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Speaker 1: I refuse to attend my coworker's birthday because she had

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Speaker 2: Birthdays are lawless place. Birth yeah yeah, birthday these are

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Speaker 2: a lawless, lawless place. I want to blow out your

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Speaker 2: birthday candles. You can say, I can't blow your birthday candle.

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Speaker 3: I want to do it out.

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Speaker 1: I want to take a poop on your birthday.

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Speaker 4: Cack.

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Speaker 3: I thought that was it. I just want to you

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Speaker 3: said no, I want your presence. Their mine, their mine.

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Speaker 1: What is this rule that the birthday person gets the presents.

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Speaker 3: That's a crazy rule.

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Speaker 1: That's a crazy rule, and I won't stand for it.

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Speaker 1: That's going okay. So I twenty two female, had this

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Speaker 1: and she invited me and those mutual friends to a dinner.

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Speaker 1: I was actually excited to go and have a great

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Speaker 1: time because I'd just gotten in apart hell yeah, hell yeah,

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Speaker 1: growing for super stressful process, and I was also buried

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Speaker 3: Cuh that's a crime.

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Speaker 1: That's a crime. That's why there's I don't.

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Speaker 3: Know if the sirens okay.

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Speaker 1: She initially sends the invite with all the details and

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Speaker 1: so I RSVP, but the next day she sends out

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Speaker 1: a message saying, hey, guys, I forgot to mention this

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Speaker 1: on the invite, but I do not want any alcohol

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Speaker 1: or substance use going on. And also, please don't order

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Speaker 1: any meals with pork or chicken. I would like to

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Speaker 1: keep the table in a Brescatarian vibe. The restaurant has

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know about that.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to get drunk at your party. Don't gate

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Speaker 1: keep alcohol from me. I'm trying to do lines at

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like that maybe a little.

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Speaker 5: I feel like if it was like a dinner like

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Speaker 1: At a rest no alcohol, well what if they what

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, That's what I'm saying. Like, I feel like

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Speaker 1: Like I think it's okay to break coke or alcohol

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that as a pescytarian, I think I like.

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Speaker 1: As a member of the pescatarian community.

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Speaker 5: I feel like maybe just because like if they were

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Speaker 1: But because it's it's weird that they're like, don't order

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Speaker 1: any pork or chicken. That was that's a literally strange

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's just like I think at your house you

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Speaker 5: don't please, don't bring any like non pescatarian dishes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well, I guess like there's a thing where it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: Luck, you could, but like I've had those and I've

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Speaker 5: been like, hey, we have like a couple of vegan

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Speaker 1: Like but that's more so everyone too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah exactly. But I feel like when you're at

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Speaker 3: a restaurant, yeah, we're eating your own meals.

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Speaker 1: So I was planning in partaking in absolutely all the

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Speaker 1: want to be restricted to just seafood when going out,

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, you don't have to eat seafood. You can

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Speaker 1: If a crab touches my pigs, I will go ballistic

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Speaker 3: I'll be drunk and.

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Speaker 1: Will not go to this party's over. It's how been before,

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Speaker 1: and being punctured with an EpiPen on my one night

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Speaker 3: My oh, my drama.

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Speaker 1: When I told her, of course, she asked why we

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Speaker 4: You so much for inviting me, but there's certain things

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Speaker 4: I like to partake it with going out, and out

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Speaker 4: of respect for you and your boundaries, I just want

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Speaker 1: You again for your birthday of cars. It's a lot,

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Speaker 1: a lot. Op you kind of sound like you suck.

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Speaker 3: That was I feel like, Ope, you should have just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have to be. You don't have to

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Speaker 3: You're freaking boring.

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Speaker 5: So if I can't even blackout drunk at your birthday party,

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Speaker 5: I don't want to be there.

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Speaker 1: She took offense and said that the reason is because

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Speaker 1: Then she found solace in her religion after and said

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Speaker 1: religion doesn't allow for meat consumption. I have no clue

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Speaker 3: P A man?

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Speaker 5: Well okay, well one, there are quite a few religions

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Speaker 1: I think, like, what doesn't allow coww yeah, buzzle.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Jade.

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Speaker 1: I think Jainism doesn't allow to eat to any living thing. Yeah, Buddhism.

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of Buddhists are vegetarian. Vegetarian Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I feel like one night, okay, I think that the

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Speaker 1: I understand if not wanting to have alcohol at your party,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I think I.

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Speaker 5: Got sorry, there's cat here and I'm allergic cats.

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Speaker 3: I think that Op, Wait where was I what was the.

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Speaker 1: Same A lot of religions?

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Speaker 5: No, I think Oh, I think it was a little

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Speaker 3: However, it is their birthday, and I feel like you

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Speaker 1: If one of my friends was like, Hey, I'm going

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: No, I think that because it seems like I don't

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, or it's like by one night a week

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Speaker 5: It seems like they're not even going out at all.

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Ope, I think you're the asshole here, but I would

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Speaker 1: love to know what everyone else thinks. Put your answers

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Speaker 1: for your birthday?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What are your birthday?

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Speaker 1: What are your birthday rule? The birthday slash king so

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Speaker 1: let us.

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Speaker 5: Birthday dictator and Birthday Dictator.

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Speaker 1: And also thank you for Sophia for coming on the

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Speaker 1: show again. Hopefully you guys still like her? All right,

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Speaker 1: well you still like me? This is an episode from

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Speaker 1: Deep within the Archives.

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Speaker 6: Time for okop Relam.

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Speaker 1: I banned my girlfriend from a house after I got

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Speaker 1: a patornity to test that proved that she cheated and

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Speaker 6: You know I'm gonna go out on a limb here.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if you're an a.

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Speaker 1: Hole, I don't know. I think she should go to

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Speaker 1: the the other daddy's daddy's place about day there? How

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Speaker 4: Daddy?

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Speaker 1: My ex and I have been together for two years.

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Speaker 6: I have your child, which I guess one could be excited,

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Speaker 1: I can't one of these mother in laws being normal.

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Speaker 6: Hate on board, baby, you feed usaty.

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Speaker 1: Here, daddy, I'm not gonna not gonna feed you. That's right,

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Speaker 1: Go feed us and me. This was a week ago.

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Speaker 1: She moved her stuff back to her parents' house, but

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Speaker 1: Were in a relationship. Like, come on, and he's been

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Speaker 1: through a lot of emotions, I mean, from realizing I

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Speaker 1: was possibly a father to the betrayal I felt when

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Speaker 1: her cheating was confirmed. Honestly, I feel so emotionally raw,

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Speaker 1: and sometimes I agree with them that maybe I should

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Speaker 1: take her back and just care for the kid. Was

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Speaker 1: I unfair to this unborn child? Am I a total

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Speaker 1: piece of shit for not wanting them in my home

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Speaker 1: in this vulnerable time for them? She cheated on me?

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Speaker 1: But is this a situation that I should suck it

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Speaker 1: up and take care of them? Anyway?

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Speaker 6: She broke the trust and this he did not have

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Speaker 6: the child with her, So the child isn't her responsibility.

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Speaker 1: It does.

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Speaker 6: It suck that she's kind of like the doesn't have

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Speaker 6: the greatest place to go. It does, but it's just

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Speaker 6: not I think he had a bare minimum deserves some

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Speaker 6: space to like think through and figure out because it's

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Speaker 6: not his child.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and also, like all these friends that are being like, yo,

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Speaker 1: you should like take care of this kid. Flip it

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Speaker 1: back on them being like, hey, this baby isn't mine,

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Speaker 1: this baby isn't yours. How about you example and take

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Speaker 1: care of this baby that is also not yours.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it's like, hey, hey there's a poor defenseless baby.

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Speaker 6: That's that's you know, not gonna have the best setup.

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Speaker 6: We're both we both know this person and have no

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Speaker 6: relation to it whatsoever.

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Speaker 1: So by all goings means take care of This is

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Speaker 1: a absolutely awful situation. But I don't think OP is

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Speaker 1: actually like responsible or shouldn't be OP. Again. It sucks,

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Speaker 1: but I release you.

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Speaker 2: OP.

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Speaker 1: You're free to go. You are not the Ahle fly away.

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Speaker 1: You beautiful dove, beautiful bird.