WEBVTT - Hannah: Candle-Making Cutie ISO Love-Scented Flame 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:13.240 How do you smell that? Oh? I think so? Oh yeah, 0:00:13.280 --> 0:00:13.960 what is it? 0:00:14.320 --> 0:00:18.760 I think it's the It's the smell of love in the. 0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:27.120 Air everywhere I look around. What an incredible smell. Well, hello, 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:31.640 are you all my beautiful We're here to get down 0:00:31.680 --> 0:00:35.720 to the business of love and it is an urgent business. 0:00:35.880 --> 0:00:36.919 Yes it is. 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:40.640 This is date my Aurlia first, where our gorgeous a 0:00:41.400 --> 0:00:46.240 La plays matchmaker for our start dater and three lucky 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:51.520 contestants looking for some grand motherly aperuval. I'm your host, 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:54.760 vico Ord, joined by our lovely. 0:00:57.440 --> 0:01:03.080 Yo that going with us Mobyan moebian Vi. 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:08.720 Let's roll up our sleeves and get to work right away, Dad, 0:01:11.800 --> 0:01:15.360 okay if Talita to meet our sweetheart. 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:17.880 Main dater, oh v I cannot wait. 0:01:17.720 --> 0:01:21.319 Honestly saying because I have been reading her bio and 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:23.800 it's quite quite lovely. 0:01:24.080 --> 0:01:26.680 I am so glad we're here today. 0:01:26.760 --> 0:01:29.960 Alida, this week's main dater, told us that she makes 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:34.800 candles inspired by her own grandmother's WHOA one. 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:37.279 Of them smells like an old white lady at church. 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:38.679 We know what that smells like? 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:41.520 Yeah, nice and sweet, sweet with a little bit of 0:01:41.720 --> 0:01:43.080 you know, wood, a little bit. 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:44.000 Of pew wood. 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:48.560 You know a little a little bit of ancient smells. 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:52.560 N yes, I know them. I was there, Yeah, still here. 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:56.360 And the other smells like a grandma's hug at a mouse. 0:01:56.440 --> 0:01:58.360 Well, never been to a mosque, but it must be 0:01:58.400 --> 0:01:59.280 the same as the church. 0:02:00.200 --> 0:02:00.720 Similar. 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:06.240 Yes, real ead that our episodes are full of cozy cafesitos. 0:02:06.280 --> 0:02:12.240 And for today's episode, we are meeting a cafesito experts. 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:14.120 Who and we're gonna help her find love. 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:17.520 We're gonna slow it down over here because she seems 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:20.840 to be real busy around town community building and runs 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:24.839 her own pop up coffee company called Saffron Cowboy. 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:28.320 So are you ready to meet Hannah. 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:32.239 I'm so ready for the Saffront and the Cowboy. 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:33.840 Oh yes, Bringer. 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:39.600 Come on in, Hannah, join us. Hello, Hello, Hi everybody. 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:45.280 Yeah, Hannah, tell us a little bit about who you are. 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:49.480 Give us your age, your sign, what sparks joy, what 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:51.680 makes you take anything? 0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:55.280 Just lay it on us. We want to know it all. 0:02:56.280 --> 0:02:59.560 Yeah. So I'm thirty three, I'm a Libra and my 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:04.280 rise in my moon are Scorpio. So I don't play games. Oh, 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:07.720 I have a really sweet dog named Amara. That's about 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:10.720 three years old. She's a corky cattle dog. And I 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:14.320 have a mobile coffee company like that you guys discussed. 0:03:15.040 --> 0:03:18.400 I started it in my yard here in LA and 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:21.240 then I was working full time. About a year ago 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:23.440 I got laid off, so I was like, you know what, 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:25.799 I'm going to take this more seriously, and so that's 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:27.919 what I do now for a living and it's been 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:29.240 really life changing. 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:32.920 Well, the good thing about all that information is that Guffycito, 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:36.680 along with our Guffecito, is gonna be a hell of 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:37.160 a day. 0:03:38.200 --> 0:03:38.960 Are you ready? 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:39.960 Let's do it? 0:03:40.240 --> 0:03:41.760 So what are you looking for, my love? 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:44.920 I just want people that are deeply kind and kind 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:48.800 of really live by that and how they move. I'm 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:52.800 typically into people who are artists or into social justice 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:55.680 because that's where I typically meet people doing the things 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:58.200 that I love to do, and somebody usually with our 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:01.080 spiritual practice, they don't have to be religious. But I 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:04.880 think self work is extremely important when it comes to intimacy. 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:09.040 Speaking of self work, when's the last time you dated 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:14.080 somebody and what have you learned from that experience and 0:04:14.120 --> 0:04:16.240 what are the things that you are looking for that 0:04:16.320 --> 0:04:19.440 really align with the previous relationship or previous relationships and 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:22.120 one of the things that now you've raised awareness around 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:25.239 that you are going to be more conscientious moving forward 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:27.040 of like oh if I noticed this, I don't want 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:29.360 to repeat that, or like whatever pattern I want to break. 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:32.720 Yeah. I think the thing that came up recently from 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:34.760 somebody I was dating about a month ago, was around 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:38.480 boundary work that I lack in. I describe it as 0:04:38.760 --> 0:04:41.240 I feel like there was a door in my bedroom 0:04:41.279 --> 0:04:44.599 that I just covered up with a dresser and I 0:04:44.680 --> 0:04:47.520 convinced myself that there was a wall. And this person 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:49.440 was like, hey, there's a door in your bedroom, and 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:51.400 I was like, no, there's not a door. And now 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:53.560 I've opened the door and I'm just seeing all this 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:56.280 like clutter of things that I self to work on 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:59.599 when it comes to boundaries. I think I led a 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:02.200 lot of things slide because I grew up being uncomfortable. 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:05.960 I'm biracial, so you know, I'm like white with my 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:08.080 mom and then I'm Middle Eastern at my dad's and 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:12.159 I can't fully be queer in either space. So I 0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:15.080 think recently, yeah, I know when people are rude or mean, 0:05:15.320 --> 0:05:17.680 but I don't know how to advocate when I feel uncomfortable, 0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:21.919 and so since being in that dynamic, I've been reading 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:25.479 all these boundary books, I've been like confronting. I've confronted 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:28.680 like fifteen people in the last month. You know, I 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:32.760 think when you confront people, you actually deepen the connection. 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:35.400 And I'm really interested in that in my life. And 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:38.159 so whether it's neighbors. I'm really close to my neighbors, 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:41.120 like they drop off fapoosa to me and I give 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:44.440 them coffee, and like we're deeply connected. But there are 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:49.279 things that are annoying, Right, So how do I communicate that, 0:05:49.360 --> 0:05:52.680 whether it's neighbors or in work or business or intimacy. 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:55.680 So that's a really thing that I'm grateful for. 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:59.600 That's fucking beautiful. How does someone woo you? What are 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:01.720 the things that are like, oh, I see you, thank 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:03.440 you for making a bit for connection. 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:04.479 That's what I want. 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:08.760 Yeah, yeah, I mean I love thoughtfulness. So whenever I'm 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:11.919 vending and people flirted with me by like getting me 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:15.960 coffee from a trip, that is super sweet. Right, there 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:18.000 are these like things that you know that I'm into, 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:22.280 or a toy for my dog, or you bring dinner 0:06:22.600 --> 0:06:24.919 you know that I'm tired or something like that. And 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:28.040 I think quality time. I think going and doing activities together. 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:31.560 What are some activities that you enjoy doing accompanied I. 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:35.200 Love comedy shows, I love going to the theater. I 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:38.760 love figuring out new hikes. I car camp a good amount. 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:41.719 So I just went to New Mexico with my dog. 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:42.839 Oh nice. 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:45.839 I really like to swim, so I love finding rivers 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:49.080 and lakes, So those are like fun activities for me. 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:53.440 Hell was Yeah, you mentioned something earlier about spirituality. How 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:56.680 does that affect the way in which you seek connection 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:57.760 from other folks. 0:06:58.120 --> 0:07:00.600 My parents split when I was four, so I grew 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:03.480 up really Christian at my mom's house and very Muslim 0:07:03.520 --> 0:07:06.640 at my dad's. And then in about high school, Islam 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:10.040 really landed for me. So I identify as Muslim, and 0:07:10.120 --> 0:07:13.320 I think religion and a connection with a higher entity 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:17.200 is literally pivotal to my essence. I truly don't know 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:19.520 who I would be without that. I think that's given 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:23.520 me a really big sense of dedication and service to community. 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:26.280 I think that's why I'm really interested in it. Growing 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:29.240 up in the Mosque was very about community and about 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:33.680 deep connection with people that aren't your blood family, and 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:36.640 I find that really special. It makes me feel like 0:07:37.320 --> 0:07:39.960 somebody has my back, and I really I think you 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:42.120 have to have that confidence to move in the world 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:45.240 or like as send to self actualization. 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:48.920 Within the queer spectrum, where do you sort of feel 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:53.480 a land at and marrying that with your religious practice. 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:57.000 Growing up, I didn't really have a language around queerness, 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:59.920 you know, in the nineties, so I just didn't have 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:03.640 examples of that. I think as I've gotten older, my 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:07.960 dad is pretty homophobic, so I had to set a boundary. 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:11.120 If I don't communicate with you, that is not okay 0:08:11.280 --> 0:08:15.000 to me, just like fundamentally. But my mom is super supportive, 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:18.680 and it's been a process. My mom would call my 0:08:18.800 --> 0:08:21.520 partners my friends, and I had to be like, you know, 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:24.480 you need to stop saying that, like that's actually not true. 0:08:25.120 --> 0:08:29.560 And to see her come so far has been so wonderful. 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:33.520 It's been really cool to see my family on the 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:35.800 journey with me. I think you can't really do this 0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:38.720 in isolation, and then I think it's so in the 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:42.640 fabric of my business. My business is homage to myself 0:08:42.720 --> 0:08:45.840 and my family, so it's just very a part of 0:08:45.920 --> 0:08:49.280 everything that I do is letting people, especially queer people 0:08:49.320 --> 0:08:52.280 of color, know that like as a business, as a 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:55.840 person like I am walking alongside you, and then there's 0:08:55.880 --> 0:08:59.199 a huge niche in Middle eastertain people that follow my company, 0:08:59.200 --> 0:09:02.439 and I think that's really special, especially queer Middle Eastern 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:05.520 people in LA because we've been so underrepresented because the 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:08.280 sentences seems us as white. So that's how I would 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:08.760 answer that. 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:10.679 That's beautiful, Thank you so much. 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:13.720 Many things need to change in our society, but we 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:16.440 are taking it one day at a time. You did 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:19.920 mention that the candles that you make were inspired by 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:22.440 your grandmothers. Tell me a little bit about that, and 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:23.440 they are still around. 0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:27.439 Yeah, Yeah, they're both still around. I just really wanted 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:32.680 something that made me feel like a kid and made 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:36.200 me feel really good. And I think scent and scent 0:09:36.320 --> 0:09:39.560 of my grandma's are really that for me. And then 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:41.640 I wanted to share that, right, which is why I 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:45.440 made them for mass consumption. I wanted other people to 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:50.360 feel that feeling. And I think, also from a representation piece, 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:53.120 so many Middle Eastern people that have gotten the one 0:09:53.120 --> 0:09:56.160 that smell like BB that's my Middle Eastern grandma. It 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:59.600 smells like their grandma. And I think, you know, smelling 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:03.640 home can bring up so much, especially like good memories 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:06.360 of being a kid, and I think that's really important. 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:10.720 And with your grandmothers, how has the process of telling 0:10:10.840 --> 0:10:13.000 them about your love life has been? 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:15.200 Were they accepting from minute one? 0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:18.160 My Middle Eastern grandma lives in Iraq and I haven't 0:10:18.160 --> 0:10:21.440 been to Iraq, so she's never met anybody but Jojo 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:26.280 Joanne and Tennessee met my long term partner, ex partner, 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:29.000 and she loved her. She started asking her to fix 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:30.040 stuff around the house. 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:35.840 Yes, how adorable is that? Yeah? 0:10:35.880 --> 0:10:37.760 But then you know when we had one on one time, 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:40.760 she just felt really really connected to her, which was 0:10:40.800 --> 0:10:41.480 really special. 0:10:41.800 --> 0:10:44.960 I love that that long term partner. How long did 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:46.040 that relationship last? 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:50.440 That was active for about five and a half years 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:53.960 and then we tried to figure that out for probably 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:54.720 up to seven. 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:57.600 Wow, and when did that end? 0:10:58.320 --> 0:11:01.679 That ended right at the beginning kind of of COVID. 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:05.160 Wow, that's what's up? So hell's yeah, we're looking for 0:11:05.320 --> 0:11:08.040 a long term dynamic. If you could pick like. 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:11.920 One thing that Awaita Liliana should be looking for in 0:11:11.960 --> 0:11:14.160 these contestants, what would that be? 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:15.680 Someone stable? 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:19.640 Someone stable? Someone stable? 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:21.000 Is that body and mind? 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:23.359 It it all. 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:25.640 Incredible? 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:27.880 Well, thank you so much, Hannah. I think it's about 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:32.080 that time where Awlita will use all of the tools 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:36.360 in her belt to find a kind, a funny, a thoughtful, 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:39.959 a plus communicator. So I can't wait to meet these 0:11:39.960 --> 0:11:42.560 contestants and see how they do with the games you've 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:43.320 made up for them. 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:46.280 So we're gonna send you into hiding for a little 0:11:46.320 --> 0:11:48.479 bit as we bring in the contestants. 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:50.680 We'll be back after the break. 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:56.959 Welcome back today, Maya Wani the first. 0:11:59.240 --> 0:12:08.400 Hello, Hello, Hello, we have here Christianna, Lucy and Ella. 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:13.040 And I hear we have two Leo contestants today and 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:18.240 one Gemini. This could be a little Leo showdown or 0:12:18.520 --> 0:12:19.559 the fight. 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:22.439 Of the fire signs versus the air signs. 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:24.200 And all decided by a water sign. 0:12:24.920 --> 0:12:28.760 That's true, Leanna. Over here is the Pisces. First up, 0:12:28.960 --> 0:12:30.079 we have Christiana. 0:12:30.640 --> 0:12:31.600 Hi, guys, I'm Christiana. 0:12:31.679 --> 0:12:32.440 I thanks for having me. 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:36.839 This Leo is La born and raised, works in production 0:12:37.080 --> 0:12:41.040 and is looking for someone who is honest and socially aware. 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:43.680 I also hear that you want to get some things 0:12:43.760 --> 0:12:47.679 done before the world ends, and in terms of love, 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:51.080 you are looking for what Hollywood promised you. 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:52.360 Maybe today will. 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:52.719 Be that day. 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:58.640 Maybe Next we have Ella, who works in the podcast industry. 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:01.679 Hello, welcome, Hey, it's really nice to meet all. Thanks 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:02.160 for having me. 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:08.360 Loves queer cinema and doing things with their hands. 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:11.480 It's not like that. I that if I'm talking like 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:13.560 knitting and the you know. 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:16.160 Craps and crabs. Sue. Sure. 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:20.360 Sure, Ella is looking for something slow, not an immediate 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:25.040 uhul situation. I get that, I understand. Welcome Ella. And 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:27.240 finally we have Lucy h. 0:13:27.440 --> 0:13:28.199 Nice to meet you, guys. 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:32.800 Lucy is a copy editor, loves acapella and is looking 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:38.160 for someone with their shit together professionally and emotionally. 0:13:37.600 --> 0:13:40.080 And has a little allergy here and there that we 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:41.120 would love to hear about. 0:13:41.160 --> 0:13:43.959 Oh, well, we'll get to we'll get to that. 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:47.439 To that at some point. Fantastic. 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:50.480 Well, thank you so much for joining us today to 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:52.560 break the ice with you three. 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:57.680 We're going to start with a classic game we love 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:01.520 to play, and that would be the would you rather? 0:14:02.040 --> 0:14:04.520 Leanna will give you a question and you would answer 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:07.400 which one of those would you rather do? 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:10.080 Leanna take it away. What's the first one? 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:14.520 Now here we go listen up? Would you rather be 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:19.520 a handsome cowboy at sunset, or a care free sea 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:21.400 captain in the open water. 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:25.280 Christianna, Yes, easy, cowboy on sunset? 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:26.400 What am I doing in the ocean? 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:27.360 I can't swim that well. 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:28.560 I think I have too much. 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:29.080 Hair for a hat. 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:31.120 That's all right, though, I'm. 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:31.920 Gonna be a cowboy with it. 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:36.120 Yes, that's hot. That's hot, Come man, Lucy, tell us 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:36.520 about it. 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:40.040 I once went to see a spiritual healer person who 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:42.840 told me that in a past life I was a pirate. 0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:46.400 Tell me more so, I'm gonna have to with speaking captain. 0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:47.520 I feel like that's like in my. 0:14:47.560 --> 0:14:51.600 Soul somewhere, not it, Ella, What would you rather? 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:54.480 I'm with Christianna. I don't want to be in the ocean, 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:56.040 so handsome cowboy for me. 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:58.040 I'll take a cowboy or two. 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:02.440 Oh well you got two here. We're split half and half. 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:06.560 My goodness, gracious, all right, now it's my turn to 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:08.320 ask what would you rather? 0:15:08.760 --> 0:15:13.880 Would you rather swim through cold brew latte foam or 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:18.240 wrestle in jello? Cristiana? What do you think? 0:15:18.320 --> 0:15:18.440 Oh? 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:19.000 I see you. 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:21.080 You have a little smirk. You were like you got 0:15:21.080 --> 0:15:23.000 a whole moment processing that. 0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:23.840 Then they're done dead. 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:26.360 I envisioned it too, and I was like, man, Jello, 0:15:28.520 --> 0:15:30.400 yeah half of it, I'm eating the other half. 0:15:30.640 --> 0:15:32.960 You know, I am right there with you, Cristiana. I 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:35.840 love our wrestle moment as well. Uh, Lucy, what would 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:36.280 you rather? 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:39.960 I'm gonna have to say jello wrestling. Yes, it's something 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:42.120 I've I've always wanted to try. 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:45.360 Ella, what would you rather? 0:15:46.160 --> 0:15:48.520 Definitely wrestle and jell. That sounds fun. 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:52.640 Hell'sia, Hell's yeah, it's a full blown jello wrestling team. 0:15:52.680 --> 0:15:54.560 Over here. I'm into it. 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:58.880 Okay, here we have another one now, our main dater 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:03.880 loves a little woo energy. Yes, So would you rather 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:06.560 make potions or read minds? 0:16:07.120 --> 0:16:07.440 Ellen? 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:09.720 I would love to read minds, but I feel like 0:16:09.720 --> 0:16:11.400 I'm going to get in trouble with that one, So 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:13.960 I'm going to say potionsm. 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:15.720 I'll see you, I see you making potions. 0:16:16.720 --> 0:16:19.920 Lucy, I'm also going to say making potions. I just 0:16:19.960 --> 0:16:23.200 feel like being able to read minds would probably send 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:24.680 me into a mental breakdown. 0:16:24.760 --> 0:16:31.240 Really quickly understood, understood, Christiana. 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:32.240 What are your thoughts? 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:34.040 Oh, I'm a bit of a masochist. 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:34.800 I'm reading minds. 0:16:35.560 --> 0:16:37.680 I love that. I love that. 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:40.400 Yeah, I'd use it for good though, I'd only use 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:42.320 it for good, you know, I tune out the bad 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:43.880 stuff and be like it's none of my business. 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:45.440 Would you have control over it? 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:45.560 Like? 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:47.680 Could you decide if you wanted to read people's minds 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:50.840 or just kind of be like blooding that's the control. 0:16:51.520 --> 0:16:56.000 You're just like bloody lighting over the street. It out. 0:16:56.040 --> 0:16:58.120 I'm putting in music or something. I don't know, but 0:16:58.760 --> 0:17:00.640 I want that power. Need it? 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:03.480 Okay, last one, last one? 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:08.920 Would you rather have to have a serious conversation with 0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:13.600 someone who spits when they talk? Or have lunch with 0:17:13.640 --> 0:17:19.600 someone who insists on bringing their pet gecko to the restaurant. 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:24.480 Everyone's reactions, y'all to this question is impeccable. 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:27.720 Everyone was like, hello, what you want? 0:17:27.840 --> 0:17:30.000 What you rather? Yeah? 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:32.320 No, I want to meet a gecko? So hell yeah, 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:34.080 get out for lunch? 0:17:34.119 --> 0:17:36.720 Actually, yes, Christiana, what do you think? 0:17:37.080 --> 0:17:38.840 Do I even like geckos? Like I have to I 0:17:39.000 --> 0:17:40.760 can ask myself that the whole time. 0:17:41.280 --> 0:17:43.720 But if somebody's talking to me while they're spitting, I'm 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:45.800 leaving the restaurant, like. 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:47.040 Send me the check. 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:49.800 That's so pretty? Why am I soaking legs? This is 0:17:49.920 --> 0:17:50.520 so weird. 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:52.640 I'm just not a big fan of either one. 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:55.800 Lucy, what do you think? 0:17:56.200 --> 0:17:59.160 Definitely the Gecko. I'm gonna say like, the more the merrier. Yes, 0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:03.159 I can't control my like facial reactions to things a 0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:05.040 lot of the time. So if someone's spitting on me, like, 0:18:05.119 --> 0:18:08.040 I'm just gonna look horrified and I'm probably gonna hurt. 0:18:07.960 --> 0:18:10.359 Their feelings, that's good. 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:10.920 That's good. 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:12.520 Bunch them out. 0:18:13.119 --> 0:18:16.160 Yeah, aino, man, spit all those germs. 0:18:16.320 --> 0:18:23.880 No violence over here, but doon't get out of here. 0:18:24.200 --> 0:18:24.680 Don't worry. 0:18:24.680 --> 0:18:26.480 If we use a chanklaw on you, It'll be a 0:18:26.520 --> 0:18:28.960 gentle chank clap. It's gonna be it's gonna be. Okay, 0:18:29.840 --> 0:18:32.800 it's time to play another game before I will eat. 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:36.000 That will send one of our lovely contestants home. 0:18:36.480 --> 0:18:37.200 So here's the thing. 0:18:37.480 --> 0:18:41.880 Our main data makes sweet potions of tea and coffee 0:18:42.160 --> 0:18:46.280 all around La. So in honor of our main dater, 0:18:46.359 --> 0:18:50.800 we're gonna play a little game called truth or drink. Cristiana, 0:18:51.240 --> 0:18:53.600 Lucy and Ella, I'll give you a second to go 0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:55.720 grab your favorite coffee, tea, tequila. 0:18:55.960 --> 0:18:58.160 Maybe I'll ask you. 0:18:58.080 --> 0:19:01.520 All a question and if you can't answer it, you 0:19:01.640 --> 0:19:05.040 drink all right, So if you answer, you go for it, 0:19:05.080 --> 0:19:06.439 but if you don't want to answer it, you take 0:19:06.480 --> 0:19:09.680 a little sippy SIPs. 0:19:10.000 --> 0:19:16.440 Yes, totally okay, Now truth or drink. Why shouldn't someone 0:19:16.640 --> 0:19:19.040 date you, Christiana? 0:19:19.119 --> 0:19:19.719 Take it away. 0:19:20.440 --> 0:19:22.960 I'm an only child, but not like in a selfish way. 0:19:22.960 --> 0:19:24.080 I'm just like an only child. 0:19:24.320 --> 0:19:25.640 Like take that as you will. 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:28.000 I'm an only child, noted. 0:19:28.160 --> 0:19:29.240 How about you, Lucy. 0:19:29.840 --> 0:19:33.679 I have a lot of self confidence. I really like 0:19:33.720 --> 0:19:36.719 myself and that's not for everybody. I would say, like 0:19:36.800 --> 0:19:39.640 that can be construed as a toxic trait by some people. 0:19:39.359 --> 0:19:41.840 So that would be it. 0:19:43.119 --> 0:19:43.439 Ella. 0:19:44.119 --> 0:19:46.480 I would say one of my fatal flaws is that 0:19:46.880 --> 0:19:50.159 I will confidently walk in the wrong direction and doesn't 0:19:50.200 --> 0:19:51.480 really matter if I. 0:19:51.480 --> 0:19:53.720 Know where I'm going or not. But most of the 0:19:53.800 --> 0:19:55.919 time I will pick a direction and just start walking, 0:19:56.000 --> 0:19:57.200 so don't follow me anywhere. 0:19:57.520 --> 0:19:59.640 That is a hilarious thing, and I. 0:19:59.600 --> 0:20:02.399 Walk with it confidence that like makes people follow me 0:20:02.440 --> 0:20:03.800 to I. 0:20:03.720 --> 0:20:06.719 Have learned to be more assertive in my walk because 0:20:06.720 --> 0:20:09.440 of that. So yeah, no, incredible. 0:20:09.800 --> 0:20:10.320 So here's one. 0:20:10.359 --> 0:20:13.200 It's a little easier since we started a little you know, Harsher, 0:20:14.840 --> 0:20:19.520