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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effects.

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Speaker 2: Oh shit, just like that, we back on the air.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to you had another carefully reckless episode with

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Speaker 1: your girl, Jess.

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Speaker 2: Hilarious. What are we doing?

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Speaker 1: I'll be fixing mess and we got one. Listen my baby,

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Speaker 1: my baby, I'm in here.

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Speaker 2: What say? Let's say what's up Taylor? You all say?

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Speaker 2: What's up on my girl? What's she here?

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Speaker 1: Even more pregnant than she was two weeks ago? So

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Speaker 1: she gonna be in and out y'all because she is

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Speaker 1: annoyed as fuck. She got a little baby up in there?

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Speaker 2: What you have a girl?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Can we know? Yeah, I have a new boy.

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Speaker 2: She's having a little boy. So she's about to be

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Speaker 2: a bit sorry talking about that. My god.

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Speaker 1: Boys make you so mean. In my opinion, I was

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Speaker 1: mean when I was pregnant with ash.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't. Do you think I was mean when I

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Speaker 2: was pregnant with Marley? No, I wasn't mean.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I wasn't mean. I just was like over everything.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't mean, though, I just was like, y'all getting

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Speaker 1: on my motherfucking nerves all right, So we have a

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Speaker 1: voice memo, y'all. It's the first one in a long time.

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Speaker 1: I think it's the first one in season four that

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Speaker 1: we had. I ain't have a voice memo since like

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Speaker 1: season two, I think either way.

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Speaker 2: But let's get straight into it. Let me sing hey.

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Speaker 4: Girl, Hey, okay, es he picks my mess and you're

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Speaker 4: gonna be like, what the fuck? It's not even mess,

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Speaker 4: it's really pissed. Okay, it's really more borderline shit. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: let me get it started, because I ain't trying to hold.

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Speaker 3: You, Okay.

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Speaker 4: So I'm gonna try to make a long story short.

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Speaker 4: I am twenty seven, just turn twenty seven. My wishing

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Speaker 4: mccollic because it's an ex but it's a washing mcgolic

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Speaker 4: because I ain't go back.

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Speaker 3: One more time for a find a round of this disappointment.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I'm twenty seven. My wish mccallage is thirty

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Speaker 4: eight seven thirty nine this year. So we met when

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Speaker 4: I was twenty four, turned in twenty five and a.

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Speaker 3: Couple of months.

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Speaker 4: I mean, everything was kind of perfect, Like we talked

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Speaker 4: for a month before we like linked up. I was

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Speaker 4: dating single for a year and a half, heavy on

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Speaker 4: the self love. My confidence was how its fuck all

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Speaker 4: time high, like bitches is working out, doing yoga, drawing, reading, writing, women,

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Speaker 4: their breast life and shit. So I was dating, I

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Speaker 4: wasn't exclusively like dating him.

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Speaker 3: So when I monthly got to know.

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Speaker 4: Each other, you know, we just kind of clicked more

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Speaker 4: than the other guys, and the other guys were kind

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Speaker 4: of more on my roster d for convenience and not

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Speaker 4: just convenienced like there were good dudes. So you know,

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Speaker 4: I wanted to see if more feelings could develop for me.

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Speaker 4: So after that first link up, it was fucking history.

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Speaker 4: We is going on days every weekend.

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Speaker 3: I eventually stopped.

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Speaker 4: Texting the other guys so much, and you know, about

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Speaker 4: two months go by, and at this point, he is

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Speaker 4: spending the night every night I'm talking about he's basically

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Speaker 4: living here, like his game is here, he has close here,

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Speaker 4: He comes right after work, it doesn't leaven, so he

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Speaker 4: goes back to work. Like we're literally together all the

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Speaker 4: fucking time, Like even on the weekends, he's there after work,

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Speaker 4: he's there playing the game like just it's like we're

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Speaker 4: living together at this point. So that about the third

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Speaker 4: month mark, I got to put myself down, like, hey,

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Speaker 4: what are we doing? Like you know, single for many

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Speaker 4: I need boundaries think like are we together?

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Speaker 3: Are we not together? Relationship, which clearly it fucking was.

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, look, if you want me to.

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Speaker 4: Be your girlfriend, you need to ask me a person

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Speaker 4: not throwing off fucking text me as it is, which

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Speaker 4: your drive before, which was a major red flag.

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Speaker 3: So you know, I'm the pype girl like hook every day.

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Speaker 4: So I'm backing him lunches with fruit, snacks, juice, whatever.

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Speaker 3: The fuck he likes, cute little notes.

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Speaker 4: He's also doing cute shit like appealing to my love languages.

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Speaker 3: You know, we go to the store together or whatever.

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Speaker 3: He'll go have here. You know, he got me on

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Speaker 3: my saying stuff for Christmas, which is the fuck he should.

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Speaker 4: I got him something as well, so you know shit's

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Speaker 3: But I'm kind of like at this point now, like, well,

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Speaker 4: All like, and that's kind of turning me off from you,

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Speaker 4: because you know, I had a dude on my roster

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Speaker 4: My asude dude on my roster was in the streets

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I got a good dude, like you might

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Speaker 3: be the nigga that I've been praying for.

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Speaker 4: So the date slowed down from every weekend every once

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Speaker 4: in a while, the affection slowed down.

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Speaker 3: Everything slowed down.

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Speaker 4: So this is about month six, and I'm noticing these changes.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, hey, like, you know, it's something wrong, like

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Speaker 4: do we need to do something else to connect? You know,

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Speaker 4: what are you missing? Because I've noticed changes in our relationship.

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Speaker 4: So I noticed that, you know, we would go through

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Speaker 3: So I was scrolling through his Facebook one day and

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Speaker 4: This, I know, this this one girl and all of

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Speaker 3: So I call him.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, hey, babe, I was just scrolling through your

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Speaker 3: I was just wondering who it was, like, you know,

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Speaker 4: And this is like, you know, he was scrolling through

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Speaker 3: So I didn't think it would be a problem.

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Speaker 4: He immediately gets defensive, like, that's my best friend. Weve

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Speaker 4: that really blew me to cook back and was a

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Speaker 4: major red flag because I literally have never asked him

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Speaker 4: to cut any female friend off or came off as

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Speaker 3: It was just like that shit blew me a back.

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Speaker 3: So with Henry acting on.

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Speaker 4: All defensive and she you know, I'm like, that's your

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Speaker 3: Why have I never heard of her? Why you never

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Speaker 3: brought her up? If I literally never stroke through your.

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Speaker 4: Facebook and asked who she was, I literally would have

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Speaker 4: after that, he kind of started being like more private,

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Speaker 4: you don't ask me questions. It's just fucking crazy because

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Speaker 4: the nigga asks questions all the times.

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Speaker 1: And then also he basically living at your house like

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Speaker 1: basically once the nigga game is there, he moved the

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Speaker 1: fucking so you trying to have your cake and needith

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Speaker 1: too and I and I'm not really with that ship,

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Speaker 1: so I definitely understand.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, that's you.

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Speaker 1: You let him, You let him do a little bit

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Speaker 1: too much, too fast, and he started getting he started

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Speaker 1: smelling hisself as the black mothers would say, but I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna let you finish. Hold up, Hold up, I know

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Speaker 1: the ship getting good. But listen to just a couple

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Speaker 1: of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen.

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Speaker 4: So at this point, my mind is fixated when his

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Speaker 3: What the fuck he really got going on, because it's

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Speaker 3: more than a defense thing.

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Speaker 4: So I go through his phone, can't find anything, so boom,

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Speaker 4: fuck it. Like, you know, he's on Facebook, you know

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Speaker 3: My getting replies. I'm like, you know what, I don't

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Speaker 4: Fice insecure, even though if we're in a relationship, I

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Speaker 4: do kind of find like I'm not inboxing niggas trying

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Speaker 4: I you know, motherfucking stories and sending it to the

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Speaker 3: I'm not doing any of that. But I got to

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Speaker 3: just let it go. My fault. So a few months

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Speaker 3: go by and we're just we're not getting along.

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Speaker 4: I'm finding out that he's inconsistent, he's a liar. He

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Speaker 4: is hiding shit, like literally, he is making me insecure

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Speaker 4: by just he done did a whole one to eighty

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Speaker 4: from the motherfucker he showed me in the beginning, Like

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Speaker 4: he's not affectionate. We're not like that intimate as much anymore.

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Speaker 4: Like where he used to want to talk like throughout

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Speaker 3: You know, he is not willing to do that anymore.

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Speaker 3: So I'm like cool, like and my mom, I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna run through this nigga phone like fuck that.

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Speaker 3: I'm want an ambitious I rather know.

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Speaker 2: Hold up, you given this ship a lot of posssion

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Speaker 2: for you to be coming from the streets.

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Speaker 1: Remember you said you had this nigga, that nigga, this nigga,

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Speaker 1: that nigga. You didn't got rid of the nigga that

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Speaker 1: was paying your bills for this clown ass nigga. And

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Speaker 1: that had you like ready to be on some exclusive ship.

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Speaker 2: And you you you hinted toward.

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Speaker 1: That earlier like seven minutes ago, and you also said

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Speaker 1: you was gonna make this story short.

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Speaker 2: And I'm loving it.

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Speaker 1: Remember you said that you lie, honey, so I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: let you finished. But yeah, this this seemed like you I'm, i'm, i'm, I'm,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you finish.

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Speaker 4: And to just be wondering like Beach just be talking

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Speaker 4: about intuition. Well, Beach, my mother fucking insuition led me

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Speaker 2: So I find.

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Speaker 4: Messages with the X, you know, asking when can he

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Speaker 4: come see her. She basically told his niggas she's busy

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Speaker 4: until the next mother fucking year. Come to find out

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Speaker 4: much later on that X was her or whatever. So

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Speaker 4: fast forward, we have an argument.

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Speaker 3: He's mad at me. He sends me a.

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Speaker 4: Screenshot of text messages but with the name covered up

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Speaker 4: and you know, the little drawing shit. So the message

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Speaker 4: he's talking about a day and you know.

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Speaker 3: They've been trying to take each other.

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Speaker 4: Out on dates for months, and I'm just like, what

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Speaker 4: the fuck? Like in for context, he was the type

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Speaker 4: of nigga that overtalked me, you know, bring up pitches

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Speaker 4: and how he got options, and he taught.

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Speaker 3: Me, are you.

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Speaker 2: He couldn't just sit down and have.

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Speaker 3: So he sends his screenshot.

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Speaker 4: So now I have said it on figuring out who

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Speaker 3: Talking to an as green shot. I was talking about.

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Speaker 4: Dates and sidelines, and she's basically saying, you're trying to

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Speaker 4: make me outsideline, and he basically said.

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Speaker 3: Back, no, you're trying to make me your sideline.

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Speaker 4: He said, fucked up, And he never talked to truth

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I'm just mean this all the way up

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Speaker 4: Really fucked my head up place. I went through that

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Speaker 4: he's fucking so God best friend that he was defensive

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Speaker 1: Kay yum, see why you should have left, girl? See

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Speaker 1: do you see why you put up? You put up

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Speaker 1: You just went through it like there was nothing red flag,

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Speaker 2: Ass, like you didn't give a fuck. Ma'am. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: So now I am on a so so I find

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Speaker 3: Feelings and emotions there.

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Speaker 4: Its just something has prevented them from being together in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's they were best friends. They really started

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Speaker 2: Years and years and years, you including.

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Speaker 1: Being one of them, and she's like, nah, I don't

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Speaker 2: What I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like that, that's you gotta think about that when a

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Speaker 4: She has two young kids, so.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. She doesn't adversity together her grown ass.

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Speaker 2: Or first of all, how the fuck you going? Girl?

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Speaker 1: You write and think about your story. You're sitting here

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Speaker 1: giving me this story where you are the fool.

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Speaker 2: In the circus.

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Speaker 1: You you are made out to be the clown in

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Speaker 1: woman ain't got together in her life? She got that

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: So I hate when women come at the other one

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Speaker 1: month when it's really like, you know, when when y'all

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you gotta.

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Speaker 1: You know, air a girl out every time, every now

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Speaker 1: and then, you know what I'm saying. Arabit y'all, let

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Speaker 1: thing you need to be thinking about is somebody else

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Speaker 2: Listen, so let's let me let you finish.

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Speaker 4: Top of She not this nigga ain't shit for real.

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Speaker 4: So I'm going back to such a time before.

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Speaker 3: Time see other bitches. But what bother me the.

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Speaker 4: Most was her because you know, this kind of fucked

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Speaker 4: up my views on best friends and platonic relationships between

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Speaker 3: Blade ain't no friends like.

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Speaker 4: I need to see all the messages from the sign

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Speaker 4: before time hang out with these bitch a couple of

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Speaker 3: Basically, this nigga fucked my head up with that.

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Speaker 4: So and it was just like you know, they was

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Speaker 4: we done got back together and that month, don't want

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Speaker 3: With everyone, so.

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Speaker 4: I leave again and then I also what really fucked

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Speaker 3: Ultimately, he saved her.

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Speaker 4: Number and another girl's number under male names, so I

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Speaker 4: if they called, I wouldn't think twice about why he

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Speaker 4: two whole years, and I literally have been seeing it

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Speaker 3: So really what's.

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Speaker 2: Been holding me on was Yeah, I can't wait to

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Speaker 3: Thanks time.

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Speaker 4: If this it, like, damn nigga, like, you don't waste

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Speaker 3: Now I'm like in.

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Speaker 4: Love with you in the most toxic way ever, Like,

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Speaker 4: and it's so hard to leave him, like these niggas

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Speaker 3: I just I really don't know what to do.

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Speaker 4: I need help getting away, staying away. I'm moving soon

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Speaker 4: so that should make it better.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, and ROWN needs help, Like what how do

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Speaker 4: I feel stupid and brainwashed and stuck, but I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad that you said it, and I don't

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Speaker 1: have to say it because I don't like calling women stupid.

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Speaker 1: I don't like calling you know, because we've all been

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Speaker 1: like putting things before him and putting him up on

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Speaker 1: But yes, I've done that before, so I'm really I

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Speaker 1: don't want to say that you're stupid, but what you

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Speaker 1: just said, you know, you're giving him too much power

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Speaker 1: talking about he wasted two years ago, Like if you

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Speaker 1: you know, And I'm glad that you recognize that this

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Speaker 2: This is your fault as well.

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Speaker 1: You let this man play you like a fucking fiddle,

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Speaker 1: and that's why he kept doing it and got better

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Speaker 1: at it with time, you know, and was doing it

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Speaker 1: You you think he cared, You think he was gonna

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Speaker 1: give a fuck. You chased him to no end. All

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Speaker 1: he gotta do is chase you a little bit and

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Speaker 1: that leads you on. I know, the dick cannot be

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Speaker 1: and the time spending all of that shit.

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Speaker 2: Like that's like a crazy thing, ain't it.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I hate I hate girls.

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Speaker 2: It's like you gotta talk in the mic. I don't

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Speaker 1: Dick, well, she was saying it was because the time spend. Now,

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Speaker 1: Taylor has been in and out. So I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go over your story. Okay, So she want

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Speaker 1: to this nigga name is which I M call it.

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Speaker 1: She want to call him that she's even though she's anonymous,

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Speaker 1: they've been dealing with each other for a total of

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Speaker 1: what I mean, Like she had a roster niggas which

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Speaker 1: one of them was paying her bills for her, you know.

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Speaker 2: But that nigga was in the streets.

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Speaker 1: So it was like taking the good with the bedy

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you did get that, all right?

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Speaker 3: Cool?

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Speaker 1: just making her feel good. Basically, she was getting something

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Speaker 1: niggas on the roster, right, So she left him alone,

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Speaker 1: including the god who was paying the bills. She left

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Speaker 1: him alone. I'm sorry I had to get leut on

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Speaker 1: it because that is so that's crazy. That's just respectful

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Speaker 1: to yourself start some other girls. Yeah, pretty much. So yep,

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Speaker 1: she she had found out about his best friend.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: Yes, she go through the I mean go through the

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Speaker 1: Facebook and realize, all right, you got a best friend,

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Speaker 1: whie the fuck I never knew about her? But look,

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Speaker 1: this is the thing. He started slowly but surely moving

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Speaker 1: in her game. His game ended up over there, like

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Speaker 1: clothes and stuff and that's the thing. Yeah, but because

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Speaker 1: now she's paying everything by herself. This nigga never offered

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Speaker 1: her nothing from the bills, but he started standing up

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Speaker 2: So that was the best friend exactly. This is what

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Speaker 2: I said.

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Speaker 1: I feel like he's not with the best friend because

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Speaker 1: know what I mean, and will never go there with him.

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Speaker 1: I had the same situation, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: I had a male best friend who wanted to go

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Speaker 1: best friend, I'm like, Nigga, I see how you do

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Speaker 1: bitches like I'm not about to be one of them,

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Speaker 1: Like you got what four fucking baby mothers now and

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Speaker 1: shit like I already got a baby father with four

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing it, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, either way, so I definitely understand where she

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Speaker 1: coming from. And you know, but she let this nigga

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Speaker 1: do this seat. She said he was a liar, he

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Speaker 1: was inconsistent. She started seeing how with her. They ended

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Speaker 1: up breaking up, and she looked she went She ended up,

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Speaker 1: breaking up with the nigga, putting them out and all

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Speaker 1: that type shit. God had gotten herself a whole new

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Speaker 1: bull was like doing good. Then this nigga came back.

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Speaker 1: She said, all right, we're gonna put everything on the table.

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Speaker 1: I think they gave each other thirty days to like

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Speaker 1: dismiss all the bitches and all the niggas, like they

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Speaker 1: like played this game basically, and so at the end

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Speaker 1: of the thirty days, they're supposed to swap phones and see,

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Speaker 1: you know, all right, clean out the phone or whatever.

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Speaker 1: But this nigga forgot to delete some shit, and she's

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Speaker 1: saying other shit, like shit that went way.

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Speaker 2: Back from years with other bitches and all that.

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Speaker 1: And then the best friend was in there, so it

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Speaker 1: was a lot and she was like, she feels like

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Speaker 1: and she still can't leave them alone. She asking me

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Speaker 1: how she can leave him alone. And I ain't even

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Speaker 1: let her finish the goddamn stories. It's three minutes and

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Speaker 1: fifty other fucking seconds, yo. Shit, Yeah, that's a whole

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Speaker 1: another episode. Oh lord, leve me.

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Speaker 2: I got to end this shit. She need to lead

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Speaker 2: this nigga alone.

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Speaker 1: Then right, yeah, I don't feel like what else I

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Speaker 1: feel like this is part one. We're gonna you know,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do. We're gonna make this a two part

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Speaker 1: that's what we're gonna do. We're gonna make this a

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Speaker 1: two parter, y'all. Y'all let me know, y'all jump in

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Speaker 1: the Carefully Reckless podcast page and the dms are in

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Speaker 1: the comments, and y'all let me know the advice that

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Speaker 1: I should give this lady or y'all give her advice,

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna come back with part two. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: hear the other five minutes that she got to say,

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Speaker 1: because I think, oh no, it's ten minutes. It's ten

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Speaker 1: other minutes, okay, and the summary Jesus all right, So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna come back, and just like that, we come

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Speaker 1: to the end of yet another Carefully Reckless episode with

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Speaker 1: your girl Jess hilarious and my girl Taylor is here.

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Speaker 1: Say thank y'all, You say thank you to the people. Yes,

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Speaker 1: say it's okay, all right, y'all, see y'all for part

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Speaker 1: two next week. Can't Fully Reckless is a production of

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