WEBVTT - KATRINA MCGHEE

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, my friend. We have another fantastic podcast

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<v Speaker 1>for you today as we wrap up the first month

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<v Speaker 1>of the new year and head into February. February the

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<v Speaker 1>month of love, the month of romance, the month of

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<v Speaker 1>all matters of the heart. And while I have dedicated

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<v Speaker 1>my entire career, almost my whole life on radio, has

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<v Speaker 1>been spent talking about the ups and downs, the highs,

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<v Speaker 1>the lows, the hurt, the healing, the joy of our

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<v Speaker 1>emotional hearts, falling in love, the love of our children

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<v Speaker 1>and our grandchildren. Today, I'm going to be joined by

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<v Speaker 1>a very special guest that's going to encourage us to

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<v Speaker 1>build a better relationship with our physical hearts. Are actual

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<v Speaker 1>blood pumping in the chest, that organ that we all

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<v Speaker 1>need to live. Hearts. The month of February is American Heartment.

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<v Speaker 1>And when the American Heart Association encourages us to go

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<v Speaker 1>Red for women, the hope is that by wearing red,

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<v Speaker 1>it will help to bring awareness to the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>cardiovascular disease. Heart disease is a leading cause, the leading

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<v Speaker 1>cause of death for women, number one, ahead of all

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<v Speaker 1>other illnesses and injuries that's concerning. That's an issue that's

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<v Speaker 1>something we need to pay attention to because there's a

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<v Speaker 1>tremendous amount we can do for ourselves to increase our

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<v Speaker 1>heart health and reduce our chance of leaving our loved

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<v Speaker 1>ones behind premature ly. I mean, we gotta do what

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<v Speaker 1>we gotta do to stay as healthy as we can.

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<v Speaker 1>Write with us today on this podcast is a Force

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<v Speaker 1>to be Reckoned with Katrina McGee, Executive vice president of

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<v Speaker 1>the American Heart Association. She has been working to educate

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<v Speaker 1>folks about women's health issues for a few decades. Now

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<v Speaker 1>she knows what she's talking about. We're going to get

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<v Speaker 1>my friend, how are you? How are you? I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>excited to get to talk to you today. I got

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<v Speaker 1>to meet you years ago. I think we were in

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<v Speaker 1>Dallas or Fort Worth. It would be in Dallas and

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<v Speaker 1>you as my business partner. Craig says, Remember she is

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<v Speaker 1>a force to be reckoned with. That was his description,

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<v Speaker 1>and I laughed. I said, oh, I remember her. She's

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<v Speaker 1>like energy plus energy. You're like the energizer bunny. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>I would you know what I believe in Burton with

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<v Speaker 1>gratitude and ending with grace. So I'm I'm just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to keep it positive all day long. Though I was, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if you start with gratitude and you end with grace,

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<v Speaker 1>how can you go wrong? I learned years ago a

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<v Speaker 1>little trick, well not a trick, but a little wisdom

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<v Speaker 1>or a little truth that few people share or teach,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe they don't know it because I didn't know it.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is that every time I've encountered a major issue,

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<v Speaker 1>a major problem, something that I it was a major heartache,

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<v Speaker 1>every time, without fail, God used that to push me

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<v Speaker 1>to a much better understanding of grace, of mercy, of

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<v Speaker 1>goodness and I stopped looking at problems as problems and started,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, kind of reframing them as Okay, God, this

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<v Speaker 1>is an opportunity. This is like back to college. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the college of hard knocks. What are you trying

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<v Speaker 1>to teach me? That is the truth? So it absolutely is.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe that with all my heart. I asked out

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<v Speaker 1>a long time ago to help me love people like

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<v Speaker 1>God loves people. And I don't think I knew what

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<v Speaker 1>I was asking at the time, because what does he do.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't just like supernaturally cover us with that grace

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<v Speaker 1>and love so that oh we're so happy and and

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<v Speaker 1>and patient. No, he gives us those life lessons exactly, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, that is so true. This is you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my second time working at American Heart Association,

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<v Speaker 1>and I told my team the first time I worked there,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to change the world, like I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I could make a difference around the world, and this

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<v Speaker 1>was so awesome. And now I just want to love people.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I want to make a difference to the

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<v Speaker 1>person in front of me, because I have discovered when

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<v Speaker 1>I focused on that, it totally just the atmosphere. If

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<v Speaker 1>you really want to transform community, you really want to

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<v Speaker 1>transform lives, you have to start with the people that

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<v Speaker 1>got places in your path and just love them, just

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<v Speaker 1>love them the life. And so that is that is

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<v Speaker 1>my passion. Now. It's not about trying to change the world.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's one heart at a time for me. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm so grateful. I'm so grateful, um to be

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<v Speaker 1>in that position. And um yeah, even in the midst

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<v Speaker 1>of all of our chaos, I just feel like they're

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<v Speaker 1>such opportunity be and story And well, I wrote a

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<v Speaker 1>book by that title a couple of years ago, just

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<v Speaker 1>talking about that very thing that in order to change

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<v Speaker 1>the world for good, I can't see any way to

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<v Speaker 1>do it on a large scale except by doing it

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<v Speaker 1>on a small scale, by starting with the people in

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<v Speaker 1>your house, and then expanding to the people in your family,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the people in your circle and the people

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<v Speaker 1>in your community. And if we can do that, if

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<v Speaker 1>we can be kind and loving and generous and patient,

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<v Speaker 1>we can change the world for good. Yeah. I believe

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<v Speaker 1>that too. So I'm going to send you some copies

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<v Speaker 1>of my book that you can share with whoever you're

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<v Speaker 1>inspired to share them with. But today Katrina McGee. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to introduce you to my audience who have not

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<v Speaker 1>had the pleasure of meeting you, because you are such

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful woman. God has graced you with external beauty

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<v Speaker 1>and internal beauty. But the thing that I love most

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<v Speaker 1>is that you have spent your entire career helping women

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<v Speaker 1>to love themselves and take better care of themselves. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a message we hear often enough. It is

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely true. I believe when women band together and passionate purpose,

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<v Speaker 1>there nothing we can't do. And it has been my

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<v Speaker 1>life's pleasure to teach women, equip women, empower them to

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<v Speaker 1>take care of themselves, of their health, to live their

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<v Speaker 1>lives with grace for themselves and for each other. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I am honored to meet your audience. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>been some time with you today. So we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about a lot of things. First off, first and foremost,

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<v Speaker 1>February is American Heart Month and you are with the

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<v Speaker 1>American Heart Association. And I read a fact before I

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<v Speaker 1>interviewed you that blew me away. And this is something

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<v Speaker 1>that my podcast director, my my executive producer shared with

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<v Speaker 1>me that one out of three women will die of

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<v Speaker 1>heart diseases. That could that possibly be correct? Yeah, heart

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<v Speaker 1>disease is the number one killer of women. But the

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<v Speaker 1>challenges most of them don't know it. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>really crazy because we think it's all these other things

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<v Speaker 1>and yet it's heart disease. And so part of what

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing this February in particular is founding the alarm

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<v Speaker 1>to younger women, to more diverse women. Um that heart

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<v Speaker 1>disease is the number one killer and we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>lived dear, We've got to get into driver's be of

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<v Speaker 1>our own health. How can that possibly be? When I

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<v Speaker 1>think of heart attack, If you say the word heart

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<v Speaker 1>attack or heart disease and I closed my eyes, I

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<v Speaker 1>see uh an elderly or middle aged man sitting in

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<v Speaker 1>front of a TV set with a beer in his hand,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, having a heart attack. That's what in my

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<v Speaker 1>mind heart disease is. And when I'm reading these statistics

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<v Speaker 1>and the number of young women, the number of women

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<v Speaker 1>my age and younger that are leaving us premature lee

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<v Speaker 1>because of heart disease, how can that speak a trita? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>part of it is that we just don't know and

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<v Speaker 1>we think it's something else. Sometimes the symptoms for women

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<v Speaker 1>manifest differently, so we're misdiagnosed or we missed accused ourselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Many of us have uncontrolled hypertension, and they call it

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<v Speaker 1>the silent killers, so you don't know you have it,

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<v Speaker 1>and things just get progressively worse. And then there, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>you know the things that we can control, like our

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<v Speaker 1>diet and exercise, which have been so hard lately in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of the pandemic. We prioritize everything else for

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<v Speaker 1>and our health is the thing that gets pushed to

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<v Speaker 1>the thigh for I'm raising my hand and giving you

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<v Speaker 1>an amen, because that's me. That's me. I have high

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<v Speaker 1>blood pressure. I know I need to walk every day.

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<v Speaker 1>If I walk two or three miles a day, my

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<v Speaker 1>health is good, my heart is strong, blood pressure is

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<v Speaker 1>under control that with my medication. If I don't, and

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm home schooling the kids now and they're out

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<v Speaker 1>of school in the pandemic and work, I can't even

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<v Speaker 1>tell you the last time I had a chance to walk. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's crazy. I mean, women wear a lot of hats

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<v Speaker 1>and so this is definitely not a judgment. This is

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<v Speaker 1>not a you should be doing better type moment for me,

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<v Speaker 1>because I believe in embracing grace and so that you

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<v Speaker 1>know the things that we prioritize, they're important, that's for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>They are still things we have to do. And yet

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<v Speaker 1>we have to find moments, moments that we can take

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<v Speaker 1>the kids out and go for a walk together, or

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<v Speaker 1>take thirty minute time out. You know. I tell people

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<v Speaker 1>scheduled joy breaks in your day. The other thing that

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<v Speaker 1>exercise does for you, oh my goodness, it releases those

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<v Speaker 1>positive Endortman. Then you just you would be so amazed

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<v Speaker 1>how much a walk outside or just a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of exercise will change your mental faith for the better. Amen.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so so true for me. I have to give

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<v Speaker 1>myself a time out sometimes because I'm getting fussy with

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<v Speaker 1>the kids, and then I just have to go out

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<v Speaker 1>and stand outside and breathe deep. So let's I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like statistics because I think a lot of people tune

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<v Speaker 1>out or get lost with statistics. But this is important

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<v Speaker 1>stuff to share. Uh. The number one killer of women

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<v Speaker 1>is cardiovascular disease, claiming the lives of one in three.

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<v Speaker 1>One woman dies every seventy five seconds in the world

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<v Speaker 1>from cardiovascular disease. Yeah, it's crazy, right, and yet you

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<v Speaker 1>don't really hear about it. And that's why our Go

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<v Speaker 1>Red for Women movement is so important because it is

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<v Speaker 1>you know, women having a conversation just like you and

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<v Speaker 1>I think, girl, are you taking care of yourself? When's

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<v Speaker 1>the last time you check your blood pressure? Let's go

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<v Speaker 1>out and walk together. Let's take the kids and just

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<v Speaker 1>go out for a walk. You know, it is woman

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<v Speaker 1>to woman standing with each other and for each other,

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<v Speaker 1>challenging us to take better care of ourselves. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we we have to do it, because if we don't

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<v Speaker 1>remind each other be each other's accountability partner, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>encourage each other to to see the doctor, to take

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<v Speaker 1>our blood pressure metagin, to do all the things we

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<v Speaker 1>know to do, we could so easily set it to

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<v Speaker 1>the side. Here's another fact that blew me away. And

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<v Speaker 1>because of my eight daughters, six of them are black women,

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<v Speaker 1>Black girls that are growing into black women. And I

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<v Speaker 1>read a statistic more than half fifty seven of women

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<v Speaker 1>of color and close to of Hispanic women have some

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<v Speaker 1>form of cardiovascular disease. Yeah, that's that's right, not only

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<v Speaker 1>to have some form of cardiovafter disease, but to have

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<v Speaker 1>lower outcomes from it. But you know the good news

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<v Speaker 1>about that is there are things we can do, and

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, I go back to sharing the words,

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<v Speaker 1>telling each other, you know, we have to take care

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<v Speaker 1>of ourselves, ensuring that you know, as as African Americans

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<v Speaker 1>and Latin active women, that we participate in critical trials,

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<v Speaker 1>that we speak up, that we get involved in our

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<v Speaker 1>own health care, because it is possible to survive. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>most strokes are preventable, and people don't know that. So

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<v Speaker 1>when people when you think about it, there is so

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<v Speaker 1>much that we can do to be healthier, that we

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<v Speaker 1>can do to take care of ourselves. And I really

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<v Speaker 1>like to focus there because the statistics can be overwhelming, right, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I'm gonna get it anyway. But the

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<v Speaker 1>truth is there's a lot that you can be to

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<v Speaker 1>reduce your risk. So obviously walking, um, being healthy, making

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<v Speaker 1>healthy eating choices, uh, saying no to the extra Cuba

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<v Speaker 1>butter that I put in the mash but potatoes, Oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>I made, Katrina, I made the best sour cream mashed

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<v Speaker 1>potatoes last night. But I know they're they're not hard healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that. You know what the funny thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>I tend to look at our diet and say, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>overall balanced diet. You know, everything in moderation, and so

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<v Speaker 1>if you are eating lots of leafy green vegetables, lean meat,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not having the sour cream masctates every night,

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<v Speaker 1>you're probably okay. I think that we have to approach

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<v Speaker 1>our nutrition from a balanced perspective. And it's one of

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<v Speaker 1>the things that I love about American Heart Association is

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<v Speaker 1>they don't generally operate an extreme You know, um, there

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<v Speaker 1>is the balance to everything in life, and so part

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<v Speaker 1>of it is making sure that you see your health

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<v Speaker 1>care provider regularly, your doctor and nurse practitioner or whomever

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<v Speaker 1>takes care of your health with you, and that you

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<v Speaker 1>be a partner in that, like you ask questions about

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<v Speaker 1>how to take best care of yourself, that you challenge

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<v Speaker 1>things that you don't agree with and not just take

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<v Speaker 1>things for granted. That you take the medication um that

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<v Speaker 1>is prescribed, and do all you can make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>you're following an overall healthy lifestyle. You know, moderation in

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<v Speaker 1>our food, diet and exercise. And I don't mean exercise

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<v Speaker 1>like ready to fall out every day. You don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to go to a jam like you said, a great

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<v Speaker 1>walk of thirty minute walk every day will be wondrous

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<v Speaker 1>for your health. Okay, So what would you say if

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<v Speaker 1>you if you lived here closer in my area and

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<v Speaker 1>we were being safe, you know, taking all the precautions. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Should we get together once a day, once a week.

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<v Speaker 1>How can we assisters, friends, encourage one another, help one

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<v Speaker 1>another to stay healthy and build those stronger bonds of

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<v Speaker 1>heart love the emotional kind. What what would we do,

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<v Speaker 1>like paint a picture for me? What you would suggest

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<v Speaker 1>for women who are listening right now and men, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know we all we all need to have healthy hearts.

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<v Speaker 1>Just give me some simple tips you said, green leafy vegetables.

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<v Speaker 1>My husband and I have been making salads every night

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner since COVID hit because we thought, wow, we

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<v Speaker 1>really need to have a strong immune system, so let's

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<v Speaker 1>get more green leafy vegetables into ourselves and the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's one change that we've made. We have a

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<v Speaker 1>green leafy vegetable with every meal now. But what are

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<v Speaker 1>some other little simple things we can do to help ourselves?

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<v Speaker 1>And so let me just say, you gotta have some

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<v Speaker 1>fun with it, right because we've been in the house

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<v Speaker 1>for a while now, or you know, we've kind of

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<v Speaker 1>gotten in a rut. So my girlfriends and I at

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<v Speaker 1>the part of this year decided to be like this

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<v Speaker 1>little recupe slap thing. So every week we have a

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<v Speaker 1>group text and we're posting in their new recupe. Because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about you, but I got tired of

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<v Speaker 1>everything that I could cook, so I needed to inspiration

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<v Speaker 1>and um, the latest thing I've had, I noticed is

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<v Speaker 1>so corny. But I made the best kale style of

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<v Speaker 1>the praisings and little raisins, and then I roasted the

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<v Speaker 1>ponds and oh my god, it was so good. And

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<v Speaker 1>I had this brilled case and kicking on top of it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so yummy. It was so yummy. Um. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's about eating different things and finding things that appeal

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<v Speaker 1>to your palette, because it's not just one thing. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I love Brussels sprouts. Some people hate Brussels sprouts. So

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<v Speaker 1>you won't know unless you try some things that you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't tried before. So that's the first thing I get

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<v Speaker 1>out of the food rut and try something. News. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you have a website or something where you can post

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<v Speaker 1>those recipes from your girl friends for all of us

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<v Speaker 1>to enjoy. Do you know what I don't have a website,

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<v Speaker 1>I can post those recipes, but I can give you

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<v Speaker 1>hundreds of recipes from the American Heart Association. There was

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<v Speaker 1>a great one I tried that had spaghetti splash in

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<v Speaker 1>it with some spaghetti us on top of it, so

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<v Speaker 1>instead of the noodles, you put the spaghetti sauce in there,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was really super yummy. So we'll have to

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<v Speaker 1>send you some links to some of those great recipes

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<v Speaker 1>so we can try something different. Well, we love we

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<v Speaker 1>We raised spaghetti squash at our farm, so we love

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<v Speaker 1>doing that. That's when we've been doing for years, is

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<v Speaker 1>using the spaghetti squash instead of noodles. But I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>thinking for my listeners, if they go to the American

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<v Speaker 1>Heart Association website, will they find a plethora of fabulous

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<v Speaker 1>recipes that they can start incorporating. Absolutely. If you go

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<v Speaker 1>to heart dot org, there's a healthy Living cab and

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<v Speaker 1>it will have recipes there for you. Uh. There is

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<v Speaker 1>a wonderful meditation on there called Calm Abiding when you're

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<v Speaker 1>feeling anxious or overwhelmed. I'm learning how to do this

0:18:47.480 --> 0:18:51.639
<v Speaker 1>little five to seven minute meditations is a beautiful thing. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>There's also some quick, simple exercise videos on what our

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<v Speaker 1>YouTube and our website, so really anything you need, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a like overall healthy lifestyle perfectives can be found our

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<v Speaker 1>healthy for Good Things. Okay again, that address is heart

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<v Speaker 1>dot org. Heart dot org and that's so easy, especially

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<v Speaker 1>since the month of February is all about the heart,

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<v Speaker 1>so heart dot org and then Healthy Living and Live

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<v Speaker 1>Fierce are places people can go just for some some

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<v Speaker 1>tips to get started, because that's the hardest part. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean for me, once I get started, it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>ball rolling down the hill. Once the ball gets rolling,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty good about follow through. It's the getting started. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the getting started, and part of it is just

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<v Speaker 1>sticking with it. That's why I love that I have,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, girlfriends who are walking with me during the

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<v Speaker 1>path during the month of January, just to try different

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<v Speaker 1>things and get out of my comfort zone, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just to even introduce myself to new foods that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't normally eat. I mean, I know, you have a

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<v Speaker 1>firing growth fresh vegetables, but some people don't, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always surprised when I talk to people who don't

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<v Speaker 1>really try a variety of vegetables because there's so much

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<v Speaker 1>yummy stuff out there. I would have insured to state,

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<v Speaker 1>there's probably something for everyone. We picked even though it's winter.

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<v Speaker 1>We picked Swiss shard. I still have Swiss shard that

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<v Speaker 1>grows in the garden. I picked some the other day

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<v Speaker 1>and cooked it up for the kids and put a

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<v Speaker 1>little vinegar balsamic vinegar on it, and they loved it.

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<v Speaker 1>So introducing more vegetables, more green leafy vegetables in their

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<v Speaker 1>diet has definitely been a good thing. And again I

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<v Speaker 1>did that when COVID hit because I thought the best

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<v Speaker 1>thing we can do is be proactive, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>just started looking up the things that we need to

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<v Speaker 1>build our immune system, and it always came back to green,

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<v Speaker 1>leafy vegetables. Yeah. Yeah, you know, nature gives death virtually

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<v Speaker 1>everything we need for healthy living. And we've come so

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<v Speaker 1>far away from eating fresh fruit and vegetables on a

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<v Speaker 1>regular basis, and most of us have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>processed food in our diet. But I find that the

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<v Speaker 1>more that you eat from the earth, the more you

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<v Speaker 1>shop on the outer rim of the supermarket in general,

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<v Speaker 1>the healthier you are. And so if you practice when

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<v Speaker 1>you go to the store, go a ring around the

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<v Speaker 1>grocery store first, shot the outer aisle of the grocery

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<v Speaker 1>store where all the fresh fruit and vegetables are, the

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<v Speaker 1>fresh meats are, the fresh Jesus are. If you can

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<v Speaker 1>shop the majority of the time there, you're probably eating

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<v Speaker 1>pretty healthy. Yeah, don't even go down those aisles with

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<v Speaker 1>the processed food. Don't even go down because if you

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<v Speaker 1>go down, you're gonna be tempted. A bag of chips

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna jump off the shelf into your cart, and

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<v Speaker 1>before you even get home, it'll be half gone. So

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<v Speaker 1>don't even go down those aisles. So true, at least

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<v Speaker 1>us in my house. I mean, a bag of chips

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<v Speaker 1>might last a day, day and a half, and I

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<v Speaker 1>can have little kids that live here. See that's a

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<v Speaker 1>problem with having little kids, as you always have an excuse, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting this for the kids. No you're not. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>When you see me going through the line and I

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<v Speaker 1>have one of those little little debbies in the cart,

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<v Speaker 1>or I got one of those little Bama pies, the pecampie,

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<v Speaker 1>don't let me lie through my teeth and tell you

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<v Speaker 1>these are for the kids. Uh huh. So we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>try and live in healthier lifestyles. We're gonna wear red

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<v Speaker 1>on the fifth of February to get everybody talking about

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<v Speaker 1>this and thinking about this and how can we reach

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<v Speaker 1>the minorities, the population that is underserved and has no

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<v Speaker 1>clue how important this is. How can we help our

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<v Speaker 1>sisters to live longer, live healthier, and be more blessed.

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<v Speaker 1>What can I do? I mean, as a mom, I

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm gonna do, and I know a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to have with all my girls, But what

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<v Speaker 1>else can I do? Well? I think one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things we all can do is to help spread the

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<v Speaker 1>words were read on February fifth, but then actively talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it and share the information that the Heart Association

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<v Speaker 1>puts out, you know, communities around the country. The American

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<v Speaker 1>Heart Association has um partnership with faith based organizations, with

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<v Speaker 1>organizations that serve African American and Hispanic community, and we

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<v Speaker 1>need volunteers all the time. So if this is your

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<v Speaker 1>passion point to help spread the word and under resource communities,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely reach out to your local American Heart Association and

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<v Speaker 1>find out how you can get engaged. If you're active

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<v Speaker 1>on social media where read post about it, continue to

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<v Speaker 1>share it with your friends that elevate the word and

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<v Speaker 1>then finally, you know, reach out to your circle personally.

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<v Speaker 1>I really feel like reaching out to the women in

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<v Speaker 1>your life that you love, reaching out to the women

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<v Speaker 1>you work with, those you care about, and saying, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>have you you know done? Have you seen your doctor

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<v Speaker 1>this year? Are you trying to eat healthy? Can we

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<v Speaker 1>do something together? I want to help women survive and

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<v Speaker 1>thrive during this time and be sure that we are

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<v Speaker 1>safe from cardiovascular disease. You know, I find that the

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<v Speaker 1>personal touch and really genuinely caring about those people around

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<v Speaker 1>you and opening the conversation helps you be able to

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<v Speaker 1>spread the word. I have a young woman who is

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<v Speaker 1>not one of my adult children. I mean I did

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<v Speaker 1>not adopt her. She has a family, but she is

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<v Speaker 1>a daughter of my heart, a beautiful African American woman

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<v Speaker 1>who went to see her doctor and her doctor said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you need to lose a few pounds because

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<v Speaker 1>your numbers are going up. And she came over and

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<v Speaker 1>I had made something, you know that that was not

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<v Speaker 1>very hard healthy, and she said, Mama, I can't. I

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<v Speaker 1>really want to take better care of myself and I

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<v Speaker 1>want to stop the problem before it starts. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so proud of her because she did it like, she

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<v Speaker 1>followed her doctor's orders and she started changing her diet

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<v Speaker 1>and she lost the weight. And she not only looks fabulous,

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<v Speaker 1>but I can tell she feels so much better. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, get those mashed potatoes away from get

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<v Speaker 1>thee behind me, Satan with those mashed potatoes. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love to hear those success stories. You know. I

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<v Speaker 1>think during COVID a lot of us are feeling challenge.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet if everybody was honest and we talked about

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<v Speaker 1>how much weight we've put on during COVID, we we've

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<v Speaker 1>probably gained enough for a football team. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. And I'm raising my hand over here too. Right, Definitely,

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<v Speaker 1>we all have. It has been a struggle to stay

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<v Speaker 1>active and to eat right. You want comfort food, you

0:25:50.880 --> 0:25:53.480
<v Speaker 1>feel like comfort food when the world around you is

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<v Speaker 1>in chaos. And again, you know, I I try to

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<v Speaker 1>handle that all with grace, which means that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if I feel myself game, whether I feel myself pluggish,

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<v Speaker 1>I used that as a reminder to get up and

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<v Speaker 1>get moving. I used that as an incentive to say, Okay, tomorrow,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to eat a salad and I'm lean chicken. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I ate Mexican food last night and it was yummy,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I just can't beat myself up about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think, you know, it is that continuous pursuit

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<v Speaker 1>of good health that we're most after because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>none of us are going to be perfect all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>But Delilah, I believe if we if we keep good

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<v Speaker 1>health pop of mind, it will always bring us back

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<v Speaker 1>to those behaviors that we know are in our best interests.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, what your daughter did would make

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<v Speaker 1>a courageous choice to live fear to do with what

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:48.879
<v Speaker 1>was in her own best interests. And it was not

0:26:49.000 --> 0:26:51.160
<v Speaker 1>easy because she's got you know, three kids at home

0:26:51.200 --> 0:26:53.480
<v Speaker 1>and her husband and she loves to bless them with food.

0:26:53.800 --> 0:26:57.440
<v Speaker 1>Our love language is sharing food. So it was very

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<v Speaker 1>courageous and very fierce for her to say, no, I

0:27:00.320 --> 0:27:04.359
<v Speaker 1>am going to take care of me. Yeah, yeah, I

0:27:04.840 --> 0:27:07.440
<v Speaker 1>love that. And when we see people doing that, I mean,

0:27:07.720 --> 0:27:10.400
<v Speaker 1>how wonderful it is that she has you to encourage

0:27:10.400 --> 0:27:12.919
<v Speaker 1>her and stand alongside her. That's what we have to

0:27:12.960 --> 0:27:16.120
<v Speaker 1>do for each other as sisters, right, It's just when

0:27:16.200 --> 0:27:20.000
<v Speaker 1>somebody is trying to affirm that effort, and um, I

0:27:20.160 --> 0:27:22.359
<v Speaker 1>be't what go red for women is all about to

0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:25.840
<v Speaker 1>keep for us all encouraged, to keep us all um

0:27:26.000 --> 0:27:29.199
<v Speaker 1>on the path in pursuit of good health. Uh, and

0:27:29.200 --> 0:27:32.440
<v Speaker 1>to share ideas and tips and what's working for each other.

0:27:33.080 --> 0:27:38.480
<v Speaker 1>So tell me about your loving on me academy. Yes, yes, yes,

0:27:39.000 --> 0:27:41.879
<v Speaker 1>So I started loving on me because I was really

0:27:41.920 --> 0:27:45.400
<v Speaker 1>passionate about helping women love themselves and each other more.

0:27:45.520 --> 0:27:49.840
<v Speaker 1>I had just come out of this um anxiety filled,

0:27:50.040 --> 0:27:54.600
<v Speaker 1>overwhelming um burnout really and I said, you know, I

0:27:54.680 --> 0:27:56.760
<v Speaker 1>gotta find a way to do what I love, but

0:27:56.840 --> 0:27:59.560
<v Speaker 1>to do it differently and paint a picture for us,

0:28:00.200 --> 0:28:02.840
<v Speaker 1>like what was going on in your life? What were

0:28:02.880 --> 0:28:06.040
<v Speaker 1>you doing, what choices were you making, or what was

0:28:06.080 --> 0:28:09.600
<v Speaker 1>your circumstances, Because there's there's two things in life that

0:28:09.680 --> 0:28:11.959
<v Speaker 1>we have to deal with. One of circumstances that are

0:28:12.040 --> 0:28:14.399
<v Speaker 1>visited upon us that we have no say over. We

0:28:14.480 --> 0:28:16.960
<v Speaker 1>have no say over the family were born into, our

0:28:17.080 --> 0:28:20.959
<v Speaker 1>ethnicity or height, are any of that. And then the

0:28:21.000 --> 0:28:24.200
<v Speaker 1>second thing is is things that are visited upon us

0:28:24.240 --> 0:28:28.920
<v Speaker 1>like circumstances of of betrayal or divorce or jobs that

0:28:29.080 --> 0:28:33.080
<v Speaker 1>are abusive. So what was going on in your world

0:28:33.960 --> 0:28:37.800
<v Speaker 1>that was leading you to this stressed out situation. I

0:28:37.920 --> 0:28:40.320
<v Speaker 1>was working at what I thought was my dream job

0:28:40.520 --> 0:28:44.120
<v Speaker 1>and we had a huge blow up with another nonprofit

0:28:44.280 --> 0:28:46.760
<v Speaker 1>while I was working at through the g Common, and

0:28:47.480 --> 0:28:51.479
<v Speaker 1>I started to get in this cycle of every day

0:28:51.480 --> 0:28:56.040
<v Speaker 1>trying to control everything and everybody. You know how we

0:28:56.520 --> 0:28:59.440
<v Speaker 1>see something and we feel like, no, don't do that, no, no,

0:28:59.680 --> 0:29:03.280
<v Speaker 1>say this that You're trying to control everybody, trying to

0:29:03.400 --> 0:29:06.840
<v Speaker 1>manage situations that are often out of your control, where

0:29:06.880 --> 0:29:10.720
<v Speaker 1>you've developed codependent relationships and where you want things to

0:29:10.840 --> 0:29:14.440
<v Speaker 1>just go along as you perceived they should be. And

0:29:14.480 --> 0:29:18.040
<v Speaker 1>I finally hit a wall where I thought the lot

0:29:18.120 --> 0:29:19.680
<v Speaker 1>of I was having a heart attack and the struck

0:29:19.720 --> 0:29:22.200
<v Speaker 1>at the same time, my face was getting numb, my

0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:25.320
<v Speaker 1>chest was tight, and I instead of going to the

0:29:25.360 --> 0:29:27.960
<v Speaker 1>doctor right away, I doubled up on my blood pressure

0:29:27.960 --> 0:29:31.000
<v Speaker 1>medicine because I thought, Okay, I'm in a stressful situation.

0:29:31.120 --> 0:29:33.080
<v Speaker 1>I know what this is. I'm just gonna take care

0:29:33.120 --> 0:29:36.560
<v Speaker 1>of it. And finally my son said, listen, I need

0:29:36.600 --> 0:29:39.680
<v Speaker 1>you to go to the doctor because I only have

0:29:39.840 --> 0:29:41.960
<v Speaker 1>one mom and I need you to take care of you.

0:29:42.440 --> 0:29:44.440
<v Speaker 1>And I gotta tell you, I've met so many women

0:29:44.840 --> 0:29:48.280
<v Speaker 1>who have symptoms who were their body their spirit is

0:29:48.360 --> 0:29:51.840
<v Speaker 1>telling them something wrong, that they're having a life interrupted moment,

0:29:52.040 --> 0:29:55.800
<v Speaker 1>but they won't stop and take care of themselves until

0:29:55.840 --> 0:29:59.280
<v Speaker 1>something catastrophic happens. And so, you know, my son said,

0:29:59.280 --> 0:30:00.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't want them to be to you. So I

0:30:00.640 --> 0:30:02.720
<v Speaker 1>went to the doctor. He said, you're not having a

0:30:02.720 --> 0:30:06.080
<v Speaker 1>heart attack. You're having an anxiety attack. And you're having

0:30:06.120 --> 0:30:09.360
<v Speaker 1>it all day, every day, and when you feel lightheaded,

0:30:09.360 --> 0:30:11.840
<v Speaker 1>it's because your body is not getting enough there. And

0:30:13.240 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't I wasn't even sure anxiety attacks were real

0:30:16.720 --> 0:30:19.680
<v Speaker 1>until I had them myself. And he said, you have

0:30:19.720 --> 0:30:22.560
<v Speaker 1>two choices. I can either put you on medication or

0:30:22.640 --> 0:30:25.360
<v Speaker 1>you can be courageous enough to change your circumstances like

0:30:25.480 --> 0:30:27.720
<v Speaker 1>this is not healthy for you. And so I took

0:30:27.720 --> 0:30:31.640
<v Speaker 1>some time off. In a way, I was suffering from exhaustion,

0:30:32.120 --> 0:30:34.600
<v Speaker 1>I was having the anxiety attacks, and it really was

0:30:34.680 --> 0:30:37.840
<v Speaker 1>a life interrupted moment. I just believe, you know, God

0:30:37.880 --> 0:30:41.120
<v Speaker 1>can use your life interrupted moments and take you from

0:30:41.160 --> 0:30:44.760
<v Speaker 1>what you know best to get to know him better,

0:30:45.040 --> 0:30:47.840
<v Speaker 1>like to really focus on what the spirit is saying

0:30:47.880 --> 0:30:49.959
<v Speaker 1>to you. And that's what happened to me. And I

0:30:50.000 --> 0:30:53.479
<v Speaker 1>started telling my story of what happened. I realized there

0:30:53.480 --> 0:30:56.040
<v Speaker 1>were so many other women around me who did not

0:30:56.160 --> 0:30:59.440
<v Speaker 1>understand how to love themselves enough to make the hard choices,

0:31:00.320 --> 0:31:03.240
<v Speaker 1>and so I ended up writing this book to take

0:31:03.720 --> 0:31:07.040
<v Speaker 1>people on that journey with me from being a hot

0:31:07.160 --> 0:31:13.240
<v Speaker 1>mess suffering from anxiety attacks to unconditional self worth. And um.

0:31:13.280 --> 0:31:15.640
<v Speaker 1>It was along that journey that I've met a lot

0:31:15.680 --> 0:31:19.760
<v Speaker 1>of women from around the world actually who had experienced

0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:23.320
<v Speaker 1>the same thing. And it became this movement, this loving

0:31:23.320 --> 0:31:26.360
<v Speaker 1>on Me movement, UM. And I realized, I can help

0:31:26.400 --> 0:31:29.760
<v Speaker 1>you learn to love yourself more, um, but you really

0:31:29.800 --> 0:31:32.480
<v Speaker 1>needed help, honestly on how to manage your advice in

0:31:32.520 --> 0:31:35.240
<v Speaker 1>your career too. So I set up a Loving on

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<v Speaker 1>the Academy, first to help people get in the driver's

0:31:38.160 --> 0:31:41.840
<v Speaker 1>seat of their life and to set priorities, and second

0:31:42.400 --> 0:31:46.240
<v Speaker 1>to learn to do what you love, to find a

0:31:46.280 --> 0:31:50.040
<v Speaker 1>career in what you love, or be curateous enough if

0:31:50.040 --> 0:31:53.080
<v Speaker 1>you're not doing that, to do something different. And that

0:31:53.080 --> 0:31:55.480
<v Speaker 1>that became my work for many, many years. And you know,

0:31:55.560 --> 0:31:58.320
<v Speaker 1>I really still do some element of that even though

0:31:58.320 --> 0:32:01.479
<v Speaker 1>I'm at American Heart now, because I have always been

0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:04.720
<v Speaker 1>in love with helping women take charge of their health

0:32:04.840 --> 0:32:07.800
<v Speaker 1>and their life and to do the things that they

0:32:07.800 --> 0:32:11.440
<v Speaker 1>are most called to do. So do you have teachers

0:32:11.680 --> 0:32:14.200
<v Speaker 1>at this Loving On You Academy? I mean, do you

0:32:14.320 --> 0:32:18.120
<v Speaker 1>have classes at the academy? What does it look like?

0:32:18.720 --> 0:32:23.000
<v Speaker 1>I do. I have online classes. I have three classes

0:32:23.040 --> 0:32:27.200
<v Speaker 1>that are out there currently. I'm working on another class

0:32:27.280 --> 0:32:30.800
<v Speaker 1>because you know, COVID has been a master class for

0:32:30.960 --> 0:32:33.240
<v Speaker 1>us on many things, and so I want to set

0:32:33.320 --> 0:32:36.880
<v Speaker 1>up a couple of more classes for that. And I

0:32:36.920 --> 0:32:41.320
<v Speaker 1>put it online because I found that so many people

0:32:41.400 --> 0:32:44.200
<v Speaker 1>did not have access to what they needed, and so

0:32:44.240 --> 0:32:48.040
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to give it to the broadest audience possible. UM.

0:32:48.040 --> 0:32:51.560
<v Speaker 1>So I set up online courses and occasionally a couple

0:32:51.560 --> 0:32:55.240
<v Speaker 1>of times the year, I also do group coaching because

0:32:55.280 --> 0:32:58.840
<v Speaker 1>I believe in women helping women. Uh, And that's you know,

0:32:59.080 --> 0:33:03.280
<v Speaker 1>that's that's my passion. I love putting women in charge

0:33:03.280 --> 0:33:06.400
<v Speaker 1>of their lives. I just believe it is so liberating

0:33:06.440 --> 0:33:08.720
<v Speaker 1>to be who you were created to be and who

0:33:08.880 --> 0:33:12.280
<v Speaker 1>not who you thought you had to be because somebody

0:33:12.320 --> 0:33:15.600
<v Speaker 1>else that priorities for you, or you're trying to live

0:33:15.680 --> 0:33:19.720
<v Speaker 1>up or down to somebody else's expectation. Amen. So if

0:33:19.760 --> 0:33:22.240
<v Speaker 1>somebody wants to take a class that the Loving on

0:33:22.320 --> 0:33:25.720
<v Speaker 1>you are Loving on Me Academy. How do they do that,

0:33:26.040 --> 0:33:30.120
<v Speaker 1>Contrina out? Where do they go? They go to Loving

0:33:30.120 --> 0:33:33.520
<v Speaker 1>on Me academy dot com and they will find all

0:33:33.560 --> 0:33:36.520
<v Speaker 1>of the classes there. You know what, I bet probably

0:33:38.560 --> 0:33:43.120
<v Speaker 1>of my collars every single night are women that would

0:33:43.120 --> 0:33:47.080
<v Speaker 1>benefit from that because they call me because they're stressed out.

0:33:47.080 --> 0:33:50.080
<v Speaker 1>They call me because they're trying to control their adult

0:33:50.120 --> 0:33:56.040
<v Speaker 1>children's addictions, or their partners philanderings, or they're trying to

0:33:56.080 --> 0:33:59.280
<v Speaker 1>control the finances of their household and it's out of

0:33:59.280 --> 0:34:02.040
<v Speaker 1>control right now out and they just they call me

0:34:02.120 --> 0:34:06.560
<v Speaker 1>because their heartbroken, because they're exhausted, because their life is

0:34:06.560 --> 0:34:11.439
<v Speaker 1>a hot mess. I have been there, and I can

0:34:11.560 --> 0:34:15.120
<v Speaker 1>so relate, you know. I talk about that in Loving

0:34:15.120 --> 0:34:18.560
<v Speaker 1>on Me, my first book, because it's so easy to

0:34:18.600 --> 0:34:22.360
<v Speaker 1>slip in a codependent relationship where we are trying to

0:34:22.560 --> 0:34:27.160
<v Speaker 1>control another person or live that other person's life for them,

0:34:27.200 --> 0:34:29.680
<v Speaker 1>And the truth of it is, you know, we think

0:34:29.719 --> 0:34:32.200
<v Speaker 1>that we are helping people, we think that that's the

0:34:32.320 --> 0:34:35.160
<v Speaker 1>right thing to do, but you are not called to

0:34:35.239 --> 0:34:38.480
<v Speaker 1>live anyone else's life but your own, and in truth,

0:34:38.560 --> 0:34:42.000
<v Speaker 1>those people don't love you. For that. They actually resent

0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:46.200
<v Speaker 1>for that. And so it is healthy and liberating when

0:34:46.239 --> 0:34:51.080
<v Speaker 1>you learn to break codependent relationship. But it is not easy.

0:34:51.400 --> 0:34:54.399
<v Speaker 1>It is not easy. And the minute you you try

0:34:54.440 --> 0:34:56.640
<v Speaker 1>to set those boundaries, I will tell you, the minute

0:34:56.640 --> 0:34:58.720
<v Speaker 1>you try to set those boundaries, the minute you start

0:34:58.800 --> 0:35:02.560
<v Speaker 1>saying no, no, no, that doesn't work for me, Nope,

0:35:02.920 --> 0:35:05.520
<v Speaker 1>can't do the Nope, not paying that, Nope, you're not

0:35:05.600 --> 0:35:10.880
<v Speaker 1>taking my car. Sorry, they get really mean because they

0:35:10.960 --> 0:35:14.080
<v Speaker 1>don't want they don't They don't want you to stop

0:35:14.120 --> 0:35:16.719
<v Speaker 1>being codependent. They don't want you to take care of you.

0:35:17.239 --> 0:35:22.359
<v Speaker 1>They want you to fix them. Right. Yes, that is

0:35:22.400 --> 0:35:26.480
<v Speaker 1>so very true, and yet it is completely unhealthy for

0:35:26.560 --> 0:35:30.200
<v Speaker 1>you and them for things to stay the way they are.

0:35:31.000 --> 0:35:33.640
<v Speaker 1>This is why I believe so much in sisterhood. This

0:35:33.680 --> 0:35:37.680
<v Speaker 1>is why I believe in women helping women and understand

0:35:37.719 --> 0:35:41.480
<v Speaker 1>the need to have a good group of girlfriends and

0:35:41.560 --> 0:35:44.960
<v Speaker 1>connections who can speak truth to you and love because

0:35:45.480 --> 0:35:48.000
<v Speaker 1>often we can't see this in ourselves. And this is

0:35:48.120 --> 0:35:51.040
<v Speaker 1>whether this is our health. Are like our physical health,

0:35:51.360 --> 0:35:54.399
<v Speaker 1>our mental health, our spiritual health. You know, we are

0:35:54.480 --> 0:35:58.040
<v Speaker 1>doing things that we would tell our friends. Don't do that. Now,

0:35:58.120 --> 0:36:00.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, girl, you don't have to live it

0:36:00.239 --> 0:36:03.080
<v Speaker 1>that way. Of Course, you don't have to pay his

0:36:03.200 --> 0:36:06.560
<v Speaker 1>rent every month. Of Course you should take time for you.

0:36:07.160 --> 0:36:11.719
<v Speaker 1>But it sometimes takes somebody outside of your circumstances to

0:36:11.840 --> 0:36:15.760
<v Speaker 1>say those things to you. Because people see us based

0:36:15.800 --> 0:36:19.719
<v Speaker 1>on how we're living, how we're showing up the good

0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:23.160
<v Speaker 1>things that we are doing. We are constantly judging ourselves

0:36:23.320 --> 0:36:26.279
<v Speaker 1>on what we perceive we should do or it could

0:36:26.360 --> 0:36:29.920
<v Speaker 1>have done or didn't do, and and it often takes

0:36:29.960 --> 0:36:33.719
<v Speaker 1>that outside perspective. Today it really is okay, it. This

0:36:33.960 --> 0:36:37.120
<v Speaker 1>is a good thing that you are not doing that anymore.

0:36:37.200 --> 0:36:39.960
<v Speaker 1>It is a good thing that you're taking time for yourself.

0:36:40.560 --> 0:36:43.520
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Katrina. Thank you for spending some time with

0:36:43.600 --> 0:36:47.560
<v Speaker 1>us today. Thank you for being passionate about women's health

0:36:47.680 --> 0:36:52.680
<v Speaker 1>and women's hearts and women's sisterhood. And any time you

0:36:52.719 --> 0:36:56.000
<v Speaker 1>want to share a healthy recipe call me. Okay, I

0:36:56.200 --> 0:36:58.960
<v Speaker 1>absolutely will do that. Now. I'm gonna see you when

0:36:58.960 --> 0:37:02.839
<v Speaker 1>you're red on February right, oh yeah, oh yeah. And

0:37:02.880 --> 0:37:05.560
<v Speaker 1>you know what, Red is one of my favorite colors.

0:37:05.719 --> 0:37:09.359
<v Speaker 1>I decorate with it. My house has got red accents,

0:37:09.440 --> 0:37:12.960
<v Speaker 1>and I am gonna wear red. But more importantly, I'm

0:37:13.000 --> 0:37:15.400
<v Speaker 1>really going to make it a point to talk to

0:37:15.640 --> 0:37:19.319
<v Speaker 1>my daughters, my friends, especially women of color, about the

0:37:19.400 --> 0:37:24.279
<v Speaker 1>importance of paying really good attention to their heart. Thank you,

0:37:24.880 --> 0:37:27.960
<v Speaker 1>thank you. It's so important and I so appreciate you.

0:37:28.080 --> 0:37:30.440
<v Speaker 1>Let me spend some time with you today. I loved it,

0:37:30.760 --> 0:37:34.120
<v Speaker 1>all right, I'll talk to you soon, Okay. Take here.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, for more than forty years, for more than

0:37:38.040 --> 0:37:41.799
<v Speaker 1>four decades, I have tried to be a comfort to

0:37:41.880 --> 0:37:46.279
<v Speaker 1>those suffering from a wounded heart. I've tried to encourage

0:37:46.480 --> 0:37:50.720
<v Speaker 1>people to live from their heart, to love from their heart.

0:37:50.840 --> 0:37:53.319
<v Speaker 1>I was a champion. I've been a champion. I've tried

0:37:53.360 --> 0:37:56.840
<v Speaker 1>to be for the healing heart, a celebrant of the

0:37:56.880 --> 0:38:00.000
<v Speaker 1>happy heart. I try to pass on all the great

0:38:00.000 --> 0:38:04.040
<v Speaker 1>advice I can a lot from my own personal experiences.

0:38:04.120 --> 0:38:09.600
<v Speaker 1>I've been around the block three times maybefore, and I

0:38:09.680 --> 0:38:14.359
<v Speaker 1>like to share stories other people's stories. Katrina McGhee does

0:38:14.440 --> 0:38:18.319
<v Speaker 1>the same. The only difference is that my work, my

0:38:18.560 --> 0:38:24.840
<v Speaker 1>show is about the emotional heart, the joy, the love,

0:38:25.000 --> 0:38:28.279
<v Speaker 1>the tears in our heart. Katrina's work is about the

0:38:28.280 --> 0:38:32.400
<v Speaker 1>physical heart, our cardiovascular health. Each of us, me and

0:38:32.520 --> 0:38:35.520
<v Speaker 1>Katrina wants you to live your best life. Live your

0:38:35.520 --> 0:38:39.000
<v Speaker 1>life to the fullest, with joy, with purpose, with intent.

0:38:39.640 --> 0:38:42.600
<v Speaker 1>Please take her advice. Do I dare say it to heart,

0:38:43.280 --> 0:38:49.680
<v Speaker 1>Live fearce, prioritize your health, live purposefully, live passionately. I

0:38:49.800 --> 0:38:53.240
<v Speaker 1>encourage you every single day to love someone. That's my motto,

0:38:53.360 --> 0:38:57.000
<v Speaker 1>my slogan in life. And perhaps I don't say it enough,

0:38:57.080 --> 0:39:00.600
<v Speaker 1>but the very first person that that applies to is you.

0:39:00.600 --> 0:39:03.400
<v Speaker 1>You can't love others if you're not taking care of yourself.

0:39:03.960 --> 0:39:06.480
<v Speaker 1>So take care of yourself, take care of your heart

0:39:07.480 --> 0:39:09.640
<v Speaker 1>so that you will have the strength and the energy

0:39:09.719 --> 0:39:12.960
<v Speaker 1>to take care of everyone else that you love. Valentine's

0:39:13.000 --> 0:39:15.319
<v Speaker 1>Day just around the corner. You know where to tune

0:39:15.320 --> 0:39:18.840
<v Speaker 1>in for the greatest love songs, the greatest love stories

0:39:18.880 --> 0:39:21.560
<v Speaker 1>of all time. I share those with you every night

0:39:21.719 --> 0:39:25.240
<v Speaker 1>this year. When you're making your plans for the loves

0:39:25.400 --> 0:39:30.239
<v Speaker 1>in your life, your sweetheart, your partner, your children, include yourself.

0:39:30.760 --> 0:39:33.239
<v Speaker 1>The month of February is a great time to kick

0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:37.400
<v Speaker 1>start some healthier habits. Where read on February five to

0:39:37.440 --> 0:39:41.280
<v Speaker 1>help bring awareness to women's heart health and visit where

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<v Speaker 1>Red day dot org to learn more and to donate

0:39:45.040 --> 0:39:48.160
<v Speaker 1>to go Red and Ladies. If you're looking for tips

0:39:48.160 --> 0:39:52.000
<v Speaker 1>and inspirations to take the next big steps in life,

0:39:52.080 --> 0:39:55.680
<v Speaker 1>in your careers and managing your health, you should visit

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