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Speaker 1: emails into the show for a Seconday update, I'll read

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Speaker 1: them and I'll be like, what did they do that

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Speaker 1: all normal. But I read Josh's email, Who's on the

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Speaker 1: I thought was, what did you do that didn't screw

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Speaker 1: I thought the date went well. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: and then oh no, we can all be the judge.

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Speaker 1: First of all, what's the name of the girl you

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Speaker 1: want to call today? Le Neves Caroline Carolyne? All right,

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Speaker 1: and where did you meet Carolyne? So we never saw

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Speaker 1: the on tender? And I need a lot of women

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Speaker 1: on Tender? Was that like, did you? Are you bragging? Or? Well? No?

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Speaker 1: Because I've had the app for a while, it just

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Speaker 1: sounds like you're kind of like, yeah, I meet so

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Speaker 1: many chicks on Tender? No, man, I mean it's true,

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Speaker 1: I do. Or is a bad thing because you're meeting

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Speaker 1: I like to play it for you, do you know

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Speaker 1: tell us about tell us about playing her field? How

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Speaker 1: You guys do for Oh? Sorry, would you guys? Would

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Speaker 1: hopefully you had better chemistry than what's just happened. But again, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: exactly said. Now we're all on an awkward date. I'm talking. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: how was it with her? I thought it was good?

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Speaker 1: We vibe well. So I do this thing to kind

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Speaker 1: always tell the tender person like, hey, why don't you

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Speaker 1: bring over some of your unopened mail? And I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: What's the point of that. It's cool, it's a conversation piece. Wait,

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Speaker 1: people have actually followed through with this. Yeah, it's just mail,

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Speaker 1: Like I opened her mails to open his mind. It's

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Speaker 1: I actually I feel like I helped her out because

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Speaker 1: like she got a ticket, like a trash can fine

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Speaker 1: charge you. Okay, so you actually all right? I mean

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Speaker 1: you help me get out of a ticket. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: get a lot of tickets, So man, maybe we should

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Speaker 1: go out sometime. You know what, did she open up yours?

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Speaker 1: Like some bills and some like junk mail, nothing extracting

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Speaker 1: it and she didn't like open them and you have

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Speaker 1: a crazy amount of like outstanding debt or anything? Right, No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no, no no, it was it was mainly they're just like

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Speaker 1: type of magazine. Oh so you have this phone plan.

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Speaker 1: After that, we went to see a movie. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: and you made her pay because you saw her bank account.

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Speaker 1: what you do. So we got our movie tickets and

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Speaker 1: she sent me out to get popcorn. And I don't

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Speaker 1: sure if he doesn't know about the pop Okay, Okay, So,

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Speaker 1: just throwing out there, like she wasn't headed up to

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Speaker 1: condoms as well. And Josh told us about his date

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Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning, like the radio show. Yeah, you actually

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Speaker 1: it goes. It's always what we were so shocked for

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Speaker 1: getting there, jeez, I'm very patient, are you? I'm calling

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Speaker 1: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, I don't do that many first dates.

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Speaker 1: So if it's in the last few weeks, I have

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Speaker 1: if you're right. Is it Josh? Yes, Josh has condoms.

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Speaker 1: If you were wondering he told me about that, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I did. Everyone. Were you mortified when he said that

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Speaker 1: and he had multiple there were many condoms or you

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Speaker 1: like a cornucopia of safe sex conucopia. Yeah. No, he

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Speaker 1: I have no idea. Josh told us about that because

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Speaker 1: in general, I liked Josh, like he was a nice guy.

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Speaker 1: dinner and he had this idea that we should like

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Speaker 1: of unique and cute. He told us about that, and

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Speaker 1: he also told us you got a ticket. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: he kind of like helps. He's like, I can help

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Speaker 1: you get out of that, which you know, it's cute.

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Speaker 1: And after dinner, this is a little weird to me.

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Speaker 1: He tried to pay with a group on but that's

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Speaker 1: not group Okay, No, that was fair, but it was expired.

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Speaker 1: I hate that they still have to honor how much

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Speaker 1: like it turned into a weird moment. Okay, well other

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Speaker 1: than dinner, how is everything else? You guys went to

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Speaker 1: a movie, right? Was that fine? Yea, So we went

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Speaker 1: I wonder how that happened on the bottom bottom on

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Speaker 1: So yeah, that grossed me out. But again, like that's

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Speaker 1: not Josh's fault. That was the feeder. So it was

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Speaker 1: like another word moment. But that wasn't he didn't do that,

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Speaker 1: That was theater's fault for sure. I mean you can't

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Speaker 1: because I don't want that near my mouth. It's like

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Speaker 1: someone else's chewed gum. It's like, all right, so do

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Speaker 1: what Just All in all, it was an awkward date. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: how exactly how I felt. It's just like something was

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Speaker 1: off about it. Well, speaking of awkward surprises, he's actually

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Speaker 1: on the other line listen and wants to talk to you. Wait,

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Speaker 1: he's wait, he just heard it. Yeah, I was here

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Speaker 1: Why don't you guys say hi to each other? I

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Speaker 1: mean it's been a while, like a week. Um. So

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Speaker 1: here's the thing, the group on thing. I didn't know

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Speaker 1: I had no idea. Yeah, no, I didn't think that

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Speaker 1: the fact that I had condoms. Yeah, I mean, and

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Speaker 1: I can't believe that's a maybe from you, Josh, Like,

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Speaker 1: are you not listening? My thing is like I was

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Speaker 1: we didn't even kiss though, I don't know, I'm gonna listen.

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Speaker 1: I'm really mad about it. You weren't like a trip

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Speaker 1: about it. It was just bizarre, Like next time, I

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Speaker 1: would recommend not doing that. And it doesn't prove I mean, Josh,

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Speaker 1: since you called us, it does prove that you wanted

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Speaker 1: that's what it would normally feel like if some dude

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Speaker 1: was like, hey, I got condoms. Yeah, it's exactly. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's not what I was going for at all. I

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Speaker 1: just missed, right. I thought she was giving vibes that

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Speaker 1: its fall astle movie thing goes. I'm appalled, Like I

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Speaker 1: if you told me. Well, I appreciate that, and I

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Speaker 1: obviously that's not your fault, Like I didn't take that

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Speaker 1: that'd be dirty, Like no, thank you. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: blame you for that, Josh obviously. Yeah. So I feel

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Speaker 1: like I'd only had like really one strike, and that

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Speaker 1: so like you're gonna have some strikes, only one thing

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Speaker 1: that's still a really good first date. It's not bad.

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Speaker 1: That's true, Caroline, would you like to give him a

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Speaker 1: to go on a second date with Josh? Will pay

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Speaker 1: for it? He made it pretty good. Please listen him.

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Speaker 1: As long as you don't pull lots of condoms out

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Speaker 1: of like hidden spaces, Sure I will go out with

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Speaker 1: you again. Really awesome, I promise. No matter what happened,

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Speaker 1: That wasn't like, Hey, we don't need to use protections,

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Speaker 1: just wait for the condoms, No, Josh, Yeah, that's not

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Speaker 1: initial dates. Yeah, right, that's fair. I can do that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: while strangers, No condoms. Write that down, kids, broken jewel

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