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Speaker 1: I've seen hr videos about this. Okay, this is Jason,

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Speaker 2: He would be offered up his body as an experiment

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Speaker 2: Be your Guantanamo song? Like what would be what be

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Speaker 2: your torture? If either either you would use it to

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's how you would be tortured.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how you could waterboard me.

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Speaker 2: Fred Show, good morning, thanks for having us on the radio,

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Speaker 2: Fred show on demand. Kiki's going to my hometown this weekend.

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Speaker 2: You're going to Scottsdale, Arizona. Do you know where you're

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Speaker 2: aren't you?

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Speaker 1: Is it this weekend? Phoenix? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Well same thing, close to each other? Yeah, all right, yeah,

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Speaker 2: maybe take my word for it since I grew up there.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, I look like you're like you're like, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm going to Phoenix, Okay, whatever you're going

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Speaker 2: to here. Like like most cities, it's uh, it's kind

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Speaker 2: of like, uh, they all kind of blend together. You Phoenix, Scottsdale, Masa, Glendale.

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Speaker 2: I can go on and on, but they just there.

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Speaker 2: It's all kind of like one big big thing that separate,

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Speaker 2: kind of like Chicago, kind of like a lot of places,

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Speaker 2: it's kind of all just one big thing. There's not

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Speaker 2: a whole lot of separation. Like you could drive down

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Speaker 2: one road. If you drove down Scottsdale Road, you could

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Speaker 2: go from Fountain basically from Fountain Hills Cave Creek all

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Speaker 2: the way to like I don't even know where, and

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Speaker 2: you wouldn't necessarily even though you left one time and

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Speaker 1: Ohs and the spring training going on there too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it is my in laws. All the baseball players and

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Speaker 1: all the group.

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Speaker 3: Girls are okay, not me, Like looking at my lips?

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Speaker 1: Can you me relaxed? I don't want just did that

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Speaker 1: to her. I took my tongue and I lit my lips.

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Speaker 2: Well, hey, let's remember Kiki's going to Phoenix, so you

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Speaker 2: know she won't see them, right if it's in one

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Speaker 2: of the neighboring cities, she'd have no idea. So you're going.

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Speaker 2: Do you know where you're staying in Phoenae? I don't

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Speaker 2: have say exactly, because we have psychos that listen. Some

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Speaker 2: psychos that listen, but we have a couple of psychos.

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't say that of the thirteen, we might have

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Speaker 2: a psycho that listens. So generally speaking, where are you staying,

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Speaker 2: like in a big hotel or any airbnb? Or what

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Speaker 2: are you doing?

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Speaker 1: We're doing an airbnb with a pool in the backyard.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, okay? And what kind of activities you have planned?

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Speaker 2: Because you wrote today that you wanted me to tell

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Speaker 2: Ish for this trip. So here's the problem. I don't

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Speaker 2: do I do? Where do I eat? I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, no idea. I haven't lived there in

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Speaker 2: well over twenty years full time. And when I go back,

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Speaker 2: I hang out with my parents and my friends. I

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Speaker 2: don't really even go much further than like my neighborhood.

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Speaker 2: So I honestly I have no idea where to tell

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Speaker 2: you to go? But what do you have planned for

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Speaker 4: So we're doing like a brunch one day, we're doing

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Speaker 4: a day at some like indoor adult water park, which

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Speaker 2: There and an indoor Is that like hedonism? Water park

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Speaker 2: is like every is everyone naked at this thing?

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Speaker 1: What is it an indoor adult water bar? Ope? So

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but it's like they have cabanas, they.

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Speaker 4: Have bar, you know, probably yeah, bring you drinks. It

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Speaker 4: sounds like a resort but inside a beach club.

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Speaker 2: So we'll do a day there because I think water park,

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Speaker 2: I think like gigantic water slide and just naked grown ups,

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Speaker 1: Now, why don't you hang out? Well, you set an

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Speaker 2: I mean if it's an adult if you have to put

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Speaker 4: Because I'm trying to make I'm trying to get you

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Speaker 4: the like the picture a bunch of women by a

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Okay, you're going to like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're going to a day club. Yes, Sky Island Bungalow.

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Speaker 6: Oh wait, okay, because in my mind I had like

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Speaker 6: it's a lazy river there, great will floedge for grown ups,

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Speaker 6: you know, like where you're like naked at the bottom

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Speaker 6: like you guys gotta make out of it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe this is just my fantasy, but

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Speaker 2: you're saying adult water park, and immediately I'm going to,

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Speaker 2: you know, to kind of place at our friend lyon

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Speaker 2: Rodgers hangs out where everyone's just walking around naked all

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Speaker 7: No, we won't have on swimsuits, just like kids aren't

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Speaker 1: You just right to naked. Like, forget you. This looks nice.

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Speaker 1: I like my version of it.

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Speaker 2: I like the Kiki's going to an adult naked porny

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Speaker 2: water park this weekend.

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Speaker 1: That's what I like. But are you on the slide,

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Speaker 1: this huge slide? You know I'm not. I'm too strong,

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Speaker 1: all right, So you're doing it? Are you hanging out

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Speaker 1: with my mom?

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Speaker 2: Because nothing would surprise me more than if you went

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Speaker 2: to Arizona and then you wind up meeting up with

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Speaker 2: mom of Fred and and you know, moving in on

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Speaker 2: my inheritance.

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Speaker 4: I know I can't tell you because you will try

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Speaker 4: to fly their No, I can't tell you.

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Speaker 2: Why would I try to think I would try to intervene.

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Speaker 2: She couldn't hang out with my mom.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you would. You talk to my mom, probably more

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Speaker 1: than I do. You would try to get in the

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Speaker 1: middle of our date and we can't have that.

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Speaker 2: Don't take my mom to be adult naked porny website,

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Speaker 2: water slide wherever you're going.

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Speaker 1: Oh, she didn't want to set it up, set it

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Speaker 1: up with me, So she's a regular. There's my name

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Speaker 2: She said, Oh my god, However, have you ever found

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Speaker 2: out something like that about your parents? Have any of

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Speaker 2: you were I'm just curious eight five five five three

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Speaker 2: five have you ever found out that, like your parents,

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Speaker 2: who you believe to be unassuming whatever, you're you're grown

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Speaker 2: up now you're not in the house anymore, and you

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Speaker 2: find out that like they go on vacation to one

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Speaker 2: of those hedonism places, or they go to like a

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Speaker 1: Trying to be like, right, well, yeah, there's a place.

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Speaker 2: There's a place in Illinois called the Ciberis, which is

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Speaker 2: a hotel that is exactly what I'm imagining Kiki's going to,

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Speaker 2: except hers has water slides, and then again I think

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Speaker 2: this one does too, actually, but essentially, it's a hotel

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Speaker 1: Set up to go do that. It's set up to

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Speaker 2: That's the purtins like hot tub in the room and

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Speaker 2: like your ears on the ceilings and whatever. Like if

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Speaker 2: the Ciberis it's intended for you to go just to

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Speaker 2: grown up stuff, that's that you don't go there, like

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Speaker 2: that's not the place you stay on a road trip

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Speaker 2: when you're on your way to you know, Tuscaloosa or whatever.

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Speaker 2: Like you don't just pull over there, you know, for

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Speaker 2: a nice rest, like you're going there to have an affair,

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Speaker 2: You're going there to do something crazy. It turns out

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Speaker 2: Jason's parents used to hang out there when he was

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Speaker 1: Frequent fires or he had no idea he had the

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Speaker 1: Rewards club card. I feel like your.

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Speaker 2: Dad, Kalin would be because your parents should divorce, you

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Speaker 2: have your stepdad and then you have your dad. I

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Speaker 2: be the kind of guy that you would find out,

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Speaker 2: you know, goes to one of these like I don't know,

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Speaker 2: has some sort of riskue hobby or something.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I mean my dad.

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Speaker 3: I can remember my dad going to raves. Like my

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Speaker 3: dad is a partier. He was rather so Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: mean I definitely believe that, and he spares no detail,

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Speaker 3: so I do know about it. Unfortunately I didn't have

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure that this person did I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 2: this person did not mean what they just texted. It

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Speaker 2: surprises me to hear that Fred says an adult porn

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Speaker 2: naked water park would be his fantasy, considering how homophobic

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Speaker 1: Oh but the hold.

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Speaker 2: But the next sentence is, imagine the nastiness. I'm assuming

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Speaker 2: you met germaphobic? Oh my god, Yeah, because I'm very

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Speaker 2: much not homophobic. So again I wouldn't nothing nothing on

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Speaker 2: the text line, which surprised me these days, except the

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Speaker 2: next line says, can you imagine the nastiness? I mean,

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Speaker 2: I assume you mean, I assume you mean germophobic.

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Speaker 1: Let's go with that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I am not the ladder or the former.

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Speaker 2: I am the ladder, so I assume, yeah, And honestly,

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Speaker 2: it is not, in fact my fantasy. And no, I

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Speaker 2: would not go there because of the germs, because imagine

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Speaker 2: if you went to a place where that's all that

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Speaker 2: they that's what it's intended to be, and that's all

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Speaker 2: they do there, you know. Then I mean hotels are

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Speaker 2: like that anyway. But if you went to a hotel

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Speaker 2: that's specialized in just being nasty, then yeah, you can

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Speaker 2: assume there's DNA everywhere. Oh so anyway, okay, So I

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Speaker 2: was just curious if anybody knew of any sort of like,

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Speaker 2: oh wait, we do. Oh hold on a second, Lizzie, Hey, Lizzy,

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Good morning, Lizzy. So I was just curious

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Speaker 2: if you since we're talking about where Kik's going this weekend,

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Speaker 2: which is a quote unquote adult water park.

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Speaker 1: I still don't know what that means. But did you ever?

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Speaker 2: And then Jason's parents went to like, you know, the

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Speaker 2: Freaky Hotel. Did your parents ever? Did you find out

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Speaker 2: that your parents are into something that you're like? What

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Speaker 8: So my parents are the ecidom of old people. Couple,

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Speaker 8: there's seventy four. They met at the Playboy Club in Chicago.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 8: And apparently there was a hot tom that's where they

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Speaker 2: So they used to have these things all over the country.

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Speaker 2: Must have been a good friend, a good friend of yours.

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Speaker 8: He was a very well, yeah, my friend was a.

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Speaker 1: Knew about it, and she still might be you guys.

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Speaker 11: She tells me all the time, I am living my

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Speaker 1: And she goes missing on weekends. You guys know that.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I don't know where she goes sometimes, so she

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Speaker 2: Do you think she has a boyfriend she won't tell

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Speaker 11: One thing about Marta that I knew before children, so

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Speaker 2: A twenty nine year old female is in morality Monday

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Speaker 2: she's never going to get married, but if she does,

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Speaker 11: Maybe she might or change her mind and pick something else,

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Speaker 2: I assume you know, she had the vision of the dress.

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Speaker 2: But when she was having this stress fitted and made

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: But it's her dress, she paid for it, it's her.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't have to give it to anyone.

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Speaker 4: Weirdo in my opinion, because out of all the dresses

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Speaker 1: Why don't you put me in that position exactly?

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Speaker 2: Like you know that I intended to wear that dress

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Speaker 1: She's entitled to it.

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Speaker 7: But if someone, I mean if someone wanted anything from me,

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Speaker 2: Well, it's her dress, it's her style, it's her dress design,

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Speaker 2: attached to her, but not to the person she was marrying. Yeah, right, Like,

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Speaker 1: Why do you have?

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Speaker 2: I mean it's fair, right, I mean I've known you

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Speaker 1: I mean, I I don't know if i'd do it anymore.

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Speaker 2: But because you and speaking too publicly about it. That's

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because you wouldn't wan anyone to see it,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, she's not wearing that, you know, because I.

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Speaker 2: Know you have like a sort of a mixed concept

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Speaker 2: So it's like, you know, you got to keep that

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's say you did have a dress for some

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Speaker 3: No, I feel like a wedding I mean, there's not

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Speaker 3: Five to nine and I'm like barely five six, so

438
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Speaker 3: it would be cropped right.

439
00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,159
Speaker 1: On her, like you know, her ankles would be out.

440
00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:52,560
Speaker 3: But no, I think it's deeply personal, and I would

441
00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:55,719
Speaker 3: get very upset with people telling me, like how I

442
00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:59,080
Speaker 3: need to handle something that I paid for with my

443
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Speaker 3: own money, that I made to fit my body, like

444
00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:03,720
Speaker 3: it's weirdo energy like Keiki said.

445
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Speaker 1: So, no, it's a no for me, dog. But I'll

446
00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:08,160
Speaker 1: go with you, like I'll help you.

447
00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:09,920
Speaker 2: I mean, you'll move out of your house for six

448
00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:11,600
Speaker 2: months so she can go man, and you'll live on

449
00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:13,240
Speaker 2: the street. But as far as the wedding dress is

450
00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:19,520
Speaker 2: concerned my fashion, no, no, I mean it's oldest child syndrome.

451
00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:22,400
Speaker 1: I let me see this. What does that mean? I'm

452
00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:24,119
Speaker 1: the oldest child? What are they telling me? Oh? The

453
00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:27,040
Speaker 1: babies get everything literally and figuratively. I don't know.

454
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Speaker 2: I mean yeah, yeah, yeah, I could see something like

455
00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:31,639
Speaker 2: this happening in my house too. But I wonder what

456
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Speaker 2: my mom would do. I don't know, fighting over dress, yeah,

457
00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:38,040
Speaker 2: I mean, I've had a custom made wedding dress for

458
00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:41,040
Speaker 2: many years. I've been thinking about, you know, just whenever

459
00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:43,000
Speaker 2: that time comes. I've had this vision and the vision

460
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Speaker 2: is not going to change. It's a beautiful dress.

461
00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:46,520
Speaker 1: We would you do?

462
00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:47,080
Speaker 12: Well?

463
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, long train obviously right. White its whitest can be,

464
00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:59,760
Speaker 2: you know, because that's what I.

465
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Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about. I've been to many.

466
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Speaker 2: I've been the weddings and people that I slept with,

467
00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:03,080
Speaker 2: and they were wearing white.

468
00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:08,320
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, they're walking down the aisle. I don't know.

469
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Speaker 1: You're not pure, missy. You can't try. But of course

470
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Speaker 1: I didn't say that out loud. I was tempted to.

471
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Speaker 1: I was tempted.

472
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Speaker 2: She walked down the aisle with her fiance standing up there,

473
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Speaker 2: you know, husband to be, who doesn't know that we

474
00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:22,719
Speaker 2: hooked up.

475
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Speaker 1: I know, I know messed up, wouldn't it. Yes, Yeah,

476
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

477
00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:35,440
Speaker 2: I don't know if in my family that I would see.

478
00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:38,560
Speaker 2: My sister gets everything she wants, uh for the most part,

479
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:41,399
Speaker 2: but I wouldn't say that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I guess so.

480
00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:44,000
Speaker 2: But my mom's not. I think she likes me better,

481
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 2: so there's that.

482
00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:45,600
Speaker 1: That's nice.

483
00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:49,480
Speaker 2: But yeah, no, but my is my sister stuff because

484
00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:53,159
Speaker 2: it's for the kids. Like everything she's doing, let's be honest,

485
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:55,880
Speaker 2: everything my mom loves my sister. But everything she's doing

486
00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,959
Speaker 2: these days is leverage to get in with the kids.

487
00:20:59,200 --> 00:20:59,879
Speaker 1: That's what it is.

488
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 2: And like, the more accents she gets, the more stuff

489
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:04,720
Speaker 2: shows up on my sister's front door. The less action

490
00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:06,800
Speaker 2: she gets, the less stuff shows up on my sister's

491
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Speaker 2: front door.

492
00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:12,320
Speaker 1: That's how it works. Lexi, Hi, Hi, how are you guys? Hey?

493
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:15,760
Speaker 2: Good morning, So morale Monday On a Wednesday, Big sister

494
00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:19,120
Speaker 2: has a custom wedding dress. Little sister saw it and said,

495
00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:22,080
Speaker 2: and when big Sister's not getting married anymore, Little sister

496
00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:23,879
Speaker 2: saw it and said, give me that, and she said no,

497
00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:26,159
Speaker 2: And now mom and little sister are mad about it.

498
00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:26,760
Speaker 1: What do you think.

499
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Speaker 15: I think the mom and sister are in the wrong

500
00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,720
Speaker 15: because the dress is a personal thing to somebody, Like

501
00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,840
Speaker 15: we just got married, not that long ago. I still

502
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 15: have my dress. I am thinking about doing something with it.

503
00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:41,040
Speaker 15: So yeah, she may not be using it now, but

504
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 15: there's a possibility maybe she wants to. I don't know,

505
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 15: who knows what she'll do with it.

506
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 2: But it's still her dress, right, wouldn't she want your

507
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:51,399
Speaker 2: own dress too, Like it's your day, your thing, Go

508
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:53,399
Speaker 2: get your own dress, Chris, Stop being a weirdo.

509
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,919
Speaker 15: It's some special thing in the world to go and

510
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 15: do the dress shopping. You know it's awesome.

511
00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,160
Speaker 2: That's right, LEXI gonna do it maybe two or three

512
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:02,720
Speaker 2: times your whole life, so you know it's.

513
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 1: I hope it's only once. Thank you, Lexy. You have

514
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 1: a good day, you too, think.

515
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 2: Sophia says two birds, one for the sister, one for

516
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 2: the mom. It's her dress. She paid four grand for it.

517
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 2: Her sister can pound sand another text, Yeah, absolutely not.

518
00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:22,399
Speaker 2: I hope she keeps it until she wants to use it.

519
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,239
Speaker 2: The audacity of that person is wild. Sounds like her

520
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:27,880
Speaker 2: sister is being dramatic. But I do wonder, like, how

521
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:31,120
Speaker 2: many times have you given your friend or a family

522
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:34,399
Speaker 2: member an idea or said something about something and then

523
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 2: they go do it. It's like, here's my idea for address,

524
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:39,360
Speaker 2: I had it made, well, I want that. I mean,

525
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 2: have you ever had that where you gave you said, oh,

526
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 2: I want to name my first daughter Marie, or I

527
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Speaker 2: want to name my first dog Spot or whatever, and

528
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 2: then all of a sudden, here comes best friend with

529
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Speaker 2: Spot and wait a wait one minute, wait one, I

530
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 2: just told you that.

531
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Speaker 11: Yeah, people get really mad about that, and I get it,

532
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 11: like I'd be frustrated too, if somebody's like, here's my

533
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 11: daughter Gigi after I just said I'm gonna name my

534
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 11: kid Gabrielle rgg.

535
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:03,479
Speaker 1: But like, I don't know.

536
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 11: For me, it's like I don't get mad at that

537
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 11: kind of stuff as so much as the normal normal

538
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,160
Speaker 11: person does. Like I have a friend who got a car,

539
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 11: and like another friend was like, oh, I want that car,

540
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 11: and then like the one got the car or something,

541
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 11: the other one got mad and I was just like,

542
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 11: but like you guys are like two different households, like

543
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:17,360
Speaker 11: same car, respond.

544
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: Well, car and a baby.

545
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:19,879
Speaker 11: I feel like a baby named yeah, but like at

546
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 11: the same time, like one are the odds of me

547
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,680
Speaker 11: like still communicating with a certain person like thirty years later,

548
00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 11: Like I'm gonna have my daughter forever, but like what

549
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 11: if I'm no longer friends with you know, Jonathan, God forbid, Right,

550
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 11: we're not friends anymore?

551
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 1: He has a daughter named gig two, Like I always

552
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 1: wanted to be a pet cruiser and then probably doing

553
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,680
Speaker 1: this and now I can't have a pet cruiser anymore.

554
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 1: I'm so mad. I know, well he didn't stop copying.

555
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 1: I wanted was a pt cruise.

556
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 2: All I wanted was a Mini Cooper and then one

557
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 2: day rowing up in her Mini Cooper and I'm like,

558
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Speaker 2: great now I can't have it.

559
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,200
Speaker 1: So real cute for someone else.

560
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Speaker 16: It's good to see.

561
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Speaker 1: It if you do, and world.

562
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 6: Hope you do.

563
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 1: And well.

564
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 17: She will brother leave for tennis outside, so left the

565
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Speaker 17: phone a little bit of it's cool now fuck from

566
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Speaker 17: Tom to each other the pop we're getting out of

567
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 17: support now wait in Sanaa's control side.

568
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,880
Speaker 1: Cut short up up to the tables and order.

569
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Speaker 17: Rid said, says, no you said, I'm sobbing.

570
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 1: She is a song on news. It's good to see.

571
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Speaker 10: The radio.

572
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Speaker 1: Hope hope you do, and will hope you do?

573
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Speaker 16: Son, how ready to stay at say talking at the

574
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 16: bar or by yourselves, but don't save her song?

575
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 17: Well now whatever next where she finally walks into the

576
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:08,400
Speaker 17: restaurant has to say a bottom know it was already gone.

577
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 1: We'll sertadly doesn't do it, you wing it hard, sadly,

578
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: don't do it, sadly don't.

579
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 14: Do it to go.

580
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 12: So she so.

581
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 1: It couldn't see fas.

582
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 16: The whole bit she said, say talk at the bar

583
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 16: or bar or so bottom.

584
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 13: Sure for some.

585
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Speaker 2: It is the Fresh Show, Good morning, thanks for having

586
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 2: us on the radio, on the iHeart app live and

587
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,880
Speaker 2: anytime search for the fresh show on demand. I would

588
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 2: agree with this, but your self proclaimed taste in music,

589
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 2: it's probably the quality of yourself that you're proudest of.

590
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 2: That's probably the thing about you that I hear the most.

591
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 3: Well, not necessarily taste, but yeah, around music, I like

592
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 3: to curate playlists for specific occasions.

593
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

594
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:42,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean we've given you the ox cord before

595
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 2: in the car, and I've been very impressed with your skills.

596
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,479
Speaker 1: Thank you. I've told you this before, though I've communicated this.

597
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:48,120
Speaker 1: This is nothing new.

598
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 3: I knew my audience, so I believe cores the corese

599
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:52,159
Speaker 3: Breathless was the first thing I.

600
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 1: Picked, and you were screaming.

601
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,400
Speaker 2: Now that's just a deep cut and when that comes on,

602
00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:57,840
Speaker 2: it's just unbelievable that somebody else would.

603
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you me and Jason Moore screamsing. I don't

604
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 1: know where we were going or coming up.

605
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not old enough for this, but I Brady,

606
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 2: a colleague of ours, colleague, cohort rock friend. The other day,

607
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 2: it's Ray and he likes the yacht rock like he

608
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 2: likes like yacht rock like sixties seventies and I don't

609
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 2: mind it, but that's not my My wheelhouse is nineties pop,

610
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 2: ninety two thousands pop. And I think the reason is

611
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 2: is because that's what I grew up with. And I've

612
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 2: said this a million times. I think that whatever music

613
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 2: you like the most has some tie to your upbringing.

614
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 1: I believe this.

615
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, your mom played it, your dad played at, your

616
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 2: grandparents played it. Yes, you know, so for a lot

617
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 2: of people was you know, I grew up in the nineties,

618
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,679
Speaker 2: so for a lot of people, it was like Beatles

619
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,640
Speaker 2: and you know, sixties seventies music because that's what their

620
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 2: parents listened to and then as they were growing up

621
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 2: that stuff. And my parents didn't because my father was

622
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 2: in radio and contemporary radio, so like we listened to

623
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 2: pop music. So like whatever I listened to was whatever

624
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,679
Speaker 2: was current at the time. I have like almost no

625
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 2: appreciation for what happened before nineteen eighty. I don't even know.

626
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 2: I really don't even know. Well, Motown because that's what

627
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 2: they grew up with.

628
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 1: That was my dad.

629
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Speaker 7: Yeah, Motown. It is amazing. I love listening to that

630
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 7: still do. And like in our house it was Whitney Houston.

631
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 7: It was Luther Vandros.

632
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:17,159
Speaker 2: It was you know, basically we were a black household

633
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 2: my mom. If you asked, my mom's musical taste would

634
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:24,120
Speaker 2: be gospel, R and B. Honestly, like she she would

635
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 2: shock you with some of the things that she knows

636
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 2: and likes, Like she knows every Luther Vandros song. Ever,

637
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 2: we watched CNN documentary and she knew it all already. Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah,

638
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 2: we said, I don't know what he things going on?

639
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 2: A mom of Fred tell we're watching Luther Vandrose documentary.

640
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, Nanna loved him too. He was like pretty universal.

641
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: I'm learning. I thought it was just like a my

642
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: nana undead thing. But there you go.

643
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 2: Like, if you go through our old record collection, it's

644
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 2: mostly M M, it's mostly R and B.

645
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: Heh, yeah, yeah, which is for everybody.

646
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 2: But I don't know what if people thought we were

647
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 2: like at homeless soon led Zeppelin or something, I don't

648
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 2: know what.

649
00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: That's what I was listening to. There you go, So

650
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, were you really Yeah, you grew up

651
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: with that kind of stuff, Zeppelin, the Beatles? You know,

652
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 1: are you being funny just because you have the Schurch

653
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 1: on target? Are you being serious, absolutely being funny.

654
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 3: Okay, she like almost didn't land the plane on Zeppelin.

655
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:14,959
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, I'm gonna let her get

656
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 1: this lie off because.

657
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 2: You're like you trying to tell me we grew up

658
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 2: in the opposite house. I don't believe that.

659
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: The seventies were great, though. I'm sad for you seventies rock.

660
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 1: It's not that I don't tickets. I just don't.

661
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 2: It doesn't resonate with me, like it just it was

662
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 2: kind of like a missed decade.

663
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 11: Yeah, my stepdad was big on the like all rock

664
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 11: and stuff, and then my mom it was like, I

665
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 11: don't know what I would call this. I call euro music.

666
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 11: It's really not because like we all know it. But

667
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 11: it's like the well, the Aqua man.

668
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 1: What's his name Aquaman?

669
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, like the Barbie girl guy, like just not mad,

670
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 3: he is a man.

671
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: But like that was like that era.

672
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 11: Of like disco tech on music I called nineties club music.

673
00:29:55,720 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, you had like you had aqua yeah yeah.

674
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 11: God yeah real McCoy that was our hot Robin unlimited.

675
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: Yeah you had Robin and Robin asked, yes, they both

676
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: were there.

677
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,960
Speaker 11: But yeah, house music's outside like that's I want my

678
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 11: daughter to grow up listening to that.

679
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: Like Stevie b. That was earlier though, that was that

680
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: was pre Awqua, that was Yeah, that's like what eighties right,

681
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: my girl Susie Oh yeah.

682
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 11: Oh she's my girl Cindy Okay, right right, that's justin.

683
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 2: But I do think it's a great quality in somebody

684
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:34,479
Speaker 2: if they have good taste in music. But the problem

685
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 2: is it has to be you know, it's hard to

686
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 2: be objective when it comes to good taste in music

687
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 2: because you you may have great taste in seventies music,

688
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 2: and that's just not exactly my thing. You know, you

689
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 2: may love disco music and be able to curate a

690
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 2: hell of a disco playlist. You might know the beg's

691
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 2: back and I don't know, but I don't, so I don't.

692
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 2: I don't know what you say is your actual wheelhouse.

693
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 2: Like I realized you. You know, you're the double duty qute.

694
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 2: So you over here on the pop station, you over

695
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 2: there on the hip hop station. I mean, you could

696
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 2: do it all. I've I've heard you on ESPN Deportees.

697
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 2: It's incredible. Your coverage in Spanish of Football Americano is unbelievable.

698
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 1: I mean, it's crazy.

699
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:11,959
Speaker 2: I don't know why you don't speak up when we

700
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 2: talk about the NFL on the show because in Spanish,

701
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 2: I mean, you're calling coward over here.

702
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 1: No I try, Yeah, I try, But what.

703
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 2: Is your actual wheelhouse? Like, what way if you had

704
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 2: to like focus in on what you really want to

705
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 2: listen to?

706
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 4: My favorite era of music is probably nineties R and

707
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 4: b okay, oh so like one twelve Yeah, also early

708
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 4: two thousands pop though, because like that was that was

709
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 4: a time vertical horizon.

710
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 2: Are you like a are you like a like a

711
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 2: white people pop?

712
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: Or I don't mean, I don't mean to make this.

713
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to make this racil, but everybody knows

714
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 2: exactly what I'm talking about during that era, because you

715
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 2: had like, uh, you had like Three Doors Down and

716
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 2: Third Eye Blind and Semisonic, and you had like these

717
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 2: bands that were very clearly.

718
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: A bunch of white kids. And then but then you

719
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: also want to this is the.

720
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 2: Exact same time you had like Keith Sweat, and you

721
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 2: had and Jojo Casey and Jojo, and you had one

722
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 2: twelve and you had you know, obviously Biggie and Yeah too.

723
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 4: Nineties R and B hip hop. That's that's it.

724
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 2: Well in the city, Like, I'm at a point in

725
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 2: my life where I don't if there's any chance that

726
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 2: leaving the house is a dangerous activity, If there's any

727
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 2: chance that we might find ourselves banging on the door

728
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 2: of a twenty four hour duncan, that's not open. If

729
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,479
Speaker 2: if we're finding ourselves in a position where the public

730
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 2: bathroom is going to be a mandatory experience, then I

731
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 2: probably am not leaving the house.

732
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 1: That's where I'm at in my life. I thought that role.

733
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: I'd never be here.

734
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 2: Fred's show is fud And finally, I just want to

735
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 2: I want to wish a speedy recovery. Right I'm scared, No,

736
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean this is a speedy recovery to

737
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 2: a god named Matt Bar from London. Now Matt Bar

738
00:32:57,520 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 2: you may know his name, you may not, but he

739
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 2: is officially the guy who has the world's largest man

740
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 2: part fourteen point five inches and apparently there's hazards. This

741
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 2: is a real quote. Okay, this is an actual quote.

742
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 2: Matt says that he recently slipped in his shower because,

743
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 2: in his words, it's not.

744
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 1: Easy to see my feet. Oh what I don't have

745
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 1: that problem. I can see him very clearly. Why do

746
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: you need to see your feet and not slip?

747
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 2: So the fall left him with two fractures in his shoulder.

748
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 7: Oh it sounds like he's just clumsy, but one of

749
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 7: the flex right, that's.

750
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 1: Right again. I can't believe it.

751
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 2: Over another black eye and control this thing. This is

752
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 2: a real story today. The fall left him with two

753
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 2: fractures in his shoulder. He's now taking it slow, using

754
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 2: a bath matt and rethinking vacations. Apparently public pools and

755
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 2: board shorts could be triggy as well.

756
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 1: I can't believe this is a real news story.

757
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 2: Ever been left waiting by the phone?

758
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Christian, good morning, Welcome to the show.

759
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 5: Hi, good morning, how are you very well?

760
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:16,399
Speaker 2: We call this waiting by the phone, of course, trying

761
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 2: to figure out if you got ghosted?

762
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 1: What happened?

763
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 2: Why don't you explain how you met Ellen and about

764
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:26,479
Speaker 2: any dates that you've been on and what's happening right now?

765
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:30,720
Speaker 5: Yeah? Of course, So I actually met Ellen on Bumble,

766
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 5: you know the dating.

767
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:32,800
Speaker 1: App and.

768
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 2: Familiar with the Bumble. Yeah it's been okay, cool time

769
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 2: or two? Yeah, okay, yeah, so you met her there, So.

770
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 5: So I met her on there, asked her out to

771
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 5: grab drinks at one of the like this speakeasy nearby

772
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 5: my plate, and I love that it's got like good atmosphere.

773
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 5: But they have these wild cocktails and you end up

774
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 5: having too and you end up getting pretty loaded. So

775
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 5: we were defunk by the end of the night, and

776
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 5: we walked back over to my place and you know,

777
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 5: get into the do what do an adults too? I

778
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 5: don't know that's how explicit I can be with you,

779
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 5: but I think feel free to use your imagination, all right, Yeah, I.

780
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 2: Think everybody knows what you're talking about, so that that

781
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 2: happened exactly.

782
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, So I just want to get that at better.

783
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 13: Right, So she.

784
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 5: And he, uh, you know, she starts ghosting me. I

785
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 5: thought we had a good night, you know, and now

786
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 5: it stuck wondering if she only hooked up with me

787
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 5: because she was drunk, And I would really hate for

788
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 5: that to be the case, because I actually liked her.

789
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 5: I had a good time with her. The conversation was

790
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 5: easy flow, and she's very attractive, and you know, I

791
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 5: kind of felt this this romantic connection, a bit of

792
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 5: chemistry and you know if it wasn't she didn't feel

793
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 5: the same way, wasn't reciprocated it was fine. I just

794
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 5: you know, I want I don't.

795
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: I want to know.

796
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:41,560
Speaker 13: I just don't want to get going.

797
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 2: I mean, sometimes male female, whatever. Maybe I don't know

798
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 2: if it matters the gender. Sometimes when people drink too

799
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 2: much and then things happened, it's like, well, did I

800
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 2: Is this how I wanted things to start? Did I

801
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 2: give off the right impression? Some people have anxiety where

802
00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 2: they're you know, they're hungover, and like, ah, I can't

803
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 2: believe I did that. I know that's happened to me.

804
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 2: So it's possible that she just kind of thought maybe

805
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 2: it was fun but not necessarily the way she wanted

806
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 2: to start the relationship. But I suppose that's a conversation

807
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 2: you could have unless you wanted to just disappear, which

808
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 2: is maybe what she's doing.

809
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 5: You're exactly right, I want to have that conversation, I think, Bata.

810
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: Let me know.

811
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 5: You know, I'm man enough to take that kind of rejection,

812
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 5: but it's unusual for me to not even get to

813
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:23,800
Speaker 5: follow up and be like, hey, do you want to

814
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 5: try this again?

815
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: Yeah?

816
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, Or you could look at it as Wow, we

817
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 2: really hit it off. The chemistry was great, Like, why

818
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 2: don't we keep going in this direction? So let me

819
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 2: call Ellen. You'll be on the phone. I want to

820
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 2: see if we can get her on the line and

821
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 2: ask some questions to figure out what's going on. At

822
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 2: some point, you're welcome to jump in on the call

823
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 2: and hopefully we can straighten this out and set you

824
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 2: guys up on another day that we pay for.

825
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 5: Okay, So right, this is the part where I get

826
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:46,760
Speaker 5: to be like sneaky and I don't say.

827
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 2: Anything right right, right, because you've obviously heard this before,

828
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 2: so just follow my lead on this, man, Let's see

829
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 2: what happens. Yeah, I'm going to play one song. We'll

830
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 2: come back and do it. Okay, Hey, Christian, Yeah, all right,

831
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,919
Speaker 2: let's call Ellen. You guys met on Bumble. You went out.

832
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 2: You thought there was a lot of chemistry, had a

833
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 2: great date. I wanted poking up, except you've reached out

834
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 2: since that date trying to set up date number two,

835
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 2: and she's not responding to you at all.

836
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 5: Exactly exactly. We had a good time. We had a

837
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 5: good time, and I'm looking forward to the day two.

838
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:17,839
Speaker 2: You just at least you want to know you know

839
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,279
Speaker 2: why she's not calling or if something happened or whatever.

840
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 2: So let's call her now. Good luck Christian hiasus Ellen, Yeah, Ellen, Hey,

841
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:38,439
Speaker 2: good morning friend from the Fred Show. The whole crew

842
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:39,839
Speaker 2: is here. I have to tell you that we are

843
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 2: on the radio right now, and I would you, I

844
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 2: would thank you. Woh my god. I don't know if

845
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 2: that's a compliment. I don't know if that was an

846
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:48,720
Speaker 2: oh my god, like I love the show, and notice

847
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:50,799
Speaker 2: I just say thank you right away, like that's what

848
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 2: that meant. I love the show, genuinely surprised. Okay, well

849
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 2: then you know the rest of the deal. So you're

850
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,359
Speaker 2: on waiting by the phone right now. A guy named

851
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 2: Christian reached out to us so that you guys met

852
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 2: on bumble and went out.

853
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,359
Speaker 1: Do you remember this guy? Yeah? You do?

854
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 2: Okay, So he had called us, and if you listen

855
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 2: to the show before, then you know why he called.

856
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 2: He wants to know why you aren't calling him back.

857
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 2: He described to us what he thought was a very

858
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 2: successful date. He did mention that you guys got intimate,

859
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 2: and it's like, why did all that happen if you

860
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:20,720
Speaker 2: weren't interested?

861
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: So what's your side of the story. Well, I would.

862
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 18: Bet that he didn't actually tell you the whole story. Yeah,

863
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 18: we went up for drinks and then we like had

864
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 18: to sleep over, right, and I don't know whatever, Like

865
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 18: I would have hooked up with him even if we

866
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 18: hadn't had drinks, just because like I.

867
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: Don't know, the chemistry was there.

868
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 2: Maybe we weren't, like because he was worried about that.

869
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 2: He was like, well maybe it was. Maybe this whole

870
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 2: thing is because everybody had too much to drink and

871
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 2: now people are regretting things. But you're saying that's not

872
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 2: the reason you're not calling him.

873
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 18: Well, well, I mean, like I would have hooked up

874
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 18: with him either way, but because of the drinking, we

875
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:04,879
Speaker 18: weren't like as space as probably should have been.

876
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,439
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll leave it at that, Okay, yep.

877
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 18: And then in the morning he asked me if I

878
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 18: was on birth control and I was like no. So

879
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 18: we were like, okay, you know, we decided together we

880
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 18: should go get a plan B and I like need

881
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:23,240
Speaker 18: to go buy it, and he just keeps like blowing

882
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 18: out my phone, demanding that I send him a video

883
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 18: of me opening the package and putting the till in

884
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:30,720
Speaker 18: my mouth and swallowing.

885
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 1: It to make sure you get it.

886
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 2: Yes, I wasn't convinced exactly that you going to buy

887
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 2: it meant that you were going to utilize the product.

888
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,439
Speaker 2: So he needed proof that you were going.

889
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 1: To do it.

890
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 19: Oh and he needed like the date somewhere shown in

891
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 19: the video, completely insulting. He didn't trust me, and he

892
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 19: thinks that he's so great that I would like want

893
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 19: to have his baby.

894
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 1: What is wrong?

895
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 2: So you know, the Christians here, Christian what's your side

896
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 2: of the story. I mean, for you guys, just to

897
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,399
Speaker 2: make that decision and to let you know, let her

898
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 2: say what she said she was going to do, or

899
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 2: do what she said.

900
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 1: She was going to do.

901
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,799
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, no, no, I just kind of what I

902
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:10,720
Speaker 5: wanted to cut you off because you're really like putting

903
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 5: all of all of my business out there.

904
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 13: Okay, So just like oh and you.

905
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 18: When you called the radio.

906
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 1: Station, Yeah, I mean, what did you say? What?

907
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:18,880
Speaker 10: I mean?

908
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 2: You knew you're the story. You're on the radio now.

909
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:22,320
Speaker 2: Of course she's gonna put your business.

910
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 1: But I didn't think that this.

911
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 5: I didn't think that she would go on And we

912
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 5: were talking about the night before, not the morning after.

913
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,800
Speaker 5: I didn't think anything, not just asking you for a

914
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 5: little bit of a lot. No, it's after the date, Ellen,

915
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 5: and I just wanted to know if, like you wanted

916
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 5: to go out again.

917
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 1: But here you are accusing me.

918
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 5: Of like some sort of like phone harassment, Like I

919
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 5: just I don't know. I just I wanted to call

920
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 5: you to see if you want to go out again.

921
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,839
Speaker 5: And the whole thing that happened like after the day again,

922
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 5: after the date. Okay, well that's.

923
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 1: Great, I guess.

924
00:40:57,040 --> 00:41:00,319
Speaker 2: Okay, so you guys don't know each other and Saul

925
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 2: goes down, and I mean, you haven't developed any form

926
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 2: of trust. You don't probably even know each other's last

927
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 2: names or middle names or whatever. And that's okay. Things happen,

928
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,840
Speaker 2: But it wasn't good enough, Christian for you and Ellen

929
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 2: to just decide that you were going to take this

930
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 2: path to be extra safe.

931
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 1: After the fact that.

932
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 18: I also was like, hell, yeah, we need to get

933
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 18: something done about this.

934
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:25,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, but great, I also need to protect myself. So

935
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:26,959
Speaker 5: I'm just asking for a seat.

936
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:27,959
Speaker 1: Listen to Ellen.

937
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 5: All I'm saying is that I think my request is

938
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 5: well within my rights. I've told you that my family

939
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 5: has a lot of money, and I have to go

940
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 5: to like extra link. I don't want to be taking

941
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:37,839
Speaker 5: advantage of that come up.

942
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 2: How does that come up on the day I'm extremely rich.

943
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 2: I mean, once you do that, I can see why

944
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:45,879
Speaker 2: you're paranoid. Now, if you're telling everybody how rich you are,

945
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 2: I'm not telling everybody.

946
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 10: I'm not trying to procreate with a douche like you.

947
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: Amen, Gret.

948
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 2: You both made this decision, but you're out here willing,

949
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 2: really knowing that, feeling as though you could be exposed

950
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 2: at any time, but not taking any precaution.

951
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 5: Not that night, no, which is why I'm trying to

952
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:05,280
Speaker 5: do the next.

953
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,879
Speaker 1: Morning again, not part of the day. We're past the day.

954
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 5: We're into the next phase of whatever this was going

955
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 5: to be.

956
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 1: Okay.

957
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 2: And so for you, Ellen, that's too much in a word, yes,

958
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:19,360
Speaker 2: because of that and because of a lack of trust,

959
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 2: and you just thought the whole thing was not cool.

960
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 2: So you're never going to talk to him again. I

961
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:24,879
Speaker 2: mean the video was a little much, but I guess

962
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 2: I can see I mean, can you guys see the

963
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 2: paranoia Maybe that there was no follow up. I mean,

964
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 2: it's kind of the decision that you make when you

965
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 2: were grown up, and you put yourself in that position

966
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 2: that like you relinquish a little bit of power by

967
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 2: not being thoughtful.

968
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, he made that decision, though I don't think he

969
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: can demand that. Yeah, I don't know about the video

970
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 1: and the rest of it. You're doing too much.

971
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know you made the mistake and you're gonna

972
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:46,760
Speaker 3: have to just trust.

973
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 2: But so did she. If you want to call it

974
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:52,240
Speaker 2: in the control, I mean devil's advocate. You know, there's

975
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 2: no basis for him to believe what she's saying. So,

976
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not saying I agree with him.

977
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 3: I think he really wants to be one hundred percent

978
00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 3: sure that he doesn't have a baby, then he shouldn't

979
00:42:59,560 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 3: do that.

980
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 1: Well, I agree with that. I agree with that. So

981
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: it's not on him anymore, Like it's not in his control. Okay.

982
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 2: So basically, she didn't like the approach, thought it was insensitive,

983
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,320
Speaker 2: thought it was uncool and Christian.

984
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 1: There you go.

985
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 2: That's why she's not calling and there's not going to

986
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 2: be a second date. Thank thanks for having us on

987
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 2: the radio, on the iHeart app Live and anytime search

988
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:20,439
Speaker 2: for a Fred show on demand. I wanted to bring

989
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:23,359
Speaker 2: this up because my mom listens to the show every day,

990
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:25,359
Speaker 2: and like, I wish I could see the look on

991
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 2: my parents' face when I do this story.

992
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:27,760
Speaker 1: I wish I could.

993
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:32,319
Speaker 2: I want your genuine reaction, especially if your I don't know,

994
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 2: twenty thirties, forties, you grew up with siblings.

995
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:36,240
Speaker 1: I know Kaitlin did Caitlyn.

996
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:38,239
Speaker 2: You practically were a second mom because of the age

997
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 2: difference twelve years thirteen thirteen years difference between you and Bella,

998
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 2: your sister.

999
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 1: She's younger.

1000
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 2: A TikToker known as Shira is making waves with her

1001
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 2: bold stance. Why do I believe that she might be

1002
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 2: in her early twenties. I've never seen this woman. I

1003
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 2: hate to say this, this is a generational take, but

1004
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 2: parents are going to shiver or older siblings her bold stance.

1005
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 2: Parents shouldn't make their kids babysit younger siblings without consent

1006
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:08,720
Speaker 2: and compensation.

1007
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you were a big sister too.

1008
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 2: Can you imagine, Paulina if Mama Marta had been like, Hey,

1009
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 2: I'm heading out tonight with my my cigarettes and Virginia.

1010
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 1: Yeah Salem.

1011
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 2: I was gonna say Virginia slims, But Salem flin are

1012
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 2: going out with the girls tonight. You gotta watch your sister.

1013
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 2: And you were like, First of all, I didn't consent

1014
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 2: to that. Second and second of all, what will my

1015
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 2: compensation package looks like? Can you imagine now? Look like

1016
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 2: my My parents are very smart. My parents are very smart.

1017
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 2: I have my sister seven and a half years younger,

1018
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 2: and they were not They were no dummy.

1019
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 12: You know.

1020
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 2: On my birthday they were They were extremely generous. They

1021
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 2: gave me a brand new car on my birthday. They

1022
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 2: gave me a brand new car. Was so I couldn't

1023
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:52,800
Speaker 2: believe it, Like I was convinced that I wasn't getting

1024
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 2: a car. I was convinced that their deal was, you

1025
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 2: got two years to make money in the summer and

1026
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,320
Speaker 2: whatever amount of money you can make, we'll we'll match

1027
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 2: that and you can buy a car with it.

1028
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: Well, I didn't make it that.

1029
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 2: I didn't make that much money, so I wouldn't be

1030
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 2: I didn't think I was getting a car.

1031
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 1: I got a car.

1032
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 2: Boom Immediately, here are the keys. Oh my god, yay, congratulations,

1033
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 2: take your sister to dance. Go get me some at

1034
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 2: the store. Hey, go go pick up so and so

1035
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,280
Speaker 2: and so and so at the airport. Hey, you do

1036
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:22,240
Speaker 2: very smart. It was what an investment in the quality

1037
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 2: of life of their own quality of life? Yeah, extremely generous.

1038
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 2: I'm extremely grateful. I will do the exact same thing

1039
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 2: if I ever have a kid. It'll be like, oh sweet,

1040
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 2: and this is before uber and everything. Hey, go pick

1041
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 2: up the Chinese food or whatever. And for a little

1042
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 2: while you're like, oh cool, I get to drive, Like

1043
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 2: I get to drive, And after a while you're like,

1044
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:44,799
Speaker 2: I don't want to go to dance practice again. But

1045
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 2: if I had told my parents, like, what's in it

1046
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:49,600
Speaker 2: for me? You know, well, what are you to pay

1047
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 2: me for that? We'll be like, I don't know. How

1048
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 2: about the air you're breathing? How about you know what

1049
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 2: you're wearing right now? How about that car? How about

1050
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:01,799
Speaker 2: the how about how about eating? Sustenance?

1051
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:03,920
Speaker 1: Education? How about love?

1052
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 2: Can you imagine, Caitlin, if you had been like, well,

1053
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 2: you know, I don't know.

1054
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 1: First of all, I didn't agree to that, and.

1055
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:13,760
Speaker 2: Second, oh my god, can you imagine telling your parents

1056
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:14,839
Speaker 2: I don't consent to.

1057
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 3: That absolutely, And I had enough forethought to go like,

1058
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 3: I mean yes, sometimes it was frustrating because I was like, fully,

1059
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 3: like we had like a drop off pickup schedule. I

1060
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 3: was getting her from school, like I always had a

1061
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 3: car seat in my backseat.

1062
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: I looked like a teen mom in high school.

1063
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,839
Speaker 3: But I just I had enough forethought to go, okay, like,

1064
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 3: my parents have given me so much, Like the least

1065
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 3: I can do is like help them out.

1066
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1067
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 2: I know that as a kid, I was not grateful

1068
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 2: enough because I didn't have I didn't have the perspective

1069
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:46,880
Speaker 2: to realize like how hard it was for them to

1070
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,840
Speaker 2: provide the things they did. And I also was around

1071
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 2: kids who had as much or more than me, so

1072
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 2: it wasn't I had no example of how it could

1073
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 2: look and in retrospect, like, I'm just so grateful for

1074
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 2: all the things that they did. But I even then,

1075
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 2: even as a little snap nosed, little entitled kid, I

1076
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 2: knew better than to ask my parents to compensate me.

1077
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:11,359
Speaker 2: Can you imagine if you told her, like, here's your

1078
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 2: your older sister takes you in when your mom passes away,

1079
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 2: and then and then she's already got kids and there

1080
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 2: are all these kids, and so can you imagine if

1081
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 2: Helena had been like, hey, I need you to do this,

1082
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:28,360
Speaker 2: Makeitha and you're like, well, well right, and I said that.

1083
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 1: No, I would never do that for Helena.

1084
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:34,840
Speaker 4: But because I had a friend who was really like

1085
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 4: a second mom to all of her siblings, and like

1086
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:39,719
Speaker 4: we would have parties to go to the skating rink

1087
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 4: and I would be like, are you on duty tonight?

1088
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 1: Like can you come out? You know, like I got

1089
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 1: to watch the kids.

1090
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:47,879
Speaker 4: And I'm like, your mom had all those kids, that's

1091
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:51,359
Speaker 4: not your responsibility. So some parents, they really do put

1092
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 4: a lot of responsibility on the oldest.

1093
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, the oldest sibling, y'all are the strongest soldiers for real.

1094
00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1095
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 1: No, it's say it's like you need to be an

1096
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 1: older sibling.

1097
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 3: I think in a lot of ways, but it's we

1098
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 3: don't choose it, and that's okay, you know, but yeah,

1099
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 3: some parents do take advantage of it. I mean we

1100
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 3: had bell I would throw parties in the basement and

1101
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 3: Bella would be down there with her bottle getting passed

1102
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:15,320
Speaker 3: around by like right, just you know, I mean.

1103
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 1: That's what we would do.

1104
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 4: We would just go to my friend's house and babysit

1105
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 4: at her house and we would all hang out.

1106
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 1: But we were you know, I'm out here.

1107
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,279
Speaker 2: If you're treating the oldest sibling like a nanny, that's

1108
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,919
Speaker 2: one thing. But if you're just being asked to help

1109
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 2: out around the house because that's what family does, and

1110
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,839
Speaker 2: you're over here going m yeah. In her viral video,

1111
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:38,720
Speaker 2: she emphasizes that children are not free labor and should

1112
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 2: not be assigned adult responsibilities like cooking, cleaning, or babysitting

1113
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 2: without agreement.

1114
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:48,680
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Where are you going to live? Right, ma'am?

1115
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 2: Like what are you how exactly are you expected to survive?

1116
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:52,799
Speaker 13: Like?

1117
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,399
Speaker 2: Your parents are also not I mean, while I think

1118
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 2: a lot of parents probably feel like it, they're not

1119
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 2: like your servants, right, Like you still have to be

1120
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 2: a functioning member of a family, of a unit, like

1121
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:06,319
Speaker 2: if your parents expect you to keep your stuff in

1122
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 2: order or they you know. I remember my parents used

1123
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:09,840
Speaker 2: to be like, your only job is to go to

1124
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:11,799
Speaker 2: school and get good grades. That's the only thing you

1125
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 2: have to do. I can do it, man, right, It's

1126
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 2: like that's it. And I remember the time I thought

1127
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 2: it was such such an undertaking. My dad used to

1128
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 2: say to me almost every night, man, what I wouldn't

1129
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:25,840
Speaker 2: give to go back to school?

1130
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, you and your stupid line. That's dumb.

1131
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 2: That's dumb. I want out of here, I want out

1132
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,760
Speaker 2: of this prison. And you know what, what I wouldn't

1133
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 2: give to go back to school and learn more stuff. Seriously,

1134
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 2: the freedom, honey. I think the difference is I would

1135
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 2: I would choose what I wanted to learn and it

1136
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 2: would be on my terms as opposed to what they

1137
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 2: make you learn and at the time. But again, you know,

1138
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:48,720
Speaker 2: youth is wasted on a young perspective. But my god,

1139
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 2: if I'd say, yeah, I don't know about them, okay,

1140
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 2: well then dinner will be seventeen dollars, then I mean

1141
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 2: they can flip it on you too. Yes, they chose

1142
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 2: to have you, but I don't think that means that

1143
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 2: you don't have any obligation to be a part of

1144
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 2: a unit, right.

1145
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, don't take advantage.

1146
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:06,880
Speaker 11: No, my mom would send me back to Poland, like

1147
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:09,839
Speaker 11: with a one weight ticket back like I'm from there,

1148
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 11: but she would send me there with my grandma. She's

1149
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 11: threaten me before when I was a kid many of times,

1150
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 11: like when I didn't want to help out around the

1151
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 11: house or with my sibling or whatever.

1152
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,320
Speaker 1: Like we're four years apart, not that much of a difference,

1153
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:19,840
Speaker 1: but I was older, you would have to build the

1154
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 1: house that.

1155
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 11: You were I farm, literally, my mom came from a

1156
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 11: farm with nothing.

1157
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 1: She would clap in a hole like she did, like,

1158
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: I need milk for my cereal, Well then go milk.

1159
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 11: It's every morning, yes exactly. She climbed mountains to get

1160
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 11: to school.

1161
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: I heard all about it both ways uphill, which was crazy.

1162
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 2: I had no idea that geography in Poland was that way.

1163
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 2: Everything is uphill all the time, all the time.

1164
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 1: Hour walk. I'm like, oh my god, I.

1165
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 2: Just cannot imagine. I cannot imagine responding like that. My

1166
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,799
Speaker 2: dad would, my my mom really would have whooped me.

1167
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,359
Speaker 3: Where do they think this like code of conduct that

1168
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 3: they're like aligning two comes from, because you're you're under

1169
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 3: your parents house, your parents rules.

1170
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:01,760
Speaker 1: Like, where do you think your rights are coming from?

1171
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:05,280
Speaker 1: You have no rights? Yeah, I don't know your child.

1172
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,879
Speaker 2: Of course, the huge discussions now on her post about

1173
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:12,759
Speaker 2: the balance between family responsibilities and children's rights. Some argue

1174
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 2: that helping out is a part of growing up. Others

1175
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 2: believe that imposing such duties without consent can lead to

1176
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:21,839
Speaker 2: resentment and hinder personal development. In some ways, I think

1177
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:25,800
Speaker 2: it developed me, you know, and there was even stuff

1178
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:27,399
Speaker 2: that they would they would have me do and pay

1179
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 2: me for that I probably should have just done. But

1180
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 2: I also had no means of making money. And I think,

1181
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 2: you know, before a certain age when you can't.

1182
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:36,400
Speaker 1: Get a job. The very day I could get a job,

1183
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: I got a job.

1184
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 2: But I feel like, you know, mowing the law and

1185
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 2: they get me, which they claim I never did.

1186
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:42,959
Speaker 1: It's outrageous.

1187
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 2: They argue up and down, you never ever did that,

1188
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 2: and I'm like, no, no, I did that for years.

1189
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 2: It's so crazy. I'm like, where do you think I

1190
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 2: made that up? Like I remember the hiking boots I

1191
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 2: wore to mow the law, and I remember I remember,

1192
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 2: you know, if the sprin coursh had gone off, I

1193
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 2: couldn't anyway, don't get me started on this trauma.

1194
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 3: Parents don't like if you say anything happened other than

1195
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 3: like amazingness, They're like, Noah, that.

1196
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 1: Is son like that. I'm not even mad about it.

1197
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 1: I'm not mad. Y.

1198
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 2: I tell the joke all the time that now that

1199
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 2: I have grown up money, I want to buy a

1200
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 2: riding lawnmower because they wouldn't let me have one, and

1201
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 2: I want to just ride it around my parking rige

1202
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:21,319
Speaker 2: because I can have it if I want it. Yeah,

1203
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 2: big album Home Depot will hook me up with a discount.

1204
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:26,279
Speaker 2: Even it's amazing, But my mom calls me, you never

1205
00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 2: mowed the lawn, like what are you talking about? Anyway,

1206
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 2: But they would pay me, like I think whatever. They'd

1207
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 2: pay me twenty dollars to do that. And the reason

1208
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 2: they would I probably shouldn't have. They probably shouldn't have

1209
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:37,560
Speaker 2: paid me twenty dollars. They probably should have done it

1210
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:40,480
Speaker 2: because well, thanks for the you know, education and food

1211
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 2: and you know everything else. But I think, you know,

1212
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 2: when you're thirteen years old you want basketball cards all

1213
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 2: the time. It's like, all right, we'll go do something

1214
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:48,840
Speaker 2: and we'll give you the money, you know. And I

1215
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:52,359
Speaker 2: think it was like teaching you about work and being

1216
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 2: paid and saving you can, you know dot you know,

1217
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 2: by this much now or that much later or whatever.

1218
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 1: But even that, they didn't have to do that if

1219
00:52:58,400 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 1: they didn't want too.

1220
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:02,680
Speaker 2: I'm just telling people for the next twenty years, I

1221
00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 2: went to Juilliard, only to be discovered and uncovered and

1222
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 2: revealed as a liar.

1223
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: He's looking at Juilliard. Who's Julie? Julie did Julie Julie's Yard.

1224
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:17,880
Speaker 2: Julie Fred's show is on im to judge a person

1225
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 2: on what you believe the rules to be. And who know, like,

1226
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:23,840
Speaker 2: there are real rules and we have to be on

1227
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:25,240
Speaker 2: the same page with what they are.

1228
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 1: Because otherwise it's no fun to play. Right at the game,

1229
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:30,720
Speaker 1: lets you do it. That means that's a real rule,

1230
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 1: right right.

1231
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 2: But I think some people think that certain things are

1232
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 2: like that you can stack if you're playing one on one.

1233
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 2: I think people think that you could stack a whole

1234
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:43,840
Speaker 2: bunch of these, like reverse plus two and then just

1235
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 2: and then just like a barrage, just boom boom boom,

1236
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 2: and then it doesn't work that way. There are like

1237
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 2: certain cards that you like if I put it draw

1238
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 2: two down, then you draw too, and then I think

1239
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 2: you go. But I think people think that that's drawing

1240
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 2: is your I don't know what. I don't know off

1241
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:00,200
Speaker 2: the top of my head what these rules are. To

1242
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 2: look at them again, But there are certain rules that

1243
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 2: I think I always thought to be true, and they're not.

1244
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 1: Order us a fresh show. It's Kiki's Court, all right.

1245
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: The honorable Kikilik is here. Judge Kiki down.

1246
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 2: Take it away. You guys are at jury, by the way,

1247
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:18,959
Speaker 2: eight five five five. I want to hear your thoughts

1248
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 2: after we hear the case.

1249
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 4: I need them today because I'm torn. Let's get into

1250
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 4: this courtroom. It says, am I wrong for reporting my

1251
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 4: coworker for stealing food. I work at a mid sized

1252
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 4: tech company with a decent cafeteria. Nothing fancy sandwiches, snacks, coffee,

1253
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:38,680
Speaker 4: but it's all paid for by our company. Well a

1254
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 4: month ago I started noticing food was going rather quickly

1255
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 4: from our kitchen. Snacks will be put out at eight

1256
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 4: am and completely gone before noon. It became a running

1257
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:50,839
Speaker 4: joke in the office. We called it the lunch room

1258
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:54,880
Speaker 4: bandit striking again. People were getting annoyed. Some brought it

1259
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:58,400
Speaker 4: up in meetings. HR sent the friendly reminder email, and

1260
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 4: cameras were quietly installed near the break room, and we.

1261
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:05,800
Speaker 1: Were told it was just for safety reasons. Well two weeks.

1262
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 4: Later I walk into the kitchen and catch my coworker

1263
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 4: mid swipe, taking a handful of sandwiches and chips, slipping

1264
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:14,400
Speaker 4: it into his backpack.

1265
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 1: I was shocked. He saw me.

1266
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,239
Speaker 4: He froze, and then he muttered, it's not what it

1267
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 4: looks like. I still decided to report it okay. Later

1268
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 4: that day he was quietly escorted out by HR. However,

1269
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 4: the next morning, I get an anonymous email with the

1270
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 4: subject with no subject line, just a link. So I

1271
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 4: clicked the link and it was a go fundme page. Well,

1272
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:40,799
Speaker 4: apparently my coworker had secretly been raising his thirteen year

1273
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 4: old niece and sixteen year old nephew alone for the

1274
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,440
Speaker 4: last year after his sister died in a car accident.

1275
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 4: According to this GoFundMe, she died with no insurance and

1276
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 4: no help for the kids, leaving my coworker behind on rent,

1277
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 4: barely affording groceries, and sleeping on a couch so that

1278
00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 4: his niece and nephew can have a bedroom. No one

1279
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:01,680
Speaker 4: at work knew about this. He never told us that

1280
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 4: he was going through all of this. Well, the GoFundMe

1281
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:07,920
Speaker 4: said he didn't want to burden anyone and asking for

1282
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 4: help by asking for help, so he tried to handle

1283
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 4: it all by himself, and now because of me, he's unemployed.

1284
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 4: Now my co workers are split. Some say I was

1285
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:20,799
Speaker 4: right to report him stealing and stealing. Others say I

1286
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,360
Speaker 4: destroyed a man who was trying to feed some kids.

1287
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 4: Hr said, hey, their hands are tied. Once it was

1288
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 4: caught on video, and honestly, I don't know if I

1289
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:31,840
Speaker 4: would have done anything different, but I feel like garbage.

1290
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 1: Was I wrong? Man? Who? Wow?

1291
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 2: He's five.

1292
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:40,240
Speaker 1: You guys are the jury, but you're the judge, judge, Kicky,

1293
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:40,839
Speaker 1: what say you?

1294
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 2: Yo?

1295
00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 1: I lost sleep over this one over the weekend because

1296
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 1: I'm for.

1297
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 4: Real, for real torn because on one hand, I'm sometimes

1298
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 4: we need to mind our business, like sometimes we needed

1299
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 4: they put cameras there to be the police.

1300
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 1: Why did you share and feel the need to go

1301
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:57,000
Speaker 1: be the police?

1302
00:56:57,080 --> 00:56:57,239
Speaker 9: Right?

1303
00:56:57,800 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 1: You know, you know what you did. You didn't pay

1304
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 1: for this if it's not your stuff.

1305
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:03,040
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, it sucks that it's a perk that's

1306
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:05,680
Speaker 2: not available to you because it's all gone. But at

1307
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 2: the same time, like who are you to complain about?

1308
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:10,640
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, But then it's like, I.

1309
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 4: Mean you are still like it's so sad because now

1310
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 4: this man has no job and he's trying to take

1311
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 4: care of these two kids who have lost their mother.

1312
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 1: Okay, it's Sharon.

1313
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 4: You didn't, oh god, but Sharon thought she was doing

1314
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 4: the right thing at the time. So it's like, what

1315
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 4: do you do if you see your cowork is still

1316
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 4: it from work. I mean people steal paper, you know.

1317
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:31,040
Speaker 14: PM.

1318
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 2: I'm not saying a word, no, no, I'm staying out

1319
00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:36,920
Speaker 2: of it unless you're doing something that's like.

1320
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 1: Harmful to others, something gay, right.

1321
00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:43,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I don't know if you're selling company secrets

1322
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 2: or something. I mean something that could affect the bottom line.

1323
00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 2: That could mean that a bunch of people, you know,

1324
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 2: lose their jobs, or that the company closes or something.

1325
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 2: Something work, something's like really nefarious. I'm stealing sandwiches at work, yeah,

1326
00:57:58,200 --> 00:57:59,480
Speaker 2: I mean yeah.

1327
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 4: But you go every time you go to the breakroom,

1328
00:58:01,240 --> 00:58:02,280
Speaker 4: it's completely empty.

1329
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 1: There's not a snack.

1330
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 2: Well, that's just because they don't put anything there anymore.

1331
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 2: That's right, go there right now. That's because they cut

1332
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 2: a bunchet. You don't get to have nice things anymore.

1333
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 2: That's why that is.

1334
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 4: But it's like she feels as if she lost this

1335
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 4: man his job. But then on the other hand, he

1336
00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 4: kind of lost the job himself because he was stealing.

1337
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:25,920
Speaker 11: May I ask, though, are these like free snacks or

1338
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 11: is this like you gotta pay in the jar?

1339
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 1: Like, what's the deal with the snacks? It's all paid

1340
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 1: for by the company, so it's free snacks, so.

1341
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 11: He can't just say, oh, I wanted to eat these

1342
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:34,680
Speaker 11: doritos at home with my sandwich.

1343
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 1: Like sometimes I all got to here.

1344
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 11: With the breakroom snacks because I'm going to my car,

1345
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 11: but I still want to eat my funions.

1346
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 1: I'm just really confused.

1347
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 11: So, yeah, why you're such a company girl that you

1348
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 11: felt you felt the need to be the police of

1349
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 11: the chips and the whatever, the crackers, whatever the sandwich is,

1350
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:49,400
Speaker 11: and now you.

1351
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 1: Kind of blew up this guy's life. Yeah, and those

1352
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 1: poor children.

1353
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 2: I mean, if a company cared enough to look into

1354
00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 2: it to catch him, I guess that's one thing. But

1355
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 2: as a coworker, I get that the stealing is wrong,

1356
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 2: but it's also like, why are you such a busybody?

1357
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 2: Like this was a perk, This wasn't owed to you, right,

1358
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 2: and now this person's got much bigger problems when you

1359
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 2: could have just minded your own business.

1360
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 1: It's so sad.

1361
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 2: I think you got to Hey, Brittany, I'm with you.

1362
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 2: You got to mind your own business, right, Oh my god.

1363
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 5: So I get it, but like, yeah, it calls.

1364
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 4: Zero dollars and takes zero minutes to mind your own

1365
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 4: essing business.

1366
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 1: Like it's not that.

1367
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 10: It's never that serious, I promise you.

1368
00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 9: Like you said, if he was like packing information and

1369
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 9: you know, releasing like stuff like that, I get it.

1370
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 5: Well I'm somebody.

1371
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I just I think, yeah.

1372
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 15: You got to feed these kids.

1373
00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 10: And well, one thing I always say is you never

1374
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:53,040
Speaker 10: know what people.

1375
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:53,560
Speaker 1: Are going through.

1376
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 10: Yes, so like if it is that serious that he's

1377
00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 10: doing it, you never know.

1378
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 8: So now we should feel like absolute.

1379
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 2: Yeah we have Brittany, thank you, have a good day.

1380
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: Someone tells you this is tough.

1381
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 2: The company who failed the guy, well, I mean, I

1382
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 2: also don't know if the company failed the guy because

1383
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 2: they may not have known the context either. They're just

1384
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:17,920
Speaker 2: looking at it, like why are you taking all of

1385
01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 2: the things that we're putting on for everybody? Right, I'm

1386
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:22,959
Speaker 2: not sure if that's a determinable offense. But we also

1387
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 2: don't know anything else, Like it was just dude on

1388
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:28,920
Speaker 2: a performance thing was like you know, who knows if

1389
01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:31,040
Speaker 2: this was the only reason why, Like we never tend

1390
01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:31,920
Speaker 2: to have the whole story.

1391
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:33,520
Speaker 1: Was he worn before or something? Right?

1392
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 2: Right, like when people get let go, you know, we

1393
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 2: oftentimes don't know everything that was involved that being said,

1394
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 2: if this was the final straw and it her busybody,

1395
01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 2: as is the one that you know, like I just say,

1396
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 2: out of it, man, Hey, Johnny.

1397
01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 1: Hey, how you doing for it?

1398
01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 14: Hey?

1399
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 10: Man?

1400
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 2: Hey, good morning. So you say they should have fired

1401
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:55,440
Speaker 2: this guy, My thing is is okay.

1402
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 12: So I'm part of a family business, okay, And if

1403
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 12: we have employees stealing from their company, right, it wouldn't

1404
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 12: make the company look good. Small theft, big theft, It

1405
01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:07,520
Speaker 12: doesn't matter how you look at it. If they were

1406
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 12: smart enough and they would have come forward, I guarantee

1407
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 12: you somebody in that in that office would have helped

1408
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 12: them and would have offered groceries, would have done something

1409
01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 12: better than him stealing from a company that he worked for.

1410
01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:21,800
Speaker 11: Yeah, but it's not always like that. People don't want

1411
01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 11: to put their business out there too.

1412
01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean right, like maybe he can. But there's

1413
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:27,439
Speaker 1: right and wrong. You know, there's right and wrong, and.

1414
01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 12: There's they're stealing. No matter how you look at it,

1415
01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:30,600
Speaker 12: stealing is stealing.

1416
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 1: Stealing is a crime is a crime.

1417
01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 11: But I don't know, I feel like this lady writing

1418
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 11: in probably wants to take away free lunches for kids too.

1419
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 1: It's cool. I like somebody.

1420
01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:41,439
Speaker 12: I get both sides of it. I do understand both

1421
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 12: sides of it, but you have to realize, you know.

1422
01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 1: I'm also raising two boys.

1423
01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 12: How would I want my boys to act what I

1424
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 12: want my boys to steal? Or would I want my

1425
01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 12: boys to report somebody's stealing so that that way they're

1426
01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:52,919
Speaker 12: they're in the right.

1427
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:55,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. Yeah, Johnny, thank you man,

1428
01:01:55,520 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 1: have a good day.

1429
01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 2: I guess well a number of text years saying like

1430
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,160
Speaker 2: if she cared that much, why didn't she just go

1431
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 2: to him? You know, why didn't she just go to

1432
01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:06,240
Speaker 2: him like hey, look like I see you taking all

1433
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 2: this stuff, like you know, I don't get to eat

1434
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:10,360
Speaker 2: it because you got it all on your bag or whatever,

1435
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:13,040
Speaker 2: Like what's up with that? And maybe he would have explained,

1436
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:14,920
Speaker 2: and then maybe she could have helped come up with

1437
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:17,760
Speaker 2: a better solution for him. Then again, it's also not

1438
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:19,840
Speaker 2: her responsibility to come up with a solution, but maybe

1439
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 2: she could have been like, wow, okay, well I understand,

1440
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:26,360
Speaker 2: like there, let's come up with some other resources or something,

1441
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 2: because if you do get caught, you might get fired.

1442
01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:32,240
Speaker 4: Right now, she did catch him red handed in the kitchen,

1443
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:34,920
Speaker 4: and he said it's not what it looks like that.

1444
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 1: But it wasn't that's all he said. Though she still

1445
01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 1: report it, So why wasn't there a conversation there, like

1446
01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:49,280
Speaker 1: who just says that? And then another.

1447
01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:52,720
Speaker 2: Interesting point is is it stealing if it's free? Oh yeah,

1448
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 2: I mean it was only free to you. It wasn't

1449
01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:58,840
Speaker 2: free to the company, and it was a company benefit

1450
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 2: intended for everybody to have.

1451
01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:01,640
Speaker 13: Sure, so.

1452
01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 2: It is stealing because someone paid for it, you know,

1453
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 2: and this whole thing with like and then there are

1454
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 2: people going to never side with the multi billion dollar company.

1455
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:15,440
Speaker 2: It's like, well, I mean, the multi billion dollar company

1456
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:17,920
Speaker 2: is still paying your bills. You still work there, they

1457
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:20,480
Speaker 2: still bought the sandwiches, they're still providing the work environment.

1458
01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:22,200
Speaker 1: Like, don't I don't understand that.

1459
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:24,080
Speaker 2: It's like, well, we don't like the billion dollar company, Well,

1460
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 2: the billion dollar company is paying our bills, so I

1461
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 2: don't have to like everything they do. But I don't

1462
01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:30,440
Speaker 2: own the billion dollar company, so I don't get to

1463
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:31,479
Speaker 2: tell them how to do things.

1464
01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:33,040
Speaker 1: I can choose to walk away.

1465
01:03:33,480 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 2: I can choose to get a job somewhere else in

1466
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:36,640
Speaker 2: another multi billion dollar company.

1467
01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:39,160
Speaker 1: That happens every day. But you know, it's like, sorry,

1468
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 1: but this is I mean, we live in a hierarchy.

1469
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:46,120
Speaker 2: Guys like there's always going to be an owner of

1470
01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 2: the business and they're always going to be employees, and

1471
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:50,080
Speaker 2: some of us don't get to be the owner.

1472
01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:54,680
Speaker 1: Sorry, hey Emily, Hey hi Emily.

1473
01:03:55,320 --> 01:03:57,840
Speaker 2: So just to recap here, he's basically a dude was

1474
01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:00,680
Speaker 2: stealing free lunch from work, but they were providing for

1475
01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 2: the employees. It turned out that he may have been

1476
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:05,439
Speaker 2: stealing it was more than likely stealing it because he

1477
01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 2: was raising two kids at home that weren't he is

1478
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 2: and that he had nothing to do with. But he

1479
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 2: didn't have any money and was trying to make it work,

1480
01:04:12,400 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 2: but he wanted getting fired.

1481
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:14,640
Speaker 1: Nonetheless, what do you think?

1482
01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 14: Okay, so two things like one, so my company gave

1483
01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:22,440
Speaker 14: the snacks and lunch and stuff too, and I have

1484
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:25,600
Speaker 14: I openly admits my coworkers that I shake, you know,

1485
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 14: steal extras and whatnot.

1486
01:04:27,040 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 1: But it's mostly because they were going.

1487
01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 14: To expire and we have like a plusor us, so

1488
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:34,800
Speaker 14: opposite situation of we are not running low by any means,

1489
01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:35,720
Speaker 14: but you know.

1490
01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 12: Just.

1491
01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 1: Inventory.

1492
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 14: Well, I mean I'm not being wasteful, right, I actually

1493
01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:44,440
Speaker 14: saved in the company money.

1494
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, oh wait, how are you?

1495
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:49,280
Speaker 2: How are you saving the company money? I'd like to

1496
01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 2: hear more about that.

1497
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 1: I was just getting thrown away.

1498
01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:55,720
Speaker 14: I'm using I'm using their money they've already spent.

1499
01:04:56,200 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, Well fair enough, Emily.

1500
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:01,760
Speaker 1: I like how Emily thinks.

1501
01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:03,600
Speaker 2: See here we go in the text, peop are going, well,

1502
01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 2: this is billion dollar company is not paying a livable wage.

1503
01:05:05,680 --> 01:05:07,480
Speaker 1: We don't know that. We don't know any of this.

1504
01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:08,880
Speaker 1: We don't know.

1505
01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 2: Maybe they're not maybe they're not paying enough of a

1506
01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 2: wage for him to support two kids. But he didn't

1507
01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:14,880
Speaker 2: know he was going to have to. I don't I

1508
01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 2: don't know. There's a lot we don't know here. You

1509
01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 2: can't exactly just take, you can't exactly steal, you know,

1510
01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:27,000
Speaker 2: And it sucks that this dude has an extenuating circumstance.

1511
01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:30,280
Speaker 2: But you also, I guess I don't know why our

1512
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 2: fellow employees are ratting each other out either, Like I don't.

1513
01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:33,880
Speaker 1: I guess I would just.

1514
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:36,160
Speaker 2: Look the other way and be like, if you really

1515
01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 2: feel the need to take that many sandwiches home, there

1516
01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:40,560
Speaker 2: might my brain would go to there might be something

1517
01:05:40,600 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 2: going on, like my brain would would go.

1518
01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:44,240
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it's one of two things.

1519
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:47,880
Speaker 2: You're either that greedy and that didn't consider it, or

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Speaker 2: you're taking the food because you need the food and

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01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 2: and and that to me would that's I guess I

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01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:56,440
Speaker 2: don't know the answer, so I would stay out of it, right.

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01:05:56,640 --> 01:05:57,960
Speaker 1: What what's like the policy though?

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Speaker 11: Like, don't companies have pies where it's like some sign

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01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:02,320
Speaker 11: that says one.

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Speaker 1: Per person, don't take it out of the breakroom. Don't

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01:06:04,480 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 1: don't have that here? No, but we used to have,

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01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 1: you know, like a break room full of chips. They

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01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:08,959
Speaker 1: didn't say anything.

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Speaker 2: I mean, and you know what, they were people here

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01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 2: that would probably take eight chips, And there are people

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01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:14,520
Speaker 2: here that didn't take any. That's just kind of how

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01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:14,919
Speaker 2: it goes.

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01:06:15,360 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 11: Some people want it, they don't want it. But now

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01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:18,840
Speaker 11: I'm afraid the building with my chips, I don't know

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01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:19,440
Speaker 11: do I take?

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01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:26,120
Speaker 2: Don't you now if we had might be watching you?

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01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:28,880
Speaker 2: Maybe the reason we don't have I don't know what

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01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:30,520
Speaker 2: to do. It's like, look at you in your in

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01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 2: your in your in your cheeto fingers over there, Hi.

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01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:39,560
Speaker 13: Darren, good morning to my number one morning show.

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01:06:39,640 --> 01:06:42,880
Speaker 2: How does everyone that is the perfect way to start

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01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:45,640
Speaker 2: this call. You are a sexy man, you Darren. What

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01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:47,880
Speaker 2: do you think though, what's the what's your what are

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01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:48,560
Speaker 2: your thoughts on this?

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01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:49,440
Speaker 5: Well?

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01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:52,000
Speaker 13: You know, fred, I could think of a couple of reasons,

1548
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:55,000
Speaker 13: from worldly to biblical reasons why she should not have

1549
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:58,520
Speaker 13: told on that man. It doesn't matter what the reason is.

1550
01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:01,640
Speaker 13: Worldly speak and you just snitches get stitches.

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01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:03,600
Speaker 1: Just don't tell yuh.

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01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:07,960
Speaker 13: Biblically speaking. Let he who's without seeing cast the first done. Amen,

1553
01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:11,560
Speaker 13: and you just you just can't do that to people.

1554
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 13: That is between him and whatever he believes in. And

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01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:19,080
Speaker 13: if he gets caught by the higher ups, then he

1556
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:21,640
Speaker 13: gets caught. It should not have been in your hands

1557
01:07:21,640 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 13: to control that man. And that's exactly what you did.

1558
01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:26,400
Speaker 13: You control that man's life. And now look at he's

1559
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:29,520
Speaker 13: without a job, uh, and he has to support kids

1560
01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:32,680
Speaker 13: that otherwise he probably couldn't have done. So, like I said,

1561
01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 13: she should have kept her mouth shut.

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01:07:34,640 --> 01:07:36,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm with you, Darren on that and a lot

1563
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:39,120
Speaker 2: of other issues that people that don't apply to people,

1564
01:07:39,160 --> 01:07:43,360
Speaker 2: but they feel the need to insert themselves into. It's

1565
01:07:43,440 --> 01:07:45,640
Speaker 2: like if you if it doesn't apply to you, or

1566
01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:48,640
Speaker 2: you think it's wrong, then don't do it, and then

1567
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:51,200
Speaker 2: you don't, I guess you don't have a problem. But

1568
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:53,040
Speaker 2: then this extra step where I need to make sure

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01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 2: nobody else gets to do it either.

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Speaker 1: It's necessary a lot of times, Darren.

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01:07:58,160 --> 01:07:58,480
Speaker 13: It is.

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01:07:58,600 --> 01:08:01,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll look at that. Yes, a lot of reason

1573
01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:04,080
Speaker 2: there from Darren. Thank you man, have a good day.

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01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 1: You have a great deal.

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01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 2: Will Yeahiana, Hi, Tiana, good morning, good morning.

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01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:11,120
Speaker 1: Hey you say report this person.

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01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:17,320
Speaker 15: I do why because I actually have been a retail

1578
01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:20,759
Speaker 15: manager for a multitude.

1579
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Speaker 10: Of years, and I will tell you whenever someone continuously,

1580
01:08:24,760 --> 01:08:26,840
Speaker 10: you know, they get away with something and then they

1581
01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:31,839
Speaker 10: continue to potentially steal HR sends out an email, chances

1582
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:34,840
Speaker 10: are there's something else that they're doing wrong. What else

1583
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:38,840
Speaker 10: is missing? You never know with an individual, So it

1584
01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:41,320
Speaker 10: could very well potentially be I don't I don't know

1585
01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:44,280
Speaker 10: what company this is. Maybe some other funds are going missing.

1586
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do hate to say that because it could

1587
01:08:47,240 --> 01:08:49,760
Speaker 2: be again, run reaching here, but it could be a

1588
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 2: slippery slope. And I don't know how much money this

1589
01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:56,400
Speaker 2: this represents to the company, this benefit they're providing. But

1590
01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:58,400
Speaker 2: if you were to say this guy was stealing one

1591
01:08:58,439 --> 01:09:00,760
Speaker 2: hundred bucks a day from the company or fifty bucks

1592
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:04,200
Speaker 2: a day, That right there, I think would resonate differently

1593
01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:06,040
Speaker 2: with people. I think if you were to say this

1594
01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:09,000
Speaker 2: dude siphoning off fifty bucks a day secretly from the company,

1595
01:09:09,120 --> 01:09:11,200
Speaker 2: and then it turns out to pay for these kids food,

1596
01:09:11,520 --> 01:09:14,520
Speaker 2: that's a noble cause. But the money, I think immediately

1597
01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:15,880
Speaker 2: would be oh, terminate him.

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01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:16,599
Speaker 1: Fire him. Done.

1599
01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:20,960
Speaker 2: Well, he kind of is stealing money from the company,

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01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:24,920
Speaker 2: but in the form of food. So why is one

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01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:27,080
Speaker 2: okay and the other one wouldn't be okay? Because I

1602
01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 2: bet you if you had said he's sealing fifty bucks

1603
01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:31,640
Speaker 2: a day, one hundred percent of people would call up

1604
01:09:31,640 --> 01:09:32,640
Speaker 2: here and say, well, you can't do that.

1605
01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:34,959
Speaker 1: Right, And that's kind of what he's doing.

1606
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:36,960
Speaker 10: To you exactly.

1607
01:09:38,080 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you so much, have a good day.

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01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:42,760
Speaker 15: Yeah, I wanted to say, I love you guys, thank

1609
01:09:42,800 --> 01:09:43,519
Speaker 15: you so much.

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01:09:43,400 --> 01:09:45,160
Speaker 1: Thank you, love to have a good day.

1611
01:09:45,560 --> 01:09:47,880
Speaker 2: And then like, I don't know, again, I think I

1612
01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:49,519
Speaker 2: would do my best to stay out of it because

1613
01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:51,800
Speaker 2: I really don't like conflict and drama and I don't

1614
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:53,920
Speaker 2: want to be But then what if you're on camera

1615
01:09:54,200 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 2: watching this. Okay, I know I'm reaching again, but like

1616
01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:00,519
Speaker 2: you know, devil's advocate here. What if they look into

1617
01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:02,640
Speaker 2: this and they see you're standing there too, and you

1618
01:10:02,680 --> 01:10:05,840
Speaker 2: didn't say anything, right, because you know, we have to

1619
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:08,759
Speaker 2: take that stupid training every year where it's like basically

1620
01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:10,600
Speaker 2: we're supposed to turn everybody in that we see do

1621
01:10:10,640 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 2: anything that I was supposed to be doing. Like if

1622
01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:15,759
Speaker 2: we see somebody, you know, breaking company policy, we're supposed

1623
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:17,000
Speaker 2: to tell the company about.

1624
01:10:16,760 --> 01:10:18,639
Speaker 4: It, right, because now I can't get a raise because

1625
01:10:18,680 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 4: you took seven sandwiches.

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01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:23,240
Speaker 1: The fread show is on a friend's fun fact.

1627
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:31,599
Speaker 3: Fred Fun so much, Learn.

1628
01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:34,719
Speaker 1: So much? Guys.

1629
01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 2: Did you know the first ever alarm clock could only

1630
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:40,639
Speaker 2: ring at four am?

1631
01:10:40,960 --> 01:10:43,000
Speaker 1: Which that would have worked for most of us? Yeah,

1632
01:10:43,080 --> 01:10:43,800
Speaker 1: would have been perfect.

1633
01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:47,799
Speaker 2: So my alarm goes off the first time, The seventh

1634
01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:50,720
Speaker 2: time is around four fifteen, as I hit snooze over

1635
01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:53,519
Speaker 2: and over again. The first American alarm clock was invented

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01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:57,360
Speaker 2: by Levi Hutchins in seventeen eighty seven. It took sixty

1637
01:10:57,439 --> 01:11:02,080
Speaker 2: years for the French inventor and on Redier. I don't

1638
01:11:02,080 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 2: know if I said the ring, it's a patent, an

1639
01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:08,840
Speaker 2: adjustable one, but yes, the very first alarm clock would

1640
01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:11,920
Speaker 2: only ring at four o'clock in the morning.

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Speaker 1: More Fredshell Next