1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:01,880 Speaker 1: I found the love of my life and turn my 2 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: life around, but my cousin stole everything from me and 3 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 1: glue to your wife. Maybe I've been stalking these cubreddits 4 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: for a while and I thought just reading people's stories 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: would help me, or if I found someone with a 6 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: similar story, a similar situation, and I could see how 7 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: they did it. But I guess my situation is unique. 8 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:21,479 Speaker 1: Kind of sounds like it. So here we go. First. 9 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: Let me be clear, I don't care if you think 10 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 1: this is fake. I don't care if you want to 11 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: rip me a new one. After event it already happened. 12 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: I thought I was okay. I thought I had moved on, 13 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: But after last weekend, it all came back, and that 14 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: anger I had back then just came full force. Even 15 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: though I'm back home with my fiance, that anger towards 16 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:46,919 Speaker 1: my ex just won't go away. I spent years in 17 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: anger management for what she did in the situation that 18 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: was created, and I thought I was okay right now, 19 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: I just turned thirty nine. I was eighteen years old 20 00:00:58,080 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: when I met my ex. 21 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 2: Wow, Marisol, we're going all the way back, all the 22 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 2: way back back to the very beginning. 23 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: Throwing back twenty years. The opie's trauma is of legal 24 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 1: drinking age. 25 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 3: Dude, quick, okay, story, tom My brother has a friend 26 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 3: where his mom was twenty six and his dad was 27 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 3: fifteen at the time, and he met his dad when 28 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 3: he was in high school and his dad was thirty 29 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 3: and that mom likes to play Uno with my brother 30 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 3: and his friends, and my mom told him to stop 31 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 3: doing that. 32 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: Wait. Yeah, he was fifteen. So by the time his 33 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 1: kid was fifteen, he was thirty years old. It'd be 34 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: like having a twelve year old right now. 35 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 3: It's been pretty hush hushan that's crazy and twenty six. 36 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, and he had the kid at fifteen. 37 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 5: He he didn't he and the kid that I know 38 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 5: he had ever met born he was fifteen. Yeah, and 39 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 5: he didn't meet his dad until high school when he 40 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 5: was fifteen. 41 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 4: So it was it started at fourteen. 42 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: This is fake. And then I said fate fate. Oh yeah, yeah, 43 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:15,359 Speaker 1: they met when he. 44 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 3: Was Oh my ohld story. Maybe I can get that 45 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 3: guy to write a Reddit story. 46 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 4: He kind of disturbed, which which one the thirty year 47 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 4: old or the fifteen year old? 48 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 3: The kid? 49 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, is he is? 50 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 6: He? 51 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 4: Okay, does he have a kid? 52 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 3: I don't think. I don't think he knows how to. 53 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 2: Have a kid for the best, honestly good because his 54 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 2: DNA young seed. 55 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 3: Bro, that's the youngest seed out there. 56 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: Anyway, Sorry, guys, I'm going to get back to this 57 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 1: crazy story. 58 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 3: Wow. 59 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: So, So I was eighteen when I met my ex Marisol. 60 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 1: During that time, I was a gang banger with the 61 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 1: Latin Kings. I was. I was a member since I 62 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: was thirteen years old and always in and out of trunk. 63 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 2: A serious gang. But no joke, dude, I know about 64 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 2: the Latin They're here, Yeah, they're. 65 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: In La By the way. This comes from Still Angry 66 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: after four from Arsashky story times over. So, Marisol was 67 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: a church girl. My grandmother dragged me to Sunday masks 68 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: when I saw her. To me, it was love at 69 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:21,959 Speaker 1: first sight. I asked my cousin, who was a friend 70 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,399 Speaker 1: of hers, if he could introduce us, but he refused. 71 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: He didn't want to me. He didn't want me to 72 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: mess with her. He didn't want me to ruin her. 73 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: Have you ever met someone that you wanted to make 74 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 1: yourself be better with? 75 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 4: Oh? 76 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 2: Because like he's like a gang mayor kid, and she's 77 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 2: like a good little church girl and the cousin's like no, no, no, no, 78 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 2: it can't be. 79 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: It feels like a setup of like a like like 80 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: a movie, like a Romeo Juliet like modern version. 81 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, or like what what's the what's the movie with 82 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 2: the cats? And you got the alley cat with the 83 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 2: the home cat cats? Uh? I don't think so. I 84 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 2: think it's like if I haven't seen the Cats Disney movie, 85 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 2: chat will know and oh yeah, yeah yeah. 86 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: Anyways, but I wanted to be that better man who 87 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: would walk that right path. Yeah, yeah, that was her. 88 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 4: That was her. 89 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: When I found out that she was going to church 90 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: almost every day, I hung out by the steps talking 91 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 1: to her. I always walked her to and from church. 92 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: She made me feel like I wasn't worthless. Oh hope 93 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 1: one rest of cats arist cats nice. She made me 94 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: feel like I wasn't worthless. One thing led to another 95 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:32,039 Speaker 1: and we were dating and I felt great. For a 96 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: year and a half. I pushed myself away from the 97 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: gang life, got my gad, become a regular church goer, 98 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 1: and I was thinking about the future when I got 99 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: unintentionally pulled back. 100 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 4: In just when I thought it was out. 101 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: So that was pulled I was at a store and 102 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: I ran into someone that I used to have problems with. 103 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 1: They were running their mouths and I tried to ignore it. 104 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 1: I swear I did. I just let them talk and 105 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: I walked away. But then I got attacked and I 106 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,119 Speaker 1: lost my mind and I attacked him. 107 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 4: Dang. 108 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: I got arrested, and suddenly it was like the crap 109 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 1: I did to make my life better just vanished. Marisol 110 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 1: was pissed at me. My grandmother kept bringing up my 111 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: past mistakes, and my cousin would, and my cousin was 112 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,679 Speaker 1: telling me that he knew I wasn't going to change. 113 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 4: Oh man, even after all he did all he did. 114 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: And then there it is. Well, hopefully there's some hopefully 115 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: hopefully in the full. 116 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 2: This is a long story. Okay, so there's a redemption. 117 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 2: Arts might be on the press, I'm hoping, But damn. 118 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: My public defender saw me trying to better myself and 119 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 1: by the grace of God, got me off after a 120 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: month in lockup. So just just. 121 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 4: One month, stale, one month and the cling. 122 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: Look, it's not fun, but better than twelve twenty four. 123 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: You know, as a young kid did. 124 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 4: It's not fun. Both John and I. 125 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 3: Know oh oh don't we Okay, Okay, being in the 126 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 3: same shower together and then dropping the soap isn't the 127 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 3: same as Joe boys. Okay, that's different your career. 128 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: Stop talking about our morning. 129 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 6: Now. 130 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: Despite being angry with me, Marisol did visit me almost daily. 131 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: A month after I got out, I found I was 132 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: going to be a father, and I didn't want my 133 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: kid to have a dad that was dead or in jail. 134 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 4: A month after you got out, you found out you 135 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 4: were going to be a father. 136 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:23,039 Speaker 1: Yes, whoa. 137 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 3: The church lady girl? 138 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I'm he was in I mean, it 139 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 2: could have happened before, that's true. But also, you know, 140 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 2: it gets lonely. That is, it gets lonely. That is 141 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 2: a very good I see you, I see I see you. 142 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 4: Cousin slipped it in when he was in. 143 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: The clink, and that's why he didn't want to That's 144 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 1: the real reason. 145 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, because cousin was into him the whole It was 146 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 4: into her the whole time. 147 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 1: And now with now with you know, suave sexy op 148 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: out of the way. Yeah, like, well she's got no 149 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 1: other choice than me. 150 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 4: There we go. 151 00:06:56,520 --> 00:06:59,359 Speaker 1: So we eloped. I went to a trade school to 152 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: become a meccanic and I busted my butt for my 153 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 1: future family. When Luna was born, loved that name. By 154 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: the way, it was almost it was almost the worst 155 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: day of my life. What Marisol wouldn't stop bleeding. She 156 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 1: went into shock and they had to give her a 157 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 1: double hysterectomy. She was in the hospital for months, and 158 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 1: Luna became my world. That is insane. I wanted her. 159 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: I wanted her life to be the best. I wanted 160 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 1: to give her the world. When Marisol was released from 161 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: the hospital, nice I promised her that our daughter will 162 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: have a life far better than ours. And for years 163 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 1: I kept that promise. I saved enough. I saved enough 164 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: money to move us to the suburbs become homeowners. I 165 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: was a Girl Scout leader. If you could believe that, 166 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: that is literally the cutest thing. 167 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 4: I really. 168 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 2: I don't know what OPI looks like, but I'm imagining 169 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 2: like a super tatted up dude, Just like a super buff, 170 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 2: patted up dude going door to door and asking about 171 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 2: his Girl Scouts is awesome, Dude, you better. 172 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 1: I made sure Luna went to private school, made sure 173 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 1: she knew how to defend herself, and always made sure 174 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: I was the perfect husband. Man is gonna be a 175 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: shoe dropping sou dude, it's coming, It's coming. I didn't 176 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 1: know my parents. I did not have a positive male 177 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 1: role model in my life, so I didn't know what 178 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 1: a healthy relationship looked like. That's a lie. TV dads 179 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: were my male role models, and I mimic them and 180 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: the marriage they had on TV. 181 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 4: That nice, that's nice. 182 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: As the years went by, I owned my own garage, 183 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: my cousin became a pastor, and my grandmother was still 184 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: a pain in my butt. My relationship with my wife 185 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: was stronger than ever. I made sure that I kept 186 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 1: my prison body. But Luna, Luna hated me. Okay, wow, 187 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 1: since she turned thirteen, she just started hating me. 188 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 4: She learned something, she learned something. 189 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 3: She went on that one app that you what did 190 00:08:58,120 --> 00:08:59,559 Speaker 3: you get? What was that one thing you got sponsored 191 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 3: a while ago? We can look at people's background. 192 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 4: No free sponsors, no free sponsors. 193 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 3: I did that to my parents, and I was like 194 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 3: a little upset because do I get me a free trial? 195 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:15,839 Speaker 3: And then I was like, oh no, so she probably 196 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 3: would have that site. You figured that out? 197 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:19,959 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, did shout out to them, but I 198 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: won't shot them out because they don't pay anything. Yeah, yeah, 199 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 1: they don't deserve it. 200 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 4: Now I deserve it. 201 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 2: But they were they they did, they did kind of 202 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 2: fund the podcast initially. 203 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's true, that's true. So she rolls her eyes 204 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: every time I told her I love her. I did. 205 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 1: Didn't want me to hug her ignore me. When I 206 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 1: asked her about her day at school, it hurt me, 207 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 1: and Marisol saw it. She told me that she's a 208 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: teenager and I should just let it ride out. She 209 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 1: will come back to me for two years. It was 210 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 1: like that, which is that's tird. 211 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 4: Thats a long time. 212 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: That's a long time. That's tough. So for her, kinson Yerra, 213 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 1: I wanted to go all out. I got everything she wanted, 214 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: and she was still disrespectful, and briefly the old me 215 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 1: almost came out to put her in her place. Instead, 216 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: I went to my cousin. I believe the pastor vented 217 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 1: my frustration in doubts about being good father, and he 218 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 1: told me to just let her be and he said 219 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,319 Speaker 1: a prayer for me. I wanted a slide show. I 220 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 1: wanted a slide show for the father daughter dance. I 221 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 1: got a chunk of the pictures of us together, but 222 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 1: I realized I didn't have any recent pictures of us together. 223 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 1: She didn't want to take any. 224 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 4: That's so sad. 225 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 2: And also it's like like, yeah, he gets her other 226 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 2: perfect kinds in theia, but you can't buy a child's affection. 227 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 1: It's it's true, but like, and maybe there's something we 228 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 1: don't know. Unreliable narrator, but it's like what I don't 229 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: know kids obviously they have their the terrible teens, but like, 230 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: what is there something that caused it? Like, I think 231 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: it's she found something out, so she found something. 232 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 4: I think. 233 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 2: I think it's either she found out that he's not 234 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 2: her dad, or he found out that he was in jail, 235 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 2: or the cousin said, like why he was in jail 236 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 2: and it's not completely truth or tasting the truth. I think, Yeah, 237 00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 2: grandma's got a potty mass says the cousin told Luna 238 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 2: about his past. I'm thinking that. I'm thinking that. 239 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: Also, don't forget grandma, and Grandma is still salty all 240 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: these years later. You know, you know why. 241 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 3: The cousin said it. 242 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 1: Talk to me because he his kid. 243 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 4: He's trying to win. He's trying to steal Opie's family. 244 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: I see you, guys, I see you, you see it, 245 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 1: I see you if you see it. The last time 246 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 1: I had pictures of her and I smiling with me 247 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 1: with her was on her thirteenth birthday, and those were 248 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: on my daughter's broken tablet. I took that tablet, went 249 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,079 Speaker 1: to her repair shop. I didn't care about the cost. 250 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 1: I didn't care about the cost. I needed that tablet fixed. 251 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:38,319 Speaker 1: After a day and three hundred dollars, dude, get a 252 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 1: new tech shophul figure it out. 253 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh gosh, negotiator. 254 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, the tech fixed it, and I was happy. I 255 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:50,199 Speaker 1: knew her pass code, but I never bothered invading her privacy. 256 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 1: I just one of those pictures. I see you in 257 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 1: the comments. 258 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 2: Bro Okay, you've heard of the cheating iPad, but have 259 00:11:57,880 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: you heard of the fake dad iPad? 260 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 1: Ooh the children poisoning? 261 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 2: Either your real dad, but I am your real dad iPad. 262 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: When I opened the tablet, I looked in the gallery 263 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 1: and there they were, my little girl, smiling and happy 264 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 1: to be with me. I felt great. Then the instant 265 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 1: messages appeared. It was my daughter talking to my wife. 266 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 1: It was a long banter that she didn't want me 267 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: to dance with her, and it did hurt. But, like 268 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 1: my wife said, she's being a teenager. Then she said 269 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 1: something that destroyed me. Oh no, she texted why she 270 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: had to do the father daughter dance with me since 271 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: I'm not her father? 272 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 4: Who freaking called it? A dude? I freaking no, Reddit, 273 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 4: I know stories, I know that. Damn. 274 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:56,959 Speaker 3: Who oh my gosh, oh. 275 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:03,839 Speaker 1: Don't miss I don't miss man. I mean, yeah, we 276 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: gets so excited, but we guess are like, oh we 277 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: just guessed. 278 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 7: Wow, this this is this is this is really sad. Anyways, dude, 279 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:20,119 Speaker 7: holy frick. 280 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, all right, who reads Reddit stories? 281 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 4: Huma? 282 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 3: Whom they were the dad? They were the real dead? Okay, okay, 283 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:38,359 Speaker 3: good track, hey forever. 284 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: Anyway, So I felt my heart stop, I got dizzy, 285 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: my mouth dried up, and I needed to sit down. 286 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:50,839 Speaker 1: My wife responded that I raised her, I loved her, 287 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 1: and that's what makes me her father. But Luna responded 288 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:57,679 Speaker 1: by saying that my cousin is her father. 289 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 3: Yep, like like like like father father or daddy father, 290 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 3: like it was your dad, I'm your father, or I'm 291 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 3: your pastor I'm your father. 292 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 1: No, I'm your dad, I'm your father, daddy father, and 293 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 1: she can't wait for her to turn eighteen so she 294 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 1: could tell me the truth and she could live with 295 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: her real dad. So literally, literally Marisol right now is like, listen, 296 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 1: I don't want you, you know, to do whatever, but 297 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 1: we need to keep playing off the facade for a 298 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: few more years. Then we can be with your real dad. 299 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 1: Abandoned Op who spent you know, his whole life just 300 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 1: doing the absolute most to make sure she had an 301 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: amazing life. 302 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 4: It's always the church girls that are the horny ones. 303 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 6: Dude, dude, yeah, bro, church girl went lied to him, 304 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 6: had him raise his kid, all these I mean, we're 305 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 6: fifteen years into this lie and here's here's Op and 306 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 6: he's like, I've turned my life around. 307 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 1: I'm doing everything, Like. 308 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 2: Dude, Ope, ope's osp is gonna be going through it, beachless, 309 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 2: going through it, Okay. 310 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 4: So Rick. 311 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: That she hated me, that she thanked God that I'm 312 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: not her father. 313 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 4: What did he do besides raise you? 314 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 1: I think she's I don't know, is poisoned. Yeah, although 315 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: slight plot twist. Next sentence, Marisol began cussing her out, 316 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 1: saying that it was a mistake for my cousin to 317 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 1: tell her the truth two years ago, and the more 318 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 1: they talked, the anger I was getting. It's the cousin, 319 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: that's so I think the mom. I think the mom 320 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 1: is like doesn't care about ope actually, and it's just 321 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 1: you know, using him. But I think the but she's 322 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 1: getting mac She's like, hey, like, don't don't blow your 323 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 1: lid and like blow this for us, because then that'll 324 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: be that more years. Right now, he's funding a private school, 325 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 1: he's doing all he's doing, he's you know, doing all 326 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 1: the things in the world for leaders. She could lose 327 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 1: all of that, and she knows it. Probably Marisol. He's 328 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 1: probably covering everything from Marisol as well. So she's like, 329 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 1: I got a free ride. I don't have to live 330 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: as a pastor's wife for the next three years. 331 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 3: Dude, dang save up. 332 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 1: I don't know who is tough tough life. Yeah, so 333 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 1: my wife lied to me for fifteen years. My cousin 334 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: with whom I confide my issues about Luna and my 335 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 1: fears about being a bad father, not only ft my 336 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 1: wife but had me raise his child. I wanted to 337 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 1: hurt them. I felt a mixture of anger, sorrow, and grief. 338 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 1: I wanted to scream, cry, and die at the same time, 339 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:45,360 Speaker 1: if that makes any sense. I went to a dark 340 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 1: place and so I wouldn't do anything stupid. I told 341 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 1: Marisol that I needed to focus on work so I 342 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 1: could plan the King Sanieta, and instead I drove to 343 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 1: Manhattan and saw my old public defender who wasn't a 344 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 1: low level attorney anymore. He had a nice expense firm 345 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 1: near Midtown East. Also loved that story of like the 346 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 1: public defenders, like just starting out gives this kid a chance, 347 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 1: op becomes a successful guy. That dude is like super sick. 348 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 1: Love that anyways, sidebar. I was surprised that he remembered me, 349 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 1: but apparently I was his first case as a public defender. Wow, 350 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:21,440 Speaker 1: that's crazy. We sat down and I told him everything. 351 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 1: I gave him the tablet and when he turned it on, 352 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:28,199 Speaker 1: the messages just kept coming. Only Luna was talking to 353 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:31,920 Speaker 1: my cousin, her real father, and he was telling her 354 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 1: to give me a chance. How I was always there 355 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,639 Speaker 1: for her, but Luna told him that so was he, 356 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 1: how it makes sense that they have so much in common, 357 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:45,639 Speaker 1: and even called him poppy multiple times in their conversation, 358 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: and he responded and told her that she was his 359 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:49,400 Speaker 1: little girl. 360 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:52,399 Speaker 4: Oh. 361 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:56,399 Speaker 1: We went there our options and he asked me what 362 00:17:56,600 --> 00:18:00,199 Speaker 1: do I want to do? And I told him I 363 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 1: wanted to go full scorched earth. 364 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 4: This is so sad. 365 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: Please let justice. 366 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 4: This is so sad. 367 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 1: I wanted to poison the well. And he asked me 368 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:17,239 Speaker 1: several times if that's what I wanted. I nodded yes, Oh, 369 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,879 Speaker 1: I asked. I also told him that everything had to 370 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: be filed before the Kingstonia in two weeks. So we 371 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,439 Speaker 1: sat down and spent the next twelve hours on what 372 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 1: needed to be done, and I followed his instructions to 373 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 1: the letter. I secretly placed my business for sale. I 374 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:34,159 Speaker 1: called the private school and told them I will not 375 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 1: be paying for the next year. I closed the college 376 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: accounts and the savings that I had had for Luna, 377 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:42,160 Speaker 1: and prepared to place my house for sale online. 378 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 4: Oh dude, this, oh man, man, it's hurting. 379 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 1: In fairness, it's probably hard to No, it's already challenging 380 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 1: when you realize, you know, the child isn't yours and 381 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 1: everything else. It's also hard when that child is like 382 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 1: you abandoned and is like yeah, she's you know, teenager. 383 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: Or puberty whatever, but I don't know, fifteen years old. 384 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: Like I'm sorry, but like shouldn't you have the wherewithal 385 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: to be like this man raised me and this guy 386 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: this guy let my mom and everything. 387 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 2: Like she's also she's being I feel like she's being 388 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 2: manipulated by the cousins. So like it's not like I 389 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 2: don't think she's Yeah, there's full blame because like it's like, 390 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 2: it's not that hard to manipulate teenagers. 391 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 1: It's true. I want to see more of the because 392 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 1: it's weird because it seemed like both of them were like, hey, 393 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 1: don't go too hard on him, but maybe I don't know. 394 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,679 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm very curious to see. Hopefully we 395 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: see more context in their conversations in the future. But 396 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 1: no one was the wiser. I followed his instructions perfectly. 397 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: There was only one thing I deviated from the day 398 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:51,640 Speaker 1: of the Kingsanta. The day went off without a hitch. 399 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 1: The whole family was there, Luna was smiling, having fun. 400 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,679 Speaker 1: Marisol kept asking me if I was okay, and I 401 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:59,120 Speaker 1: lied to her. It was hard lying to her. From 402 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 1: the moment I met her, I never lied to her, 403 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:08,480 Speaker 1: and during those two dang it. 404 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 4: What have you done? 405 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 1: Fixie? Marisol kept asking me if I was okay, and 406 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: I lied to her. It was hard lying to her 407 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:16,880 Speaker 1: from the moment It was hard lying to her from 408 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,119 Speaker 1: the moment I met her. I never lied to her, 409 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:21,679 Speaker 1: And during these two weeks, every time I kissed her, 410 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 1: held her, made love to her, it was hard not 411 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 1: to scream at her. It was hard not to hate her. 412 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: She knowingly let me raise another man's child. She slept 413 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 1: with my cousin, a man who I saw as my brother, 414 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:40,320 Speaker 1: the godfather of my child, my best man when I eloped, 415 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 1: and my confidant, thank you for not being a friend, 416 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:54,640 Speaker 1: stepping on sad. So the rage was hard to suppress, 417 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: to say the least. When it was time for the 418 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,680 Speaker 1: father daughter dance, I called her to the center of 419 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:01,159 Speaker 1: the stage. 420 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 3: Oh no, oh no. 421 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 1: She looked annoyed, but she walked over. 422 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 6: No. 423 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 1: I had the music playing, and she smiled, and it 424 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 1: tore me apart seeing her smiling at me for years 425 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:18,159 Speaker 1: I wanted to see that smile again, and now I 426 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 1: didn't want it. As we dance, I had the slideshow 427 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:24,440 Speaker 1: playing pictures of the two of us, and towards the 428 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:27,119 Speaker 1: end of a song. No shots, I know it, I 429 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:30,680 Speaker 1: know it, I know it. Screenshots of her text messages 430 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,439 Speaker 1: with her mother and real father. 431 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:41,960 Speaker 4: No, that is full scoorgter. That is the kids in 432 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 4: the era to remember. 433 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,359 Speaker 3: Whoa Oh my gosh, I'm. 434 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 1: Putting a pin in this for the first update. Uh, 435 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 1: oh my god, ahole move or not. I mean, it's 436 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 1: a child. It's a child. 437 00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 2: It's a little it's like, I understand, but child, she's 438 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,920 Speaker 2: being manipulated. It's the person. The people that I should 439 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 2: pay are the cousin yes, and the wife yes, not 440 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 2: the child. And it's like at her, it's like it's 441 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 2: like most of it on on she's receiving the brunt 442 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 2: of the She's yeah exactly, And I feel like she 443 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:26,719 Speaker 2: is the result of manipulation and bad decisions on uh, 444 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 2: the cousin and Marissol's behalf. 445 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 1: And it's not really her yes, but freaking atic dude. 446 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 1: So back to the story again again. Reminder, he just 447 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 1: he just revealed the screenshots in the daddy daughter dance 448 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:48,119 Speaker 1: at the Kings. Oh, he goes on, needless to say, 449 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 1: this didn't vote to him. Oh duh. Marisol looked like 450 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 1: she saw a ghost. Luna just kept staring at the 451 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 1: large screen, and my cousin just stared at me with fear. 452 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 1: Marisol ran to me and told me that she could explain, 453 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 1: and I told her I filed for divorce that she 454 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 1: could explain it in court. 455 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 4: Ooh. 456 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,119 Speaker 1: She grabbed my arm, begging me, and I pulled back. 457 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,920 Speaker 1: I told Luna that I busted my ass to give 458 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 1: her the world, and now she doesn't deserve it. I 459 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 1: began to walk out, but not before telling my cousin 460 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 1: that every time I see him, I'm going to knock 461 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 1: him out. And then I knocked him out. Man's kept 462 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,480 Speaker 1: his word for the past fifteen years. He's not about 463 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 1: to start stop now. 464 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 465 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 5: Oh. 466 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,399 Speaker 1: The aftermath was harsh. Marisol and Luna was at my 467 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 1: grandmother's apartment. Her family was shocked and disgusted with her. 468 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 1: They wanted nothing to do with her. Her father actually 469 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 1: apologized to me. I don't know why he never liked 470 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 1: me despite me turning my life around. The man hated me, 471 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,359 Speaker 1: but now I was the perfect husband and father. But 472 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:59,120 Speaker 1: just a few days prior, I was the former piece 473 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 1: of crap. Uh. My grandmother had the audacity to tell 474 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 1: me about the story Abraham and how when he came 475 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 1: back from battle three years later, his wife had one 476 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,640 Speaker 1: child and he raised him as his own, and how 477 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 1: I should be like Abraham. 478 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 4: Shout out Abraham. 479 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,119 Speaker 1: So I told her to get out of my house. 480 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 1: This is there, you go. Marisol came a few days later, 481 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 1: crying as soon as he as soon as she saw me, 482 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:29,159 Speaker 1: telling me that it was an accident. Yeah whoop. Oh 483 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 1: oh well guys for having a kid. 484 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,919 Speaker 4: I feel well. I feel like we're gonna get some information. 485 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 1: That's gonna oh coach, there's there's gotta be the. 486 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 4: There's this many updates without pain. 487 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 1: Oh, absolutely not. So that was when, uh that, when 488 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,439 Speaker 1: I was arrested, she was so angry at me, and 489 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 1: my cousin was there to console her. One thing led 490 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:57,120 Speaker 1: to another and they had spicy sleep. It happened only 491 00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,680 Speaker 1: one time, and she was faithful to me ever since. 492 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 1: She was willing to take a lie detector test to 493 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:02,639 Speaker 1: prove it. 494 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:06,359 Speaker 4: Detector tests don't mean shit. Oh really yeah a fake 495 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:07,160 Speaker 4: bro Oh. 496 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you know how to be manipulated like the 497 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 3: cousin does, then it doesn't mean they're rue. 498 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 4: It doesn't. Yeah. LI detectors are are pseudoscience. 499 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 1: So I didn't know about. So I asked her how 500 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:20,400 Speaker 1: long she knew Luna wasn't mine, and she started crying more. 501 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,160 Speaker 1: I think we know the answer. That look she gave 502 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 1: me just told me that she knew from day one. 503 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 4: How does she know from day one? 504 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:34,640 Speaker 1: Probably because exactly what thirty percent of couples they get 505 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 1: together have can get pregnant after a month. And also 506 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 1: what you said earlier, he found out he was in 507 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,439 Speaker 1: prison for one month. He found out the month after, 508 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 1: so two months after he entered prison entered jail. I 509 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 1: should say she found out she was pregnant, which means 510 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 1: like she would have to be like super, He would 511 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,200 Speaker 1: have to have gotten her pregnant, like probably just before 512 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:59,159 Speaker 1: he got into jail, and then she would be like 513 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:03,639 Speaker 1: super overly pregnant, overly pregnant for just revealing it. You 514 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like it's the math is not 515 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 1: quite mathing possible, but it was unlikely and here we are. 516 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 1: So I asked her to leave. She wanted to go 517 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 1: to counseling, telling me that I'm overreacting and we could 518 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 1: make it work. It was in the past and I 519 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 1: needed to get over it. That I am Luda's father. 520 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:24,720 Speaker 1: Despite what happened, and I allowed my temper to get 521 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: the best of me. I must have repeated get over 522 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,199 Speaker 1: it a dozen times at full volume, while grabbing her 523 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,760 Speaker 1: crap and tossing it out the door. I called her 524 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,680 Speaker 1: a lying or. I told her that I didn't want 525 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 1: to see her effing face again, and I told her 526 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,680 Speaker 1: that this life that I built no longer belongs to her, 527 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,880 Speaker 1: before pushing her out the door. A couple of weeks 528 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 1: went by, and she kept blowing up my phone. Not 529 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,359 Speaker 1: once Luna tried to reach out to me. Marisol was 530 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,920 Speaker 1: shocked to learn that I had sold my business, even 531 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 1: more so when she learned that I had an open house. 532 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 1: She came in screaming, telling the viewsers to get out 533 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 1: of her house, and pleading with me to seek help. 534 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 1: That I was ruining our marriage. That's kind of unhinged. 535 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:06,920 Speaker 4: Ruining our marriage? 536 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:10,679 Speaker 2: You mean, you mean when you went and had a 537 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,919 Speaker 2: child with another man, that wasn't ruining the marriage, That 538 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 2: was just. 539 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 1: Lighting me for fifteen years. 540 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 2: That's a miss That's that's a simple mistake anyone could make, 541 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:24,399 Speaker 2: you know, God, it was an accident that. 542 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,880 Speaker 1: I had no right to sell our home. The home 543 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,120 Speaker 1: we raised our child in. And I told her that 544 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,120 Speaker 1: this is a house full of lies. 545 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:36,399 Speaker 2: I raised your child and ooh fire, it's a house 546 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,000 Speaker 2: where I raised another man's child. 547 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,120 Speaker 4: And oh damn dude, we're just going to stay waveleg. 548 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 1: And when I sell it, I will give her half 549 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,399 Speaker 1: and ordered her to get out before I called the cops. Okay, 550 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,200 Speaker 1: so he's he's still giving her half of the sale 551 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:52,119 Speaker 1: of the house, which has got to be the majority 552 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: of his like uh, his like financial that. 553 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 2: I wonder what the what the deal is with selling 554 00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,399 Speaker 2: an asset co owned, Like do you have to have 555 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:03,120 Speaker 2: both mens sign on to selling the house? 556 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 4: Like he might? He might be in a little leads. 557 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 1: Maybe she It's not one hundred percent clear, but it's 558 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,440 Speaker 1: maybe she. Maybe she is like on the on the deed. 559 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:17,520 Speaker 1: Uh but I I think he paid for it. He 560 00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,360 Speaker 1: might be under his name. I'm not sure. I'm not sure. 561 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: Act I will give her half an order to get 562 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,520 Speaker 1: out before I called the cops. It was a bluff. 563 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:27,879 Speaker 1: All she had to do was play the victim and 564 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 1: I would have been arrested, but she didn't. She complied. 565 00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:32,879 Speaker 1: Shortly after this, my cousin came to talk to me, 566 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 1: and I knocked him out, kept his word, dragged him outside, 567 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 1: and closed the door. I refused mediation. Marisol wanted to reconcile, 568 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 1: but I didn't. I wanted a divorce, and my attorney 569 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 1: filed for a fast track divorce, and in three months 570 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 1: we were in Nassau County courthouse. I barely spoke to 571 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 1: anyone during that time. I read horror stories about the 572 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: court system, especially during divorce proceedings, but I didn't have that. 573 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 1: I had a female judge who was very fair and 574 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 1: also like I feel like OPI's case, like she had 575 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 1: the child in live for fifteen years. He has all 576 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 1: the text thing like oh we'll just. 577 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 4: We'll just get it, receipts up the wazoo. 578 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's he's got a super strong case, so I'm 579 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:15,400 Speaker 1: not super surprised. My attorney took care of everything first. 580 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 1: Marissol's lawyer tried to talk about my past when I 581 00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 1: was in a gang, as if my past barred for 582 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 1: a reason for me to be a terrible husband father, 583 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 1: but my quickly my attorney quickly smack that down, and 584 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 1: the judge reprimanded her attorney for trying to shame someone 585 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 1: who turned their life around w uh. My attorney presented 586 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:36,760 Speaker 1: all the evidence and offered a lump sum alimony payment 587 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:41,240 Speaker 1: with the pending sale of the house and business. At first, 588 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 1: Marisol kept asking me to reconsider because she knows, like, 589 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, I can get this one time payout, 590 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 1: but like, could I be good for life? 591 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 592 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 1: Because she she was for fifteen years. But I ignored her, 593 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,959 Speaker 1: and when she finally realized that I'm not budging, she agreed. 594 00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:01,080 Speaker 1: Yet the real surprise happened when it came to child support. 595 00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 1: You see, my attorney presented all of the text messages 596 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,959 Speaker 1: from Luna's conversation with Marisol, showing that not only Luna 597 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: knew that I am not her father, but she cannot 598 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 1: wait to be with her real father, saying that she 599 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 1: no longer has to live a lie. Marisol was completely 600 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 1: caught by surprise from this. Then my attorney filed emotion 601 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 1: to have my name removed from Luna's birth certificate, have 602 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 1: my last name removed, as well as not being responsible 603 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 1: for any child support since all parties agree that my 604 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 1: cousin was her father, which one he did? I mean, 605 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 1: he paid for a private school, like I would say, 606 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 1: he went above and beyond you know, regular father, regular 607 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 1: quote unquote father duties right for fifteen years? 608 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 4: Can he sue for child support backdated or something? 609 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 1: I was wondering if he could sue for It's almost 610 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,520 Speaker 1: like him suing them for backdated child support. Maybe a 611 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 1: double wayman cousin. Yeah, he sues the cousin for the 612 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:03,560 Speaker 1: money he spent and cousin gets requested by court to 613 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 1: back yay the fifteen years. 614 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:07,440 Speaker 4: That's what I would crazy. 615 00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 1: So Marisol was shocked by this. She yelled at me, 616 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 1: begged me not to do this to Luna, that I 617 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 1: am her father because I raised her, and as pathetic 618 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 1: as I may sound right now. Wait, Marissa, I was 619 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 1: shocked at this, yelled at me, begged me not to 620 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 1: do this to Luna, that I am her father because 621 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 1: I raised her, and as pathetic as I may sound 622 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 1: right now, But if Luna didn't act that way towards me, 623 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 1: if she didn't say those things, I would have agreed. 624 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 1: There were moments that I wanted to reach out and 625 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 1: try to make it work, but then I would look 626 00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:44,320 Speaker 1: at Luna's continuing text messages to her friends. 627 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,080 Speaker 4: Oh he's still yeah. 628 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 1: Dude, the tablet always does it. 629 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:51,400 Speaker 4: Always freaking iPad. 630 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:55,040 Speaker 1: I would look at Luna's continuing text messages to her friends, 631 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 1: her real father, her mother, and I, and I would 632 00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,360 Speaker 1: refocus on my resolve. Till this day. I don't know 633 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 1: what hurts the most, being lied to by a woman 634 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 1: who you thought was the love of your life, or 635 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 1: having a child who you tried to make their lives 636 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 1: better to give them the world, just to have them 637 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: toss you aside like trash. The judge is quiet for 638 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:17,000 Speaker 1: a long while, reading the messages, page after page after 639 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:21,440 Speaker 1: page of these texts. In the end, she agreed I 640 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:24,920 Speaker 1: was not financially responsible for Luna and my name could 641 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: be removed. My attorney also filed emotion for the courts 642 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 1: to go after my cousin to pay for child support, 643 00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 1: and emotion to sue my cousin in civil court for 644 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 1: the money I spent raising Luna. 645 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 2: Oh, cousin's about to get the hammer. 646 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 3: Dude. I can tell that the next service at churches, like, 647 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 3: hey guys, we should up our ties. 648 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 1: Hey guys, we're doing a fundraiser. It's called support your 649 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 1: cheating masters. Okay, dude. Also, just like I don't know, 650 00:32:57,920 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 1: it just always annoys me when it's like people in 651 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 1: the position like a pastor. Yeah, that's like doing this crt. 652 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, because people like everyone does bad things, but it 653 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 3: definitely doesn't help when you have that kind. 654 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:15,160 Speaker 1: Of yeah job yeah yeah, it's just my god, but 655 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:21,959 Speaker 1: bap So the private schools, dance lessons, girl scouts, horseback lessons, 656 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 1: everything I ever spent on that child. And after my 657 00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 1: attorney explained to the judge that my cousin had committed 658 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 1: fraud for knowingly allowing me to raise his daughter and 659 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 1: not offer any financial support or assistance, it was a 660 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 1: hail Mary, and the dang judge agreed to it. 661 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:42,960 Speaker 4: Oh my god, WHOA. 662 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 1: I didn't bother looking at Marisol when the judge made 663 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 1: her decision. I didn't bother listening to her as I 664 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,480 Speaker 1: walked out of the courthouse. I didn't care as I 665 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 1: heard her cry, her telling me that she only cheated 666 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 1: one time and was faithful ever since, I just didn't 667 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 1: care anymore. A few weeks later, my ex called me shocked, 668 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 1: and I stopped payments on Luna's private schools and all 669 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 1: of her activities, and I've told her to call her 670 00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:09,359 Speaker 1: baby daddy before hanging up on her. Even Luna called 671 00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:12,400 Speaker 1: me the first time since the entire ordeal. And she 672 00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 1: Efink calls me, crying that she has to go to 673 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,400 Speaker 1: public school, that they were moving to the old neighborhood, 674 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,440 Speaker 1: and how scary it was, and how she wanted us 675 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,839 Speaker 1: to be a family again. I told her to go 676 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:26,760 Speaker 1: to her real father, the man who she truly wanted, 677 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,839 Speaker 1: and asked him. I yelled at her and told her 678 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,319 Speaker 1: that only she knew for years. But I read all 679 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 1: the text messages, the back and forth, and from her 680 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 1: own words, she was thankful that a hoodlum like me 681 00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:40,720 Speaker 1: wasn't her father. 682 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:47,560 Speaker 4: That's got to be so. 683 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:49,240 Speaker 1: So much pain going back and forth right now, even 684 00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:51,800 Speaker 1: though I haven't been a hoodlum since the day I 685 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,719 Speaker 1: found out I was going to be a father. I 686 00:34:55,800 --> 00:35:00,560 Speaker 1: hung up on her after that. I made my cousin pay. 687 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:06,720 Speaker 1: He had to pay me half a million dollars. 688 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 2: From where the big guy, Yeah, those tithing twenty you 689 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:14,600 Speaker 2: know he's around. 690 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:19,080 Speaker 3: That's fifty percent. Man, that's gonna oh my gosh. 691 00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 1: Half a million, half a million. I mean, think. 692 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 4: About the average pastor salary, oh, thirty. 693 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,759 Speaker 3: Four k a year. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm just 694 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 3: let's see financial yeah, yeah, what is a average dude? 695 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 1: But I wouldn't be surprised that's that. I think it's 696 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 1: a pretty pretty good guess, dude. 697 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:43,040 Speaker 3: No freaking waight. 698 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 1: Uh. 699 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:45,840 Speaker 3: Median is fifty eight thousand. 700 00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 1: Uh. 701 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,279 Speaker 3: The bottom is thirty five k and the top is 702 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:50,160 Speaker 3: ninety six k. 703 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:50,800 Speaker 4: Okay. 704 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,240 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, there's a lot of like big churches 705 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,319 Speaker 1: out there. I could see that like one hundred K for. 706 00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:58,600 Speaker 2: The ak so he only has to live on eight 707 00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 2: thousand dollars a year or ten years. 708 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:04,400 Speaker 1: While raising his new child. 709 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,839 Speaker 2: Maybe expensive, our kids, you're not expensive in a thousands. 710 00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 1: You know what's really cheap? College? What she's about to 711 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 1: be going to? 712 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 4: Dude, just go to public university. You don't need. You 713 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 4: only need eight hundred dollars a month for a kid yourself. 714 00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:26,920 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you're not. There's no mercy. 715 00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:30,080 Speaker 1: God has mercy. 716 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:31,280 Speaker 4: I don't. 717 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:33,959 Speaker 1: That is exactly what hope he said. 718 00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,839 Speaker 2: Shout out to Rickroll, Pray for Pray to your God 719 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 2: for a lottery ticket.