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Speaker 1: My parents won't attend to my wedding. And here's why,

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Speaker 1: you better have a dang good reason. This comes from

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Speaker 1: greed princess who says so at twenty four female, I

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Speaker 1: find myself in a heartbreaking situation. My parents won't be

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Speaker 1: at my wedding. The reason I refuse to invite their friends.

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Speaker 1: I'll call them the Scots no relation to Michael that

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Speaker 1: we know, who made my life a living hell during

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Speaker 1: the year I lived in their guesthouse. From false accusations

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Speaker 1: to disrespecting my fiance, things reached a breaking point.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, that's a tricky situation because it sounds like they

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Speaker 2: did a favor and then just became terrible people. There

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Speaker 2: you go, Do you treat people to do a favor terribly? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And if you give someone a favor, does it like,

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Speaker 2: are you entitled then to one act of being a

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Speaker 2: terrible person? That's the question. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: When I stood firm on not inviting them, it led

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Speaker 1: to a family fallout. Despite my attempt to mend things,

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Speaker 1: my parents are boycotting my wedding.

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Speaker 2: You could say family fallow or a family feud. You

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Speaker 2: could say a family You could say a family feud,

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Speaker 2: ding ding, ding, you're the winners. Now onto the long story.

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Speaker 1: In twenty twenty one, fresh out of college, I moved

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Speaker 1: to a new state for a job. Facing high rent.

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Speaker 1: The Scott's family, friends of my parents, offered me their

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Speaker 1: guest house for a mere three hundred dollars a month.

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Speaker 1: That's a steal, that is nothing. Little did I know

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Speaker 1: this seemingly sweet deal would lead to a year of

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Speaker 1: absolute turmoil. The Scots, longtime friends and business partners of

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Speaker 1: my parents, had three kids. As soon as I settled in,

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Speaker 1: the Scots became excessively involved in my personal life, particularly

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Speaker 1: my relationship.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, you can come in.

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Speaker 1: For three hundred bucks, but we just get to have

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Speaker 1: a say in all of your relationship and everything.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and there's a camera here and a camera there,

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Speaker 2: and a camera there, and let's just say we're viewing

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Speaker 2: the tapes. Enjoy.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, the situation took a dark turn as they

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Speaker 1: fabricated scenarios to my parents, accusing me of promiscuity, rarely

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Speaker 1: being home and even planning to secretly move in with

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Speaker 2: Accusing someone of promiscuity, what does that even mean? You

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Speaker 2: are sleeping around? Which letter to her?

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Speaker 1: Their disdain for my boyfriend was palpable, treating him with

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Speaker 1: passive aggression, condescension, and even making derogatory comments about him

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Speaker 1: being adopted.

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Speaker 2: Damn, that's a love that's insane.

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Speaker 1: Their interference escalated with family meetings where they labeled me

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Speaker 1: as a poor influence on their teenage daughter, criticizing my boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: who they had only met three times.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, how good of a guy could he be?

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Speaker 2: His parents didn't want him?

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Speaker 3: God, and I have to add that my said Sam's

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Speaker 3: golden rules.

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Speaker 2: If you're dating adopted Jeff Bezos was adopted.

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Speaker 4: And he's a pretty terrible person, then he.

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Speaker 2: Sucks, but he's a billionaire. Correlation.

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Speaker 1: Maybe my boyfriend and I don't drink or smoke and

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Speaker 1: both have careers. My boyfriend is a perfectly good man

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Speaker 1: and was always respectful to them despite their poor treatment.

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Speaker 1: The dad of the Scott family went to the extent

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Speaker 1: of sharing his marriage problems and lack of a sex life,

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Speaker 1: blurring the boundaries of landlord tenant slash inappropriate relationships. Who

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Speaker 2: Now? Bro? What it sounds like you saying is like, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I haven't had sex with my wife in a while,

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Speaker 2: so you know, I need some help in that department.

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Speaker 2: How is that worse? Subside eye?

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Speaker 1: How is that worse than saying how is that acceptable?

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Speaker 1: Because on one hand.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's not. I'm surprised that you would accept it.

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Speaker 2: I don't. It sounds like you're assign a question how anyone?

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Speaker 2: It feels like you just said how is that acceptable?

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Speaker 2: Because you're assuming the default is accepting it. Hey, don't

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Speaker 2: don't turn this on me because your golden rules. Don't

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Speaker 2: date adopted people. Okay, don't try to put this on sir.

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Speaker 2: I see what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: The breaking point came when the fridge and the guest

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Speaker 1: house broke, and they insisted I fit the.

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Speaker 2: Bill for a nine hundred dollars replacement way. A fridge

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Speaker 2: that everyone shairs, A fridge that in the guest house

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Speaker 2: that only ope is in. Oh what are you doing

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Speaker 2: in the fridge being promiscuous? Yeah, dude, fridge sex the

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Speaker 2: best guy. It's really cold, Yeah, exactly, it gets too

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Speaker 1: Their influence over my parents was significant, as my parents

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Speaker 2: Wait, I'm still stuck on the fridge. Is it did

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Speaker 1: We're assuming it broke down and she is the only

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Speaker 1: one using it, so one could allege that she is.

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Speaker 2: The fridge breaker. But usually the landlord pays for broken appliances. Yes,

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Speaker 2: so unless she's like, you know, actually having sex in

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Speaker 2: it's fine. It's probably just time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's probably just time, father time, father time creaking

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Speaker 1: our fridges and your parents ouch. By the end of

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty two, I decided to move out with some

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Speaker 2: Smart. Yeah, I give it's so terrible.

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Speaker 1: Move yeah, cut it out, move somewhere else. Fast forward

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Speaker 1: to the summer of twenty twenty three, my boyfriend and

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Speaker 1: I were living together in a new state, and he

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Speaker 1: proposed to mengrats congratulations. To my surprise, when he asked

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Speaker 1: my parents for their blessings, they were supportive and enthusiastic.

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Speaker 2: This seems like nothing to go wrong. It seems like it's.

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Speaker 1: All gonna end so well, right right. My parents were

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Speaker 1: even flown out to witness our engagement. As we delved

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Speaker 1: into wedding planning in the fall of twenty twenty three,

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Speaker 1: my fiance's parents generously offered to finance the wedding. Strangely,

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Speaker 1: my mother declined involvement in the planning, claiming she hated it,

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Speaker 2: The wedding or her fianza. Maybe little little sus in

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Speaker 2: the sus in the story, but I see you in

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Speaker 1: Despite repeated invitations from myself and my future mother in law,

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Speaker 1: My mother in law did fly my mom out to

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Speaker 1: my mother insisted on the trip that this was all

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Speaker 2: Oh, only wedding dresses all.

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Speaker 1: She's like, I only want to come to help get

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Speaker 2: It's a weird line to draw with your daughter who's

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Speaker 2: getting married, Why don't you want to be involved?

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Speaker 1: Suspicious something is baking, suspicions fishy. Winter twenty twenty three

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Speaker 1: the Scots, the evil family, the evil landlords.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, if she had such a bad experience

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Speaker 2: and the Scott ad was hitting on her, kind of weird.

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Speaker 2: There's no reason too, there's no reason to invite. Why

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Speaker 2: because he's just gonna object at the wedding. Exact, Jack,

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Speaker 2: marry me. My wife has had sex years. Please, I

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Speaker 2: won't make you pay for the fridge.

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Speaker 1: God, I respectfully declined, citing the distress it would cause

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Speaker 1: me on our special day. This refusal triggered a nuclear

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Speaker 1: war within the family. My parents, adamant about the Scott's inclusion,

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Speaker 2: How are the Scots more important than your own daughter?

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Speaker 2: This is insane. How are you putting your own like?

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Speaker 2: How are you creating this ultimatum right now? That's it? Like,

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Speaker 2: that is insane. It shows how little they care for

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Speaker 2: the daughter. You're a terrible parent. Yeah. Maybe she's adopted

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Speaker 2: and they hate her. And although I actually think probably

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Speaker 2: this is all feelings, no facts. Yes, I feel like

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Speaker 2: parents who adopt on average love their children more because

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Speaker 2: they made the choice to adopt.

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Speaker 1: Yes, they were like, so intentional you go through. Obviously

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Speaker 1: getting pregnant can be a whole process as well, but

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Speaker 2: We've heard, we've heard, I've heard it's a process. I've heard.

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Speaker 1: But it's so the intentionality and the effort you put

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Speaker 2: Is big.

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Speaker 1: So if you have biological parents, yeah, they don't love you.

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Speaker 2: We got him again.

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Speaker 1: Boys, My dad accused me of starting my happy life

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Speaker 1: by destroying his, and my mother uninvited me to Christmas.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they're replacing her conspiracy theory. Yes, they're swingers. They're

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Speaker 2: Oh that's pretty good. That is pretty good. But let's

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Speaker 1: In an attempt to salvage the situation, I apologized and

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Speaker 1: tried to explain my decision. However, my parents were unreceptive,

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Speaker 1: hurling insults and baseless accusations, claiming my side of the thing.

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Speaker 2: Family has been canceled.

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Speaker 1: Stamp when your parents learn how to use Twitter and

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Speaker 1: it just comes right back, Yeah, did bite you in

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Speaker 2: What would you expose? You would just look like an

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Speaker 1: Now she's saying, I'll put you on blast if you

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Speaker 2: Make up your mind. Wait, she's saying, I'll put you

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Speaker 1: You My mother flipped the script, so meaning she switched

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Speaker 2: But didn't she say that she didn't want her at Christmas?

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Speaker 1: She did, But she's saying, now, like the mom, flip

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Speaker 1: Actually I do want you here, and if you don't

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Speaker 2: It's a classic case of like if the woman floats,

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Speaker 2: then she's a witch. If she drowns, then she's not

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Speaker 2: a witch. It's either way, you're screwed. Fucked. Yes, make

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Speaker 2: the rules so everyone loses. Thanks Mom, just a way

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Speaker 1: Despite exchanging Christmas and Birthday greetings via text, I have

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Speaker 1: their absence and the harsh words linger as I approach

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Speaker 1: my wedding day.

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Speaker 2: I'm confused, I'm guilty.

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Speaker 1: And I am in pain the fallout all because I

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Speaker 1: refuse to invite the Scots. And we do have some

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Speaker 1: op is getting married. She stayed at this family's guest

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Speaker 1: her parents' minds. And somehow parents are on the Scott's

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Speaker 2: I wonder, I have the parents ever been like dicks

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Speaker 2: like this before? That's a great quick I wonder is

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Speaker 2: And also, what would you do? John? Your parents are like,

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Speaker 2: you have to invite the Scots, and they're like basically

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Speaker 2: blackmailing you. Do you just invite the Scots or do

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Speaker 2: you stand firm and don't invite the Scots and have

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Speaker 2: your parents not go?

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Speaker 1: This one comes from Useful Commission seventy six, making derogatory

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Speaker 2: I want to know the derogatory, belittling and derogatory like

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Speaker 2: where's your peer got? Like what do you say, Hey,

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Speaker 2: Harry Potter, go on out, Hey, where's the joker?

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Speaker 4: True, that's good, that's good, Batman.

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Speaker 1: I barely see movies, so that one, that one I

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Speaker 2: They're such good people.

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Speaker 1: But there's no way in hell I'm going to let

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Speaker 2: They're footing the whole bill.

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Speaker 1: my daughter. Wow, my parents say the Scots did everything

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, do one or the other? You know,

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Speaker 1: Op On what her fiance thinks of the situation, my

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Speaker 1: Don't know about you, I don't know about everyone watching

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean like this should be like a happy,

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like you could say I would love

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Speaker 1: show up if you want, but the Scots are not coming.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Let me know what you guys think in the comments,

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Speaker 1: want the Scots there. The Scots invest money into my

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Speaker 2: Did I not call that? You call that? Call this?

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Speaker 1: In the initial text from my parents, my dad said

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Speaker 2: Is like a blackmail thing. Hmmm. But I don't want

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Speaker 1: Why do I have to invite people who gave me

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Speaker 2: There's no ways they're gonna plux or not invited to

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Speaker 1: I mean they, I will say, the Scots do seem

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Speaker 2: I can't imagine. Because they didn't even like the fiance,

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Speaker 2: So why would they want to go to a wedding

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Speaker 1: I think, well, maybe it's someone they love to hate

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Speaker 2: Than the real fear. What the Scots are going to

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Speaker 1: I think so. I think so, But Sam, what we have?

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Speaker 1: Well the juicy up a big juicy update.

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Speaker 2: Let's go so.

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Speaker 1: Onto the update or quick quick context from the original

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Speaker 1: post at twenty four female, I find myself in a

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Speaker 1: like AE hundred, implode your life and come back.

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Speaker 2: Stop everything because of the Scots. Stop everything. The Scots

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Speaker 2: don't approve. The Scot's don't approve. We can't do it.

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Speaker 2: We can't live that life. No no, no, no, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 2: We have to live by the Scot's approval.

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Speaker 1: Here she started saying things like, I know you're own happy,

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Speaker 1: It's okay, you tried. Now it's time to come home.

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Speaker 1: You have some maturing you need to do. This irks

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Speaker 2: I love how they're like coming from it, like oh,

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Speaker 1: Absolutely can you imagine your parents saying this to you. No,

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Speaker 1: this is insane. Cancel your wedding and come big, live

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Speaker 2: You're not sure in your job, quit your job. All

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Speaker 2: make you more adults. Yeah, like they're literally saying, like,

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Speaker 2: because you're not an adult. Yell at like yet mature.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean maybe be an adults by doing

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Speaker 1: goodbye wild My parents literally gave me their blessing for

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Speaker 1: They're like, hey, you you don't live your life the

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Speaker 2: But like, there's no way that OPI is going to

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Speaker 1: I responded and said, this is my life and if

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Speaker 2: Correct. But I am an utter shock.

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Speaker 1: I am financially independent of my family, have a great job,

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Speaker 2: How do parents come up with the shit? But it's

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Speaker 2: not all parents, it's just like your parents that are terrible. Yeah, yes,

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Speaker 2: this is not normal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah this is this isn't like every day we wake

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Speaker 1: Army and and you just say no.

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Speaker 2: You say no because why would you ever do that? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Why would you want to implode your life? It makes

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Speaker 1: absolutely no sense. But what makes a lot of sense

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Speaker 1: is the next update.

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Speaker 2: Let's freaking go, dude. I love a juicy, thick, long story.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we do. So.

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Speaker 1: Three months have passed since my parents declined attending my wedding. Initially,

439
00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:54,159
Speaker 1: I found peace and acceptance, looking forward to celebrating with

440
00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:56,920
Speaker 1: those who would be present, and knowing my parents wouldn't

441
00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,560
Speaker 1: be there to ruin it. However, a text for my

442
00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 1: younger brother nineteen mail shattered that piece, revealing that our

443
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,520
Speaker 1: parents threatened to kick him out of the house and

444
00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:10,400
Speaker 1: abandon him financially if he attends my wedding.

445
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:14,120
Speaker 2: So they're blackmailing like more family members.

446
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 1: Or the nineteen year old brother who's living at home

447
00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:20,479
Speaker 1: and depending on them, had no plans of trying to,

448
00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,360
Speaker 1: you know, pay his own way in life and.

449
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:26,760
Speaker 2: Getting kicked out. I feel is this brother's ninety year

450
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 2: old brother who lives at home, no plans of even

451
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 2: having a job or adding values exactly kick him on

452
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:37,720
Speaker 2: the streets. But no, this kid is literally screwed if

453
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 2: his parents screwed. I mean well, also, nineteen is like

454
00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:44,920
Speaker 2: in college still, basically, what are we doing? Yeah, dude,

455
00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:49,200
Speaker 2: that's rough. Victing your child evicting your child in college

456
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 2: who's like just trying to survive. This is insanity. Oh man,

457
00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 2: I feel bad for everyone in the story except the Scots,

458
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 2: except the Scott's, the parents and the parents. Okay, I

459
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 2: only feel bad for a select few members.

460
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 1: I feel bad for a few people in this story.

461
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 1: This utterly crushed me. While my older brother lives independently,

462
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 1: my two younger siblings still live with our parents. Despite

463
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,919
Speaker 1: my parents' decision not to come to the wedding. I

464
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,800
Speaker 1: told my brothers how badly I want them to attend,

465
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 1: assuring them of my support. When you have to tell

466
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 1: your own brothers, hey, just because mom and dad isn't

467
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,640
Speaker 1: going like I want you there, where are we at?

468
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 2: We're at a broken family, John, That is correct, Sir,

469
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:31,440
Speaker 2: ding ding Ding, you win the family feud again.

470
00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 1: After their shared support, I booked their travel, optimistic about

471
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 1: their participation. I was naive to believe our parents would

472
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:44,160
Speaker 1: accept this decision. Their subsequent outburst targeted my brothers, leveraging

473
00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 1: financial threats to dissuade them from attending, claiming they're betraying

474
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 1: the family by supporting me.

475
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:54,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, betraying the family by supporting one of your family

476
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 2: members that's getting married.

477
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, being good family like us and refuse to attend

478
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,359
Speaker 1: the wedding of the person we love so dearly health

479
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 1: the other brother nineteen twenty two and twenty seven. The

480
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 1: nineteen and twenty two year olds are at home financially

481
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 1: dependent on the parents, so they're like screwed if they

482
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,879
Speaker 1: attend this wedding. I offered to financially assist my brothers

483
00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: if they still wanted to attend, knowing they get kicked out.

484
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 1: But I realize the difficulty of abandoning familiarity.

485
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 2: Also, there would be a lot of money, Like how

486
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 2: could she support all that? That's what I'm saying. I

487
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 2: probably a destination wedding, so they're probably a little loaded.

488
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 1: And also I'm trying to see I offered to financially

489
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:31,679
Speaker 1: assist my brothers if they still want to attend, knowing

490
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,879
Speaker 1: that they'd get kicked out. I'm wondering if OPI is

491
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,400
Speaker 1: offering to help them after they get kicked out.

492
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 2: No, that's that's exactly what she's doing. So like it's like, Hey,

493
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 2: if you want to attend my wedding still, I will

494
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 2: like pay for your meals and apartment and stuff. That's

495
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 2: a lot for a twenty four year old woman. Yeah.

496
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:52,360
Speaker 2: I wonder like if she married someone who's like super wealthy.

497
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 2: I mean, the parents are paying for the entire wedding

498
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 2: and pretty chill about it. Yeah, So I imagine that

499
00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 2: family is like paying for not only the entire wedding,

500
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:05,719
Speaker 2: bit a destination wedding. Mmmmm, probably pretty low that she rich, honey.

501
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,679
Speaker 1: In response to this outburst, my brothers called me and

502
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 1: proposed an intervention aiming to address the broader familial issues

503
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 1: aka the bigger picture.

504
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 2: Of my parents being abusive. Yeah, I mean finally, hopefully

505
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 2: they take it well, hopefully they can get this resolve.

506
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 1: I tried my best to explain that this was a

507
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:28,439
Speaker 1: bad idea to the brothers, so basically like Op's, worried

508
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 1: that this would not work and maybe backfire.

509
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,919
Speaker 2: But have they had like a proper conversation yet, I

510
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:34,639
Speaker 2: don't know if they have.

511
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,119
Speaker 1: Despite my reservations, I supported them via phone call. I

512
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: felt I was bound by sibling loyalty. Yesterday's call confirmed

513
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 1: my fears. Amidst bio accusations, I endured personal attacks, ranging

514
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,639
Speaker 1: from insults against my fiance to baseless critiques of our

515
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 1: life choices. My father's tirade, marked by verbal abuse, culminated

516
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 1: in a cruel tirade like a tyrant. It culminated in

517
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 1: a cruel dismissed of my feelings. Here's a few notes

518
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 1: I took during the two hour intervention.

519
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 2: Two hours of just was like organized by the brothers. Yes, oh, brothers.

520
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 2: The brothers weren't I don't think intending for this time

521
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:15,439
Speaker 2: coming happened.

522
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 1: No, No, I think I think it's just shit show.

523
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 1: So number one, my fiance is not intellectual because he

524
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: likes to snowboard and doesn't know how to have intellectual conversations.

525
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 1: That is something my mom has said that snowboarders are

526
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: a bunch of pots smoking hippies. What about surfers. Many

527
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 1: surfers I know are quite intelligent. I started snowboarding. My

528
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: mom was concerned.

529
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 2: Really, Yeah, that's the that's the gateway. That's the gateway. Drug.

530
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 2: You're grinding your way down the gateway. Before you know,

531
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 2: you're grinding some weed and you're smoking a toke. That

532
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 2: is a dark cold path, dark cold yet dark cold

533
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 2: path downhill, just directly downhill, all the.

534
00:25:54,720 --> 00:26:00,120
Speaker 1: Way until you're done. Number two, my fiance doesn't have

535
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:05,199
Speaker 1: any royal or noble blood and therefore cannot have intelligent children.

536
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 2: Yo, does Opie have royal blood? Is this? Are we

537
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 2: making markle over here? Are we?

538
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 5: Like?

539
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:14,160
Speaker 2: Maybe princess got like a ton of flag for being

540
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 2: like a commoner? Dude? This is what is this? Royal like?

541
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 1: I cannot imagine royal blood? Do Opie's parents have royal blood?

542
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 1: I so highly doubt that. I so highly doubt that.

543
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe they do, But then that's like you can't

544
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 1: pay for the wedding. I guess the other parents offered

545
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 1: to maybe maybe they're in high society and they met

546
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,679
Speaker 1: in the high society circles op and her husband to be,

547
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:39,640
Speaker 1: and you know, they have a lot of money. They

548
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 1: just offered to pay for it because whatever they didn't

549
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: counter offer though noble blood.

550
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 2: I wonder if this is like England or something. I

551
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,120
Speaker 2: feel like maybe, yeah, I feel like in the UK

552
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 2: people have a stronger concept of nobility, definitely, because they

553
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 2: have like the old money, they have castle money. Back then,

554
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 2: they have castle money. Like all the Americans were like

555
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 2: trying to get away from the castle money, you know,

556
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 2: and they're like, do you have royal blood? Yeah? Dude,

557
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,199
Speaker 2: how many brothers do you have? Exactly? Dude, Yeah, how

558
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 2: much incest do you have in your family tree? Not good?

559
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:12,199
Speaker 2: It looked like a wreath, because if it doesn't, you

560
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 2: don't oiled blood.

561
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 1: Not turning this Christmas the family tree jewelry. That's bananas

562
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: Number three. It was rude for my fiance to not

563
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: bring flowers or wine when he flew from another state

564
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 1: for the day ask for my hand in marriage. He

565
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: asked our permission for the proposal, but why didn't he

566
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 1: give him?

567
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 2: Where was the wine? Where was the bouquet. Yeah, where

568
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 2: was the rose? And the rose wasn't even top shelf,

569
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 2: disgusting rose. It wasn't even from that small vineyard on

570
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 2: the east side of France where the grapes looked like

571
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 2: little hobbit toes. This isn't from one hundred years ago.

572
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: This isn't in a cellar in Benjamin Franklin's little bosom.

573
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:53,640
Speaker 2: How dare you? How dare you?

574
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 1: I would love to drink wine up in Benjamin frank

575
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 1: Yeah that sounds great.

576
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 2: Well, there's one of the most expensive bottles of wine

577
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 2: was owned by Benjamin Franklin at one point. Really, so, dude,

578
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 2: there's like a high chance that he was banging one

579
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,639
Speaker 2: of his mistresses right next to that bottle of wine.

580
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 2: That is crazy, dude, Franklin. Juice on that thing could pro.

581
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:17,120
Speaker 1: Create disgusting number four. My decision to change my job

582
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: and move to a new state with my fiance is

583
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:21,360
Speaker 1: a manipulation tactic.

584
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 2: Oh wait, no, it's a state. It's this is not

585
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,679
Speaker 2: the UK. This is America to a new state. That

586
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,239
Speaker 2: is true. So why do we care about royal What

587
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 2: is this? Do you have any real bloodshoon? I doubt it?

588
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 1: Maybe do you have blood producer Riley, What are you?

589
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: What are you looking up here?

590
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 2: I know I'm so to subtly program us.

591
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 4: We'll see here by the new computer.

592
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 2: I thought you were going to pull up our family

593
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 2: trees or something.

594
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:46,479
Speaker 4: For a second.

595
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 5: Of what countries refer to areas as states? Because there

596
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 5: are some countries that refer to areas of states rather

597
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 5: than America.

598
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but US don't.

599
00:28:56,560 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 4: Germany, Australia, Brazil, India, Australia, Mexico.

600
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,959
Speaker 2: A lot of places have states, but no one really

601
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 2: like talks about states.

602
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 5: Like we do.

603
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 4: Okay, Switzerland, that would make a lot of sense.

604
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 2: Those royal Swiss always putting holes in the plot in

605
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 2: the cheese of life. There's only a couple like royal

606
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 2: families still active in Europe. I think there's like six there.

607
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 2: Actually did a picture with all the royal children together

608
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 2: on Reddit, all of them. Yeah right, I look up

609
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 2: all the Royal children on Reddit and we can. We

610
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 2: can pull it up all the Royal children and all

611
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 2: the royal men. Could not put to the europe kid

612
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 2: and Royal children we.

613
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 1: Should just take over their castles hostile mode.

614
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, they're basically basically the images that's them Yeah, that's

615
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 4: that's it.

616
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 2: Current monarchies of Europe. Oh, we could take them, but

617
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 2: I think there's more. There's some other ones. I don't

618
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 2: think that's everyone. They had, like all the kids like

619
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 2: meet up, let's attack all the royals. Yeah, dude, and

620
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 2: take them down. I don't deserve to be here. We

621
00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 2: podcast for the people.

622
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 1: I have heard near a podcast, near a royal podcast.

623
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 2: It's like a royal kid right there. Dude, that is

624
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 2: a royal little zoom in royal little.

625
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 5: Shot n.

626
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: That is an English child. Why are English children so

627
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 1: adorable and English people so ugly?

628
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 4: That's like a mix. I don't think he's adorable.

629
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 2: I think he's adorable. He's like English adorable.

630
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 4: What how white?

631
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 2: He is a white child?

632
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 4: You're white too.

633
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 2: I'm so young. I'm the darkest of all of us.

634
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 4: Till the sun hits me, I caramelize.

635
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 2: Oh oh, I've never seen it.

636
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 1: The facts, Riley, but I'm bringing let me back. I'm

637
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 1: bringing us back to this list and keeping you inside.

638
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 1: Number five of the list of reasons my dad said,

639
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 1: calling people names and insults is the right thing to do.

640
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: When you're matt Son. Someday you're going to grow up

641
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 1: and he is.

642
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 2: The worst fatherly advice ever. You need to insult people

643
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 2: when they when you think they deserve it. Yeah, oh

644
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 2: my god. Wow.

645
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: Number six, my dad said, my decision to change my

646
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: career path is stupid and I am cutting him out

647
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 1: of his life.

648
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 2: Dude, you are doing that yourself, buddy, Bucker Rooney.

649
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: Number seven thanks, my fiance's job as a salesman makes

650
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 1: him a loser.

651
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 2: Number eight, my parents are mad.

652
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 1: I never offered to invite my uncle that I haven't

653
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: seen in thirteen years, who lives in Russia.

654
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 2: Bro, Where are they getting mad about all these random

655
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 2: familial connections. You're not invited to Scotch and inviting Uncle

656
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 2: Ivan from Russia.

657
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 1: Maybe they owe everyone some money and they're like you

658
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 1: will have rhymes they.

659
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 2: Want to you do not want to owe the Russians money,

660
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 2: that's correct. Break your kneecaps. I believe that. And they'll

661
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 2: use like nerve poison to make a hit on you

662
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 2: anywhere in the world. That is Auchi. You know they

663
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 2: killed a dude in the UK. Yeah, just like fairly recently.

664
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 2: He was like he died on a bench because like

665
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 2: they had like the Russian hitman and kill this dude,

666
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 2: oh on uk soil.

667
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 4: Like a dude in England died and I was like, whoa, I.

668
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 2: Mean no, yeah, dude in England died of Russian hands.

669
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: Oh I thought you said some person in England died.

670
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, person, But it was just some person. It

671
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 4: wasn't like anybody.

672
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 2: It was a guy. He has a name, kind of

673
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 2: guy in a family.

674
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: A special interest of the Russian Russian government, of the

675
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 1: Russian government.

676
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 4: So like a mobster.

677
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 2: No, no, like a like a government official.

678
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 4: Okay, there we did. That's a great description.

679
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 2: I believe. I believe. Actually I'm not sure. He was

680
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 2: a random guy. They just wanted him gone.

681
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 1: Number nine, my dad says my relationship is wrong and

682
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: he is not happy about it. Says it would be

683
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: smart to break up. Yeah, your relationship is wrong, so

684
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 1: just stop that. Just stop it, dude. They're so lame guys.

685
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 1: We have way more. This list is going crazy. Number ten,

686
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 1: my dad says he regrets not punching my fiance in

687
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: the face when he asked for his blessing. I regret

688
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 1: not beating the shit out of your fiance when he asked.

689
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 2: Has another piece of fatherly advice, you know, there's the

690
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 2: right time to curse people out, and there's the right

691
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 2: time to just punch people in the face. And I

692
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 2: know all of them. Good Dad of the Year award.

693
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: He says it will haunt him for the rest of

694
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 1: his life that he didn't punch him. Seriously, God, he says,

695
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: the only reason that he gave his blessings was not

696
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,959
Speaker 1: to hurt my feelings. Number eleven says my fiance's parents

697
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 1: are mean for not responding.

698
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 2: To their texts. Huh, but when you're an asshole, why

699
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 2: would you respond to the text. No one wants to

700
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 2: talk to him. No one wants to talk to him.

701
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 2: He's an asshole.

702
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 1: Number twelve called my fiance's mom a bitch. Wow, what

703
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: did she do to you other than pay for your

704
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 1: daughter's wedding?

705
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: She catch a certain time when it's right to hurl

706
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 2: insults at people, and he knows the right time, and

707
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 2: then he probably punched her. He's like, I live every

708
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 2: day regretting not punching this woman in the face. Hey,

709
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 2: say what you will about this guy. Man has principle. Truly,

710
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 2: that's the wrong one, but he got he sticks sticks.

711
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 1: To the Number thirteen said everyone at my engagement party

712
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 1: is unintellectual and a redneck and that they were shocked

713
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 1: at the crowd.

714
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 2: I decided to live around. Wow, what's wrong with that

715
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,879
Speaker 2: with rednecks? Guys? Look at Riley in the eyes real quick.

716
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 2: That is anymore? This is really we'll get there.

717
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: Sam is obstructed from They made an eye connection.

718
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's adorable.

719
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 5: There's nothing wrong with me to red neck. That just

720
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 5: means you work hard. That's what my grandfather always told me.

721
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:29,760
Speaker 1: It means you work hard and you duct tape giant

722
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: fans to inner tubes to go around in a lake.

723
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 2: Yep, for fun. This is true, dude, that looks so fun.

724
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 2: Have you ever done that giant fan?

725
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 5: No?

726
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 2: I haven't redneck enough. I'm not redneck enough. I had

727
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 2: beef with the rednecks. You did? Many rednecks in my school?

728
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 2: Oh are you bad? Why are you bad? Because they do?

729
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:54,879
Speaker 1: They were assholes and they would wear Confederate flags and

730
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 1: be terrible.

731
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 2: What do they do? Did they do anything to you?

732
00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 1: They'd probably spit tobacco too, Oh oh yeah, spitting tobacco.

733
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,839
Speaker 2: They're just assholes. Oh yeah yeah yeah.

734
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:10,800
Speaker 1: Shirts oh yeah, right, belts, trucks, t shirts, flags, hanging

735
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,240
Speaker 1: out of the trucks all over the place, phone cases

736
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:14,839
Speaker 1: like bananas.

737
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 2: Yes, but some might say where did the Confederates kind

738
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,240
Speaker 2: of like local terrorists kind.

739
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 5: Of yes, basically, but they don't view the one really

740
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 5: bad thing as a bad thing. They were like, oh,

741
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 5: that was just a side thing. It was more about

742
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,879
Speaker 5: state rights and other things.

743
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 2: Wait, I want to know if the Red Necks, like

744
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 2: did they're like obviously all terrible. Did the Rednecks do

745
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:36,359
Speaker 2: anything to you specifically?

746
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 1: They would like, oh, I remember one time I was

747
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:42,359
Speaker 1: reading in class, in a reading class, and this guy

748
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: came up. He's like, well, I was reading Malcolm Gladwell

749
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 1: in ninth grade and he came up.

750
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:50,799
Speaker 2: He's like, what are you reading? Dork? I was just like,

751
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 2: was silent. He's like, you just put makeup on or

752
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 2: some some shit like that.

753
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, it was.

754
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 2: All right. I'm going to paint him in a picture

755
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,359
Speaker 2: complete or completely different. He said what are you reading, dork?

756
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 2: Because he was genuinely curious and wanted to read, and

757
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:10,280
Speaker 2: he identified Lesiah didn't let him. And then he said

758
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 2: put on some makeup because he was really into you

759
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 2: and he wanted you to be prettier. That is absolutely

760
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 2: fALS sir. Yeah, it was that guy and now he

761
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 2: works at Walmart abbably.

762
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 4: Probably this is true redneck behavior.

763
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy. So, like, are like the most of

764
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 2: the like what percentage of your school was like like

765
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:31,840
Speaker 2: like that kind of redneck, like dick redneck.

766
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 1: There was a I would say twenty percent hardcore redneck population,

767
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 1: and then another like ten to thirty percent that were

768
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 1: just kind of like they might have some salt life stickers.

769
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 1: With salt life, it's like a country it's uh, you know,

770
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 1: what's that fox for dirt dirt bikers?

771
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:48,839
Speaker 2: Oh?

772
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 1: Fox, it's just hot fox. Yeah, that's what fox for

773
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 1: rednecks as salt life. Yeah, so like when they're dirt

774
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 1: biking and like putting in on their trucks and stuff

775
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 1: like that, it's just the sticker that they put on shit.

776
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 2: So like, what are like, have you kept in touch

777
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 2: with any of the people from high school?

778
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 4: No? I have a few redneck friends.

779
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:05,839
Speaker 2: There's a difference.

780
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: Between country people and redneck people. Country is your your

781
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 1: sweetest pie? What can I get for you?

782
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 2: Darling? Just like just so sweet.

783
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 4: He's looking right at me as he's saying this.

784
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 2: I'm talking because conversation with you and Rednecks can be fun.

785
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 4: A little bit more arrogant, a little bit more.

786
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: There's Yeah, it's just very very slippery territory with the Rednecks,

787
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 1: very stubborn, but they know how to tape shit together

788
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: and make awesome, crazy dangerous shit.

789
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, tape some like rockets and like some like like.

790
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: Like redneck activities one hundred percent like super fun. Yeah, yeah,

791
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 1: taping taping like bottle rockets to like a bike.

792
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 2: That is awesome. That is awesome. So anyways, have you

793
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 2: kept in touch with it so you don't know what

794
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 2: anyone from high school is doing? I know my friends

795
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 2: from high school. Yeah.

796
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 1: The only people that I was even remotely close to

797
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 1: was that that ten to thirty percent that were like, oh,

798
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: they might have some salt live stickers and like, but

799
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 1: they weren't like really with the Rednecks, what.

800
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 2: Are they up to?

801
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: Working at Walmart? Bro all of them pretty much? Yeah,

802
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: all still back home. They all freaking they're just they

803
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: all had a kid at eighteen to twenty two, chilling

804
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 1: beer gut at twenty seven.

805
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 2: They actually look forty in twenty seven. You talk about

806
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:26,359
Speaker 2: someone that's crazy, Yeah, come at me, anyways, Yeah, we

807
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 2: had completely different high school experiences. Yes, but then the

808
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 2: other fifty percent was like preppy. That's bizarre that it's

809
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 2: like preppy.

810
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: And it was a fifty to fifty split how because

811
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 1: of where and how it was built. It was a

812
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 1: master planned community built literally on top of a ranch,

813
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: a master what do you mean master planned? It's like

814
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 1: it's basically like if imagine if a.

815
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 2: Mall was a city. Oh, they plan out a whole

816
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 2: city at once, and they build it all in one go,

817
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 2: and then they sell all the homes and it looks

818
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 2: like it feels like a mall, kind of like very

819
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 2: cookie cutter, very like that exists.

820
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, dude, big time Florida, like tons of there's

821
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,359
Speaker 1: like the redneck part and then there's the preppy part.

822
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:10,280
Speaker 2: And it's like there's different areas of town.

823
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 1: They bought swampland to build it on, so all the

824
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: swamp people mixed with all the preppie rich kids coming

825
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:21,879
Speaker 1: into the new mass playing community and whila, my school was.

826
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:27,280
Speaker 2: Born swamp people. That's so interesting. It was an interesting

827
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,800
Speaker 2: dynamic for sure. All right, sorry, I got so on

828
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 2: it so interested in John Flora.

829
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: Sidetrack, Well, you can cut that down to maybe the

830
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 1: most interesting bits.

831
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 2: Fuck, dude, I'm yeah, that's so interesting.

832
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: We have more in this list of reasons that this

833
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: dad is shit and hates their child getting married.

834
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:48,359
Speaker 2: So on to number fourteen, the last fourteen. Yeah, there's more.

835
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 2: I told you. I told you this is a big, badlist.

836
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:51,840
Speaker 2: Number fourteen.

837
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 1: The last minute of the call consisted of my dad

838
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: screaming at the top of his lungs that I am stupid,

839
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 1: idiot and a dumb bitch. I started hysterically crying at

840
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: this point. I felt like a little girl again. He said,

841
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 1: a dumb bitch. I can't imagine my parents calling me

842
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 1: a dumb bitch.

843
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,760
Speaker 2: Dude, this dad is the dumbest bitch I've ever seen.

844
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 1: In my life. Yeah, I've ever seen in my life.

845
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:15,360
Speaker 1: Even Sofia would would agree with me.

846
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't even You're not even allowed to say

847
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:18,399
Speaker 2: dumb bitch anymore. You can't.

848
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 1: But I said it my bitch card. She took it away. Yeah,

849
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 1: I'm giving it back to you to call this guy

850
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: dumb bitch.

851
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 2: Dumb bitch. Yeah, I feel like if bitch is used

852
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 2: like uh, well, I think if it's used like without

853
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:33,839
Speaker 2: assigning gender to it. I think it's okay. Yeah, it's

854
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 2: like dude, you know, like dude is Jude is genderless,

855
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 2: bitch is genderless. A man can be a bitch, a

856
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 2: woman can be a bitch.

857
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,440
Speaker 4: I always like being like, go off bitch or like

858
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:42,240
Speaker 4: sleigh bitch.

859
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, I've never heard you say sleigh bitch. Ever,

860
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 2: the Times zero fifteen is a lie. It's never said

861
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 2: either that thousand correction bitch please, Like, I've never heard

862
00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 2: that either. Bro, You're just lying.

863
00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 3: I tried.

864
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 5: I have you lying bitch when I like to my brother,

865
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 5: but like, if I get heated in a conversation, I'll

866
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 5: be like, bitch please.

867
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 4: Okay. I can't really remember the last time I did it,

868
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 4: but I know.

869
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 1: That you let us know in the comments if Riley's

870
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 1: lying or not. Number fifteen relevant. He called me a

871
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 1: liar when I explained all the horrible things his friends

872
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:22,720
Speaker 1: did to me and why I didn't want to invite

873
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: them to the wedding. He even called me a liar

874
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: when I explained that his friend seventy mail would try

875
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 1: to talk about his sex life with me.

876
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 2: This is his the friends.

877
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:35,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, the dad of the Scotts family would be like, hey,

878
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 1: OPI I'm man, I haven't been getting it from the

879
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 1: old ball in.

880
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 2: Chane, if you know what I mean.

881
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 1: But more ball, more Shane ball God, And finally number

882
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,959
Speaker 1: sixteen crying, I explained to my dad, I just wish

883
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 1: you cared about my feelings too, because I am also

884
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: really hurt and just want you to understand my perspective.

885
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 1: He said, why the fuck should I care about your feelings?

886
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 1: Why you don't respect me, my friends or my values.

887
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 1: Fluck your feelings, you stupid bitch, worst coming from father

888
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 1: ever to exist, lumping the mother in here as well.

889
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:18,840
Speaker 2: For silently agreeing. My god, my god, what an awful

890
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:22,400
Speaker 2: thing to say to your daughter. That is. I'm like,

891
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 2: this is at this point, I'm feeling like no contact

892
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 2: at least for a while. Yeah, right, Like I feel

893
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 2: like the father has proven time and time again that

894
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 2: he does not deserve to be in your life. There's

895
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 2: ZERI plus what you think in the comments, but I

896
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 2: think this moment right now.

897
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 1: Absolutely no contact. Yeah, this is going to make your

898
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 1: wedding miserable. Yeah, if they're agreed, honestly, they're now way

899
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: worse than the Scots.

900
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say, yeah, Dane I feel like the

901
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 2: Scots probably wouldn't have been that bad at the wedding, honestly,

902
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 2: But the parents, after the call with my brothers, they

903
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 2: said they will still be attending my wedding because this

904
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 2: has become an issue of standing up to my unacceptable behavior.

905
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 2: Where's the mom Where is.

906
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: The mom's She's sitting there being like, yeah tell him

907
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 1: howby no, no mama's. Despite my brother's attempts at defense,

908
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: we were outmatched by my father's narcissism, and during the

909
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 1: call was agonizing yet crucial for my siblings to witness

910
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 1: his true nature gas lit and invalidated. I feel so dehumanized, understandable.

911
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:27,360
Speaker 1: I never thought I would someday block my parents. Today

912
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 1: mark's day number one of going no contact, and that

913
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: is the end.

914
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 2: That's beautiful. Wait, there's no updates. There's no updates. I

915
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 2: am glad that the resolution was going no contact. This

916
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 2: is probably one of the most deserve no contacts that

917
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 2: I have ever seen. A million percents. Yeah, yeah, this

918
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,280
Speaker 2: is I mean, it feels like this is what is needed.

919
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:53,799
Speaker 1: The great news is that she is now marrying in

920
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 1: and will have it seems like great in laws.

921
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, perfect time to lose a dad, Perfect time

922
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 2: because he got a new went popping ever a better die,

923
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,239
Speaker 2: a rich one too. It's gonna pay for the wedding.

924
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 2: Let's go daddy. Money bags, datty money bag, talk about it.

925
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 2: You're upgrading, you're upgrading, adopt a new dad. But what

926
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 2: is there actually more an update?

927
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 5: I think maybe maybe, maybe maybe maybe because this yeah, this.

928
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 4: Was no, I don't no, no, no, this isn't.

929
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, because we read a string of all the updates,

930
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: it's strung together.

931
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 4: I like to just double check that's smart.

932
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 2: Two months ago, checked the last words of the last update.

933
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, no, no, this this TLDR is the same

934
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 5: as the tld R here, and I just checking it

935
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 5: as a list like the other one.

936
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 2: Is right. Yeah, today day, I want to go into contact.

937
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:41,399
Speaker 2: Well there you have it. Op.

938
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: Sounds like she's sailing into the sunset with her fiance

939
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 1: and new parents.

940
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 2: And ditching the old ones. Yeah as she I think

941
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 2: those old parents they to be drowned.

942
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 1: But you know what, I want to sail on on

943
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 1: the seven seas.

944
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 2: This next story. Yes, please