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Speaker 1: You found it the home of the Second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: It is Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, and thanks

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Speaker 1: for being here on the podcast. Yes, you know, I

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Speaker 1: love all the comments we've been getting from all over

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Speaker 1: the world, and I think this one really sums up

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Speaker 1: what these second dates are. Nicholie Hubert in Brazil wrote,

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Speaker 1: the call just gets worse and worse.

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Speaker 2: Oh It's true, it does. It's like a guilty pleasure

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Speaker 2: listening though. You know, we love when you comment.

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Speaker 1: And hey, just sit back and enjoy the Second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: It's brand new and it starts right now.

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Speaker 3: The Second Date Update.

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Speaker 4: Alexis, how do you feel about a guy bringing you

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Speaker 4: a gift on a first date? Do you like a

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Speaker 4: guy to have a present or do you require it?

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Speaker 1: Well, I was gonna say it depends what it is,

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Speaker 1: you know, like I require something.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, but like money's preferred.

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Speaker 3: Don't show what just cash.

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Speaker 1: That takes the date to a day type of relationship whatever.

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Speaker 4: Loox, this is into you have it okayside business. But

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Speaker 4: I only asked because one of our listeners says he

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Speaker 4: showed up to his first date with a special surprise

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Speaker 4: for his lady, and it wasn't your stereotypical flowers with

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Speaker 4: a box of Plan B.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you should not be in the plan B is

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Speaker 2: I mean.

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Speaker 4: Ales mom didn't use it and she came about but

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Speaker 4: you know what, where's the roman.

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Speaker 2: Being prepared?

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Speaker 5: Is hot?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 4: We're going to get to the gifts specifically in a second,

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Speaker 4: but first, Kyle is the one who emailed us, so

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Speaker 4: welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 6: Hey guys, how are you doing? Man?

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Speaker 2: We're giving you all sorts of ideas for your next date.

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Speaker 3: I know your gift, Kyle, I'm scared.

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Speaker 2: I want to know.

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Speaker 4: We do. But first tell us about this lucky lady

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Speaker 4: that you met. Where did you meet her?

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Speaker 6: So? We met online on you know, one of the

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Speaker 6: ashs Okay, we clicked. I thought she's really hot and

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Speaker 6: I hope she I think she liked me.

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Speaker 3: By the way, did you even catch that in the profile?

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Speaker 3: Or who cares?

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Speaker 6: Her name is Sarah Sara Sarah?

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Speaker 1: But what made I mean there's a lot of hot

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Speaker 1: girls on the dating apps, like what made her stand

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Speaker 1: out so much that you.

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Speaker 2: Wanted to bring her a surprise gift him? Is that

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Speaker 2: it's that easy. Is that right?

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Speaker 6: Well, you know, it is like a visual medium. So

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Speaker 6: I mean she was really pretty. I'll just say it.

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Speaker 6: She's really pretty.

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Speaker 2: By her affection, I see.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Is that how it was that? You're

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Speaker 3: making it seem like weird.

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Speaker 2: I care ask them why she stood out. Nobody had

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Speaker 2: an answer because it's hot.

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Speaker 3: Well that's what dating is.

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Speaker 2: Broke a lot more.

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Speaker 4: Just go watch a nineties movie and get your jobs

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Speaker 3: Like both parts at the grocery store and then like

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Speaker 3: I have a whole.

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Speaker 2: I just want them to have.

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Speaker 1: Most people have a connection, That's all I'm saying. Besides,

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Speaker 3: The modern dating world.

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Speaker 2: No, they don't truly talked to so many.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're getting off track. I'm not going to argue

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Speaker 3: I apologize. She has no idea how modern dating were.

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Speaker 3: Tell us, how did you know how Sarah bond?

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Speaker 6: Well, so we started talking about TV shows, okay, and

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Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa, that's wild.

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Speaker 2: I went through a phase like that.

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Speaker 3: No, I get it, no TV.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you have eighteen.

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Speaker 3: I know it takes that driving a car with my feet.

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Speaker 1: No, honestly, like you're a single woman, you're living by yourself,

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Speaker 2: Just watch your shows on your laptop. You don't need

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Speaker 6: I guess Well, she her roommate had the TV and

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Speaker 3: Okay laptop?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So that's doesn't sound like a lot of

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Speaker 1: bonding if you were talking about your favorite TV shows

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Speaker 6: On their first conversation, you know, so okay, on a whim,

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Speaker 6: I bought her a TV.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, oh, so who did you awkwardly carry it into

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Speaker 6: I put it in my car.

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Speaker 4: I see, Oh my god, record TVs are not as

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Speaker 3: They used to people.

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Speaker 2: TV How many inches?

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Speaker 6: Forty three inches? There was a nice TV. It had

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Speaker 6: roku Oh wow, smart TV.

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Speaker 1: Nice time, something like something my parents would say.

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Speaker 3: All right, you said it was in the trunk of

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Speaker 6: Yeah, put it in my trunk. So I took it

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Speaker 6: to the date and I told her, hey, I've got

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Speaker 2: What There is no way she was expecting that.

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Speaker 3: Water you get it in front of her?

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Speaker 6: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Are we at the beginning of the date when you

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Speaker 6: At the end, I pulled up and I showed her

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Speaker 3: It's amazing. That is so cool. We've ever heard on

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Speaker 4: D although I have heard of I have heard of

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Speaker 4: guys being like, hey, I have a surprise for you

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Speaker 4: in the trunk of my car, and then the story

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Speaker 2: A shovel and some duct tape.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Wait, what was her reaction?

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Speaker 6: Well, she was happy, she screamed. She was like, oh

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Speaker 6: this is amazing.

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Speaker 3: Uh oh wow, okay after.

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Speaker 2: Because then you know if she actually likes you. But

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Speaker 2: that's you could have also.

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Speaker 4: Said, would have been like, we could either go back

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Speaker 4: and try it out on Netflix and chill, or we

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Speaker 6: Well, I actually installed it for her too, So you

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Speaker 6: did go back to her place?

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Speaker 3: Really?

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Speaker 1: Wait, did you guys go to dinner at all? Or

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Speaker 6: Wondering, Yeah, we had dinner, Oh you did.

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 7: She must have been like so excited to go home

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Speaker 7: and try out the new TV.

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Speaker 3: I don't think, but you know TV NERDST.

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Speaker 2: She was excited, he said, she was.

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Speaker 4: I mean with the roku probably how did it got

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Speaker 6: Yeah? I brought it up to her apartment, hunging up

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Speaker 6: on the wall, and then you know, we watched TV

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Speaker 6: and I spent the night on the couch and she

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Speaker 1: Nothing happened, but okay, she invited you to spend the night.

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Speaker 6: Right, we were just watching TV and she fell asleep.

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Speaker 6: She went to go sleep in her bed.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well she must have just took the couch on you.

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Speaker 1: But that's like a good comfort level, Like you meet

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Speaker 2: Stay the night. That's good, it's good. That's a good

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Speaker 2: sign that she trusts you.

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Speaker 3: So what's happened since then?

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Speaker 6: Well, so we hung out one other time, but it

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Speaker 4: Please tell me you did not ask for the TV

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Speaker 4: back after this all happened.

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Speaker 3: We definitely had gotten the show.

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Speaker 4: Who've been hurt and they've asked for like, oh, well

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Speaker 4: now I want half of my bill back because she

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Speaker 4: doesn't want to see me anymore.

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Speaker 6: No, No, I'm not that Patty.

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Speaker 1: I was thinking she'd say, oh, I had a computer,

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Speaker 1: but my roommate took it.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, you opened the world to Netflix and

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Speaker 5: Now yeah.

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Speaker 2: For or she just chilled by herself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: True, Well we'll find out when we call her and

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Speaker 4: see if she even picks up and takes a break

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Speaker 3: I didn't watch it, so but we'll find out what

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Speaker 4: That should be the sequel, but for now, we're focused

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Speaker 3: When we come back right after this second date update,

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Speaker 3: I think.

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Speaker 4: All of us have imagined going on to a giant

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Speaker 4: game show one day, winning and taking home an awesome

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Speaker 4: prize like a forty three inch smart.

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Speaker 3: TV with rogue.

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Speaker 4: But a girl named Sarah didn't have to do all

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Speaker 4: of that. She just had to go on one date

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Speaker 4: with our listener Kyle, who gifted her a brand new

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Speaker 4: flat screen just because she'd mentioned.

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Speaker 2: She didn't actually showed up. It wasn't even at the end.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's all because her roommate had taken her last

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Speaker 4: her and watching it together, she's been acting a little

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Speaker 3: Those are Kyle's words, and he doesn't know why.

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Speaker 2: They hung out a second time.

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Speaker 1: But apparently it was so short that there's not even

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Speaker 1: a description of the hangout.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like it was that bad.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what the reasoning is. But we're about

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Speaker 4: to call Sarah here in a second. But Brook, what

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Speaker 4: do you think and what are your thoughts before we

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Speaker 4: reach out to Sarah.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it was just too much, too quick, because she's like,

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Speaker 1: she didn't ask for the TV, even though she was

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Speaker 3: I didn't think of that. It's different. Too big of

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Speaker 3: a TV, is what Brookes said.

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Speaker 4: You should have gone like a thirty inch maybe one

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Speaker 4: that at a VHS player in it or something.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't even a four case. But Kyle, we're gonna

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Speaker 3: try our best to do this for you, Okay, all right?

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Speaker 6: I really appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: Gain Yeah, if she.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't agree to another date, are you going to be

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Speaker 1: regretful about the TV gift or do you have a

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Speaker 1: backup gift just in case.

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Speaker 6: That's a good idea. Do you guys have any free

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Speaker 6: giveaways or anything like that. We don't.

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Speaker 2: We're going to give you a gift card at the

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Speaker 4: If you want to thank us by giving us a

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Speaker 2: I have four TVs in my trunk right now, not

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Speaker 4: Or else you would have installed them in your house.

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Speaker 4: But still, whatever it is, it's up to you. Let's

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Speaker 4: call Sarah and see if she picks up. Here we go, Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 4: is this Sarah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Man, Yes, you may wear a show called Brook and

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Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the Morning, not a.

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Speaker 2: TV show, a radio show. She's really into TV.

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Speaker 4: Now, Jeff, we're Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. I'm

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Speaker 4: Jeff brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. My name is Jeff.

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Speaker 4: That's the fourth time I've said it.

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Speaker 2: She's not gonna know. You don't know. We're a morning

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Speaker 3: Hold on, you want to know the name of our show?

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Speaker 5: If I have it, can I help you?

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Speaker 6: Sorry?

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Speaker 4: You hopefully can help us because we are doing a

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Speaker 4: up with the other night for a hot date to

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Speaker 5: I've had several dates. I don't know who you're talking about.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I think you'll remember once we say his name.

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Speaker 3: Yeah Kyle, Oh god, the TV guy. Don't say that?

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Speaker 6: Why?

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Speaker 2: Why? Why he said that you're super pretty?

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Speaker 3: Why is your reaction that way?

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Speaker 1: Because, oh my god, that sounds like you have a story.

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Speaker 2: And I am dying.

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Speaker 4: Would you mind sharing a little bit because Kyle is

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Speaker 4: totally confused. He doesn't know why there hasn't been another hangout.

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Speaker 1: Is he really Yeah, well he knows the last time

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Speaker 5: He must be truly up to Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Yes, he's not a cute.

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Speaker 3: Could you explain a little bit because we're totally in

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Speaker 5: Okay, have y'all ever had somebody buy you a TV

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Speaker 3: Just like six or seven times? But yeah, just everyone.

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Speaker 3: Not with Roko.

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Speaker 2: He thought you were excited about that, were you not?

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Speaker 7: I mean it was thoughtful, but I didn't know that

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Speaker 5: Okay, he's putting it up on the wall. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 5: if you call you want the story, you're about to

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm getting back in my seat.

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Speaker 3: We're starting with he's putting the TV up on your wall.

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Speaker 5: Yes, And while he's installing and everything, he's like, I'm

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Speaker 6: That's cool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah okay.

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Speaker 5: So after so set up, he kicks off his shoes

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Speaker 7: The game?

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Speaker 3: What game?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: He turns Did he ask you if you wanted to

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Speaker 5: No? No, no, noble.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so he's just watching a basketball game and then

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Speaker 7: he says, hey, can you get some snacks for now?

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Speaker 3: He's doing the test run for you.

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Speaker 2: He should be giving her the snacks then.

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Speaker 3: And putting her on go home.

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Speaker 1: He just feels comfortable with you. He feels like he's

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Speaker 7: After one day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how did.

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Speaker 2: He stay the night then? Because he said he slept

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Speaker 5: Right, yeah, okay, so he's so geeked up.

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Speaker 7: He was like, man, the resolution, like the picture, Oh,

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Speaker 2: Well, you didn't kick him out.

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Speaker 4: Maybe that's like the insinuation like hey, I gotta go

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Speaker 2: Know with me?

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Speaker 4: No, I like that.

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Speaker 2: I think it meant like, maybe you just take the

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Speaker 3: At this point, he didn't get the hint.

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Speaker 5: No, he did not get the hip I wake up.

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Speaker 5: He's gotten so comfortable. He done went to the kitchen,

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Speaker 2: At least he's independent. You know, you hang out with

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Speaker 3: Oh my god? Yeah, he said there was a second hangout.

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Speaker 3: That was what he said.

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Speaker 7: Well, I guess the only time that I saw him

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Speaker 5: In my apartment.

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Speaker 2: All day he was still there.

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Speaker 6: Okay, hold on, hold on, can I can I jump

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Speaker 6: in here?

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Speaker 3: Good time?

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Speaker 4: Okay, So, Sarah, you should probably know that that's Kyle.

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Speaker 3: He's been waiting on the other line wanting to talk

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Well, actually he's probably in your apartment right from the TV.

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Speaker 7: But yeah, are you hitting me?

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Speaker 1: He's on the.

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Speaker 5: Going way too far?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, hold on, he's installed your TV up on

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Speaker 2: I would do that about the TV.

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Speaker 1: And yes, yeah, that's that's exactly the problem with the gifts. Actually,

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Speaker 1: she owes him nothing.

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Speaker 2: But but but will you be a good guy that

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Speaker 3: That's totally different than what I said.

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Speaker 6: All right, So I brought you dinner and I invited

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Speaker 5: You brought pizza knowing I don't eat that. No, you

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Speaker 5: can't consider me at all. And he fact that you're

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Speaker 6: You don't want.

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Speaker 4: And I'm gonna put it outside anyway before this blows

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Speaker 4: up any further. And you guys are arguing about he said,

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Speaker 4: She said, what is the pizza about?

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Speaker 1: You guys went to dinner. I didn't think that you

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Speaker 5: No, he was still at my house.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So this is the second night after you guys

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Speaker 3: To till it was evening the next day. What a romantic.

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Speaker 2: Je sarcastic dude.

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Speaker 1: It's like an unwritten rule if you stay the night

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Speaker 3: Okay, but this was the second night. So what's the

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Speaker 6: Yeah? The rule is you bring pizza.

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Speaker 3: That's a good man.

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Speaker 5: The rule is that you leave. G Oh, when I

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Because is it just me? Or does she sounds ungrateful? Right?

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Speaker 6: I mean I said no TV? I mean, am I crazy?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I thought yourself a TV.

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Speaker 4: I have not heard a thank you one time from

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Speaker 2: I haven't heard she already thanked you when you gave

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Speaker 6: She's not thanking me now. She's just complaining that I'm

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Speaker 6: watching sports. But that's what you do with a TV.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 5: I need you to understand this. It's not your house,

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Speaker 5: so I'm gonna need you to come and get this TV.

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Speaker 5: All right, if you want to, I'm putting it outside.

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Speaker 6: But I have done with this.

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Speaker 3: Oh, somebody's inviting you over.

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Speaker 6: Yeah that sounds like an invite. Do you want pepperoni?

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Speaker 6: You want?

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Speaker 4: And we are going to provide the gift card for

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Speaker 4: that pizza?

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Speaker 2: Uh, be on the corner, Kyle be.

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Speaker 6: On the corner.

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Speaker 5: You will not have any access to my apartment.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so this is not as room. Maybe text the

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Speaker 6: It's nice TV. You don't put like a free sign

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Speaker 6: by it. I'm gonna get it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, what that sounds like a no? I'm sorry, Kyle,

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Speaker 3: Ever. No's just be normal.

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Speaker 2: You know what if there's no middle ground, Jeffrey, let's

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Speaker 4: Finally we agree on something. It's brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: We're getting too many no's lately, Brook not getting enough yeses,

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Speaker 4: and it's starting to make me lose faith in love. No,

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Speaker 4: je somebody here isn't doing their jobs. It's all un saying.

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Speaker 2: It's the guy. He could have just gone home that

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Speaker 4: Okay, fair, but Brooke, is there any way that maybe

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Speaker 3: Can you at least try to spin it into a

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Speaker 1: Just try It sounds like marriage.

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Speaker 2: Is that good?

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying in Ireland doing all the heavy lifting

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Speaker 4: standing up for our listeners, you're throwing them right under

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Speaker 1: I started by saying it was good that she let

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Speaker 3: You're still on the pessimistic train.

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Speaker 4: I'll need you to hop back onto the optimism train

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Speaker 4: and stand up for our listeners.

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Speaker 3: Right or wrong.

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Speaker 2: Oh I have a headache.

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Speaker 3: We'll tell some advil at you. Email the show.

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Speaker 4: If you have a very easy, simple dating life that

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Speaker 4: we could fix without having to stand up for you.

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Speaker 3: The ones.

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Speaker 4: Email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

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Speaker 4: you back. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.