1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: Happy New Year, friend, or is it too too late 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:05,720 Speaker 1: to be saying that. I'll leave that part out. What's up? 3 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: It's Key Keys cut the podcast. It's been a minute, 4 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: but the courtroom is officially back in session as we 5 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 1: kick off twenty twenty six, and there's no shortage of cases. 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 1: So friend, let's get right into this bonus case. Some 7 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: of these cases obviously will be too real, too ronchie, 8 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: maybe for the air early in the morning, so I'll 9 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:30,639 Speaker 1: put them all right here on the Friend's Show podcast. 10 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: So I'm happy you're here. I hope you had an 11 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: amazing twenty twenty six so far. No outside of everything 12 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: going on in the world, I hope your life, you're family, 13 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 1: you're good like I hope everything's great. So if not, though, 14 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: I'm here for you. Friend. Okay, reach out, we can 15 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 1: go have a drink of something. But anyway, let's get 16 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: into this case. It says, hey, key Key, am I 17 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: wrong for asking my girlfriend for her Instagram password because 18 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: she won't stop posting thirst traps? Okay, Uh, my name 19 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: is Derek, so hi Derek, if you're here. I've been 20 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: dating my girlfriend for just over a year. She's very 21 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 1: attractive and gets a lot of attention online. She loves 22 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:15,279 Speaker 1: posting selfies and body videos on Instagram. What's a body video? 23 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 1: I can only imagine, But anyway, he says, I can't lie. 24 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 1: I'm starting to feel like she's posting all the time 25 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: to get attention from other men. I peep the men 26 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: who like in comment on her photos, and I see 27 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 1: her responding to their comments and liking their comments by 28 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: sending heart emojis. To me, it is very disrespectful. She says, 29 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: she ignores their dms, so she's not talking to them 30 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 1: in messages, but it still makes me very uncomfortable. I 31 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: asked her to stop posting, but she says no, and 32 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: that I'm trying to control her. So I said, if 33 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: you're going to keep posting, I'm gonna need the logins 34 00:01:54,480 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: to your social media pages. Okay, Derek, all right, guy a, Derek, 35 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think you're wrong for feeling how 36 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: you feel. Right, you're allowed to feel that. You're allowed 37 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: to be uncomfortable with your girls showing off all her 38 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:13,919 Speaker 1: goodies on social media. However, friend, if she is making 39 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: you feel this type of insecurity and she's not addressing it, 40 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: she's not willing to you know, dial it back or 41 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: hear you out, you have to leave the relationship. That's 42 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: my opinion, because you've only been dating a year, you're 43 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 1: already having these type of issues to the point where 44 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: you feel like you need to have her Instagram log 45 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 1: in so that you can monitor her page. Like why 46 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: do you want to put yourself through that? You know, 47 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 1: like you're not pap patrol, Like you're not a patrol officer. 48 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: You shouldn't have to patrol the person you're in a 49 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: relationship with and how they act on social media. So 50 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: I feel like, friend, I know you may not want 51 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: to hear this, but I think that you should leave 52 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: the relationship and just call it quits at this point 53 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: because trying to control her is only going to cause 54 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: more issues in you guys situation. It's only going to 55 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 1: make her res you even more. So I just don't 56 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: think it's healthy. I don't think it's healthy, Derek, And 57 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: I don't want you to go through twenty twenty six 58 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: dealing with this, Okay, And you know, was her social 59 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: media different when you guys before you got together or 60 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: did you like her thirst traps? And did you you know, 61 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 1: hit her up on Instagram? Because a lot of times, 62 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: the way you get them is the way that you 63 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: lose them. Okay, so friend, sorry to say, I just 64 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 1: think you should call the quits, but of course you 65 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 1: are the jury. If you are not Derek, you are 66 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: the jury. So I posted a video on the Fred 67 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: Show Radio Instagram page. Please go like, comment and let 68 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: me know your thoughts or let Derek know your thoughts 69 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: and let's see if we're on the same page. Of course, 70 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: I'll be back on Monday morning with a new Kiki 71 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: scort case on the Fred's Show, listening the eight o'clock hour. 72 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: In the meantime, I love you, have a great weekend. 73 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: Bear down, Go Panthers. All the things. I don't care 74 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: about football, but I'm pretending because both cities are winning. 75 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: I love that for us. Okay, Bye,