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Standard message and data rates may apply. 11 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 2: All thanks to Live Nation Paulena The gift that keeps 12 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:35,319 Speaker 2: on giving Today on the show idea sheet Man, Were 13 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:36,599 Speaker 2: you smoking anything last night? 14 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 3: I take something to eat. I eat, take something to eat. 15 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 3: It takes something to have a gun. Yeah, okay, yeah, 16 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 3: O my mouth and I put it in there. 17 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 1: Will you even admit to it? Right here? 18 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 2: This may or may not have been a high thought. 19 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 2: But when you retire, are you essentially quitting? I guess 20 00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 2: in theory yes, because you are in capital letter retiring, 21 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 2: so it's not the same as quitting quitting. 22 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: Think about it. Think about it? 23 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 2: No, I mean, if you're retiring, you are you're quitting 24 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 2: your job, You're quitting your career. 25 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,320 Speaker 1: You're ending, Yes, you are, you're ending it. But here's 26 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: my thing. So think about this. 27 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:18,199 Speaker 3: You are retiring though, versus quitting. Quitting people usually quit 28 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 3: quitting people quitters quit and they go on and do 29 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 3: other things, right, they find another jobs in the business. 30 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 3: But when you're retiring, you're like, I'm done, Like, I'm 31 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 3: gonna go travel to like Bora, Bora. I'm gonna go, 32 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 3: you know, backpack through Asia like you're doing. Your difference 33 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 3: does it make it's not quitting like your traditional quitting. 34 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 1: But then think about it. 35 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 3: When you're retiring, you're not going back to work, so 36 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:41,680 Speaker 3: essentially you are quitting working. 37 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 4: When I retire, I'm not gonna be able to backpack 38 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 4: anywhere because I'm gonna be ninety. 39 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: Well where where's that up? Yes, I'm talking about what's retiring. 40 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 1: I mean backpacking. Yeah. 41 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 2: Asia. 42 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 3: My husband will be he talks about all the time. 43 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 3: He goes, I'm gonna be this. I'm like, I'll be working. 44 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 3: So you have fun going Harvey, right, you have fun 45 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 3: with your pension. I don't have that, but he's gonna 46 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 3: go and do that. I'm going to be working. But 47 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 3: see he's retiring. He will, he's gonna quit his job. 48 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 3: But it's not the same as quitting. 49 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: But like, why were you thinking about this? 50 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:09,959 Speaker 3: Because I had a gummy and I had time to think. 51 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 3: My kid was asleep. 52 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: It was great. I was thinking about this. Guys. 53 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 2: You're right, you are you are, you are quitting your career, right, But. 54 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 3: But like, okay, if I was to walk in here 55 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 3: and say, hey, guys, I'm retiring where I'm also like 56 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 3: eight years old, but that was the I'm retiring versus. 57 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: Hey, guys, I'm quitting. Don't you take that in two 58 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: different ways? Wait? Thank you? Yes, thank you? Yeah, because 59 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: it's two different things, right, because. 60 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 4: We throw a party for one of them, you know, 61 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 4: a retirement party. Yes, But if you're quitting, we're like, 62 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 4: let's find you. 63 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: A job, babe, because right income, So. 64 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 3: Retiring is usually like a certain age, not always anymore, 65 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 3: but like it can be right, a certain age, whatever, 66 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 3: a certain time in your life. But then you're like, oh, 67 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 3: i'm that's so a form of quitting though, because you 68 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 3: gotta turn in paperwork. 69 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: You're quitting. You're not going back on Monday. I guess 70 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: it's you know it's two different things. 71 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 5: But like you get social security and stuff, you know, yes, 72 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 5: exactly if I'm quitting. 73 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 1: I can't believe we're talking about this. 74 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 2: I thought it was going to last about twenty seconds 75 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:10,359 Speaker 2: or move on and five minutes later in typical Fredshew fashion. No, 76 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 2: but if I quit my job, I'm probably going to 77 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 2: do either I'm just gruntled or I'm going to do 78 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 2: something else like, which is very different than if I retire, 79 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 2: because that means I'm not going to go do anything else. 80 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 2: Like I'm done. I'm done working. I'm done working forever 81 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:25,799 Speaker 2: in theory. 82 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 6: But retiring is a form of quitting. I feel I 83 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 6: just have no idea why that was something that was relevant. 84 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 3: When I am in my mode mode, my mood, I 85 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 3: am a yeah, I'm thinking of the craziest things. You 86 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 3: guys don't want to scratching the surface. To be honest, like, 87 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:42,119 Speaker 3: I get in I get in it. 88 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 6: It's so nice of you to write it down to you. 89 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 6: I remember that to share it also. 90 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 2: On the sheet. I don't know why, but I'm re 91 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 2: excuse me. I don't know why. Normally a comma would 92 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 2: go there, but I'm real bad at giving people their 93 00:03:55,880 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 2: tupperware back. What did you What was I gonna do? 94 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 2: What am I supposed to do with that? 95 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 7: You know? 96 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: What's the same? 97 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 8: I was just called. 98 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 2: Now, if you're really bad at giving people they're like, 99 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 2: please call the phones are blowing up. I want to 100 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 2: talk about the tupperware collection that you have at your home. Yeah, 101 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 2: that belongs to someone else. Listen the way the show 102 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 2: is set up, it's a little bit of everything. Okay, 103 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 2: But Bella likes to make me food, which is so sweet, 104 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:23,679 Speaker 2: Like she's the sweetest lady in the world. 105 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 3: She makes me a food and I never give her 106 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 3: her tupperware back. 107 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: Ever. 108 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 2: Someone just texted those gummies are expired. I think now 109 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 2: getting to the topic at hand, though, So the third 110 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 2: topic here is something I would actually like to discuss. 111 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: So thank you, We're so welcome. Now. 112 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 2: I played audio a couple of weeks ago of your 113 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 2: daughter Gigi, and you know, I've got a lot of 114 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 2: agents to keep straight. Now she's two, almost too young, okay, 115 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 2: because I got a lot of ages in my life. 116 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:55,479 Speaker 2: I got a lot of kids. I got a lot 117 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 2: of kids. I'm single over here. I got a lot 118 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 2: of kids, a lot of a lot of things I'm 119 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 2: trying to my friend's kids, my nieces. 120 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: I got a lot of I like it. 121 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 2: So she was saying the S word. Wasn't it the 122 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 2: S word? And she thought that was funny? And you 123 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 2: were laughing because she was cussing, and you don't. 124 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 1: Like, how do I so funny to hear? 125 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 2: Like? How do I get to get the kid to 126 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 2: stop cussing? Because she heard me cuss So now she's 127 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 2: saying the F word in polish when she drops something, 128 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 2: because that's what you do. 129 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 1: That's exactly what I do. 130 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 2: By the way, people are calling, please don't call about tupperware. 131 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 2: Every phone line is ringing. Sure, why not? 132 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: You know what? Sure, we'll talk about temperware. You know what. Fine, 133 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 1: if you want to talk about tepware, that's fine, we'll 134 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 1: do it. My last tupperware is it? 135 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a criminal. 136 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: That's why she's that's the expense. I don't plastic. People 137 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: give it to me. But I literally think of this 138 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: last night. Can's are overflowing with tupperware. It's so funny. 139 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 1: Thing now that's onware back call me Marissa. 140 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 2: Turn your radio down, turn your radio down, Please turn 141 00:05:59,040 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 2: your radio down. 142 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 8: Hi. 143 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 2: Sorry, Yeah, we're supposed to tell you that, but it's okay. 144 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: So people never give you your temperware back. 145 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 9: No, No. 146 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 10: I host so many gatherings for family and friends and 147 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 10: I love to cook, and they take all the food, 148 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 10: but I never get the tupperware back with it. And 149 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 10: it's my husband's biggest type pee because he's like, where's 150 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 10: all of our temperware? I'm like, I'm actually not sure, 151 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 10: So we. 152 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 7: Probably buy a new. 153 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 10: Pack every year. 154 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 155 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 2: I feel like if you're giving people the tupperware, then 156 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 2: it needs to be like the not expensive stuff, you 157 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 2: know what I mean? Because I gotta assume, like I 158 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 2: dated a girl once. You make me cookies, she gave 159 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 2: me like the glass tep they came in a glass tepperware. 160 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, you're never gonna see this again because I'm 161 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 2: never I'm probably to ever see you again, which turned 162 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 2: out to be true, and I still have it and 163 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 2: I will say every time I use it, I think 164 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 2: of her. 165 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 1: That's crazy. 166 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I don't know lant the list of 167 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 2: things that have been left at the lost and found 168 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 2: section of my home. All right, Well, I'm sorry about this, Marissa. 169 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 2: Have a good day you too, Okay, Martha would also 170 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 2: like to talk about tupperware. 171 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 1: Forget about what I was going to talk about. We'll 172 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: move on. Martha. You never get your tougherwear back, really. 173 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 11: Well, I don't get it back, and I don't give 174 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 11: it back. So being Hispanic, I've always either at my 175 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 11: in laws or my month and they always end us 176 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 11: home with food in their number work. By the end 177 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 11: of the year, I have so many from both sides 178 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 11: that I give them back to them as a little 179 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 11: sur pride. 180 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 1: Kiftah, it's very nice of you. 181 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 2: Well, I guess if there's like rotating tupperware within the family, 182 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 2: then everybody winds up with enough tupperware, right, like in 183 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 2: the end, like you take some of mine, I take 184 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 2: some of years, and we're all sort of. 185 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: Good, right, I guess. 186 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 11: I mean they always end up with like the missing 187 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 11: lids because now they have to give them with like 188 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 11: some boil on tap because something. 189 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 2: No, yeah, yeah, I can't do that. All right, we'll 190 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 2: stop being a thieves, then, Martha, have a good day. 191 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: I love see. I'm telling you, like, what's your favorite 192 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 1: flavor of ice cream? 193 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 8: Call? 194 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 10: Now? 195 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 2: Every phone line will ring, and then I come up 196 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 2: with something else to talk about. Nobody cares. Nobody cares. 197 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 2: Tupperware is not glass. Fred Temperware is an expensive brand. No, 198 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 2: Tupperware is like Kleenex or coke, or Q tips or 199 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 2: band aids, where it's just you know exactly what I'm talking. 200 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: About, really use your little fingers to send. 201 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 2: I don't know that's what I'm talking about. When I 202 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 2: say tupperware, glass plastic. It's all yeah, made of rock. 203 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 204 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:32,559 Speaker 1: Okay, plastic, But I don't care. You knew exactly what 205 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:33,359 Speaker 1: I meant. 206 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:36,320 Speaker 3: Right Like, I'm not giving back your physical dishes that 207 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 3: you gave me. 208 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm not getting the met What am I supposed to 209 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: do with it? Like coming too much? Do I throw 210 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:45,959 Speaker 1: it away? Give it that seems wasteful, give it to 211 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: keep it forever? 212 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 2: Return, I guess, Malise, so you'll keep You're the tepperware 213 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 2: keeper person. 214 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: I can't believe we're doing this. 215 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 11: Because I don't finish the food, so it just sits 216 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 11: in my fridge. 217 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:03,599 Speaker 1: Okay, but like forever, Like that's disgusting. You got to 218 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 1: clean it out of something. 219 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 11: But like, but by the time I do clean out 220 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 11: my fridge, I don't eat a lot and I get 221 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 11: a lot of food. 222 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: Have you ever had that happen? 223 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:14,559 Speaker 2: By the way, we're like, you, you someone gave you 224 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 2: something in tepper where I'm sartying to interrupt you, Malise, 225 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 2: but then it's in your fridge for like a little 226 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 2: too long, and you know it's too long, and you're like, 227 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 2: I could just I could open this and clean it, 228 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 2: or just the whole thing's going because I don't want 229 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 2: to deal with the science experiment that's inside, right, so 230 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 2: then you just you wind up discarding the whole thing. 231 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 2: I know it's very wasteful. I'm sure the environmental people 232 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 2: will be picketing downstairs when I leave. But sometimes you 233 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 2: get to I'm like, oh boy, yeah we're not. 234 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: And you use red solo cups while you're at home. 235 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 5: Girl, you hold on, we have breaking news. 236 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 1: I gotta go have a good day. I gotta go. 237 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 1: Thank you. No, wait a minute, wait a minute. 238 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 2: A minute, because the environment let's little onto a different tangent. Now, 239 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 2: wait a minute, wait a minute. Why Like, if you're 240 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 2: having a party or something, then you you use red 241 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 2: solo cups because you don't want to have to clean 242 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,319 Speaker 2: fifty cups. But why are you using red solo cups 243 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 2: on your own. It's your house and your cups. 244 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 1: It's a party in the USA. 245 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:18,439 Speaker 5: Every day is a party. 246 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 1: Of my How wasteful are you? Do you use red? 247 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 1: Do you use disposable cups in your home? There's a 248 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:34,679 Speaker 1: reason for global warming. There's a whole in the atmosphere 249 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: because of the Why don't you use some dishwasher? I 250 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: don't have tamp it. I gotta what do you mean 251 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 1: it doesn't take any time. 252 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 2: Tornadoes and hurricanes are worse than ever. It's because you're 253 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 2: using paper place at your house. 254 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:49,599 Speaker 8: Wait? What? 255 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 1: What? 256 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:51,079 Speaker 2: What? 257 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:54,079 Speaker 7: She was drinking her little whatever water whatever it was. 258 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 3: I remember red solo cup on like a Tuesday night, 259 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 3: and I was like, what is my girl doing over them? 260 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:02,320 Speaker 1: Hosting a bar drink wine out of a solo cup? 261 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 5: I drink everything out of whatever? 262 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 1: Fine, but we would use the yes, So this is 263 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 1: not for real. Why don't you just use a real 264 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 1: glass or a cup? I have to clean it, bro, 265 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:20,079 Speaker 1: that's a lot of work. You don't have a dishwasher, 266 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 1: I don't use it. 267 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 8: You know. 268 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:23,719 Speaker 5: I have trauma from dishwashers. I wasn't allowed to use 269 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 5: the one in my house growing up. I had to 270 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 5: wash every dish by hand shelters. This whole neighborhood brought 271 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:31,559 Speaker 5: their dishes to my house and I used to have 272 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 5: to wash them. 273 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: I'm a little traumatized, Caitlin, thank you. Okay, wow trauma. 274 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 1: Yeah wow, I'm traumatic to. 275 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 4: You thinking of all the landfill closing up all your. 276 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 8: Wow. 277 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: The garbage man must hate to see you coming. 278 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 2: I won't tell you all about the forks. No, it's 279 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 2: like every weekend you have a party. No, she was 280 00:11:55,240 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 2: just thirsty. You win me. 281 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 1: I get it. I'm gonna say I get it, get it. 282 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 1: There are days at our moment ruined the planet. 283 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 3: I know, I'm discussing. I eat awful paper plate. It's 284 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 3: gonna want to do dishes. 285 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 1: We have forks. Okay, I'm shut up now. 286 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 2: That is one nice thing about ordering like takeout. It 287 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:19,079 Speaker 2: is is like you eat it and then you throw 288 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 2: it all away. It's gone, it's gone. Yeah. Wow, Wow, 289 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 2: we've covered a lot, you know what. 290 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: Thanks? Yeah. 291 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 12: Show two hours down, more bread show next, This is 292 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 12: the Fread Show. 293 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 2: Kelly Clarkson is returning to Las Vegas in twenty twenty 294 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 2: six for her studio sessions Las Vegas Residency. 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Good morning, THEO. 306 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: How you doing? 307 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 8: Oh? I'm doing good? How are you? 308 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: THEO? 309 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:17,079 Speaker 2: Prob Theo's got himself in a bit of a pickle. 310 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,440 Speaker 2: So let's go through this. This is where you can 311 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 2: hit us up a many places on all of the 312 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:24,680 Speaker 2: different social search for a freend show. You can dm 313 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 2: us Fredshowradio dot com and we can take your story 314 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 2: to the air and uh and then we can we 315 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:33,439 Speaker 2: can figure out your life for you and people can 316 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 2: call eight five five five three five Collin text the 317 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 2: same number. So you and your wife are high school sweethearts, right, 318 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 2: been together for a. 319 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 1: Very long time? Is that correct? 320 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 2: That's that's right, And you're trying to keep things interesting 321 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 2: in the in the intimacy department, right, so I'm using 322 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 2: sort of code words, and so you had the brilliant idea, THEO. 323 00:13:57,880 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 1: To do what. 324 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 12: Well, you know, like you said, we've been together so 325 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:08,080 Speaker 12: long and they you know, high school sweethearts, and we 326 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 12: I love her so much and we always prioritize physical 327 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 12: intimacy and keeping things new and exciting because we've known 328 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 12: each other so long. And so a few months back, 329 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 12: I suggested maybe adding another person into into the next 330 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 12: bringing in a third. 331 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 8: Yeah, something that. 332 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 12: That I never thought my wife would actually go for 333 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 12: and just assume the conversation alone would spice things up. 334 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 2: Now, like like this TLC show, add a third person, like, 335 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 2: you know, consistently, or just add someone for a little 336 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 2: fun time just you know, like a one time, one 337 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 2: off deal. 338 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 12: I think it ideally it would be someone who would 339 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 12: be consistent with, but you know, if it was even once, 340 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 12: it would spice things up. 341 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 8: I again, I didn't even think she was going to 342 00:14:58,080 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 8: go for this. 343 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, but she did. But spoiler alert, she did. 344 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: She went for it. 345 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, like she we laid down some ground rules, 346 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 12: you know, like no no conversation outside of the three 347 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 12: of us together or that we don't know about, that 348 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 12: the other one doesn't know about and selected you know, 349 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 12: this woman who lived out of town, so that we 350 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 12: didn't have to It didn't ever become it would never 351 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 12: become an issue in our relationship be we run it 352 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 12: ran into them, and so we went through it and 353 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 12: had a great time, better than expected. 354 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 8: My wife was more than that was something that would 355 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 8: be in my memory forever. And I thought everything was 356 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 8: good and that chapter was closed. 357 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 12: But last week I saw flirty messages between my wife 358 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 12: and this woman, and that was very much against the agreement. 359 00:15:54,120 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 2: Tales oldest time, tales, so old at time, so old. Wow, Well, now, 360 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 2: I mean fairness. You know, people do this all the 361 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 2: time and they set ground rules and they follow them 362 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 2: and it works for certain people. It wouldn't work for me. 363 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, I don't think I could 364 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 2: do it. But but you guys were on the same 365 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 2: page and you thought this was open shot whatever. But 366 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 2: now you're finding that there's sort of a side dialogue 367 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 2: here and it's flirting. It's not like they're just you know, interacting, 368 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 2: like sharing you know, recipes or something. I mean, we're 369 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 2: talking about like they're over here flirting with each other 370 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 2: on the side, like like it's almost like a little 371 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 2: side quest going on. 372 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 12: Yep, yep, yeah, yeah, I you know, I wish they 373 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 12: were just sharing recipes when when I when I spoke 374 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 12: to my wife about it, she said they were just 375 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 12: you know, just talking because she thought the woman was 376 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 12: cool and said, you know, they would never she said, 377 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 12: they would never do anything without me present. 378 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 2: But they okay, nothing physical, but they're they're having this 379 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 2: this communicative relationship, which I don't know what you saw 380 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 2: is one thing. I mean, there could be more. I guess, 381 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 2: whatever the case may be, this is not within the 382 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,480 Speaker 2: confines of of what you would agreed to. You would 383 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 2: agreed that anything that you did with this other person 384 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 2: was the two of you together to prevent this from happening. 385 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: And she didn't follow the rules. 386 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 8: I did not expect this to happen. 387 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 12: I thought, if anything, I would be more more into 388 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 12: the woman. We brought it, not my wife. 389 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:28,880 Speaker 8: And you know, and and so the woman and the 390 00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 8: messages were flirty. The messages were you know, you don't 391 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 8: do like a heart emoji and the kiss emoji with 392 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 8: that side hard. 393 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: No, not to harden the kiss emoji. Here we go yeah, 394 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: they put you in a group, Chad, Yeah, what about 395 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 1: the water emoji? 396 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 8: Boy? 397 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: Before long? 398 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:47,880 Speaker 2: The water emoji? Maybe the egg plant emoji before long? 399 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 2: It's over all things over hard eyes and then okayn, finis. 400 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:54,119 Speaker 1: Okay? 401 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 2: So you but you feel betrayed because this is what 402 00:17:56,560 --> 00:18:00,080 Speaker 2: you guys agreed upon, you both agreed upon it, and 403 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 2: now you feel like there's something going on on the 404 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:03,679 Speaker 2: side that you're not involved with and that's not in 405 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 2: your self conscious about it. And I think it's understandable, hmm, exactly. 406 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 2: I want to know what people think about this eight 407 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 2: five five five three five. I think there are a 408 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 2: lot of different viewpoints. You could say that this, hey, 409 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 2: this is the risk that you take when you introduce 410 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:21,119 Speaker 2: someone from the outside. There's a risk that you know, 411 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 2: this whole exposure might might unearth something in one or 412 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 2: the other, uh that could be unhealthy or dangerous to 413 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 2: the relationship. You could say, hey, you guys agree that 414 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:32,160 Speaker 2: there are rules here, and then the rules aren't being 415 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 2: followed and either for all the rules are or you're 416 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 2: basically you're cheating. I mean, I think it would be 417 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:40,400 Speaker 2: fair to say, because again, what you agreed to together 418 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 2: and what you agreed to separately or two different things. 419 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. 420 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 2: I don't know if this is worth like blowing up 421 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,359 Speaker 2: your whole relationship for it, But I suppose it is. 422 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 2: If she's now really super interested in this other person. 423 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 2: I mean, that's that's an extra marital relationship at this point. 424 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:03,159 Speaker 2: I mean, it threatens your threatens the relationship, doesn't it. 425 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, would you be okay with her having a girlfriend 426 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:08,120 Speaker 5: on the side, like a permit girlfriend? 427 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:11,359 Speaker 8: No? No, no, no, no, no, definitely not, definitely not. 428 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 8: I mean, I know the idea sounds top, but in 429 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 8: practice it's you know, it's like I never I didn't 430 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 8: think I was like, oh, girl on girl, like this 431 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:24,560 Speaker 8: is like this is what I this is a this 432 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 8: is a dream. 433 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:27,400 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, right, well a lot of do with you're 434 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: texting right now. 435 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 8: Hell yeah. 436 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 2: But I mean I don't think they're thinking about like 437 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 2: the fact that you love each other and had a 438 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 2: you know, functioning, healthy relationship before this, and and you 439 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 2: had an agreement. 440 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:42,479 Speaker 8: Yeah, it's trust. It's about it's about trust. 441 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 12: And you know, I think she broke she broke the 442 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 12: trust of what we were setting up. 443 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:50,439 Speaker 2: All right, Well, let me take some phone calls on this. 444 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 2: You'll have the radio on, have iHeart on. We'll see 445 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:54,159 Speaker 2: what happens. We'll see what people have to say. But 446 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:58,239 Speaker 2: good luck, thank you guys. Of course we're getting all 447 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:01,120 Speaker 2: these sex Oh this is cool. I mean, this isn't 448 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 2: like the video though that you watched, you know, yesterday 449 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:06,159 Speaker 2: or this morning, whatever you watch it. This isn't like 450 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 2: you know what's on the internet. Like, this is a 451 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 2: real relationship. And they tried it and they had a deal, 452 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 2: and she broke the deal. And it's a little more 453 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 2: serious than that. Someone said, I've been the third in 454 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 2: two different marriages. It's never a good idea. 455 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, how did you meet I'm so curious how 456 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 1: did you meet the cost I'd. 457 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 2: Like to have a little more information from that. Hey, Jim, Jim, 458 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:33,560 Speaker 2: so you you've been like THEO your wife and we're 459 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 2: trying to keep this PG. But your wife you brought 460 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 2: in somebody else and then your wife had like a 461 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:38,360 Speaker 2: little side quest there. 462 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, and. 463 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:49,880 Speaker 9: We had Yeah, we decided to try that out as 464 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 9: the lifestyle and it comes down to the communication has 465 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:58,399 Speaker 9: to be there. They probably jumped in a little too quick. 466 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:03,159 Speaker 2: Mmmm okay, I mean, but is the relationship over it. 467 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:05,639 Speaker 2: I mean, can this be repaired do you think or 468 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:06,440 Speaker 2: it doesn't. 469 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:09,399 Speaker 9: Have it doesn't It doesn't have to be because in 470 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 9: the very beginning, me and my wife we both had 471 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 9: kind of those feelings of the insecurity and all that. 472 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 9: But what it comes down to is communication about the feelings. 473 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,199 Speaker 9: The feelings are normally they've got to be able to 474 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 9: talk through it and it may not be for them. 475 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,439 Speaker 9: They may not enjoy it, and you know, or she 476 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 9: may want to keep going with it and he doesn't 477 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 9: want to. That's the conversation they have to be willing 478 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 9: to have and those conversations are hard. 479 00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:38,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, but can you like unopen that door? Like I mean, 480 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:42,160 Speaker 2: what if what if this has uncovered something within her 481 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 2: that she now feels she needs to fulfill And what 482 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:46,879 Speaker 2: if he's not okay with that? I mean, is that 483 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 2: not something that you sort of that open yourself up? 484 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:53,200 Speaker 9: That is something that that is something that could happen 485 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:57,160 Speaker 9: and you know, that may be the end of their relationship, 486 00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 9: but it doesn't have to. 487 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:02,640 Speaker 2: Be okay, all right, Jim, thank you, have a good day. 488 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 2: Look at Jim over here. Man Hey Gabby, Hi. 489 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: Hi, Gabby? You say stay well? 490 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 7: So with like some conditions. Yes, So, like I think 491 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 7: that right now he should like kind of steer away 492 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 7: from the conversation of thinking that it's like hot. I 493 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 7: feel like that's kind of like the man you point 494 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 7: to go with. But maybe like having that open conversation 495 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 7: with her, is that's something that like she actually wants 496 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 7: to explore within her sexuality. But I do think that 497 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 7: she is kind of going past the boundaries that they 498 00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 7: currently set. I don't think that he should kind of 499 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 7: just get up and go. I think that more conversation 500 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 7: has to happen between the two of us. 501 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean, I don't want to say that 502 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 2: this is just this is the risk you take when 503 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,880 Speaker 2: you do stuff like this, but there is a risk 504 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 2: that he has to assume, right, I mean, and so 505 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:52,879 Speaker 2: does she. 506 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:53,880 Speaker 1: And I'm not saying. 507 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 2: That that they should lie to each other or break 508 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:58,400 Speaker 2: the agreement, but like there's a chance that you introduce 509 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 2: this and other person really likes it or realizes that 510 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 2: they really have a connection with someone else, and then 511 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 2: then then you can't you can't undring that now, really, 512 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 2: is what I mean. 513 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 1: But thank you, Gabby, have a good day. Yeah, yeah, 514 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:14,400 Speaker 1: of course, glad you called na. 515 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 2: Hannah, I mean she is basically cheating, Hannah. I agree 516 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 2: with that. I mean because they had a deal Hannah. Hello, okay, 517 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 2: well I mean you call, you call the radio station. 518 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 2: But Hannah said she was basically cheating. I agree. Hello, 519 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,680 Speaker 2: Hi Seannie. So you say, Stan, how are you good? 520 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:37,200 Speaker 8: How you doing? 521 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 4: I do stay safe? So I actually I am the 522 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 4: one that texted I've been a third and two different marriages. 523 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 1: Oh yes, tell more. 524 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 4: So it's a bad idea. They have a threesome to 525 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 4: begin with, and essentially she's gabbing an emotional affair with 526 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,439 Speaker 4: the other woman. I do think he should stay. I 527 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,680 Speaker 4: do think she can say the relationship but she needs 528 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 4: to cut all ties and they should not have threesomes ever. 529 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 2: Again, Well, if it's a bad idea, why'd you do 530 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:08,359 Speaker 2: it too? I'm not judging you, but why'd you do 531 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:08,879 Speaker 2: it twice? 532 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 4: So I was the third? So I was not the 533 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 4: one in a relationship. I was the one invited into 534 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 4: the relationships. 535 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 2: So you thought, no harm, no fault. Yeah again, And 536 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:22,239 Speaker 2: I know where Kailin's going with this. How did you 537 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 2: how did you discover these folks with whom to you know? 538 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 4: So the both of them started with the female was 539 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:34,199 Speaker 4: interested in having a threesome and invited me. In the 540 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 4: first marriage that I got invited to, the man actually 541 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,400 Speaker 4: got jealous because her and I started the relationship, I'll 542 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:46,440 Speaker 4: invite him. And then the second one, she got jealous 543 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 4: because she felt like he was paying more attention to 544 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:49,919 Speaker 4: me than he was to her. 545 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 2: I'll just sound so dangerous to me. I mean, people 546 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 2: can do. I know people can pull this off, but 547 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 2: I just think you are asking for it. 548 00:24:58,760 --> 00:24:59,439 Speaker 7: On my part. 549 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,879 Speaker 4: It may fell selfish on my part, but I was 550 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 4: getting the bust of both worlds. Yeah, I was getting 551 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 4: the woman and the man and I had a relationship 552 00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 4: that was factory. 553 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. 554 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,119 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I guess from your perspective, it's not 555 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:18,080 Speaker 2: your relationship to maintain. But yeah, but now you're no more. 556 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 2: You're not doing it again. 557 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 11: No, I've learned myself. 558 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 9: I've learned my lesson. 559 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, thank you, Seoanning. You have a good day. 560 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 1: Thank you too. Wow, he's a fun. 561 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 2: I mean, I tend to agree, it's not my These 562 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,359 Speaker 2: aren't my terms to a bold if I were that person, 563 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 2: but oh no, I don't know. I think I wouldn't 564 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 2: even like that because you know what happens. If you 565 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 2: develop a connection with the person, then it's like they're married, right, and. 566 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 5: Then what if, like the person you guys are fighting 567 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 5: and then your husband is confiding in her or like 568 00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 5: you're going to confide in her, like that can get 569 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 5: so messy. 570 00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 1: I don't know if you do this type of stuff, 571 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:00,440 Speaker 1: I sugg just doing it. 572 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 5: On vacation somewhere, like you'll never see the person again ever, Okay, 573 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 5: I've ever done it. 574 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a language. I'm just say some sound advice. 575 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 2: Yeah whatever, we gotta be on vacation. You can't speak 576 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:24,399 Speaker 2: any we can't speak the same language. You need to 577 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:28,359 Speaker 2: not have the internet, no social media. In fact, if 578 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 2: you don't have a phone, that's even better, and then 579 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 2: we can do that. 580 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:31,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. 581 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 2: The entertainmer reporting fourteen hundred bucks Wich you'll visit Elly 582 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 2: next friend show.