WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Mexican Walkout

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date? How much would you pay to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with someone? Fifty bucks, one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred bucks? Why are you paying? What do I get

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<v Speaker 1>out of it? How about two hundred dollars for two

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<v Speaker 1>hours with mister right here? Right now? That's just pretty Steve.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just like an escort service, right? Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking about? Obviously I'm not interested in your services.

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<v Speaker 1>One of our listeners Don't emailed us saying he paid

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<v Speaker 1>for his date and he was extremely satisfied with the result.

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<v Speaker 1>On the phone right now, Brett, did you tip fifteen percent?

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<v Speaker 1>Twenty percent? What's what's customary for a pay for dates

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<v Speaker 1>still service? Right? I mean, alexis you take money for dates?

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<v Speaker 1>What would you accept as a tip? You'll answer that? Really?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the pack to the guy on the Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all right, we can talk to Brett. Brett. How's

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<v Speaker 1>it going? Man? Hey, how are you guys doing? Brett?

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<v Speaker 1>It's sound like you hired an escort service for a date.

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<v Speaker 1>There's nothing wrong with it? Is that? What is that?

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<v Speaker 1>What happened? It was like a website I went to

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<v Speaker 1>and there is ladies on it and I picked one.

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<v Speaker 1>You get Okay, I'll tell you why she's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back because you didn't pay for another date. This

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<v Speaker 1>isn't she's not going to fall in love with you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I think you guys are misunderstanding. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>like that. It's like one of those dating sites where

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<v Speaker 1>you have to pay a monthly. Oh, you're just You're

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<v Speaker 1>just paying a subscription to a dating site. It's called

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<v Speaker 1>a membership. Yeah, is a lot different could have led

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<v Speaker 1>with that one. This just got a whole lot less interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess we'll keep going. Brett, So tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about the girl that you met on this dating site

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<v Speaker 1>what's her name? Names page? Okay, and she was like

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<v Speaker 1>so hot it made me never want to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to the free dating sites ever again. Okay, so this

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<v Speaker 1>was your first match? Yeah, this match and I talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her online. We had a nice conversation. I asked

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<v Speaker 1>her about like what kind of foods you like to eat,

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<v Speaker 1>and we had the same taste of food, which is

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<v Speaker 1>basically like Mexican food. So that's good your food in common. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you're feeling like you're getting there's money's worth for the

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<v Speaker 1>subscription if it's already matching up this quickly I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I could walk on the street and

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<v Speaker 1>meet someone that likes Mexican foods. You know, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so you have Mexican in common. What do you guys

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<v Speaker 1>do for your date? So we go to a restaurant, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>Mexican restaurant, and you are so what a transition. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like a casual one. It was one of those

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<v Speaker 1>fancy Mexican restaurants. Were like, you're paying twenty dollars for

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<v Speaker 1>a taco and you're like, I don't know why. Yeah, cheese,

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<v Speaker 1>that's classy, dude. How did that go? Oh? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it went kind of weird. Um. So when she

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<v Speaker 1>showed up, she just looked so amazing. She was so beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>and so, I don't know, maybe I was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>nervous talking to her. Why do you say that? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so like it seemed okay when we first started talking,

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<v Speaker 1>she seemed a little quiet, but then as the night

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<v Speaker 1>went on, her mood started changing and it almost seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like she got upset or something was bothering her. She

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<v Speaker 1>just seemed like sad. I'm not exactly sure. Was there

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<v Speaker 1>anything specific you guys were talking about that would fall

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<v Speaker 1>into the sad realm relatives like a childhood pet you

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<v Speaker 1>had to put down or something. I'm just saying, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just asking. It's a good question. That's a good question.

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<v Speaker 1>Was the conversation leading her down that sadness path? No,

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<v Speaker 1>we just started talking about normal stuff like travel and

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<v Speaker 1>like animals, and then she just kept getting more and

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<v Speaker 1>more quiet. I mean, maybe there's a thing going on

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<v Speaker 1>in her life that you don't know about, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I assume. At one point I even asked

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<v Speaker 1>it if everything was okay, and she didn't really say anything. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a good sign. That means it's okay. How

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<v Speaker 1>did you wrap it up? So? I ordered dessert and

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<v Speaker 1>she leaves before the dessert comes. So I just sit

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<v Speaker 1>there by myself and I eat both desserts. WHOA she

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<v Speaker 1>walked out in the middle of it. That's kind Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying. Yeah, so like she basically she

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<v Speaker 1>just said, I'm not into this anymore. Wow. She goes

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<v Speaker 1>to get up, and I'm like, I can't, I can't leave.

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<v Speaker 1>I just ordered dessert, but she leaves anyway, WHOA, did

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<v Speaker 1>you ask the dating website for a refund on you?

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<v Speaker 1>I should? Yeah, Well, I'm looking back on the whole night.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so weird. What do you think could have possibly

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<v Speaker 1>gone wrong? I don't know, do I? I mean? I

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<v Speaker 1>think I look like my pictures? Did my breath stay? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I put my foot in my mouth, But I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know it. Like literally, I just love that this

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<v Speaker 1>is men's over analyzing of a date because if it

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<v Speaker 1>was me that this happened too, I would have eighty

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<v Speaker 1>six reasons why they weren't calling him back. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I think my I tied my tie a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, yea left. Yeah, I don't know. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>like she was in a bad mood the whole way through,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I think it's got worse and worse as

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<v Speaker 1>the date went on. Yeah, are you mad? Like do

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<v Speaker 1>you want an explanation? Or do you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with her again? Well? Yeah, she's hot, so yeah

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go out with Yeah. Stupid I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>treating people with kindness and respect wasn't on the table. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're hoping to figure out what it was that

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<v Speaker 1>set her off basically made her leave. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you guys to figure it out if you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that's why you emailed us. Huh, maybe we

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<v Speaker 1>should do our jobs. Okay, let's do that. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>play a song. We'll come back. We'll call Page for

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<v Speaker 1>you and try and get your second date update. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you if you're just tuning in for the second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. One of our listeners, Brett, is on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think we've all had at least one date

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<v Speaker 1>like Brett went on recently, where you're sitting down at

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<v Speaker 1>the table. You haven't done anything or said anything wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>but for some reason, you just sense that it's going bad.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Brett's date ended up leaving the restaurant before dessert

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<v Speaker 1>even came. I mean that is so rude, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>would only do that if someone was incredibly disrespectful or

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like I just can't imagine. Yes, well that's

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<v Speaker 1>why he wants our help. Now, Brett, we've been talking

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<v Speaker 1>for a few minutes now, kind of like we're on

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<v Speaker 1>a date. How do you feel like this is going

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<v Speaker 1>Do you hear us getting quieter? Does Brook, Alexis or

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<v Speaker 1>Jose sound I'm sad talking. I think I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>leave right now. I saw the urge and Alexis's eyes

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<v Speaker 1>to get up and go, well, I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how hot you guys are. Wow, So that's

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<v Speaker 1>all that matters to you. That's a good point. I

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<v Speaker 1>forgot to point out that Brett's date was extremely hot,

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<v Speaker 1>so he's desperate to find some answers. Say, three quarters

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<v Speaker 1>of the room is hot. You guess who the ugly

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<v Speaker 1>one that your going to give it? Only to Alexis?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, and that's only by comparison because she's young.

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<v Speaker 1>You alright, we're gonna stop focusing on how hot we

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<v Speaker 1>all are, okay, although it's really fun to do. Instead,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just do your second date update. I'm gonna dial

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<v Speaker 1>Page's number right now. You ready, Okay? If you guys

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<v Speaker 1>can help me out here, that would be great, because she, again,

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<v Speaker 1>she's very hot. That yeah, thank you for the remind there. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Page. This

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<v Speaker 1>is she? Who's this? Hi? Page? My name is Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you doing? Um? I'm okay. What is this about?

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<v Speaker 1>This is about a second date update? Have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>heard of that? Um? I don't know. Maybe it's a

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<v Speaker 1>segment that we do on the radio from time to time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's where if you go out with every day. But okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well a day is a time. How are you trying

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<v Speaker 1>to undermine me? Here we go trying to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>she understands. But Paige, the reason that we're calling you

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<v Speaker 1>is because you went out with somebody recently and they've

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<v Speaker 1>been trying to get a hold of you but have

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<v Speaker 1>had a hard time getting in touch and they're hoping

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out why. Okay, you had a pretty dramatic

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<v Speaker 1>exit on the date, so I'm guessing you're going to remember.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. According to this person, you're very hot,

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<v Speaker 1>so I assume that you have a lot of days.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you confirm that you were hot? Please? Wait? What

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<v Speaker 1>is going on? What do I need to do? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna tell you we got an email about

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<v Speaker 1>you from a guy named Brett. Oh okay, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>remember that. That was actually last week okay, Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>so Brett told us about the date. From his perspective,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you feel like it went not great? It

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<v Speaker 1>seems like more than not great. Yeah, we like, did

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<v Speaker 1>he do something rude or did he say something to

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<v Speaker 1>offend you? I don't know. I was just I was disappointed.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess the reason why we ask is because Brett

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<v Speaker 1>told us it seemed like you got quieter and quieter

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<v Speaker 1>as the night went on to the point where you

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<v Speaker 1>guys were barely talking. Oh so he's just been talking

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<v Speaker 1>about me. Well, he was giving us his side of

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<v Speaker 1>the date. Remember we're trying to figure out what went wrong. Yeah, okay, yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just weird that he's just like talking or like

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<v Speaker 1>spreading whatever his perspective of me is. Um, I nearly

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<v Speaker 1>know him. But the whole point is that he had

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<v Speaker 1>a really nice time up to the point when you

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<v Speaker 1>decided to leave. That's good. I don't know. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>not very happy with him, So I guess, Okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>did he do? I mean? The problem is is if

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<v Speaker 1>you're unhappy, he honestly has no idea what he did wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>So he can't like connective behavior or apologize for something

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<v Speaker 1>that he doesn't know about. I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really believe that he doesn't know what was wrong, at

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<v Speaker 1>least at this point, Like, so you feel like it

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<v Speaker 1>was something pretty obvious. Yeah, he's an idiot then, because

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<v Speaker 1>he has no idea, I actually believe him on that part. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>most of us dudes are idiot, so and he'd really

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate if you could tell us what the problem was

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<v Speaker 1>so that we could pass it along to him and

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<v Speaker 1>that way he can be less of an idiot on future.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, Well, like honestly, I do get asked

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<v Speaker 1>out like a lot, so sometimes I have to like

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<v Speaker 1>leave through guys and I take a chance on someone

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<v Speaker 1>and like, you know, hopefully something will work out. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I ended up like not doing plans with some

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<v Speaker 1>friends that I had because it was my twenty fifth

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<v Speaker 1>birthday weekend. Actually like that weekend, I like, happy birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, And I skipped out on some plans with

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<v Speaker 1>my friends so I could go on a date because

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<v Speaker 1>I thought a birthday date hell yeah, like that'll be great.

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<v Speaker 1>But he didn't know it was my birthday weekend. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand how he did a look at my

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<v Speaker 1>profile and see that these are the dates, Like he

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<v Speaker 1>asked me out, like he should have been aware. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you actually tell him that it was your birthday weekend

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<v Speaker 1>or it's just on the website. No, I just assumed

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<v Speaker 1>he would put two and two together, Like I figured

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to ask me out this weekend so he

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<v Speaker 1>could like impress me. Wait, hold on, you skip birthday

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<v Speaker 1>celebrations with your friends to go out with the guy

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<v Speaker 1>you'd never met, and then you were mad at him

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<v Speaker 1>for not well because she thought he'd spoil her for

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<v Speaker 1>her birthday, and then he didn't. He took her out

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<v Speaker 1>to a nice dinner. What didn't you want the first date?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he should have had least brought flowers or something,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe like a little gift or something. Just I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, Like you, are you being a serious like

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<v Speaker 1>you honestly expect a guy you've never met to buy this?

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<v Speaker 1>I would be creep. I'll tell you on other social

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<v Speaker 1>media figured out it was your birthday? If I knew

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<v Speaker 1>it was your birthday in a heartbeat. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't make you didn't tell him. You never talked to

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<v Speaker 1>him about it. I didn't have to. If he had

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<v Speaker 1>a brain, he could have seen him on my profile, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't look past the pictures on the web dating science?

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<v Speaker 1>What it could have been his birthday? Did you know that?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you look at his profile? Do you know where

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<v Speaker 1>his birthday is? Let me ask you something, page, how

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<v Speaker 1>do you know that Brett wasn't waiting until after dessert

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<v Speaker 1>to give you your birthday fiers in your seventeen birthday gifts.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh maybe he had a mariachi band in the wings,

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<v Speaker 1>just waiting to come out and say he's going to

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<v Speaker 1>bring you in with a stretch. Lima, what did he

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<v Speaker 1>tell you he was going to do that? You didn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell me that, But I'm I'm willing to ask him

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<v Speaker 1>if he was going to do that, because I need

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you Page. Brett's on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>and wants to wish you a very happy birthday. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you there, Brett? Happy surprise? We do that? Guy? Wow? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I knew. I knew it was your birthday. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>they were going to bring out the plan with candles

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<v Speaker 1>in it, but you left before the plan to come out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you're ruined. You ruined your own birthday. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you really expect me to believe that? Seriously? Come on, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not that stupid. I know, I don't. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to get to know you exactly how stupid you are. Page.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, go easy on this, dude. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I did go easy on him. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>waited through dinner like I kind of wanted to bail earlier,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't. So you're just gonna have like this

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<v Speaker 1>long history of just hard relationships because you don't tell

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<v Speaker 1>people what your expectations are. Yeah, and you assume guys

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<v Speaker 1>just like no things. We don't know anything, page anything,

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<v Speaker 1>don't expect anything from us. Sure, I mean, Brett, if

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<v Speaker 1>you would have known it was her birthday, let's replay

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<v Speaker 1>the day, what would you have done differently? That's a

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<v Speaker 1>good one. What would I have done differently? All sorts

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<v Speaker 1>of saying it was a present? And gifts of all

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<v Speaker 1>different kinds. You want me to to put you on hold

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<v Speaker 1>so you can think about it, and I'll bring you

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<v Speaker 1>back gold, not even jewelry, just your gold. I smelt this.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what do you think has a man ever

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<v Speaker 1>given you gold before? Maybe? Okay, I mean Brett, are

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<v Speaker 1>you still interested? She's I mean, Paige, no offense for

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<v Speaker 1>your a little high maintenance, call me maintenance man. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>go out again? All right? I'm starting to sense a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of chemistry here now, So maybe this is

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<v Speaker 1>the right time to ask, Paige, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with Brett one more time? And will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it? You can replay your birthday and do it

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<v Speaker 1>the right way. I will say, it's like double birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy is definitely shown up with a gift this time.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you say, Paige, But why? Like why It's

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<v Speaker 1>because it's what you want. Yeah, he's he finally knows

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<v Speaker 1>what you want and then he wants to give that

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<v Speaker 1>to you. That's how relationships were really communication the birthday cake.

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<v Speaker 1>Brett's gonna show you why. I just have a few

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<v Speaker 1>more guys that have asked me out, and I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just going in a different direction. I think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>back in the back of the line and see him

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<v Speaker 1>two months. I'll give you the cash equivalent of the

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<v Speaker 1>date they paid for. Now you're just paid for. You've

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<v Speaker 1>already paid for the for the dating subscription, dude, don't

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<v Speaker 1>keep paying you. Guys have to see her. She has

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<v Speaker 1>the right to act this way if I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>I did forget that. I'm sorry. That was my bad breath,

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<v Speaker 1>badly Brett. I'm so sorry, dude. Dude, every day from

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<v Speaker 1>now on, just act like one and bring as many. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>always have a birthday cake in the trunk. Justin Broke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning, going on a first date

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<v Speaker 1>on your actual birthday. Yes, is that something you guys

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<v Speaker 1>would be doing? Bad idea? And she canceled on her

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriends to go out of the state. Yeah, no, terrible idea.

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<v Speaker 1>You're always going to have more fun with your girlfriends.

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<v Speaker 1>It seems like a guaranteed awkward night. Yes, amen, really,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe if you were invited to someone's big

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<v Speaker 1>birthday party as a first date. Alexis is like what

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<v Speaker 1>their code press? I like, how much? What's he doing

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<v Speaker 1>for me? What restaurant are we going to be going to?

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<v Speaker 1>Then we'll talk. I feel like I would rather celebrate

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<v Speaker 1>my birthday alone than do it with a stranger, because

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<v Speaker 1>you would rather celebrate a lot of things alone. In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>I do do that because at least there's no one

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<v Speaker 1>there to witness it. When I cry after making birthday

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<v Speaker 1>love Okay, Okay, I get a load a loon, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I still do it. Happy birthday to me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry. Okay, it's my birthday. Okay, But if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to get a second day at update and not cry,

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<v Speaker 1>email the show and we'll call the person who wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. We just learned a lot no, forget it. Delete, delete,

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<v Speaker 1>delete