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Speaker 1: I want you to know there's a new parenting trend. Okay.

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Speaker 1: This is something that parents are doing now. And I'm

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Speaker 1: not making fun of parents. I'm making fun of the

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Speaker 1: fact that there's an article about him. I believe this

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Speaker 1: was in a New York publication. Guys, this is revolutionary, Okay,

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Speaker 1: parents This summer apparently in New York are going for something.

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Speaker 1: It's a nostalgic trend. They're calling it fair old child summer.

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Speaker 1: What happens during far old child summer is that kids

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Speaker 1: get to roam freely outdoors with minimal structure. That's it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, like we did right.

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Speaker 1: Like, like we did when the weather was nice and

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Speaker 1: it was the weekend of the summer. You know, we'd

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Speaker 1: You know, those street lights were going to come off.

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Speaker 1: That was it. And and I don't mean to be

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Speaker 1: Three sixty whatever that thing is, we didn't have it.

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Speaker 1: We didn't have any of them. We didn't have three

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Speaker 1: didn't have that either. It was different then. The calendar

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Speaker 2: Back then was handlebars and a dream.

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Speaker 1: That's it. That's it, the feeling of freedom. But parents

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Speaker 1: and the influencers that were asked about this. I guess

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Speaker 1: there's a couple they're leading the way on this feral

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Speaker 1: And this is getting mixed reactions from parents. As you might,

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Speaker 1: this is wild concept, critics says, not realistic today, citing

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Speaker 1: stay plugged in indoors unless supervised with structured programming. I

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Speaker 2: And miss it so much.

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Speaker 1: But it's a new parenting concept that I think you

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Speaker 2: I'm happy for the rebrand, bring it back.

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Speaker 3: These kids need to go get lost, you know, go wonder,

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Speaker 3: You don't know the fear of like your your tire

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Speaker 1: I think kids? I think bikes are still a thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I've seen like toddlers on bikes, but like actual teenagers,

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we got to bring those back.

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Speaker 3: So I love when I see a Culva sack and

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Speaker 3: for me. A Culva sack, What a cul sack, A

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Speaker 1: You want, a cold sack.

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Speaker 2: I want a Culvi sack. What riding bikes, it's a.

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Speaker 1: Cold sack, COVID cold dust. It's a coulder sack, c

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Speaker 2: Okay, well could the sack couva sack?

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Speaker 3: Well, I want the little circle with people outside, the

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Speaker 2: Like that's the character. I think we're taking it a

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Speaker 1: It's like the positives and negatives though, because for me,

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Speaker 1: Like no one's knocking at my door going one shotgun

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Speaker 1: know the answer already, Kaitlin. The question is you want

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