out loud. Yeah, and she has

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Speaker 1: somebody who can live out loud with her. Yes, he

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Speaker 2: She's trying something new here. She's done the I'm dating

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Speaker 2: Right, it's a new audience and it's not like.

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Speaker 2: Yes, our love story, Oh my gosh, we're getting into

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Speaker 2: it with like, you know, we're really kind of winding

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Speaker 2: it to be at night. I'll be honest. I don't

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Speaker 2: happy hour, it should always be in the evening. That's

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Speaker 2: When you drink during the day, then your whole night's over.

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Speaker 2: Then you because you're like, I've been drinking, I'm done. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: let's bring them back. It was so much fun. It

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Speaker 2: was a nighttime event. They had my favorite tequila, Siemprey Tequila.

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Speaker 2: Try it if you haven't. It's a beautiful, clean tequila brand,

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Speaker 2: well priced and so good. Also, they have little roses

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Speaker 2: So I love it. And they had like fun games

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Speaker 2: what else is great about it. At something like a

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Speaker 1: And you guys had a great time. You played games.

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Speaker 2: Took I think at least six, if not more, shots

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Speaker 1: Out of the penis shot glass.

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Speaker 1: unfortunately made it into one of our social media posts.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, we do you guys know.

433
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Speaker 1: The squishy balls like the stress. So one of one

434
00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 1: of the penises is like a squishy stress ball, and

435
00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 1: as a joke, Lauren brought it home and it was

436
00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:15,440
Speaker 1: sitting on a shelf and we did a social media

437
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:18,159
Speaker 1: post during the Taylor Swift Sunday Night football appearance, and

438
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:21,480
Speaker 1: I realized there was a penis over my head.

439
00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:24,359
Speaker 2: You had the best line, you said, you've heard of

440
00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 2: elf on the shelf? Yes, I okay, let me ask

441
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,520
Speaker 2: your opinion. Were you at all? I didn't know going

442
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 2: into this lingerie shower, by the way, I didn't really

443
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,320
Speaker 2: know how dirty or not they were going to make it.

444
00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:39,640
Speaker 2: I did. I didn't really do a big bachelorette party.

445
00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,959
Speaker 2: But even when I first got married, I told all

446
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 2: my friends I've never been into the stripper thing. I said,

447
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,360
Speaker 2: I don't ever want to be surprised with a stripper.

448
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,439
Speaker 2: I don't like it. I'm not a big fan. But

449
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:57,120
Speaker 2: like you know, I call it elegant genitalia, A tasteful penis. Yeah,

450
00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,680
Speaker 2: I don't mind. They had a little cute at the

451
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 2: lawn d shower, like penis little candies spread across the table.

452
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:08,960
Speaker 2: They had these stressful penis. Yeah, and they had kind

453
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:12,280
Speaker 2: of a silly, very y two k frosted tips man

454
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,239
Speaker 2: on a poster, frosted tips hair, not the other kind

455
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,920
Speaker 2: of tip, and we played pin the tail on the penis.

456
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:22,440
Speaker 2: It was silly little stuff. Does that make you uncomfortable

457
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,680
Speaker 2: at all? Did you, as would you have an issue

458
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 2: with any of.

459
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:27,679
Speaker 1: That, like you doing all that?

460
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 2: Yeah?

461
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 1: No, god no, I mean I honestly wouldn't even have

462
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 1: an issue if like they had hired a stripper to

463
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Speaker 1: come in. I don't care because it's nothing personal, it's

464
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 1: nothing romantic.

465
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,119
Speaker 2: It's there's no I wouldn't have liked a stripper for you.

466
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Speaker 1: I well, here's the thing. I know you don't love that,

467
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,880
Speaker 1: and I think you know that about me too. It's

468
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 1: not my thing. It never has been. And so you know,

469
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 1: if they if they had, oh we hired this cop

470
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,199
Speaker 1: guy or whatever, they came in and did it, or

471
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 1: you probably would have for you would have been like

472
00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,120
Speaker 1: a Voldemort, like.

473
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 2: Well voldemor that would have been weird. But my girlfriend

474
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 2: of mine, a very good friend of mine, did have

475
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 2: no a Harry Potter stripper. I wasn't at that. I

476
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 2: couldn't make her bachelor at party, but it was brilliant

477
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,199
Speaker 2: and apparently it was the strippers first ever request to

478
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 2: be Harry Potter.

479
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 1: But going to the lingerie party for you, I thought

480
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,120
Speaker 1: it was just fun. I was glad that your girls,

481
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 1: your crew here, your squad, if you will, Taylor Swift

482
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 1: to throw you a big party and it was an

483
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Speaker 1: absolute blast everybody. Thank you, Yes and the whole neighborhood

484
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 1: crew that really ruled. Yeah, thank you, rolled out the

485
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:28,719
Speaker 1: red penises.

486
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 2: Oh hopefully not red eh read another Taylor Swift album reference. God,

487
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 2: I love all the t Swift references. It was funny

488
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:39,200
Speaker 2: in the game. A lot of the Swifties were like, God,

489
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 2: they're really trying here, but can we not do Cornelia

490
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 2: Street references stuff like that. They were really critiquing the

491
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 2: NFL for the references that were being made.

492
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 1: There were a couple questions about our wedding oh coming

493
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 1: out that some people had, and so we'll hammer some

494
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 1: of these out because you know, we appreciate you guys

495
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 1: reaching out via direct message. You can go to at

496
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 1: the most Dramatic pod ever. That's our official site. We

497
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 1: get those. Our lovely producer Kendall gets those questions and

498
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 1: polls the for us. You can always find at Lauren

499
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: Zima and at Chris B. Harrison Fire questions to us.

500
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 1: The first question, because you know we're kind of zeroing

501
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 1: in on our wedding, are you too getting nervous?

502
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:30,640
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't feel nervous at all.

503
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 1: I would say the tensions have risen.

504
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 2: Well, that's true. The stress is right, the.

505
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: Stress has risen. We have been very stress free, and

506
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:42,120
Speaker 1: I think we have been rolling through this together very

507
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 1: very well, and we still are. But this last week,

508
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: for sure, the stress level has been notched up, just

509
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 1: because we have more things that we just got to

510
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 1: get done now, all those things that you know you

511
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: just as you start hitting that deadline.

512
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 2: I always think wedding planning goes like this a long

513
00:24:57,800 --> 00:24:59,640
Speaker 2: time out. You have to book the really big stuff

514
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 2: you got it, nail down your venue, and then then

515
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 2: there's a time when like you kind of actually can't

516
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 2: do that much because the vendors have other stuff going

517
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 2: on and they're sort of like, ma'am, I know you're

518
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 2: worried about your flowers, but we have thirty weddings before

519
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 2: years and we can't buy your flowers till the week

520
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,919
Speaker 2: of anyway, so you can kind of pause. Now. I

521
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,400
Speaker 2: do think maybe I paused quite a lot. My mom

522
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 2: and my sister were my sister, especially who got married

523
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,400
Speaker 2: not long ago. I apparently I just found this out

524
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,200
Speaker 2: from my mom. My sister was telling my mom Lauren's

525
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 2: not getting enough done. She needs to do more. I'm

526
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 2: worried about her. And my mom actually said to her, Christina,

527
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 2: Lauren's always been like this. She's very deadline oriented. She's

528
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 2: just gonna like It's like in high school, I was

529
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,640
Speaker 2: the type of person who I would have a book

530
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 2: report due for months and I would get it done

531
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 2: two days before. Yeah, that's how I operate best. Sometimes

532
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 2: it does mess me up. Sometimes I should be a

533
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 2: little better about getting stuff done early. But I can't

534
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 2: change you.

535
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: I am Donna should have called me and given me

536
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: this note. Should have but I so far, I think

537
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 1: we've done well. And obviously the stress is going to

538
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 1: build a little bit, but it's in a good way.

539
00:25:58,119 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 2: And I straight up told you this week I will

540
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 2: say I think you did. I think communication is important.

541
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 2: I said to you. I want you to know I'm

542
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,159
Speaker 2: going to get a little stressed at this point. I

543
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 2: love you, Like, just be prepared for the tension to

544
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 2: be a little high.

545
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:12,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm by the way. I'm feeling it too,

546
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: just because there are, you know, things we just got

547
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,400
Speaker 1: to do and and it feels big, and we don't

548
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,360
Speaker 1: have a wedding planner per se. We have people kind

549
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: of helping and they thought.

550
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 2: I was insane. I told somebody that, They said, you

551
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 2: don't have a wedding planner, Like, no.

552
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 1: We have someone for sure in our camp that's helping us.

553
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 1: And then we have you know, a couple other people

554
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 1: at these sites, the venues.

555
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 2: And you've been a great partner in it all. Baby,

556
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 2: you are so not the and I'll admit I think

557
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,359
Speaker 2: it's I don't know, I think it's It could potentially

558
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: be a red flag if you've got a partner who's

559
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 2: not into helping doing stuff, getting stuff done. You need

560
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 2: a teammate in there. This is planning a big event

561
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 2: in your life. You very much. You've taken on stuff

562
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:50,439
Speaker 2: you're good at. I think I've taken things on and

563
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 2: we've had a fairly equitable distribution. Is the work?

564
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: Another one asked, you know if this is if planning

565
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: this together has caused fights or brought you closer together,

566
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: how it's affected our relationship in it it has brought

567
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 1: us closer together. It's just Laura and I are so

568
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: aligned on so many things, on our vision on what

569
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 1: we want to do, and then we'll sit down and

570
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 1: kind of have a brainstorming meeting of like, Okay, how

571
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 1: do we want to come in? What kind of music

572
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,640
Speaker 1: do you want? Like just we just hammer things out

573
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 1: and kind of you know what it is. I think

574
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 1: we're both producers at heart. We're writers and producers, and

575
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: so we like producing.

576
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 2: Together, producing our wedding. We are we are producing wrong

577
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 2: our wedding. Yeah, I know we are, I mean, which

578
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 2: is a good sign. I felt this way. We did

579
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,400
Speaker 2: our house too. But for example, you had to take

580
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,919
Speaker 2: a call that I couldn't be on talking about the

581
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,439
Speaker 2: catering and the food, and you texted me no cake, right,

582
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 2: and I said, yeah, definitely, no cake. Like we just

583
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 2: I think we're aligned on it. Stuff's been pretty easy.

584
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 2: I trust your judgment. And no, we're not having a

585
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 2: wedding cake either.

586
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 1: And so you know, someone else asked, you know who's

587
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,880
Speaker 1: doing what and how are you splitting this up? We

588
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 1: just are like we definitely. It's not like hey, I'll

589
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 1: cook you clean. It's not like we've had specific rules

590
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,400
Speaker 1: there's just things that Lauren, well.

591
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 2: Maybe we both know what the other's good at.

592
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's I think that's true. And you

593
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 1: are such a great organizer. Lauren is more meticulous I

594
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: think than I am.

595
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 2: And you're a good connector, like you're like this person

596
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:13,919
Speaker 2: would be great for this.

597
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: I like to start things, You're right, I like to

598
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 1: start connect whatever, and then I'm not great at getting

599
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: into the weeds. I need people to kind of come

600
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 1: in and finish and polish things off.

601
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 2: But some of the stuff's been really fun to do together.

602
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 2: I don't mean to make it sound like, oh, we

603
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:28,639
Speaker 2: don't have a wedding cake, and we're like we have

604
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 2: a lot of really beautiful moments planned, and.

605
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: I think all of it's been fun.

606
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 2: It has like I've loved doing the seating chart together.

607
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: I've loved you know what I thought of what you

608
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 1: know about not having a wedding planner. Yeah, it's been

609
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 1: stressful and I thought at times were idiots.

610
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 2: But.

611
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to just because I was thinking about

612
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: my first wedding and I just showed up. I didn't

613
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 1: do anything. I was twenty two years old, so what

614
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: could I have done? But I didn't do jack, I

615
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: just showed up. I'm glad. I was just thinking, I'm glad.

616
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 1: I don't I don't just want to show up to this.

617
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: I'm glad. I know every aspect of this we both do.

618
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: We have planned everything meticulously, down to our guests where

619
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 1: they're staying, like everything, and I can kind of own

620
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: this whole thing. I feel much closer to it. Yeah, then, hey,

621
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: we have a three o'clock wedding next Saturday.

622
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 2: Show up like right, well, and probably your first time

623
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 2: around it was like your your ex and your mom

624
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 2: wanted to do it all and so what could you.

625
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't know who did it really.

626
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 2: Maybe that is on you, But I think maybe what

627
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 2: I've grown from with my first wedding was to be honest,

628
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 2: not being so for lack of a better word, invested,

629
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 2: I'm invested, but not but knowing what matters and what doesn't.

630
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,959
Speaker 2: Like when you're a bride for the first time and

631
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 2: I look, I hope out there everybody only does it

632
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 2: one time, but we grow up with this idea of

633
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 2: weddings and it's so big and you're so stressed, and

634
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 2: and this time I'm just like, look, I know at

635
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 2: the end of the day, we have great people, We're

636
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 2: gonna have great wine, we're gonna have good music, and

637
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 2: that's really all you need. And I do think this

638
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 2: could be a hot take. Please DM me if you disagree,

639
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 2: But I think there are some things that you need

640
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 2: that people don't remember, and those are the things you

641
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 2: should not stress yourself out about. Flowers is one of those.

642
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 2: Do you need flowers? Sure, you don't want the room

643
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 2: to look like crap. You want people to feel like

644
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 2: it's special and beautiful. But I've never left a wedding

645
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 2: and years later thought, God, that wedding had the best flowers. Right,

646
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 2: You look back and you're like, we danced, we had

647
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 2: so much fun, the toasts were great. You don't think

648
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 2: I can't get over those floral center pieces. So I'm

649
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 2: not stressing so much about everything. I'm focusing on what's

650
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 2: just a necessity. But what will people really remember?

651
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 1: Definitely, older and wiser, you and I have perspective, which

652
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: is wonderful to go through this again with two people

653
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: that have perspectives. So we know there's gonna be hurdles.

654
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 1: We know we're going to trip and fall on some stuff.

655
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: Things are going to go awry. We just deal with it,

656
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 1: right if something doesn't show up in the mail that

657
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 1: we ordered or whatever, like, okay, we'll fix it. It's

658
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 1: all good because at the end of the day, we

659
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 1: know we're going to get married and that's really what

660
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 1: we care about, and our friends and family will be there,

661
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 1: and I know there's going to be spectacular wine. It'll

662
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: be great. A couple more questions thought, and this is

663
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 1: interesting because we talked about this and we almost had

664
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 1: this issue. Thoughts on not letting someone bring a plus one.

665
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 2: Oh, and I have gotten a few texts from a

666
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 2: few guests about this.

667
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 1: So we have had a very specific situation where one

668
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 1: of our very dear friends has somebody, but they also

669
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 1: can break up and date other people quite often. And

670
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 1: we talked about, hey, if this happens, we don't want

671
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: a stranger at our wedding. We don't want to meet

672
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 1: somebody for the first time.

673
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 2: I said, if he's with the person he's currently with, yes,

674
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 2: and they've been together for a while. Great with this

675
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 2: discussion months ago, I said, if they break up pretty

676
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 2: like fairly sooner before the wedding, then we're going to

677
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 2: tell him please come on your own, do not just

678
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 2: find a date, even though we gave you a plus one.

679
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 2: I was going to have you call and have that conversation.

680
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: And I'm by the way, I was right there with you,

681
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: and it was the best line that I've heard. Was

682
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 1: neither one of us want to meet a stranger at

683
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: our wedding.

684
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 2: And we have to give credit. We got that takeaway

685
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 2: from Wells Adams's brother and his right who had that

686
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 2: policy at their wedding.

687
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: Ye. Yes, and I love that. I am all for that.

688
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 1: So we were not. You know, luckily we haven't had

689
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: to jump off that bridge, but we were prepared to.

690
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 2: It's you know what, though, let's get into it is

691
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 2: amazing and I've talked to other friends about this, and

692
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 2: I think everyone out there who's been married can relate.

693
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 2: It's amazing the crap people will say and do. Yeah,

694
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 2: when it's your wedding. I don't know what happens I

695
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 2: think people, And I don't mean to sound negative, you guys,

696
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 2: I've lost my voice again from the lingerie shower. I

697
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 2: honestly think I need to see a doctor about my voice.

698
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 2: I'm a little worried, but so I hope I don't

699
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,479
Speaker 2: sound negative. I'm very happy right now. My voice has

700
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 2: just gone. But people will there's something about a wedding

701
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,959
Speaker 2: where people are emboldened. It's kind of like a funeral.

702
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 2: When there's a big life event, people say and do

703
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 2: the weirdest crap. I had someone ask me if like

704
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 2: their kid could come and their kid could bring a

705
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 2: plus one, and I was like, I barely know your kid,

706
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 2: like you know what it's like. And the fact that

707
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 2: I was a little like, I kind of can't believe

708
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:19,959
Speaker 2: they asked that.

709
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 1: Or and I know you guys like, look, if there's

710
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: a destination wedding, say you're going to Kansas City, back

711
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 1: to Taylor.

712
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 2: Destination Kansas City made.

713
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: Me call wrid or groom and say, what's the weather

714
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 1: going to be like in Kansas City?

715
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 2: Oh my god, if you can google it, don't ask

716
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 2: me about it.

717
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 1: Come on, Try not to ask the brighter groom or

718
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 1: whoever anything that you know, Oh you know, I don't

719
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 1: know what the dress is, Well, yeah you do, it's

720
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: on it's on the invitation, or just try to not

721
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 1: ask them.

722
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 2: The most I did. I've had a couple of people

723
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 2: ask me because we have a wedding website and I've

724
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 2: had a couple of people be like, hey, can you

725
00:33:58,120 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 2: remind me, like what time this is or what time

726
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 2: it's like, and I've said it's on the website. Yeah,

727
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 2: and I know that. I know that text is not

728
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 2: coming across great. I know it's coming across a little shady,

729
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 2: but I can't. I'm like, I can either type out

730
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 2: a whole paragraph explaining it, or I can tell you

731
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 2: it's on the website. And I did the website myself,

732
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 2: so I already type that paragraph.

733
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 1: At big events and this goes back to lingerie party

734
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 1: or bachelor, bacherette party, funeral, wedding, whatever the big event, graduation,

735
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 1: whenever any individual or a couple someone is being honored,

736
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 1: it's for them. The night is in their name, it's

737
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: for them. Don't make it about you. You don't get

738
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: to do that that one day, that one night. Don't

739
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:46,800
Speaker 1: end up, you know, being the center of attention, whether

740
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: it's drama, whatever.

741
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 2: I would love stories, can you, guys? I just I mean,

742
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 2: I would just it's always fun to hear drama, no

743
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 2: matter even especially it's about people you don't know. Please

744
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:59,760
Speaker 2: dm us if you have stories of crazy stuff people

745
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 2: did at your wedding.

746
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 1: One of our friends has a story where her best

747
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,880
Speaker 1: friend locked herself in a bathroom and was bawling.

748
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 2: The best friend was upset. This is wild and stuff

749
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 2: like this, we'd love to hear our dear friend. Her

750
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 2: best friend was a bridesmaid, but was upset she wasn't

751
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 2: made the maid of honor. The maid of honor was

752
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 2: the bride's sister. So the best friend is upset that

753
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 2: the sister is the maid of honor. And it all

754
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 2: came out on the wedding day. Apparently she'd been holding

755
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 2: it in, locked herself in a bathroom crying, and the

756
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 2: bride had to go be like, can you please come

757
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 2: out for the wedding? How wild is that? People become

758
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 2: n hinge?

759
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 1: Don't be that person.

760
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 2: Okay, any other question?

761
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: Yes, last question. This is a big one because we

762
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 1: just had this conversation last night. Have you two written

763
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: your vows?

764
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:43,760
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, we did just talk about this Lesbon

765
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 2: and attorney instead of you started.

766
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 1: The answer is no, we have not.

767
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 2: I've thought about much. Yeah, if marinated in my mind?

768
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, me too. I think about it a lot. If

769
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm at the gym, whatever, I start kind of going

770
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 1: through it.

771
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 2: Part of it is what we've been together a lot,

772
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 2: and I sort of feel like I need to like

773
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 2: separate from you, get to write it out, Yeah, write

774
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 2: it out on my own, like I can't. I don't know.

775
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:08,760
Speaker 2: I think there's something maybe a little romantic about it. Honestly,

776
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 2: I need to be away from you for a day

777
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 2: or something to be able to do it.

778
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 1: But yeah, So the answer is yes, we're going to

779
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: The answer is no, we haven't. And I've become Lauren

780
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 1: where I'm just kicking this can down the road. It'll

781
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:25,359
Speaker 1: be it's not gonna be last minute, but we will

782
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 1: get it done. But it's funny. We just had this

783
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: conversation last night.

784
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 2: Well one of the questions was, are you nervous. I'm

785
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 2: not nervous, like we said, I'm stressed. I am. The

786
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 2: only thing I might be a little nervous about is

787
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 2: the vows. Yeah, I don't want to. I love you

788
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 2: and I'm afraid of disappointing you.

789
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 1: If we're putting a lot of pressure on each other

790
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 1: for this, I know, and it's self imposed both ways,

791
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 1: because I've admitted the same thing. Yeah, we've imposed our

792
00:36:55,400 --> 00:37:00,080
Speaker 1: own pressure to perform it from the other I think.

793
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,800
Speaker 2: It's very difficult. And I said this to you yesterday.

794
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,760
Speaker 2: We have to take some of this stress and pressure

795
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 2: off ourselves because it is incredibly tough to summarize your relationship,

796
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,720
Speaker 2: your love. Yeah, in just a few minutes of words.

797
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: I need a Taylor Swift song.

798
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 2: I need a whole album. And the shower was so thoughtful.

799
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 2: They just had so many great details, framed pictures of

800
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:32,359
Speaker 2: us and future Missus Napkins and a Missus Harrison.

801
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 1: Veil future mister and Missus Harrison veil. I saw it.

802
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 2: No, it just said Missus Harrison and it was so

803
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 2: funny because I felt bad. They literally had a cute

804
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 2: little veil mate, and it had Missus Harrison printed in

805
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 2: gold on the veil, and they said, yeah, we had

806
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 2: this mean before we heard your podcast rant about how

807
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:53,319
Speaker 2: you caught changing your name.

808
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,839
Speaker 1: See, you know what's funny. Though, I like seeing it,

809
00:37:57,520 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 1: like I like hearing it, and I like seeing it,

810
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: and I know that you're not going to take my

811
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,760
Speaker 1: name and that's fine, and I really am it doesn't

812
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: hurt me and it doesn't hurt my feelings, but I

813
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: also is it okay? Again? Two things can be true

814
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 1: at once. I still like hearing it.

815
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 2: And let me say I didn't dislike it. I said

816
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 2: to them that night, I said, you know what, this

817
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 2: feels cute. I like it. It's not that I would

818
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 2: have an issue with taking your name and us being

819
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 2: one in that way. I just think people should be

820
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 2: with partners who are also willing to go the other way.

821
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 2: And it's a red flag to me if you're not.

822
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:37,319
Speaker 2: And I should applaud you because we actually have a

823
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 2: group text going with like our very closest friends who

824
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 2: are coming to the wedding to kind of get excited,

825
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 2: and this was your idea. We named the group text

826
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 2: mister and missus Zema. So you're right there withn't me, babe,

827
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 2: And that's why I love you.

828
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 1: And that happens often too. We talked about that when

829
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: we're hotels or resorts or whatever, people you know, whatever

830
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 1: name is on the reservation, they'll say, mister Zema, how

831
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,319
Speaker 1: are you doing this morning? You know, so I get

832
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:04,439
Speaker 1: called mister Zema all.

833
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 2: The times, Harrison.

834
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:07,879
Speaker 1: You get called missus Harrison. Neither one of us are

835
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,239
Speaker 1: offended by it, and in fact I like it. I

836
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: like when I'm called mister Zema. I like when you're

837
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 1: called missus Harrison. I think it's great. It just shows

838
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 1: that we're we're one and we are a couple, and

839
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 1: it doesn't mean we need to change our names or should.

840
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 1: We've already covered that in a prior podcast, but I

841
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 1: did enjoy seeing that.

842
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 2: On the veil the Harrizemas the Zema Sins.

843
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 1: What a crazy week it has been. Full of Taylor Swift,

844
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 1: full of Travis Kelcey, full of penises, oh my gosh,

845
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 1: lots of celebrations and it's all good. It's all good,

846
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,320
Speaker 1: and we appreciate you guys being with us as always

847
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:43,760
Speaker 1: and again. You can find us at the drumost Somatic

848
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 1: pod at Lauren Zema at Chris B. Harrison always good

849
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 1: talking to you. Take care of yourself, take care of

850
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 1: each other, and we'll talk to you next time because

851
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 1: we have a lot more to talk about. Thanks for listening.

852
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: Follow us on Instagram at the most m at pod

853
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:02,759
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