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Speaker 1: Is that one job we refer to the strong? Or

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's classic. That's what I've always heard about

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Speaker 1: My breaking point happened last week when my mother and

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Speaker 2: It's literally the best place to fly with a mask.

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Speaker 3: What are you doing? I love them, I love them,

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Speaker 3: The cowardly dog.

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Speaker 1: Do that again, I am That's why he's the king.

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Speaker 1: Thank goodness, let's go. He was the father of the

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Speaker 1: Baby nephew is a human being.

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Speaker 2: Hm main point number one, not a stray puppy to

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Speaker 1: He needs some stability low key true. Second point stuff

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Speaker 3: Yes, I like it.

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Speaker 1: If you're not part of the solution, you're part of

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Speaker 1: It is bad for the baby and the others involved.

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Speaker 1: Point number four to my mom. Stop enabling her. Point

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Speaker 1: Point Number six to me by the babysitting schedule. Well done, kiddo,

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Speaker 1: I cried in relief. That is an amazing six point plan.

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Speaker 1: Say a six point plan. I see why Rose is

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Speaker 1: No, I was it that that was.

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Speaker 2: he like just randomly starts improving. He goes like, I

436
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Speaker 2: got a plan, six point plan. It's we're gonna get

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Speaker 2: we're gonna meet on it and go back right now.

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Speaker 1: And he had no plan. I wish, I think, But anyways,

439
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:47,159
Speaker 1: so did Riley is back of us.

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Speaker 3: Both of us looked at each other and we were like,

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Speaker 3: what is he talking about?

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Speaker 1: It was it was a bit from the office, and

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Speaker 1: John asked, I did ask I know, but we were like, John,

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Speaker 1: get back to this sorry. So my sister then admitted

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Speaker 1: that while she loves my nephew, she felt unfit to

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Speaker 1: be a mother and wasn't fully conscious of the responsibility

447
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Speaker 1: it would take to raise him. Apparently my mother was

448
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Speaker 1: aware of that, and her response was to make was

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Speaker 1: to make me babysit my nephew in order to make

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Speaker 1: my sister feel less stressed out whack, and yes, to

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Speaker 1: make me hopefully change my mind about having kids in

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Speaker 1: the future. Aunt Golden and Rose already talked to my

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Speaker 1: mom about that. Dude freaking wies for gold Golden on Rose.

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Speaker 1: Rose then said, worst case scenario, she and my cousins

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Speaker 1: talked and either her eldest son and daughter were willing

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Speaker 1: to adopt my nephew. Okay, Aunt Rose just pulling up

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Speaker 1: with all the solutions. Apparently both had discussed it with

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Speaker 1: respective spouses and all on board if it came to that.

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Speaker 1: To be honest, while it is good that my nephew

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Speaker 1: would be living in a safe home, Rose and my

461
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Speaker 1: cousins are amazing people, it would hurt hurt. It would

462
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 1: hurt not seeing him as often anymore, because remember the

463
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 1: Rose family leylaf kind of far away. It was a

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Speaker 1: big deal. They drove in. Rose emphasized to my sister

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Speaker 1: to think it through carefully and that if it came

466
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Speaker 1: to that, it would be a permanent adoption, not a

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Speaker 1: day care service where she could dump him for days

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Speaker 1: last weeks and then pick him up later. That's mainly it.

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Speaker 1: My sister will be seeing a therapist next week. Mom

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Speaker 1: and I have apologized, and I clarified I didn't actually

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Speaker 1: want to be reimbursed for the money in my nephew's

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Speaker 1: college fund, which I think is good if you kind

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Speaker 1: of got to stand by that, I think. I think

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Speaker 1: also some members of the extended family also apologize for

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Speaker 1: pressuring me to babysit in the first place. Wow, I'm

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00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:45,400
Speaker 1: back at my house and I've com and have compromised

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Speaker 1: to babysit three times a week, all according to my

478
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Speaker 1: personal schedule, for a reasonable period of time, during the

479
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 1: three times my sister will be joining me, as she

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Speaker 1: admitted she felt she didn't really know my nephew and

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Speaker 1: hasn't really bonded with him. Wow. Wow, it's a lot

482
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: going on in the fourth quarter here. My goodness, you

483
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 1: are correct. So, uh, since the baby is somewhat attached

484
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 1: to me, the three of us will be spending more

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Speaker 1: time together. And if you want to spend more time

486
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 1: with us, guys, we have full length episodes with stories

487
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Speaker 1: just like these. Just go to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or

488
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 1: your favorite podcast app and search Okay, story time and

489
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 1: you have over eighteen hundred episodes. You can spend it

490
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Speaker 1: with us. But I want to spend this time with

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Speaker 1: the coda asking him, did Rose not just perfectly solve

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Speaker 1: everything here?

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Speaker 2: No, I was going to say immediately that Rose is

494
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Speaker 2: I think the first like person who's gotten the golden

495
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 2: child like label. Yeah, and is not like just a nightmare.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like.

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Speaker 2: The actual golden She's the golden egg, the golden goose

498
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 2: where it's just like, oh, it actually shows up. It's

499
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 2: like actual gold. It's like gold for everyone. She spreads

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Speaker 2: the gold.

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00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,679
Speaker 1: She earned her gold like she she is the golden

502
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 1: child because everyone respects and looks up to her as

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Speaker 1: she's kind of like the matriarch of the fan like

504
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Speaker 1: the gold.

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00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 2: The gold just radiates off of her. She's not hoarding

506
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 2: the gold like a greedy dragon. She's just like a

507
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 2: angelic like like Hercules coming up the river sticks?

508
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:34,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, is that the right river thing?

509
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 5: It?

510
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: But the point still stands, Rose I think basically perfectly

511
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,640
Speaker 1: solved everything and like shout out to roast are basically

512
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: being like I'm gonna drive down there. We're all gonna

513
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: meet together and we are going to sell. I mean literally,

514
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:53,159
Speaker 1: Rose is the embodiment of what we try to do

515
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: in this show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, but could it be that Roses goldenness

517
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 2: as like the snap back effect of because she's the

518
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 2: one who's always like, all right, I've got the solution.

519
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 2: I'm taking point, I'm taking charge. That's why everyone else

520
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 2: in the family seems completely unable.

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00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: To tie their shoes, like you know what I mean, Like.

522
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 2: Possibly she's so good. Everyone else is like, ah, we

523
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:23,640
Speaker 2: can be bad. She's got us covered. Possibly possibly, my guess, like.

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Speaker 1: Op for instance, she did earnestly like try to have

525
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: a good solution with the schedule, but then she also

526
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: says them after things. I think, I think this family

527
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 1: is just kind of kooky, but Rose's.

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Speaker 3: I mean, from all the context I've gotten from this family,

529
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Speaker 3: it's just a lot going on.

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Speaker 1: It seems a little nuts so yeah, but let's see

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Speaker 1: the final resolution of the story. Overall, I think it

532
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: was a good resolution. Wow, I did even know that

533
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 1: was coming out, but time will tell. I really really

534
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 1: hope my sister will improve and be the moot and

535
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: be be the moon, be the moomy. I was gonna say,

536
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: Moon Moony, Hello, my moon, John, thank you my moon too.

537
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: I really really hope my sister will I prove and

538
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 1: be the mom my nephew deserves. Thank you all for

539
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 1: the supporting comments. Whenever I felt that I did was wrong,

540
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 1: your comments really helped me lessen the guilt, and some

541
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 1: of you even made me laugh. Hopefully this will be

542
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: my last update, so thank you all. And guess what

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00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 1: it is. Happy good, happy time. Thank you Rose. There

544
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: we go. Thank you Rose, Rose the goat. Someone said in.

545
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Speaker 3: Shot she rose to the occasion.

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00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 1: Whoa, she really did, though, You know what. If Rose

547
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 1: was on that door, she would have made room for Jack.

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00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: She would have kept on the boat. She would yeah,

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Speaker 1: she wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: Actually, she would have prevented the sinking of the Titanic.

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00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: She would have said, ice move. She would have been like, hey,

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00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: there's an iceberg. I see it. You know what? And

553
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 1: the guy would have been like, Oh, we're dressed like

554
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: we're on the Titanic. Oh dude, that is funny. Well,

555
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: I mean to suits.

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Speaker 3: I like how both of you at the same time

557
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Speaker 3: both did that. You did the little yeah, little pay.

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Speaker 1: We're looking we're looking like we're looking at it. Suits

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00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:17,959
Speaker 1: over Just a couple of good looking guys over here,

560
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Speaker 1: a couple of inexplicably good looking.

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Speaker 2: Guys with with hats that don't match the outfit.

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Speaker 1: That on the bottom wakes, but it wakes. Where's your hat?

563
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 2: Kean?

564
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 3: No, I'm Leonardo DiCaprio in the bottom. I'm Jack.

565
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 1: I think you're a top. That's all I'm gonna say.

566
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Speaker 1: Let's compliment.

567
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 3: I think what you think and whatever you want.

568
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 1: Oh God, think whatever you want to think. It doesn't

569
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Speaker 1: change the facts. But I'm Jack. Do we have any donos?

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Speaker 1: Let's check these don let's check let's check back to

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Speaker 1: the past.

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Speaker 6: Jack.

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00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 1: Okay, wait, did that go back up to the top

574
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 1: on that one?

575
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 3: This one?

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Speaker 1: We did that not change?

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00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 3: Okay, No, we haven't.

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Speaker 2: We had Emily, thanks for the five gifted memberships. Growing

579
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Speaker 2: the family, one sweet baby at the time. Hannah again

580
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 2: with the fifty piece saying peace out, leaving shortly until

581
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Speaker 2: next year. Radish thinksh's being a member for seven months.

582
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Speaker 2: Happy New Year, y'all. Thank you for being here streaming today.

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Speaker 2: Hope everyone enjoys their night. Thank you, Radish, and I

584
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Speaker 2: hope you enjoy yours as well.

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00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: I've been enjoying mine so far, that's for sure. Me

586
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 1: too and a PE member for three months.

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00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 2: Uh My hubby and I are both ADHD and have

588
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 2: three beautiful ADHD kids. Our life is constant chaos. But

589
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 2: I always tell my kids being normal would be.

590
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 1: So boring, Ain't that's the truth. Yeah, yeah, you're like,

591
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: we don't want to be like any of these normies. Sorry,

592
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: uh did just day them? Thanks for being a member

593
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Speaker 1: for seven months.

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00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 2: Every Year's eve stream broke my toe yesterday. Sitting down

595
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 2: to watch is healing. It is the frequencies of our

596
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 2: voices are healing.

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00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 1: You were fleshed. There we go.

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00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 2: Kean cake bouncing is appreciated. Creepy Internet wink? What does

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00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 2: that give us? A creepy Internet?

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Speaker 3: I think I just did. Maybe I can't make it creepy.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, like wait, makeke a look weird? I

602
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 3: don't know I can do that. Mm hmm, all right,

603
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 3: keep reading.

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Speaker 1: Amy. Thanks for the two bucks.

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00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:47,479
Speaker 2: Uh outdo Sam on fun and for slacking uh and

606
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 2: for slacking off in Mexico.

607
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: Hey, even founding. Father's got to take a break every

608
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Speaker 1: once in a while. Sometimes you just need a little

609
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: break in down there in Mexico.

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00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 2: Mind guys, times you guys, you gotta take a little

611
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 2: trip down in Mexico?

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00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: Are we missing? Gwenny Blye.

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00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 2: Thanks for the three dollars, John equals Tom Petty.

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Speaker 1: Happy New Year are I wanted you to read it

615
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Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, Happy New Year r to you too,

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00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: Happy New Year are and thank you? Oh you know what,

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00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 1: that's just Jennifer Coolidge, Happy New yar oh, Happy New

618
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Speaker 1: Year like the fourth of July the hot dog.

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Speaker 2: Emily, thanks for the five bucks. Happy new Year's guys,

620
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Speaker 2: I'm finally out of retail. Hello, i'd celebrate finally being

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Speaker 2: able to catch alive. Well, congratulations on escaping.

622
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Speaker 1: The clutches of retail. We love you, sir, We're glad

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Speaker 1: that you're here. Emily.

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Speaker 3: There was one comment I think it came up twice

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Speaker 3: to coda about you saying fart like a popcorn or

626
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 3: something like that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I can't all the crazy stuff I

628
00:33:58,480 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: said tonight, and that was what made me go.

629
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Speaker 3: What, I can't find it?

630
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 1: Fart like a popcorn?

631
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 3: Something someone far like a pop Damn.

632
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: Girl, you got me farting like a popcorn.

633
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 3: It's like if you if if your fart smells like

634
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 3: popcorn and everyone smells. I don't know, I need it.

635
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 1: You can't dangle that in front of me.

636
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 3: And I can.

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00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 1: I saw that too, but it seemed strange. Yeah, I

638
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 1: did not know.

639
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 3: And then I think Avery from the Swamps said, my

640
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 3: hair looking fabulous, thy thing.

641
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: Oh it's looking great, thank you, you inspire me.

642
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, his hair looks pretty good, even though he cut

643
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:33,239
Speaker 2: it when I told him not to.

644
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 3: It's gonna grow bag, Oh nobody?

645
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 1: Or is it longer if you hadn't cut it.

646
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Speaker 3: I'm honestly only one person here can have really really

647
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 3: long hair. That's John. That's not true.

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00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:45,839
Speaker 1: You've seen my hair?

649
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 3: Yeah?

650
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 1: Is it?

651
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 3: Where's it now?

652
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 1: It's gone? Where did it go? It's gone for ten years?

653
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 1: As a uh frequent flyer on the long hair gang,

654
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,359
Speaker 1: growing out too far is kind of overrated because you'd

655
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Speaker 1: be getting mad dead ends, split ends. Yeah. Yeah, AnyWho,

656
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Speaker 1: and it's m Yeah, okay.

657
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Speaker 2: I got the first not that I got in my hair.

658
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 2: I had to cut it out because I couldn't brush

659
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Speaker 2: it out. That was when I was like, and I'm

660
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 2: not growing a girl my hair anymore. And then I

661
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Speaker 2: cut it all off.

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Speaker 1: I respect it, respect real bad. It like the base

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Speaker 1: of my neck, base of my skull.

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Speaker 3: John, this one is a fifteen You do you think

665
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Speaker 3: we can knock it out?

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00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh okay.

667
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Speaker 3: When the next one is a three kit, it's I

668
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Speaker 3: see it yep, So we'll probably do this one.

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Speaker 2: Says Dakota. When you far ask if anyone smells popcorn,

670
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 2: because they'll take a big whiff.

671
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:45,359
Speaker 1: That's devious. It's a mean.

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Speaker 2: I don't have any I'll keep that in mind for

673
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:49,800
Speaker 2: my enemies and also my closest friends.

674
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. Very cool, and thank you.

675
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 3: Are we ready for this next one? You have my mother,

676
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 3: my mother and my mother, John, how's your voice doing?

677
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 1: Stually? Surprisingly great. I think I'm finally recovering me too

678
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Speaker 1: from huzzah our unnamed patient zero.

679
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Speaker 2: Yeah, will remain nameless who and.

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Speaker 3: We'll still say that they didn't do it.

681
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 2: Against them infected alright, let's close out.

682
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Speaker 1: We are closing out the New Year's dream with the story.

683
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: Let's dive in. My mother and mother in law won't

684
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 1: stop interfering with my wedding. I might call the whole

685
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: thing off. It's just too many mothers to be having

686
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: this wedding. I might just call the cops. Well, bright

687
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:39,919
Speaker 1: and blast, call the cops. Call the cops on both

688
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 1: of your mom Yes, my fiance twenty three male and

689
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 1: I twenty six female, will have been together for four

690
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 1: years in spring, and he proposed in July of this year.

691
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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Confused Booe eight on

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Speaker 1: the r slash. Okay, story time severed it. So we

693
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 1: were thank you. We were really excited to plan our

694
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: wedding and make it everything we wanted to be. So

695
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 1: we decided to have a longer engagement to give us

696
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: time to enjoy it and have some time to save

697
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 1: up money. Because weddings are expensive. Say it again, Well.

698
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 2: They don't have to be, but it's true, Nimes, they

699
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 2: can't be. For context, my fiance and I are average

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00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 2: middle class. We don't make a bunch of money, and

701
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:18,719
Speaker 2: but we budget and save to make sure we can

702
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 2: live comfortably.

703
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: While still affording to just exist. I'm also working on

704
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 1: completing my psychology degree. My mom and stepdad make very

705
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: very good money, like six figure incomes each, but are

706
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 1: extremely stingy. Our wedding is booked for Spring twenty twenty six,

707
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:41,759
Speaker 1: and we have booked our venue photographer DJ Flowers, and

708
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 1: have our bridal party and attire selected. I appreciate your laughs,

709
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 1: but we have been struggling to find a caterer that

710
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 1: doesn't cost an arm and a leg. So we found

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00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 1: a restaurant that can cater our wedding for less than

712
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: half the cost of an event cater and we know

713
00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 1: we will be very happy with it because we enjoy

714
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: the rest of food. Low Key seems like a great hack.

715
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 1: Event caterers will obviously charge at the wazoo. Ask some restaurants, Hey,

716
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Speaker 1: would you be down to just like cook a big

717
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: meal and can kind of a w idea.

718
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 2: Ask the restaurant would you be willing to have me

719
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 2: pay you to make food?

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00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: Will you do it for me?

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00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,879
Speaker 2: They're like, I'm actually pretty familiar with that process. Now

722
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 2: that you mention it, I think.

723
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: I might Yeah, good idea. Let's hammer out the detail.

724
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: The only downside is there won't be any weight staff.

725
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:32,399
Speaker 1: Our guest list is one hundred and twenty people. There

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00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,839
Speaker 1: you go, and all of that is family with a

727
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 1: handful of friends. My fiance and I have spoken to

728
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 1: a lot of people invited slash in the wedding and

729
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: they're all supportive of our decision for catering. For catering

730
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: and think it's reasonable to place trash cans around the

731
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Speaker 1: perimeter of the venue so people can dispose of their trash, plates, cups,

732
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: et cetera. We have to clean up after ourselves. Oh no,

733
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: at the end of the night anyways, as part of

734
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:59,439
Speaker 1: the venue agreement. That's too bad, That's okay. Here's where

735
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 1: the drama ensues. Here's where the real tea is getting spilt.

736
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Speaker 1: I spoke to my mom about this decision because she

737
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,320
Speaker 1: has offered to help us pay for some of the wedding.

738
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Speaker 1: I was so excited that I found a good alternative

739
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 1: to an expensive cater with good food and told her this.

740
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: She proceeded to belittle and tear down every decision I

741
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 1: have made about the wedding thus far. The colors, the date,

742
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,959
Speaker 1: the bridal party, the vendors, the fact that we plan

743
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 1: in so far out we nitpicking that you planned? How

744
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 1: dare you? How dare you plan ahead? Hey, it's too

745
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 1: far ahead. I don't know what I'm going doing in

746
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:37,319
Speaker 1: spring of twenty twenty six. I know what I'm doing

747
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 1: next month. That's it. Stap it. I'm in today and

748
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 1: tomorrow only, stam it literally anything she could nitpick all

749
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: because she didn't like that there wouldn't be wait staff.

750
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:54,319
Speaker 1: She told me, verbatim, I will be cleaning all night

751
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: and won't be able to enjoy myself. I am the

752
00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: host of the wedding, so I will look bad if

753
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 1: I she plays in them to cups everywhere I pay

754
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 1: for day catering, I'll pay for the day catering. I

755
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:11,840
Speaker 1: feel so cheap. Well, well, most catering for a wedding

756
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,800
Speaker 1: our size is around thirty five hundred to five thousand

757
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 1: bucks two thousand dollars on the cheaper end, and that

758
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 1: is over half of what we paid for the venue.

759
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 1: We simply cannot afford that. Anyway. I listed out all

760
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: the pros and cons for our restaurant catering plan and

761
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: my mom to my mom, and it still wasn't enough

762
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: for her pros cheaper price for a larger quantity of

763
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 1: food compared to event caterers, guaranteed good food that many

764
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,280
Speaker 1: people enjoy, and full buffet set up by the restaurant.

765
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 1: By the way, they said, two thousand dollars was like

766
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 1: the like the cheapest estimate to feed one hundred and

767
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 1: twenty people? Is that?

768
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 3: Like that deal?

769
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 1: Is that not? Like kind of a crazy deal?

770
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 2: Like what I think that's you do? I don't think

771
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 2: you can get that for that many people. Sixteen bucks

772
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 2: a plate, I mean, oh wait, actually, never mind, Yeah

773
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 2: you can.

774
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: That's really good. Well, sixteen bucks a play and then

775
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: you factor in all the other costs unless you want

776
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:14,400
Speaker 1: to go to freaking Chipotle catering. All right, hey, no

777
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: free sponsors.

778
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:17,959
Speaker 2: Crap, which you can't even do that because that place

779
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:21,799
Speaker 2: doesn't exist. Yes, no thing as Chipotle until they give

780
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:22,840
Speaker 2: us money.

781
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:24,399
Speaker 1: I'm saying it.

782
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 2: I'm only saying it in a way where it doesn't

783
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 2: exist too late. It exists, No, it doesn't, dude, don't

784
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:35,760
Speaker 2: don't try to find.

785
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 1: It, don't. No, now you know, Okay, just to keep reading,

786
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 1: Yeah I will so uh uh. There will be guaranteed

787
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 1: good food, more pros, guaranteed good food that people will

788
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: enjoy and full buffet set up by the restaurant cons

789
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:55,359
Speaker 1: no weight staff, meaning we clean up after ourselves. The end,

790
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: she was adamant that she wouldn't be the wait staff

791
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: for the night because she can't start the mess and

792
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: it would be a mess because people are inconsiderate, and

793
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 1: she would be miserable all night long.

794
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,400
Speaker 2: Dan, can you imagine being so miserable that just like

795
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 2: other people's messes in a space that doesn't belong to you,

796
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:14,720
Speaker 2: like makes you upset?

797
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like it's less about you having to

798
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 1: clean up this mess and more about you are just

799
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: so worried about people thinking you're the greatest stuff are

800
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 1: that you being weight staff cleaning other people's duty dishes.

801
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,439
Speaker 1: That's what it feels that. She's like, I need weight

802
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 1: staff to judge and yell at excuse me, wait, here's plates.

803
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 3: It helps oune. It helps so much that you're wearing

804
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:41,879
Speaker 3: a suit, It just makes it all right better.

805
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: I look like both the waiter and the like obnoxious

806
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 1: rich person. Look at this suit I'm wearing.

807
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 2: See the suit I'm wearing compared to this suit you're wear,

808
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:51,280
Speaker 2: miss the waiter man.

809
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:53,959
Speaker 1: That's all I have to say.

810
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 3: We'll both We're both penguins.

811
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 2: I am the penguin of this city and the only

812
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,800
Speaker 2: room for one of us.

813
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 1: True, I haven't watched that show pretty honestly, you're pretty

814
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 1: spun on. You gottam, you got it the coda, the

815
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 1: impressionist pain, bring the pain. So she then proceeded to

816
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:18,279
Speaker 1: compare my wedding that hasn't happened yet to hers and

817
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: my sisters. Both had very nice weddings, both much but

818
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: much larger budgets than my fiance and I have. She

819
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 1: also tore apart the way I've cheaped out on vendors

820
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 1: in order to save money. Disgusting. I have literal spreadsheets

821
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: of research on vendors I have spoken to because we

822
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 1: are balling on a budget. Yeah, why would you ever

823
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: disparage that? Dude? Come on, she's being a responsible adult

824
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 1: and doing the best she can. So at this point,

825
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:45,839
Speaker 1: she has had me on the phone for forty five

826
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,399
Speaker 1: minutes talking down at me, and I am fully zoned out.

827
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 1: I forgot to add that she was on speakerphone while

828
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:52,800
Speaker 1: my fiance was sitting with me, so we heard everything.

829
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 1: At one point, he said, this is our wedding and

830
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:58,279
Speaker 1: we are choosing things based on what we want. She

831
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 1: meaning me, works all day and then spends all evening

832
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: researching and contacting vendors. You aren't saying anything she doesn't

833
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 1: already know, so stop talking to her like she doesn't

834
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 1: know what she's talking about. Dude, to say that to

835
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 1: the mother in law, not your mother, take some take

836
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 1: some of these. Well, it takes a lot of yapping

837
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: on the other side too, Yeah, to get to that point,

838
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:28,319
Speaker 1: to get to the point where you're like, dude, be

839
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 1: gone from me, Oh my god. Oh yeah. Anyways, she

840
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: realized that I was completely done with the conversation, and

841
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 1: she ended it by saying, if I have to pay

842
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 1: for it so I don't have to be a server

843
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 1: for a night, I will, but we'll talk another time.

844
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 2: I'd be like, all right, juh, we just talk to

845
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 2: all the talk you needed to talk.

846
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: We'll go ahead and pay for it. I'd be like,

847
00:44:57,600 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: ten grand go ahead.

848
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 2: Notice how you didn't say anything about me paying you back,

849
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 2: but go ahead and.

850
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: Pay for it. Yeah, that's right. This alone has been

851
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 1: stressing me and making the second guests all my decisions.

852
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: Oh no, but I also have a mother in law

853
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 1: that is stressing me out as well. My mother in

854
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: law is very excited for our wedding and is being

855
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 1: very helpful most of the time. She is collecting decorations

856
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:22,879
Speaker 1: and offering so much help to day with me, which

857
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 1: I gracually and I greatly appreciate it. We recently got

858
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 1: some engagement pictures taken and I shared a few on Facebook.

859
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:32,880
Speaker 1: My mother in law commented on one of the joke photos,

860
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 1: saying this would make a cute save the date. The

861
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 1: photo is my fiance and I sharing a kiss and

862
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 1: I am flipping off the camera.

863
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:45,360
Speaker 3: Nice got it a nice What are we in high school?

864
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: Nice? A? Not as a classic classic? That's the classic move,

865
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:57,319
Speaker 1: classic move with my ring finger showing the ring off.

866
00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 1: That's kind of fire, all right there. That's respect there

867
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 1: afect that. I liked the comment and said it would

868
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: be very funny. Two weeks later, my mother in law texted

869
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 1: me that she had made magnets out of that photo

870
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,399
Speaker 1: and she wrote save the Day and our wedding date

871
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 1: on them and sent them out to some of my

872
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:13,760
Speaker 1: fiances family.

873
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 2: Wait nah, why are you Why are you making mischievous schemes?

874
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 2: M you know better than that's not a photo that

875
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,360
Speaker 2: goes on the on that and also she put it

876
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 2: on magnets.

877
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: This is interesting. I was gobsmacked, and it s took

878
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: me a good while to respond. Op, I don't blame you,

879
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 1: but I asked her to send me a picture of

880
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: the magnets, a list of who she sent them to

881
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 1: and how many she made.

882
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 2: The it's just the way that you said magnets made

883
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 2: me like, just to me, it sounded like you were like.

884
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 1: Yo, what's going on with these magnets?

885
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:48,320
Speaker 4: Though?

886
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then just the way you just said magnets

887
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,799
Speaker 2: to like, just to hit it just right and be.

888
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, and those magnets.

889
00:46:56,760 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 2: Somebody needs to start asking about how do I get

890
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:00,800
Speaker 2: some of those.

891
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're taking, but I will have

892
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 1: whatever you're having time to go to. I will take

893
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: a slice of that. My friend, oh, in a good way.

894
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 1: I don't know magnets. Magnets. Speaking of which, the magnet

895
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 1: is very cheap and a pixel it and has pixelated

896
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: the photo and she wrote save the date and the

897
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: date in sharpie on it. Whatever you're imagining is probably

898
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 1: better than how it turned out. I was pissed, to

899
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 1: say the least. She also sent the magnets to my

900
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 1: fiances out of state family, some of which were not

901
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: on the guest list. It's so easy to not do

902
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 1: the worst thing you could do. It's just you just

903
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: don't do it. Just don't do that thing. That's it.

904
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 1: Save your time, go for a walk, drink some tea.

905
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 1: I don't know, watch your favorite show.

906
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 2: Would you invite random people to someone else's birthday.

907
00:47:56,600 --> 00:48:00,920
Speaker 1: With a pixelated, flipping off magnet? Yeah, so don't invite

908
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:05,839
Speaker 1: them to wedding. Ah side note, my sister makes fun

909
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: of my She says, my middle finger looks crazy.

910
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 2: No strong, that's a that's a normal look and finger

911
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 2: if anything, that's an aesthetic.

912
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:16,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, it looks like he's.

913
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 1: Got like abs, like it would be good to draw.

914
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 3: Whow Maybe she's just jealous.

915
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:24,800
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe, But anyways, So my fiance was also upset

916
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:26,840
Speaker 1: with her because she didn't talk to us about this

917
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 1: and contact her about it. Her response was, well, I

918
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 1: commented about it on Facebook like that was a logical

919
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 1: reason to do that. He then went to their house.

920
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:35,839
Speaker 3: Uh.

921
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:37,840
Speaker 1: He then went to their house and took the remaining

922
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 1: magnets that she had. Somebody gets it, Yeah, right. Another

923
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 1: few weeks went by without incident. Besides some small conversations

924
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: where she offered help on something that we never discussed

925
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 1: and didn't want to do. She got passive aggressive when

926
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 1: we told her that her ideas weren't part of the plan.

927
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 1: But last week she decided to post a save to

928
00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:02,359
Speaker 1: date magnet she made on face Book without asking us.

929
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 1: My fiance doesn't get on Facebook, and I did not

930
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 1: see it until eight hours after it was posted, so

931
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 1: I immediately texted her asking her to take it down.

932
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:13,399
Speaker 1: Asking her to take down the post because we don't

933
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 1: want our wedding information shared without our consent, and we

934
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: don't want people seeing that and expecting an invitation when

935
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:24,399
Speaker 1: they're not invited. Her response was, no, one will see

936
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 1: it by my face reprints.

937
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 2: Oh you mean that you're like that, like your Facebook

938
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 2: friends who aren't invited.

939
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, all eight hundred of them. Yeah, yeah, you fool now, Darian,

940
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 1: I only my face boy friends. You fool, fly, you fool,

941
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 1: fool fool. I did my best anime impression of a villain.

942
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 1: Feel like, I feel like you would be able to

943
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:53,359
Speaker 1: get Freeza really good.

944
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 3: Let's not give him ut you could get he could

945
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 3: hit Freezer.

946
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna try to hit Freeza. Let's not.

947
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:02,800
Speaker 1: I just mean the voice. You don't look like Freezer.

948
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. It's okay, John, Okay,

949
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 1: so I said, Okay, I still don't want things about

950
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: our wedding post it unless my fiance and I are

951
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 1: posting about it. I got no response, but the post

952
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 1: was removed. These are just the big things that have

953
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 1: come up in the planning process that have caused me

954
00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 1: unnecessary stress. My sister and fiance have been my only

955
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:25,320
Speaker 1: saving grace these last few months because they know how crazy,

956
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 1: Because they know the crazy I'm dealing with. My fiance

957
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 1: and I have made jokes about going and getting a

958
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 1: loaded with my sister, brother in law, and nephew as

959
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: a witness. By the way, you can witness full episodes

960
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:39,279
Speaker 1: with stories just like the one we're reading right now

961
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 1: on our podcast. Just go to Spotify, God, Apple Podcasts,

962
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 1: any of your favorite podcast apps and just search, Okay,

963
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 1: story time, it's going to be there. There you go,

964
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:54,359
Speaker 1: It's gonna be there. That's the that's a clear plan

965
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:58,839
Speaker 1: to me, me mear path to more stories. I have

966
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 1: to ask you this question very quickly and just fair warning.

967
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:04,839
Speaker 1: This is the nuclear option, as quick as you can. Now,

968
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 1: do we uninvite both moms from the wedding? Mm hmmm.

969
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 1: I think did they have positions? Were they like not that.

970
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 2: I would say, at the very least take them off

971
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:26,879
Speaker 2: any positions where they're like making decisions or yeah, it's

972
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:29,800
Speaker 2: just like at this point, yeah you are.

973
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 1: Send well yeah, I mean I guess they're not.

974
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 2: You definitely send the one who's like sending that the

975
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 2: invitations to everyone and like, yeah, you know what both

976
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 2: or don't invite either of them at this point?

977
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 1: Well, this is what matters.

978
00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 2: What is it going to make your wedding day as

979
00:51:56,880 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 2: good as possible for you? And if you're both of

980
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 2: your your mom and your mom in law are stinking

981
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 2: it up.

982
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I won't say for sure. He's making

983
00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 1: a good point. I don't know. I think I think

984
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: he's making a good point. And I think that I

985
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:22,400
Speaker 1: don't think that they should because at this point they

986
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,360
Speaker 1: would have to uninvite them because they're both already invited,

987
00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 1: which is even harder and more nuclear. But I think

988
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 1: they should just sit down and just her and her

989
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:35,879
Speaker 1: fiance and just have an open brainstorming session, no wrong ideas.

990
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,879
Speaker 1: What do we want to make our wedding as fun

991
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 1: and enjoyable as possible. I'm not I don't necessarily I'm

992
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 1: not going to advise him to do that, but maybe

993
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 1: talk about it. Let's talk about it. I think get

994
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 1: rid of the one mom, which one, the one who's

995
00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 1: like I mean waiters, and I get rid of that one.

996
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:03,359
Speaker 1: At least the other one was helpful in other areas. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

997
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: that one that Op's mom just purely sucks. Okay, fair

998
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 1: enough enough, Well, she can watch the playback there we go,

999
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:12,839
Speaker 1: the highlight reach. She can live stream it. But op,

1000
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: he continues, but we are now starting to genuinely consider

1001
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: it because oh wait, oh yeah so, but we are

1002
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 1: now starting to genuinely consider it as in having just

1003
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 1: like three or four people at their wedding and the

1004
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 1: lope because of all the unwonted opinions and actions from

1005
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:31,280
Speaker 1: my mom and whether in law, I have very strong,

1006
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: willed and independent I have no problem telling them off,

1007
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:37,800
Speaker 1: telling them to knock this crap off. But family is

1008
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:41,360
Speaker 1: important to my fiance and UH and I, and we

1009
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 1: don't want to cause problems. We also value our happiness

1010
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,239
Speaker 1: and the dream of our wedding more than pleasing them.

1011
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 1: That that is the way to say it. We are

1012
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 1: both just fed up at this point and don't know

1013
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 1: how to continue planning peacefully unless we just don't tell

1014
00:53:56,239 --> 00:54:01,319
Speaker 1: them any information. Help Well, someome help comes in from

1015
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 1: some comets. No ear ninety nine says, oh geez, such

1016
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 1: drama entitlement for mom and mother in law. I can

1017
00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 1: absolutely sympathize with your idea of eloping, and a large

1018
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: large of me A large large says go for it. Yeah,

1019
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:20,400
Speaker 1: eloping will have consequences afterwards. Your mom will likely call

1020
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 1: you class listen, cheap. Mother in law may not forgive

1021
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: you at all because she's so excited and involved. The

1022
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: only to turn I can see that might work is

1023
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 1: to uninvite them both. Hey, we forget that out there.

1024
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:34,280
Speaker 1: I am sure you understand that will mean more drama.

1025
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 1: Do not waiver. Keep those boundaries well defined. These two

1026
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 1: old girls need to understand the meaning of the word

1027
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:45,279
Speaker 1: good luck upy Yeah, true, and that's it.

1028
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 2: I feel like the might be like, well, think of

1029
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 2: all the drama it'll cause down the line, But that'll

1030
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 2: just be like the mom not letting go of Like, well,

1031
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:55,839
Speaker 2: remember when you had your wedding without me, it's like, yeah,

1032
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 2: remember why remember.

1033
00:54:58,080 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 1: Why we decided to do that?

1034
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1035
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 2: Uh, because somebody, somebody's behavior was a little unbecoming.

1036
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:10,719
Speaker 1: Like, where's the point where we actually if we don't

1037
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:14,399
Speaker 1: stand up for our boundaries and what we want at

1038
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:20,960
Speaker 1: our wedding, that's yeah, the question what do we do?

1039
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 2: You flip it back on the If the mom's like wow,

1040
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 2: I'd be like, Okay, would you have let me do

1041
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:26,240
Speaker 2: that at your wedding?

1042
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 1: Would you let me?

1043
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:28,839
Speaker 2: Would you have let me come into your wedding and

1044
00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 2: tell you what I wanted, like it was the law.

1045
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:35,719
Speaker 1: I like that and they would say no, and then

1046
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 1: you go. And that's why you weren't at mine. He says,

1047
00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: what you would do with m I like that. I

1048
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 1: like that, and I don't like Yeah, I don't like

1049
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:50,879
Speaker 1: it to share that. This is the end. It is.

1050
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: We have reached past the timer.

1051
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:55,799
Speaker 3: Before we get to I was like, Oh, he's gonna

1052
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 3: do this. I can't let him say like this.

1053
00:55:57,600 --> 00:56:01,879
Speaker 2: There's you know what stream is twenty twenty four, that's

1054
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 2: crazy stream of twenty twenty four. Remember when we started

1055
00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 2: in the new year, I mean the year ago, Dakota

1056
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:11,400
Speaker 2: in last year, almost last but it was such a

1057
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 2: long year.

1058
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:14,880
Speaker 1: I started almost last year ago.

1059
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're so close to being remember last year.

1060
00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 1: Is it not insane that? What is it? Is it?

1061
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:25,839
Speaker 1: Three months for Kean? Two months for you? How long

1062
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:26,879
Speaker 1: has it been a little bit?

1063
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:29,799
Speaker 2: Started, a little bit, yeah, full full time. I at

1064
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 2: the beginning of November, and you came in. I guess

1065
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:32,479
Speaker 2: the beginning of.

1066
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 3: Like I would the end of October. Yeah, a little

1067
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 3: bit middle of October, end of October.

1068
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's god, that's November and December. Yeah, that's crazy,

1069
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:45,239
Speaker 1: that's crazy. There's there's no chance that that's true. You've

1070
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:45,799
Speaker 1: been here.

1071
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 2: You were here from it you I've been here. Started

1072
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 2: like the end of September. He was kind of like

1073
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:51,440
Speaker 2: I was.

1074
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:53,959
Speaker 1: I remember I was. Yeah.

1075
00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I came in and did like my first like

1076
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 2: guest spot, just like coming.

1077
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:01,440
Speaker 1: To work with you. I think October twenty first I

1078
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 1: was like, bring your pet to work day, Yeah, like

1079
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:09,600
Speaker 1: this is my pet. No, it was. It was bring incredible, brilliant,

1080
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:13,960
Speaker 1: amazing pet, awesome pet, incredible, man. You can't make me

1081
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 1: he he who over here we gotta hear he? No.

1082
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 3: I knew I knew the code. It would be great.

1083
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 1: Ah, I love it here, guys. Really, this has been great.

1084
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 1: I love you know what. One of the proudest things

1085
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 1: of twenty twenty four was adding you to to the team.

1086
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:36,959
Speaker 3: Oh no, sorry, just did it the same up.

1087
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:39,520
Speaker 1: Trying back together?

1088
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 3: Thank you, John. No, it's been, it's been. I love

1089
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 3: it you guys. Everyone here is great. You're all great. Yeah,

1090
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 3: except for the haters.

1091
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 1: Good.

1092
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:53,360
Speaker 3: But I love my haters my motivation.

1093
00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 1: I love the haters.

1094
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 3: The haters are my motivators.

1095
00:57:57,520 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 1: The motivaters.

1096
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:06,600
Speaker 3: We gotta we gotta read some.

1097
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 2: Jem Well, Kimberly fine, thanks for the two dollars.

1098
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 1: No, it's better than twenty four.

1099
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 3: What what is it? Patrick?

1100
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 2: Oh, Jim, thanks for ten bucks at every Day Loser

1101
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 2: has the best wedding story cow bells and cow field.

1102
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 1: Oh I hope no cow patties. Please send it to

1103
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:42,840
Speaker 1: our stats. Okay, short time. Yes, I feel so bad

1104
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:46,600
Speaker 1: saying Everyday Loser's username because I don't want to call

1105
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 1: them that, but that's their username. I feel every day.

1106
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 2: The nomenclature of loser can be reclaimed, like like you

1107
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 2: got Beck.

1108
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: He's like he had the song.

1109
00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 3: About being someone who dated Beck. Yeah, I know someone

1110
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 3: who knows someone who did I want there? I want apparently.

1111
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:08,439
Speaker 1: Schwarzenegger. What am I doing wrong?

1112
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 3: Oh? I played basketball against the Sun.

1113
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:13,160
Speaker 2: I would trade every celebrity siding I've ever had to

1114
00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:14,800
Speaker 2: be able to see Arnold Schwarzenegger.

1115
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:18,720
Speaker 3: Oh, he was at my basketball games. He was anator.

1116
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: He was looking at me like because I was on

1117
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 1: my I was on my little Venice bike path and

1118
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 1: he was recording the sort of documentary and then he

1119
00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 1: just rolled past.

1120
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 3: He was like, yeah, that's what he looks like.

1121
00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:31,600
Speaker 1: But he was like giving me a snanky look.

1122
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:32,560
Speaker 3: Anyways, yeah he does.

1123
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 1: Are you only bike path? Enough of my failed celebri

1124
00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to compute.

1125
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:42,720
Speaker 3: I played I played basketball at Patrick and that was cool.

1126
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:45,040
Speaker 1: His son, Did he dunk on you?

1127
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 5: No?

1128
00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 1: It was y m c A. We really child but

1129
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 1: child children? Wow?

1130
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 3: Brain strong, brain strong dunk on you?

1131
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 2: Though?

1132
00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 3: No he didn't. He wasn't tell he sure he didn't.

1133
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 3: Actually I actually locked him. I'm gonna I'm gonna say this.

1134
00:59:58,960 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 3: I locked him up pretty good.

1135
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: Oh you terminated him.

1136
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:05,160
Speaker 3: I terminated Patrick Boom. But again we were like it

1137
01:00:05,200 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 3: was like twelve year old.

1138
01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 2: But butterfly effect you never mind, never mind, No, I'm

1139
01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 2: lost 's.

1140
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 1: Okay, be hope arts.

1141
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 2: Thanks for being remember for seven months besides my diploma, okay,

1142
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 2: storytime and y'all are my twenty twenty four core memories. Well,

1143
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:26,000
Speaker 2: congrats on your diploma. Hey yeah, thanks for the reality

1144
01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 2: checks and laughs. Here's too many more next year, love y'all.

1145
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 3: A little burb As, everyone's like being so sentimental in

1146
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:34,720
Speaker 3: the comments, like it's so sweet.

1147
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, because we had a little one, because we had

1148
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 1: a little this is really having a little moment. We're

1149
01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:40,800
Speaker 1: having a little moment.

1150
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:42,320
Speaker 3: Read that one. That's really cute.

1151
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 2: Little Bourb says, love seeing Kean's cake, Oh, hold on,

1152
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 2: hold on, hold on all right, love seeing Keon's cake,

1153
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 2: Dakota's dimples and smile, John's old jokes, Sam being a dork,

1154
01:00:53,560 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 2: Riley being chaotic, and Sophia being the best worm queen

1155
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 2: of all.

1156
01:00:57,000 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: Thanks urb Bourb best, We have the best community.

1157
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 3: Look what everybody wants, keep going here, love you.

1158
01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:08,280
Speaker 1: Stella says, I'm trying to lock da Coda up. Oh

1159
01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:12,320
Speaker 1: you can try, but they can't lock me down.

1160
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:14,440
Speaker 3: See what happened?

1161
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 1: You know what memory? We can't. If we can't, You've

1162
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 1: got a lot of chrome tabs open right now? Oh yeah, wait,

1163
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 1: that's crazy. You not enough memory? Yeah, you've got too

1164
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 1: many tabs open? How many picture tabs do you have

1165
01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 1: right now?

1166
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:28,959
Speaker 3: I don't have that much.

1167
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, that is actually crazy.

1168
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 3: We don't hear I got you, I got you.

1169
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 1: We got this beast of a computer for what I think.

1170
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:41,680
Speaker 2: I don't even think. I don't think that's it. I

1171
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 2: don't think I think that's browser memory. I don't even

1172
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:45,480
Speaker 2: think that's our I don't even think that's right.

1173
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 1: I think it just is it memory?

1174
01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 3: It just kind of it just went, It's all good.

1175
01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:55,160
Speaker 3: Is there any other we have more? Yeah, we have more,

1176
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 3: because guess what when it when we have more? They

1177
01:01:58,200 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 3: always of course you're.

1178
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:02,440
Speaker 2: Right, Emily, thank you for the two dollars. I had

1179
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 2: a really hard year. You guys made it easier.

1180
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:06,040
Speaker 1: Emily.

1181
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:10,040
Speaker 2: It makes my heart warm to hear that, And I'm

1182
01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:11,920
Speaker 2: sorry you had a hard year, but I'm glad.

1183
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 1: That we could help.

1184
01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 3: It only goes up from here, upswing.

1185
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 1: Upswing, generational upswing.

1186
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:20,360
Speaker 2: Right now, I will hear no talk of how things

1187
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:23,120
Speaker 2: are gonna get worse, only how things are gonna get better,

1188
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 2: because we're on the upswing, Like that upswing time. Kimberly

1189
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:32,040
Speaker 2: Fine says twenty five, Little Bird, remember for four months.

1190
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:34,240
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for all the kind words. Happy

1191
01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:39,520
Speaker 2: new Year, Okay, happy new Yeah, okay, story time. It's

1192
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 2: been nice watching you all grow and happy to have

1193
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:44,680
Speaker 2: joined the okay fam four months ago.

1194
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 1: Love all of you, Love you too, Little Bird.

1195
01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:52,240
Speaker 3: Thanks Bird, all right, we got those, we got people arts.

1196
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:57,800
Speaker 2: Dev did Dirty Birds seven and then in parentheses, Dev

1197
01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:02,000
Speaker 2: did Dirty Birds seven. Thank you for the five dollars.

1198
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:06,440
Speaker 2: Dono uh, Dominique Carmona, thanks for the five bucks and

1199
01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 2: for your first donu.

1200
01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:10,080
Speaker 1: That's cool. That's Happy New Year.

1201
01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 2: Uh, first time on a live almost done with work,

1202
01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:16,920
Speaker 2: Happy New Year's Eve, planning to get duck costumes for

1203
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:19,440
Speaker 2: me in hubby pictures every holiday.

1204
01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:21,920
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty five? Is that? Is that a New Year's thing?

1205
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 1: Like a duck being ducks? I want to costume, but

1206
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:28,439
Speaker 1: I love it? Yeah? Is that just a youth? Yeah?

1207
01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 1: I do love that regardless.

1208
01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:33,480
Speaker 2: And dev di Dirty Bird parentheses Dev to Dirty Bird,

1209
01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:35,640
Speaker 2: Welcome to the Knights.

1210
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:38,560
Speaker 3: Thanks for the five shing shing of the.

1211
01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:44,920
Speaker 2: Year shing shing shing, and I'll have to knight you

1212
01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:45,720
Speaker 2: guys next year.

1213
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:48,360
Speaker 3: That's that's it, guys, that's it. I think.

1214
01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:51,000
Speaker 1: Wow, we also in our in our clothes off. Let's

1215
01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:52,480
Speaker 1: say instead of see you tomorrow.

1216
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 3: See you next year, the next year. But I'm gonna

1217
01:03:54,720 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 3: give them one last thing, give up. The people will

1218
01:03:57,400 --> 01:03:58,800
Speaker 3: want Gwinnie.

1219
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:02,439
Speaker 2: Bly we didn't miss your super chat. I saw it here,

1220
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 2: go up to we'll get hit whenny bought?

1221
01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah we did, we did. Ready, John is tom petty? Yeah?

1222
01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:10,320
Speaker 1: We exactly happy New Year?

1223
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 3: Are maybe she maybe maybe you weren't there.

1224
01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:15,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, we decided that the way that New Year was

1225
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 2: spelled is actually just the way Jennifer Coolidge would pronounce it.

1226
01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 1: Hodog real bad happen?

1227
01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh and we love typos.

1228
01:04:25,280 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 1: Don't worry about it. We love it.

1229
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:29,840
Speaker 3: Okay, So wait, wait am I walking? What am I

1230
01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 3: doing here?

1231
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:30,440
Speaker 4: We do?

1232
01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:32,280
Speaker 3: We're doing the clothes off first? What are we doing here?

1233
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah? Give him the one last last cake of

1234
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:39,600
Speaker 1: literally there were there can never be another cake of

1235
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:41,720
Speaker 1: twenty twenty four, so let's do it right, final cake

1236
01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:43,320
Speaker 1: of twenty twenty Four's give it to him. Good.

1237
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:44,840
Speaker 3: What's up, freckles, I see you?

1238
01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 1: Oh oh oh oh wait a second, oh oh oh

1239
01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 1: my god. That seems working over time. Oh my god,

1240
01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 1: how was it holding it in?

1241
01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:59,560
Speaker 2: Our graphics processor is gonna explode from trying to fiddle

1242
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 2: that cake into one screen.

1243
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 1: Okay, holy god, holy got yeah, entertained, says close off.

1244
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 3: O uh maybe.

1245
01:05:14,920 --> 01:05:19,560
Speaker 6: Okayf bad chat coming all right, that's the last of

1246
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:26,080
Speaker 6: my cakes for cake smash smash fame for you?

1247
01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:29,920
Speaker 1: Nice bomb? Where are you from? Where you're from?

1248
01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 3: Here? Happy New Year's guys, because they're gonna do close out,

1249
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:36,520
Speaker 3: so I'm gonna do my close out first. Happy New Year's.

1250
01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:38,920
Speaker 3: It's been a hell of a ride with y'all, and

1251
01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:41,280
Speaker 3: I cannot wait to see what's happening in the new

1252
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 3: twenty twenty five. I love you all. Be safe, make

1253
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:50,040
Speaker 3: friends not family. Yes, unless if you're trying to then

1254
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:52,919
Speaker 3: go ahead and do that, then that's great. But that's

1255
01:05:52,960 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 3: my that's my takeaway.

1256
01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:58,160
Speaker 1: Love that, Love that all right. Boys, If you love

1257
01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:01,040
Speaker 1: us the way I love Dakota and ke On, make

1258
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 1: sure to subscribe We love you and csway