WEBVTT - Ready, Set, Valley? 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:01.320 Hello, gorgeous. 0:00:01.400 --> 0:00:02.160 It's Lala Kent. 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:10.880 Welcome to Untraditionally, Lala, Hello, gorgeous, Welcome back to Untraditionally, Lala. 0:00:11.039 --> 0:00:14.560 I am here with my ride or die as per usual. 0:00:14.640 --> 0:00:16.280 Welcome back to the podcast, Easton. 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:17.240 Good to be here. 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:19.520 Good to be here, you guys. 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:23.440 We just got back from Utah, and I don't know 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:28.360 what it was about that trip, but it was a trip. 0:00:28.800 --> 0:00:31.240 It was a trip. I felt like a pack mule 0:00:31.400 --> 0:00:37.000 the entire time. And I have a very strange relationship 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:40.400 with going back to Utah. My mom doesn't have it, 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:47.599 Easton doesn't really have it. I get very very triggered 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:50.319 by going back, and I want to deep dive into 0:00:50.400 --> 0:00:55.000 it and our trip, and it was obviously an incredible trip, 0:00:55.880 --> 0:00:58.240 but I want to walk you through like my headspace 0:00:58.320 --> 0:00:59.320 whenever I go back. 0:00:59.440 --> 0:01:00.600 Which is why I don't. 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:04.119 Think your headspace is right there though, because I feel 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:07.000 what you feel. I just have a lot of good friends. 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:11.479 But I when you talk about it, okay, I'll elaborate. 0:01:11.959 --> 0:01:12.279 Okay. 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:15.080 So the first thing that I want to tell you 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:18.080 guys about the other night. It was last week. We 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:19.360 went out to dinner. 0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:20.240 You and Janet. 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:26.160 Yeah, we went out to dinner for Leo's birthday. So, 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:30.319 Leo and Logan are my gays. They're my gusbands the vault. 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:33.440 They know the ins and outs of every detail of 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:37.200 my life, every wound, and they're just like when I 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:39.520 think about people who make a party and make my 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:42.560 soul happy and fill my cup, it is them, like 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:44.200 they're my reality. 0:01:44.800 --> 0:01:45.600 It's wonderful. 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:48.560 So I was so excited to go out to celebrate Leo. 0:01:48.680 --> 0:01:51.040 And we went to a place called Dante, which is 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:54.880 the same place that I had my baby shower with Sosa, 0:01:55.960 --> 0:02:00.840 And it was just myself, Janet, Brittany, Logan, Leoh, Janet 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:02.640 and I get there early because we're like, it'll be cute, 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:03.440 like sit at the bar. 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:05.320 I would love to have a pineapple juice with like 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:05.760 a lime. 0:02:07.080 --> 0:02:10.960 We pull out the chairs at the bar and literally 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:13.280 as soon as our asses hit the seats, I see, 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:15.000 out of the corner of my eye. 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:18.600 Men, prowling men, these two fucking men. 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:21.400 Now, keep in mind, if I were in my mental 0:02:21.480 --> 0:02:23.800 late sixties pushing into seventies, they. 0:02:23.680 --> 0:02:24.800 Would have been a great catch. 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:27.360 That would have been a great catch, and it would 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:32.800 have been an age appropriate coming together. Right but clearly 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:35.560 this is not what these men want. One sits next 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:39.000 to Janet. I'm like this, like Easta and I are 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:40.600 right next to each other. This is me and Janet. 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:43.160 So the guy is like, my, my guy, oh, my 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:49.280 guy is just like flingering right here, and he starts 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:52.840 speaking French to me. And I'm feeding into it, you guys, 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:55.600 because I'm an asshole. I was like, oh, that's gorgeous. 0:02:55.680 --> 0:02:59.440 Oh my god. And he's like, you want to know 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:01.560 what I said? And he like tells me what he said. 0:03:02.120 --> 0:03:03.440 Couldn't tell you what he said. 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:04.440 I zoned out. 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:06.120 I couldn't believe it was fucking happening. 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:09.320 I was like, wow, what am I giving off right 0:03:09.320 --> 0:03:11.799 now that would make this man think that I want this. 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:17.960 So then he goes, if I had a guitar, I 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:20.520 would sing to you, and I was like, oh, that 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:25.640 sounds wonderful. He starts belting, belting at the bar. 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:26.160 No guitar. 0:03:26.200 --> 0:03:27.720 I'm like, it seems that you don't need it. 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:32.480 You don't need it, gitar. He finishes singing and the 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:34.400 bartender walks up to me. He's like, hey, are you okay? 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:36.880 I was like, yeah, could I get a pineapple with 0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:39.880 a splash of soda water in a line. At that point, 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:42.040 the bartender knew, like, oh, this girl's in her frame 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:42.440 of mind. 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:43.600 She solid, I don't need. 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:44.560 To help her out. 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:48.000 Then the man grabs my hand and he's caressing it. 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:49.360 He's like. 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:54.200 Caressing it. I'm so skewed out too. I'm like, this 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:56.160 feels like my grandpa's holding my hand. 0:03:57.680 --> 0:03:58.760 I know, I know. 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:03.960 And he's like, you look like a woman who loves 0:04:04.520 --> 0:04:05.760 homes in Beverly Hills. 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:07.360 I was like, of course, who. 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:11.360 Doesn't want want And he goes, you look like you 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:15.040 love six thousand square foot homes in Beverly Hills and 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:20.919 I was like, of course, because you look like you have. 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:21.760 He goes on the list. 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:26.200 Just wait, you look like you love homes abroad. He 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:28.880 tells me he has homes abroad. And I was like, oh, yeah. 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:33.080 You look like book what you look like you? 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:38.320 Then I was like all right, okay, And he's still 0:04:38.360 --> 0:04:41.440 caressing the hand, gripping it, and I've gone limp in 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:43.680 his hand, but he's still got his grip. 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:47.960 He goes, you look like you love private jets. 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:52.160 I was like, oh no, I'm like that was a 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:54.520 whole thing. By the way, La La on private junks, 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:57.920 BJS for pre js. I really don't want that label 0:04:57.960 --> 0:05:01.120 coming back. So in my because I was very kind. 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:06.640 In my head, I'm thinking, all of those things sound awesome. 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:10.040 The problem is you come with all of those things. 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:11.960 That's where you lose me. 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:14.680 All right, all right, ain't worth it? 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:20.320 So then he I, he asks me at the same 0:05:20.400 --> 0:05:24.880 exact time, if I am in a relationship, Janet has 0:05:24.960 --> 0:05:28.320 just told her guy that she's happily married and that 0:05:28.520 --> 0:05:29.359 I'm single. 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:33.880 Thank you, Janet, Janet, Janet, you'd done fucked up. 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:39.200 Well, I tell the guy that I'm in a partnership 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:40.960 and he goes, why don't you have a ring on? 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:43.440 And I go, oh, I don't believe in marriage. He's like, 0:05:43.520 --> 0:05:45.080 so what is he to you? Then I said, he's 0:05:45.120 --> 0:05:48.239 my life partner, like where we've chosen to be together forever. 0:05:48.560 --> 0:05:51.440 And he was let me tell you something, if you 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:54.960 were mine, I would never let you go and we 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:56.000 would be getting married. 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:58.919 And I go, see, we would never work out. We 0:05:58.960 --> 0:06:02.520 would never work out because you want marriage and I don't. 0:06:02.560 --> 0:06:06.280 We were so close, and I promise you that guy 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:10.000 prowling at the bar for thirty year old women, he's 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:11.240 not wanting to be married either. 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:12.480 By the way, now. 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:17.160 He's full of shit. And also he he goes, well, 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:19.040 then let me see this life partner. 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:20.560 Does he have a mug shot? And I was like, 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:25.120 you're such a dick. Anyway, logan appears, Thank god. The 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:28.240 guy goes downstairs. And we were at dinner for over 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:30.600 two and a half hours, and they came back up 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:33.520 and had the audacity to say, you guys are still here. 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:35.880 You are, we're having dinner. 0:06:36.200 --> 0:06:39.000 You're peeing around doing nothing but how to drink in 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:40.080 your hand the whole time. 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:42.719 Coming back up three and a half hours or three 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:45.400 hours later, they got to make another round. See if 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:48.560 the new see if there's fresh women. See if the 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:51.640 bar is rotating. Yes, the bar, it was not rotating. 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:54.600 And Janet goes, wow, I have not been hit on 0:06:54.680 --> 0:06:55.240 in ten years. 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:57.279 I was like, I haven't either, but mostly because I 0:06:57.279 --> 0:06:58.960 haven't left the house in ten years. 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:02.120 Like this is weird. It's good, but it feels good though, 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:03.800 right I feel I felt nothing. 0:07:04.120 --> 0:07:07.599 In fact, I questioned myself, what am I giving that 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:11.840 would make these men feel like they're not doing their audience? Men? 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:14.800 Men are men, and men are at that age. 0:07:15.160 --> 0:07:18.360 I mean, keep in mind Eastern. I had on a 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:25.400 dress by naked wardrobe, turtleneck. Turtleneck dress covers everything, long 0:07:25.480 --> 0:07:29.160 sleeve down to my ankles, no slit. I had to 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:32.480 baby step all the way up to Dante. Looked like 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:35.920 a damn fool. But even my outfit wasn't giving like, yes, 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:40.960 come hither. It was giving statement, Oh my god. 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:45.560 And we were He's like, all right, fuck it, practice round, 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:49.880 practice round, practice round. We'll get this one right. We'll 0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:53.000 come up three hours later. Get right. Oh my god, 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:55.640 you're right. He's like, I don't even care if I 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:58.600 get laid. I'm just practicing this. The verbal uh, the 0:07:58.680 --> 0:07:59.240 verbal use. 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:04.560 I'm about to right right, because it was only seven thirty. 0:08:06.160 --> 0:08:09.000 We were the practice around. They failed. 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:13.040 Oh I know, these men get there early, see how 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:14.880 it is, and then. 0:08:15.040 --> 0:08:16.240 You have time to go somewhere else. 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:20.400 No, well maybe, but then they're probably like, we'll just 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:23.560 wait for them to get a little drunk, and then 0:08:23.680 --> 0:08:27.000 maybe we'll be appealing when they're drunk. 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:31.560 That would have worked had I been drinking. Actually, like private. 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:33.160 Jet, let's go out would have worked on me too. 0:08:35.240 --> 0:08:39.320 And this is why sobriety has single handedly saved my life. 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:41.120 No more charity fucking here. 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:47.040 Even for a jet. So, speaking of Janet, the Valley 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:52.640 trailer has officially come out. So they not only released 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:57.120 the trailer, but they they released like little tidbits about 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:59.640 our storylines, each person and this is what they said 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:02.800 about now in a new chapter in her life, Laala's 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:05.160 main priority is raising her daughter's ocean and so so 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:08.119 all while inching closer to her seven year sober anniversary. 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:11.199 She forms a close friendship with Michelle and Tom as 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:13.199 they bond over being the single ones in the group, 0:09:13.240 --> 0:09:16.120 and opens up about her mental health and anxiety. Never 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:18.640 afraid to speak her truth, she is quick to call 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:21.479 out someone in the group when they act out of turn. 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:25.160 I mean, yes, this is great. I would say that 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:27.400 that's that's pretty spot on. 0:09:27.920 --> 0:09:33.920 Yeah, could you elaborate on anything else? Could you add 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:37.280 anything to what you have in the season that people 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:37.720 may not know? 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:41.720 This is my hope again, I have zero control over editing. 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:46.920 I hope that they allow me to talk about the 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:49.840 real reason and they actually the real reason why I 0:09:49.880 --> 0:09:53.280 have my tremendous anxiety this season. 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:58.240 Yes, yes, you know, And if they don't, now that 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:00.280 it's out there, people will be asking, you know, if 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:02.360 it's not seen, So either way, you're going to be 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:03.800 able to let it out right. You know what I 0:10:03.800 --> 0:10:05.319 do like about because I feel like that's going to 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:07.079 help a lot of people when it comes to anxiety 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:09.360 and why you have it. If they don't show it, 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:11.439 I think you should bring it up on the podcast 0:10:11.600 --> 0:10:15.240 because everybody needs a couple more tools in their bag 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:16.199 to deal with anxiety. 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:16.920 I think so too. 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:19.680 And also what I do like about The Valley, which 0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:22.280 is kind of similar to how things that we see 0:10:22.280 --> 0:10:25.199 on Housewives, is they they allow us to break the 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:28.800 fourth wall. It was not often on vander Pump that 0:10:28.800 --> 0:10:30.720 we could break the fourth wall because we started as 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:35.880 a bunch of servers and hosts. Is that we're working 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:39.240 at a restaurant and slowly but surely gained a lot 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:43.880 of notoriety and fame that kind of just fucked with 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:48.040 you know what the show was really about, you know. Yeah, 0:10:49.320 --> 0:10:52.880 so The Valley definitely was different in that capacity too. 0:10:53.000 --> 0:10:57.240 Is they're really showing They show a lot about how 0:10:57.320 --> 0:11:00.480 we get to go and do things. And I built 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:04.360 this life off of reality TV and the opportunities that 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:08.920 came with that. Yeah, So I like this description. This 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:11.520 is a great description for me being my toe back 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:17.160 in here a fault. It looks really good again. I 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:20.640 did not film every single scene, so to see what 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:22.760 other people were going through. 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:24.840 It was like, oh shit. 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:25.840 It's a good season. 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:29.960 You think you know, I have heard that it is 0:11:30.000 --> 0:11:34.440 a very very good season, very good season, and it. 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:40.760 I liked going into it because it was fresh perspective. 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:44.720 I didn't know much about what I was going into. 0:11:44.920 --> 0:11:47.800 I feel like I took the time to kind of 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:50.320 listen and get to know people, and it was like 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:53.880 a fresh set of eyes, fresh set of ears. I 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:57.240 didn't want anyone clouding my judgment on anybody, because just 0:11:57.280 --> 0:11:59.360 because you don't connect with someone doesn't mean I won't 0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:03.120 connect with some one. I thought the trailer looked amazing 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:07.079 and entertaining. I'm really excited, and you know, I was 0:12:07.120 --> 0:12:10.760 going into it like I. I got the email yesterday 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:14.079 like hey, the Valley trailer is coming out tomorrow, and 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:17.000 I instantly started panicking. I'm like, oh no, PTSD, PTSD, 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:22.080 So one thing checked off the list. We dipped the 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:26.600 toe in the water April first April, first April fools. 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:28.920 On April fools. Maybe it's in April fools. 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:31.800 No, it's not an April fools, but that'll see. Now 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:32.760 I'm having a panic attack. 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:36.320 April first. 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:40.720 I had my boobs done on the sixteenth, so I'll 0:12:40.760 --> 0:12:44.640 be consumed with that. Okay, we've got some time, but 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:48.719 I will start freaking out. I'm freaking out right now. 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:50.840 Actually I'm freaking out. Man. 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:53.840 I know I've just been like off the grid, enjoying 0:12:53.840 --> 0:12:57.160 my life. And you know, I always say I love 0:12:57.320 --> 0:12:58.520 making reality TV. 0:12:58.760 --> 0:13:00.360 But the second they're like, hey, you're. 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:02.280 Gonna make reality TV, I'm like, no, put me back 0:13:02.320 --> 0:13:02.800 in the Wow. 0:13:03.040 --> 0:13:07.199 I like my when it's over, when the cameras are down, 0:13:07.240 --> 0:13:08.800 and then you get to just be on your whole again. 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:12.280 That's when you're making it is the funnest part. It's 0:13:12.320 --> 0:13:14.520 when it comes out that you start having a panic 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:17.719 attack because now it's for everyone else. Does judge how 0:13:17.720 --> 0:13:18.560 you handled shit? 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:20.920 No? You guys. That's the one thing that I never 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:25.840 realized watching like not being a part of it, because 0:13:25.840 --> 0:13:28.040 I watched this before you were on it and watching 0:13:28.080 --> 0:13:31.280 reality TV and just like, yes, it's on for just 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:35.880 like three three four months, right, depending on. 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:36.800 How many episodes you get. 0:13:36.880 --> 0:13:40.360 Yeah, but to see that like it is a full 0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:44.160 time job, and talking to other people who just went 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:46.920 into like the Mormon wives, talking to them and like, 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:50.360 it is a full time job. Yes, you're filming for 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:53.480 a short period of the year. That takes up a 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:56.760 good amount of mental capacity. But then once you're done 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:59.800 filming and you feel like you're done, that's when stories 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:02.840 being brought up and things like that, and now you're 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:05.960 mentally still back at work. And then when it releases, 0:14:06.000 --> 0:14:08.520 you're living through what you already filmed. So it's like 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:11.560 it's a year long process that you have to live through. 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:14.960 And I never really even understood that coming from just 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:17.880 a viewer and now being kind of somebody who sees 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:20.960 you Janet all of these people, it is a full 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:22.120 time job, right. 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:27.440 I will say though, going into it, I didn't realize 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:31.200 and I don't know how this came across. I've said 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:33.680 it a couple of times where people have asked what 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:36.280 was the difference between VPR and filming the Valley, and 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:38.960 I said VPR was a well oiled machine, And I 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:40.880 realized me going onto the Valley, I was a well 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:44.600 oiled machine. I didn't mean that as an insult, because 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:47.640 it's far from that. I had such a great time 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:53.680 filming with everybody, and you know, Kristin Dodie most there's 0:14:53.800 --> 0:14:56.000 not many people who make reality TV like she does. 0:14:56.320 --> 0:14:58.880 There's not many people who make reality TV like Britney 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:02.880 who are so willing to share their day to day 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:05.880 and what they're going through, like nothing is off limits, right. 0:15:06.080 --> 0:15:09.360 But I love it, and I think and I love 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:11.640 it too, and there's and that's what we love. 0:15:11.920 --> 0:15:12.560 We do love it. 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:14.440 And that's why there was a moment when I did 0:15:14.520 --> 0:15:17.000 like the I did the Haters podcast, but I also 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:21.320 did the Lover's podcast because I wanted to give the 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:24.640 audience a chance to come in and give reality TV 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:30.760 personalities their flowers because the comments section is loud with 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:35.080 a lot of negativity. But these shows are really helping 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:39.360 people get through tough moments feel less alone. And I 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:44.640 think this season it's going to be the exact same thing. 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:49.280 People having babies, struggling to find the balance between motherhood 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:54.960 and and you know, being a present partner. I grew 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:57.560 to really adore Zach. I think that he's like so 0:15:57.680 --> 0:15:59.760 much fun. I had a great time with him Jasmine, 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:01.640 and I was like, oh my gosh, you guys are 0:16:01.680 --> 0:16:03.880 a bag of fun. There was so much that I 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:07.520 gained that it almost reminded me of vander pump Roles 0:16:07.520 --> 0:16:11.080 because if you guys remember I was new to this 0:16:11.160 --> 0:16:13.840 group of people who had been friends for a decade 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:16.680 plus and they had so much history and it took 0:16:16.720 --> 0:16:19.240 me a minute for them to accept me. But then 0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:22.640 I was a part of the group and friendships and 0:16:23.880 --> 0:16:27.800 you know, it doesn't matter earth, it doesn't matter how 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:30.680 it ended. I still hold it close to my heart. 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:33.080 And so going into the valley, it felt like, oh 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:39.080 my gosh, like these these are friendships that I'm actually liking. 0:16:40.600 --> 0:16:43.360 And we'll see it's it's everyone has their own thing 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:45.480 going on. We'll see if we like kick it off camera. 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:49.120 I obviously have like my main people. I see Christen 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:51.920 as much as I can with her having the baby 0:16:51.920 --> 0:16:54.840 and you know, her life, but we talk and we 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:59.000 have a lot of history. Brittany, I see frequently, Janet Michelle. 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:04.240 So we'll just we'll see where. 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:06.160 Where my place is this season. I have no idea. 0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:08.919 I kind of blacked out during filming. The best thing 0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:11.560 to do. It's the best thing to do. 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:17.040 A mental blackout. Let's talk about Utah. I I'll ride. 0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:20.679 When was the last time you had gone October. Okay, 0:17:21.440 --> 0:17:23.240 I stayed there too long this time. 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:27.520 Well, this time we went from Thursday to Tuesday. I 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:31.760 went from Monday to Tuesday. Monday, I went Yeah, eight days, 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:35.639 eight days, little too long in Utah. 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:40.080 Well are the difference is you we got a hotel 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:44.080 and getting to the airport. You guys with kids will 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:48.760 relate to this. I'm like, okay, we're going to the airport. 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:52.800 I really it sounds like a nightmare to check car 0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:55.880 seats and a stroller like that sounds awful. What I'm 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:59.080 going to do is have a friend drive my car 0:17:59.520 --> 0:18:02.360 with the car our seats, take us to the airport, 0:18:02.840 --> 0:18:07.560 and then send Easton out to buy two car seats 0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:09.440 that will figure out what to do with them, store 0:18:09.480 --> 0:18:11.760 them at one of our friend's houses. He'll pick us 0:18:11.840 --> 0:18:15.800 up in the rental with the car seats in. But 0:18:15.880 --> 0:18:18.720 you don't think about Okay, I'll be fine without his 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:21.200 stroller while we're there. But then I'm holding my baby 0:18:21.240 --> 0:18:24.359 twenty four to seven. My back is wrenched. I have 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:26.919 all of these bags. We checked the big ones, but 0:18:27.880 --> 0:18:32.320 I've got like stupid, I've got a diaper back, I've 0:18:32.359 --> 0:18:34.960 got my own shit, I've got blankets, I've got the 0:18:35.040 --> 0:18:38.560 change of clothes, and I've shoved into the Gech's like 0:18:38.600 --> 0:18:42.439 another child. And then we land and we get to 0:18:42.480 --> 0:18:46.439 the hotel, and you guys, it is a Thursday to 0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:51.520 Tuesday of me treking children and the jeej up and 0:18:51.600 --> 0:18:55.200 down the elevator four to five times a day, getting 0:18:55.320 --> 0:18:56.359 kids in. 0:18:56.280 --> 0:18:56.800 And out of the car. 0:18:56.880 --> 0:19:00.320 And keep in mind, love my mom, but I put 0:19:00.320 --> 0:19:02.760 her in the car first because I'm like, if without 0:19:02.800 --> 0:19:05.439 you and the car first, this is gonna it's just 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:10.400 gonna be a lot jij in the car first. Then 0:19:10.440 --> 0:19:13.720 we handle Sosa. Ocean buckles herself as much as she 0:19:13.760 --> 0:19:17.320 possibly can. I come around to the driver's side, buckle 0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:19.199 the rest and we're off to the races. This was like, 0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:22.239 and I'm talking four or five times a day just 0:19:22.680 --> 0:19:25.440 to and from the hotel. That doesn't even count. Where 0:19:25.480 --> 0:19:30.080 we're going the Children's Museum, which was awesome. Ocean loved that. 0:19:30.480 --> 0:19:35.960 We took them to Kid's Empire. That was awesome. We 0:19:36.040 --> 0:19:39.520 really went. I really went because Mom was like, we 0:19:39.600 --> 0:19:41.719 are going to Utah for Easan's birthday. 0:19:41.720 --> 0:19:43.560 I was like, bitch, you got me fucked up. If 0:19:43.560 --> 0:19:47.000 you think I'm going to Utah for Eathan's birthday. Hey, 0:19:47.000 --> 0:19:49.159 it's my birthday. You should come over. The fuck I 0:19:49.160 --> 0:19:56.120 would sho places for your birthday? Oh really, Bahama, Oh 0:19:56.160 --> 0:20:00.640 I'm sorry, I've gone terrible places. Is when you were 0:20:00.640 --> 0:20:02.080 with that terrible human being? 0:20:02.320 --> 0:20:04.360 Where did you go that you didn't like a lot 0:20:04.400 --> 0:20:05.399 of places where? 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:08.200 Oh let me see Vegas? Where I didn't want to 0:20:08.240 --> 0:20:10.120 be with the three of us to watch him play 0:20:10.160 --> 0:20:11.680 fucking poker and ship that. 0:20:11.680 --> 0:20:12.840 Was the best kill every time. 0:20:13.000 --> 0:20:15.679 He trust me, I've done some ship, all right. So 0:20:15.760 --> 0:20:18.000 if I drag your ass to Utah for my birthday, 0:20:18.040 --> 0:20:20.000 you better fucking come with Chelsea. 0:20:20.119 --> 0:20:22.280 That bashes me off. Ethan doesn't even stay with us. 0:20:22.320 --> 0:20:24.640 He stays at a friend's house. You barely even see him. 0:20:25.119 --> 0:20:26.840 I have to call him and harass him. 0:20:26.920 --> 0:20:29.920 Okay, what are we doing? Mom said, do you guys? 0:20:30.000 --> 0:20:31.840 Do you want to stay with us at the hotel? 0:20:31.880 --> 0:20:34.080 And I said yeah, and she goes we could share 0:20:34.119 --> 0:20:36.760 a room and I said no, So then I went 0:20:36.760 --> 0:20:39.320 to my buddies. All right, I'm not sharing a room 0:20:39.400 --> 0:20:45.159 with the Thomas the train. It's like I'm trying to 0:20:45.200 --> 0:20:48.840 live and properly sleep to the I don't blame you. 0:20:48.960 --> 0:20:51.360 I don't blame you at all, but that is why. 0:20:51.520 --> 0:20:54.160 And then you guys ended up even getting one room. 0:20:54.359 --> 0:20:59.760