1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Second date, up date. What happens if you meet someone 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: on a dating app and you find out that both 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: of you have been in the dating pool for way 4 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: too long? It's like, what's wrong with you? Yeah, that's 5 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: when you need to mix it up. Like one of 6 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: our listeners, Wayne did recently. Did he suggest both of 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: them dress up as their favorite power ranger and meet 8 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: in front of the police station. That's actually really fun. 9 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 1: He didn't do that. He didn't It would have been 10 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: a fantastic idea. 11 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 12 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, that he went a different direction, And now he 13 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: says he's living with a medium amount of regret. 14 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 3: Okay, I feel like that. Most adults live that way. 15 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, but sleep at night, Wayne, only in ninety chance 16 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: are going to regret asking us for help today. So 17 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Now, must stay. 18 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I am having some regret. You know, started as 19 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 2: a good idea. 20 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: Okay, we'll get to your questionable idea and the second. 21 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: But first, tell us about the girl that you went 22 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: out with. Who's she? 23 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 2: And Isabella? 24 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: Okay? 25 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, And from Jeffrey's description, it sounds like, I don't know, 26 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 4: maybe you're a little exhausted from online dating. 27 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 2: Definitely. 28 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 3: Okay, are we all. 29 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,680 Speaker 4: Okay, I mean, do you still have hope going into 30 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 4: a first date with someone when you're just tired of it? 31 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 3: All? 32 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 2: I have a sliver of hope, but. 33 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: It's like, all right, give me a reasonably So tell 34 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: us about what you wanted to do with Isabella. 35 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so Isabella, you know, a couple of weeks 36 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 2: you're chatting and we had really awesome conversations and like 37 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 2: talked about our favorite candy and like our top three? 38 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:46,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, what is your favorite candy? Kidding? 39 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 2: Pieces? 40 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 3: Okay, interesting, it's not. 41 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 1: The does your first date have to do with like 42 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: a candy shop or something? 43 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 2: No, but kind of like a game. Well, basically we 44 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 2: had so many fun conversations and she was like, it 45 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 2: never translates into a good first date. And I was like, well, 46 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 2: let's just skip the first date then, and you can 47 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 2: pretend like it's our second or third date. 48 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 3: Oh okay, can you do that? 49 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 2: I like that, Yeah, you could do that. 50 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:19,399 Speaker 4: You can act like remember last time when we talked, 51 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 4: why are you telling me the story again? 52 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 2: Already we're getting along so well And she was like, well, 53 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 2: what we pretended it was our one year anniversary? 54 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 5: Whoa? 55 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 4: That escalated quickly sir, let's jump right to the divorce 56 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 4: and start breaking up items. 57 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 1: It's been one year. You still won't sleep with me. 58 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 3: When were you into that idea? 59 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 5: Uh? 60 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 2: You know yeah? I was like, why not? What have 61 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 2: we got to lose it this rate? 62 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 4: And you may get a free dessert out of it 63 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 4: from the restaurant, you know, whenever they know it's an anniversary. 64 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:58,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So what'd you end up doing? 65 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 2: Oh, we made a reservation for a one year anniversary 66 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 2: and I ordered actually a bottle champagne and. 67 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 3: Oh, you're a good boyfriend. After a whole year. 68 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 2: We had to put out flowers with a card. 69 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, one. 70 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 2: Year down, forever to go. 71 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: I want to steal this one year down Forever to go. 72 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: That was the card. 73 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, wow romantic. 74 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 4: Did she think that's funny or did it feel like 75 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,079 Speaker 4: too much to her? Because you really took this too 76 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 4: like a serious level. 77 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 2: You owned it when we met, like we had the 78 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 2: happy one year like anniversary jokes, and you know she 79 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 2: was into it too. She came with like a president 80 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 2: for me, which I was Yeah. Her present was a 81 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 2: fake coupon book. 82 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 3: That's really. 83 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was done like that, but to kind of 84 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 2: like sarcasts, except free hug. It was like hug yourself 85 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 2: or to the laundry yourself. 86 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: Oh oh, that's more like the ten year anniversary. 87 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 3: She sounds really funny. Did you guys laugh a lot 88 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 3: on your date? 89 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, the first like fifteen twenty minutes of the dinner. 90 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 2: It's pretty fun. Okay. Then it got a little serious. 91 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 2: Oh serious, It probably with me. I was too into it, 92 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 2: took it too far because I started kind of telling 93 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 2: her who she can be friends with, you know what, 94 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 2: Like I don't actually know any of her friends, so 95 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 2: I was kind of making it up. 96 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,679 Speaker 3: You turned into the boyfriend that she wants to dump 97 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 3: as well. Yeah, like your friends don't like what the hell? 98 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: Hopefully you told her don't hang around Brooke because she's 99 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: a wet blanket about your date idea? 100 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: Oh terrible. 101 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 2: You know, Lane's a bad influence she you know, Oh, like, 102 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 2: what do you mean? I don't know if she meant 103 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 2: what do you mean? Who's Lane or what? 104 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:48,239 Speaker 1: Because there is no Lane? 105 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 6: Yeah? 106 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, totally okay. 107 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 3: You were a toxic boyfriend? 108 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, cute? 109 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 3: Confused, Like what happened to the romantic guy that she 110 00:04:58,600 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 3: was dating? 111 00:04:59,360 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 6: You know? 112 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:00,159 Speaker 3: Faked? 113 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 2: I mean I had to have fixed in a little 114 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:04,359 Speaker 2: bit of real fake life. 115 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 3: Dude, that's exactly why she's not calling you. 116 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 1: You have to create some fake lows to enjoy those 117 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 1: fake highs in your relationships. 118 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 3: You don't put up with that type of crap in 119 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 3: a relationship. 120 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 1: You've been single long enough. He has to do something. 121 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,359 Speaker 3: I'm not surprised anymore. There's a reason. 122 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, was that it was there more to the day. 123 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it kind of got worse, perhaps because then we 124 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 2: kind of shifted in the topic of how to discipline 125 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 2: you know, our kids. 126 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 3: Oh, you don't even have kids. 127 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 2: No, we don't have kids now, but in the one 128 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: anniversary world, it's normal to talk about, you know, how 129 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 2: would you discipline kids. 130 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:42,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't see eye to eye on how to 131 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: parent your fake children. 132 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 2: We were disagreeing a lot about that, and she said 133 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 2: something about my mom being overbearing. 134 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 3: Oh, I mean, how much longer did you guys last 135 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 3: after that? 136 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 2: Well, you know, it was hard coming out of like 137 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 2: the overbearing mom thing. It got a little awkward. It 138 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 2: just wasn't a good idea. 139 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 1: All right, man. Well, it sounds like you had a 140 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: couple hiccups on the date. Very tiny ones but we're big. 141 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 1: Every relationship goes through these moments before they find they're like, strip, 142 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 1: isn't it right Brooke. 143 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 3: The first date? 144 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: But on the one year anniversary it makes sense. So 145 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: we're gonna play a song, We're gonna come back. We're 146 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 1: gonna call your girlfriend of one year, Isabella, and we're 147 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: gonna see if we can get her to go out 148 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 1: with you one more time. Okay, the second time? 149 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 2: Hold on. 150 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 1: Second date update. Jose keeps telling me off the air 151 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: that he's gonna steal this date idea I am, even 152 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 1: though the girl clearly isn't calling. 153 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 4: Back after it ended in a total disaster. 154 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 3: But it's so funny left at each other. 155 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: If a girl isn't calling you back, Jose, usually that's 156 00:06:58,400 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: a bad sign, I know. 157 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 2: But it's just like, how much fun could you have 158 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 2: imagining your one year anniversity? 159 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 3: He just wants to be in a relationship so bad. 160 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: But we're talking about one of our listeners, Wayne, who 161 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: just went out on a date with someone named Isabella, 162 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: and on their first date, they pretended that it was 163 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: their one year anniversary, so they set it all up 164 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,559 Speaker 1: with champagne and flowers at a restaurant. But Wayne thinks 165 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: he may have over committed to the character when he 166 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: made some jokey comments about who Isabella can and can't 167 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 1: hang out with and how they are going to parent 168 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 1: their future non existent children someday down the road. It's fake, guys. 169 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 4: I know, Wayne, why did you go with controlling boyfriend 170 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 4: as your persona? 171 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I wasn't really thinking I was 172 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 2: doing controlling boyfriend. I was just thinking, you know, one 173 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 2: year you have these little like. 174 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 4: Telling someone who they can and can't hang out with 175 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 4: is very controlling. 176 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 2: I mean I was just looking out for lanes of 177 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 2: bad influence. Yeah. 178 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 1: That's not a good lie in my life yet it. 179 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 3: Guys, it's funny. 180 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: Didn't your husband buy you a dish rack on your 181 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: one year anniversary? 182 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, but he never tried to tell me who I 183 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 3: couldn't couldn't. 184 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 7: Get in the. 185 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: Kitchen and dishes. They'll get the water all over the 186 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 1: counter hanging out, mister clean. So it can't turn out 187 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: any worse than that, right, Wayne, Let's just call Isabella 188 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 1: and see how this here we Gonabella, Let's do this. Hello, 189 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: Hey is this Isabella? Yes, hey Isabella. My name is 190 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: Jeff from a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in 191 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: the Morning. 192 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 6: Okay, like that, sas, I don't know what it's funny, 193 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 6: really funny. 194 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 3: Isabelle already? 195 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 2: Hi? 196 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: Hi, this is the whole morning show. That's a Brooke. 197 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: You probably know they're social media handle Brook Fox Fox, Yeah, 198 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 1: sure at hilarious everything. Yeah, and then Alexis at Alexis 199 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:15,719 Speaker 1: Fuller sixteen sixteen. Okay, I don't follow you, guys. 200 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:21,199 Speaker 3: We're not calling because of social media. Just see no foll. 201 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 1: We're doing a dating segment on this show asking about 202 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: somebody that you went out with recently named Wayne. 203 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 7: Oh oh. 204 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 1: Was that a good? 205 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 2: Oh? 206 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 1: You want to know, Well, we want to know what 207 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 1: you thought about your date because we've heard a little 208 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 1: bit about it from Wayne, but we'd like to get 209 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: your perspective on it. Was it was it producer dancing 210 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 1: at a corner? 211 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 7: I mean, I think it was a really clever idea 212 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:54,559 Speaker 7: of mine. 213 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Tod do the one year anniversary thing? 214 00:09:58,200 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, we love that. 215 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 1: Can you tell Brooke what an amazing idea? That day 216 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: was so fun? It sounds like she doesn't believe that 217 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 1: people can have fun doing that. 218 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 3: I'm not saying it didn't sound fun. It just you know, 219 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 3: I don't know. It depends on what you think, Like 220 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 3: did you think it was fun? 221 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 7: I mean it started out pretty fun because like it 222 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 7: was billy and just like, yeah, we already know each other. 223 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 7: We've known each other for a year or whatever. But 224 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 7: then like I don't know, we're talking about our family 225 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 7: and there was like this weird moment where I made 226 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 7: this joke about his mom being overbearing and. 227 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 4: Stuff like that, which is a pretty stereotypical mother in 228 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 4: law joke. 229 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 7: Like absolutely, but his response to that was like, are 230 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 7: you sure you want to eat that pasta? Like I 231 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 7: want you to live alone and help you life, and 232 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 7: I don't know if that could be something that's a 233 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:52,959 Speaker 7: part of your diet. 234 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 4: He already told me about the friend thing too, Like 235 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 4: why is he doing or. 236 00:10:57,559 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 1: Does he have kind of a point if he wants 237 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 1: you to live long? And I mean, if he really 238 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:04,559 Speaker 1: cared about. 239 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 3: You, that is red. 240 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:10,719 Speaker 5: Then he like he like brought up this person I 241 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 5: can't even remember her name, but like he brought up 242 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 5: this person because it's made up or whatever. But he 243 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 5: was like, I don't want you seeing her anymore. He's 244 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 5: bad influence. 245 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,679 Speaker 7: For you, and blah blah, blah and like, yeah, it 246 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:23,680 Speaker 7: was made up, but like kind of a red flag 247 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 7: for me. 248 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 4: I would have alarm bells going off left and right, 249 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 4: like yeas. 250 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:32,959 Speaker 1: Of like, wait, you made a joke about his mom 251 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: being overbearing. 252 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 3: But it's like a stereotypical joke. 253 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: Oh why is that okay? 254 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 3: Because it's not talking about who he is as a person. 255 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 1: She's not talking about who she is as a person. 256 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 2: Can I just say something? It wasn't a real person. 257 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: Okay, Uh, sorry, that's Wayne Isabella. He just jumped in 258 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: the conversation was made up. 259 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 2: Person, Isabella. We were we were in together for one 260 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 2: year anniversary. I don't know what when you talking about 261 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 2: my mom and even though she is very overbearing, you 262 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 2: don't know her on the head. 263 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 7: Huh, you're not listening like you're saying about the mom. 264 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 6: And then you completely change around onto me and something 265 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:17,199 Speaker 6: about me as a person, and it's like that didn't 266 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 6: really hit well, you know, we weren't We were joking 267 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 6: about our family, and then suddenly you started telling me 268 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 6: that I shouldn't et costa Like. 269 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 1: Yeh, family joking is okay, but talking about food that 270 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: crosses the line. 271 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 3: What they can or can't eat, can can't hang out. 272 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 1: With safety and health and. 273 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 4: Well she's not child, you're not her dad, Like get 274 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 4: out of here, And why do you think boyfriends act 275 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:45,439 Speaker 4: that way? 276 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:48,199 Speaker 3: Like if you're just even if you're just pretending. 277 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 7: And like pasta isn't even bad for you? 278 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 1: Like what are you? 279 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 6: What are you doing? 280 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 7: You're basically just feeding into the stereotype that carbs make 281 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 7: you fat, and I'm fat, Like. 282 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 2: I didn't need it like that. I was coming from 283 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 2: the health perspective and daring about you wanting to have 284 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 2: a help long Box's life together. 285 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 3: No, I mean it'd be one thing if you said 286 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 3: don't smoke, you know. 287 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: Sure what's wrong with smoking my cigarettes? You're telling me 288 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: what I can and can't do you get her yet? 289 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 2: I mean if it wasn't positive, there wouldn't be the 290 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 2: freak out. 291 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 1: I mean it seems it seems like a bit freak 292 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 1: out over one thing. Is that all that it was? 293 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: He made a bad joke about what she can and 294 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: can eat in a fake scenario. 295 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 7: A lot of the it was a lot of them 296 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 7: making optic stuff, which you know, like there was one 297 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 7: where he was talking about like our kids and disciplining 298 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 7: our kids and I was like, Okay, if we're just 299 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 7: dating on a one year anniversary, that's not something that 300 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:53,679 Speaker 7: you usually talk. 301 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 5: About, is disciplining your children? 302 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 7: If you haven't even talked about wanting to have kids yet? 303 00:13:57,880 --> 00:13:59,559 Speaker 2: And I was like, all right, I don't get it. 304 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 2: What are you talking about? We already talked about having 305 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 2: kids at our six months march. 306 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 1: You forgot that conversation, Isabella. 307 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 7: God, that conversation maybe happened with another girl. 308 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know a lot hotter situation than this. He's 309 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 3: not very funny. Way, come on, man, it's like foreshadowing. 310 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 3: Just a crappy relationship, is what you were doing? 311 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 2: Like, Brook, she's just against me the whole time. 312 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: You've emailed us for help. Remember that, Brook, This date 313 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 1: idea was all her idea to pretend to be like 314 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 1: a couple a year into a relationship. 315 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 3: Couple, that's fun, But you pretend European vacation you have. 316 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 1: Now he has to pay for a big euro trip. 317 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: She's a bad boyfriend. 318 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 3: Oh, she's obviously going to split the cost, Jeffrey. They're 319 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 3: only been together for one year. Okay, she's an independent 320 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 3: working woman, give her a break. 321 00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 1: Is that true? Isabella? 322 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 7: In the I would absolutely pay my own way, but 323 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 7: like I would appreciate if he offered. 324 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 3: Conversation. 325 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, would you like to go to Europe with me? 326 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 2: I'll pay for it? 327 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 7: Yeah, absolutely, way better? 328 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 2: Yeah it. 329 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 1: Oh wow, the kids behind well, come on, guys. Literally, 330 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 1: I think he tried to take a bad angle as 331 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: a joke and it didn't work. 332 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 3: But I think she was her gut. 333 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 1: You guys are still laughing right now. You have chemistry. Yeah, 334 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: Like we can all tell when a joke is a 335 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: joke and when it's not a joke. And I'm not 336 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 1: joking right now. When I say I want to pay 337 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 1: for a second date for both of you, and I 338 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: will pay for it, yes, pre Europe, pre Europe. Yes, 339 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 1: just a regular first date and we can pretend that 340 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 1: you guys haven't been dating for a long time anymore, 341 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 1: a real second date. 342 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 7: I would be okay with a real second date and 343 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 7: just see what he's really like in the present moment 344 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 7: instead of thinking what the future should be. 345 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 4: My god, I can't believe, Oh my god, I can't 346 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 4: believe you said, Wayne, Are you still You're still up 347 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 4: for this? 348 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? Of course she won't regret it at all. 349 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:26,239 Speaker 3: Okay, just no more hypotheticals on your guys. 350 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 1: Dates should not joke at all. Look what happens. True 351 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 1: love prevails even when Brooke tries to actively check. 352 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 353 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: I just wish that some of my co hosts could 354 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: be more laid back and chill. Mister smooth, get to 355 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 1: I get. 356 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 3: Too worked up. 357 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 4: I know I shouldn't care as much as I do. 358 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 4: I don't know why it lets me. 359 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 1: That's the problem. I care what you really cared about 360 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 1: it when you were laying into him for his date, 361 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: I cared about her. 362 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 3: I think those are too many red flags. 363 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 364 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:04,439 Speaker 1: I think Jose summed it up pretty well though when 365 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: he said the guy made a couple of mistakes on 366 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:08,160 Speaker 1: the date, but overall it was a fun idea. 367 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:12,639 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, and then he showed his true colors and 368 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 4: then that's why she should have run. 369 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 3: But whatever. 370 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:17,399 Speaker 1: Really, you know, I'm happy that they're going out of me. 371 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:22,679 Speaker 1: Jeff Yeah, yeah, I think we got to give them 372 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:26,160 Speaker 1: a break. They were fake people, setting up fake scenarios, 373 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 1: a fake problem making Joe. None of it was real. 374 00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:31,920 Speaker 1: They don't actually have these problems between them. 375 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 3: Yea. 376 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:34,679 Speaker 1: They will fake and when they do, they can come 377 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 1: back and we'll do an awkward Tuesday. But in the meantime, 378 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 1: if you ever need help getting a second day, you 379 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:42,919 Speaker 1: can always email the show. We'll call the person who 380 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 1: isn't calling you back and then judge you all the 381 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 1: way till that's right.