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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, welcome back to give them La La podcast.

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Speaker 2: Whether you're listening or watching them, what's up. It's sad

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Speaker 2: today Easton is in Utah.

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Speaker 3: I know, I hate it. It feels it used to

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Speaker 3: be just us too, and now without Easton it feels

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Speaker 3: not good. It feels like it feels.

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Speaker 2: A little weird, right Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know if it's sad, like sadder for

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Speaker 1: us or sadder for him, but like we're doing this

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Speaker 1: without him or he's in Utah, probably sader for us.

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Speaker 1: I talked to him, I was like, do you miss it?

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Speaker 1: He was like, no, the podcast or missing miss like

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Speaker 1: miss Utah. Do you miss being there? Like you're there,

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Speaker 1: you you get to go home? And he's like, no,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't. It doesn't feel like home when your family,

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Speaker 1: like my mama says, the home is where the heart

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Speaker 1: is right right, and we're all out here now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So he will be missed today. He comes back tonight,

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Speaker 1: which is great. We record on Mondays. Mondays are always

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Speaker 1: a jam packed day, but I'm super super excited because

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Speaker 1: we are doing our live show at the ear of

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Speaker 1: Vine m Prov. We only had one date at first,

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Speaker 1: it was October seventeenth. You guys are so savage that

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Speaker 1: we sold out very quickly. It's a super important show

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Speaker 1: for me because I will be approaching five years of sobriety.

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Speaker 1: So it's like that celebration and I want you guys

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Speaker 1: to come. So I added another date on October eighteenth,

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Speaker 1: and you can literally the link is like right here

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Speaker 1: on this page if you're watching, so just like click it,

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Speaker 1: buy the tickets, come celebrate again, one day at a time.

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Speaker 1: But I have a solid feeling that we will make

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Speaker 1: it to five years of sobriety.

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Speaker 3: Five years is huge.

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Speaker 2: It's pretty freak and huge.

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Speaker 3: Every year is huge, every day is huge, but five

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Speaker 3: years is gigantic.

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Speaker 1: Five years is gigantic. It's like the you go, the

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Speaker 1: first year is huge.

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Speaker 2: The next big one is five, you know.

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Speaker 1: But I also am obsessed with like numbers and doing

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Speaker 1: like one and then five, ten, fifteen, twenty.

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Speaker 2: You guys know the drill. Jessica, how are you doing today?

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Speaker 3: I'm so good. I'm thirty two, so this is fun.

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Speaker 2: How's it feel?

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Speaker 3: It feels good? I said on last week's episode that

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Speaker 3: it felt weird and I didn't know how I felt

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Speaker 3: turning thirty two, But it feels fine. It's an ugly number,

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Speaker 1: Cutter than thirty one. As we talked about last week. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited.

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Speaker 3: To hear about of saving it. Yeah, your birthday, you

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Speaker 3: guys am saving it for the Ache and Relief section.

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Speaker 3: And I haven't told Laala it's it's a thing.

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Speaker 2: The birthday was on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: I was so bummed because I really thought that I

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Speaker 1: would be able to make it to your birthday. We

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Speaker 1: film on Saturdays, and then I got my call sheet,

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Speaker 1: which actually comes to you two of like where I

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Speaker 1: need to be, and I was gone from ten am

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Speaker 1: you guys, to literally ten o'clock at night. That was

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Speaker 1: like the longest filming day I've had in many years, the.

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Speaker 3: Most packed I've that's the most I've seen your your

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm so excited to hear about your ache and relief.

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Speaker 2: I want to talk.

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Speaker 1: Every time I ask my people, like what do you

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Speaker 1: love talking about on this pod, and everyone always says ocean.

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Speaker 2: Now it is a bummer.

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Speaker 1: Because I don't think people really get to see me

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna definitely do that one day.

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Speaker 3: Thank God. Yeah, Ocean and Lisa Ocehanman, those are the

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Speaker 1: So I was with Ocean in her room the other

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Speaker 1: day and We're like doing our bedtime routine. Everyone knows

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Speaker 1: online that the most important time of a child's day

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Speaker 2: So we do our whole thing. We read the book,

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Speaker 1: But during this time of getting her in her PGS,

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Speaker 2: I keep you.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, yes, you get to keep me forever,

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Speaker 2: And I said, yes, baby, you keep mama.

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Speaker 1: And she says and sealed with a kiss, kisses me

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Speaker 2: I go Ocean. She's two and a half.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe a little over two and a half. I'm

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, Ocean, where did you learn that? She

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Speaker 2: True love's kiss? Is? Is that real? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean it's proud of every dizzy, right, she fed

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Speaker 1: the kiss. But I'm like, I remember that being sisterly loved.

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Speaker 1: Do they seal it with the kiss?

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Speaker 3: She is And I say this every time, but every

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Speaker 3: time I see her or hear her, she's a genius. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: she's an angel. Yes, she's a comedian. Correct, And she's

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Speaker 3: an entertainer. She's she's going to be a star.

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Speaker 2: She's a star. She's already a star.

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Speaker 1: She's got main character energy and what's hard for me

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Speaker 1: And you'll get this when you're a parent, right, Like

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Speaker 1: I look at Ocean.

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Speaker 1: She's developing her personality right, she's communicating.

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Speaker 2: I take her to the pool.

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Speaker 1: I take her to the pool often, and she always

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Speaker 1: And I'm only saying this because of what happened, all right,

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Speaker 1: the brother and a sister at the pool. Ocean wanted

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Speaker 1: She kept telling me to come with her, and I said,

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Speaker 1: Ask them what their names are. So she toddles over

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Speaker 1: And she walks up the stairs to go to the edge.

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Speaker 1: And I watched the little girl look at her little brother.

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Speaker 3: Where was the parent?

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Speaker 1: The mom was reading a book and like I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I just like I didn't want that smoke. You know,

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Speaker 2: It's on.

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Speaker 1: Not with the kids Saturday, you're mean to my kid?

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Speaker 2: Fair game?

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Speaker 3: Did did because Gig was there, right, Gig was there

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Speaker 3: and DG didn't say anything because.

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Speaker 1: I was actively telling my mom bite your tongue. You

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Speaker 1: Just yet she didn't see them swim away or anything,

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Speaker 1: I would never want to feel like she's unwanted by anybody.

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Speaker 1: little shits. We went back, devoured Mulano's cookies, love it,

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Speaker 1: She loves taking the dogs out to go potty. It's like,

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Speaker 3: Yes, I hear you, I hear you. I think you

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Speaker 3: are a goer just because you work so much, but

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Speaker 1: Gigi's a goer, and it's like the littlest things. They're like, all,

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Speaker 1: this time, she wanted Mom to come with her and

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Speaker 1: Gigi to take the dogs out to go potty. Bella

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Speaker 1: goes out, who's like a hundred Okay, it's like my

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Speaker 1: have friends in this camera.

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Speaker 3: I love. I know, I love. They are looking at

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Speaker 3: the camera.

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Speaker 2: No, you do have friends, No, I know, and I

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Speaker 2: want to watch they're all here.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we're all.

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Speaker 2: Just like hanging out.

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Speaker 1: My mom's Pomeranian who's fifteen and she's going blind.

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Speaker 3: She's a toothpick. She's toothpicks with fur.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's like a supermodel, right, you know these long

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Speaker 1: she does not look like a Pomeranian to me, but

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Speaker 1: we shave her like a lion and she's like kind

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Speaker 1: of going death as well. But she goes potty and

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Speaker 1: Ocean's vary into thumbs up right now.

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Speaker 2: She was like this.

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Speaker 1: So she Bella goes potty and she goes good job, baby,

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Speaker 1: the thumbs up.

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Speaker 3: Wait, I love it. Give one, give one to the

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Speaker 2: Damn, this song's a banger.

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Speaker 3: A queen of our time.

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Speaker 1: No, so clearly I've been obsessing and talking about her

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Speaker 1: You should see my saved area of just all of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that makes me really And I've heard she's always

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Speaker 1: Yes, you're telling me my daughter that I created in

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Speaker 3: A Taylor Swift one percent.

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Speaker 2: Yes, minus the sex tape.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, good that I will.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Ocean's gonna be Taylor Swift. That's been established. Whoa,

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Speaker 3: It's so bold? And I have so many cute videos

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Speaker 3: No, she is such a daredevil. When I was babysitting

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Speaker 3: Sometimes a forty second event.

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Speaker 3: And let me tell you that is a good worry,

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Speaker 2: I don't know why it's but her most favorite thing

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Speaker 1: So she's showing me that at Westfield Mall in Century City,

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Speaker 2: Let them go. Could you imagine they could have weapons

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Speaker 1: was a robbery at Heller Jewelers. They took over one

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Speaker 1: million dollars of jewelry. They took a rolex that had

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Speaker 1: a tracking device in it and ended up catching these fools. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So then I got me to thinking designers, like bags, clothing,

442
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,959
Speaker 1: any of these designer stores, they should put tracking devices

443
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Speaker 1: that are removed after the purchase in all the bags

444
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Speaker 1: and if you try to remove them, it completely ruins

445
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Speaker 1: the bag.

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Speaker 3: I love that idea. And I don't know why these

447
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 3: these items are so expensive. They're luxury items. Why wouldn't

448
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 3: It's not like, you know, it's gonna be cost nothing

449
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Speaker 3: compared to what the item costs to put the tracking

450
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Speaker 3: device in?

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Speaker 1: Right, So I was thinking, why don't they do that,

452
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Speaker 1: like implanted into the back.

453
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Speaker 2: I don't know, just a thought.

454
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Speaker 1: Gucci, you should have done that, should have had that

455
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Speaker 1: all of that. Yeah, there's something about watching people like

456
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Speaker 1: steal shit that makes me very uneasy, pisses me off.

457
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Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't like this. What are we doing? Oh?

458
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Speaker 2: Have you ever stolen anything?

459
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 3: Just accidentally stole a lollipop? I was six.

460
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Speaker 2: Oh, we talked about this, Yeah, your parents scolded you.

461
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just took it. I mean I was like, uh,

462
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Speaker 3: how about you? We talked about this, But is it

463
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Speaker 3: something on purpose or no, like when you were little?

464
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Speaker 3: Why do I remember?

465
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Speaker 1: Like, I feel like I may have talked about I

466
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Speaker 1: took like a choker that I it was not it

467
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Speaker 1: was I was modeling, okay, and they had this as

468
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Speaker 1: one of the looks, and I was like, damn, this

469
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Speaker 1: is kind of cute.

470
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Speaker 2: And then I took it and like literally the next

471
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Speaker 2: day all the jewels fell out.

472
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Speaker 3: That's what you get.

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Speaker 1: Easton told his robbery story. Yeah he did women's earrings.

474
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 2: Oh, women's earring man from the Pashion Place mall.

475
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Speaker 1: Anyway, let's go into Real Housewives of Orange County. So

476
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Speaker 1: not much happened?

477
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Speaker 2: Okay, have you been watching OC?

478
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Speaker 3: Just okay, you guys, I want to say not OC.

479
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:19,959
Speaker 3: But last night I was laying my head down on

480
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Speaker 3: my pillow. I was comfy, and then I popped open

481
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 3: and I said Real Housewives of New York. Oh no,

482
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:28,919
Speaker 3: And I ran out in my living room and I

483
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:29,439
Speaker 3: turned it on.

484
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Speaker 2: I got time. I mean, I had a long weekend.

485
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Speaker 2: So it was like eight thirty years. Oh okay, I

486
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Speaker 2: feel less badly.

487
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Speaker 3: It wasn't like one am I watched this set. It

488
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Speaker 3: was live streaming. But I watched or whatever the half

489
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Speaker 3: of New York episode four and then all of episode three.

490
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Speaker 3: But let's talk about OC.

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Speaker 1: Well, OC, it's fine that you didn't watch. Not much happened.

492
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Speaker 1: I was hoping that at the beginning of SO tonight

493
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Speaker 1: will be a new episode. So two weeks ago the

494
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Speaker 1: tail end of the episode that we talked about, was

495
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Speaker 1: I hope that Shannon Badoor's like whatever was said that

496
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 1: Heather repeated has talked about, was it? No, it wasn't,

497
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:15,959
Speaker 1: But Shannon kept saying he's very very private and like

498
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Speaker 1: this will ruin everything. They still didn't say what Heather repeated,

499
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: but obviously Shannon was very shook up about it, and like,

500
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Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about people dating reality

501
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 1: TV personalities when they want their business more private.

502
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Speaker 3: Okay, that's interesting.

503
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Speaker 1: I just feel like if I sit here and I'm

504
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:46,439
Speaker 1: like I hate sports, I cannot stand them, I wouldn't

505
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 1: go like find an athlete really, or if I was

506
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:54,919
Speaker 1: like I hate talking about finances, like I wouldn't go

507
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:56,640
Speaker 1: find someone who's in finance.

508
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Speaker 2: Like do you get what I'm saying and what you're saying.

509
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Speaker 3: But on the opposite end, would you want to date

510
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 3: someone who's like I love Bravo and reality TV?

511
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Speaker 1: Well, that's why I wanted to get your opinion, because

512
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: that actually scares me. That's if I date someone who's like, yeah,

513
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 1: I would film, it's like why.

514
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, why are you so into? And same with sports,

515
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,400
Speaker 3: of course, I don't know if I'm not a sports guy,

516
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 3: but I might not want to date or be with

517
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Speaker 3: someone who's like, that's sports chick who's like at all

518
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 3: the games and obsessed, because I'd be like, oh, you're

519
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you just made way more sense. You're right, You're

521
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Speaker 1: absolutely right.

522
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Speaker 3: It's a spectrum you don't want to date on either end.

523
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 3: You don't want to date the obsessed, but also the hate.

524
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 3: You don't want to date someone who's like, oh, reality

525
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 3: TV disgusting. You'd be like, Okay, it's my job.

526
00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:45,879
Speaker 1: It's my job, and I'm offended because it's awesome, awesome, Okay, No,

527
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 1: you just made all this sense. I think what's hard

528
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:52,879
Speaker 1: is you have to find the person to vent to

529
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Speaker 1: who's not on the show with you.

530
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Speaker 2: And I always say I feel like that's why.

531
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Speaker 1: Vander Pump is different than most shows. Is there many

532
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: conversations that all of us have had that we just

533
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:09,679
Speaker 1: know real life works this way, right, Like, I'm not

534
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,160
Speaker 1: gonna go out and repeat every single thing that someone

535
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Speaker 1: tells me.

536
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 2: There are things that are meant.

537
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Speaker 1: To stay just between two people, right right, These are

538
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 1: your thoughts, and if you choose one day to share them,

539
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: then like, that's on you. But I'm certainly not going

540
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Speaker 1: to go and like ruin a friendship or you know,

541
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,159
Speaker 1: put you on blast when I know you're telling me

542
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: this in confidence and I know that every like all

543
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 1: the viewers are probably like, no, that's so boring. But

544
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, nothing lasts forever, and

545
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: I would like to know that my friendships will. So

546
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: I think the biggest mistake was you don't tell your deepest,

547
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: darkest secrets or you know, vent about your relationship to

548
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 1: someone who's on the show with you. Yeah, especially housewives.

549
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,439
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, because here we are. It's been repeated, but

550
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: why has it not been talked about yet? Are we

551
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: ever gonna know what it is that's so bad?

552
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 3: Do you think I mean a reunion come reunion time? Surely,

553
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 3: but do you think we'll have to wait?

554
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 1: I think we may have to wait, really yeah, or

555
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 1: it'll come out further. We're halfway through the season. So

556
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 1: that happened or I guess didn't happen. Again, not much have.

557
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:21,120
Speaker 1: In this episode, Jen and Ryan came face to face

558
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,880
Speaker 1: with Eddie and Tamra. They talked about the dick pic

559
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 1: and the cheating on Ryan's and all is good for now.

560
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: I will say there's something about Ryan's eyes that I

561
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 1: do not like. They seem a little dark. And you

562
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: know what I've learned, when you're talking to someone, you

563
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: have to look at what their pupils do.

564
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 2: Because I was listening to this.

565
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: Behavior specialist she works strictly with like narcissism, and when

566
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:55,919
Speaker 1: the pupil dilates, it means that they're in. It's almost

567
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 1: like an animal who's going in for the kill.

568
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 2: You know, they get like really big.

569
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 1: So like if if you're looking at your partner and

570
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: you're talking about something like where you want truth to

571
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 1: come out of it, and their pupils start doing something funky,

572
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,879
Speaker 1: just be aware of that because it means they're in.

573
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 2: They're going into fight mode.

574
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I've never heard that before in my life.

575
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:21,159
Speaker 3: Yeah wow, because I've I've talked to like women or

576
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 3: met new women and talked about certain stuff or had

577
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,919
Speaker 3: deep conversations and all of a sudden, like what is

578
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:26,360
Speaker 3: going on.

579
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 2: With their pupils? Like what are their eyes doing? Yeah?

580
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it gets really scary. He just he has

581
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: some eyes that I feel like I've seen before.

582
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 3: Huh.

583
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 1: Oh, I've seen them with other men on reality television

584
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 1: who have turned out to be not great guys. So

585
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 1: just like be aware of that. You know, I'm not

586
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: wounded or scarred. Hey, telling you to look out for

587
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 1: some pupil.

588
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 3: You call it, though. The second you call something, I go, Okay,

589
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 3: I better listen because wait, really, yes, learning from experience?

590
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 2: Are you kidding me?

591
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 3: In the over two years that I've worked for you,

592
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 3: you call something and then it happens, or your gut

593
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 3: or you go. I should have listened to my gut.

594
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 3: My gut was telling me this. You've got intuition like

595
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 3: your mom.

596
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, but can I tell you where the fine line is?

597
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: Is having your experience define you and have it be

598
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: the end all be all in every situation. And I

599
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 1: think that's what I'm really really trying to work on,

600
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 1: is I don't want to go out into the world

601
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 1: and have my experience define how I interact with everybody.

602
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 1: I don't want I don't want one little thing in

603
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 1: someone to go. This reminds me of this. I don't

604
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: want to be triggered all the time.

605
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it is hard. I also don't want to

606
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 2: be stupid.

607
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 1: You know, if you just like ignore your experiences and

608
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: if you see parallels to be like no, I don't

609
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: want I'm not wounded. I'm gonna ignore this, then you

610
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: cross over to being stupid. It is a fine line.

611
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, it's another fine line because where all all

612
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 3: life is is us reacting from past experiences, whether it's

613
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 3: good or bad or learn Like we're living and just

614
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:03,959
Speaker 3: living from past experiences. That's like learning. That's history. Hopefully

615
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 3: doesn't repeat itself if it's negative. That's all kind of

616
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 3: life is. So it is a fine line. I get it.

617
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 3: But you're also I mean a lot has happened for

618
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 3: you in the past two years. Yeah, so you're just processing.

619
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 3: Everyone processes different things at a different speed. I get

620
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 3: what you're saying. And maybe you're at the point now

621
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Speaker 3: where you're like, Okay, I've processed, I've kind of let

622
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 3: some of it out. I've gone maybe a little too

623
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Speaker 3: far this way. So now I'm gonna reel it back

624
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 3: and actually take a beat and think about these things.

625
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

626
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Speaker 1: I also think like when it comes to all of

627
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 1: the women on OC having stories about Ryan, and I

628
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: get it, like Jen wants to protect him, she loves him,

629
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 1: love kind of blinds you. As cheesy as that sounds

630
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 1: when they say like love is blind, it absolutely is.

631
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 1: It's like blind, it's death, it's all of the things

632
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: that were like you literally don't see reality for what

633
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Speaker 1: it is. So I get where she's at, but I

634
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 1: just think, like, where there's smoke, there is fire.

635
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 2: Mm hmm yeah, kind of how I feel about Lizo

636
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 2: right now.

637
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 3: Tell me your feelings on Lizo, because I was catching

638
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 3: up on TikTok all the stories and they aren't looking great.

639
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 2: Well, we'll take a little what sidetrack for a moment.

640
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 3: Okay.

641
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 2: Never liked Lizzo.

642
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: I feel like I can find I never ever said

643
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 1: that to anybody, because I feel like people would clutch

644
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: their pearls and be like, you don't like Lizzo.

645
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:27,959
Speaker 2: I never liked her. I didn't like her music.

646
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: There was just nothing about her that drew me to

647
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 1: her as an artist. And so when I saw all

648
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: of this stuff come out, I immediately thought to myself,

649
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: where there's smoke, there is fire. People don't just say

650
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 1: things like this, right Yeah, So a lot of people

651
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: have said, obviously she's under a tremendous amount of fire

652
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 1: right now. But people have said it's her management team

653
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 1: that's to blame. That is such a crock of shit.

654
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 1: It would be like me, Jess and my team or

655
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: whatever the team that I have, and you coming to

656
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: me or something and saying like they did X, Y

657
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 1: and Z, I would never let it slide, right, they'd

658
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 1: be done, like I run shit here exactly right.

659
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 2: Yes, like Lizzo, you you're the boss. What you say goes.

660
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 1: So you can't blame it on management because you're in

661
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: charge of all of that.

662
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 3: Yes, and surely you've heard, let's say, worst case scenario

663
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 3: her management was mons were monsters behind the scene. It

664
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 3: doesn't go It's not like she would never know or

665
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 3: never you hear about those things.

666
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 1: Well, and I also think that as the artist, And yes,

667
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 1: I can only imagine how busy you are, but I

668
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 1: imagine that Taylor Swift's dancers feel comfortable enough to come

669
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,959
Speaker 1: up to her and say when they're uncomfortable. It's your

670
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 1: job to create a positive work environment for everybody who

671
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: is in your camp. Right, the job is already stressful enough.

672
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 1: There's hundreds of millions of dollars that are at stake

673
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: and people putting money into you, your tours, your performances.

674
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: Whatever it may be, there's no reason why your backup

675
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: dancers who are literally on stage with you couldn't feel

676
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: comfortable enough to come up to you for two minutes

677
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,880
Speaker 1: and tell you, like, hey, I just wanted to let

678
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: you know Johnny is making me do X, Y and

679
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: Z and I feel extremely uncomfortable.

680
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 2: You call the meeting, You say, Johnny, this is fucked up.

681
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 2: You gotta go.

682
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, I'm on the opposite end of you.

683
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 3: As far as liking her, I loved Lizzo.

684
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 2: Really I did.

685
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 3: I loved her. I thought she was just a bad bitch.

686
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 3: So confident I was like.

687
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I loved all of that.

688
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 3: I just loved all and I loved her music and

689
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 3: I loved all of it. So the second the first

690
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 3: story came out and it started getting traction, I was

691
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 3: so disappointed because I was like, this is going somewhere,

692
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 3: Like this isn't just a one off, like one story too,

693
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 3: Like this is going somewhere. And that's super disappointing because

694
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 3: I've always loved her. How do you feel now, I mean,

695
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 3: I'm I'm keeping up with the stories, but it's just disappointing.

696
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 3: I'm just disappointed. You all you have. One of the

697
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 3: main things you have is how you treat people in

698
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 3: life and how you interact with people like that is

699
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 3: we're all humans.

700
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: Well, once you're like done on this planet, no one

701
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 1: sits there and they're like that person was so rich,

702
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 1: right exactly. They'll talk about your music, but really it's

703
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: about like how they were as people.

704
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. At least that's my.

705
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 1: What I've experienced when I, you know, am talking to

706
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 1: friends or when someone passes who is like an icon,

707
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,879
Speaker 1: you know, it's about the art and how they were

708
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 1: as people.

709
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 3: How is she going to get rid of this? I

710
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:44,879
Speaker 3: know this is going to be on her forever. How's

711
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 3: she going to come back from it? How is she

712
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 3: gonna Yeah, it's it's a it's a shame. It's really disappointing.

713
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 2: Do you think she really body shamed someone?

714
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know. I don't know any of it.

715
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 3: I want to do it. My My initial thought is

716
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 3: believe these people, because yeah, it's probably extremely hard to

717
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 3: come out and be like, yeah, you know, I was

718
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 3: so excited to work for this who I thought was

719
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 3: an icon and this boss, and then this is how

720
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,919
Speaker 3: she treated me. It's embarrassing. Nobody wants to come out

721
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 3: and say that.

722
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 1: I love that you said that, because it takes a

723
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: tremendous amount of courage for someone to come forward on

724
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 1: someone as high level as Lizzo yeah, and share their story,

725
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:23,240
Speaker 1: especially because you have the people who are die hard

726
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: saying well, like, what did you do? Yes, then your

727
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 1: past is looked into and all of these things. Anything

728
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 1: they can use to discredit you and your truth is

729
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: what they're going to use.

730
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 3: Like, it's not an easy spot to be in. No,

731
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 3: and it shouldn't be embarrassing. But I'm just saying I

732
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 3: get if some people feel that way. I was watching

733
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 3: a TikTok about a girl who said that she was like,

734
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 3: I was embarrassed because I looked up to this woman

735
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 3: and this is how it was treated. So my hope. Yeah,

736
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 3: that's a bummer.

737
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: Well, thank god I didn't have to go in and

738
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: delete any of her music because I don't even have

739
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 1: any on my phone. I do not like her music.

740
00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: The only song I have on my phone.

741
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 3: Is yeah, Yes, that's it.

742
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 2: The rest of them, I'm like, please turn it off.

743
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 3: It was like a summer vibe for me last summer.

744
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 2: Oh no, oh, no, was it a horrendous summer for you?

745
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 2: Then that just getting.

746
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: Okay Rony a little bit heavy of a heavy episode?

747
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 3: Yes, Yes, I love these women.

748
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:28,320
Speaker 2: Are they not great?

749
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 3: Especially last night when I really I watched the half

750
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:34,840
Speaker 3: episode four and then three. I love these women.

751
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 1: I love them so much, like I could watch them. Brin,

752
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,800
Speaker 1: can we give her pink moment in her interview?

753
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 2: Look? I mean the makeup was flawless, the dress was

754
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 2: like sexy but chic, hair was on point.

755
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: It was so good, so good, and I feel like

756
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 1: they were like born to do this, Like it doesn't.

757
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 1: When I first watched Real High Wives of Salt Lake

758
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: their first season, I was like, Okay, this is going

759
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: to be a minute before they ease into the fact

760
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: that there's cameras watching them with Ronie.

761
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 3: Not at all, it's like season four energy.

762
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 2: It totally is.

763
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 3: They just all seem comfortable and I don't think, who

764
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 3: did we talk about last week? And they're like some

765
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 3: people are thinking she's producing herself in this episode. I

766
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 3: didn't see that. No, not at all.

767
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 2: She was. I loved her story. Yes this episode.

768
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 1: Yes, like when she goes in to get her hair

769
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:34,919
Speaker 1: done and talks about how it was like she goes

770
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:37,439
Speaker 1: and does this once a week. There's a lot of hair,

771
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:41,359
Speaker 1: and then she talks about how, you know, her her

772
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:45,760
Speaker 1: mother is white, her father is black, her grandmother who's white,

773
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:49,840
Speaker 1: raised her, and her grandmother had a friend who was

774
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 1: a black woman and gave Brin's grandmother this salon to

775
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: take Brienttu to get her hair done. And Brinn talks

776
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 1: about how that was the first time that she was

777
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 1: able to like see these like strong black women her

778
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 1: community that she really didn't get to be part of

779
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 1: because of just the way her family, you know, the

780
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: grandmother taking over, and she's like she talks about how

781
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 1: her grandmother doesn't even realize the impact that that had

782
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: on her life.

783
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 2: I know, I got like choked up about it. Yeah.

784
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:30,320
Speaker 3: No, it was beautiful and she she's just such a gracious,

785
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 3: beautiful human well with everything she's she had gone through,

786
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 3: like she really opened up.

787
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:39,280
Speaker 1: It was so it's really interesting. So if you watch

788
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,240
Speaker 1: her talk to her friends, so they do a bris

789
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:46,839
Speaker 1: brinds giving Yeah, right, and to watch her open up

790
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 1: to her group of friends about what she went through

791
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: as a child and like diapers going unchanged and her

792
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 1: being left behind and people not checking on her for

793
00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:59,439
Speaker 1: days on end, and she was only six months old.

794
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 1: And then she's in her interview and the producer is

795
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 1: asking to like talk about it, and she literally cannot,

796
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:08,959
Speaker 1: and they're like today and she's like not ever, She's

797
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 1: clearly deeply affected by it, and I truly cannot imagine.

798
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: And she talks about how the two people your mom

799
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 1: and your dad, are supposed to be the ones to

800
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 1: protect you and love you unconditionally. And you know, on

801
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 1: this podcast, like last week, we were talking about Santa Claus, right,

802
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: and a lot of people thought it was very funny. Right,

803
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 1: this podcast is for adults. We're here to just like

804
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: have fun, laugh. But being a parent is such an honor.

805
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 1: It is most certainly not a right. You don't just

806
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 1: get to be one, right, Yeah, So when I had

807
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: ocean and kind of my view of the world, and yes,

808
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 1: I sit here and I'm like, Sana is not taking

809
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 1: credit for gifts. Santa will absolutely be around anything that

810
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 1: is magical and allows my child to have imagination will

811
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 1: most certainly be in the home. So when you hear

812
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,839
Speaker 1: about parents who treat it like it's just like such

813
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 1: a like being a parent is like such a like

814
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 1: a right, and it's it's whatever. And granted you you

815
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 1: have to assume that Brynn's parents were sick, well, especially

816
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 1: I'm sure they struggled with addiction.

817
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, and like she said they she said they didn't

818
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 3: love me, and then she said they couldn't.

819
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 2: They couldn't.

820
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:27,319
Speaker 3: She's obviously processing it's maybe wasn't a choice on their

821
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 3: end as much as maybe some others like you said,

822
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 3: maybe they were sick.

823
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 2: Right.

824
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:34,320
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's many reasons that she may talk about

825
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 1: and her feelings towards it that we will never know.

826
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 1: But to hear someone like Brinn talk about her past

827
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:45,319
Speaker 1: and then to see just what a beautiful human she

828
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 1: is today is like pretty inspiring. You know. I've I've

829
00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: had the luxury of meeting her. She's friends with Pandora,

830
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: so we've crossed paths.

831
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 2: But she just seems to like really love life.

832
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,919
Speaker 3: That's what the gracious, that's what I was looking for,

833
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 3: Like appreciate and love life. Like her energy. There's something

834
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:06,280
Speaker 3: about her that I feel like you could be around

835
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 3: her and you're just you feel like a better person, right, Yeah.

836
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 2: Like she's the one that makes the party one hundred percent.

837
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 3: She's the one that's always invited and if she can't come,

838
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 3: it's like.

839
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 2: Uh, kind of a bummer, Yeah, like you miss her.

840
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 3: Yes.

841
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 1: I liked this episode in the way that they edited

842
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 1: it because they also showed Uba talking to someone who's

843
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 1: kind of like a mentor to her. She has Uba Hot,

844
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 1: which is a hot sauce, and she's trying to figure out,

845
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 1: you know, where to go from here and she feels

846
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 1: alone and her mentor says, you know, you have a

847
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 1: lot of friends who really love you, and she's like,

848
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 1: but it's not my mom. That was like taking a

849
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:45,440
Speaker 1: bullet because I can relate to that where no matter

850
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 1: what you feel and how great your friends are, I'm

851
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 1: surrounded by many great people. But the day that my

852
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 1: mom is no longer around, like I will be lost.

853
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: Yeah tissue, No, we don't need tissue. I'm gonna suck

854
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 1: it up.

855
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 3: No.

856
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 1: It was just like it was a beautiful rony episode,

857
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 1: but it was like heavy kind of yah, yeah, what is.

858
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 2: Happening right now? This is give them all a podcasting.

859
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:16,839
Speaker 1: It's beautiful, but I like the way that they edit

860
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:20,760
Speaker 1: it because it made there were two stories happening at once. Brinn,

861
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 1: who had the lack of that mom and dad support

862
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 1: and Uba who so desperately misses it, and I just

863
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 1: thought it was like a really beautiful episode.

864
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 2: We really saw.

865
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 1: These women in a different light and sometimes they're you know,

866
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 1: all of these shows have different production companies, but I

867
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 1: do love it when the production company hones in on

868
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:50,800
Speaker 1: on the struggles and like the background of why people

869
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,320
Speaker 1: are the way they are, and it's not it doesn't

870
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 1: always have to be some giant explosive fight.

871
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 3: You know.

872
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: The scenes of people talking about their heartache and what

873
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:05,840
Speaker 1: they missed out on as kids is just as interesting.

874
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,760
Speaker 3: Just as interesting, if not more, and makes that human

875
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 3: were watching more dynamic on screen. It's like, oh yeah,

876
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 3: of course. And also with you getting emotional about it,

877
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:19,319
Speaker 3: let's you know, be honest, it's like you know how

878
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:22,400
Speaker 3: you've lost a parent where you can apply the feeling

879
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,320
Speaker 3: and then even just thinking about your mom, like you,

880
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 3: I can't even go there, So of course you're gonna

881
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 3: feel that way. I couldn't even imagine. I couldn't even

882
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,959
Speaker 3: imagine losing a parent, let alone too. So with Uba

883
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,280
Speaker 3: and her mott, like of course you know how that feels.

884
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was just so sweet and raw about it.

885
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:43,280
Speaker 1: I like, really really enjoy watching these group of women.

886
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:43,879
Speaker 3: Me too.

887
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 1: I love her too, She's one of my favorite I

888
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 1: loved when So last week we'll get to a lighter note.

889
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't know what just happened. Do not

890
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: apologize for that.

891
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 3: Connelving.

892
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're connecting. So they're in RONI.

893
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 1: They're finally back in uh the city after going to

894
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 1: the Hampton's and apparently Jessel refers to Aaron, Brynn and

895
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 1: Uba as cackling hags. Okay, I no, Uba being like

896
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:23,399
Speaker 1: what is a cackling hag? Watching her not understand what

897
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: it was because it's like, really, what is it?

898
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 2: Because I wouldn't use a cackling hags to.

899
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 1: Describe any of those women, So I was also a

900
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: little confused.

901
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 2: But watching her be so and then like looking it up.

902
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 1: It's like, that's so rude, and I love what this.

903
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 3: I don't know if she said this during that moment,

904
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 3: but she's like, I'm watching a French film. I don't understand.

905
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 2: I'm wanting this is so amazing.

906
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: Uba with the coconut milk that she found at the

907
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 1: restaurant in last week's episode or two weeks ago, and

908
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 1: wanting it because it's really hard to find, and her

909
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 1: obsession with provision. They don't need to do anything but

910
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 1: just like cutter around the kitchen and you can talk

911
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:08,360
Speaker 1: about provisions and like how caviar is not enough for

912
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 1: a meal most certainly as I used to go to

913
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 1: Beverly Hills Hotel on the rag for caviar and champagne.

914
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 3: That sounds so good with the little potato things, Oh

915
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 3: my gosh, the bullet whatever they're called.

916
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 2: It's enough for every meal. But yes, it was. The

917
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 2: episode was so good, and so they left us.

918
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: They left us at the moment where it said to

919
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: be continued where Brinn is gonna, like, I guess, really

920
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,760
Speaker 1: open up about. All of the women were visibly upset

921
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: about what she was saying. The second you hear a

922
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,720
Speaker 1: six month old is being left with an unchanged diaper,

923
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:44,439
Speaker 1: it's like, what is going on? And then it takes

924
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 1: you to a place where like you have these these

925
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 1: men and women who are in partnerships and they want

926
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: to have families and it's such a struggle to have

927
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 1: a baby, and you're like.

928
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 3: Make it make sense, yeah, make it make sense, right,

929
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 3: And then you have parents out there who are. It's like,

930
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 3: you know, why do you and have children if you're

931
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 3: not going to care for them or love them?

932
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's being a parent is the funnest thing on

933
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: the face of the earth.

934
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:09,359
Speaker 2: I'm excited to be a parent one day. You're gonna

935
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 2: be a parent one day. I want five hundred children.

936
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 3: Fingers crossed you talking about this sibling for Ocean. I

937
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 3: cannot wait to care for a pregnant Lalla.

938
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:22,359
Speaker 2: You know what's happening, yess. I can't wait. I can't wait,

939
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 2: God willing.

940
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: You're right, because again I got pregnant with Ocean when

941
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: I was like, what twenty nine? Yes, I mean, I'm

942
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:32,360
Speaker 1: gonna be thirty three. You never know what changes in

943
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:37,280
Speaker 1: the bod. But I'm really really freaking excited. So there's

944
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 1: that I cried on this episode. What the hell was that?

945
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: That was very strange.

946
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:45,240
Speaker 3: I loved it because you used to do that a lot.

947
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 3: There used to be at least one tier per episode.

948
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 2: I know.

949
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 1: But now I'm feeling really vulnerable because my friends are

950
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 1: here right, you know, like they're seeing.

951
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 3: It happen, and I think, I know you feel vulnerable.

952
00:46:57,160 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 3: I think it's beautiful. I'm so because you just connect

953
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 3: with that Laala. We just talked about it, me and

954
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 3: Easton and you on this episode. It's like the vulnerable Lalla.

955
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 3: Everyone needs to connect with her.

956
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: So then you guys should consider yourselves lucky. We're connected

957
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 1: as fuck. All right, Jessica, I want to hear we're

958
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,320
Speaker 1: at it's that time.

959
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 2: I want to hear what is the ache of the week,

960
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 2: and then what is your relief?

961
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 3: I'm literally sweating my heart is it racing? Okay, I

962
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 3: can't believe I'm gonna talk about this on the podcast.

963
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 3: I'll start with the relief because it makes the ache

964
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 3: that much more painful. The relief was it was my

965
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 3: birthday on Saturday, August fifth. My friends. My relief is

966
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:47,919
Speaker 3: that my friends Nick and Joe Nick Berry, Joe Smells

967
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 3: smellser are just the most amazing two guys ever. They

968
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:56,360
Speaker 3: opened up their home for me to have a little

969
00:47:56,440 --> 00:48:00,040
Speaker 3: birthday party. They Nick or Joe was up at like

970
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:04,360
Speaker 3: like five am making guacamole like they just they the

971
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:08,399
Speaker 3: house was gorgeous. They they just are amazing and that's

972
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 3: what they did for me. And Joe missed out on

973
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:15,840
Speaker 3: Taylor Swift that night. Oh wow. Third Third Row with

974
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:18,320
Speaker 3: Nick and and people were staying later, and he wanted

975
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 3: to like make sure the party didn't have to end,

976
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 3: so he didn't go to Taylor. And it was supposed

977
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 3: to be like one to like five, and he was like, no, no, no,

978
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:29,760
Speaker 3: They're just the best. So that's my relief. I'm obsessed

979
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:33,320
Speaker 3: with them. I love them so much. My ache, okay,

980
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 3: is that we had tacos and marks, right, so it's

981
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:42,360
Speaker 3: I drank a decent amount. But all day I was good,

982
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,879
Speaker 3: like I felt good. We were in the pool and

983
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:49,840
Speaker 3: then at one point in time, I remember this blackout.

984
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 2: No, it was like lights out, just randomly, not only

985
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:54,439
Speaker 2: that lights out.

986
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 3: Everyone's in the pool and I just remember taking a

987
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 3: last sip of my margarita and I could I could

988
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 3: taste the like watermelon juice and tequila go down. And

989
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 3: all I remember is like feeling like I got to

990
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:08,880
Speaker 3: take a nap on the pool and I'm laying on

991
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 3: the ledge of the pool and then without even thinking,

992
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:14,839
Speaker 3: just throw up in the pool. No I did.

993
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 2: I almost people were swimming where.

994
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 4: People were swimming right in front of them, right in

995
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 4: front of them, and it was like I spit up

996
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 4: my drink and it was like my drink so thank

997
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 4: god awful that I didn't eat all day because we

998
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 4: started so early drinking.

999
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 3: But but also it wasn't like chunky or anything. It

1000
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 3: was just the watermelon juice, but threw up. It's floating

1001
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 3: in the pool.

1002
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:36,719
Speaker 2: Everyone's going like.

1003
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 3: No, it was disgusting, humiliating. Everyone's like, oh my god,

1004
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 3: oh my god. Kyle like picks me up. He's like,

1005
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 3: we're going upstairs just so I could like be in

1006
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 3: front of the bathroom. This is a Nick and Joe's pool.

1007
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 2: They missed Taylor Swift for your drunk.

1008
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 3: And then I have all these people and the friends

1009
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 3: there were like some first timers that I was hanging

1010
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 3: out with. They were all so nice. Nobody got out

1011
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 3: of the floor.

1012
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 2: Are you joking? You were all twisted la la. I'm talking.

1013
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:08,879
Speaker 2: Two people from our office building were there.

1014
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 3: Shut the first time I ever hung out with the

1015
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 3: loon and they saw me like I texted everyone the

1016
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 3: next day. I'm like, I have not been that way

1017
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 3: since high school.

1018
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 2: I'm not kidding. They're like, we're that way every weekend.

1019
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 3: We're constantly throwing up in pools, and then the rest

1020
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 3: of the night I'm just in the bathroom getting sick

1021
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 3: and like everyone ended up leaving, texting me the next day.

1022
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 2: What happened with Jake and Amy the year?

1023
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 3: My god, there are this has only happened four times

1024
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 3: in my life where I have to call Jake and

1025
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,279
Speaker 3: Amy because number one, Jake puts me in check and

1026
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:45,839
Speaker 3: number two Amy makes me feel better about everything. She's like,

1027
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:48,959
Speaker 3: you're fine, everyone does. It's a mistake. So I wake

1028
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 3: up at Nick and Joe's house with Kyle on the

1029
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 3: bathroom floor with Kyle next to me at four thirty am,

1030
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 3: and I'm like, oh my god, what happened? I call.

1031
00:50:58,400 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 3: I was like, I have to go with my mom

1032
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 3: and dad. I call my mom and dad and they

1033
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 3: did it. My dad put me in check. He's like

1034
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 3: you're thirty two, like you should have known.

1035
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,479
Speaker 2: And like, oh, Jake wasn't messing around.

1036
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 3: No, he was like, come on, Jess. And then my

1037
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:13,920
Speaker 3: mom was like, sweetie, everyone does it. It was your birthday.

1038
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:17,359
Speaker 3: I thank god you didn't get hurt. Like so I

1039
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 3: got that, and I just needed that Kyle, Oh, Kyle,

1040
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:24,279
Speaker 3: some structure. I needed some structure. Kyle took care that

1041
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,720
Speaker 3: was another of course, took help, took care of the party,

1042
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:29,920
Speaker 3: slept on the floor with me, got me up the

1043
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 3: next day. He was like, you're good, like you had

1044
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:32,240
Speaker 3: a fun time.

1045
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 2: I was just marry that man.

1046
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 3: I don't know. He's He's like a godsend. He's the best.

1047
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 2: So I don't know.

1048
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 1: I kind of feel like it was your birthday throw

1049
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 1: up in a couple pools whatever, you know.

1050
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:46,839
Speaker 3: I told them because we're going Kyle and I were

1051
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:48,320
Speaker 3: going to Hawaii and Nick and Joe.

1052
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 2: And I was I'm coming to it, I know, and

1053
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:50,880
Speaker 2: Lala's coming.

1054
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 3: But I was like, I promise, I don't get this way.

1055
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 2: And they're like, it's fine, You're fine. We can only

1056
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 2: hope you do at least once.

1057
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 3: I can't believe I told that. Okay, let's hit me.

1058
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 3: I can believe, so move on.

1059
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 2: I'm thrilled for you.

1060
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:02,760
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1061
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 2: You deserve that.

1062
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:08,400
Speaker 1: You work real, real hard, honey. You deserved that moment. Okay,

1063
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:10,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna read this because this is my ache of

1064
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 1: the week. Marine Land and Tebue in France plans to

1065
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,800
Speaker 1: export their orcas to another marine park.

1066
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,879
Speaker 2: It has been confirmed. Okay, so everyone knows.

1067
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:24,439
Speaker 1: I love my orcas, right empty the tanks send them

1068
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:26,320
Speaker 1: to seaside sanctuaries.

1069
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 2: It is beyond me how.

1070
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:34,800
Speaker 1: People can still go and support these types of amusement parks. Okay,

1071
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 1: so rumors were circulating in May that these orcas we're

1072
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:42,759
Speaker 1: going to be transferred to Suma Sea World Park in

1073
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:47,720
Speaker 1: Japan in twenty twenty four. Now, these orcas have never

1074
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 1: been separated. Okay, they're family, and everyone knows that orca

1075
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:54,760
Speaker 1: pods are together until death.

1076
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:56,800
Speaker 2: They do not separate.

1077
00:52:56,840 --> 00:53:00,440
Speaker 1: They have a part of the brain that processes motion

1078
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:05,959
Speaker 1: on a more intelligent level than humans. Okay, they will

1079
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:08,840
Speaker 1: now be separated. It makes me sick to my stomach.

1080
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: They will be a very high value some of them

1081
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 1: because of breeding purposes, which then just makes it so

1082
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 1: more orcas are going to be in captivity. One of

1083
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: the male orcas is sick often and has behavioral issues.

1084
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 1: Now this means like a lot of oral infection, and

1085
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:32,479
Speaker 1: this is because orcas are not supposed to be kept

1086
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 1: in tanks. So they start self destructing. They get very

1087
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 1: violent towards people. We've seen if you've seen blackfish, they

1088
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:44,359
Speaker 1: ram themselves into the concrete, they chew on metal. It's

1089
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Speaker 1: absolutely devastating. And I know this is another heavy topic,

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Speaker 1: but the tank that they've been in is eleven million gallons.

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Speaker 1: It's the largest tank in the world. Wherever they're moved

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Speaker 1: will be much much smaller.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: These orcas are a part organ are a part of

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Speaker 1: the dolphin family, highly intelligent. They swim hundreds of miles

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Speaker 1: a day. Each pod has their own hunting technique. No

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Speaker 1: one pod is the same. So if you guys, give

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Speaker 1: a damn, let's stop supporting these places, no matter where

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Speaker 1: you go, whether you're in France, Japan, stop going. It's

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Speaker 1: not cool. Get educated. I'm over it. Don't want to

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Speaker 1: see stories like this anymore.

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Speaker 2: My relief of the week.

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Speaker 1: On a lighter note is the fact that the podcast

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Speaker 1: on YouTube is absolutely killing it, and I want to

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Speaker 1: thank you guys so much. Episodes on YouTube of the

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Speaker 1: podcast come out on Fridays, so make sure I know

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Speaker 1: you guys are listening to this on a Wednesday, but

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Speaker 1: just know you'll be able to see it on Friday.

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Speaker 1: Make sure you subscribe. Make sure you bump gums in

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Speaker 1: the comments section, give us tips, tell us you love us,

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Speaker 1: tell us what we could work on. I want to

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Speaker 1: hear it all. Try to save the hate though. If

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Speaker 1: it's not constructive, I'm not trying to see it. This

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Speaker 1: is a place of love and support and fun. I

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Speaker 1: want to thank you guys so much for showing just

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Speaker 1: all the love in the world all times I wonder

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Speaker 1: I'm like for me.

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Speaker 3: Of course, I want to shout out really quick the

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Speaker 3: TikTok channel. We now have a give them Lalla podcast,

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Speaker 3: TikTok and Instagram give them Lalla pod. But all the

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Speaker 3: clips that you're mentioning are on those pages.

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Speaker 1: Yes, And because you linked the podcast page on Instagram

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Speaker 1: to TikTok, the podcast ig has changed, y'all.

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Speaker 2: So it's give them Laala Pod.

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Speaker 1: You can go there and see little clips and all

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Speaker 1: of that goodness. You can again purchase tickets to my

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Speaker 1: live show on October eighteenth at the Irvine Improv. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I saying everything correctly, Are all right there it is.

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Speaker 1: I hope you guys have a wonderful hump day. We

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Speaker 1: hit all the notes today.

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Speaker 2: Lucky us. I hope, I hope it was a happy ending.

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Speaker 2: It was for me. These are what my happy endings

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Speaker 2: look like these days.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, I love y'all.

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Speaker 1: Have the best rest of the week, and I will

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Speaker 1: catch you next week.