Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Bea Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everyone,
Speaker 1: we are scrubbing it.
Speaker 2: Yay.
Speaker 1: Oh like the plane just landed. Wow, you look absolutely
Speaker 1: radiant today.
Speaker 3: Thank you so much. I'm having an off day.
Speaker 2: This is so interesting.
Speaker 1: She literally has normal clothes on, not a sweatsuit.
Speaker 2: She has all her gold jewelry popping off, no hair.
Speaker 1: Hair back in a cute little braid ponytail make and
Speaker 1: she says she isn't having an off date.
Speaker 3: It just goes to show you, I love myself, untouched.
Speaker 2: I love myself.
Speaker 4: We decided that maybe she said she was having an
Speaker 4: off date just to fish for compliments.
Speaker 3: Yes, I don't compliment. I don't need to fish for compliments.
Speaker 2: You know how you do click bait over your tex.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like I am secure in myself that
Speaker 3: I don't need to fish for compliments. Thank you so much.
Speaker 5: Make right.
Speaker 4: But when you come in here on a normal morning,
Speaker 4: we have to get here very early, and your hair
Speaker 4: is not like this, You're not wearing makeup, and you're
Speaker 4: in a puffer in a sweat suit, you never say
Speaker 4: you're having an off day. I feel completely put together,
Speaker 4: and you say you're having any.
Speaker 3: And what I realize is maybe when I put effort
Speaker 3: in and I look like this, it like bums me out.
Speaker 3: When I put no effort in, I'm just like, I'm
Speaker 3: just like my gorgeous natural self. It's not bad. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's not bad, and I'm cozy exactly right now. I'm
Speaker 3: like my jeans, I just washed them for the first
Speaker 3: time ever, so they're so why.
Speaker 2: Did you get them five years ago?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Maybe last year first. Yeah. I don't like to
Speaker 3: wash my jeans.
Speaker 6: I mean I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm not like wash them every time, but I certainly
Speaker 1: watch them after a certain amount of time of mooning
Speaker 1: though I don't.
Speaker 3: Really wear jeans that often, so like, my rotation is
Speaker 3: probably much less than yours.
Speaker 2: I think you're put on date nights. You're wearing jeans
Speaker 2: at not.
Speaker 3: These means AnyWho not important. I'm having an off day.
Speaker 3: I have two big pimples on my forehead and I
Speaker 3: just like stared at them all week. I can't get
Speaker 3: rid of them. They're not that big because I make up.
Speaker 2: On they don't. You don't.
Speaker 1: If I was just looking at you, I wouldn't even think, Oh,
Speaker 1: she has pimples on her forehead.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's the rest easy.
Speaker 3: Thank you better tonight? Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2: Go through the day feeling absolutely gorgeous.
Speaker 3: Thank you so much. I needed that.
Speaker 1: Speaking of the uh text bait that Tanya does, I
Speaker 1: posted it like an example of it because she texts
Speaker 1: me and goes Becca and I said, lol, yes, and
Speaker 1: she goes, I just took the best nap.
Speaker 5: Doing you were abusing the technology.
Speaker 3: I thought she'd be so proud that I just took
Speaker 3: a really nice long nap.
Speaker 1: Well, when you're waking up at like three am, I'm
Speaker 1: expecting you to take a nap mine.
Speaker 3: But I was expecting a nicer reply than what I got.
Speaker 6: I was like, my, oh, go ahead.
Speaker 7: I'm just curious, do you want praise or do you
Speaker 7: want like a follow.
Speaker 3: Up question or I'm so proud of you.
Speaker 2: That's where she wants a compliment on her appearance, not
Speaker 2: on her.
Speaker 3: Do not compliment my physical appearance, but please compliment my
Speaker 3: nap games.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But I posted the screenshot on Instagram and Robbie goes,
Speaker 1: she does this to me too, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I was actually going to ask you about it or
Speaker 1: have her ask you about it, and he goes, I
Speaker 1: thought it was a radio thing, because they're always like teasing, so.
Speaker 5: She's been radio a long time.
Speaker 3: I don't think it's a radio thing.
Speaker 1: But another thing that happened is this morning, Tany hits
Speaker 1: the chat with Sam, our producer myself and she sends
Speaker 1: a picture of I stared at it for a long time.
Speaker 2: I didn't even know what it was.
Speaker 1: And she goes my breakfast and Sam goes, what, I
Speaker 1: don't even know what I'm looking at, and she goes,
Speaker 1: it's chicken. We didn't have anything else, So this is
Speaker 1: my breakfast. Dark times over here, I'm like order something
Speaker 1: like in a time.
Speaker 8: Where you don't have to eat you chicken for breakfast
Speaker 8: and you could get groceries brought to your house.
Speaker 3: First of all, I didn't. I normally just eat eggs.
Speaker 3: Eggs is like my always my standard go to breakfast.
Speaker 3: For some reason, I'm having like an aversion to scrambled eggs.
Speaker 3: Like this thought of scrambled eggs.
Speaker 5: I've had that. I had so much.
Speaker 3: Yes, I get that, I've had it with hard boiled eggs.
Speaker 3: I've never had it with warm scrambled eggs. So I
Speaker 3: was very thrown off, but the thought of making scrambled
Speaker 3: eggs made me want to bombit. You have eggs, yes,
Speaker 3: which is our standard breakfast.
Speaker 2: Scrambled eggs with beef bro bone bro feel this morning.
Speaker 3: I forgot about our bone bros in the freezer. That
Speaker 3: would have been a great idea. That would have been
Speaker 3: a nice breakfast, just the bone bro yeah, with the
Speaker 3: eggs inside.
Speaker 5: Could make eggs a different.
Speaker 4: Way, sunny side up. Poach your eggs, you could do fried.
Speaker 5: I actually don't know how to boiled eggs.
Speaker 3: Does anyody know how to poach an egg? Because it's
Speaker 3: actually it's hard.
Speaker 7: I've never not that hard. I thought it was.
Speaker 3: It's you just seed one of those net things, right, You.
Speaker 7: Don't even need that. You can just use a spoon
Speaker 7: or I just use my hand sometimes.
Speaker 6: But you just boiled water dangerous.
Speaker 7: It hurts, but you know you gotta suffer for art.
Speaker 9: You boil the water, you crack the egg, and then
Speaker 9: you swirl it around with like a ladle.
Speaker 5: But what about the sunny side up?
Speaker 3: I mean, there's I mean.
Speaker 4: From you to admit that you had plenty of options
Speaker 4: for breakfast and you still had chicken. It had to
Speaker 4: make a whole big deal out of the.
Speaker 5: Fact that.
Speaker 2: I will defend her.
Speaker 1: She didn't make a big deal. I mean she sent
Speaker 1: it in the group. She knew it was going to
Speaker 1: get a reaction, of course.
Speaker 3: But the best part is it was really dry and
Speaker 3: it was cold, so I wanted to warm it up
Speaker 3: pickled juice on it.
Speaker 5: Yag right to warm it up.
Speaker 3: That doesn't make any sense with water, water and pickle juice,
Speaker 3: to like warm it up on the stove in the
Speaker 3: in like a little frying.
Speaker 2: This is eight thirty am.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you don't have a microwave.
Speaker 3: I don't really like microwaves.
Speaker 8: Ah, I'll use it if I need to, but if
Speaker 8: I don't need to do it.
Speaker 7: Yeah, this is the time.
Speaker 2: More about the pickle juice addition, Yeah.
Speaker 3: Why I eat my my rotisserie chicken with pickles. So
Speaker 3: I was like, if I if it's dry, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: have a little water.
Speaker 2: I have literally chills all over my body, like the
Speaker 2: worst way.
Speaker 3: It was just a survival mode, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Likes eat, Like, honestly, you have a house full of food.
Speaker 3: It sounds like we deferently don't.
Speaker 1: Here she goes out, what else do you eat? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she it's slim pickets.
Speaker 2: I'm like, you have eggs. Don't have kids in the house, chicken.
Speaker 5: Do you have any cereal for the kids?
Speaker 3: They don't eat cereal.
Speaker 4: I bet you have some hot cereal, some motimeals something.
Speaker 4: I bet you have many options.
Speaker 2: No, really, okay, I'm not a city full of options.
Speaker 3: The problem is the time. Once I realized I needed
Speaker 3: to eat my breakfast, I needed to be I needed
Speaker 3: to leave my house within like thirty forty five minutes.
Speaker 5: Huh.
Speaker 3: So nothing was going to get to me in time,
Speaker 3: nor to cook.
Speaker 1: There's a Whole Food's right like, it's literally from the window.
Speaker 2: And if you just if you skipped your rotisserie chicken
Speaker 2: eating it up on the stove, I think.
Speaker 1: You could have stopped by the Whole Foods, picked up
Speaker 1: with smoothie, something yummy warm.
Speaker 3: I didn't choose this life.
Speaker 1: I know, are you secretly prepping to be a bodybuilder,
Speaker 1: because this is giving bodybuilder?
Speaker 3: You know what it's giving. It was that's what I
Speaker 3: used to eat for breakfast before my wedding. I was
Speaker 3: eating a lot of rotissory chicken before my wedding.
Speaker 2: She it was a little it wasn't good you guys
Speaker 2: want choose.
Speaker 1: There was a lot of chicken and cube and eggs
Speaker 1: and eggs.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was basically it. Yeah. It was very very
Speaker 3: high proteins.
Speaker 2: Every meal.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, every meal breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, is she doing this for
Speaker 1: her honeymoon? It feels a little intense.
Speaker 3: But nuh, just desperate times, desperate times. And I had
Speaker 3: an amazing rotissary chicken in the fridge.
Speaker 2: You know what.
Speaker 1: I respect it because I one thousand percent would have
Speaker 1: opened my refrigerator been like, I'm not mid for eggs.
Speaker 1: I'll have rotissery chicken, but I'm definitely not doing that
Speaker 1: for breakfast. I'm just going to order something. But you
Speaker 1: didn't spend any money.
Speaker 3: Thank you. You just ate what you so economical of me. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's very responsible of you, thank you. Yeah, it's giving evolved.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know chaos giving.
Speaker 1: You know the magnets you were on your nose for
Speaker 1: the notes, don't magnets.
Speaker 2: Have something in them that you're not supposed to put
Speaker 2: on your skin.
Speaker 3: The magnet is not directly on my skin. It's like
Speaker 3: think of like a layer of skin like tape, like
Speaker 3: a skin tape, then the magnets on that, and then
Speaker 3: they put a layer of like tape over that, so
Speaker 3: the magnet is not directly on your.
Speaker 7: Skin, just a millimeter of protection exactly.
Speaker 2: That's all. That's Yeah, I looked it up.
Speaker 3: I googled it already. I see you chomping away over there, chop.
Speaker 3: The magnets are fine. There's no EMFs and magnets okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't think there was any EMF, just more
Speaker 2: so like the danger of you know.
Speaker 7: What does the em F stand for again?
Speaker 3: Electric magnetic field?
Speaker 7: Sorry, I just want to point out magnetic.
Speaker 5: It makes a point, you.
Speaker 3: Know what, and it opens my airways and it is
Speaker 3: from that.
Speaker 2: Here's the thing.
Speaker 1: In about three weeks, Tony will say that no strips
Speaker 1: are out, Well, actually yeah, because.
Speaker 3: You don't think there's any way that like the pulling
Speaker 3: is like actually gonna like pull our skin on our
Speaker 3: nose permanently like this, right, I'm like, I actually don't know,
Speaker 3: Like if you think about it, we're pulling it all
Speaker 3: night long, you're stretching it out every night.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's going in the rings.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah it could be. It could be, but right
Speaker 3: now it's decadent. Sleep so much.
Speaker 2: Air fes the nostrils, so.
Speaker 3: Much air going in and nothing coming out. It's good.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm I can't wait to hear more updates on that.
Speaker 2: All these things.
Speaker 3: Coming soon on our honeymoon, like our.
Speaker 2: Nose all the honeymoon.
Speaker 1: Yes, are you doing an all white situation or are
Speaker 1: you what's your vibe?
Speaker 3: It's gonna be like eighty percent white?
Speaker 2: Okay? Yeah, what's the why? But why or like, what
Speaker 2: what's your thought process? You like to you acted like
Speaker 2: you had really thought about it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I'm like, my bridal era is over, so
Speaker 3: like the white should isn't.
Speaker 10: The honeymoon part of the bridal era technically is like
Speaker 10: celebration of the bread era. Yeah, but it's not giving
Speaker 10: like bride. It's giving like wife, you know what I mean.
Speaker 10: So I have some black in there as well, natural tones.
Speaker 2: Leading into potential mother mother era.
Speaker 3: Exactly, exactly. Well, yeah, speaking of my really done much
Speaker 3: shopping for my honeymoon though, are you going to maybe.
Speaker 2: Well, you're saving money on the groceries so you.
Speaker 1: Get thirty this morning on the side. Yeah, that adds up.
Speaker 1: You know, I was thinking because I've been like really
Speaker 1: into the reputation album. I mean, I've always been, but
Speaker 1: King of My Heart.
Speaker 3: Is just really that one doesn't do it.
Speaker 2: For it might be it might be top for me
Speaker 2: on that album. Yeah, that's crazy. It's a deep cut.
Speaker 3: That's crazy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but that's where I'm at right now.
Speaker 1: And I also I'm just dying to know who Dancing
Speaker 1: with Our Hands Tight is about.
Speaker 3: Carl Klass That's not confirmed, is confirmed.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying. I was listening to it again this
Speaker 1: morning and I was thinking, I'd like to know. I'd
Speaker 1: like to you know, what I would love and if
Speaker 1: the end of her life she writes down.
Speaker 2: Every song and releases who it's about.
Speaker 1: It's like Evelyn Hugo kind of like at the end
Speaker 1: she just releases like all the information about her life.
Speaker 1: And I would love if Taylor swifted that that'd be exciting.
Speaker 5: So it's the beauty of it.
Speaker 4: The songs hit you differently at different stages of your life,
Speaker 4: and that's that's the.
Speaker 5: Power of her in her writing skills. It's amazing.
Speaker 3: It is amazing.
Speaker 1: And My Heart has been my favorite since I like
Speaker 1: literally I think of it since I met Haley.
Speaker 3: Wow, you know what song I used to not like well,
Speaker 3: I don't think it's on reputation. Actually, out of the Woods,
Speaker 3: My god, that song is amazing. Yeah. I used to
Speaker 3: not like it and then like, for some some reason,
Speaker 3: you like brought it to my life. Uh huh, and
Speaker 3: now I'm obsessed with it.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: Another thing I've added to my bucket list is going
Speaker 1: to a cold Play concert.
Speaker 3: You've never gone to a cold No, ton you not.
Speaker 1: Everyone just gets to go interview Chris Martin and then
Speaker 1: go to the concert.
Speaker 3: That was epic. That was an epic You could have
Speaker 3: come to that.
Speaker 2: Well I didn't get an invite. Yeah you did. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I would have been at that concert.
Speaker 3: I've seen many cold Play concerts.
Speaker 2: Well maybe on the next one you can get me
Speaker 2: in there.
Speaker 3: Coldplay is great in concert.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So that's my bucket that's a nice bucket list item.
Speaker 1: Anyone else have bucketless concerts they want to attend and
Speaker 1: have I have.
Speaker 3: A bucket list item.
Speaker 2: Do you have a bucket's concert?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: Okay, what's your item?
Speaker 3: I want to eat shaved watermelon like shaved ice, but
Speaker 3: like I want to make it.
Speaker 7: Dream the impossible dream.
Speaker 2: That was so sad.
Speaker 7: I'd like to eat an orange.
Speaker 1: What are you drinking about where they shave it into
Speaker 1: the So you like to take.
Speaker 3: A watermelon and you freeze it, yeah, and then you
Speaker 3: like shave it on like a cheese grater and you
Speaker 3: make like like snow. You can't do that today?
Speaker 2: Yeah, any dream huge? You can literally go to the
Speaker 2: grocery store. Sounds like you need to go anywhay pick
Speaker 2: up a big juicy watermelon and you could have that
Speaker 2: to night.
Speaker 3: I can't do it today, but maybe tomorrow.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 1: Any other huge items on anyone's to compete with.
Speaker 3: That sea salt on top.
Speaker 2: Gonna do some lime juice.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Loves the Goo Goo Dolls.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Black Balloon hits iris this.
Speaker 1: There's a video of them playing in the rain. I
Speaker 1: think I've talked about on the podcast.
Speaker 3: Still played performances sold.
Speaker 2: Them on a podcast.
Speaker 7: Was in La like the other day.
Speaker 3: The lyrics I could ask about that was like my
Speaker 3: Avril Labine days when I would like write down av
Speaker 3: Laben lyrics. Googoo Dolls were up there, Yeah and Michelle
Speaker 3: Branch those three two Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah Goo Goo Dolls.
Speaker 1: But like the video that I always think about is
Speaker 1: them playing and it's pouring down rain and it's in
Speaker 1: the nineties and no one has their phones out. They're
Speaker 1: all just locked in and it looks like a dream.
Speaker 2: Like could you all make it no phone rule?
Speaker 3: So we could just have the Jonas Brothers had a concert,
Speaker 3: say like last year maybe the year before that was
Speaker 3: a no phones yeah, because it was like a small
Speaker 3: underplay at the l Rainos before the album came out.
Speaker 3: So they made everybody lock them in those little pouches.
Speaker 3: I kept got to keep mine out.
Speaker 5: They're in town in September. I might have to. They're
Speaker 5: in Santa Barbara and the Greek.
Speaker 3: The Santa Barbara Bowl, the Greek, the Greek the next night,
Speaker 3: the Greek in August.
Speaker 5: September sixth and seventh. Have to do that. Yeah, that's
Speaker 5: a little tight.
Speaker 3: That's after late that weekend. Actually, no, I'm going to
Speaker 3: bet a wedding that weekend.
Speaker 2: Oh well, okay.
Speaker 9: I would always love to see Lonna del Ray. I
Speaker 9: want to see her really, but we've never seen her.
Speaker 9: And they keep saying the Spice Girls are going to
Speaker 9: tour again. I want to see the Spice Girls so bad.
Speaker 2: Well, that would just be iconic, iconic, So you saw, Yeah, are.
Speaker 3: You invested in this Beckham drama?
Speaker 2: I don't know anything about it.
Speaker 3: Oh my God, to me here we are pop, make
Speaker 3: us invested. Well, the problem is, I don't not in
Speaker 3: the weeds. But Brooklyn Beckham and his wife Nicola Pelts
Speaker 3: are like in a feud with his family, meaning Victoria
Speaker 3: David Beckham brothers. Yeah, it's like bad nobody. I don't know.
Speaker 3: Like the hearsay is that she didn't let Victoria design
Speaker 3: her wedding dress, which seems preposterous to me. Like Victoria
Speaker 3: is probably okay whatever, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: So there's gotta be more to it. But apparently they
Speaker 3: hired the same attorney, like for their image that Harry
Speaker 3: and Meghan hired Beckham Harry, the Beams, the Young, the
Speaker 3: Young Beckhams.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 9: Interestinglyn has covered up his mom's boy chest tat.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that is a bad.
Speaker 2: Sign, that a bad.
Speaker 3: Red flag always around. I have to tell you something.
Speaker 3: Karma has hit Mark in a big way.
Speaker 2: Let's do it after the break, Yes, yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 6: Okay, all right, we're back.
Speaker 5: Tanya knows her teasers.
Speaker 3: We mentioned that earlier, So Mark's karma. I have just
Speaker 3: been finding joy in this show called Love Island for
Speaker 3: a few years now and who poo poos it to
Speaker 3: me every single time? Mark and I both okay, okay,
Speaker 3: fair one of Mark's stances because I would like to
Speaker 3: talk about it on not just this podcast, I'd love
Speaker 3: to talk about on the morning show. And Mark's like,
Speaker 3: nobody's watching this. I've never said that it's not our demo.
Speaker 5: Never said that either, yes you did, No, it is
Speaker 5: our demo. It's completely ourda.
Speaker 3: You changed your tune a little bit last summer because
Speaker 3: it was so popular.
Speaker 5: But because that's when it broke big.
Speaker 3: But before that it was so poop who Love Island?
Speaker 3: It's not our demo. Nobody's watching it's.
Speaker 5: Not our demo.
Speaker 4: But I didn't think anyone's watching it till last summer
Speaker 4: when people were really watching it, Which is so I
Speaker 4: have a good gauge of this sort of thing. That's
Speaker 4: why my job is my job.
Speaker 3: So I guess I was watching Love Island this season
Speaker 3: in Mark's home.
Speaker 1: I would say it could be as it is, or
Speaker 1: it could be one of the children.
Speaker 3: Well wow, yeah, yeah, she loves a fan.
Speaker 5: Brooklyn is a.
Speaker 4: Fan, you see her her. Tanya's mind went from Brooklyn
Speaker 4: Beckham to my.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, wow, wow, wow, a master, she loves it.
Speaker 4: She's obsessed and I was I got I didn't know this.
Speaker 4: And then she's under you know, she's under eighteen, so
Speaker 4: we get alerts when she wants to download an app.
Speaker 4: We have to just approve it, and we've always approved them.
Speaker 4: She never tried to download anything. Word, but I was
Speaker 4: at home one day and they got the Brooklyn wuld
Speaker 4: like to download the Love Island USA app like h no,
Speaker 4: But I approved it, and now there and now she
Speaker 4: comes home every day with stories of whoever and who's.
Speaker 5: This person?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, So it's basically like the Bacher meets American Idol.
Speaker 3: It's the best way to put it. It's phenomenal.
Speaker 2: Oh whoa, Okay, so I should, So I should start it.
Speaker 3: I mean.
Speaker 2: I think so, Okay, I'd rather do it now and just.
Speaker 3: Be like not need to catch up on like twenty twelve.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd rather be able to talk about it in
Speaker 1: a topical way.
Speaker 3: So yeah. So anyways, that's just a little bit about
Speaker 3: Marx Karma.
Speaker 9: Okay, there's there's a Love Island esque thing in the
Speaker 9: newest episode of in just like that.
Speaker 7: I just wanted you to know.
Speaker 9: Miranda gets sucked into a show called by Bingo and
Speaker 9: it's about bisexual people that gets into an island and
Speaker 9: it's just like her getting like so enambored with like
Speaker 9: a reality TV show where people are on a tropical
Speaker 9: island hooking up.
Speaker 7: And it reminds me of Love Island and a Bechel
Speaker 7: in Paradis.
Speaker 3: Well, I just want you to know that, Like, the
Speaker 3: reason why I haven't shared with you is because I
Speaker 3: have made a group chat with people that I can
Speaker 3: talk just Love Island too. Okay, So I'm like getting
Speaker 3: it out of my system.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, So you don't need to like harass me
Speaker 2: into watch it.
Speaker 3: Correct, I see, because I have my I have my
Speaker 3: support group.
Speaker 2: Thank God for those people.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we're just constantly sending tiktoks and updates.
Speaker 1: Do you think majority of people watch it? I think
Speaker 1: a lot of our listeners watch it. So I'm I'm
Speaker 1: gonna try. I'm going to attempt to tune in and
Speaker 1: get into it for the sake of the podcast.
Speaker 2: Maybe you can get a run down from Brooklyn to
Speaker 2: join in.
Speaker 5: Sure.
Speaker 4: My issue with the morning show is I know Ryan's
Speaker 4: not watching it, I know Systany's not watching it, and
Speaker 4: so it's got to be a relatable enough topic. But
Speaker 4: there are topics within there that we can probably.
Speaker 2: Say it for the pod and watch it show this girl.
Speaker 1: Okayeah, But as we know, like sometimes when when like
Speaker 1: just Easton and I are watching a show and we're
Speaker 1: trying to discuss it, the way you and Mark looks
Speaker 1: so absolutely horrify what we're saying.
Speaker 3: I don't need to discuss it. I don't need to
Speaker 3: discuss it.
Speaker 2: When not a whole group is watching it.
Speaker 3: You can pull elements that are relatable. Do you know
Speaker 3: what I mean?
Speaker 2: You should do that.
Speaker 1: You should be like, oh my gosh, this one guy,
Speaker 1: this is what happened or what he said That's what
Speaker 1: I didn't. Okay, do do do of our Friends episode?
Speaker 2: Anyways?
Speaker 1: Anyway, shall we get into some dear Bonias sneak went in.
Speaker 5: Here, uh from a girl in hinge Hell?
Speaker 4: She said, huge fans started this podcast because I love Becka,
Speaker 4: and I stayed because I'm beyond obsessed with you. All
Speaker 4: things just ended between me and my guy after seven months,
Speaker 4: And as much as it really hurt, I'm glad it
Speaker 4: happened because it made me realized I do want a relationship.
Speaker 4: I've been single for ten years with only one boyfriend,
Speaker 4: so navigating things out here is tough, especially at thirty four.
Speaker 4: I met the seven month guy as my first hinge
Speaker 4: date and it just went from there. I will say
Speaker 4: there were some red flags along the way, sharing a
Speaker 4: dog with his ex who he cheated on. Oh that's
Speaker 4: like a red flag barrage right there that you ignored.
Speaker 5: But I'm getting older, so I feel like I need
Speaker 5: to be less picky.
Speaker 4: However, after what feels like seven months wasted, I'm second
Speaker 4: guessing being too lenient. I've been on three dates in
Speaker 4: the last two weeks with different people, fourth tomorrow, and
Speaker 4: I just feel like it's all red flags. I'm struggling
Speaker 4: to decide if I should go on a second date
Speaker 4: with any of them, because I feel like I shouldn't,
Speaker 4: but I also want to be too picky. Okay, So
Speaker 4: now she breaks down each of the three and we
Speaker 4: get to decide who she should go on a date
Speaker 4: again with, if anyone. Date number one, he just moved
Speaker 4: into a new place and asked why he moved. He
Speaker 4: told me he and his ex broke up two weeks
Speaker 4: ago after two years together because they got into a
Speaker 4: fight at her sister's wedding because he found out she
Speaker 4: was cheating on him and now he doesn't know if
Speaker 4: he can trust again.
Speaker 5: Okay, Date number one, Date.
Speaker 4: Number two, I was actually super into this guy until
Speaker 4: he mentioned he had met up with this girl four
Speaker 4: days before because he really liked her and asked to
Speaker 4: be official, but she said she wanted to see if
Speaker 4: things would work out with another guy she was seeing,
Speaker 4: so he wanted to put himself back out there and
Speaker 4: not just wait around. On Date number three, mentioned communication
Speaker 4: being important to him, which I loved, and then he
Speaker 4: voluntarily mentioned he ended his last relationship a month ago
Speaker 4: because the sex sucked and when he brought it up,
Speaker 4: she didn't handle it well. I want to write all
Speaker 4: three off, But then is this normal? Am I being
Speaker 4: too picky? I just don't want to set myself up
Speaker 4: to get hurt again, especially after I felt like I
Speaker 4: may have ignored too many red flags on seven month man.
Speaker 4: Any advice is helpful, Thanks and love y'all.
Speaker 1: My first initial reaction is, if anything, he should be
Speaker 1: more picky. Yeah, I agree, I think stop being picky
Speaker 1: is the is the move.
Speaker 2: I think you should.
Speaker 1: Raise your standards because an ex sharing a dog with
Speaker 1: his ex who he cheated on. Is is just a
Speaker 1: red fly, big red flag that you just overlooked.
Speaker 2: And I think we're raising our standards now.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I feel like the older you get, the more
Speaker 3: picky you should become.
Speaker 5: Yeah, don't lower your standards.
Speaker 2: Waste your time on someone who doesn't deserve it.
Speaker 4: So Day one just moved a new place because he
Speaker 4: broke up two weeks ago. After two years, he's clearly
Speaker 4: a rebound situation. It's two weeks out. He got cheated on, Okay, fine, whatever.
Speaker 2: He doesn't know if he can trust again. He needs
Speaker 2: to go to therapy.
Speaker 1: He needs to heals two years, two weeks after two years,
Speaker 1: it's not gonna be.
Speaker 2: She's gonna be. It's not gonna be good for her.
Speaker 4: I rebounds work out sometimes. Sisany reminds us all the
Speaker 4: time in the morning show that her current husband was
Speaker 4: a rebound.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so you never know she.
Speaker 2: Was he her rebound or she was his rebound, he
Speaker 2: was her rebound. That's different.
Speaker 3: No, they were both each other's rebounds.
Speaker 1: Then I think that's fine, But I think one person
Speaker 1: not being the rebound, and especially if it's the woman
Speaker 1: who's not the rebus bound. I mean the woman who
Speaker 1: is the rebound I think is going to be tough
Speaker 1: if if our girls see what you're saying.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's the one that's rebounding. Yeah, she's the one
Speaker 4: that's three Yeah, okay. Date two, he had just met
Speaker 4: up with this girl four days before. He asked to
Speaker 4: be official. She said no, I want to see how
Speaker 4: things work out. So he's clearly got feelings for the
Speaker 4: other woman.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like out there doing his thing. I don't
Speaker 1: think that's about only protest.
Speaker 5: He doesn't want to be doing it.
Speaker 3: No, it's giving Tanya going out with other guys when
Speaker 3: Robbie didn't want to be exclusive kind of. And I
Speaker 3: remember all I was doing was thinking.
Speaker 1: About, well, number two would be the only one I'd
Speaker 1: go on a second date with out of these three.
Speaker 3: That's preposterous.
Speaker 2: Is that your word of the day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you said it once or twice before.
Speaker 3: That's the only one I wouldn't go out with again.
Speaker 4: Oh and then date three his relationship fell apart. As
Speaker 4: you mentioned, the sex was not up to his standards,
Speaker 4: and then she didn't handle it well and then they
Speaker 4: broke up.
Speaker 2: I think she's he's just gonna make her feelm secure.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't like it really.
Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes you just don't have good sexual chemistry.
Speaker 10: I know.
Speaker 1: But I think that's just like, hey, like, communicate, what
Speaker 1: do you like?
Speaker 2: What do you want?
Speaker 1: The fact that he just was like walk away after
Speaker 1: he didn't like the sex, it's like, did you try,
Speaker 1: did you communicate?
Speaker 2: Did you tell her what you like?
Speaker 5: I think day three is my favorite.
Speaker 2: Too interesting.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like, don't go out with any of
Speaker 1: them again and find some new name.
Speaker 5: I want to write all three off. That's it. You
Speaker 5: gotta go with your gun.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think if you want to write all three off,
Speaker 2: I think you do that.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Number three a lot of fish in the sea.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm moving on to the uh one more baby
Speaker 4: okay high anonymous Dear Becka Tanya Marker in Easton, Hi.
Speaker 5: Gang Day one scrubber.
Speaker 3: Here.
Speaker 4: You guys have read my emails in the past and
Speaker 4: give me great advice, so thank you.
Speaker 5: Look at that. We don't hear that very often. Then
Speaker 5: we give great.
Speaker 3: Advice all the time. I'm kidding.
Speaker 4: I'm thirty seven. My husband and I have four kids seventeen, thirteen,
Speaker 4: three and two. Wow, that is a span.
Speaker 3: Well, we're seventeen thirteen, three and two.
Speaker 5: That's right.
Speaker 4: We have three boys and our youngest. As a girl,
Speaker 4: I always dreamed of having a daughter, and once she
Speaker 4: was born, I agreed to my husband getting a vasectomy.
Speaker 4: Two years later, I deeply regret that decision. I want
Speaker 4: a fifth baby so badly. Being a mom has been
Speaker 4: the greatest joy of my life. I've always imagined having
Speaker 4: a big family. We just moved into our dream home
Speaker 4: this past January and it is spacious. We are settled,
Speaker 4: and I work remotely at a job I love to
Speaker 4: let me be home with my kids. Life feels full
Speaker 4: in the best way, but I can't shake the feeling
Speaker 4: that one more baby would complete our family. My husband
Speaker 4: had the asseectimy in October of twenty three, so he's
Speaker 4: still within the ideal window for a reversal. I'd say
Speaker 4: he's about eighty percent on.
Speaker 5: Board with the idea. When it's just the two of
Speaker 5: us talking, he's open and sometimes even excited about it.
Speaker 4: The issue is when he brings it up with his
Speaker 4: twin brother or his friends, they shut it down and
Speaker 4: say you're crazy, and the joke about us already having
Speaker 4: our hands full, and I can tell that their reactions
Speaker 4: sway him and it's frustrating. I don't want to pressure
Speaker 4: him or rush his process. I don't want outside voices,
Speaker 4: especially sarcastic, fearful ones, clouding his real desires.
Speaker 5: Here's the advice.
Speaker 4: How can I kindly but clearly tell the people around
Speaker 4: us to back off and let him think for himself
Speaker 4: without causing drama? And how can I best support my
Speaker 4: husband as he figures out what he truly wants and
Speaker 4: not what others think he should want. I know, asking
Speaker 4: him to do this surgery is a big deal, so
Speaker 4: I'm trying to get us there together as a unit.
Speaker 4: Thank you for reading and any inse that you can offer.
Speaker 2: I mean, I I think.
Speaker 1: That you're in a place where if you want to
Speaker 1: have another child and he's on board, I think you
Speaker 1: have that conversation together and also let him know that
Speaker 1: it's between the two of you, and you know you
Speaker 1: hear his friends and brother make comments, but make sure
Speaker 1: that it's what you both really want. And also I
Speaker 1: think you you have the you can say you're thirty seven,
Speaker 1: there is a biological time a clock.
Speaker 3: Okay, back on remind us again.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like I think you can bring that
Speaker 1: up in the conversation about having another baby and be like,
Speaker 1: I don't want I want us to both be in
Speaker 1: the same place to want this, and I don't want
Speaker 1: outside voices getting into your head. But I also am
Speaker 1: in a place where I do have to think about
Speaker 1: the time, So I just want us to get there
Speaker 1: together and do what we want, not what other people
Speaker 1: are saying.
Speaker 2: I think you just have this conversation.
Speaker 3: I think you just have the conversation with him. I
Speaker 3: think going to the people around you and telling them
Speaker 3: to back off is a very bad idea, yeah, because
Speaker 3: you just want like you can't control other people. You
Speaker 3: just can't, so you have to let people they're gonna
Speaker 3: do and say what they want. But I think having
Speaker 3: the conversation with your husband and saying you know that
Speaker 3: you recognize that other people like laugh and say we're crazy,
Speaker 3: but this is something that's really important to me, and
Speaker 3: I feel like it's also very important to you, And
Speaker 3: let's get the show on the road.
Speaker 4: He needs space and time, and I know that you
Speaker 4: feel like you might not have time, especially with what
Speaker 4: Beca just said to you.
Speaker 5: But he doesn't know what he wants.
Speaker 3: He does, he's not lying she says he's about eighty
Speaker 3: percent on board. Eighty is basically a hundred.
Speaker 4: That's what she says, because when she talks to him
Speaker 4: and she gives him the lowdown, he's.
Speaker 5: Like, yeah, yeah, that'd be cool. Yeah, that sounds great.
Speaker 4: And when his buddies and his brother around, they're like, dude,
Speaker 4: you've got your handsful. He's like, yeah, I do have
Speaker 4: my hands full. Yeah, you're right, Yeah, you're right, this
Speaker 4: is crazy. Both are true, by the way, I think
Speaker 4: he does want it, but also he realizes that this
Speaker 4: is a lot and they do have their hands full.
Speaker 4: So I think he's torn. I don't think he knows
Speaker 4: what he wants, and I think he's going to need
Speaker 4: time to figure that out.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I had of a sectomy. I loved it. I'm happy
Speaker 4: I did it every day. I would never get it reversed.
Speaker 3: You would never get it reversed. Never, that's rude.
Speaker 4: I've run the marathon and I'm nearing the finish line
Speaker 4: of the marathon. I would never want to start the
Speaker 4: marathon over again. As enjoyable as that marathon was, I
Speaker 4: but that's me. I just don't think he knows what
Speaker 4: he wants. Because every person's telling him something different, but
Speaker 4: everyone's telling him true things. Yes it would be nice,
Speaker 4: Yes it would be cool, Yes it would be sweet.
Speaker 4: Yes we would make your wife happy. Yes it is crazy.
Speaker 4: Yes your house is a madhouse right now, It's all true.
Speaker 4: So I think it's I don't know. I think he
Speaker 4: needs time and space, and because I think you're influencing him.
Speaker 3: As well, time and space. There's nothing like time and space.
Speaker 3: Time and space heals the race when they're ever questioning
Speaker 3: time and space.
Speaker 2: Thank you, that's stunning. I know we have a game.
Speaker 4: Oh, we do have a game. I have the high
Speaker 4: Low Game. We haven't played the high Low game in
Speaker 4: a way.
Speaker 2: The game, it's part of it.
Speaker 5: Part age, part other things.
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, all right, we are back with a finale game.
Speaker 5: All right, I've.
Speaker 4: Got three rounds. Each one is best of seven says.
Speaker 4: Whoever gets two of the three rounds is the champion.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay.
Speaker 5: We are starting with celebrity birthdays.
Speaker 3: Okay. Uh.
Speaker 4: These are all people who are born this week in history,
Speaker 4: and you can tell me how old they are turning
Speaker 4: this week and how and then the other person is
Speaker 4: higher and lower.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 4: Now, I always get people get mad at me because
Speaker 4: they want to be the higher lower person. So can
Speaker 4: you guys please do a rock paper scissors to determine
Speaker 4: who goes first?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 3: Sure, I thought we say that our name.
Speaker 5: No, we're taking turns. Here we go, So rock paper scissors. Shoot,
Speaker 5: here we go.
Speaker 3: Rock paper scissors, shoot.
Speaker 4: Rock crushes scissors. So you may choose. Would you like
Speaker 4: the name? Would you like the name first? Would you
Speaker 4: like hire.
Speaker 3: At I'd like to guest hire a lower first one?
Speaker 4: Okay, here is your first one? Mackelmore? How old is
Speaker 4: he turning this week?
Speaker 2: Maclamore? I think he's forty four?
Speaker 5: He is not turning forty four? Is he older or younger?
Speaker 3: Older?
Speaker 4: He is turning forty three? For Rebecca and Tanya's strategy
Speaker 4: has backfire. Tanya Zoe Saldanya Hollywood Darling Zoe Saldanya. How
Speaker 4: old is she turning this week?
Speaker 3: Forty five?
Speaker 5: Okay, she's not. Is she older or younger than forty five?
Speaker 2: Older?
Speaker 4: She is turning forty seven? Becca has two now and
Speaker 4: is well on her way. Kendrick Lamar, Kendrick Lamar Ton Wait, Becca?
Speaker 4: How old is Kendrick Lamar turning this week?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: I think Kendrick's turning. Uh, I really have no thirty eight?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: He iss three in a row for Becca. All right, finally,
Speaker 4: maybe not finally, we have more, but I'm going to
Speaker 4: throw you a bit of a curve ball because I
Speaker 4: want to get this one in here. Every year since
Speaker 4: I was a kid, I acknowledged this birthday. This week,
Speaker 4: Garfield the Cat.
Speaker 3: That's g give we veto this one, Vito.
Speaker 4: I'm the host of the show, Vita. Garfield the Cat
Speaker 4: has a birthday this week.
Speaker 3: I don't care.
Speaker 4: How old is Garfield the Cat creatures? How old is
Speaker 4: Garfield the Cat turning this week?
Speaker 3: Forty seven?
Speaker 5: Yes, it's forty seven. Wow, Ton, that was really good.
Speaker 2: Did you get Did you give that to you?
Speaker 3: No? Why would I want to veto it? If I knew?
Speaker 1: I am so. I felt like that was like acting
Speaker 1: or something amazing.
Speaker 5: Becca, back to you.
Speaker 4: For the win for this round. Nicole Kidman. How old
Speaker 4: is she turning this week?
Speaker 8: Oh?
Speaker 2: I think Nicole Kidman is.
Speaker 6: Fifty eight.
Speaker 4: She's turning fifty eight. I'll be darned look at that.
Speaker 4: Becca takes round one. The thing game goes to Becca.
Speaker 6: Wow.
Speaker 5: Round two.
Speaker 4: All right, let's go to the store. I'm going to
Speaker 4: give you a product. You tell me if it's one
Speaker 4: person guesses the price, the other person is higher or lower. Okay,
Speaker 4: all right, simple as that.
Speaker 5: I have a circular right here, like the newspaper circular.
Speaker 4: We start this time with Tanya. Okay, this is up
Speaker 4: and Up thirty two ounce liquid hand sanitizer. Thirty two
Speaker 4: ounces of liquid hand sanitizer by the brand Up and Up.
Speaker 5: How much does that cost?
Speaker 3: Thirty two ounces is big? Huh, Like bigger than two ounces.
Speaker 5: It's quite a bit thirty more.
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna guess.
Speaker 5: Six sixty nine nine is a higher or lower? Becca,
Speaker 5: I'm going higher. It is five point fifty nine.
Speaker 4: You guys should go get some of this stuff because
Speaker 4: it's a really good deal. That is a point for Tanya. Beckup,
Speaker 4: it's the brand Lol, Surprise Tween Mermaid doll. It's a
Speaker 4: little mermaid doll. It's cute, little Surprise Mermaid dolly.
Speaker 5: Lol. How much is that little between mermaid doll?
Speaker 2: Those are I think around seventeen dollars.
Speaker 4: Seventeen dollars hire lower Tanya fifteen dollars. Tanya is doing
Speaker 4: well in this game.
Speaker 2: She knows her prices.
Speaker 4: Khan is a JBL wireless bluetooth headphones hundred bucks, hundred
Speaker 4: bucks hire lower Hire one twenty nine. Becca's on the board. Becca,
Speaker 4: it's a bird Buddy smart bird feeder with camera so
Speaker 4: you can watch the birds on your phone.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Those run about one twenty.
Speaker 4: Twenty higher Lower Tanya, Hire two hundred dollars for that one.
Speaker 4: Tanya is on the brink of victory. Here, Tanya, this
Speaker 4: is the Dirt Devil. Dirt Devil Vibe three and one
Speaker 4: cordless bagless vacuum.
Speaker 3: Cleaner, seventy five ninety nine.
Speaker 5: Hire wire it is forty nine ninety nine.
Speaker 4: And Tanya takes round two and we move on to
Speaker 4: the final round. I'm going to give you a movie.
Speaker 4: You tell me what year this movie came out. I
Speaker 4: have tried to get movies that you two particularly would enjoy. Okay, Becca,
Speaker 4: we begin with you. He's just not that into you.
Speaker 4: What year did that come out?
Speaker 2: Two thousand and nine?
Speaker 5: Correct?
Speaker 4: Two thousand and nine. Wow, very nice. Tanya, you can
Speaker 4: match it up right here. Don't be so stunned. You
Speaker 4: got a shot here the notebook. What year do the
Speaker 4: notebook come out?
Speaker 5: Tanya?
Speaker 3: Two thousand and five.
Speaker 4: It is not two thousand and five, before or after
Speaker 4: two thousand and four?
Speaker 5: Becka, I can't say that word on our podcast. Sorry, Love, Actually,
Speaker 5: let's go back to Becca Love. Actually, what year did
Speaker 5: that come out?
Speaker 2: Isn't that go to Tanya?
Speaker 3: Because I just know, I just guess it. You guess lowered?
Speaker 5: Oh oh, Love?
Speaker 2: Actually was twenty twelve before or after?
Speaker 5: Tanya?
Speaker 4: Before two thousand and three? Quite a bit before two
Speaker 4: to one? Beca, Tanya? What year did She's All That
Speaker 4: come out?
Speaker 3: Nineteen ninety two?
Speaker 4: Nineteen ninety two? Was it before or after ninety nine?
Speaker 4: And Becca has a three to one leaders on the
Speaker 4: brink of victory In today's High Low Game, Becca, we
Speaker 4: go to you for this one. Mandy Moore in a
Speaker 4: walk to remember what year did that come out?
Speaker 2: Two thousand and two?
Speaker 5: We have a winner.
Speaker 2: I was like, I was.
Speaker 1: So obsessed with that movie that was If I had
Speaker 1: gotten that wrong, I would have been up something.
Speaker 5: Congratulations, Becca is the winner our game.
Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you for putting that together.
Speaker 5: Mark as always enjoy our games.
Speaker 1: All right, everyone, We will be back on Thursday with
Speaker 1: Candice King.
Speaker 3: Can't wait to not wait.
Speaker 2: We love her, love her.
Speaker 1: Donya, I hope your dreams come true today and you
Speaker 1: get to really enjoy your shaved watermelon.
Speaker 3: Thank you so much.
Speaker 2: Dreams do come true.
Speaker 3: They are easy, really accessible, if you dream big, if
Speaker 3: you dream small enough.
Speaker 2: I was trying to be encouragingly.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you dream small, you can achieve the dreams easy, erectly.
Speaker 2: All right, we love you, somebody love you.
Speaker 3: Bye bye,