Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effects.
Speaker 2: Oh shit, just like that, we back on the air.
Speaker 1: Welcome back to you had another carefully reckless episode with
Speaker 1: your girl, Jess.
Speaker 2: Hilarious. What are we doing?
Speaker 1: I'll be fixing mess and we got one. Listen my baby,
Speaker 1: my baby, I'm in here.
Speaker 2: What say? Let's say what's up Taylor? You all say?
Speaker 2: What's up on my girl? What's she here?
Speaker 1: Even more pregnant than she was two weeks ago? So
Speaker 1: she gonna be in and out y'all because she is
Speaker 1: annoyed as fuck. She got a little baby up in there?
Speaker 2: What you have a girl?
Speaker 3: Oh? Can we know? Yeah, I have a new boy.
Speaker 2: She's having a little boy. So she's about to be
Speaker 2: a bit sorry talking about that. My god.
Speaker 1: Boys make you so mean. In my opinion, I was
Speaker 1: mean when I was pregnant with ash.
Speaker 2: I wasn't. Do you think I was mean when I
Speaker 2: was pregnant with Marley? No, I wasn't mean.
Speaker 3: I didn't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I wasn't mean. I just was like over everything.
Speaker 1: I wasn't mean, though, I just was like, y'all getting
Speaker 1: on my motherfucking nerves all right, So we have a
Speaker 1: voice memo, y'all. It's the first one in a long time.
Speaker 1: I think it's the first one in season four that
Speaker 1: we had. I ain't have a voice memo since like
Speaker 1: season two, I think either way.
Speaker 2: But let's get straight into it. Let me sing hey.
Speaker 4: Girl, Hey, okay, es he picks my mess and you're
Speaker 4: gonna be like, what the fuck? It's not even mess,
Speaker 4: it's really pissed. Okay, it's really more borderline shit. Yeah,
Speaker 4: let me get it started, because I ain't trying to hold.
Speaker 3: You, Okay.
Speaker 4: So I'm gonna try to make a long story short.
Speaker 4: I am twenty seven, just turn twenty seven. My wishing
Speaker 4: mccollic because it's an ex but it's a washing mcgolic
Speaker 4: because I ain't go back.
Speaker 3: One more time for a find a round of this disappointment.
Speaker 4: Okay, So I'm twenty seven. My wish mccallage is thirty
Speaker 4: eight seven thirty nine this year. So we met when
Speaker 4: I was twenty four, turned in twenty five and a.
Speaker 3: Couple of months.
Speaker 4: I mean, everything was kind of perfect, Like we talked
Speaker 4: for a month before we like linked up. I was
Speaker 4: dating single for a year and a half, heavy on
Speaker 4: the self love. My confidence was how its fuck all
Speaker 4: time high, like bitches is working out, doing yoga, drawing, reading, writing, women,
Speaker 4: their breast life and shit. So I was dating, I
Speaker 4: wasn't exclusively like dating him.
Speaker 3: So when I monthly got to know.
Speaker 4: Each other, you know, we just kind of clicked more
Speaker 4: than the other guys, and the other guys were kind
Speaker 4: of more on my roster d for convenience and not
Speaker 4: just convenienced like there were good dudes. So you know,
Speaker 4: I wanted to see if more feelings could develop for me.
Speaker 4: So after that first link up, it was fucking history.
Speaker 4: We is going on days every weekend.
Speaker 3: I eventually stopped.
Speaker 4: Texting the other guys so much, and you know, about
Speaker 4: two months go by, and at this point, he is
Speaker 4: spending the night every night I'm talking about he's basically
Speaker 4: living here, like his game is here, he has close here,
Speaker 4: He comes right after work, it doesn't leaven, so he
Speaker 4: goes back to work. Like we're literally together all the
Speaker 4: fucking time, Like even on the weekends, he's there after work,
Speaker 4: he's there playing the game like just it's like we're
Speaker 4: living together at this point. So that about the third
Speaker 4: month mark, I got to put myself down, like, hey,
Speaker 4: what are we doing? Like you know, single for many
Speaker 4: I need boundaries think like are we together?
Speaker 3: Are we not together? Relationship, which clearly it fucking was.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, look, if you want me to.
Speaker 4: Be your girlfriend, you need to ask me a person
Speaker 4: not throwing off fucking text me as it is, which
Speaker 4: your drive before, which was a major red flag.
Speaker 3: So you know, I'm the pype girl like hook every day.
Speaker 4: So I'm backing him lunches with fruit, snacks, juice, whatever.
Speaker 3: The fuck he likes, cute little notes.
Speaker 4: He's also doing cute shit like appealing to my love languages.
Speaker 3: You know, we go to the store together or whatever.
Speaker 3: He'll go have here. You know, he got me on
Speaker 3: my saying stuff for Christmas, which is the fuck he should.
Speaker 4: I got him something as well, so you know shit's
Speaker 4: coming good.
Speaker 3: But I'm kind of like at this point now, like, well,
Speaker 3: you know you're not. I'm playing these bills on.
Speaker 4: All like, and that's kind of turning me off from you,
Speaker 4: because you know, I had a dude on my roster
Speaker 4: and send me money for the fucking hell of it.
Speaker 4: My asude dude on my roster was in the streets
Speaker 4: and this dude wasn't so I wasn't really tripping.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I got a good dude, like you might
Speaker 3: be the nigga that I've been praying for.
Speaker 4: So the date slowed down from every weekend every once
Speaker 4: in a while, the affection slowed down.
Speaker 3: Everything slowed down.
Speaker 4: So this is about month six, and I'm noticing these changes.
Speaker 4: I'm like, hey, like, you know, it's something wrong, like
Speaker 4: do we need to do something else to connect? You know,
Speaker 4: what are you missing? Because I've noticed changes in our relationship.
Speaker 4: So I noticed that, you know, we would go through
Speaker 4: my phone sometimes.
Speaker 3: So I was scrolling through his Facebook one day and
Speaker 3: I saw.
Speaker 4: This, I know, this this one girl and all of
Speaker 4: his like literally all of his fucking like all of them.
Speaker 3: So I call him.
Speaker 4: I'm like, hey, babe, I was just scrolling through your
Speaker 4: Facebook and I noticed this one girl and all of
Speaker 4: your li likes.
Speaker 3: I was just wondering who it was, like, you know,
Speaker 3: who is it like?
Speaker 4: And this is like, you know, he was scrolling through
Speaker 4: my Facebook, asked questions through my phone, asked questions.
Speaker 3: So I didn't think it would be a problem.
Speaker 4: He immediately gets defensive, like, that's my best friend. Weve
Speaker 4: been best friend since child, we grew up together. I'm
Speaker 4: not cutting her off like whoa dude relaxed like And
Speaker 4: that really blew me to cook back and was a
Speaker 4: major red flag because I literally have never asked him
Speaker 4: to cut any female friend off or came off as
Speaker 4: any type of insecure.
Speaker 3: It was just like that shit blew me a back.
Speaker 3: So with Henry acting on.
Speaker 4: All defensive and she you know, I'm like, that's your
Speaker 4: best friend, Like you know, why never made her?
Speaker 3: Why have I never heard of her? Why you never
Speaker 3: brought her up? If I literally never stroke through your.
Speaker 4: Facebook and asked who she was, I literally would have
Speaker 4: never knew about her, So be red flag right. So
Speaker 4: after that, he kind of started being like more private,
Speaker 4: like I don't you know, so I don't ask you questions,
Speaker 4: you don't ask me questions. It's just fucking crazy because
Speaker 4: the nigga asks questions all the times.
Speaker 1: And then also he basically living at your house like
Speaker 1: basically once the nigga game is there, he moved the
Speaker 1: fucking so you trying to have your cake and needith
Speaker 1: too and I and I'm not really with that ship,
Speaker 1: so I definitely understand.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, that's you.
Speaker 1: You let him, You let him do a little bit
Speaker 1: too much, too fast, and he started getting he started
Speaker 1: smelling hisself as the black mothers would say, but I'm
Speaker 1: gonna let you finish. Hold up, Hold up, I know
Speaker 1: the ship getting good. But listen to just a couple
Speaker 1: of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 4: So at this point, my mind is fixated when his
Speaker 4: best friend, Like, I am determined to figure out.
Speaker 3: What the fuck he really got going on, because it's
Speaker 3: more than a defense thing.
Speaker 4: So I go through his phone, can't find anything, so boom,
Speaker 4: fuck it. Like, you know, he's on Facebook, you know
Speaker 4: inboxing girls.
Speaker 3: My getting replies. I'm like, you know what, I don't
Speaker 3: want to call my.
Speaker 4: Fice insecure, even though if we're in a relationship, I
Speaker 4: do kind of find like I'm not inboxing niggas trying
Speaker 4: to get attention or response as hard I'm not heart
Speaker 4: I you know, motherfucking stories and sending it to the
Speaker 4: inbox hoping and respond like.
Speaker 3: I'm not doing any of that. But I got to
Speaker 3: just let it go. My fault. So a few months
Speaker 3: go by and we're just we're not getting along.
Speaker 4: I'm finding out that he's inconsistent, he's a liar. He
Speaker 4: is hiding shit, like literally, he is making me insecure
Speaker 4: by just he done did a whole one to eighty
Speaker 4: from the motherfucker he showed me in the beginning, Like
Speaker 4: he's not affectionate. We're not like that intimate as much anymore.
Speaker 4: Like where he used to want to talk like throughout
Speaker 4: the workday, like while he was working or whatever.
Speaker 3: You know, he is not willing to do that anymore.
Speaker 3: So I'm like cool, like and my mom, I'm like,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna run through this nigga phone like fuck that.
Speaker 3: I'm want an ambitious I rather know.
Speaker 2: Hold up, you given this ship a lot of posssion
Speaker 2: for you to be coming from the streets.
Speaker 1: Remember you said you had this nigga, that nigga, this nigga,
Speaker 1: that nigga. You didn't got rid of the nigga that
Speaker 1: was paying your bills for this clown ass nigga. And
Speaker 1: you still like this one must have been the one
Speaker 1: that had you like ready to be on some exclusive ship.
Speaker 2: And you you you hinted toward.
Speaker 1: That earlier like seven minutes ago, and you also said
Speaker 1: you was gonna make this story short.
Speaker 2: And I'm loving it.
Speaker 1: Remember you said that you lie, honey, so I'm gonna
Speaker 1: let you finished. But yeah, this this seemed like you I'm, i'm, i'm, I'm,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you finish.
Speaker 4: And to just be wondering like Beach just be talking
Speaker 4: about intuition. Well, Beach, my mother fucking insuition led me
Speaker 4: to look through this niggaphone.
Speaker 2: So I find.
Speaker 4: Messages with the X, you know, asking when can he
Speaker 4: come see her. She basically told his niggas she's busy
Speaker 4: until the next mother fucking year. Come to find out
Speaker 4: much later on that X was her or whatever. So
Speaker 4: fast forward, we have an argument.
Speaker 3: He's mad at me. He sends me a.
Speaker 4: Screenshot of text messages but with the name covered up
Speaker 4: and you know, the little drawing shit. So the message
Speaker 4: he's talking about a day and you know.
Speaker 3: They've been trying to take each other.
Speaker 4: Out on dates for months, and I'm just like, what
Speaker 4: the fuck? Like in for context, he was the type
Speaker 4: of nigga that overtalked me, you know, bring up pitches
Speaker 4: and how he got options, and he taught.
Speaker 3: Me, are you.
Speaker 2: He couldn't just sit down and have.
Speaker 4: A conversation and be held accountable, So he couldn't have
Speaker 4: difficult conversations.
Speaker 3: So he sends his screenshot.
Speaker 4: So now I have said it on figuring out who
Speaker 4: the fuck was he.
Speaker 3: Talking to an as green shot. I was talking about.
Speaker 4: Dates and sidelines, and she's basically saying, you're trying to
Speaker 4: make me outsideline, and he basically said.
Speaker 3: Back, no, you're trying to make me your sideline.
Speaker 4: Fucking with so and so so anyway, girl, So I
Speaker 4: want to say, like for three months straight that I
Speaker 4: left him alone, he's calling me non stop, pulling up
Speaker 4: to my house, pulling up to my mom my house, like.
Speaker 3: Pulling up with me, literally like stalking me. So me being.
Speaker 4: Delusional and retarded. Oh my gosh, I am so sorry.
Speaker 4: If that offends anybody, just just beat that out or something,
Speaker 4: me being stupid and delusional.
Speaker 3: I'm like, you know what this man is really fighting
Speaker 3: from my love?
Speaker 4: He said, fucked up, And he never talked to truth
Speaker 4: about the sex message. He literally went from is my sister,
Speaker 4: who I used another phone to make that up just
Speaker 4: to make you jealous, like all types of shit.
Speaker 3: Never told the truth about it, so I never know
Speaker 3: who it was at that point. This is long as fuck.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4: Okay, So I'm just mean this all the way up
Speaker 4: fast far we get back together, why my dumb mess
Speaker 4: was doing good? I had a new bool like just
Speaker 4: the fucking stupid. Okay, So we get back together. So
Speaker 4: he's the same narcis assistic type.
Speaker 3: Of man.
Speaker 4: He's I'm thinking that, you know, maybe he'll be who
Speaker 4: he showed me in the beginning, but no, because he
Speaker 4: was probably never that nigga to begin with.
Speaker 3: So fast forward.
Speaker 4: I go through his phone a couple of months after
Speaker 4: we get back together. So you're not we had both
Speaker 4: agreed when we got back together. You know, we got
Speaker 4: a month to cut off any extra shit we got
Speaker 4: going on. This is three months after that conversation, and
Speaker 4: it's odd types of bitches, not even old bitches from
Speaker 4: the three months new bitches.
Speaker 1: Okay, what the hell did you expect?
Speaker 2: Baby girls?
Speaker 4: Really fucked my head up place. I went through that
Speaker 4: phone for motherfucking teeth for tea. So in the screenshots,
Speaker 4: he had the message that it was in his pictures.
Speaker 4: He had the screenshot that he covered up with the
Speaker 4: ink or whatever, and then his dumb ass had the
Speaker 4: fucking real screenshot there, the one that he didn't cover
Speaker 4: the name of So I'm gonna find out the motherfucking
Speaker 4: screenshot about the dates and the flirting and shit in
Speaker 4: the sidelines and how they want each other was from
Speaker 4: he's fucking so God best friend that he was defensive
Speaker 4: to suck about.
Speaker 1: Kay yum, see why you should have left, girl? See
Speaker 1: do you see why you put up? You put up
Speaker 1: with a lot of shit.
Speaker 2: From this nigga. Girl. I'm gonna keep reminding you.
Speaker 1: Remember you you you left the nigga that was paying
Speaker 1: your bills for this nigga fuck talking about that was
Speaker 1: a red flag, and that was a red flag, and
Speaker 1: then that was a red flag and the bitch you just.
Speaker 2: Was on a roller coaster.
Speaker 1: You just went through it like there was nothing red flag,
Speaker 1: six flagshead.
Speaker 2: Ass, like you didn't give a fuck. Ma'am. I'm gonna
Speaker 2: let you finish.
Speaker 4: So now I am on a so so I find
Speaker 4: an iCloud and a phone number, and I go through
Speaker 4: all of their messages literally from the time before time,
Speaker 4: basically since the time we got together. So he has
Speaker 4: been flirting with, like linking with, you know, but from
Speaker 4: the messages aspar as I could tell, they hadn't fucked
Speaker 4: an intimate but clearly it's some type of.
Speaker 3: Feelings and emotions there.
Speaker 4: Its just something has prevented them from being together in
Speaker 4: a relationship or I don't know what it is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's they were best friends. They really started
Speaker 1: off his best friends and he probably always had a
Speaker 1: thing for her, but she, probably being his best friend,
Speaker 1: has seen how he's done bitches for.
Speaker 2: Years and years and years, you including.
Speaker 1: Being one of them, and she's like, nah, I don't
Speaker 1: trust you. I see how you move with bitches. So
Speaker 1: that's she loves her best friend too, but as much
Speaker 1: as she loves them, she damn sure ain't about to
Speaker 1: be one of his victims, you know, end up like
Speaker 1: your ass, So you know.
Speaker 2: What I mean?
Speaker 1: Like that, that's you gotta think about that when a
Speaker 1: best friend, when a female best friend is like hesitant
Speaker 1: to get with her her male best friend, but they
Speaker 1: do like each other more than likely that's why because
Speaker 1: she's seeing how he is with women.
Speaker 4: She has two young kids, so.
Speaker 3: I don't know. She doesn't adversity together her grown ass.
Speaker 4: Age either, So it's probably a couple of factors.
Speaker 2: Or first of all, how the fuck you going? Girl?
Speaker 1: You write and think about your story. You're sitting here
Speaker 1: giving me this story where you are the fool.
Speaker 2: In the circus.
Speaker 1: You you are made out to be the clown in
Speaker 1: the circus. And how dare you speak on what this
Speaker 1: woman ain't got together in her life? She got that
Speaker 1: nigga that she was trying to get, She got that
Speaker 1: nigga that you thought was yours.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: So I hate when women come at the other one
Speaker 1: month when it's really like, you know, when when y'all
Speaker 1: don't have to sometimes you gotta check a bit.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you gotta.
Speaker 1: You know, air a girl out every time, every now
Speaker 1: and then, you know what I'm saying. Arabit y'all, let
Speaker 1: pop out and show you know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: if you got your own shit going on, the last
Speaker 1: thing you need to be thinking about is somebody else
Speaker 1: not having their life together. Okay, now we got a
Speaker 1: commercial and if you click off of this podcast, I
Speaker 1: swear I'm gonna beat your ass.
Speaker 2: Listen, so let's let me let you finish.
Speaker 4: Top of She not this nigga ain't shit for real.
Speaker 4: So I'm going back to such a time before.
Speaker 3: Time see other bitches. But what bother me the.
Speaker 4: Most was her because you know, this kind of fucked
Speaker 4: up my views on best friends and platonic relationships between
Speaker 4: male and females. You know, so now as I move
Speaker 4: over dating, it's gonna be like, nigga, I don't want
Speaker 4: to be one of the bitches.
Speaker 3: Blade ain't no friends like.
Speaker 4: I need to see all the messages from the sign
Speaker 4: before time hang out with these bitch a couple of
Speaker 4: times with you see how she vibes around you, and
Speaker 4: just read the energy in the room.
Speaker 3: Basically, this nigga fucked my head up with that.
Speaker 4: So and it was just like you know, they was
Speaker 4: talking about sexual shit and how they love each other
Speaker 4: and how deeply they feel about each other and about
Speaker 4: marriage and being together and moving in together like all
Speaker 4: types of shit. So this is well after you know,
Speaker 4: we done got back together and that month, don't want
Speaker 4: boy where we're supposed to be cutting size.
Speaker 3: With everyone, so.
Speaker 4: I leave again and then I also what really fucked
Speaker 4: my hand up was because he knew I hadn't ran
Speaker 4: through that phone before and saw her and question d
Speaker 4: and tripped out about it, and that's why we broke up.
Speaker 3: Ultimately, he saved her.
Speaker 4: Number and another girl's number under male names, so I
Speaker 4: wouldn't really think twice to look through those messages, or
Speaker 4: if they called, I wouldn't think twice about why he
Speaker 4: wasn't going to answer. And what fucked me up was
Speaker 4: one of the names had been in there for like
Speaker 4: two whole years, and I literally have been seeing it
Speaker 4: for two whole years. And this is like literally the
Speaker 4: two years of the relationship.
Speaker 3: So really what's.
Speaker 2: Been holding me on was Yeah, I can't wait to
Speaker 2: hear that.
Speaker 3: Thanks time.
Speaker 4: If this it, like, damn nigga, like, you don't waste
Speaker 4: it two years in my twenties, I'm twenty seven.
Speaker 3: Now I'm like in.
Speaker 4: Love with you in the most toxic way ever, Like,
Speaker 4: and it's so hard to leave him, like these niggas
Speaker 4: kicked my door in multiple times because I blocked him
Speaker 4: for weeks since the last time I went through his phone, Like.
Speaker 3: I just I really don't know what to do.
Speaker 4: I need help getting away, staying away. I'm moving soon
Speaker 4: so that should make it better.
Speaker 3: But yeah, and ROWN needs help, Like what how do
Speaker 3: I move on from this?
Speaker 4: I feel stupid and brainwashed and stuck, but I'm ready.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad that you said it, and I don't
Speaker 1: have to say it because I don't like calling women stupid.
Speaker 1: I don't like calling you know, because we've all been
Speaker 1: in predicaments like this. And why I can't say we've
Speaker 1: all because I know a few women that have not,
Speaker 1: you know, but I have. I've been in a predicament
Speaker 1: where I couldn't leave a guy alone and know he
Speaker 1: was treating me like ten carrots shit, you feel me
Speaker 1: like putting things before him and putting him up on
Speaker 1: a pedestal, and it's like, first of all, bitch, you're
Speaker 1: you're you're.
Speaker 2: That's a whole other situation.
Speaker 1: But yes, I've done that before, so I'm really I
Speaker 1: don't want to say that you're stupid, but what you
Speaker 1: just said, you know, you're giving him too much power
Speaker 1: talking about he wasted two years ago, Like if you
Speaker 1: wasted two years of your own life, you already know,
Speaker 1: you know, And I'm glad that you recognize that this
Speaker 1: ship is toxic, but you know, be that as it may.
Speaker 2: This is your fault as well.
Speaker 1: You let this man play you like a fucking fiddle,
Speaker 1: and that's why he kept doing it and got better
Speaker 1: at it with time, you know, and was doing it
Speaker 1: for so long by the time you found out about bitches.
Speaker 1: You you think he cared, You think he was gonna
Speaker 1: give a fuck. You chased him to no end. All
Speaker 1: he gotta do is chase you a little bit and
Speaker 1: that leads you on. I know, the dick cannot be
Speaker 1: that good. We got to stop obsessing over the dick
Speaker 1: and the time spending all of that shit.
Speaker 2: Like that's like a crazy thing, ain't it.
Speaker 3: Yes, I hate I hate girls.
Speaker 2: It's like you gotta talk in the mic. I don't
Speaker 2: understand that though she was saying it because of the.
Speaker 1: Dick, well, she was saying it was because the time spend. Now,
Speaker 1: Taylor has been in and out. So I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go over your story. Okay, So she want
Speaker 1: to this nigga name is which I M call it.
Speaker 1: She want to call him that she's even though she's anonymous,
Speaker 1: she still wants him to remain anonymous as well. Now
Speaker 1: they've been dealing with each other for a total of
Speaker 1: two years or whatever. When they first got together, everything
Speaker 1: was great, but she was doing her thing, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like she had a roster niggas which
Speaker 1: one of them was paying her bills for her, you know.
Speaker 2: But that nigga was in the streets.
Speaker 1: So it was like taking the good with the bedy
Speaker 1: paying your bills, but he also risking his life every day,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you did get that, all right?
Speaker 3: Cool?
Speaker 1: And her and the dude started talking, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, like and she started liking him. He basically
Speaker 1: pulled her away from the other dudes, you know, just
Speaker 1: just I guess, whining and dining her and you know,
Speaker 1: just making her feel good. Basically, she was getting something
Speaker 1: from him that she wasn't getting from all the other
Speaker 1: niggas on the roster, right, So she left him alone,
Speaker 1: including the god who was paying the bills. She left
Speaker 1: him alone. I'm sorry I had to get leut on
Speaker 1: it because that is so that's crazy. That's just respectful
Speaker 1: to yourself start some other girls. Yeah, pretty much. So yep,
Speaker 1: she she had found out about his best friend.
Speaker 2: That's right.
Speaker 1: Yes, she go through the I mean go through the
Speaker 1: Facebook and realize, all right, you got a best friend,
Speaker 1: whie the fuck I never knew about her? But look,
Speaker 1: this is the thing. He started slowly but surely moving
Speaker 1: in her game. His game ended up over there, like
Speaker 1: clothes and stuff and that's the thing. Yeah, but because
Speaker 1: she stopped talking to the guy who's paying the bills,
Speaker 1: now she's paying everything by herself. This nigga never offered
Speaker 1: her nothing from the bills, but he started standing up
Speaker 1: in the house laying that pipe. You know.
Speaker 2: So that was the best friend exactly. This is what
Speaker 2: I said.
Speaker 1: I feel like he's not with the best friend because
Speaker 1: the best friend probably see how he treat women, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, and will never go there with him.
Speaker 1: I had the same situation, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I had a male best friend who wanted to go
Speaker 1: there with me. And as much as I loved my
Speaker 1: best friend, I'm like, Nigga, I see how you do
Speaker 1: bitches like I'm not about to be one of them,
Speaker 1: Like you got what four fucking baby mothers now and
Speaker 1: shit like I already got a baby father with four
Speaker 1: other baby mothers.
Speaker 2: I'm not doing it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But yeah, either way, so I definitely understand where she
Speaker 1: coming from. And you know, but she let this nigga
Speaker 1: do this seat. She said he was a liar, he
Speaker 1: was inconsistent. She started seeing how with her. They ended
Speaker 1: up breaking up, and she looked she went She ended up,
Speaker 1: breaking up with the nigga, putting them out and all
Speaker 1: that type shit. God had gotten herself a whole new
Speaker 1: bull was like doing good. Then this nigga came back.
Speaker 1: She said, all right, we're gonna put everything on the table.
Speaker 1: I think they gave each other thirty days to like
Speaker 1: dismiss all the bitches and all the niggas, like they
Speaker 1: like played this game basically, and so at the end
Speaker 1: of the thirty days, they're supposed to swap phones and see,
Speaker 1: you know, all right, clean out the phone or whatever.
Speaker 1: But this nigga forgot to delete some shit, and she's
Speaker 1: saying other shit, like shit that went way.
Speaker 2: Back from years with other bitches and all that.
Speaker 1: And then the best friend was in there, so it
Speaker 1: was a lot and she was like, she feels like
Speaker 1: and she still can't leave them alone. She asking me
Speaker 1: how she can leave him alone. And I ain't even
Speaker 1: let her finish the goddamn stories. It's three minutes and
Speaker 1: fifty other fucking seconds, yo. Shit, Yeah, that's a whole
Speaker 1: another episode. Oh lord, leve me.
Speaker 2: I got to end this shit. She need to lead
Speaker 2: this nigga alone.
Speaker 1: Then right, yeah, I don't feel like what else I
Speaker 1: feel like this is part one. We're gonna you know,
Speaker 1: we're gonna do. We're gonna make this a two part
Speaker 1: that's what we're gonna do. We're gonna make this a
Speaker 1: two parter, y'all. Y'all let me know, y'all jump in
Speaker 1: the Carefully Reckless podcast page and the dms are in
Speaker 1: the comments, and y'all let me know the advice that
Speaker 1: I should give this lady or y'all give her advice,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna come back with part two. We're gonna
Speaker 1: hear the other five minutes that she got to say,
Speaker 1: because I think, oh no, it's ten minutes. It's ten
Speaker 1: other minutes, okay, and the summary Jesus all right, So
Speaker 1: we're gonna come back, and just like that, we come
Speaker 1: to the end of yet another Carefully Reckless episode with
Speaker 1: your girl Jess hilarious and my girl Taylor is here.
Speaker 1: Say thank y'all, You say thank you to the people. Yes,
Speaker 1: say it's okay, all right, y'all, see y'all for part
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