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Speaker 1: Jebels second dat day, Today's second dater met the girl
Speaker 1: he went out with where I've met almost every single
Speaker 1: girl I've ever dated, Christian Mingle dot com member of
Speaker 1: that site since it started. You know, I just love
Speaker 1: it so much. That's where Nathan apparently met the girl
Speaker 1: he wants us to call today. Nathan, what's up? Power?
Speaker 1: Are you man? Good? Good? I love your show, guys,
Speaker 1: thank you appreciate it. So tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: about meeting the girl you want us to call today.
Speaker 1: What's her name? Mia? Mia? Okay, so you met her
Speaker 1: on this website. Yeah, I did the normal thing where
Speaker 1: both expressed into a message stir through the website, and
Speaker 1: from there it was awesome on for a little bit
Speaker 1: and then for about a month straight we were hit
Speaker 1: and probably almost every other night, sometimes there'll be three
Speaker 1: or four days to go by, but it started progressing
Speaker 1: from there. So you guys talked a lot before you
Speaker 1: actually met in person. That's the thing. We actually haven't
Speaker 1: met in person yet. Yeah, update kind of. Nathan's one
Speaker 1: of those guys that date never actually happened. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: walking to the date and I get a phone call
Speaker 1: from her and she tells me that she's got an
Speaker 1: emergency and that she's going to have to cancel. She's
Speaker 1: flying to California. You were actually at the place that
Speaker 1: you're going to meet her, and she called you and
Speaker 1: said that she was flying to California. I mean I
Speaker 1: would literally pulling into the restaurant practically. Oh man, you
Speaker 1: didn't happen to notice if she was like in the
Speaker 1: restaurant or like in the vicinity of you when she
Speaker 1: called you right, like maybe she was waiting for you
Speaker 1: and then saw you and didn't like your outfit and
Speaker 1: was like, oh no, thank you. You didn't see her anywhere? Well, look,
Speaker 1: I've been to meet someone before that I didn't like,
Speaker 1: and then I just took off when I saw him,
Speaker 1: like the ultimate jerk. You wouldn't spend months talking to us,
Speaker 1: So you didn't see her around you, did you? No?
Speaker 1: And that's part of the other thing about this that's
Speaker 1: crazy enough. She didn't even have a profile pict so
Speaker 1: I've never seen a picture of her. Never You've never
Speaker 1: seen a picture of this girl. No, I couldn't tell
Speaker 1: you what she looks like. And I had asked and
Speaker 1: she said, I'd rather toolp a relationship. Yeah, how do
Speaker 1: you start talking to someone on a dating website that
Speaker 1: doesn't have a profile picture. I know that they're out there.
Speaker 1: They usually have like a silhouette or somebody that hasn't
Speaker 1: uploaded it or whatever. But why would you I don't know.
Speaker 1: I would not talk to somebody on a dating website
Speaker 1: they didn't have a profile picture. In all honesty, at
Speaker 1: that point that day, I just was going around and
Speaker 1: looking for people online, and it's somewhat near the area,
Speaker 1: and I just sent a message saying, hey, how's it going?
Speaker 1: Just casting a wide neck. Yeah, I'll be honest with
Speaker 1: you that they didn't have anything to do. I was
Speaker 1: on the site. Figured i'd strake up a conversation. So
Speaker 1: you went to go meet her, and she called you
Speaker 1: right before and said that something came up and she
Speaker 1: had an emergency. Do you believe her? Do you think
Speaker 1: she was lying to you? Well? I was lived at
Speaker 1: first and pissed, but the conversation actually went on. She
Speaker 1: wanted to talk to me while she was waiting for
Speaker 1: her flight. Okay, it made me believe her and I
Speaker 1: sort of tried to ask her what was going on?
Speaker 1: Is there anything I could do? Will eat any help? Nathan,
Speaker 1: Let's face it, there's no way she's lying to you
Speaker 1: because you met her on a Christian website. Don't lie.
Speaker 1: You know that she's telling the truth. But you actually
Speaker 1: stayed on the phone and chatted with her while she
Speaker 1: was waiting for her plan to leave. Yeah, okay, and
Speaker 1: you do you think that maybe you're getting catfish like
Speaker 1: she's just not who she says she is. I mean,
Speaker 1: I want to believe in the best, but I've texted
Speaker 1: her a few times done and I haven't gotten messages back.
Speaker 1: So nothing that point. There's a large portion of me
Speaker 1: that's thinking, what Dad's name is going on. I don't
Speaker 1: know if it's a kid, a boyfriend, there, a husband.
Speaker 1: I don't know how long she's in California for. I
Speaker 1: just don't know what's going on at all. And how
Speaker 1: long ago has it been since you about five days?
Speaker 1: It's been about five days since you actually spoke to her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: still an emergency, you don't think she might need a
Speaker 1: little more time with whatever it is? I mean, in hindsight,
Speaker 1: probably that mighty jumped the gun a little bit. But
Speaker 1: at this point, I don't understand the miss text messages,
Speaker 1: and you've got to be emotionally invested. I mean a
Speaker 1: lot of people would consider this a relationship even though
Speaker 1: you haven't even met yet. For sure. All right, man,
Speaker 1: well we'll play a song, come back, call her, see
Speaker 1: if we can get her on the phone and get
Speaker 1: your second day update. Okay, that's good looking, cubile in
Speaker 1: the morning, Seates. I'm gonna be honest, I really don't
Speaker 1: care if Nathan, who was on the phone for a
Speaker 1: second date update, gets a second date out of this.
Speaker 1: I just want to know two things about the girl
Speaker 1: that he was supposed to meet up with on his date.
Speaker 1: One what does she look like? And two? Why did
Speaker 1: she have to go to California an emergency? Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: all I really want to know. Yeah, I want to
Speaker 1: know why she had to bail on him before their
Speaker 1: date even started. If you're just tuning into the second
Speaker 1: day update, Nathan is on the phone. He wants to
Speaker 1: call Mia. They met on a Christian dating website. Interesting note,
Speaker 1: she didn't have a profile picture. He was just chatting
Speaker 1: up people that day, and he has no idea what
Speaker 1: she looks like. Anyway, they were supposed to meet for dinner,
Speaker 1: and when he was walking up to the restaurant, she
Speaker 1: called said she had an emergency in California and had
Speaker 1: to go. So we haven't heard from her since, and
Speaker 1: he's wondering why she hasn't been calling him back. Now,
Speaker 1: you do believe her that she had some sort of
Speaker 1: an emergency in California. I don't know. I do believe her,
Speaker 1: But this part of me that is just like, why
Speaker 1: he hasn't she reached back out yet? I don't understand it.
Speaker 1: Why do you have so much trust in this person
Speaker 1: that you've never seen in those of the conversations, they
Speaker 1: were in depth. I mean, who knows, maybe she's really good,
Speaker 1: but it was consistent and it was just the interests
Speaker 1: and the stories. I mean, these aren't like five minute
Speaker 1: chats or anything like that. We really got in depth. Okay, cool, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial the phone of her right now, see
Speaker 1: if she picks up the phone, and maybe we can
Speaker 1: find out what happened in California or I mean, if
Speaker 1: you want a second date two, I guess we can
Speaker 1: do that do you want a second date with her?
Speaker 1: Let's hear what the explanation is. So you're just like us.
Speaker 1: You just want to know what went on in California
Speaker 1: that you had to call in on your date. All right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna doubt number right now. All right? Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Mia please? This is she Hey Mia,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. From where Brooke and Jewil in the Morning,
Speaker 1: the radio show. I'm on the radio, Yes you are.
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm fine. I'm calling you because we
Speaker 1: received an email about you from one of our listeners. Okay,
Speaker 1: his name is Nathan. And Nathan emailed us because he
Speaker 1: was supposed to go out on a date with you
Speaker 1: and then and you ended up having an emergency that
Speaker 1: you had to go to in California. Since that day,
Speaker 1: Nathan has been wondering why you're not answering his text messages,
Speaker 1: so he emailed us to call you and ask why. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is this is weird. I know it is. But
Speaker 1: Nathan wants to know if you don't like him, if
Speaker 1: you don't want to see him, something like, if you
Speaker 1: if you don't want to see him just tell us,
Speaker 1: We'll tell Nathan and he won't bug you anymore. But
Speaker 1: other than that, he's wondering if you still want to
Speaker 1: go out with him. So is there anything that we
Speaker 1: can tell Nathan from you? Just tell him I'll call
Speaker 1: him and sorry, I've been I've been busy. So you
Speaker 1: do want to see Nathan again, I'm just I'm really
Speaker 1: busy right now. So I just don't know when. Okay,
Speaker 1: I just don't know when. Well, I appreciate you talking
Speaker 1: to us for a few minutes. We won't take much
Speaker 1: more of your time, but I just have to know
Speaker 1: do you want to see Nathan again, because it sounds
Speaker 1: like you don't the way you said that. If you don't,
Speaker 1: I'll let him down easy for you. I just look,
Speaker 1: I'm doing two stuff in my personal life that I
Speaker 1: just need to I can't. I don't want him to
Speaker 1: be involved in. Okay, So, your your emergency was legit.
Speaker 1: When you called him at the restaurant and said that
Speaker 1: you had an emergency, I was speculating that you were lying.
Speaker 1: I'm in California, you are, So why did you fly
Speaker 1: so last minute? Though? Look, I'm a little embarrassed about it.
Speaker 1: It was for a job. I don't. I don't want
Speaker 1: Nathan to judge me for it. You're embarrassed about the
Speaker 1: work that you do. Ah, promise you won't tell him this, sure,
Speaker 1: I mean, I'll look, I'll tell him. I will tell
Speaker 1: him that you want to see him again, but I
Speaker 1: won't tell him any other details if they're really embarrassing.
Speaker 1: So I'm doing a photoshoot for Playboy. What? Oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's right, they started doing that again. I forgot. You're
Speaker 1: in a Christian mingles site and you're just because I
Speaker 1: appreciate my body does not mean I am not a
Speaker 1: good Christian. I'm just in the body God gave me. Okay,
Speaker 1: So you're doing a photo shoot for Playboy? Yeah? Are
Speaker 1: you serious? Yes, it's a job. Okay, that's I'll tell
Speaker 1: you why that confuses me because he told us about
Speaker 1: how he met you, and he said on your dating
Speaker 1: profile you didn't even have a profile picture. Normally people
Speaker 1: that would pose for Playboy would have a lot of
Speaker 1: pictures on their dating profile. Okay, but also people who
Speaker 1: posed for Playboy tend to be treated differently because of
Speaker 1: the way they look like. I want the amath him
Speaker 1: to get to know me for me you know, for
Speaker 1: my brain and my personality and not my you know,
Speaker 1: And you talked to him a bunch. Yeah, you never
Speaker 1: brought up what you did for a living. I didn't
Speaker 1: want him to think I was some hussy or not
Speaker 1: a good Christian or whatever, because I am. I have
Speaker 1: a really good relationship with God and I just happened
Speaker 1: to do it for a living. When were you going
Speaker 1: to drop this news on him? Well? I wanted to
Speaker 1: get to know him, and I wanted him to get
Speaker 1: to know me, and I wanted to build a solid
Speaker 1: foundation so that he knows where I'm coming from, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. It's not like because there's so
Speaker 1: many stereotypes, and I hate that there's so many stereotypes
Speaker 1: of women that close nude and models and and just
Speaker 1: you know, there's so much wrapped up in it, and
Speaker 1: not everybody is the attention seeking hussy that they're putting
Speaker 1: you know right like that, you got a great body.
Speaker 1: God has gifted you with wonderful looks. You might as
Speaker 1: well use them to your advantage and make a little dough.
Speaker 1: I don't right, that's exactly right. And you you said
Speaker 1: that you want to get to know him on another level.
Speaker 1: Before you go into all that. Right, right, that's perfect
Speaker 1: because you sort of just did that. What do you mean,
Speaker 1: Nathan is actually on the other line and heard exactly
Speaker 1: what you just said. Yeah, promise you've already been this far.
Speaker 1: You might as well say hi to Nathan. Yes, someone
Speaker 1: sounds excited up. I'm sorry. I didn't want you to
Speaker 1: find out this way, but I don't even know what
Speaker 1: to think anymore. I mean, of all the reasons you
Speaker 1: durned to California, this wasn't even anywhere near the list. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sure I don't. I don't know that I hate it.
Speaker 1: I don't know that. I know I don't like it.
Speaker 1: But the people in my life, I don't know how
Speaker 1: they would react if if we went down this road
Speaker 1: and you weren't Playboy. Yeah. I don't want to be
Speaker 1: the person who judges you. I sort of understand where
Speaker 1: you're coming from. I mean, believe me, it's not like
Speaker 1: I haven't seen the Playboy before. And but I don't
Speaker 1: know what's the thing you bad boy, Nathan. It doesn't
Speaker 1: make me a bad person. It doesn't make me a
Speaker 1: bad Christian. I really I actually love what I do,
Speaker 1: and I think God made me for this, Nathan, are
Speaker 1: you saying that you don't want to see Mia because
Speaker 1: she poses for the type of magazines. I mean, I
Speaker 1: definitely like to see her, and it was why I
Speaker 1: was worried. Guys treat me differently when they see me
Speaker 1: in person, you know, and like I don't want to
Speaker 1: be treated Yeah, you want to be treated like every
Speaker 1: other go out there, I understand, But unfortunately for you,
Speaker 1: you're not. Nathan, So are you worried that it's the
Speaker 1: people in your life that are gonna judge you if
Speaker 1: you were to go out with me? And now I
Speaker 1: guess I am now that I'm thinking about it. If
Speaker 1: we do end up going out, I guess I'm worried
Speaker 1: about what other people would think. On the other hand,
Speaker 1: we had an amazing connection and I am a gosh man.
Speaker 1: I definitely would like to see her and meet her. Okay,
Speaker 1: I will say I know that my husband would have
Speaker 1: a problem if I was taking pictures naked for other
Speaker 1: men to look at. I mean, he would period. But
Speaker 1: it's a job, you know. It's like it's like being
Speaker 1: an actor and having to kiss somebody else. It's not
Speaker 1: It's not like I mean, that's it's my body. But
Speaker 1: my body in this case is just you know, it's
Speaker 1: it's like an accessory. And Nathan, if you like me,
Speaker 1: who cares what anybody else thinks? Really, you guys had
Speaker 1: a lot of good conversations and stuff like that. If
Speaker 1: she was a porn star and you really loved her,
Speaker 1: then who cares what your parents think or your friends
Speaker 1: that one might I'm just saying, I love conquers, all right? Yeah,
Speaker 1: So would you go out? Okay? Mia? Would you go
Speaker 1: out with Nathan again? We'll pay for a second date please.
Speaker 1: You guys didn't even really go out in the first time.
Speaker 1: So would you go out with Nathan? Officially? I mean,
Speaker 1: if he doesn't think of a bad Christian? Okay, Nathan,
Speaker 1: are you going to be an idiot and pass up
Speaker 1: a date with a playboy model? I will pay for it? Um, Mia,
Speaker 1: How long are you even going to be in telephone
Speaker 1: is war? Honestly, I don't know. Um. This is kind
Speaker 1: of a big job opportunity for me, and I really
Speaker 1: want to not blow it. At the end of the day,
Speaker 1: we had an unbelievable connection and I had, at the
Speaker 1: very least like the meter in person and see if
Speaker 1: the chemistry is there. In person as well. Sweet awesome,
Speaker 1: You guys can talk about it more in depth in person.
Speaker 1: That's some And Mia just another question? What issues are
Speaker 1: you in? It's show research in the morning. Everybody texting
Speaker 1: in at seven, eight, five to nine two wants a
Speaker 1: date with Mia from today's Yes they do, It's Broken
Speaker 1: Jewel in the morning and if you missed today's second
Speaker 1: date update, Nathan wanted to call Mia. They actually met
Speaker 1: on a Christian dating website and he didn't even see
Speaker 1: her picture before they met, and I guess she was
Speaker 1: stunning anyway. The reason she wasn't really getting back to
Speaker 1: him was because she was gone in La taking some
Speaker 1: photos Playboy, because they're doing photos again. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: they stopped doing like photoshoots for a while, but now
Speaker 1: they're doing doing them again. They're doing the classy ones.
Speaker 1: They're not doing the nude ones anymore. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: still like a little racy, right, But you can celebrate
Speaker 1: the body God gave you a Christian. I don't see
Speaker 1: why not. Yeah I don't. I don't see why not either.
Speaker 1: But Nathan was bothered by it though. Yeah, well I've
Speaker 1: also never been considered a good Christian, so yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know if I have the right opinion. Can you imagine, though,
Speaker 1: not seeing a girl like she could be anything and
Speaker 1: she's a playboy model like this guy. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's pretty lucky, But at the same time, he didn't
Speaker 1: because he's like worally like. It's like, I will barely
Speaker 1: even go look at an apartment if it doesn't have
Speaker 1: a photo of let alone go on a date with somebody.
Speaker 1: I know it's either going to be amazing or a
Speaker 1: rat infested mess. Seriously, remember, if you want to do
Speaker 1: a second date update, all you have to do is
Speaker 1: email the show and we will call the person who
Speaker 1: didn't call you back.