1 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: Hey, what's going on? Everybody? It's your girl, Trerika Foster 2 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 1: Brasby and I'm. 3 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:10,959 Speaker 2: Your girl, Cheryl Swoops. 4 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 3: And welcome to another brand new episode of Levels to 5 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 3: this podcast where we basically talk about the shit that 6 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 3: women go through. And Honey, there is no better week 7 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 3: to personify the shit that women go through then the 8 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 3: week that we just had with the twenty twenty four 9 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 3: presidential election. I know y'all ain't think we was getting 10 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 3: ready to come on this podcast and I talk about 11 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 3: the bullshit that we just seen last week. 12 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 2: Well, I know they weren't expecting you and I to 13 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 2: not talk about it, but I gotta be real honest 14 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 2: with you and say, I hope I can get through 15 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 2: this conversation without losing my shit like I've already lost. 16 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 2: It can tell you how much I've cried, probably like 17 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 2: everyone else, I don't know. I'm I'm at a lost. 18 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:07,479 Speaker 1: He I just. 19 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 2: Listen. First of all, as a woman, I don't know 20 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 2: if we will ever have the respect that we deserve 21 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 2: from from just others, right from men, from black men, 22 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: from white men, from Hispanic, from just every race. But 23 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: then on top of being a woman, on top of 24 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 2: being a black woman, I just I'm at a loss. 25 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:41,680 Speaker 2: I don't know what else to say. I don't know 26 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 2: what else to do, and I do want to say this, 27 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 2: you know, because I feel like Kamala took a lot 28 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 2: of beatens just from people, you know, and what was 29 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 2: she the perfect candidate? Here's my answer to that. Has 30 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 2: anyone ever been the perfect candidate? 31 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: A perfect candidate doesn't say there. 32 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 2: Is no such thing as a perfect candidate. 33 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: They don't exist. 34 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 2: At the end of the day. This is my opinion, 35 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 2: and you know what, I'm entitled to my fucking opinion 36 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 2: because it's our podcast and it's my opinion. We not 37 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 2: you and I, but we were never ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, 38 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 2: ever ever ever ever, And I could keep going, going 39 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 2: to allow not only a woman to be in charge 40 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 2: of the country, but a black woman to be in 41 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 2: charge of this country. That was never gonna happen. 42 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: Yep. 43 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 3: And you know what's crazy what I said, because first 44 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 3: of all, I was so stressed the entire day like 45 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 3: egg shells, just so stressed. And then as the results 46 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,839 Speaker 3: kept coming, I just kept seeing red upon red upon 47 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 3: red upon red upon red upon red upon red, and 48 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 3: then there was a hen of blue and I just 49 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 3: kept looking at this map, like you know what, I. 50 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:03,959 Speaker 1: Blame you, t Rika. 51 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 3: I blame you for being naive enough to think that 52 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 3: this was gonna go any differently. Like that's the whole 53 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 3: thing that I felt the entire time. It was just 54 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 3: how silly are you? How simple are you? 55 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: Tarrika? Because you knew better, Like you knew better. 56 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 3: Many people don't know this. I have a bachelor's degree 57 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 3: in political science. I did my internship in two thousand 58 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:34,519 Speaker 3: and eight with the Barack Obama presidential campaign. If it's 59 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 3: one thing I know outside of sports, it's fucking politics. 60 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 3: And you knew this, but you allowed yourself to be 61 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 3: naive and to get caught in the moment and to 62 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 3: think that people actually valued women, that people actually valued 63 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 3: women rights, that people actually valued us as human beings, 64 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 3: and would put that aside to do what was best, 65 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 3: or at least what we believed was better. And I'm 66 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 3: gonna tell you there's two things that's been pissing me 67 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 3: off ever since this whole thing has happened. Thing Number 68 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 3: one that's been pissing me off is people who keep 69 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 3: posting this shit on social media that. 70 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 2: Says if differences of opinion makes you want to unfriend 71 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 2: or delete somebody, then y'all were never friends. First of all, 72 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 2: let's back up. This is not a difference of opinion. 73 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 3: Okay, Liking Coco over coffee is a difference of opinion, you. 74 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 2: Know what I mean. 75 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 3: It's deeper than that over Kansas City barbecue was a 76 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 3: difference of opinion. 77 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 78 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: This is not a difference of opinion. 79 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 2: This is about more character, moral and valu values. 80 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 3: And I have never ever, ever ever felt like I 81 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 3: from a political standpoint because I'm gonna go there, because 82 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 3: fuck it, I'm gonna go there. I have never been 83 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 3: able to look at a Republican and say, well, I'm 84 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 3: gonna unfriend you because you're Republican and I'm Democrat. 85 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 1: That's never happened. It's just it's never happened. 86 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 3: Right now, I I've been able to disagree with people 87 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 3: who don't necessarily share the same political values or the 88 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 3: same political ideas that I do. But we all share 89 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 3: the same kind of character and the same kind of 90 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 3: morals that even if our route to get theoris is different, 91 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 3: essentially we do have the best interests of what it 92 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 3: is that we're doing at heart, right so I can 93 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 3: disagree with you politically and still move forward. I can't 94 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 3: disagree with a bigot, I can't disagree with a misogynist. 95 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 3: I can't disagree with someone who clearly a racist. I 96 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 3: can't disagree with someone who has their own greed as 97 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 3: there as the center of what it is that they do. 98 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 3: And I can't disagree with somebody who thought that that 99 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:43,159 Speaker 3: would be better than Kamala Harris. So personally, it ain't 100 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 3: no way you can come and me talking about if 101 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 3: we got a difference of opinion, go ahead and delete me, boom, 102 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 3: go ahead and block me, boom. 103 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 1: Matter of fact, and just let that go. 104 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 2: Matter of fact. I'll just delete me for you, for you, period. 105 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 2: So that's where we are worried about that. It's not 106 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 2: about that, you know, And and I said the same thing. 107 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: I have removed people from my phone, people who who 108 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 2: I actually thought we were friends. But listen, I'm not 109 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:19,600 Speaker 2: going to tell you who you should vote for. I 110 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:23,799 Speaker 2: just I just know what I believe in. Until your point, 111 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 2: I know how I was raised, I know what my 112 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 2: values are, what my morals are, and I thought I 113 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 2: knew that about you. But the simple fact that you 114 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 2: will vote for someone. There's a list of things we 115 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 2: could we could point at. First of all, just a 116 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 2: convicted felon. I just don't know where where in the world, 117 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 2: you know, convicted felons can't even vote, but yet this 118 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 2: one can become president of the United States of America. 119 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 1: Who we know will pardon himself. My goodness. 120 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 2: This is a conversation that we could have every episode 121 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 2: and I am I am mentally listen to anyone out 122 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 2: there who is listening and you're feeling some type of way, 123 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 2: you have every right to. I've cried, I've yelled, I've screamed, 124 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 2: I've cursed, I've cried some more. I've questioned this country, 125 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 2: I've questioned America. I've questioned humanity. There's just so much 126 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 2: that I've thought about in the last few days that 127 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 2: I'm I'm sad, Like my heart really and that's what 128 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 2: I just tweeted. My heart fucking hurts right now. And 129 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 2: it doesn't just hurt for myself, it hurts for our country. 130 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 2: It hurts, Huh, it just hurts. I'm like this, this 131 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 2: can't be the country that we're living in. This cannot 132 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 2: be what the majority of this country represents or stands for. 133 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 4: But it is. 134 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 3: And that's the bottom line, But it is seventy four 135 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 3: million people made a decision that that is exactly what 136 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 3: this country stands for, and that is exactly what this 137 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 3: country means, and that is exactly what they chose. And 138 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 3: I think for me, what makes this one feels different 139 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 3: than twenty sixteen is, at least in twenty sixteen, the 140 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 3: popular vote was like, we don't want this, we want 141 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 3: something else. 142 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 1: Ye it was, you know, but in this one, it 143 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: was very clear cut and dry. 144 00:08:55,360 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 2: There was no there was no extra, no additive, no preservatives, 145 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 2: there was no nothing to this. 146 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: This was just this was just what it was. 147 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 3: I think that's what makes it very difficult and such 148 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 3: a hard pill to swallow. 149 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: But you know what, here's the thing. 150 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 3: The thing is, and so many people have said it, 151 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 3: and I'm gonna echo it, is that the fight doesn't 152 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 3: stop now. Right Like we had our moment, we had 153 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 3: time to grieve in a way, because that's kind of 154 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 3: how it felt. The next day for me felt like 155 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 3: a day of bereavement. I took it, took me some 156 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 3: time to get myself together. That next day I just 157 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 3: kind of was like, I don't even want to I 158 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 3: wanna do nothing today, right, But now that that day 159 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 3: has passed, unfortunately, especially for women, we don't have the 160 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 3: opportunity to kind of sulk in it, right, Like, we've 161 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 3: got to get up and continue to move business as usual. 162 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 3: Even Kamala Harris in losing, she still has to be 163 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 3: the vice president of the United States. 164 00:09:57,440 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 2: How many other days like days maybe she is still. 165 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 3: The vice president, still the vice president, So she doesn't 166 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 3: get to, you know, salk in what happened, what went wrong, 167 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 3: and stay in that place. She has to continue to 168 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 3: do the job that she was elected to do back 169 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 3: in twenty twenty. 170 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: And so we just got to continue to do the 171 00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: same thing. 172 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 3: We got to continue to fight, continue to have a voice, 173 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 3: continue to let people know that we're not gonna just 174 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 3: take anything just because there's a shift in power, and 175 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 3: there will be a shift in authority, and folks will 176 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 3: try us to try to figure out what we're gonna 177 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 3: put up with and what we're not and we're just 178 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 3: gonna have to keep our foot on the gas. 179 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 1: And so part of that salking and moving on. 180 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 3: As we kind of shift the podcast to a lighter note, 181 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 3: I'm really excited about today's episode. Because after the sulking 182 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 3: and after the crying and after the needing, some time. 183 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 1: We look a hot ass mess. 184 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 5: You got. 185 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 2: No, she doesn't, but anyway, but. 186 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 3: Anyway, this episode, we are fortunate to be joined by 187 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 3: two of the best and baddest women who. 188 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: Make up the w Glam Squad. 189 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:23,839 Speaker 3: Honestly, it's is everything that they do, from how they 190 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 3: carry themselves to how they make other people look and feel. 191 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:31,199 Speaker 3: And we are talking about Amatei Brooks and and Donnie. 192 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 3: And She's gonna kill me because I know I'm gonna 193 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 3: say her last name incorrectly, but I think it's okay. 194 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 3: Yuki Yuki. We love you though, Donny, don't fight me. 195 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:45,959 Speaker 3: We love you though, don't fight me. I'm excited to 196 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 3: talk to them. I'm excited to hear just their journey. 197 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 3: I'm definitely hoping to get some tips to help me 198 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 3: get myself together because because I need all the help 199 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 3: I can get today. 200 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 1: I ain't even listen y'all. 201 00:11:58,160 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 3: Y'all can't see me, but I ain't got no hair round, 202 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 3: ain't I know lashes on. I'm listening here, listen, look 203 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 3: at our mess. 204 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 2: We we are who we are, and I'm loving that 205 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 2: is that a colt. It's a colt tat because you 206 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 2: know what, honey, it's football season and baby, my hometown Detroit, 207 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 2: Lyons is doing it. But my but my heart, team 208 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 2: my Coats, I say that team, Honey, we out here 209 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 2: looking bad. Well listen, that's why the name of our 210 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:31,199 Speaker 2: podcast is perfect levels to this because it's different. There's 211 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 2: levels the glam, there's levels to the not so glad. 212 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 6: For real. 213 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 2: But I'm excited to talk to them also, And I 214 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 2: think what excites me or what I'm looking forward to is, 215 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 2: you know, just hearing how they got started, hearing their journey, 216 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 2: you know. And and these are two women, and granted 217 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 2: there there are more, but these are two women to 218 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 2: me that have just been behind the scenes, you know, 219 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 2: and the and making some of the best players look 220 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 2: their best. They've been behind the scenes, and people don't 221 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 2: really give them their flowers, per se. And so this episode, 222 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 2: I'm really excited for us to give them their flowers 223 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 2: for sure. 224 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 3: Well, my friends, with no further ado, let's just get 225 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:21,560 Speaker 3: into it and take this thing to the next level. 226 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 3: All right, you guys, we are super excited about today's 227 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 3: show because sure and I are blessed to be joined 228 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 3: by none other than who we deem the W Glam Squad. 229 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 4: Okay, and that is. 230 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 3: None other than Donnie Yuki and Amadi Brooks. What's up, y'all? 231 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 4: Hey, Hey, yeah. 232 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 2: This is the W Glam Squad without question, Yeah, without question. Listen. 233 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 2: I want to just hop right into it, t if 234 00:13:58,120 --> 00:13:58,960 Speaker 2: if you're good. 235 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 1: With that, absolutely first. 236 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 3: I think it's appropriate for us to allow Madi you 237 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 3: first and then Donnie you next, to just kind of 238 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 3: give a little bit of background on you what it 239 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:14,439 Speaker 3: is that you're currently doing. I mean, I know what 240 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 3: you're doing, and if anybody's paying attention, they know what 241 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 3: you're doing. 242 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 4: But that's puer argument. 243 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 1: Let you know, tell the folks a little bit about you. 244 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 4: Thank you. 245 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 7: I am an athlete stylist. I'm a personal stylist, not 246 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 7: just limited to athletes, but athletes is how I've made 247 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 7: my name. I've been styling solo for almost three years now, 248 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 7: and I work with W players, NBA players, on air broadcasters, reporters, 249 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 7: legends like Cheryl. I'm a former basketball player, so being 250 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 7: in a W space is extremely close to the heart 251 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 7: for me, and I just love what I do. I'm 252 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 7: Donnie Yuki. I am a makeup artist, specifically for athletes. 253 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 7: I've worked in fashion, I've worked for celebrities, and now 254 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 7: I I work with athletes specifically because I find that 255 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 7: working with athletes is very fulfilling for me. I've worked 256 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 7: with several leagues WNBA and WSL. I've worked with Olympic 257 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 7: gold medalists. I've worked with Cheryl Swoops. 258 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 6: I love my clients. 259 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 7: I think I have the best clients in the world 260 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 7: and I really enjoy what I do. 261 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 2: So before we hop into more detail on what you do, 262 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 2: because'll y'all do a lot of stuff behind the scenes 263 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 2: that doesn't always get recognized, and so that's one thing 264 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 2: we want to do on this show this episode today 265 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 2: is give you your flowers and let you know that 266 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 2: we see you, we hear you, we feel you, we 267 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 2: appreciate you. But MATI, I want to go back and 268 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 2: help me remember because I'm older than you. I'm way 269 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 2: older than you. But it was some years ago. Do 270 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 2: you remember when you and I first met? 271 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 4: Yes, I remember when we first met. 272 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 2: Because I want you to tell this story for our 273 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 2: listeners when they hear it. I'm going to say this 274 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 2: because I'm a believer in putting things in the atmosphere 275 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 2: and manifesting them and they will come true. 276 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 7: So I have to first start this off with I 277 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 7: was a huge I am a huge fan of Cheryl Swoops, 278 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 7: one of my favorite players. 279 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 4: I wore twenty two in college. So this was a thing. 280 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 7: Okay, So I have to let you guys know that 281 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 7: this interaction was a whole moment for me personally. I 282 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 7: was at the time, I was working in ticket sales 283 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 7: with the Atlanta Hawks, and so it's one of my 284 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 7: I want to say, one of my first games, honestly, 285 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 7: and I am down coourse, I like just doing my 286 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 7: rose and responsibilities, and I see cheryls like before the 287 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 7: game starts, I have a mini fangirl moment, and I 288 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 7: told myself, you will not walk out of this arena 289 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 7: without going to speak to Cheryl Swoops. 290 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 4: And I walked up to her. 291 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 7: I was so nervous, but I introduced myself and of 292 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 7: course show being Cheryl was so sweet and welcoming. 293 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 2: Say that louder because some people don't know I'm sweet. 294 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 4: She was so sweet and welcoming. I was so nervous, 295 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 4: and you took a picture with me. 296 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 7: And I just I shot my shot and Something that 297 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 7: I do on the side that a lot of people 298 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 7: don't know about is that I paint, and I paint 299 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 7: custom denim jackets. And I told Cheryl at the time, 300 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 7: I was like, I really want to make you a jacket, 301 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 7: and she was like, okay, let's do it. We exchanged 302 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 7: numbers and everything. I am gagged, okay, and I played. 303 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:20,119 Speaker 6: It so cool. 304 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 4: But fast forward, she sent me her address. 305 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:28,199 Speaker 7: I painted a jacket for her nonprofit bto R and 306 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,160 Speaker 7: I sent it to her house and everything, and now 307 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 7: here we are. How many years later? I think it 308 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 7: was All Star Chicago. It was All Star Chicago. We 309 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 7: ran into each other. It was my first All Star 310 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 7: as a stylist on my own and I ran. 311 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 4: Into Cheryl and she was like Ronnie Smell. I dropped 312 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 4: everything every day dropped. 313 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 7: I don't y'all understand. I didn't even go to the game. 314 00:17:57,600 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 7: I said, yeah, and I don't. 315 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:03,679 Speaker 4: Cheryl's hotel room and we steam shows. That was the 316 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 4: fucking Legend shirt. And Cheryl was nervous about wearing a 317 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:07,640 Speaker 4: Legends shirt. 318 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:11,159 Speaker 7: I say, girl, you are a legend. You gotta wear 319 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:14,439 Speaker 7: the shirt. But we weren't like, okay, it is TV, 320 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:17,439 Speaker 7: like there are children, So I said, okay, let's just 321 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 7: throw a band aid over there. Yeah, but they gonna 322 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 7: still know what it. 323 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, right, because she had to go buy 324 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:29,679 Speaker 6: band aids to match them. 325 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 4: Get band aids. Oh my god, it's a whole thing. 326 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:35,919 Speaker 1: So it's so funny. I still got the pictures from 327 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: that there, I said. 328 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 2: Sure, so so funny. Thing is like I was, I was, 329 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:48,639 Speaker 2: I don't know, I was so nervous, like I can't 330 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 2: wear not nervous. But I knew the w was gonna 331 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 2: put me on the big screen, and I knew they 332 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 2: were going to be like, well, we don't want her 333 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 2: own with that shirt. So I was, listen, you either 334 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 2: go take it like this with a bad date across 335 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:07,680 Speaker 2: the effort, don't put me on screen. So even if 336 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 2: you put me on screen with a bad data on, 337 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 2: people can still make out what it was. But yeah, 338 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 2: that was the whole moment. That was a whole moment. 339 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 2: I want to add something to what Matty said, and 340 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 2: then Donnie, you can go. But the reason why I 341 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 2: wanted her to tell that story is because you never 342 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 2: know who you're gonna meet in your life that can 343 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 2: make an impact of some sort, right, like she impacted me, 344 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 2: I impacted her, and it's just all a part of 345 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 2: our journey, like all of our journeys are different, our 346 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 2: stories are different. But to me, I'm not saying that 347 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 2: that was the moment that kind of busted down the 348 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 2: door for Mattie. But looking at where she is now 349 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 2: and looking at her client list today, like Sis is 350 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:58,239 Speaker 2: doing that, she is doing it. And she's not the 351 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:02,400 Speaker 2: only one, but she is is one of the ones 352 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 2: who the one keeps she keeps them fresh. And I 353 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 2: will put some of her clients out there and let 354 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 2: her talk about it in a minute. But Asia Wilson, 355 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 2: Sidney Coleson, Jackie Young at Lesha Gray, like, come on this, 356 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 2: she is doing the thing. 357 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 4: Thank you. 358 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:21,880 Speaker 2: And Donnie, we have a story too. We got at 359 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 2: and I think our story is it's cute because you 360 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 2: just shared this with me a couple of weeks ago 361 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 2: about what your mom said. 362 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, my cute mom. 363 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 7: So the first time I worked with Cheryl, she needed 364 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:40,199 Speaker 7: the makeup artists, and thank god I was free. I 365 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,360 Speaker 7: did Cheryl first thing in the morning. You know, I'm 366 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 7: just doing her makeup and I'm just like trusting the process. 367 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 7: You know, this is also Cheryl's swoop. So you gotta 368 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 7: kind of like when you walk into the room, you 369 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 7: gotta kind of turn off that she Cheryl swoop. 370 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 6: So you can do your job. 371 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 7: Obviously, she has a makeup artist obviously, like she has 372 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 7: her own team and everything like that. 373 00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:00,040 Speaker 6: I want to be her new makeup artist. 374 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 7: And I'm like, okay, you just have to trust the process, 375 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 7: do what you do best, and if she want to 376 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 7: go back to her makeup art, it is great. 377 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:13,200 Speaker 6: Whatever. And I finished, and she looks in the mirror 378 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 6: she says, oh, oh, this is it. 379 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:18,800 Speaker 4: Oh, this is it. 380 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 6: Oh I'm gonna have to call you again. And I 381 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:26,120 Speaker 6: was like yeah, and I told my mom. My mom 382 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 6: was so excited. She was like, look like Sheron wants 383 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 6: to work with you. It was really amazing. 384 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 7: And I think coming from this space where like the 385 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 7: w was genuinely important to you growing up and getting 386 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 7: to work with legends like Cheryl Sweet is like, it's 387 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:47,879 Speaker 7: just amazing and it's just heartwarming as well to just 388 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 7: like meet her and see that you're a human being 389 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 7: and so yeah, now we're locked in for life. I'm 390 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:54,159 Speaker 7: her makeup right? 391 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:54,439 Speaker 4: Is this? 392 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:55,359 Speaker 6: And her makeup aright? Is that? 393 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 7: For life. 394 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 2: I love. 395 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 4: Then for life. 396 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 2: You know, in this space, the w space that's predominantly black, 397 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:11,480 Speaker 2: and I look at where the league started in ninety 398 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 2: seven to where we are today, from everything from fashion 399 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:19,679 Speaker 2: to makeup to hair to all of those things. Not 400 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 2: that it wasn't important then or not that it didn't 401 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 2: matter then, but we didn't have all of these things. 402 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 2: And I love seeing where the game is, how it's evolved. 403 00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 2: But I love seeing my sisters. I love seeing black 404 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 2: women in these spaces making other black women look beautiful. 405 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 2: And it's because of people like Donnie and Maddie. They 406 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 2: make us feel good and our own skin. And everybody's 407 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,920 Speaker 2: style is different and everybody's look is different, and you 408 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,239 Speaker 2: got to have someone that you can trust. So for me, 409 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:58,360 Speaker 2: these two for a few years now have been that 410 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 2: for me. So I just want to saying thank you 411 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 2: to them. 412 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 4: Thank you, Cheryl. 413 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 3: I'm really glad that you brought that up to Cheryl, 414 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 3: because that was actually going to be the nature of 415 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,879 Speaker 3: my next question for both of you, which is like, 416 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 3: first of all, style is forever changing and forever evolving, 417 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 3: and when you think about the clients and the people 418 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 3: that you all have worked with, everybody's style is not 419 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 3: the same, right, Like everybody has you know, something different, 420 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 3: Like I look at you, know you Donnie, haven't worked 421 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 3: with Ka and then also haven't worked with Djna. 422 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 1: Ka, Djna ain't the same. 423 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 2: Like ain't the same at all, right, And this. 424 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 1: Question is for both of you. 425 00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:41,159 Speaker 3: But like when looking at who you're working with, like 426 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 3: what is your process for is it more? And so 427 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 3: along the lines of I just kind of want to 428 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 3: get a feel of who they are, what they like 429 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 3: and kind of give them that or is it a 430 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,399 Speaker 3: I trust you because I'm like this with my muay 431 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,879 Speaker 3: I'm an I trust you like you can look at me, 432 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:01,120 Speaker 3: you could see what might look good on me. I'm 433 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:04,200 Speaker 3: taking myself out of it and I am completely trusting 434 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 3: you with whatever it is that you want to do. 435 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:08,400 Speaker 1: So you have free. 436 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,640 Speaker 3: Range to kind of make your own thing, do your 437 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,480 Speaker 3: own magic. What is that process like for each of you? 438 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 3: When working with various clients in the w. 439 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:20,119 Speaker 7: Maty, you go first because I want to So for me, 440 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 7: that's something that's super important to me is dressing the 441 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:28,679 Speaker 7: individual based off of who they are. As a former athlete, 442 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 7: I know the importance of your mental or psyche like 443 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 7: all of those things that go into your main job. 444 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:38,159 Speaker 7: And I think that's the extra level of consideration and 445 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 7: intention that you have to have as part of an 446 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,119 Speaker 7: athlete's glam team because we're not doing this just for 447 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 7: the glam. We are literally getting you dressed to go 448 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,679 Speaker 7: to your job and do what it is that you 449 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 7: do best. 450 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:49,640 Speaker 4: So I think it's. 451 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 7: Very important that they feel like their most comfortable self 452 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:54,640 Speaker 7: in that space and during that time, I don't want 453 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 7: them feeling out of their body, anything messing with their mind, 454 00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 7: their process, whatever that looks. 455 00:24:58,960 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 4: Like. 456 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 7: My goes into getting to know the client and really 457 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 7: understanding what they like. 458 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 4: Like I start my process with a questionnaire. 459 00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:10,399 Speaker 7: We have calls, we have fittings, but each individual is 460 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 7: still different, you know. So like for example, Sidney's my 461 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 7: client that just trusts me wholeheartedly, and I'm like, I 462 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,880 Speaker 7: can come with anything. There's been times we have looks 463 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,920 Speaker 7: day of just because we wanted to switch it up 464 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 7: and it just works out. 465 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,879 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I'm sorry because I'm gonna interrupt. It's a 466 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 2: little different. 467 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 4: She is a little different, a little different. 468 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but she's a little different. 469 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 7: But Asia is very collaborative, So Asia will trust that 470 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 7: I'm gonna come with things she likes, but we also 471 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:43,479 Speaker 7: like work together to come up with a look that 472 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,600 Speaker 7: we both agree on that we both feel like it's 473 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 7: asia from head to toe. Jackie's my client that I 474 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:51,159 Speaker 7: come with the things, and she trusts me to come 475 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 7: with things with Jackie's gonna let me know I want 476 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 7: to do something else, and I got to come with 477 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 7: something else. 478 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 5: You know. 479 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 7: My process kind of varies based on an individual, but 480 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 7: I think most importantly is getting to know who they are, 481 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 7: and that comes with time. 482 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 4: Yeah. 483 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 7: No, I wanted Manage to go first because I think 484 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,879 Speaker 7: that like her brain, I don't even understand how it 485 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 7: works sometimes, like the way she puts stuff together, I 486 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 7: don't even know how she finds stuff. 487 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,359 Speaker 6: The color matching is insane. 488 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 7: But yeah, and you do that on everybody, But thank you, 489 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:27,040 Speaker 7: You're welcome with me. I feel like one big thing 490 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,200 Speaker 7: is that, like I do have relationships with a lot 491 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 7: of my clients, I've had relationships with a lot of 492 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,680 Speaker 7: my clients before becoming their makeup artists, and that's really 493 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,640 Speaker 7: important to me that they know me on a friend 494 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 7: level first, so that they know that I'm coming in 495 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,960 Speaker 7: as their friends and so knowing that I'm going to 496 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 7: be there, there's already that trust level that I'm going 497 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,880 Speaker 7: to protect their image. I'm going to protect the way 498 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,399 Speaker 7: that they're going to look on camera, whether it's like 499 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,159 Speaker 7: even like just a little flyway hair or something just 500 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,400 Speaker 7: like being a friend, when you're friends with someone, you're 501 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 7: taking a picture on them, when you're out dinner, out 502 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 7: on brunch and you're like, oh, let me fix this. 503 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 7: They know that I'm going to bring that energy on set, 504 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 7: and I'm going to bring that energy whenever I'm working 505 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 7: with them. And then on top of that, they trust 506 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 7: what I can do. They know what I can do, 507 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 7: They've seen the proof, and they know that we can 508 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 7: have that communication. We can say like I want to 509 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,200 Speaker 7: try glitter, I want to try this, or don't put 510 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:24,359 Speaker 7: blush on me. I just worked at Collins. She was like, 511 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:25,919 Speaker 7: don't put blush on me, and I was like, I 512 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:27,160 Speaker 7: know who you are, so. 513 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:30,560 Speaker 2: Relaxed. 514 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:32,960 Speaker 7: But yes, they know that they can talk to me 515 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,400 Speaker 7: like that. Whereas a lot of times you're putting these 516 00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 7: situations with certain brands and certain opportunities, they'll have a 517 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 7: makeup artist there. You don't know the makeup artists, and 518 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:43,360 Speaker 7: you don't know what you can say. You don't want 519 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 7: to offend anybody, like this is their craft as well, 520 00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:51,119 Speaker 7: and so sometimes they don't feel, you know, like that 521 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:54,000 Speaker 7: they can say they don't like something or that they're 522 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,879 Speaker 7: uncomfortable with something, and so being in those rooms, in 523 00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 7: those spaces, it just alleviates that pressure of worrying about 524 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:02,879 Speaker 7: what they're going to look like and worrying about not 525 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 7: being able to communicate how they feel, and like, for me, 526 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 7: like that's so important because they have to go and 527 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 7: do interviews and do commercials and remember a lot of 528 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 7: lines and do all this stuff that is outside of basketball, 529 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 7: Like this is something that they're doing at the top level. 530 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:20,880 Speaker 5: Yeah. 531 00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,640 Speaker 3: Can I just to follow up really quick though, because 532 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:27,360 Speaker 3: you said something that you said something that resonated with 533 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 3: me specifically where you said she said, I don't like 534 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,159 Speaker 3: blesh on me. I'm a glow girl, Like I like 535 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 3: to glow. Put the highlight on me, Give me something 536 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,240 Speaker 3: to make me glow. I need to glow under these lights. Okay, yes, 537 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:42,360 Speaker 3: but have you ever come across a client in which 538 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 3: they are adamant about something that they just either love 539 00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 3: love love and you're like, this is not working for 540 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 3: you or oppositely where it's like, please don't do this, 541 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 3: and you're like, I know you don't like this, but 542 00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 3: trust me, if you just do this one thing, it 543 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 3: will just look so different and like they've allowed you. Basically, 544 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:08,160 Speaker 3: have you changed the minds of clients because you can 545 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 3: maybe see something that maybe they don't see. 546 00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, well I'll go ahead and let you guys know 547 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,800 Speaker 7: now that I did put bloods on Khalia, So. 548 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 4: I do change their minds. 549 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 7: Yeah. I think that people do take what I do 550 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 7: seriously and they respect it. So when I do say 551 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 7: like we have to do this, especially with the young ones, 552 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 7: like the ones that aren't in the wyet, that are 553 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 7: still in college in high school, and they're like, I 554 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:36,680 Speaker 7: don't want no makeup, and I'm like, listen, it's me 555 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 7: and you in here. Okay, I'm not about to have 556 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 7: you looking crazy, but you're also not about to have 557 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,200 Speaker 7: me looking crazy. You are putting something in your breast 558 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 7: right if you have those situations, I think that across 559 00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 7: the board. I'm very much like if I have a 560 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 7: client that really wants something that I am not offering, 561 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 7: like they want, I don't know, like their whole face 562 00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 7: covered in rhymestones every time we work together, then that 563 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 7: client isn't the client for me, and I'm very you know, 564 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 7: like that doesn't end the relationship or anything like that. 565 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:13,880 Speaker 6: I'm still going to support their careers. 566 00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 7: I mean, like I stopped working with celebrities, you know, 567 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 7: I still support their careers. I still say Mary Christmas 568 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 7: and things like that. But the type of makeup artistry 569 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 7: that has kind of taken over social media and taken 570 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 7: over a lot of artists and celebrities, I feel like 571 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 7: isn't really the makeup artistry that I want to do. 572 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 7: So that doesn't mean anything about the person if that's 573 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,720 Speaker 7: what they like, but also like my name and my 574 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 7: brand is attached to it as well, and I want 575 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 7: to make sure that people like Collia and people like 576 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 7: DJMA and people like Lexi Brown see my makeup like 577 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 7: skills and see what I'm doing and feel like, oh, 578 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 7: I want her to be my makeup artists. 579 00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 6: That's the makeup artistry that I do. 580 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 4: Well. 581 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 3: I just asked Donnie about clients who may be very 582 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 3: selective on things, and she's been able to change their mind. 583 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 1: So I would love to hear your response to that too. 584 00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 3: If there's maybe like someone who's like, listen, I want 585 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 3: to put on this black with these pearls, blah blah 586 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,479 Speaker 3: blah blah. And you might be like, since that's not 587 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 3: really what we're going for, or that ain't you or 588 00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 3: have you been able to maybe finesse somebody into a 589 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 3: style or look that maybe they didn't know was something 590 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 3: that they liked or that was on them. 591 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 4: Yes, Aryah's raising her. 592 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 2: Hand, I'm raising both of my hands. 593 00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 7: There is a and I don't even think I think 594 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 7: about it too much, but there is a strategy I 595 00:31:55,360 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 7: believe to allowing people to gently guide them into the 596 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 7: direction that you know, we want to go in, and 597 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 7: I feel like would be best. It is very gentle. 598 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 7: I feel like I'm very gentle with it, but I 599 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 7: do like to push it just a little bit. I'm 600 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 7: not I don't think I'm a pusher, but I think 601 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 7: I have like a little strategy where I bring what 602 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 7: I know the client is comfortable with, like their go to, 603 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:20,960 Speaker 7: like their lane. 604 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 4: Then I'll bring something that I. 605 00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:26,360 Speaker 7: Feel like would be like a notch up, like something 606 00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 7: that we haven't seen them in or something more elevated. 607 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 7: And then I also bring like some options that are 608 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 7: kind of like a merger of the two, so that 609 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,480 Speaker 7: when it is time to try something new, they still 610 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,120 Speaker 7: feel good about what's happened so far. They're feeling confident 611 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,960 Speaker 7: in what I've brought, They're feeling good about themselves. So 612 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 7: then it also allows you to have a little space 613 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 7: and lead way to be like, hey, let's just try this. 614 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 4: Let's just try it. 615 00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, And I love when it works out that way, 616 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:54,160 Speaker 7: and it is not always successful, but I feel like 617 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 7: it starts with a level of trust with the relationship 618 00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 7: with you and the client, and then from there, you know, 619 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 7: I think that happens more as the relationship grows stronger. 620 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 4: They are more open to trying. 621 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 7: Things or hearing my feedback and knowing like, okay, I'm 622 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,560 Speaker 7: picking it up. And also also like a teaching lesson, 623 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 7: I'm not just here to throw the clothes on you 624 00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 7: and I teach you anything either. I want you to 625 00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:19,680 Speaker 7: feel stylish even when I'm not around, by the pieces 626 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 7: that I'm bringing into your wardrobe, by the little bibits 627 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 7: that you're learning as I style you, so that when 628 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 7: I'm not there with you or i'm not accessible, you know, okay, 629 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 7: these things work well together. You're able to start incorporating 630 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 7: it's here every day. 631 00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:37,080 Speaker 2: I want to add something to what Donnie said, and 632 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:40,600 Speaker 2: MATI too. For me, it has to be trust, right 633 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,000 Speaker 2: to you ask Donnie the question about has she ever 634 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 2: been able to convince someone to try something that they 635 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 2: don't normally wear or say, look this that ain't the 636 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 2: look for you? 637 00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 6: Right? 638 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 2: And so my journey has been this, especially recently and 639 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 2: being retired, and I have this kind ofversation with Maty 640 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:05,640 Speaker 2: and Donnie before, where like I just don't feel a 641 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:08,319 Speaker 2: little better now, but I didn't feel beautiful in like 642 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:12,640 Speaker 2: my own skin or my body. So example, all Star 643 00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:18,760 Speaker 2: weekend in Phoenix, Like, I'm very conscious of my body 644 00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 2: like not looking the way I want it to look. 645 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:23,799 Speaker 2: And I'm hoping there are some people out there who 646 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,839 Speaker 2: are listening that can relate to what I'm about to say. 647 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:31,640 Speaker 2: And so I said to Matty, like, this is the 648 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 2: look I want, but I, oh, I'm gonna cry. But 649 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 2: I don't know what to wear because I don't like 650 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 2: I like, I don't feel sexy in my body. I 651 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,879 Speaker 2: just got stuff in areas that I've never had there before. Right, 652 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,280 Speaker 2: And so when I told her the look I wanted, 653 00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,759 Speaker 2: she was like, I got you, but there was still 654 00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 2: a part of me though that was like, yeah, we'll 655 00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 2: see and so oh, I have to tell you, like 656 00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,240 Speaker 2: she dressed me the entire weekend for All Star Weekend 657 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:10,960 Speaker 2: for my brush, I felt so beautiful and you were 658 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 2: like I felt. I felt like I hadn't felt in 659 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:18,600 Speaker 2: a very long time, just because I don't like I 660 00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:23,520 Speaker 2: don't like what's underneath my clothes right now, and I 661 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,400 Speaker 2: was a little skeptical she was able to get me 662 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 2: in an off the shoulder dress that I wore to 663 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:33,560 Speaker 2: an event, and I couldn't stop looking at myself in 664 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:37,240 Speaker 2: the mirror seriously because I was like, oh my god, 665 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,799 Speaker 2: like she did it, and even with my makeup, like 666 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 2: I love Donnie doing my makeup because I trust her, 667 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 2: Like she knows when I say this is the look 668 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:51,520 Speaker 2: I want. She knows what I want. And I don't 669 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 2: really like color. She knows I don't like color on 670 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 2: my lips. So for the Jennifer Hudson Show, she was like, 671 00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 2: I will give you a little color, and I immediately 672 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:04,880 Speaker 2: got theive like, no, you're not, I don't do color. 673 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:07,480 Speaker 2: So she did it. I looked in the mirror and 674 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:10,480 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, okay, like this is beautiful and 675 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 2: I'm sorry I'm crying, but. 676 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 1: You do not apologize. 677 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:20,839 Speaker 2: But listen, Having played for so many years, right, like, 678 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,040 Speaker 2: my body was always the way I wanted it to be. 679 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,040 Speaker 2: I had the six pack, I had the muscles, I 680 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 2: didn't have any fat anywhere, and so I knew I 681 00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:32,640 Speaker 2: could wear whatever I wanted to wear and I was 682 00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 2: going to look good in it. And now being fifty 683 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,359 Speaker 2: three years old, I don't work out like I did 684 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:39,719 Speaker 2: when I played, So there are certain things that I'm 685 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 2: just like, I'm not comfortable wearing. And so to have 686 00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 2: someone that understands that that I'm comfortable with and I'm 687 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:50,319 Speaker 2: comfortable being around and knowing that she's going to give 688 00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 2: me the look that I'm asking for and I'm going 689 00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:56,200 Speaker 2: to be very confident in it, and I'm going to 690 00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,480 Speaker 2: look really good in it, Like that makes me feel 691 00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 2: really good. The last thing I want to say is 692 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:03,719 Speaker 2: I know a lot of people probably like yeah, but 693 00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 2: I can't afford a stylist. I can't afford to get 694 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:10,360 Speaker 2: my makeup done. I can't afford to hire someone to 695 00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 2: put me in something I can't afford. The clothes are 696 00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:14,880 Speaker 2: gonna get Let me just say this to anybody that's listening. 697 00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,240 Speaker 2: Like working with Maty, she sent me this whole sheet. 698 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:19,759 Speaker 2: I'm like, girl, you know me why I got to 699 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:23,560 Speaker 2: heal this out? But I understand why I have to 700 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 2: fill it out. And then she's like, well, what's your budget? 701 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:30,040 Speaker 2: So she is going to work within whatever your budget is, 702 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,000 Speaker 2: and I don't care if it's one hundred dollars or 703 00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 2: one thousand dollars, You're going to look like a million bucks. 704 00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 2: And that's what I really loved about working with her, 705 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:43,520 Speaker 2: because I was like, mighty, here's my budget. This is 706 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:47,279 Speaker 2: all I got. Let's work with it. And Sis, when 707 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:51,800 Speaker 2: I tell you listen, I want everyone who is listening 708 00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:57,200 Speaker 2: to understand, just like they said, everybody's style is different, 709 00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:01,520 Speaker 2: everybody's look is different. And once you get to know 710 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,000 Speaker 2: who they are and you're comfortable with them and they 711 00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:06,399 Speaker 2: get to know you, just sit in a chair, get 712 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:10,320 Speaker 2: your face beat to pieces. Let Madi just style you. 713 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,280 Speaker 2: You gonna walk out of there looking like a million bucks, 714 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:16,759 Speaker 2: feeling like a million bucks, and being very confident when 715 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,800 Speaker 2: you walk in the room that people are gonna pay attention. 716 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:23,560 Speaker 2: And that's what I always look for. So thank you 717 00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:27,600 Speaker 2: to both of you. Thank you, Cheryl, thank you, I 718 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:32,320 Speaker 2: thank you. Yet I love the fact that people feel 719 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:36,280 Speaker 2: really good about themselves in a way that they don't 720 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 2: typically feel whenever they have someone that comes in to 721 00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,040 Speaker 2: give them the style that they want, the look that 722 00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:44,319 Speaker 2: they want, the face that they want. I know, I 723 00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:48,560 Speaker 2: always like, never feel like a celebrity or like a 724 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,640 Speaker 2: personality until I get out the makeup chair. And in fact, 725 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:53,440 Speaker 2: it is so bad now that like now I don't 726 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:54,839 Speaker 2: even want to do my own face no more. I'll 727 00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:56,200 Speaker 2: be like if I got to put my own makeup on, 728 00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 2: I don't want to go like I can't do it. 729 00:38:58,239 --> 00:38:59,879 Speaker 1: It just don't feel the sign I got to pick 730 00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:02,320 Speaker 1: my I don't want to go like I just can't. 731 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:02,960 Speaker 1: I can't do it. 732 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:03,560 Speaker 6: I won't do it. 733 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:07,600 Speaker 3: But there has to be a reason why each of 734 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:11,320 Speaker 3: you wanted to be in this field to make people 735 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 3: feel this way. So I'd love to hear what made 736 00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:17,279 Speaker 3: you get into this field? How did you get your 737 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:21,479 Speaker 3: start even in working with high profile clients, But what 738 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 3: was it that drove you to want to be in 739 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,920 Speaker 3: the fashion and style and MUA industry. 740 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:30,400 Speaker 7: The first time I ever got my makeup done, I 741 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:32,440 Speaker 7: tell everybody this, the first tie I ever got my 742 00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:36,720 Speaker 7: makeup done by someone who knew what she was doing. 743 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:41,239 Speaker 7: I felt like Instagram batty and I was. 744 00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:44,319 Speaker 5: Like, oh, like I really genuinely felt like, Oh, I 745 00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:47,759 Speaker 5: am beautiful, I am sexy, I am a pen And 746 00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:54,080 Speaker 5: I wanted to make everyone feel that way in some way, 747 00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:54,880 Speaker 5: shape or form. 748 00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:58,359 Speaker 7: Like whatever I was doing, I wanted people to feel like, oh, 749 00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:04,040 Speaker 7: like this this facade of like Instagram battye and like, 750 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:05,880 Speaker 7: if I want to do that, I can do that. 751 00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:07,200 Speaker 6: It also makes you more. 752 00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 7: Confident and not wear makeup and you know, just being 753 00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 7: yourself because you know your potential essentially. And so after 754 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,920 Speaker 7: feeling that and just like, you know, like just feeling good. 755 00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 4: About myself for a while. 756 00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:22,360 Speaker 7: I started to practice and see how I can replicate 757 00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,840 Speaker 7: that on myself, and it just really inspired me to 758 00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:25,800 Speaker 7: be a makeup artist. 759 00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:28,759 Speaker 6: And then I got into the industry. I worked at 760 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:30,319 Speaker 6: MAC and then I worked. 761 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,359 Speaker 7: In fashion for a bit, and then I moved out 762 00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,080 Speaker 7: here and worked with celebrities for a bit, and so 763 00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:38,800 Speaker 7: I got to see all those different facets and being 764 00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:42,840 Speaker 7: in the position of service, my biggest thing is that 765 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,040 Speaker 7: I want to pour into my clients. I want them 766 00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,920 Speaker 7: to feel comfortable. I want them to feel confident. I 767 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:50,480 Speaker 7: want them to feel beautiful. I want to have moments 768 00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:53,160 Speaker 7: like this that we just have with Cheryl where she's 769 00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:57,719 Speaker 7: expressing that vulnerability. I want to be able to be a. 770 00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 4: Part of closing that gap. 771 00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:04,920 Speaker 7: I'm uncomfortable with this and I look, use my language, 772 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 7: fucking stunning. I wanted to be a part of that, 773 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:12,319 Speaker 7: and working with athletes I've been able to be. I 774 00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:17,080 Speaker 7: feel a part of that because for a long time, 775 00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:20,560 Speaker 7: there weren't many people like via Madi in this space 776 00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:26,200 Speaker 7: doing this, and as you know, yeah, as. 777 00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:28,160 Speaker 6: The industry continues to grow and. 778 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,040 Speaker 7: Get eyes on them, there was a time where I 779 00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:33,240 Speaker 7: would look at sports ads. I'd see like these sports 780 00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:36,600 Speaker 7: models and how they looked in their campaigns, and see 781 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 7: how the athletes looked in their campaigns, and I just 782 00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:43,560 Speaker 7: wanted them to realize and feel as beautiful as the 783 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,719 Speaker 7: sports model would not be more beautiful and feel more 784 00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:51,000 Speaker 7: confident and be able to take up space in those ads. 785 00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:54,000 Speaker 7: And I just was like, how can I get in 786 00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,759 Speaker 7: those rooms so that I can make that difference, so 787 00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,439 Speaker 7: that people can see what they look like when their 788 00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,880 Speaker 7: makeup actually matches and when there's actually time that goes 789 00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 7: into how they're gonna look for those interviews and for 790 00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:10,319 Speaker 7: those moments off the court, and so that's I feel 791 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 7: like that's kind of how I made my way. But 792 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:17,000 Speaker 7: even like with Madie, like I remember, we worked on 793 00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,760 Speaker 7: a client like years ago who was a really close 794 00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,600 Speaker 7: friend of mine and we were just talking about wanting 795 00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:26,000 Speaker 7: to do this and our friend was just like, y'all 796 00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:29,759 Speaker 7: can do it. And literally like a year later we 797 00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,320 Speaker 7: were working with Cheryl. We were like doing things together. 798 00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:34,640 Speaker 7: It was really cool, and it was just being like 799 00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,560 Speaker 7: us putting faith in ourselves and believing that we do 800 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:40,960 Speaker 7: truly have a gift and trusting that and walking in that. 801 00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:43,759 Speaker 7: She's like one of my favorite people to watch grow 802 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,560 Speaker 7: because I wasn't there from the beginning beginning like the 803 00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,880 Speaker 7: ticket sales, so like seeing it, like you know, like 804 00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:52,160 Speaker 7: we're constantly congratulating each other. 805 00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,000 Speaker 6: It's just so beautiful to see. 806 00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:55,880 Speaker 4: And I always just. 807 00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 7: Want her to have faith in herself because she could 808 00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:00,440 Speaker 7: do the impossible and she always wants to say for me. 809 00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:03,000 Speaker 6: So it's just like one of those things where you don't. 810 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,120 Speaker 7: Find that everywhere, and so it's just like cool to 811 00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:06,600 Speaker 7: feel like where she is now. 812 00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:11,480 Speaker 4: Thank you, Donnie, it's something to sell you ours. Yeah, 813 00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,319 Speaker 4: you have been there from the beginning beginning, Thank you. 814 00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:20,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I love that thought, you know, and you 815 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:23,319 Speaker 2: and I talked about that the other day just having 816 00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:30,240 Speaker 2: a conversation. I love seeing how Donnie uplifts Maighty Mighty 817 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:34,400 Speaker 2: uplifts Donnie and they work together because so many times 818 00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:37,759 Speaker 2: in any feel as women, and I'll say it as 819 00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,799 Speaker 2: black women, like for whatever reason, we feel like we 820 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:44,000 Speaker 2: have to compete. Yeah, we have to compete with each other. 821 00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:48,640 Speaker 2: And Matty's a stylist. Why can't y'all work together? If 822 00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:51,680 Speaker 2: Donnie knows someone who's looking for a stylist, you know, 823 00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:54,920 Speaker 2: Mighty call Marighty Mightty knows someone who needs makeup calls. 824 00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,719 Speaker 2: I love seeing this because I don't think we do 825 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:01,879 Speaker 2: this enough. I don't think we support each other enough. 826 00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:04,040 Speaker 2: I don't think we uplift each other enough. So it's 827 00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:08,960 Speaker 2: so nice to see women and sisters supporting each other 828 00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:11,640 Speaker 2: and not always competing against each other. 829 00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,560 Speaker 1: Yes, agreed, agreed, one hundred percent. 830 00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:27,680 Speaker 3: I want to take a second to have you both 831 00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:32,560 Speaker 3: tell me about some of my favorite looks that I 832 00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:36,640 Speaker 3: have seen. M okay, so I know that we are 833 00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,920 Speaker 3: audio so I'm gonna describe some of them for you 834 00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,200 Speaker 3: so that you can hear what I'm talking about. 835 00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:43,839 Speaker 1: Obviously, this is. 836 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:48,320 Speaker 3: The Queen like she does everything great, but this probably 837 00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:52,520 Speaker 3: was my favorite look I've ever seen on Asia. Now 838 00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,640 Speaker 3: keep in mind Asia AKA, so I know that she 839 00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:59,879 Speaker 3: all want to rock the pearls, but the pearl pain 840 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:05,600 Speaker 3: with the jacket, with the high shoulders, the bleing purse, 841 00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,560 Speaker 3: Yeah this gay? 842 00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:10,520 Speaker 1: Do you hear me? 843 00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:16,560 Speaker 2: The sixth pat out like this gay? But you should 844 00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:18,960 Speaker 2: have seen me trying to run machine or something, trying 845 00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:24,759 Speaker 2: to find these hands, SUSI, and we should have just 846 00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:32,480 Speaker 2: called Mardy like maighty pans from yeah yeah, And not 847 00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:34,439 Speaker 2: everybody can can wear that. 848 00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:35,280 Speaker 1: I can't. 849 00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 3: Can't because honey, the stomach I got you bet to 850 00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 3: put me on the old blazer. The whole blazer got 851 00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:44,319 Speaker 3: to come all the way back button up to my. 852 00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:50,040 Speaker 7: This is one of my all time favorites as well. 853 00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:53,560 Speaker 7: This is my first season working with Asia as her stylist. 854 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,680 Speaker 7: This is my first All Star doing it on my 855 00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,600 Speaker 7: own as her stylist as well. But these pants were 856 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:03,920 Speaker 7: customs of course, age six four and so we weren't 857 00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:07,040 Speaker 7: finding pro pants with ages en scene but I knew 858 00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:08,799 Speaker 7: I wanted to give her a moment with All Star 859 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:12,600 Speaker 7: being in Vegas, with her being the host, I just 860 00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:14,680 Speaker 7: felt like, we got to give you a moment that 861 00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,000 Speaker 7: nobody else can take from you, like this is your 862 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:21,520 Speaker 7: house as the college. So so I knew, And it 863 00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:23,919 Speaker 7: goes back to just knowing the client's personality, little things 864 00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 7: you know about them. I always like to tell a 865 00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:28,520 Speaker 7: story if I can on these big moments. And we 866 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:31,000 Speaker 7: know the importance of Pearls because of ages and Aka, 867 00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:34,279 Speaker 7: but also if anyone listened to, or you know, read 868 00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,759 Speaker 7: Dear Black Girls, or know anything about Asia and her 869 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:40,920 Speaker 7: relationship with her grandmother, Pearls is also symbolical relationship and 870 00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 7: Asia girls for when she got drafted, and she wore 871 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:47,040 Speaker 7: pearls when she warmed up while she was playing in college. 872 00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:48,680 Speaker 4: So it went so much deeper than that. 873 00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 7: And so when I gave her the idea, when I 874 00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:52,520 Speaker 7: pitched it to her, like what if we do a 875 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:57,480 Speaker 7: pearls look, she was with it. We kind of just 876 00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 7: built around the pants. Once I found a designer, her 877 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,839 Speaker 7: name was Lee. She has her own brand called One 878 00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:03,720 Speaker 7: of the Ones by Joe Lee, and she makes custom 879 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:07,840 Speaker 7: pants and custom pieces and she's a black designer I 880 00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:10,000 Speaker 7: believe out of Memphis. The pants were their focal point 881 00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:13,440 Speaker 7: and I just knew everything else had to just align, 882 00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:18,840 Speaker 7: and it did, and she killed it. 883 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:23,560 Speaker 2: And she looks confident right, like she ain't worried about 884 00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,359 Speaker 2: nothing because she knows the look is there, the fit 885 00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,560 Speaker 2: is there, the walk is there. And this was one 886 00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:29,839 Speaker 2: of my. 887 00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:31,440 Speaker 4: Faves too, this one. 888 00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:39,480 Speaker 2: I do want to congratulate, Madie. You recently received the 889 00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,320 Speaker 2: In Style Image Maker Award. 890 00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:47,200 Speaker 4: Congratula, Thank you so much. 891 00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:49,960 Speaker 2: Tell us a little bit about that. How it happened. 892 00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:57,359 Speaker 2: We saw you and said looking just bomblicus bomb delicious. 893 00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:01,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, I thank you guys so much that moment. I'm 894 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:04,839 Speaker 7: still coming down from that night. Installed. They did a 895 00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:08,240 Speaker 7: feature on me earlier this year, just interviewed me about 896 00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:11,720 Speaker 7: fashion and the w and about a month or so ago, 897 00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:16,759 Speaker 7: Jason Schieler from the Install team reached out saying they 898 00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:20,520 Speaker 7: wanted to honor me, and at first I'm like, okay, 899 00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:25,640 Speaker 7: I'm not fully understanding, but he was serious and he 900 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:30,040 Speaker 7: wanted a part of it was the honorees were stylists, 901 00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:34,240 Speaker 7: makeup artists, so it was honoring those behind the scenes 902 00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:37,600 Speaker 7: to make these big images of these celebrities that we know, 903 00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:42,360 Speaker 7: and they had our clients be the presenter of the awards, 904 00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:45,439 Speaker 7: which was really awesome to hear everybody's stories too, from 905 00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:49,920 Speaker 7: these big names like Coleman Domingo and the Melizabello and 906 00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:53,399 Speaker 7: they were just talking about the importance of their glam team. 907 00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:57,480 Speaker 7: And luckily we were able to have Sid come in. 908 00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:58,000 Speaker 6: She flew in. 909 00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:02,160 Speaker 7: She was in Nashville actually doing some appearances for Athletes Unlimited, 910 00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:04,160 Speaker 7: and she flew in just for the awards. 911 00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:07,080 Speaker 4: Straight off the flight, pulled up at the awards. 912 00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:10,799 Speaker 2: Show up anyway, go ahead. 913 00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:13,239 Speaker 7: But it was just such a beautiful night and it 914 00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:16,759 Speaker 7: was so affirming in a space sometimes that and I 915 00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,360 Speaker 7: know Donnie can speak to this as a creative I 916 00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,439 Speaker 7: think in any field, sometimes you wonder, am I doing 917 00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:24,920 Speaker 7: God's work? Am I where I'm supposed to be? And 918 00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,560 Speaker 7: I feel like I had no doubt moment this year. 919 00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:29,839 Speaker 7: From the outside it seems like, oh, yeah, everything's great, 920 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:32,200 Speaker 7: But I inside sometimes you're like, okay, am I on 921 00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:36,560 Speaker 7: the right path. So getting that honor felt almost like 922 00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:38,920 Speaker 7: God telling me like, no, you're doing what you're supposed 923 00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:39,040 Speaker 7: to do. 924 00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:40,479 Speaker 4: Just keep going and. 925 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:44,839 Speaker 7: Keep him first and That's that's all I can say, 926 00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 7: just keeping him first, working hard. 927 00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:49,440 Speaker 4: My mom got to be there, which was huge. 928 00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:52,920 Speaker 7: I flew her out from Atlanta and she had a 929 00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:54,879 Speaker 7: great time and I'm so happy she got to be there. 930 00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:57,520 Speaker 4: And I actually got styled for the first time. Oh 931 00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:01,600 Speaker 4: I've never been styled, didn't it? 932 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:03,279 Speaker 1: I thought you put me. 933 00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:07,520 Speaker 7: I gotta give credit where it's due. Actually, my styling 934 00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:11,440 Speaker 7: assistant at All Star, Frank Leslie, she is an amazing 935 00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:15,280 Speaker 7: stylist and she has taught me so much this year 936 00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:18,920 Speaker 7: and helped me on projects, and I was wanted to 937 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:20,959 Speaker 7: give her the forefront this time. 938 00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:24,480 Speaker 4: And a lot of people don't know, like finding out. 939 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:27,200 Speaker 7: As for ourselves is stressful, and hiring styles isn't always 940 00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:27,879 Speaker 7: just about looking good. 941 00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:28,880 Speaker 4: It's also a time. 942 00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:34,319 Speaker 7: Saving mental savor in a way, and France Leslie was 943 00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 7: able to do that for me. And I got to 944 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:42,720 Speaker 7: feel how you guys feel, and I felt so because 945 00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:47,680 Speaker 7: you were. Oh you were beautiful, so beautiful, you look 946 00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:49,360 Speaker 7: so good. 947 00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:50,760 Speaker 4: You look good. 948 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:56,200 Speaker 2: You deserve yeah, so deserving? 949 00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:02,239 Speaker 7: You know, stop, I know, I know I felt what 950 00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:06,440 Speaker 7: you said earlier, you know, like not being an athlete anymore, 951 00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:10,719 Speaker 7: you know, that's your identity for so long and so I'm. 952 00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:14,200 Speaker 4: Going through that myself, like it's just not the same. 953 00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,000 Speaker 7: And you know, when you work your job that you 954 00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:19,520 Speaker 7: make everybody else around you feel good and look good 955 00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:20,640 Speaker 7: and feel good about themselves. 956 00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:22,800 Speaker 4: Sometimes you don't consider yourself. 957 00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:26,960 Speaker 7: And to be able to take a step back and 958 00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:30,160 Speaker 7: have someone make me feel how I get to make 959 00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,160 Speaker 7: other people feel was. 960 00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:37,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. So it was a moment. I loved. 961 00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:40,279 Speaker 7: I loved, love, love love my outfit and I was 962 00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:43,240 Speaker 7: vulnerable and expressed to her like, look, girl, I ain't. 963 00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:46,000 Speaker 4: Got my pack no more. Okay, So I don't know. 964 00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:49,680 Speaker 7: I haven't really bought clothes for myself in a long time, Like, 965 00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:51,279 Speaker 7: I don't know what this looks like. 966 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:52,560 Speaker 4: For me, so just help me. 967 00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:54,880 Speaker 2: And well we all saw it. 968 00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:58,600 Speaker 4: You girl. 969 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,880 Speaker 6: Were gorgeous, Oh guys, gorgeous. 970 00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,359 Speaker 7: Yeah, and it was so nice to watch you get 971 00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,960 Speaker 7: your flowers because you're very deserving. 972 00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:13,160 Speaker 2: Thank you and your your arm candy, what baddie I did? 973 00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:20,000 Speaker 4: I did do my work there. I stopped that. 974 00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:22,279 Speaker 2: You are going to put up You're about to look good. 975 00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, right, let me say that I love Sid so much. 976 00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:31,240 Speaker 3: I mests it a few years ago. That's my girl. 977 00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:32,920 Speaker 3: I don't know how you can. 978 00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:34,640 Speaker 1: Tell when she's serious and when she ain't. 979 00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:39,319 Speaker 2: Oh, we still have those I never can, like, I know, 980 00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:42,040 Speaker 2: we having a real conversation right now, but I feel 981 00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:44,160 Speaker 2: like said put on this bullship right. 982 00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:48,880 Speaker 7: It's so funny because we still we do have those moments. 983 00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:50,360 Speaker 7: It was like, I can't tell if you're. 984 00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:54,000 Speaker 4: Serious or like it's like, like. 985 00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:56,480 Speaker 1: What are you like, give me a wink, give me 986 00:52:56,560 --> 00:53:01,960 Speaker 1: right what we know? We for real, Well, Donnie, y'all 987 00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:02,720 Speaker 1: are the best. 988 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:06,000 Speaker 3: And if nobody has told y'all lately that y'all are awesome, 989 00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,920 Speaker 3: y'all are awesome and we love y'all. 990 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:10,760 Speaker 1: We appreciate everything that you're doing. 991 00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:15,839 Speaker 3: You are truly inspiring a young generation of future creatives 992 00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:19,880 Speaker 3: and stylists in any ways, because it's just like you 993 00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:21,600 Speaker 3: know how it is when they say when you see it, 994 00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:23,879 Speaker 3: you can be it. So trust and believe you too 995 00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:26,720 Speaker 3: really are instoration and schol and I just so greatly 996 00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:29,560 Speaker 3: appreciate you all taking the time to join us on 997 00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:31,080 Speaker 3: levels to this today. 998 00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:32,560 Speaker 4: Thank you guys for having it. 999 00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:35,520 Speaker 2: Before we get out of here, please tell the folks 1000 00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:37,600 Speaker 2: where they can find you on social media. 1001 00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:40,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, you can find me at Donnie U D A 1002 00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:45,719 Speaker 7: N I I UK on Instagram and Donnie did it 1003 00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:49,520 Speaker 7: that is my beauty page, and then Donnie did it 1004 00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:52,359 Speaker 7: again on TikTok. I'd be having a lot of fun 1005 00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:56,440 Speaker 7: on there. Definitely check me out. You guys can find 1006 00:53:56,440 --> 00:54:00,360 Speaker 7: me at MADI too Smooth on most socials as m 1007 00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:04,440 Speaker 7: A D I I t OO smooth all the way 1008 00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 7: through as m O O t H. 1009 00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:08,520 Speaker 4: And my styling page is at a Mighty B. 1010 00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:11,200 Speaker 2: Styling and that's where I post most of my looks 1011 00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:17,360 Speaker 2: for my clients. Love that, and I just want to 1012 00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:20,120 Speaker 2: reiterate what T said. Thank you both for being here, 1013 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:23,440 Speaker 2: and if you ever question if you're where you're supposed 1014 00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:27,319 Speaker 2: to be, We're here to tell you, yes, you are 1015 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:32,040 Speaker 2: because of people like you too. That keeps us all going, 1016 00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:35,160 Speaker 2: keeps us all looking good, feeling good. And I just 1017 00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:37,440 Speaker 2: want to say keep going, sist to both of you 1018 00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:45,760 Speaker 2: and got mad love for you both, love you having us. 1019 00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:51,800 Speaker 3: Sure, that was such a fun conversation to be honest, 1020 00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:54,319 Speaker 3: And I've really got to make sure that we put 1021 00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,439 Speaker 3: these pictures up on social media so people can see 1022 00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:01,400 Speaker 3: the pictures that we've been talking about, because I mean literally, 1023 00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,680 Speaker 3: I think I'm just gonna keep stalking their social media 1024 00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:06,240 Speaker 3: and just get inspirations for how to get myself together. 1025 00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:08,279 Speaker 1: That's just that's how it's gonna work. 1026 00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:11,920 Speaker 2: I've kind of tried that, and you know what I said, 1027 00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,839 Speaker 2: listen there the makeup thing is just not me, Like 1028 00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:20,120 Speaker 2: I can't. I've done YouTube videos and tutorials and all that, 1029 00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:23,239 Speaker 2: and you know what I finally said, just leave it alone. 1030 00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:26,040 Speaker 2: That's why we have That's why we have the Donnies, 1031 00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:28,920 Speaker 2: because when I needed, I'm like, Donnie, come get your 1032 00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:29,520 Speaker 2: girl together. 1033 00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:30,920 Speaker 1: Please don't give it together. 1034 00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:35,239 Speaker 2: I know that, you know. And with Maty, I just say, 1035 00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:37,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, but I love that I can call her 1036 00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:40,160 Speaker 2: and I'm like, mighty, listen, here's what I got going on, 1037 00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:42,240 Speaker 2: Here's what I need. And the fact that we've worked 1038 00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:45,840 Speaker 2: together before is she knows, you know, what I feel 1039 00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:50,000 Speaker 2: comfortable in, what I feel sexy in. She's like, I 1040 00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:52,799 Speaker 2: just I love being able to work with those two. 1041 00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:56,240 Speaker 2: And what a what a great conversation, Such a great conversation, 1042 00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:58,279 Speaker 2: Just a great group of women. And there's so many more, 1043 00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:00,719 Speaker 2: as you mentioned, there's so many more out there who 1044 00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:03,799 Speaker 2: you know, do similar things that they do. I'm really 1045 00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,799 Speaker 2: hoping that we'll get an opportunity to maybe talk to 1046 00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:07,560 Speaker 2: them too and. 1047 00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:10,120 Speaker 1: Just kind of see just you know what. 1048 00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:13,480 Speaker 3: Matter of fact, when I was in Minnesota, I ended 1049 00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:17,399 Speaker 3: up meeting the FISA Colliers stylists and I was. 1050 00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:22,400 Speaker 2: Like, girl, you had her together all the time. 1051 00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:27,279 Speaker 3: Walk in this carpet, this orange carpet, and yeah, man, 1052 00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:29,120 Speaker 3: her name is Kim. And she was just like, girl, 1053 00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:33,040 Speaker 3: let's let's talk okay. And I was wearing a fit. 1054 00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:36,680 Speaker 3: I was wearing this pink blazer with these pink heels 1055 00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:37,920 Speaker 3: in these cute little jeans. 1056 00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:38,799 Speaker 1: Oh, I saw it. 1057 00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:42,640 Speaker 2: Yes, And so she was like, she was like, girl, 1058 00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:43,839 Speaker 2: you doing it with that fit? 1059 00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:46,680 Speaker 1: That's cute. So you know, yeah. 1060 00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:51,279 Speaker 2: Your hipsels all out in the Wait a minute, girl, now, 1061 00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:53,760 Speaker 2: don't you have no stylists telling me I put myself 1062 00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:57,880 Speaker 2: together right now? Because now. 1063 00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:03,080 Speaker 3: So anyway, just with everything that we've talked about today 1064 00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:09,880 Speaker 3: and just with everything going on, I feel that that 1065 00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:13,200 Speaker 3: your word to help us level up is just gonna 1066 00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:18,000 Speaker 3: be something necessary to get us from today to next week. 1067 00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:23,880 Speaker 2: Well, I have read this over and over again, and 1068 00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:26,240 Speaker 2: I'm just going to go out on a limb and 1069 00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:30,200 Speaker 2: say a lot of other people women in particular, maybe 1070 00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:33,600 Speaker 2: black women in particular have read this, and I just 1071 00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:38,080 Speaker 2: feel like right now is the perfect time to pull 1072 00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:44,040 Speaker 2: out some Maya Angelo for all of us, just where 1073 00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:46,680 Speaker 2: we are, what's going on, what we're feeling. And I 1074 00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:48,640 Speaker 2: do want to say before I read it, I do 1075 00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:52,920 Speaker 2: want to say to Kamala Harris, we see you, sis, 1076 00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:57,280 Speaker 2: we feel you. Listen, we appreciate you, We appreciate you 1077 00:57:57,720 --> 00:57:59,840 Speaker 2: for just putting it all out there, laying it all 1078 00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:04,600 Speaker 2: on the line, and we got your bacsis. But yeah, 1079 00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:08,960 Speaker 2: this is the infamous Maya Angelo. 1080 00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:10,800 Speaker 1: Still I rise. 1081 00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:15,959 Speaker 2: You may write me down in history with your bitter, 1082 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:19,480 Speaker 2: twisted lies, you may tread me in the very dirt, 1083 00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:24,320 Speaker 2: but still like dust, all rise, does my sassiness upset you? 1084 00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:27,840 Speaker 2: Why are you beset with gloom? Because I walk like 1085 00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:31,840 Speaker 2: I've got oil wells pumping in my living room, just 1086 00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:34,920 Speaker 2: like moons, and like suns with a certainty of tides, 1087 00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:39,480 Speaker 2: just like hopes bringing high. Still, all rise, did you 1088 00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:42,720 Speaker 2: want to see me broken bowed head and lord eyes, 1089 00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:47,200 Speaker 2: shoulders falling down like teardrops, weakened by my soulful cries? 1090 00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:50,920 Speaker 2: Does my heartiness offend you? Don't you take it? 1091 00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:51,280 Speaker 1: Awful? 1092 00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:54,320 Speaker 2: Heart, because I laugh like I've got old gold mines 1093 00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:58,000 Speaker 2: digging in my own backyard. You may shoot me with 1094 00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:01,000 Speaker 2: your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you 1095 00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:04,280 Speaker 2: may kill me with your hatefulness. But still like air, 1096 00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:08,680 Speaker 2: I'll rise. Does my sexiness upset you? Does it come 1097 00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:11,960 Speaker 2: as a surprise that I dance like I've got diamonds 1098 00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:15,440 Speaker 2: at the meeting of my thighs? Out of the huts 1099 00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:19,439 Speaker 2: of history shame? I rise up from a past that's 1100 00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:20,280 Speaker 2: rooted in pain. 1101 00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:21,400 Speaker 1: I rise. 1102 00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:25,960 Speaker 2: I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide, welling and swelling. 1103 00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:29,240 Speaker 2: I bear in the tide, leaving behind nights of terror 1104 00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:33,680 Speaker 2: and fear. I rise into a daybreak that's wondrously clear. 1105 00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:38,040 Speaker 2: I rise, bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave. I 1106 00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:41,680 Speaker 2: am the dream and the hope of the slave. I Rise, 1107 00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:43,880 Speaker 2: I Rise, I Rise. 1108 00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:49,080 Speaker 3: I absolutely love that poem, Shirl. 1109 00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:50,120 Speaker 1: I actually know about. 1110 00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:52,200 Speaker 2: Heart of my It's one of my favorite. 1111 00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:59,360 Speaker 3: Favorite poems ever. And it needs nothing like you don't 1112 00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:00,000 Speaker 3: got to explain. 1113 01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:02,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's nothing to say after us, but I will 1114 01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:07,080 Speaker 2: I will say this one thing, this this poem. You 1115 01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,720 Speaker 2: could read it every day right just to for me, 1116 01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:15,520 Speaker 2: just to remind us of who we truly are, because 1117 01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:19,760 Speaker 2: we're never gonna get that acceptance from from the world. 1118 01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:24,919 Speaker 2: But Maya Angelo was onto something. She knew exactly what 1119 01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:27,560 Speaker 2: we as women, as black women, are gonna go through 1120 01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:31,560 Speaker 2: and experience every day. So I hope that this poem 1121 01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:35,800 Speaker 2: uplifts you, gets you through, just gets you through to 1122 01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:38,320 Speaker 2: the next day. That's all we gotta do right now. 1123 01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:42,440 Speaker 2: But remember we are all in this together. We got 1124 01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:44,760 Speaker 2: this and like you said early on, we got to 1125 01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:47,720 Speaker 2: keep our foot on the foot on the gas and 1126 01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:49,760 Speaker 2: we gotta we got We still got work to do. 1127 01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:53,080 Speaker 1: That's it, period, nothing less to be said. 1128 01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:56,320 Speaker 3: Cheryl has dropped the mic and so with that, friends, 1129 01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:59,080 Speaker 3: thank you for listening to level us to this. We 1130 01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:03,360 Speaker 3: will be back next week with more next level conversation 1131 01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:06,040 Speaker 3: just about the real shit that women go through. But listen, 1132 01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:09,760 Speaker 3: this is just not our show. It's our show, so 1133 01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:12,000 Speaker 3: we want to hear from you. 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