1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: Here's a question. A guy asked his friend to email 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: the Morning Show to get your opinions. Steve. My wife 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:08,800 Speaker 1: went out of town this past weekend, and it was 4 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 1: a good thing because on Saturday, a young guy, maybe 5 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: around twenty years old, rang my doorbell. He asked me 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: my name, asked if I once lived in Memphis, and 7 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: asked me if I knew a woman whose name I 8 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 1: won't mention. When those checked out, he then put out 9 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:29,319 Speaker 1: his hand and told me he was my son. I 10 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: lived in Tennessee two decades ago, and I dated the 11 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: woman for a little while. So the math checks out, 12 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: and this was right before my wife and I got married. 13 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: But the kid's mom didn't tell me any of this. 14 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 1: I invited the young man in and we talked more 15 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: about it. He's trying to put his life together. It 16 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,239 Speaker 1: was a cool conversation and we both agreed to get 17 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: a DNA test to confirm or deny the possibility that 18 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: he is my son. And yes, he favors me either way. 19 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: How do I break this Maury Povie you are or 20 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 1: you are not the father situation? To my wife? Do 21 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 1: I tell her everything about the visit the DNA test 22 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 1: or wait for the results and then tell her I 23 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: have a son. 24 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would, I would. I would take the DNA 25 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 2: test and then when it comes back positive that that's 26 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 2: your son, then you got to tell your wife exactly 27 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 2: how it happened. This guy came to my house. Oh 28 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 2: hell no, say what? 29 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: Don't tell her about the visit first? 30 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, no, it's easy to no. No. 31 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 1: You tell on the weekend what happened this weekend? 32 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 2: What'd you do? 33 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: Nothing? 34 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 2: Nothing. I'll watch it to you myself. Yeah, I promise you. 35 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 2: I'm not mentioning it. So he came over you. How 36 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 2: come you didn't tell me this right then? Baby, listen, 37 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 2: I didn't know whether this young man was telling the 38 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 2: truth or not. I do remember this woman over twenty 39 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 2: years ago. It was before we got married. I do 40 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 2: remember this. But if it wasn't no DNA, it ain't 41 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 2: no need of him talking to me about this and 42 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 2: find out this truth. 43 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 1: I have a son, So you know, twenty years means 44 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: nothing to her because this happened right before the wedding. 45 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 2: He was born before the wed Yeah. 46 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, you do realize. 47 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 2: That, well at nine months nine months, you know, all 48 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 2: as long long is he born before this wedd we 49 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 2: got we got something. 50 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: So you you knew about this woman while you were 51 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: walking down while we were walking down the aisle we had. 52 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 2: I had known of this woman before we got married, 53 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 2: but after I found out we were serious, I broke 54 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 2: it off him. I was younger back time. I was 55 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 2: younger back then. You'll be able to get past this 56 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 2: twenty year thing. And there see no, no, no, listen 57 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 2: to me. No no, no, it's not gonna be easy. 58 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 2: But see you out of the child support stage. You know, 59 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 2: ain't no money got to come out of the house. 60 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 2: You know it's easier to you know this is my son. 61 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 2: I didn't know it. Then you got to do the 62 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:13,839 Speaker 2: right thing as a man because he trying to put 63 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 2: his life together. So you got to help this your son. 64 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 2: At this point, I don't think this is going This 65 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 2: is not gonna lose calls him his marriage. It's gonna 66 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 2: create a whole lot of questions. He gonna get tapped 67 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 2: a lot in the middle of the night. 68 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: Yes he is. 69 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 2: Let me. Let me ask you something. So when we 70 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 2: went to King Ko, because you were seeing her, wa wait, man, wait, wait, 71 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 2: but you was in Memphis in ninety yes, wait wait 72 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:56,119 Speaker 2: wait wait, hold on, hold on wait manue. In two thousand, though, 73 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 2: we went to see my mama in Texas. Uh huh, 74 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 2: black women can do math. Waiten wait wait wait wait 75 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 2: minute wait wait a minute, wait minue. Hold up. So 76 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 2: when you was driving to see me in Dallas, which 77 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 2: way you go? Because that's fardy, farday fardy. Once you 78 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: come down Nashville, you hit fardy and then you come 79 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 2: across the Augans has to get on thirty. You must 80 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 2: have stopped. You went to see this helper right before 81 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 2: you saw me birthday. 82 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.