WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: I Have Condoms

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jebels second date update. Normally, when do we get

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<v Speaker 1>emails into the show for a Seconday update, I'll read

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<v Speaker 1>them and I'll be like, what did they do that

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<v Speaker 1>screwed up the date? You can't really tell. It seems

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<v Speaker 1>all normal. But I read Josh's email, Who's on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone for a second day update right now? And all

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<v Speaker 1>I thought was, what did you do that didn't screw

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<v Speaker 1>up the dates? Josh? How are you? I'm good? But

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<v Speaker 1>I thought the date went well. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking about. I mean, I'll let you tell it

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<v Speaker 1>and then oh no, we can all be the judge.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, what's the name of the girl you

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<v Speaker 1>want to call today? Le Neves Caroline Carolyne? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>and where did you meet Carolyne? So we never saw

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<v Speaker 1>the on tender? And I need a lot of women

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<v Speaker 1>on Tender? Was that like, did you? Are you bragging? Or? Well? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I've had the app for a while, it just

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you're kind of like, yeah, I meet so

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<v Speaker 1>many chicks on Tender? No, man, I mean it's true,

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<v Speaker 1>I do. Or is a bad thing because you're meeting

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of women and you're still single. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I like to play it for you, do you know

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<v Speaker 1>feel it out? Okay, sure, it's all your decisions. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about tell us about playing her field? How

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<v Speaker 1>was playing Caroline? Still? Caroline was really nice. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was like her first time on a tender date,

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<v Speaker 1>because she was like nervous or like, whatever about it?

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<v Speaker 1>You guys do for Oh? Sorry, would you guys? Would

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<v Speaker 1>you do for your date? We went to dinner, but

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully you had better chemistry than what's just happened. But again, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>exactly said. Now we're all on an awkward date. I'm talking. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how was it with her? I thought it was good?

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<v Speaker 1>We vibe well. So I do this thing to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like break the ice on first date. So I

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<v Speaker 1>always tell the tender person like, hey, why don't you

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<v Speaker 1>bring over some of your unopened mail? And I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>bring some of my unopened mail and we'll open it together.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the point of that. It's cool, it's a conversation piece. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>people have actually followed through with this. Yeah, it's just mail,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I opened her mails to open his mind. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not that big of a deal. Okay, do you pay

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<v Speaker 1>each other's bills too? Or no, no, it's fun. And

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<v Speaker 1>I actually I feel like I helped her out because

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<v Speaker 1>like she got a ticket, like a trash can fine

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<v Speaker 1>or something like that. So I told her, I'm like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you can totally fight it, like you're not gonna actually

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<v Speaker 1>charge you. Okay, so you actually all right? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that would be I'd sleep with you right away if

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<v Speaker 1>you help me get out of a ticket. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>get a lot of tickets, So man, maybe we should

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<v Speaker 1>go out sometime. You know what, did she open up yours?

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<v Speaker 1>Like some bills and some like junk mail, nothing extracting

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<v Speaker 1>it and she didn't like open them and you have

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<v Speaker 1>a crazy amount of like outstanding debt or anything? Right, No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no, no no, it was it was mainly they're just like

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<v Speaker 1>start a conversation like, oh so you subscribe to this

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<v Speaker 1>type of magazine. Oh so you have this phone plan.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so you have electricity at your house and also

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<v Speaker 1>pay a water bill exactly. It's okay, yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's it. I've never heard of that before. So did

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<v Speaker 1>she seem to like it? She seemed to be having fun.

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<v Speaker 1>We will laughing and joke and it seems to be

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<v Speaker 1>going well. Okay, So it was a highlight of the date. No.

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<v Speaker 1>After that, we went to see a movie. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and you made her pay because you saw her bank account.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny you say that because I am in between

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<v Speaker 1>jobs at the moment, so I'm not like bawling. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But there's a lot of cool ways that you can

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<v Speaker 1>get around stuff, and like not, I want to say,

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<v Speaker 1>be frugal just to be like smart. I think frugal

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<v Speaker 1>is a smart thing. Like I thin, frugal is sexy

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<v Speaker 1>what you do. So we got our movie tickets and

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<v Speaker 1>she sent me out to get popcorn. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you know, like most movie theaters, if you

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<v Speaker 1>get a large popcorn and they gave you fromlimited refills

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. Right, So I'm going out to get popcorn

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<v Speaker 1>and I look over to this like pretty much empty

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<v Speaker 1>trash can and so the empty unlimited popcorn bucket in there.

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<v Speaker 1>It just called your name, I hear you. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>the trash can was pretty much empty, like maybe like

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<v Speaker 1>you coked in there. Nothing ridiculous. Start. I took it out,

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<v Speaker 1>I emptied it, I cleaned it completely. No one was there,

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<v Speaker 1>no one saw it. So I just walked up to

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<v Speaker 1>the counter and they gave me a three week fils.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally need to save ten dollars. All right, did

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<v Speaker 1>she see it though? No? No one, Sorry, no one's noticed.

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<v Speaker 1>So I came back and we had popcorn and it

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<v Speaker 1>was good buttery tape to whatever and everything everything went well.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I kind of a little bit cried during

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<v Speaker 1>the movie because it like reminded me of my ex.

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<v Speaker 1>But I still wasn't that big of act. And you

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<v Speaker 1>ate popcorn out of the trash. That's where we're at. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say crying. I would say there might have

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<v Speaker 1>been a few tears. Okay, all of this is fine.

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<v Speaker 1>If she doesn't know the background of any of these things, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're crying, she can see you as like being

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<v Speaker 1>in tune with your emotional side. Great, awesome. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell her that, right, Like, I'm crying because of my ex.

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<v Speaker 1>We used to go eat garbage popcorn together all the time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she knows the crying, and I'm for

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<v Speaker 1>sure if he doesn't know about the pop Okay, Okay, So,

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<v Speaker 1>how was the end of the evening. Did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>get a kiss or anything? No? So, I we're driving

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<v Speaker 1>back to her place, however, and she seems like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like nervous or like anxious. So I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>like ease her thoughts, like her mind or whatever. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just let her know. I'm like, hey, just so

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I do have a condo, said I have

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<v Speaker 1>a condom or a condo condom like protected. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>just throwing out there, like she wasn't headed up to

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<v Speaker 1>your place or anything, right, You're just just let you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And I have condoms everywhere. We were heading this to

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<v Speaker 1>her place, and I just probably she was getting anxious,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe she didn't have any. You don't say it,

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<v Speaker 1>then you bypassed the first kiss and went straight to

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<v Speaker 1>how you have protection. I just want to know that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm safe. So wait, did it work? Did she call

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<v Speaker 1>up down after you said that? Because I have a

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<v Speaker 1>feeling she didn't. No, No, she said that she had

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<v Speaker 1>to be like up early for work or something. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you really not see an issue with any of this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give you, guys that I sort of waited a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit to mention the condom, but I think that

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<v Speaker 1>might have been the only thing I did. Long. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll find out. We'll play a song and then come

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<v Speaker 1>back and call her and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Okay, hanger fucking jubil in the morning, right

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of a second date update. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just joining us and you're a bit nervous about

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<v Speaker 1>what might happen, don't worry. I've got protection. I've got

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<v Speaker 1>so no matter what happens, we are good. And so

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<v Speaker 1>does Josh, who's on the phone right now. He's got

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<v Speaker 1>condoms as well. And Josh told us about his date

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<v Speaker 1>with a girl named Caroline. They went to dinner in

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<v Speaker 1>a movie, did kind of a weird activity at dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>He told her to bring her mail along and they

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<v Speaker 1>opened mail together. He says it's a fun thing to

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<v Speaker 1>do with people, and actually it kind of sounded entertaining,

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<v Speaker 1>so I can't really rip him for it. After dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>they ended up going to a movie and Josh is

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<v Speaker 1>a very frugal dude who knows how to cut corners,

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<v Speaker 1>so he grabbed a popcorn bag out of the trash

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<v Speaker 1>and took that up to the counter and got some

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<v Speaker 1>free popcorn. He doesn't think she noticed that, though. The

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<v Speaker 1>thing that he thinks is the reason she's not getting

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<v Speaker 1>back to him is because at the end of the date,

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<v Speaker 1>he just sort of threw it out there while he

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<v Speaker 1>was driving her home. Hey, I got condoms. Yes, they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even get a kiss or anything. Josh, Before we

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<v Speaker 1>call her, I forgot to ask you have you talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her at all since your date? Is she responded

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<v Speaker 1>to anything? So I sent her like three text messages

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<v Speaker 1>over like the last two or three days, So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if she's like ghostee me. Like to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to know it's just a chance that

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<v Speaker 1>we can hang out again, because like I have other

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<v Speaker 1>women that match with me and that are like hitting

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<v Speaker 1>me up. Okay, Yeah, well you got other ways to

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<v Speaker 1>use those condoms, said glad they won't go to waste.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we had chemistry, so I'd rather just kick

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<v Speaker 1>it with her. But if she's not down, okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to know so I can move on to other women. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you gotta supply condoms. You got to get

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<v Speaker 1>through these things, you know. For real, though, it's so

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<v Speaker 1>presumptuous to say that you have protection when you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>even kissed someone. I mean it's literally like telling them

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<v Speaker 1>I know we're going to have sex. Yeah, that was

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<v Speaker 1>my mistake. I read the vibe songs, so we'll see it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dollar phone up right now here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>might I speak to Caroline? Please? This is Caroline. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning, like the radio show. Yeah, you actually

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<v Speaker 1>know the show. I've heard of the show. Okay, there

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<v Speaker 1>it goes. It's always what we were so shocked for

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<v Speaker 1>a minute, like what really? But at least you've heard

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<v Speaker 1>of it, so that Yeah, it's it's a radio show,

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel in the Morning. And I'm calling you

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<v Speaker 1>today because why are you calling? Oh? Yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 1>getting there, jeez, I'm very patient, are you? I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>you today because we got an email from one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners about you. Okay, about what? Well, we do

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<v Speaker 1>a segment on our show called the second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and then end up not calling them after, they

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<v Speaker 1>can email us to get you on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>see if we can find out what happened. Oh okay, interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have any idea who might have emailed us?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, I don't do that many first dates.

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<v Speaker 1>So if it's in the last few weeks, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a guess. Okay, go for a guess. We'll tell you

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<v Speaker 1>if you're right. Is it Josh? Yes, Josh has condoms.

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<v Speaker 1>If you were wondering he told me about that, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I did. Everyone. Were you mortified when he said that

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<v Speaker 1>or pissed? I? Okay, at first I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>a joke, and then I realized it wasn't a joke,

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<v Speaker 1>so I wasn't pissed. I was just like, oh God,

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<v Speaker 1>and he had multiple there were many condoms or you

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<v Speaker 1>got to see him, they're like, oh, the glove box

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<v Speaker 1>in his car and just condoms just start spilling out

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<v Speaker 1>like a cornucopia of safe sex conucopia. Yeah. No, he

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<v Speaker 1>opened his center console and pulled out like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if it was like twelve or twenty four, but

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<v Speaker 1>he was like really excited that he got a deal

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<v Speaker 1>on them somehow, Like he got them. W did he

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<v Speaker 1>gets discount condoms? Yeah? No, I mean he would seem

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<v Speaker 1>like a frugal guy just in general. He was very

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<v Speaker 1>like into the deal of the condoms. What was the deal?

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<v Speaker 1>He said he paid like five bucks for them on

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<v Speaker 1>the internet. Huh, is there a dark web for condoms. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea. Josh told us about that because

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<v Speaker 1>he said that he knows that might have been like

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<v Speaker 1>a misstep on the date. He thought that was awkward

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<v Speaker 1>to bring up at the end of the date. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that the reason you're not calling it back? Well, just

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<v Speaker 1>in general, I liked Josh, like he was a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say. The date didn't really live up to

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<v Speaker 1>my expectations, and part of that was his fault, but

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<v Speaker 1>part of it wasn't what happened. So we go to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and he had this idea that we should like

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<v Speaker 1>bring each other's mail, which I actually thought was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of unique and cute. He told us about that, and

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<v Speaker 1>he also told us you got a ticket. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>he kind of like helps. He's like, I can help

0:10:55.600 --> 0:10:57.199
<v Speaker 1>you get out of that, which you know, it's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>And after dinner, this is a little weird to me.

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<v Speaker 1>He tried to pay with a group on but that's

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<v Speaker 1>not group Okay, No, that was fair, but it was expired.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate that they still have to honor how much

0:11:11.720 --> 0:11:14.000
<v Speaker 1>money that you spent on that dough So I ended

0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:16.040
<v Speaker 1>up chipping in a little, which honestly is fine, Like

0:11:16.080 --> 0:11:18.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm totally fine, lest it was just a little uncomfortable,

0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:21.280
<v Speaker 1>like it turned into a weird moment. Okay, well other

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<v Speaker 1>than dinner, how is everything else? You guys went to

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<v Speaker 1>a movie, right? Was that fine? Yea, So we went

0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:28.520
<v Speaker 1>to a movie. The theater itself was kind of gross

0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:30.240
<v Speaker 1>to me, Like, I just wish we'd gone to a

0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:34.640
<v Speaker 1>different theater. What was gross? So halfway through the movie

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<v Speaker 1>I realized there was like showed gum on the bottom

0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:42.040
<v Speaker 1>of the popcorn bag that we were eating. Oh my god, gross.

0:11:43.400 --> 0:11:46.160
<v Speaker 1>I wonder how that happened on the bottom bottom on

0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:48.400
<v Speaker 1>the outside, like on the bag. I'm like, how are

0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:53.599
<v Speaker 1>they serving this bag with a gum on it? Yeah? Yeah, disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that grossed me out. But again, like that's

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<v Speaker 1>not Josh's fault. That was the feeder. So it was

0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:01.520
<v Speaker 1>like another word moment. But that wasn't he didn't do that,

0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:03.520
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, that was definitely not him.

0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:05.400
<v Speaker 1>That was theater's fault for sure. I mean you can't

0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:08.040
<v Speaker 1>blame him for that. Yeah. And actually I ended up

0:12:08.080 --> 0:12:10.040
<v Speaker 1>going on YELP that night and I left them like

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<v Speaker 1>one stark. I'm like, you don't serve your food with

0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:16.320
<v Speaker 1>chewed gum on it. Of course I left a review

0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:18.440
<v Speaker 1>because I don't want that near my mouth. It's like

0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:22.959
<v Speaker 1>someone else's chewed gum. It's like, all right, so do

0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:25.800
<v Speaker 1>what Just All in all, it was an awkward date. Yeah,

0:12:25.840 --> 0:12:28.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, I did like him, Okay, it was just

0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:30.599
<v Speaker 1>these weird little things that kept happening, and then it

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<v Speaker 1>just at the end of it, I was left on

0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:34.280
<v Speaker 1>the fence about him. It sounds like you followed your

0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:38.720
<v Speaker 1>like intuition that maybe something wasn't sitting right. Yeah, that's

0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:41.440
<v Speaker 1>how exactly how I felt. It's just like something was

0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:44.960
<v Speaker 1>off about it. Well, speaking of awkward surprises, he's actually

0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:48.160
<v Speaker 1>on the other line listen and wants to talk to you. Wait,

0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:51.440
<v Speaker 1>he's wait, he just heard it. Yeah, I was here

0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:56.280
<v Speaker 1>the whole time. Oh my god. Okay, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't you guys say hi to each other? I

0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:03.200
<v Speaker 1>mean it's been a while, like a week. Um. So

0:13:03.320 --> 0:13:05.680
<v Speaker 1>here's the thing, the group on thing. I didn't know

0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:07.880
<v Speaker 1>it was inspired, Like I bought it a while back

0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:09.720
<v Speaker 1>and I haven't got a chance to use it. So

0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:11.360
<v Speaker 1>I think it could just be a perfect time. We're

0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:13.560
<v Speaker 1>going on a day and then it was expired, like

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea. Yeah, no, I didn't think that

0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:18.400
<v Speaker 1>was on purpose, Like that wasn't a real issue. It

0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:20.960
<v Speaker 1>was just kind of awkward. I guess the thing I

0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:23.280
<v Speaker 1>did that was my fault, that I was just reading

0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:26.160
<v Speaker 1>signals wrong, Like I maybe probably shouldn't have flung out

0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:30.520
<v Speaker 1>the fact that I had condoms. Yeah, I mean, and

0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:32.920
<v Speaker 1>then they'd like to show her the condoms too. I

0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:34.720
<v Speaker 1>might have been a bit much, you know. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe that's a maybe from you, Josh, Like,

0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:40.400
<v Speaker 1>are you not listening? My thing is like I was

0:13:40.440 --> 0:13:43.000
<v Speaker 1>reading the signals wrong. I thought that she was giving

0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:45.080
<v Speaker 1>me all the signs, like I thought I was giving

0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:47.240
<v Speaker 1>the green light, like I was a green light. Like

0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:49.440
<v Speaker 1>we didn't even kiss though, I don't know, I'm gonna listen.

0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:51.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm really mad about it. You weren't like a trip

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<v Speaker 1>about it. It was just bizarre, Like next time, I

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<v Speaker 1>would recommend not doing that. And it doesn't prove I mean, Josh,

0:13:57.360 --> 0:13:59.320
<v Speaker 1>since you called us, it does prove that you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>more than just like a one night booty call, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what it would normally feel like if some dude

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, I got condoms. Yeah, it's exactly. Yeah. Yeah,

0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:09.160
<v Speaker 1>that's not what I was going for at all. I

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<v Speaker 1>just missed, right. I thought she was giving vibes that

0:14:11.960 --> 0:14:14.520
<v Speaker 1>she wasn't giving, and that was my fault. Okay, but

0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:17.840
<v Speaker 1>its fall astle movie thing goes. I'm appalled, Like I

0:14:17.880 --> 0:14:20.480
<v Speaker 1>had no idea that that was even all the bag.

0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:23.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean I would get a refund, but I mean

0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:26.680
<v Speaker 1>it's too late now because I didn't know that it

0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:28.840
<v Speaker 1>was bad. But like I would have got a refund

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<v Speaker 1>if you told me. Well, I appreciate that, and I

0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:33.440
<v Speaker 1>obviously that's not your fault, Like I didn't take that

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<v Speaker 1>against you. That's not like you like wearing the trash

0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:42.160
<v Speaker 1>and grabbed a popcorn bag. I mean, like i'd be ridiculous. Yeah,

0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:45.040
<v Speaker 1>that'd be dirty, Like no, thank you. Yeah, I mean

0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:47.920
<v Speaker 1>you can't blame him for that. Yeah, no, I can't

0:14:47.960 --> 0:14:51.240
<v Speaker 1>blame you for that, Josh obviously. Yeah. So I feel

0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:53.520
<v Speaker 1>like I'd only had like really one strike, and that

0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:56.320
<v Speaker 1>was like the condom thing and like ships out first date,

0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:59.560
<v Speaker 1>so like you're gonna have some strikes, only one thing

0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:01.160
<v Speaker 1>to go on on the first date. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>that's still a really good first date. It's not bad.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true, Caroline, would you like to give him a

0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:08.560
<v Speaker 1>shot at a second strike? Would you? Would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a second date with Josh? Will pay

0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:13.160
<v Speaker 1>for it? He made it pretty good. Please listen him.

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<v Speaker 1>As long as you don't pull lots of condoms out

0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:19.720
<v Speaker 1>of like hidden spaces, Sure I will go out with

0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:23.800
<v Speaker 1>you again. Really awesome, I promise. No matter what happened,

0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:26.520
<v Speaker 1>people like holding hands or anything, I'm not wearing any

0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:29.720
<v Speaker 1>condoms at all. Like, no, you're missing the signals again.

0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:31.960
<v Speaker 1>That wasn't like, Hey, we don't need to use protections,

0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:35.920
<v Speaker 1>just wait for the condoms, No, Josh, Yeah, that's not

0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:39.040
<v Speaker 1>what I meant. Like, condoms are a great thing, but

0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:41.400
<v Speaker 1>we don't know each other that well yet, so maybe

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<v Speaker 1>keep them in the bedroom and like, away from our

0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:48.720
<v Speaker 1>initial dates. Yeah, right, that's fair. I can do that. Yeah,

0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:50.360
<v Speaker 1>only use condoms when people you've been dating for a

0:15:50.360 --> 0:15:57.000
<v Speaker 1>while strangers, No condoms. Write that down, kids, broken jewel

0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:57.600
<v Speaker 1>in the morning,