1 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached 2 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheeky's podcast. I'm here 3 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: to give you a device on anything and everything you 4 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: need help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or 5 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: having issues with your family, or maybe you have a 6 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I 7 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts 8 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious 9 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional. 10 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at 11 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: the sound of the beeB. 12 00:00:51,360 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 2: Hi t keys arena a ya yai iste yota mina 13 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 2: for divorce, yasa nastex porve okay se plait la Yeah, 14 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 2: sisters e libro yet to be stay intervisa reference. So yes, 15 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 2: that's your podcast referencede solo x yasa naste. 16 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: Me be mosa hena is the well not you guys 17 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: and the so you guys. Bell is asking if I 18 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: have healed and I guess, in other words, gotten over 19 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: my divorce because I continue to talk about it. She says, 20 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: you've already written in the books, You've already talked about 21 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: it in interviews, you said it in your podcast like 22 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 1: have you really healed? And then the words why are 23 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 1: you still talking about it? So I'm gonna answer in 24 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: Spanish and then I'll get back to you in English. Well, 25 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 1: Anna la jojia supereeso ja los gracias atom much mucho 26 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: pero los mi lasion pero tambien is partem vida parte 27 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:36,359 Speaker 1: de mystor est testimonio I joso claro sumision is superpositoemundo 28 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: is a menela podcast jose personal super algolo deesoliendo see 29 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: present mystoria libro perdon came no esport persona male you know, 30 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: just to contend dad I sas al conta lautra persona 31 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 1: sari or ja jambien por ke tam digo no SOI 32 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: in know fui in sente jo tambien BeO loke mal 33 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: e looke and sent sasjranx flico a j jou jamesojoor 34 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: lejoor lear and corno vera persona felis pero espart myst 35 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 1: yes paso. 36 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 3: It was. 37 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: So you, guys. I was just telling bell and not 38 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: trying to make it very short because I gave her 39 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: a very long answer, but I was telling her that, yes, wholeheartedly, 40 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: I do feel like I've healed it. I don't have anger, 41 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: I don't have sadness in my heart towards him. I 42 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: wish him well, I really really do. I want him 43 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: to be happy. Like now, I understand why it didn't work, 44 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 1: and it took me a long time to get there, 45 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: and I'm in a very happy relationship. And I'm grateful 46 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: to each and every single ex that I had because 47 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: it prepared me for my relationship. Now. Again, things aren't perfect. 48 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: We're still working on things, but now I have a 49 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,559 Speaker 1: partner that is willing to work with me through these things, 50 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 1: and I didn't have that before. And I was also 51 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:39,840 Speaker 1: telling her that it's part of my story, it's part 52 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 1: of my past, it's part of my testimony, and I 53 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 1: know that I am meant and I've talked about it 54 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 1: a lot on the podcast. One thing that I have 55 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: very clear is my mission on this earth and my purpose, 56 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: and my purpose is to help other people and by 57 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: doing that, unfortunately I sometimes have to tap into my 58 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: past and talk about it and be honest and transparent. 59 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 1: I'm not just saying he was wrong. I was wrong too. 60 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: Now I see it more than ever what I could 61 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 1: have done differently, what I am doing differently in my relationship, 62 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 1: and it is something that I went through was very 63 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: traumatic for me, and a lot of people want to know. 64 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 1: How do you get over an ex? How do you 65 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 1: get over a divorce that was so painful, so public that, 66 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 1: mind you, he made public first, he talked about it first. 67 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: I was just say, hey, this is my side of 68 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 1: the story, this is my truth, and this is my purpose. 69 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: And I have no problem with being transparent and open 70 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: with people, and I'm going to continue to talk about 71 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: it if it comes up. So bam, Mike drop and 72 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. So anyway, Belle, thank you for your question. 73 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: Is stape was when a kies? Okay, okay, guys, So 74 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: we're going to move on to the next question, which 75 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 1: is from Orly. 76 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 4: Hi Jiki's love you and your podcast. You guys are awesome. 77 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 4: My question is when are you guys releasing your mom's 78 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 4: full concert in Monterrey or as I say, movie as well. 79 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 4: Hopefully you can answer this question for me. Thank you, 80 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 4: love you so much, Orly, I love you too. 81 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 1: Thank you for loving my mommy and thank you for 82 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:24,159 Speaker 1: asking me this question. You guys, I have been feeling 83 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:27,840 Speaker 1: so connected to my mom lately. It's crazy, like, oh, 84 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:31,840 Speaker 1: it's just been so beautiful. So AnyWho, I don't know 85 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 1: that is a truth. I have no idea. I am 86 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 1: waiting patiently, just like you. We are ironing out some 87 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 1: things and some wrinkles and organizing everything. It's taken a 88 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: long time, but I know that the plan is there. 89 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 1: I know that it's going to be done. I just 90 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 1: don't know when. So we are going to have a 91 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: family meeting very soon to talk about the details of 92 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,119 Speaker 1: just everything that has to do with my mom because 93 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: obviously there are a lot of things that we want 94 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 1: to do and keep her name and her music out there, 95 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: and Monterrey is one that everyone keeps asking about. It 96 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 1: just has to be the right time, with the right partner. 97 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to rush anything. We don't want to 98 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: rush anything because then when you rush it and you 99 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: force it, just stuff doesn't come out the way it should. 100 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: And my mom I feel like, deserves it, and not 101 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 1: only her but her fans. So be patient. Okay, be patient, 102 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: It'll come and you're gonna love it. Okay. Next and 103 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 1: last question, comes from Ruth. 104 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 3: Hey Cheeky's My question for you is, did you ever 105 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 3: imagine that you would be as successful as you are 106 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 3: today with your businesses, with your career, with your seeing career, 107 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 3: with your podcast, your YouTube. Did you ever imagine that 108 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 3: all that you have now was going to be a possibility? 109 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: Thanks all, rude, I'm loving your guys's questions. Okay, so 110 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 1: truth be told. I knew that I was meant to 111 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 1: do something big for a long time in my teens. 112 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: I think once I graduated high school, I felt like 113 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: there is something that I meant to do and I 114 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: would close my eyes and I would hear applause, but 115 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: I never knew what it was. I was afraid to 116 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 1: sing because of everything I had seen my mom go 117 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: through and everything I witnessed, you know, But I just 118 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: I heard applause. I didn't know if it was going 119 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: to be acting, because that's something I wanted to do. 120 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: I always knew I wanted to write a book. Always 121 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 1: I knew that I loved writing, and later on the 122 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,719 Speaker 1: whole podcast idea came out. But anyway, the truth is 123 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 1: that I thought I was going to do big things 124 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 1: and all these things, but living it through my mom. 125 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: I was okay with being behind the scenes and being 126 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: right hand because she also wanted a television show and 127 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 1: her career as a singer, and then she had her 128 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: radio show, which is kind of like a podcast, you know. 129 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:11,559 Speaker 1: So I always thought, Okay, I'm here, I'm gonna make 130 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: and help my mom make her dreams come true, and 131 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: that for me at that time was enough. I was 132 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 1: just happy to make my mom happy, to help her 133 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:23,839 Speaker 1: and support her in her dreams while I was helping 134 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: with my siblings, and it just I felt that that's 135 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 1: what I was meant for for a long time, until 136 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 1: I realized I wasn't. That I was living my life 137 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 1: for someone else, and my mom also wanted something different 138 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 1: for me. She kind of had to force me, like, hey, 139 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: go spread your wings. These are my wings. Go find 140 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: your own, you know. And at first I was like, 141 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: what the heck? It was so foreign for me, but 142 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:46,839 Speaker 1: it was the best thing she could have done for me, 143 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: because now I'm doing all these things and now I 144 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:53,319 Speaker 1: know what I meant to do. But again, I knew 145 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 1: I was going to do something big and something meaningful 146 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 1: and something with a lot of purpose, but it was 147 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:02,439 Speaker 1: through someone else. If that makes sense. But yeah, I 148 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: just and I would claim it. 149 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 3: Girl. 150 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 1: I was like, visit, I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna 151 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 1: have a book one day. This was years and years ago, 152 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 1: in two thousand and nine, guys, like I had it 153 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 1: on my vision board, I'm going to write a book. 154 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 1: I didn't know what it was about. And now I 155 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 1: have four books, you guys, so you really the law 156 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 1: of attraction is real, guys, so tap into it and 157 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:23,559 Speaker 1: really feed that. But thank you for your question. I 158 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 1: love that. Oh, very good questions, you, guys. I appreciate it. 159 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: I love how honest I can be with you all 160 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 1: on my podcast. That's the best part. And I hope 161 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 1: that I can help all of you by giving you 162 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: the best advice that I have in my heart, because 163 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: that's what I want. I want to help you, guys 164 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:42,319 Speaker 1: become the best versions of yourself. So I can help 165 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: a little bit. My pleasure. Thank you, guys, and I 166 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: will see you on the next episode of Dear Teekys. 167 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: Remember if you want to leave me a question, go 168 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:51,559 Speaker 1: to speak pipe dot com, Slash Cheekys and Chill Podcast. 169 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 1: I'd love to hear from you. This is a production 170 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:02,079 Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio and the Mikelit podcast Network. 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