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<v Speaker 1>Jebels second dat day, Today's second dater met the girl

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<v Speaker 1>he went out with where I've met almost every single

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<v Speaker 1>girl I've ever dated, Christian Mingle dot com member of

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<v Speaker 1>that site since it started. You know, I just love

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<v Speaker 1>it so much. That's where Nathan apparently met the girl

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<v Speaker 1>he wants us to call today. Nathan, what's up? Power?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you man? Good? Good? I love your show, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you appreciate it. So tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about meeting the girl you want us to call today.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Mia? Mia? Okay, so you met her

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<v Speaker 1>on this website. Yeah, I did the normal thing where

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<v Speaker 1>both expressed into a message stir through the website, and

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<v Speaker 1>from there it was awesome on for a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>and then for about a month straight we were hit

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<v Speaker 1>and probably almost every other night, sometimes there'll be three

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<v Speaker 1>or four days to go by, but it started progressing

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<v Speaker 1>from there. So you guys talked a lot before you

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<v Speaker 1>actually met in person. That's the thing. We actually haven't

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<v Speaker 1>met in person yet. Yeah, update kind of. Nathan's one

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<v Speaker 1>of those guys that date never actually happened. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>walking to the date and I get a phone call

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<v Speaker 1>from her and she tells me that she's got an

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<v Speaker 1>emergency and that she's going to have to cancel. She's

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<v Speaker 1>flying to California. You were actually at the place that

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to meet her, and she called you and

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<v Speaker 1>said that she was flying to California. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>would literally pulling into the restaurant practically. Oh man, you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't happen to notice if she was like in the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant or like in the vicinity of you when she

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<v Speaker 1>called you right, like maybe she was waiting for you

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<v Speaker 1>and then saw you and didn't like your outfit and

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh no, thank you. You didn't see her anywhere? Well, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been to meet someone before that I didn't like,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I just took off when I saw him,

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<v Speaker 1>like the ultimate jerk. You wouldn't spend months talking to us,

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't see her around you, did you? No?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's part of the other thing about this that's

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<v Speaker 1>crazy enough. She didn't even have a profile pict so

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<v Speaker 1>I've never seen a picture of her. Never You've never

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<v Speaker 1>seen a picture of this girl. No, I couldn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what she looks like. And I had asked and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, I'd rather toolp a relationship. Yeah, how do

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<v Speaker 1>you start talking to someone on a dating website that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have a profile picture. I know that they're out there.

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<v Speaker 1>They usually have like a silhouette or somebody that hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>uploaded it or whatever. But why would you I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I would not talk to somebody on a dating website

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't have a profile picture. In all honesty, at

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<v Speaker 1>that point that day, I just was going around and

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<v Speaker 1>looking for people online, and it's somewhat near the area,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just sent a message saying, hey, how's it going?

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<v Speaker 1>Just casting a wide neck. Yeah, I'll be honest with

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<v Speaker 1>you that they didn't have anything to do. I was

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<v Speaker 1>on the site. Figured i'd strake up a conversation. So

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<v Speaker 1>you went to go meet her, and she called you

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<v Speaker 1>right before and said that something came up and she

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<v Speaker 1>had an emergency. Do you believe her? Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>she was lying to you? Well? I was lived at

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<v Speaker 1>first and pissed, but the conversation actually went on. She

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk to me while she was waiting for

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<v Speaker 1>her flight. Okay, it made me believe her and I

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<v Speaker 1>sort of tried to ask her what was going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything I could do? Will eat any help? Nathan,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's face it, there's no way she's lying to you

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<v Speaker 1>because you met her on a Christian website. Don't lie.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that she's telling the truth. But you actually

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<v Speaker 1>stayed on the phone and chatted with her while she

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<v Speaker 1>was waiting for her plan to leave. Yeah, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>you do you think that maybe you're getting catfish like

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<v Speaker 1>she's just not who she says she is. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to believe in the best, but I've texted

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<v Speaker 1>her a few times done and I haven't gotten messages back.

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<v Speaker 1>So nothing that point. There's a large portion of me

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<v Speaker 1>that's thinking, what Dad's name is going on. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if it's a kid, a boyfriend, there, a husband.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how long she's in California for. I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't know what's going on at all. And how

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<v Speaker 1>long ago has it been since you about five days?

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<v Speaker 1>It's been about five days since you actually spoke to her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>still an emergency, you don't think she might need a

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<v Speaker 1>little more time with whatever it is? I mean, in hindsight,

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<v Speaker 1>probably that mighty jumped the gun a little bit. But

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, I don't understand the miss text messages,

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<v Speaker 1>and you've got to be emotionally invested. I mean a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people would consider this a relationship even though

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't even met yet. For sure. All right, man,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll play a song, come back, call her, see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can get her on the phone and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second day update. Okay, that's good looking, cubile in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, Seates. I'm gonna be honest, I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>care if Nathan, who was on the phone for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, gets a second date out of this.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to know two things about the girl

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<v Speaker 1>that he was supposed to meet up with on his date.

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<v Speaker 1>One what does she look like? And two? Why did

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<v Speaker 1>she have to go to California an emergency? Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>all I really want to know. Yeah, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>know why she had to bail on him before their

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<v Speaker 1>date even started. If you're just tuning into the second

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<v Speaker 1>day update, Nathan is on the phone. He wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call Mia. They met on a Christian dating website. Interesting note,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't have a profile picture. He was just chatting

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<v Speaker 1>up people that day, and he has no idea what

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<v Speaker 1>she looks like. Anyway, they were supposed to meet for dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>and when he was walking up to the restaurant, she

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<v Speaker 1>called said she had an emergency in California and had

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<v Speaker 1>to go. So we haven't heard from her since, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's wondering why she hasn't been calling him back. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>you do believe her that she had some sort of

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<v Speaker 1>an emergency in California. I don't know. I do believe her,

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<v Speaker 1>But this part of me that is just like, why

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't she reached back out yet? I don't understand it.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you have so much trust in this person

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<v Speaker 1>that you've never seen in those of the conversations, they

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<v Speaker 1>were in depth. I mean, who knows, maybe she's really good,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was consistent and it was just the interests

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<v Speaker 1>and the stories. I mean, these aren't like five minute

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<v Speaker 1>chats or anything like that. We really got in depth. Okay, cool, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial the phone of her right now, see

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<v Speaker 1>if she picks up the phone, and maybe we can

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<v Speaker 1>find out what happened in California or I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want a second date two, I guess we can

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<v Speaker 1>do that do you want a second date with her?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's hear what the explanation is. So you're just like us.

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<v Speaker 1>You just want to know what went on in California

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<v Speaker 1>that you had to call in on your date. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna doubt number right now. All right? Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Mia please? This is she Hey Mia,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. From where Brooke and Jewil in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show. I'm on the radio, Yes you are.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? I'm fine. I'm calling you because we

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<v Speaker 1>received an email about you from one of our listeners. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Nathan. And Nathan emailed us because he

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<v Speaker 1>was supposed to go out on a date with you

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<v Speaker 1>and then and you ended up having an emergency that

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<v Speaker 1>you had to go to in California. Since that day,

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<v Speaker 1>Nathan has been wondering why you're not answering his text messages,

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<v Speaker 1>so he emailed us to call you and ask why. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is this is weird. I know it is. But

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<v Speaker 1>Nathan wants to know if you don't like him, if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to see him, something like, if you

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't want to see him just tell us,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll tell Nathan and he won't bug you anymore. But

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<v Speaker 1>other than that, he's wondering if you still want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him. So is there anything that we

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<v Speaker 1>can tell Nathan from you? Just tell him I'll call

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<v Speaker 1>him and sorry, I've been I've been busy. So you

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<v Speaker 1>do want to see Nathan again, I'm just I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>busy right now. So I just don't know when. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't know when. Well, I appreciate you talking

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<v Speaker 1>to us for a few minutes. We won't take much

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<v Speaker 1>more of your time, but I just have to know

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to see Nathan again, because it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you don't the way you said that. If you don't,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll let him down easy for you. I just look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing two stuff in my personal life that I

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<v Speaker 1>just need to I can't. I don't want him to

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<v Speaker 1>be involved in. Okay, So, your your emergency was legit.

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<v Speaker 1>When you called him at the restaurant and said that

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<v Speaker 1>you had an emergency, I was speculating that you were lying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in California, you are, So why did you fly

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<v Speaker 1>so last minute? Though? Look, I'm a little embarrassed about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was for a job. I don't. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>Nathan to judge me for it. You're embarrassed about the

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<v Speaker 1>work that you do. Ah, promise you won't tell him this, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'll look, I'll tell him. I will tell

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<v Speaker 1>him that you want to see him again, but I

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<v Speaker 1>won't tell him any other details if they're really embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm doing a photoshoot for Playboy. What? Oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right, they started doing that again. I forgot. You're

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<v Speaker 1>in a Christian mingles site and you're just because I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate my body does not mean I am not a

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<v Speaker 1>good Christian. I'm just in the body God gave me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you're doing a photo shoot for Playboy? Yeah? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you serious? Yes, it's a job. Okay, that's I'll tell

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<v Speaker 1>you why that confuses me because he told us about

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<v Speaker 1>how he met you, and he said on your dating

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<v Speaker 1>profile you didn't even have a profile picture. Normally people

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<v Speaker 1>that would pose for Playboy would have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>pictures on their dating profile. Okay, but also people who

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<v Speaker 1>posed for Playboy tend to be treated differently because of

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<v Speaker 1>the way they look like. I want the amath him

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<v Speaker 1>to get to know me for me you know, for

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<v Speaker 1>my brain and my personality and not my you know,

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<v Speaker 1>And you talked to him a bunch. Yeah, you never

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<v Speaker 1>brought up what you did for a living. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want him to think I was some hussy or not

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<v Speaker 1>a good Christian or whatever, because I am. I have

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<v Speaker 1>a really good relationship with God and I just happened

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<v Speaker 1>to do it for a living. When were you going

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<v Speaker 1>to drop this news on him? Well? I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>get to know him, and I wanted him to get

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<v Speaker 1>to know me, and I wanted to build a solid

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<v Speaker 1>foundation so that he knows where I'm coming from, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. It's not like because there's so

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<v Speaker 1>many stereotypes, and I hate that there's so many stereotypes

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<v Speaker 1>of women that close nude and models and and just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's so much wrapped up in it, and

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<v Speaker 1>not everybody is the attention seeking hussy that they're putting

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<v Speaker 1>you know right like that, you got a great body.

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<v Speaker 1>God has gifted you with wonderful looks. You might as

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<v Speaker 1>well use them to your advantage and make a little dough.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't right, that's exactly right. And you you said

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<v Speaker 1>that you want to get to know him on another level.

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<v Speaker 1>Before you go into all that. Right, right, that's perfect

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<v Speaker 1>because you sort of just did that. What do you mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Nathan is actually on the other line and heard exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what you just said. Yeah, promise you've already been this far.

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<v Speaker 1>You might as well say hi to Nathan. Yes, someone

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<v Speaker 1>sounds excited up. I'm sorry. I didn't want you to

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<v Speaker 1>find out this way, but I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 1>to think anymore. I mean, of all the reasons you

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<v Speaker 1>durned to California, this wasn't even anywhere near the list. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure I don't. I don't know that I hate it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that. I know I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>But the people in my life, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>they would react if if we went down this road

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<v Speaker 1>and you weren't Playboy. Yeah. I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>the person who judges you. I sort of understand where

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<v Speaker 1>you're coming from. I mean, believe me, it's not like

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen the Playboy before. And but I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what's the thing you bad boy, Nathan. It doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>make me a bad person. It doesn't make me a

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<v Speaker 1>bad Christian. I really I actually love what I do,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think God made me for this, Nathan, are

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<v Speaker 1>you saying that you don't want to see Mia because

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<v Speaker 1>she poses for the type of magazines. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely like to see her, and it was why I

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<v Speaker 1>was worried. Guys treat me differently when they see me

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<v Speaker 1>in person, you know, and like I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be treated Yeah, you want to be treated like every

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<v Speaker 1>other go out there, I understand, But unfortunately for you,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not. Nathan, So are you worried that it's the

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<v Speaker 1>people in your life that are gonna judge you if

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<v Speaker 1>you were to go out with me? And now I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I am now that I'm thinking about it. If

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<v Speaker 1>we do end up going out, I guess I'm worried

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<v Speaker 1>about what other people would think. On the other hand,

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<v Speaker 1>we had an amazing connection and I am a gosh man.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely would like to see her and meet her. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say I know that my husband would have

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<v Speaker 1>a problem if I was taking pictures naked for other

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<v Speaker 1>men to look at. I mean, he would period. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's a job, you know. It's like it's like being

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<v Speaker 1>an actor and having to kiss somebody else. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like I mean, that's it's my body. But

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<v Speaker 1>my body in this case is just you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's like an accessory. And Nathan, if you like me,

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<v Speaker 1>who cares what anybody else thinks? Really, you guys had

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of good conversations and stuff like that. If

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<v Speaker 1>she was a porn star and you really loved her,

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<v Speaker 1>then who cares what your parents think or your friends

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<v Speaker 1>that one might I'm just saying, I love conquers, all right? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So would you go out? Okay? Mia? Would you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Nathan again? We'll pay for a second date please.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys didn't even really go out in the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>So would you go out with Nathan? Officially? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if he doesn't think of a bad Christian? Okay, Nathan,

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<v Speaker 1>are you going to be an idiot and pass up

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<v Speaker 1>a date with a playboy model? I will pay for it? Um, Mia,

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<v Speaker 1>How long are you even going to be in telephone

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<v Speaker 1>is war? Honestly, I don't know. Um. This is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a big job opportunity for me, and I really

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<v Speaker 1>want to not blow it. At the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>we had an unbelievable connection and I had, at the

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<v Speaker 1>very least like the meter in person and see if

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<v Speaker 1>the chemistry is there. In person as well. Sweet awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>You guys can talk about it more in depth in person.

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<v Speaker 1>That's some And Mia just another question? What issues are

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<v Speaker 1>you in? It's show research in the morning. Everybody texting

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<v Speaker 1>in at seven, eight, five to nine two wants a

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<v Speaker 1>date with Mia from today's Yes they do, It's Broken

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the morning and if you missed today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, Nathan wanted to call Mia. They actually met

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<v Speaker 1>on a Christian dating website and he didn't even see

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<v Speaker 1>her picture before they met, and I guess she was

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<v Speaker 1>stunning anyway. The reason she wasn't really getting back to

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<v Speaker 1>him was because she was gone in La taking some

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<v Speaker 1>photos Playboy, because they're doing photos again. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they stopped doing like photoshoots for a while, but now

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<v Speaker 1>they're doing doing them again. They're doing the classy ones.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not doing the nude ones anymore. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>still like a little racy, right, But you can celebrate

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<v Speaker 1>the body God gave you a Christian. I don't see

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<v Speaker 1>why not. Yeah I don't. I don't see why not either.

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<v Speaker 1>But Nathan was bothered by it though. Yeah, well I've

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<v Speaker 1>also never been considered a good Christian, so yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if I have the right opinion. Can you imagine, though,

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<v Speaker 1>not seeing a girl like she could be anything and

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<v Speaker 1>she's a playboy model like this guy. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's pretty lucky, But at the same time, he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>because he's like worally like. It's like, I will barely

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<v Speaker 1>even go look at an apartment if it doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>a photo of let alone go on a date with somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's either going to be amazing or a

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<v Speaker 1>rat infested mess. Seriously, remember, if you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update, all you have to do is

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<v Speaker 1>email the show and we will call the person who

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back.