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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we're scrubbing in.

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Speaker 1: We are back together in the same room, and you know,

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Speaker 1: I love that more than anything.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 3: It's been a minute.

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Speaker 1: It's been a minute.

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Speaker 3: The past couple of weeks. I've been separated from you, a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of weeks because I felt sick one week, then

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Speaker 1: you felt sick one week, and then you were home. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's a lot of weeks.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of weeks. But we're back. We're back,

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Speaker 3: and we're better than ever.

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Speaker 1: We are better than ever.

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Speaker 3: It's the first Monday of February.

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Speaker 1: I love the month of February.

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Speaker 3: Yeah week when Red Star was born.

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Speaker 1: Correct, so much significance of the month of February. And

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Speaker 1: you know what I did on Tutuo Touto, which.

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Speaker 3: Was two days ago.

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Speaker 1: No, no, that was a while ago. Last week Wednesday, Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 3: Thursday Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: So it was the day of some sort of moon portal.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 4: Technically, sure, you know, we all know. Everybody knows what

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Speaker 4: that was. Some moon portal.

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Speaker 1: There was some moon some moon portal. So what I

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Speaker 1: did was I made a list of twenty two things

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Speaker 1: that I'm grateful for and a list of twenty two

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Speaker 1: things that I'm manifesting. And I did that in my

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Speaker 1: notes page before I went to bed at night, and

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Speaker 1: it felt really good, and I just feel good about

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Speaker 1: this month, and yeah, it kind of feels like the

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Speaker 1: unofficial start of twenty twenty two.

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Speaker 2: Do you think someone could also do that on to

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Speaker 2: twenty two twenty two on the twenty second maybe? No?

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Speaker 1: Actually I was thinking about that, but the moon the

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Speaker 1: moon portal is not there. Oh are you plan? There's six?

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Speaker 2: Yes, crucial element correct, because I was thinking of doing

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Speaker 2: my manifestations and list.

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Speaker 1: On the twenty sec twenty second. Yeah, yeah, that was

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Speaker 1: a little impact, no.

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Speaker 2: Waste, No, because my favorite number is five and that

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Speaker 2: date has five twos in it.

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Speaker 1: But there's no portal that you know of that or

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Speaker 1: that you know of, right, yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't need a portal to manifest.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Tony, you seem like an expert on these moon portals.

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Speaker 4: Can you elaborate more on exactly what what is? Is

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Speaker 4: it a portal to another place because the portal is

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Speaker 4: a type of door.

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Speaker 1: No, then it's not a portal. It was a special

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Speaker 1: moon on tou tou tou two that I cannot.

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Speaker 2: It's interesting because what's the point of the manifesting without

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Speaker 2: knowing what the significances of the moon.

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Speaker 1: It's like Santa Claus. You know, no, you just don't.

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Speaker 2: Know about Santa Claus. We know he's a he had

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Speaker 2: a little different to you.

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Speaker 1: He might look different to me, but we believe it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what does he look like to you? He looks like

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Speaker 1: tim Malan to me.

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Speaker 3: Tim Malan is Santa Claus.

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Speaker 1: No, tim Alan is just like transitioning into Santa Claus,

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Speaker 1: like early phase to Malan Santa Claus. One. Okay, what

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Speaker 1: does he look like?

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Speaker 4: But he's heavy and has a white beard.

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Speaker 1: Not so heavy, partially heavy, a little tubby. So he's

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Speaker 1: a semi fit my fit sandirect semi fit Santa huh?

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Speaker 3: And does he have a beard?

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Speaker 1: We are digressing. This is not the point.

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Speaker 2: Point is is that you compared manifesting with the moon

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Speaker 2: that you don't know anything.

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Speaker 3: About, stand by Santa Claus.

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Speaker 2: Stand by No, I mean I could google it.

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Speaker 3: The whole point was that you seem like it was significant.

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Speaker 2: And so we were asking about it.

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Speaker 4: It's an interesting comparison because you know, you know, in

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Speaker 4: case there's moms with kids in the car. There are

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Speaker 4: many that think Santa Claus doesn't exist and isn't real.

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Speaker 4: Are you implying that this moon situation talking about may

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Speaker 4: not exist?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: Uh huh, So.

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Speaker 1: What else do you want to throw my way?

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Speaker 4: Well, you Santa Claus. That's why I was just.

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Speaker 1: Okay, maybe I should do the tooth fairy much better thing.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: That really cleared it up.

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Speaker 1: Got I'm here for you.

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Speaker 3: How are things? Hell's mom life?

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Speaker 1: Hell's mom life is great. I'm just as obsessed with

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Speaker 1: sleeps now solid from like eleven pm. We take her

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Speaker 1: to her final to her final like potty, and then

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Speaker 1: she sleeps all the way until sometimes like six or

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Speaker 1: seven am. So things are looking up. I'm back at

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Speaker 1: the I'm back in my workout routine.

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Speaker 3: I saw that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so so feeling good, you know. But I

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Speaker 1: will say I really am worried about myself having children

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Speaker 1: I can see and hear her, right. So we were

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Speaker 1: a nervous Nelly. I was checking the camera on my

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Speaker 1: phone obsessively, like I wasn't enjoying my I did enjoy

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Speaker 1: it myself, but like I felt as though I was

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Speaker 1: like she maybe yelped and cried a couple times, so

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Speaker 1: she was totally fine. But the whole time, I was

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Speaker 1: just like, this is a dog. They're meant to be alone.

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Speaker 1: Like she's in a crate. She's definitely safe. She's not gonna,

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean, nothing's gonna happen to her. And

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Speaker 1: I'm this stressed out being away from her for like

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Speaker 2: I imagine Sonny really appreciated her solo time, do you

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Speaker 2: think so? I don't know that she gets a lot

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Speaker 2: of solo time when when y'all are hovering.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we have her a lot, a lot of kisses.

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Speaker 1: She gets a lot of kisses, and I started panicking

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Speaker 1: that I haven't socialized her enough because it's like her

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Speaker 1: like firework shows and making her watch those. But I

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Speaker 1: don't know if that's the same effect. But where am

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Speaker 4: Where am I gonna get her to a Because you're

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Speaker 4: going to freak her out forever. There's nothing you can

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Speaker 1: We sneak it in there right before in the next

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Speaker 2: Like fireworks freak me out, like when I'm caught off guard.

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Speaker 2: So like Sonny is gonna it's a ride of passage

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Speaker 2: to you know, to freak out, to freak out.

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Speaker 4: I don't think Sonny is going to be the one

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Speaker 4: dog in the world that isn't freaked out by fireworks.

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Speaker 4: Your best bet what we do is we put a

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Speaker 4: they'll hear the soothing music because there is music for

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh what is it?

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Speaker 4: I don't know music for dogs. It's classical type music. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: the best you can do.

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Speaker 1: That's where we're at so pretty much. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I haven't really I think we can get back to

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Speaker 1: because Mama had some explosive situation. Happened What happened when

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Speaker 1: days blur together?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: But so I you know how like I had that

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Speaker 1: big moment where I was taking all these supplements and

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Speaker 1: I had like, Mark, what did I have in my

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Speaker 1: urine ilumin or no, what I have in my urine arsenic? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I was basically getting toisons. Yeah, so I'm very

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Speaker 1: nice I've been having a really nice situation daily. He's

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Speaker 1: all right, the perfect thing for you. Okay, great here.

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Speaker 1: I really believe in this product. There's it's you know,

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Speaker 1: the purest of the peer. You know, there's no bs

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you these samples for a week. You

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Speaker 3: I was like, who are you?

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Speaker 1: Who is this pharmacist? Oh okay, this is a red star.

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Speaker 3: This is a very professional exchange.

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Speaker 1: This is like the guy at the at the pharmacy. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: So like, okay, great. So I come home and I

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Speaker 1: look into those he what's in them? I was like,

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Speaker 1: explain to you when it hit me. It's like it

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Speaker 1: hit me and I was seeing like stars. It was like,

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Speaker 1: I need a bathroom, but I have a complex. I

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Speaker 1: can't go in public restroom. So I was like, I

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Speaker 1: I'm coming home. I need you to unlock the front

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Speaker 1: And I started to start panicking because I hit every

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Speaker 1: red light on my way and I'm going to go

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Speaker 1: on meditation music, like I had to like calm breathingly,

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, I was like.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well I found out he listened and then

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Speaker 1: There's nothing Red Star than that line right there. I'm

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Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is he wasn't even familiar with

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Speaker 1: Really proud of that. He hears that like a badge

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Speaker 3: I just assumed he'd know what it was.

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Speaker 4: But that should be disqualifying.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I need someone who.

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Speaker 4: But you were the veteran of the game. The fact

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Speaker 4: it's not brain surgery.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it's pretty tedious work, like you need

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Speaker 3: I just I don't know. It just threw me off

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Speaker 2: And then obviously Tanya's really intense.

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Speaker 3: Fans were like you was.

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Speaker 2: Looking at like the comments under that, like clip from

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Speaker 1: I know that's my favorite, and people like they're too close.

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Speaker 2: I would never do Amazing Race with the wrath that

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Speaker 3: So forgot about that element of it.

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Speaker 4: So who have you moved on to? If he's off

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Speaker 3: Still I'm still my sister's girlfriend Arden. She's still probably.

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Speaker 4: Garden, Okay. I mean it's not as like, if I'm

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Speaker 2: For the casting aspect of it. I'd go with Tanya

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Speaker 1: I just I don't know. Now that I've like assessed

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Speaker 4: No, I think that's easy. Actually, I think you just

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Speaker 4: you can figure that out while you're there.

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Speaker 2: Well, no, you don't have a phone or anything, so

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess you could you see the flags.

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Speaker 4: I think you could figure that out. You don't have

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Speaker 4: You're not going to memorize all of the flags.

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Speaker 1: You go to multiple countries on an amazing race.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, it's tiny, it's amazing.

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Speaker 3: All right, you're out, you're out, two thousand and one.

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Speaker 1: You love my cup of tea. You've never seen it,

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Speaker 1: I know, But I'm just saying, the concept is someone told.

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Speaker 2: You there the concept of breaking bad. Would you say, oh,

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Speaker 2: that's my cup of tea? No, don't even say it.

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Speaker 2: Don't even say it.

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Speaker 3: You're a liar.

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Speaker 1: No, you're right, you're right.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you would get sucked into the amazing race. You

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Speaker 4: watch that love Island garbage, you would get sucked into

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Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna need to take a step back

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Speaker 1: It is wonderful, amazing television. I have got to tell you,

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Speaker 1: I have never been happier. We mistakenly stumbled upon this

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Speaker 1: It's like very adult, it's very mature. It's love, which

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Speaker 1: I love. It's so good. So next time you want

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Speaker 4: Garbage, I'm simply saying that a Love Island fan is

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Speaker 4: That's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna take that judge attitude.

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Speaker 2: No, I think what he's saying is your judge attitude.

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Speaker 4: Is what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: You know, I just whatever, I just you know, you

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Speaker 1: love what you love.

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Speaker 2: I love what I love, and sometimes you love something

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Speaker 3: Is what we're trying to present.

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Speaker 1: But why did I go down that path?

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Speaker 2: It's just so that we could race and race the

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Speaker 4: And win a million bucks or whatever it is, five hundred.

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Speaker 1: I would rather do Fear Factor with you, because I'm

445
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Speaker 1: pretty fearless.

446
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Speaker 4: That show's not being on for fifteen years.

447
00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,840
Speaker 1: Oh really they brought it back for a second.

448
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Speaker 2: I think maybe I wish they'd let us you like

449
00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:02,960
Speaker 2: team Duo and wipe out, because that'd also be.

450
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Speaker 1: I could probably do wipe out. But like, puzzles are

451
00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:11,679
Speaker 1: not my thing. Flags and puzzles.

452
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Speaker 2: That's that's like the last part of the race where

453
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,560
Speaker 2: they asked the question, like the puzzles and stuff, So.

454
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Speaker 1: Would not like not having a phone and not knowing

455
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Speaker 1: where I'm going and how long I'm going to be gone,

456
00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:22,520
Speaker 1: Like it's all all that.

457
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Speaker 4: You wouldn't know. You get an envelope and it tells

458
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Speaker 4: you you got to get to Bulgaria. Go and you

459
00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:31,280
Speaker 4: get to Lax and you have two choices of flights.

460
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Speaker 4: You try to get the first flight to the Bulgaria,

461
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Speaker 4: and you get to Bulgaria and it says go to

462
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Speaker 4: the town square and do something else. And then that's

463
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Speaker 4: how the race works, goes on.

464
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Speaker 3: And not looking good expression.

465
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Speaker 4: There are elements of scavenger hunt to it.

466
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Speaker 2: For sure, But then you do things like you choose

467
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Speaker 2: one you get a clue of what the date or

468
00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:53,760
Speaker 2: the date the game or hint is, and then you

469
00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:55,439
Speaker 2: have to choose one person, but you don't know what

470
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Speaker 2: it's going to be. So like let's say someone's scared

471
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Speaker 2: of heights, but they were chosen to do the skydiving miss.

472
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Speaker 3: They have to just do it. They can't switch or anything.

473
00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:05,080
Speaker 1: Yeah it's gonna be no, but doesn't that sound good?

474
00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:06,199
Speaker 4: All right?

475
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:09,760
Speaker 3: Moving on, gotta find the next.

476
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Speaker 1: Take a right star. I think he's a great partner.

477
00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:13,280
Speaker 1: He loves that stuff.

478
00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:17,919
Speaker 2: I can't deal with your the Tanya fans going after me.

479
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:21,240
Speaker 3: I gotta get stronger mentally for that.

480
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Speaker 1: I would bless it. It would be on my upon

481
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Speaker 1: my blessing, I know.

482
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, that that that was something that I navigated

483
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Speaker 2: mentally last time we were talking. But I do want

484
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Speaker 2: to take a break and then I want to talk

485
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Speaker 2: about just like that and other things that we've had

486
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Speaker 2: going on. Great, we'll take a break. We'll be right back,

487
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 2: all right. So did you I know Easton is caught up?

488
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Speaker 3: Are you caught up?

489
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:04,120
Speaker 2: One?

490
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 3: Just like that?

491
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Speaker 1: I didn't watch the finale yet.

492
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 3: Okay, Well it's okay.

493
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 1: You can spoil it. Yeah, it's okay.

494
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Speaker 2: Okay, Easton, you can have the floor of like your

495
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 2: highs and lows and what you thought.

496
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Speaker 5: Okay, thank you, Becca. I liked the finale. I did

497
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Speaker 5: that the last you know. There's a lot of this

498
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Speaker 5: sentiment is popular on the internet. The last few episodes

499
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:31,919
Speaker 5: have been good. The finale was good. There were some

500
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 5: parts that Obviously the entire show is a disappointment, so

501
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 5: there's some parts that weren't great.

502
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Speaker 3: But I will say.

503
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Speaker 5: The standout moment from the show is Chay Dia is

504
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 5: a popular character as a musical moment in the in

505
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:50,720
Speaker 5: this program, and I'm a I'm a big Beach Boys fan.

506
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 5: I love everything the Beach Boys do. Sure, we're sitting

507
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 5: there watching Shay and they get up there in the

508
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 5: first few notes of my favorite Beach Boys song, California

509
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 5: Girl starts playing and I'm like, no, why is this happening?

510
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:02,880
Speaker 4: Why?

511
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 5: I felt personally attacked by by the producers at HBO Max.

512
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 5: I had to watch Chad has perform California Girls. Fine performance,

513
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,639
Speaker 5: I think objectively, I didn't realize Shay had such a voice,

514
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 5: but the whole scene was was not fun. That was

515
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 5: That was my my low of that of the finale,

516
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,640
Speaker 5: I think was Chay performing California Girls.

517
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:24,399
Speaker 2: Uh.

518
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:29,199
Speaker 5: And then the there were I texted back about this.

519
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 5: There were several parts that gave me that made me

520
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 5: well up with tears. I didn't cry, but I willed

521
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 5: up and I got some pretty strong chills.

522
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 1: And I'm going to be a mass strong.

523
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Speaker 5: Strong chills Beck, I'm interested in your take on this.

524
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:47,120
Speaker 5: Near the end of the episode of the finale, and

525
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,920
Speaker 5: we're in spoiler uh country, now we're in spoiler territory.

526
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 2: Uh.

527
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 5: Carrie goes to Paris to spread BIG's ashes and how's

528
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 5: a weird conversation with Bigg's brother which I thought, I

529
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 5: don't know that rubbed me the wrong way, Like Carrie

530
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:09,679
Speaker 5: plays a victim a lot, and that always bothers me sorry,

531
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,119
Speaker 5: Like Bigg's brother is like, hey, I'm trying to get

532
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 5: a hold of you to find out what's happening with

533
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 5: like my brother's remains, and Carrie's like, I cannot deal

534
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 5: with this right now, and I'm like.

535
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 1: Come on, give the man a break.

536
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,400
Speaker 5: So she goes to Paris to spread the ashes and

537
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:25,919
Speaker 5: she does it, and then she texts Samantha and says,

538
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 5: do you want to meet I'd like to see you.

539
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 5: I'm in Paris, and Samantha says, let's do it or

540
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 5: something like that, and it's implied that they're going to

541
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 5: meet up the next day, and like seeing that got me,

542
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 5: gave me chills, and I got excited knowing that there's

543
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Speaker 5: no way in hell that's like we're going to see

544
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 5: this interaction with the Invariable season two. I just feel

545
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 5: like it's not going to happen. And then the final

546
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 5: moment of the episode is Shay has abandoned the podcast

547
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,120
Speaker 5: to go to California as a reference in the song

548
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 5: California Girls, and Carrie has taken over the podcast and

549
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 5: she closes it out by say I'm Carrie Bradshaw and

550
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 5: this is sex in the City and that.

551
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Speaker 4: That got me.

552
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's her new podcast.

553
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,159
Speaker 2: I got me excited. Cute.

554
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 5: I thought that was great, and.

555
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,119
Speaker 1: You want to say that, I do feel very validated

556
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 1: because I got a multiple amount of dms from scrubbers

557
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,439
Speaker 1: that said they too did not watch and just like

558
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 1: that because of your terrible reviews of it, and I

559
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 1: sent you guys on screenshots. So I feel very validated

560
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 1: in my whatever that is.

561
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Speaker 2: I feel as though Easton and I are owed a

562
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Speaker 2: thank you because every single one of y'all who have

563
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 2: enjoyed it have enjoyed it because your expectations were so

564
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 2: low because of what we said. We set you up

565
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:46,879
Speaker 2: to enjoy the show, and you're welcome. I have a

566
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 2: similar take as Easton. Basically the Chands. It took me

567
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 2: back to the musical episode of Grey's Anatomy. Sada Ramirez

568
00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:01,120
Speaker 2: has an amazing voice, but it was there was just

569
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,159
Speaker 2: so much happening with the Chad as character.

570
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,679
Speaker 3: And there was actually actually an article that came out.

571
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 1: Where, yeah, I saw that.

572
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:13,600
Speaker 2: It is crazy, and I feel bad for Sader Ramirez

573
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 2: because in my mind I'm thinking, you you do the character,

574
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:21,360
Speaker 2: You play the character as much as you can with

575
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:25,160
Speaker 2: what you're given, and I don't know that they knew

576
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:25,679
Speaker 2: they would be.

577
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 1: No, you don't come into a script knowing you're gonna

578
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 1: break up Miranda's marriage. And I don't think that character

579
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:36,360
Speaker 1: was meant to be hated, no love it loved. Well, yeah,

580
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 1: that's the thing. Yeah, but like not, I don't think

581
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,479
Speaker 1: to this extent. There's no way to this extent.

582
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:47,120
Speaker 2: But I also remember how at the very beginning when

583
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 2: it started, and I was saying how I thought Miranda

584
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 2: would dye her hair red again.

585
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 3: I didn't know it was gonna be till the.

586
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:59,360
Speaker 2: Last episode, but I felt very validated in that guest, what.

587
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: The podcast it's called Sex and City. Miranda's got to

588
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 1: run back. I mean, season two is gonna be popping'.

589
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:05,880
Speaker 3: But here's the thing.

590
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 2: I read an article where Sarah Jessica Parker was like,

591
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 2: didn't does not want Kim Cattrall to come back onto

592
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 2: the show, like she would not want her there basically

593
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 2: because of things she said publicly, Nor do I honestly.

594
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, I saw that too. I read a thing that

595
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 4: said the door is not open to return.

596
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:28,239
Speaker 1: That's what im And then Carrie over on how I

597
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: Met your Brother.

598
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:33,719
Speaker 2: Wait, but then Carrie randomly gets father, randomly gets together

599
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:35,120
Speaker 2: with the podcast.

600
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 3: Is he the producer on the show?

601
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 5: I think he's the producer.

602
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, so hot and.

603
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 4: Podcasts are really hot.

604
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:49,679
Speaker 2: That's a prerequisite, and then they get together. But that

605
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 2: was kind of like totally random and thrown in there.

606
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:54,719
Speaker 2: I thought we were gonna see Aiden Aiden. I know

607
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 2: Easton's happy about it, but Aiden never shows up. And

608
00:27:58,080 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 2: I hated the way that they If I could go,

609
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 2: these are the things I would change. Chad is gone.

610
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 2: I wish they would have addressed stan Stanley's exit, you know,

611
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 2: I feel.

612
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: Like they the way they did that was really kind

613
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: of seamless because he's not, like I know in real

614
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 1: life what happened. But I think if they were gonna

615
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,199
Speaker 1: throw another death on us after the big death, I

616
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:23,879
Speaker 1: think it would have been a lot. It would have

617
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 1: just been a lot of heaviness on the show, and

618
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 1: I feel like the way they addressed it was very seamless,

619
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Speaker 1: and having Anthony just kind of step into his role

620
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: was I was like quite nice.

621
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what I would have done as

622
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 2: an alter alternative. I just didn't love that. And then

623
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 2: I know they had to cut big out of the

624
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 2: last scenes, but there was like if those moments felt

625
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 2: so emotional but kind.

626
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: Of felt funny cut that man out too.

627
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 2: But there were scenes where you could you saw what

628
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 2: like knowing that he was cut out of it, you

629
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: kind of saw what what it was gonna be, which

630
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 2: would have been very like emotional.

631
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 3: Just sucks that how things went down, you know.

632
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 5: I do want to say really quick about Stanford. I felt, yeah,

633
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 5: the Stanford. I felt that was the way they dealt

634
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 5: with it. And I think I said this before, but

635
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 5: it felt like there was like a contract dispute or

636
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 5: something like it felt like the actor left because like

637
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 5: the left abruptly as opposed to the actor died, and

638
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 5: I wanted to see not a big deal tribute or something,

639
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 5: but like, you know something, so the way they do

640
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 5: it fast and furious. When Paul Walker died, they didn't

641
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 5: kill him. They just like was like they did this

642
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 5: like really touching moment or like, oh, we're sending him

643
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 5: off to like live his life outside of this movie.

644
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 5: And I was hoping for something like that. Besides, Stanford

645
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 5: is leaving it O going I've gone to Tokyo.

646
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 1: Don't they try to dress? It may mean they a

647
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: dressed it in the Doctor Dwarfs the documentary. No, there's

648
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: a documentary. They probably dressed in the documentary of sex

649
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 1: is It. It came out the stand light as the finale.

650
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 3: I know what I'm doing tonight.

651
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think they probably addressed it there.

652
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 5: We got to talk about the they Mitzvah, which I

653
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 5: really enjoyed. I thought that was great. They used a

654
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 5: trans rabbi, which I really liked. I was probably my

655
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 5: favorite character of the entire episode. I can't place her

656
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 5: name now, but I love the character. And at first

657
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 5: I was really irritated because they have a non gender

658
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 5: mitzvah for Rock Charlotte's child, and Rock decides at the

659
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 5: very last minute they don't want to go up and

660
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 5: do the reading or anything any of the festivities, and

661
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 5: Charlotte and Harry are understandably frustrated, and I was like, Oh,

662
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 5: come on, Rock, like just do it. I was really

663
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 5: I was like, Rock is such a bread I don't

664
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Speaker 5: like this at all. And then Charlotte gets up and

665
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 5: does it herself, and I thought that was actually cute,

666
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 5: and I really enjoyed that whole the whole they mitzvah scene.

667
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 5: I really enjoyed that was a.

668
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 3: Very Tanya thing.

669
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 2: If Tanya's kid didn't want to go up and do it,

670
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 2: Tany'll be like, I'll okay, I'll go.

671
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 3: That's where I remember it.

672
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 1: Is take one for the team to step in.

673
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 4: Can you come to I saw some more scuttle butt

674
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 4: about the unrealistic portrayal of a podcast production and taking

675
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 4: live phone calls and stuff like that. Any any thoughts

676
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 4: on that because that's been a bugaboo of mine for decades.

677
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 4: It's any accurate radio presentations on television. So what were

678
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 4: your thoughts on that?

679
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 2: Well, so basically it was it was I would compare

680
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: it to what I would imagine y'all do when you

681
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 2: have a live caller calling him for the radio, right,

682
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 2: and they just sit on.

683
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 3: We've had live callers on the podcast.

684
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we have because we're a radio show and

685
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 4: so we have the technology to do that. But is

686
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 4: that common on other radio shows? Podcasts don't even know.

687
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 5: They record the podcast in a very nice looking studio

688
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 5: that has a controller room and everything. It looks like, yeah,

689
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 5: so I don't think it's unlikely they could take phone calls.

690
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 5: It looks like they have all the equipment there. The

691
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 5: actually something I really liked about that is that when

692
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 5: they were doing the podcast scenes, you could hear it

693
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 5: sounded like they were using the audio from the microphones

694
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 5: and not from like a boom, and it sounded great.

695
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 5: It sounded really warm, it sounded really compressed. I really

696
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 5: I thought that was great, and because not a lot

697
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 5: of shows will like have a podcast or a radio show,

698
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 5: and it's like there, the audio sounds exactly the same

699
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 5: from when they're just walking down the hallway. So I

700
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 5: thought that was a nice time.

701
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 2: I appreciate the thoughtfulness behind that. But I've been reading

702
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 2: rumors that Cali and Arizona might be coming back to

703
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 2: Grace What but where are these articles.

704
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 3: In the deep deep spoiler?

705
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: Wait, you can get into Desoi because I just started

706
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: following them yesterday and I'm.

707
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 3: Des moins, what's it cool?

708
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 2: Wow?

709
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 1: Des Mois, it's like the real life gossip Girl where

710
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 1: people like send in little tips, like anonymous tips, and

711
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 1: they basically screenshot them and post them. There's a whole

712
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: Haley Bieber scuttle that went on, yes, but what uh

713
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 1: So apparently she went to a Casey Musgraves concert all

714
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: by herself and she was like sitting in a suite,

715
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: like literally in a suite by herself, and like people

716
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: were taking photos and sending them to Dunois, being like

717
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 1: Haley Biaber spotted into suite by herself for the Casey

718
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 1: Musgrave show the entire time, and so like that was

719
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 1: like the report on Denois and so all these rumors

720
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 1: started spreading that her and Justin are on the rock.

721
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 1: She doesn't have any friends, like all this stuff because

722
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 1: she like went to this show by herself. So I

723
00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 1: did some like digging around, and Haley Biaber, like, after

724
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: all this stuff was out on Desois posted like a

725
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: thing about Justin with hard eyes, so like, okay, no

726
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 1: we're not on the rock. We're fine. Here's bust that rumor.

727
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:39,120
Speaker 1: And then she like posted a video of the Casey

728
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 1: Musgrave show saying sometimes you just got to roll up

729
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 1: to a concert by herself.

730
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 2: I respect, I have no issue with it.

731
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 1: It was so funny how the whole thing came from

732
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: these like and they send photos of like Haley in

733
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 1: the suite by herself. I was like, this is a

734
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: real life gossip girl and I'm so into it.

735
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 2: That's a slow news day though, because like I would

736
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 2: be so happy to go sit in a swing and

737
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 2: listen to like my like one of my favorite artists,

738
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 2: by myself, the snacks. I want to know, you would

739
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 2: not this, I would you would not just go of

740
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 2: movies by myself all the time.

741
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:13,279
Speaker 1: Movie and a concert are like comparing a tree and

742
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:14,720
Speaker 1: a car.

743
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 3: How entertainment? Now?

744
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 1: The movie is like you don't talk, you go. It's

745
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 1: very like solo esque vibes. A concert you like dance

746
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 1: and you sing, and you like if you.

747
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 3: Don't want to dance or sing or drink and you

748
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 3: just wanted to listen and enjoy the sounds.

749
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 1: Okay?

750
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 4: Is it different because she's a big celebrity, Like, she's

751
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 4: not going to go and mingle amongst the people by herself.

752
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,879
Speaker 4: She has access to a suite. Now, I could see

753
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 4: going to a concert in a suite by myself, going

754
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,720
Speaker 4: to a concert and being in the main seating area

755
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,479
Speaker 4: by myself, I think that would be a lot right.

756
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I was gonna say.

757
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 2: I honestly see, if you were someone who wasn't famous

758
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 2: on her level and you went by yourself and you're

759
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 2: with people who are as excited about the artists and

760
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 2: the music, I think that's like a you could bond

761
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 2: with people and really like make connections. But when you're

762
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 2: famous like her, she can't just go stand in the pit,

763
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 2: you know. But she wanted to see this concert and

764
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 2: knowing maybe no one was available.

765
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I go to baseball games by myself, so I

766
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 4: can't really judge any of this.

767
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 3: Is that similar?

768
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I can't speak on that because

769
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: I'm not a sporting event connoisseur.

770
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 4: So I know it's a little weird. I mean, I

771
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 4: love it, and if I'm in a strange city, like

772
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 4: when we used to travel for American Island, this ball

773
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 4: game going on and going to the ball game, I

774
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 4: love baseball, But I know it's a little weird because

775
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 4: I would notice that there are families near me and

776
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 4: their kids got anywhere within eight seats of me. They

777
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:48,240
Speaker 4: would bring the kid back very quickly.

778
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:49,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

779
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:52,439
Speaker 4: I was clearly the creepy loaner at the ball game. Yeah,

780
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 4: in the eyes of the other parents.

781
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've got a Disneyland alone number of times I

782
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 5: know how that is.

783
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, this sight itself, it's like just tells you, Katy

784
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 1: per Katy Perris, wotted here? They tell you, Like the

785
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,959
Speaker 1: restaurant apparently Layton mister and Adam Brody went to dinner

786
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:10,800
Speaker 1: in Santamonica and sound on the same side of the table.

787
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 4: I'm just oh, I smell a trending report.

788
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: Got yeah, you bet, just so yeah. I've really just

789
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:20,760
Speaker 1: been enjoying that account.

790
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 3: Interesting, is it like mean, gross of beers? It just

791
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 3: like hard to say.

792
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: I've only been following it for about twenty four hours,

793
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: so right now seems very benign. But we'll see interesting.

794
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 4: Let me give you the evidence, the evidence that that

795
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 4: there's people think Cally in Arizona might be returning. They

796
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:39,720
Speaker 4: asked Sataamirez back in December if they would ever consider returning,

797
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 4: and they said absolutely. And then the girl who plays

798
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 4: their daughter, the actress who plays their daughter so teased

799
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 4: big news on her social media. It seems that those

800
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 4: two things together are fueling this rumor.

801
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know on Twitter, how it'll show you

802
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 2: what's trending based on like the accounts that you follow.

803
00:36:58,719 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 3: I always get grazed at of.

804
00:36:59,920 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 2: Me news online, like people trending tweets about Grayce and

805
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 2: so I saw the photo of Sophia saying big news

806
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 2: and they were like, oh my gosh, Kelleen Arizona and

807
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 2: Sophia are coming back.

808
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 4: She wrote super excited to my Grace Anatomy fans, I

809
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 4: have some big news coming. Hope you are like it

810
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,760
Speaker 4: hashtag Sophia Robin's Sloan Torres.

811
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 2: But do you think they will write in soder Ramirez, Like,

812
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 2: do you think they will that that will be part

813
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 2: of their storyline of.

814
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 1: The being like like hanging out of Sex and City

815
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: and then come back.

816
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 2: No? No, no, Like so when when Soderramirs left Grace Anatomy,

817
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 2: she's still, as far as I know, identified as she

818
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:48,359
Speaker 2: her and now identifies as non binary. So I wonder

819
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:53,280
Speaker 2: if they'll write, oh if if they'll write that in Well,

820
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 2: because they did for Sex and the City. I mean

821
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 2: that was Chaddaz's character. I mean storyline, h only detail

822
00:37:59,400 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 2: about the character.

823
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't think it's mandatory. I think you

824
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 4: could play other parts, you can play other roles, and

825
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,479
Speaker 4: it's up to the writers if Calie Torres has gone

826
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 4: on that journey or not. I would imagine that was.

827
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 1: Going to be a collaborative effort.

828
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

829
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:17,760
Speaker 2: I always felt like, yeah, they were all very involved

830
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 2: in everything, like the production of things too. So anyways,

831
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:26,879
Speaker 2: I think that's all I have on anything else. I've

832
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 2: read two I've read two books in the last week,

833
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 2: so that's pretty like I normally read like one book

834
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 2: every year or something. Wow.

835
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: I'm impressed.

836
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:38,319
Speaker 2: Thank you.

837
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 3: That's not slow.

838
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 4: Anything you'd recommend?

839
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

840
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 2: Verity and Ugly Love by Colleen Hoover very different books,

841
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 2: but like equally, couldn't.

842
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 3: Read them in a day.

843
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: Wow.

844
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 2: And then I just started one hundred and one Essays

845
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 2: that Will Change Your Life.

846
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 1: Wow.

847
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:03,280
Speaker 2: Becca, is that one's more of like like self like betterment, growth,

848
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 2: growth book? You know, the other ones were for entertainment,

849
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:09,959
Speaker 2: So I'll probably read this one a little slower.

850
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 1: To really soak it oak it in. Yeah. I like that.

851
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, we used to do this on Facebook. But I

852
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 4: just read a book called The Push. Oh right, Ashley Audrain.

853
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 4: It's it's it's kind of dark. It's about a desperate mother.

854
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 4: Uh so if you have you know, that might not

855
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 4: be for everybody, but I thought it was very good.

856
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 4: And I just started Anxious People by Frederic Backerman, which

857
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 4: is excellent so far.

858
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:37,759
Speaker 2: Do you This kind of leads into a topic I

859
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,240
Speaker 2: was thinking about. So I went to a birthday party

860
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 2: the other night and I left and I find myself.

861
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 1: For the party.

862
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:49,359
Speaker 2: Jenna A Scotto, Where did you do that Saturday night?

863
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 3: Really? Yeah?

864
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 1: Is that when you invited me over?

865
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 5: No?

866
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 1: That was Friday? Uh huh oh yeah yeah, okay, all

867
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: right together. I just needed to I needed to know

868
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: the birthday where.

869
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 2: I felt left out for a second, I did so

870
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:09,280
Speaker 2: I left and I got home and I was thinking about,

871
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 2: like all my conversations I had, and wondering if I

872
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 2: was like obnoxious or like we played games, I was

873
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 2: like questioning if I was too competitive, and I was thinking,

874
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 2: I do that.

875
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 3: Pretty much after any social interaction.

876
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 2: I like question myself and like the conversations I had

877
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 2: and like replay them to see if I was, like

878
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:31,359
Speaker 2: if I talk too much, or if I asked enough

879
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:34,919
Speaker 2: questions about the person and didn't talk about myself too much.

880
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: Really how exhausting, I know.

881
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 2: And I was thinking, what is it like to live

882
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 2: in such peace where you don't replay those things?

883
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:44,959
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something.

884
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 3: I know, you don't live in peace.

885
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I don't do that at all.

886
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 1: I don't replay any of those things in my head,

887
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 1: but I don't live I don't. I don't. I think exactly.

888
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 2: I was just like, there are people who leave social

889
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 2: things and they never think about it again. They don't

890
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 2: think about those conversations again. They just move on. They

891
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 2: don't consider how they appeared or what people thought about them.

892
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 3: And I thought, what a life? What a life? To

893
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 3: go through life?

894
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 4: Not?

895
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:17,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, but everybody has their things, you know what I mean,

896
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 1: Like I don't have that. I can leave a party,

897
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 1: and I can leave a social interaction and just not

898
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: think twice about it, but then I'll overthink five million

899
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 1: other things. So you know, to each his zone, to

900
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 1: each its own peaks and valleys.

901
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 2: Peaks and valleys. Well, yeah, that's that, Okay. I think

902
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 2: we are going to take a break in. Then we

903
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 2: have an email. All right, we are back mark it's

904
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 2: email time.

905
00:41:57,920 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 4: All right, beca thank you very much. This is an

906
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 4: onomous email and those are always interesting. So I wanted

907
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 4: to ask you, guys, how you cope with jealousy if

908
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 4: you're the jealous type. I love my boyfriend and I

909
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 4: truly believe he loves me. I know I'm overly jealous,

910
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 4: but when we first started dating, he made comments I

911
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 4: think are inappropriate to tell a girlfriend. For context, it

912
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,840
Speaker 4: would be something like oh the Shakira j lo a

913
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:24,919
Speaker 4: halftime show is something? Or oh, jee've no salmahay I kissed,

914
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 4: celebrity crush, stuff like that. The tone in his voice

915
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 4: made it clear what he meant by those things, and

916
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,879
Speaker 4: I keep hearing those comments in my head. I've called

917
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 4: him out on it. He immediately apologizes he's gotten one

918
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 4: hundred percent better at not making those comments. But as

919
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 4: to the point now where if a naked girl comes

920
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 4: on TV, I'm getting insecure. Since I know most men,

921
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 4: including him, love seeing big boobs or a nice butt,

922
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 4: I fear that he's going to fantasize about them and

923
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,359
Speaker 4: not me. Do you have any tools for getting over

924
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 4: the feelings of jealousy or anger and getting those and

925
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 4: getting that voice out of my head.

926
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: It's a great question because I think everybody on some

927
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 1: level feel some sort of jealousy, you know, like, no

928
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 1: matter and I could be wrong, but I think no

929
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 1: matter how secure or good or loving, your relationship is

930
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 1: like you're gonna be watching something, there's gonna be a

931
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:15,799
Speaker 1: hot girl on the screen. I don't know, like I

932
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: think it just happens. Uh. I'm like stumped on this

933
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 1: one because I think those feelings are natural. I don't

934
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: think that you should worry about those feelings or that

935
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 1: you should think that your boyfriend is because he says

936
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: something somebody's hot, is gonna have any thought of cheating

937
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:37,800
Speaker 1: on you or wanting that person. I think it's just natural.

938
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 1: And I don't think I don't think you need to

939
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:43,239
Speaker 1: worry about him saying those things, and I don't I

940
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 1: don't think you should worry about yourself feeling those things,

941
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 1: and let yourself feel those things, but also just don't

942
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 1: let it ruin your time or ruin your relationship.

943
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean they're.

944
00:43:56,640 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 2: I would consider myself kind of a jealous person. But

945
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:06,319
Speaker 2: I also think that we both acknowledge ninety five P

946
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 2: and I both acknowledge when someone's attractive, and it's never

947
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 2: in a way of being like, oh I want to

948
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 2: sleep with them. It's just like they're beautiful, like wow,

949
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 2: they have an amazing body, or like you know, it's

950
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:21,759
Speaker 2: just I think acknowledging people's beauty is not does not

951
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 2: diminish your own beauty. And I think it's like, if

952
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 2: he's saying things and doing things that make you feel

953
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 2: secure in yourself, like, then what he's saying about celebrities

954
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 2: who are just like celebrities, are beautiful people, and on

955
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 2: top of them being beautiful, they're on our screens and

956
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:42,839
Speaker 2: they have this element of star quality or whatever, and

957
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,319
Speaker 2: I mean it's very natural to acknowledge their beauty. If

958
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 2: he's saying things that are inappropriate and then he's not

959
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,879
Speaker 2: balancing that out with complimenting you or making you feel

960
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 2: good about yourself, then maybe you can have a conversation

961
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 2: and just being hey, I would like to feel those

962
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 2: things I want you to. I want to hear this

963
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 2: things about me and just to like let him know

964
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:06,480
Speaker 2: that you would like to hear words of affirmation. Maybe

965
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 2: that's where you receive love the most, and therefore, when

966
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 2: he's saying it about someone else, you take it to

967
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 2: mean that he doesn't feel that about you. So I

968
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 2: don't think that I'm with Tanya. I think it's really

969
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 2: normal and natural to have those moments of jealousy. And

970
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 2: sometimes I react differently depending on like if I'm on

971
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 2: my period or something, I'm like, what do you mean?

972
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 3: Like I overthink things that I hear.

973
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 2: But the truth is is that he's with you, he's

974
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 2: probably fantasizing about you, and what y'all do together and

975
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 2: not about you know, maybe the guy's cable chime in

976
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 2: and be like, that's not accurate at all.

977
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 4: No, it's funny early in a relationship where you're kind

978
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 4: of testing the waters up because there are relationships like

979
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:52,359
Speaker 4: that where a guy can say, man, that should care

980
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 4: us hot and the woman can say, oh my god,

981
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 4: that chanting titem is so hot, and that's fine. It's

982
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 4: totally normal for them. So you're kind of testing the

983
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 4: waters and so when you shut that down, he respected

984
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 4: that and that that's great. It's a big world out there.

985
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:07,360
Speaker 4: There's always going to be someone prettier than you're, smarter

986
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 4: than you're, funnier than you're with a better body than you.

987
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 4: That's always going to be the case. So you can

988
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 4: torture yourself forever. He loves you, and he loves you

989
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 4: for exactly who you are, and he loves what you are,

990
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 4: and he loves you physically and emotionally and all that stuff.

991
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 4: And I don't know if that helps or not, because

992
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:23,880
Speaker 4: I know this is something a lot of people deal with.

993
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 1: Everybody deals with it, and it's so it's so normal.

994
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: So it's almost just like let yourself feel and I

995
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 1: don't even think there's anything to like it. Just have

996
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,240
Speaker 1: faith in your in your relationship and in your bond

997
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 1: and your connection. But also it's totally normal. I think

998
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 1: even the most confident, beautiful people of the world have

999
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: moments of jealousy, you know what I mean. And I

1000
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 1: think it's just it's kind of one of those things

1001
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:48,799
Speaker 1: where it is what it is, as long as it's

1002
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: not crossing the line.

1003
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:50,359
Speaker 3: I was gonna say.

1004
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 2: And also as long as it's not making you like

1005
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 2: question everything or make you feel like you're not good enough.

1006
00:46:56,800 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 3: Like I mean, at a certain point.

1007
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 2: If it gets to that, you have to address it

1008
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 2: or acknowledge it. But when when there's like a hot,

1009
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:08,879
Speaker 2: hot person on the screen, I enjoy it and then

1010
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 2: I don't think about it again. Really like I can

1011
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 2: be like, Wow, they're really beautiful or really hot, and

1012
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 2: then my mind moves on. So I don't think you should.

1013
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 2: I doubt he's putting as much thought into it as

1014
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 2: you think he's putting into it.

1015
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, guys are weird humans.

1016
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 4: That's not the message here.

1017
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 3: Also, let us not forget if Olivia.

1018
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:39,839
Speaker 1: Colpo, Yeah, yeah, that should be like he had no

1019
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 1: one's safe no, I think like, for like, I don't know,

1020
00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: if there was a really hot guy that I saw

1021
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 1: they like came out fully nake. I saw his wiener

1022
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 1: on TV, I would not be aroused by it. Yeah,

1023
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 1: Like I'd be like, whoa, I just saw a guy's penis.

1024
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,799
Speaker 3: So what did you used to say about Devin saws and.

1025
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 1: Know it's in now? And then yeah, yeah you say

1026
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:04,919
Speaker 1: you saw you saw his balls? No, what'll sack?

1027
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,800
Speaker 3: No, there are different words to you that we'd.

1028
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 2: Always like a hint of ween or sweep.

1029
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 3: I don't know. So you just see when you're like whoaen.

1030
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 1: Also, when I was like thirteen saying ween on TV,

1031
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: it was like much more exciting than it is now.

1032
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,760
Speaker 2: All right, cool, Well that's the end of this week's podcast.

1033
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 2: We have a double podcast this week. We have coach

1034
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 2: Monica from Cheer, which is just.

1035
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 3: My dream.

1036
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 2: I begged for this to happen. So we'll be back

1037
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 2: Thursday with a new episode.

1038
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 3: I hope you have a great week and we'll see

1039
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:44,839
Speaker 3: you later.

1040
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 1: Love you bye, love you bye.