1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:01,320 Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. 2 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 2: It's Lala Kent. 3 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:10,880 Speaker 3: Welcome to Untraditionally, Lala, Hello, gorgeous, Welcome back to Untraditionally, Lala. 4 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 3: I am here with my ride or die as per usual. 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 3: Welcome back to the podcast, Easton. 6 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:17,240 Speaker 1: Good to be here. 7 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 2: Good to be here, you guys. 8 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:23,440 Speaker 3: We just got back from Utah, and I don't know 9 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 3: what it was about that trip, but it was a trip. 10 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 3: It was a trip. I felt like a pack mule 11 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 3: the entire time. And I have a very strange relationship 12 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 3: with going back to Utah. My mom doesn't have it, 13 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:47,599 Speaker 3: Easton doesn't really have it. I get very very triggered 14 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:50,319 Speaker 3: by going back, and I want to deep dive into 15 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 3: it and our trip, and it was obviously an incredible trip, 16 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 3: but I want to walk you through like my headspace 17 00:00:58,320 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 3: whenever I go back. 18 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 2: Which is why I don't. 19 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:04,119 Speaker 1: Think your headspace is right there though, because I feel 20 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: what you feel. I just have a lot of good friends. 21 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:11,479 Speaker 1: But I when you talk about it, okay, I'll elaborate. 22 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:12,279 Speaker 2: Okay. 23 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 3: So the first thing that I want to tell you 24 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 3: guys about the other night. It was last week. We 25 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 3: went out to dinner. 26 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: You and Janet. 27 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, we went out to dinner for Leo's birthday. So, 28 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 3: Leo and Logan are my gays. They're my gusbands the vault. 29 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 3: They know the ins and outs of every detail of 30 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 3: my life, every wound, and they're just like when I 31 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 3: think about people who make a party and make my 32 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 3: soul happy and fill my cup, it is them, like 33 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 3: they're my reality. 34 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 2: It's wonderful. 35 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 3: So I was so excited to go out to celebrate Leo. 36 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 3: And we went to a place called Dante, which is 37 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 3: the same place that I had my baby shower with Sosa, 38 00:01:55,960 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 3: And it was just myself, Janet, Brittany, Logan, Leoh, Janet 39 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 3: and I get there early because we're like, it'll be cute, 40 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 3: like sit at the bar. 41 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 2: I would love to have a pineapple juice with like 42 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 2: a lime. 43 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 3: We pull out the chairs at the bar and literally 44 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 3: as soon as our asses hit the seats, I see, 45 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 3: out of the corner of my eye. 46 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 2: Men, prowling men, these two fucking men. 47 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 3: Now, keep in mind, if I were in my mental 48 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 3: late sixties pushing into seventies, they. 49 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 1: Would have been a great catch. 50 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 3: That would have been a great catch, and it would 51 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 3: have been an age appropriate coming together. Right but clearly 52 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 3: this is not what these men want. One sits next 53 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 3: to Janet. I'm like this, like Easta and I are 54 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 3: right next to each other. This is me and Janet. 55 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 3: So the guy is like, my, my guy, oh, my 56 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 3: guy is just like flingering right here, and he starts 57 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 3: speaking French to me. And I'm feeding into it, you guys, 58 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 3: because I'm an asshole. I was like, oh, that's gorgeous. 59 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 3: Oh my god. And he's like, you want to know 60 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 3: what I said? And he like tells me what he said. 61 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 3: Couldn't tell you what he said. 62 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 2: I zoned out. 63 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it was fucking happening. 64 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 3: I was like, wow, what am I giving off right 65 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,799 Speaker 3: now that would make this man think that I want this. 66 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 3: So then he goes, if I had a guitar, I 67 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 3: would sing to you, and I was like, oh, that 68 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 3: sounds wonderful. He starts belting, belting at the bar. 69 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: No guitar. 70 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, it seems that you don't need it. 71 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: You don't need it, gitar. He finishes singing and the 72 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: bartender walks up to me. He's like, hey, are you okay? 73 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, could I get a pineapple with 74 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 3: a splash of soda water in a line. At that point, 75 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 3: the bartender knew, like, oh, this girl's in her frame 76 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 3: of mind. 77 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: She solid, I don't need. 78 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 2: To help her out. 79 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: Then the man grabs my hand and he's caressing it. 80 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 4: He's like. 81 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 3: Caressing it. I'm so skewed out too. I'm like, this 82 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 3: feels like my grandpa's holding my hand. 83 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: I know, I know. 84 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 3: And he's like, you look like a woman who loves 85 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 3: homes in Beverly Hills. 86 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 2: I was like, of course, who. 87 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 4: Doesn't want want And he goes, you look like you 88 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 4: love six thousand square foot homes in Beverly Hills and 89 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 4: I was like, of course, because you look like you have. 90 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: He goes on the list. 91 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 2: Just wait, you look like you love homes abroad. He 92 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 2: tells me he has homes abroad. And I was like, oh, yeah. 93 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: You look like book what you look like you? 94 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 3: Then I was like all right, okay, And he's still 95 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 3: caressing the hand, gripping it, and I've gone limp in 96 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 3: his hand, but he's still got his grip. 97 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 2: He goes, you look like you love private jets. 98 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 3: I was like, oh no, I'm like that was a 99 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 3: whole thing. By the way, La La on private junks, 100 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 3: BJS for pre js. I really don't want that label 101 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 3: coming back. So in my because I was very kind. 102 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 3: In my head, I'm thinking, all of those things sound awesome. 103 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 2: The problem is you come with all of those things. 104 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 1: That's where you lose me. 105 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 2: All right, all right, ain't worth it? 106 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 3: So then he I, he asks me at the same 107 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 3: exact time, if I am in a relationship, Janet has 108 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 3: just told her guy that she's happily married and that 109 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:29,359 Speaker 3: I'm single. 110 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: Thank you, Janet, Janet, Janet, you'd done fucked up. 111 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 3: Well, I tell the guy that I'm in a partnership 112 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 3: and he goes, why don't you have a ring on? 113 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 3: And I go, oh, I don't believe in marriage. He's like, 114 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 3: so what is he to you? Then I said, he's 115 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,239 Speaker 3: my life partner, like where we've chosen to be together forever. 116 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 3: And he was let me tell you something, if you 117 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 3: were mine, I would never let you go and we 118 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 3: would be getting married. 119 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:58,919 Speaker 1: And I go, see, we would never work out. We 120 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 1: would never work out because you want marriage and I don't. 121 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 1: We were so close, and I promise you that guy 122 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: prowling at the bar for thirty year old women, he's 123 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: not wanting to be married either. 124 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 2: By the way, now. 125 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:17,160 Speaker 1: He's full of shit. And also he he goes, well, 126 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 1: then let me see this life partner. 127 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 3: Does he have a mug shot? And I was like, 128 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 3: you're such a dick. Anyway, logan appears, Thank god. The 129 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 3: guy goes downstairs. And we were at dinner for over 130 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 3: two and a half hours, and they came back up 131 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 3: and had the audacity to say, you guys are still here. 132 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: You are, we're having dinner. 133 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 3: You're peeing around doing nothing but how to drink in 134 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 3: your hand the whole time. 135 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 1: Coming back up three and a half hours or three 136 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: hours later, they got to make another round. See if 137 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 1: the new see if there's fresh women. See if the 138 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 1: bar is rotating. Yes, the bar, it was not rotating. 139 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 1: And Janet goes, wow, I have not been hit on 140 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: in ten years. 141 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 3: I was like, I haven't either, but mostly because I 142 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 3: haven't left the house in ten years. 143 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: Like this is weird. It's good, but it feels good though, 144 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: right I feel I felt nothing. 145 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 3: In fact, I questioned myself, what am I giving that 146 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 3: would make these men feel like they're not doing their audience? Men? 147 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: Men are men, and men are at that age. 148 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 3: I mean, keep in mind Eastern. I had on a 149 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 3: dress by naked wardrobe, turtleneck. Turtleneck dress covers everything, long 150 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 3: sleeve down to my ankles, no slit. I had to 151 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 3: baby step all the way up to Dante. Looked like 152 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 3: a damn fool. But even my outfit wasn't giving like, yes, 153 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 3: come hither. It was giving statement, Oh my god. 154 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: And we were He's like, all right, fuck it, practice round, 155 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 1: practice round, practice round. We'll get this one right. We'll 156 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: come up three hours later. Get right. Oh my god, 157 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: you're right. He's like, I don't even care if I 158 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: get laid. I'm just practicing this. The verbal uh, the 159 00:07:58,680 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 1: verbal use. 160 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 3: I'm about to right right, because it was only seven thirty. 161 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 2: We were the practice around. They failed. 162 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 1: Oh I know, these men get there early, see how 163 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 1: it is, and then. 164 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 2: You have time to go somewhere else. 165 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: No, well maybe, but then they're probably like, we'll just 166 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: wait for them to get a little drunk, and then 167 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 1: maybe we'll be appealing when they're drunk. 168 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 2: That would have worked had I been drinking. Actually, like private. 169 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: Jet, let's go out would have worked on me too. 170 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 3: And this is why sobriety has single handedly saved my life. 171 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: No more charity fucking here. 172 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 3: Even for a jet. So, speaking of Janet, the Valley 173 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 3: trailer has officially come out. So they not only released 174 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 3: the trailer, but they they released like little tidbits about 175 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 3: our storylines, each person and this is what they said 176 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 3: about now in a new chapter in her life, Laala's 177 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 3: main priority is raising her daughter's ocean and so so 178 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:08,119 Speaker 3: all while inching closer to her seven year sober anniversary. 179 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:11,199 Speaker 3: She forms a close friendship with Michelle and Tom as 180 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,199 Speaker 3: they bond over being the single ones in the group, 181 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 3: and opens up about her mental health and anxiety. Never 182 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 3: afraid to speak her truth, she is quick to call 183 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:21,479 Speaker 3: out someone in the group when they act out of turn. 184 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 3: I mean, yes, this is great. I would say that 185 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 3: that's that's pretty spot on. 186 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, could you elaborate on anything else? Could you add 187 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: anything to what you have in the season that people 188 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 1: may not know? 189 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 3: This is my hope again, I have zero control over editing. 190 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 3: I hope that they allow me to talk about the 191 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 3: real reason and they actually the real reason why I 192 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 3: have my tremendous anxiety this season. 193 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, you know, And if they don't, now that 194 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: it's out there, people will be asking, you know, if 195 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 1: it's not seen, So either way, you're going to be 196 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 1: able to let it out right. You know what I 197 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:05,319 Speaker 1: do like about because I feel like that's going to 198 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 1: help a lot of people when it comes to anxiety 199 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 1: and why you have it. If they don't show it, 200 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:11,439 Speaker 1: I think you should bring it up on the podcast 201 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: because everybody needs a couple more tools in their bag 202 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 1: to deal with anxiety. 203 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 2: I think so too. 204 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:19,680 Speaker 3: And also what I do like about The Valley, which 205 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 3: is kind of similar to how things that we see 206 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 3: on Housewives, is they they allow us to break the 207 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 3: fourth wall. It was not often on vander Pump that 208 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 3: we could break the fourth wall because we started as 209 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 3: a bunch of servers and hosts. Is that we're working 210 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 3: at a restaurant and slowly but surely gained a lot 211 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 3: of notoriety and fame that kind of just fucked with 212 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 3: you know what the show was really about, you know. Yeah, 213 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 3: so The Valley definitely was different in that capacity too. 214 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 3: Is they're really showing They show a lot about how 215 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 3: we get to go and do things. And I built 216 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 3: this life off of reality TV and the opportunities that 217 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 3: came with that. Yeah, So I like this description. This 218 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 3: is a great description for me being my toe back 219 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 3: in here a fault. It looks really good again. I 220 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 3: did not film every single scene, so to see what 221 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 3: other people were going through. 222 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 2: It was like, oh shit. 223 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 1: It's a good season. 224 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 3: You think you know, I have heard that it is 225 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 3: a very very good season, very good season, and it. 226 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 3: I liked going into it because it was fresh perspective. 227 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 3: I didn't know much about what I was going into. 228 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 3: I feel like I took the time to kind of 229 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 3: listen and get to know people, and it was like 230 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 3: a fresh set of eyes, fresh set of ears. I 231 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 3: didn't want anyone clouding my judgment on anybody, because just 232 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 3: because you don't connect with someone doesn't mean I won't 233 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 3: connect with some one. I thought the trailer looked amazing 234 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:07,079 Speaker 3: and entertaining. I'm really excited, and you know, I was 235 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 3: going into it like I. I got the email yesterday 236 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:14,079 Speaker 3: like hey, the Valley trailer is coming out tomorrow, and 237 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 3: I instantly started panicking. I'm like, oh no, PTSD, PTSD, 238 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 3: So one thing checked off the list. We dipped the 239 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 3: toe in the water April first April, first April fools. 240 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 1: On April fools. Maybe it's in April fools. 241 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 3: No, it's not an April fools, but that'll see. Now 242 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 3: I'm having a panic attack. 243 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: April first. 244 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 3: I had my boobs done on the sixteenth, so I'll 245 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 3: be consumed with that. Okay, we've got some time, but 246 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:48,719 Speaker 3: I will start freaking out. I'm freaking out right now. 247 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 1: Actually I'm freaking out. Man. 248 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 3: I know I've just been like off the grid, enjoying 249 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 3: my life. And you know, I always say I love 250 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 3: making reality TV. 251 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: But the second they're like, hey, you're. 252 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 3: Gonna make reality TV, I'm like, no, put me back 253 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 3: in the Wow. 254 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:07,199 Speaker 1: I like my when it's over, when the cameras are down, 255 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 1: and then you get to just be on your whole again. 256 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 3: That's when you're making it is the funnest part. It's 257 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 3: when it comes out that you start having a panic 258 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:17,719 Speaker 3: attack because now it's for everyone else. Does judge how 259 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 3: you handled shit? 260 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: No? You guys. That's the one thing that I never 261 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 1: realized watching like not being a part of it, because 262 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 1: I watched this before you were on it and watching 263 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 1: reality TV and just like, yes, it's on for just 264 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: like three three four months, right, depending on. 265 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 2: How many episodes you get. 266 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, but to see that like it is a full 267 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: time job, and talking to other people who just went 268 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: into like the Mormon wives, talking to them and like, 269 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: it is a full time job. Yes, you're filming for 270 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: a short period of the year. That takes up a 271 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 1: good amount of mental capacity. But then once you're done 272 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 1: filming and you feel like you're done, that's when stories 273 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 1: being brought up and things like that, and now you're 274 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: mentally still back at work. And then when it releases, 275 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 1: you're living through what you already filmed. So it's like 276 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 1: it's a year long process that you have to live through. 277 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 1: And I never really even understood that coming from just 278 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: a viewer and now being kind of somebody who sees 279 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: you Janet all of these people, it is a full 280 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: time job, right. 281 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 3: I will say though, going into it, I didn't realize 282 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 3: and I don't know how this came across. I've said 283 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 3: it a couple of times where people have asked what 284 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 3: was the difference between VPR and filming the Valley, and 285 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 3: I said VPR was a well oiled machine, And I 286 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 3: realized me going onto the Valley, I was a well 287 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 3: oiled machine. I didn't mean that as an insult, because 288 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 3: it's far from that. I had such a great time 289 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 3: filming with everybody, and you know, Kristin Dodie most there's 290 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 3: not many people who make reality TV like she does. 291 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 3: There's not many people who make reality TV like Britney 292 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 3: who are so willing to share their day to day 293 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 3: and what they're going through, like nothing is off limits, right. 294 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 3: But I love it, and I think and I love 295 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 3: it too, and there's and that's what we love. 296 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: We do love it. 297 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 3: And that's why there was a moment when I did 298 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 3: like the I did the Haters podcast, but I also 299 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 3: did the Lover's podcast because I wanted to give the 300 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 3: audience a chance to come in and give reality TV 301 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 3: personalities their flowers because the comments section is loud with 302 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 3: a lot of negativity. But these shows are really helping 303 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 3: people get through tough moments feel less alone. And I 304 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 3: think this season it's going to be the exact same thing. 305 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 3: People having babies, struggling to find the balance between motherhood 306 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 3: and and you know, being a present partner. I grew 307 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 3: to really adore Zach. I think that he's like so 308 00:15:57,680 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 3: much fun. I had a great time with him Jasmine, 309 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 3: and I was like, oh my gosh, you guys are 310 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 3: a bag of fun. There was so much that I 311 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 3: gained that it almost reminded me of vander pump Roles 312 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 3: because if you guys remember I was new to this 313 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 3: group of people who had been friends for a decade 314 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 3: plus and they had so much history and it took 315 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 3: me a minute for them to accept me. But then 316 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 3: I was a part of the group and friendships and 317 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 3: you know, it doesn't matter earth, it doesn't matter how 318 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 3: it ended. I still hold it close to my heart. 319 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 3: And so going into the valley, it felt like, oh 320 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 3: my gosh, like these these are friendships that I'm actually liking. 321 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 3: And we'll see it's it's everyone has their own thing 322 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 3: going on. We'll see if we like kick it off camera. 323 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 3: I obviously have like my main people. I see Christen 324 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 3: as much as I can with her having the baby 325 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 3: and you know, her life, but we talk and we 326 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 3: have a lot of history. Brittany, I see frequently, Janet Michelle. 327 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 3: So we'll just we'll see where. 328 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 2: Where my place is this season. I have no idea. 329 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:08,919 Speaker 1: I kind of blacked out during filming. The best thing 330 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 1: to do. It's the best thing to do. 331 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 3: A mental blackout. Let's talk about Utah. I I'll ride. 332 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:20,679 Speaker 3: When was the last time you had gone October. Okay, 333 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 3: I stayed there too long this time. 334 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 1: Well, this time we went from Thursday to Tuesday. I 335 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: went from Monday to Tuesday. Monday, I went Yeah, eight days, 336 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:35,639 Speaker 1: eight days, little too long in Utah. 337 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 3: Well are the difference is you we got a hotel 338 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 3: and getting to the airport. You guys with kids will 339 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 3: relate to this. I'm like, okay, we're going to the airport. 340 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:52,800 Speaker 3: I really it sounds like a nightmare to check car 341 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,880 Speaker 3: seats and a stroller like that sounds awful. What I'm 342 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 3: going to do is have a friend drive my car 343 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:02,360 Speaker 3: with the car our seats, take us to the airport, 344 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 3: and then send Easton out to buy two car seats 345 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:09,440 Speaker 3: that will figure out what to do with them, store 346 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 3: them at one of our friend's houses. He'll pick us 347 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 3: up in the rental with the car seats in. But 348 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 3: you don't think about Okay, I'll be fine without his 349 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 3: stroller while we're there. But then I'm holding my baby 350 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 3: twenty four to seven. My back is wrenched. I have 351 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:26,919 Speaker 3: all of these bags. We checked the big ones, but 352 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 3: I've got like stupid, I've got a diaper back, I've 353 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 3: got my own shit, I've got blankets, I've got the 354 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 3: change of clothes, and I've shoved into the Gech's like 355 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:42,439 Speaker 3: another child. And then we land and we get to 356 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 3: the hotel, and you guys, it is a Thursday to 357 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 3: Tuesday of me treking children and the jeej up and 358 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 3: down the elevator four to five times a day, getting 359 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 3: kids in. 360 00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 1: And out of the car. 361 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 3: And keep in mind, love my mom, but I put 362 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 3: her in the car first because I'm like, if without 363 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:05,439 Speaker 3: you and the car first, this is gonna it's just 364 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:10,400 Speaker 3: gonna be a lot jij in the car first. Then 365 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 3: we handle Sosa. Ocean buckles herself as much as she 366 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 3: possibly can. I come around to the driver's side, buckle 367 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:19,199 Speaker 3: the rest and we're off to the races. This was like, 368 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:22,239 Speaker 3: and I'm talking four or five times a day just 369 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 3: to and from the hotel. That doesn't even count. Where 370 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 3: we're going the Children's Museum, which was awesome. Ocean loved that. 371 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:35,960 Speaker 3: We took them to Kid's Empire. That was awesome. We 372 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 3: really went. I really went because Mom was like, we 373 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:41,719 Speaker 3: are going to Utah for Easan's birthday. 374 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: I was like, bitch, you got me fucked up. If 375 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 1: you think I'm going to Utah for Eathan's birthday. Hey, 376 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:49,159 Speaker 1: it's my birthday. You should come over. The fuck I 377 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:56,120 Speaker 1: would sho places for your birthday? Oh really, Bahama, Oh 378 00:19:56,160 --> 00:20:00,640 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I've gone terrible places. Is when you were 379 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:02,080 Speaker 1: with that terrible human being? 380 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,360 Speaker 2: Where did you go that you didn't like a lot 381 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:05,399 Speaker 2: of places where? 382 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 1: Oh let me see Vegas? Where I didn't want to 383 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,120 Speaker 1: be with the three of us to watch him play 384 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:11,680 Speaker 1: fucking poker and ship that. 385 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 2: Was the best kill every time. 386 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:15,679 Speaker 1: He trust me, I've done some ship, all right. So 387 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 1: if I drag your ass to Utah for my birthday, 388 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: you better fucking come with Chelsea. 389 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 3: That bashes me off. Ethan doesn't even stay with us. 390 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:24,640 Speaker 3: He stays at a friend's house. You barely even see him. 391 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 3: I have to call him and harass him. 392 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:29,920 Speaker 1: Okay, what are we doing? Mom said, do you guys? 393 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 1: Do you want to stay with us at the hotel? 394 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: And I said yeah, and she goes we could share 395 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: a room and I said no, So then I went 396 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: to my buddies. All right, I'm not sharing a room 397 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:45,159 Speaker 1: with the Thomas the train. It's like I'm trying to 398 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 1: live and properly sleep to the I don't blame you. 399 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:51,360 Speaker 1: I don't blame you at all, but that is why. 400 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 1: And then you guys ended up even getting one room. 401 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 1: So it was a nightmare. Was six days. 402 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 3: I didn't even six days or however many days we 403 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:03,880 Speaker 3: were there. 404 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 1: I was there too long. It was coming to the 405 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,120 Speaker 1: point where like I was waking up with anxiety because 406 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:12,520 Speaker 1: I was like, what the fuck is going on here? Nothing? 407 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 1: And the only reason why I really did go is 408 00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 1: because on my birthday I was talking to my friends 409 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 1: and there was a chance of snow and I was like, 410 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 1: I kind of want to go skiing. So I went skiing, vomited. 411 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, because you were super high in the air, 412 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 2: right high in the air. 413 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 1: Number two. I had to pick them up from the airport. 414 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 1: We were going to eat. I thought, I'm only here 415 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 1: for a day, so I'm gonna get as much skiing in. 416 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:37,360 Speaker 1: So I didn't eat. I got on the lift. Yeah, 417 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 1: I vomited off the lift, just rain and vomit for 418 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:46,679 Speaker 1: those below so even yeah. No. So my buddy Taylor, 419 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 1: he was like, he was like, try not to do 420 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 1: it right now until we're over, and I just was like, 421 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 1: I if you think I care when you're sick, you 422 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:54,120 Speaker 1: do not care. 423 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:58,479 Speaker 3: You vomited on someone's head morning, see if it hit 424 00:21:58,600 --> 00:21:59,200 Speaker 3: someone's head. 425 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,600 Speaker 1: But I did vomit over ski lift or over the 426 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 1: ski run, and then I got off the lift so bad. 427 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:08,920 Speaker 1: And then I was like dry heaving in my mouth 428 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 1: as I was getting off the lift. And then I 429 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 1: had to like go over to the snow, like I 430 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,639 Speaker 1: veered tailor off the route, because like, can you remembered 431 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:18,120 Speaker 1: you remember? Because I have to throw it? 432 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:19,920 Speaker 2: Was it probably watery? 433 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 1: Right? It was all water. It was all water, A 434 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 1: little bit of red bull and then a lot of 435 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: orange shimmy. All right, I'm done, I'm done. Trigger warning. 436 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 3: Trigger warning, Skip through, skip through the real reason. Yes, 437 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,679 Speaker 3: it was your birthday and I loved spending your birthday 438 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 3: with you. 439 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:39,400 Speaker 1: It was great. 440 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 3: We for Eathan's birthday. I tried to make a reservation, 441 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 3: but then I remembered. 442 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 2: What's Valentine? 443 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:48,160 Speaker 1: Can I remember? We remember me talking about why my birthday? 444 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,879 Speaker 1: These are things of why, Like when you have a 445 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,399 Speaker 1: normal birthday, you can just be like, I'm a whimmer. 446 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: I'm not a planner. I go out on a whim. 447 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 1: If something sounds fun, I want to do it in 448 00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 1: the moment, right, So nothing like I can't week from 449 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 1: now go. Yeah, that sounds great for my birthday, but 450 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 1: now on my birthday, everything Friday, Saturday, and Sunday is 451 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 1: booked for Valentine's Day. So it's like there's nothing that 452 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:11,880 Speaker 1: I can even go and do, even though I want 453 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,120 Speaker 1: to go out. Yeah, but I don't want to plan it. 454 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:15,879 Speaker 1: It's a very it's a rock and a hard spot. 455 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 1: Don't want to plan it, but I want to go out. 456 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, see I And there was obviously nowhere for us 457 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,399 Speaker 3: to go because everything was booked. 458 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 1: But it was the best birthday. 459 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 3: We just went to went to my older brother's house 460 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 3: and it was great because the kids could play. We 461 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 3: got Cafe Rio, which is like my most favorite thing, 462 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,639 Speaker 3: but they franchised it now so there's certain ones that 463 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 3: you can't go to because it it doesn't taste. 464 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 1: Like it used to. Yeah, no, I was. I had 465 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 1: it three times while I was there, and almost three 466 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 1: times just because I was hoping that it would be 467 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 1: better than Brandon's was good. We only can go to 468 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,520 Speaker 1: that location. The other one was like burrito soup. 469 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 2: The first one was bad the first Cafe Rio we 470 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:54,880 Speaker 2: went to. 471 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:56,600 Speaker 1: And mine was bad too. When I first got there, 472 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:58,679 Speaker 1: on Monday night. You guys are in there. That's why 473 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 1: I didn't get the burrito, because did and I said, 474 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 1: you're gonna get burritos, I know, and they used to have. 475 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,240 Speaker 3: I'd never got the sweet pork, but that was what 476 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 3: they were like, really really known for. 477 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,359 Speaker 1: And it's not even it wasn't good, it was not 478 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 1: good enough. 479 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:27,360 Speaker 3: So we did that for Easan's birthday, watched the Olympics, 480 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:31,199 Speaker 3: and then the truest reason. And I don't want this 481 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 3: to sound rude, because we did go for your birthday. 482 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 1: Here's the thing, but the reason for one I they wouldn't. 483 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,960 Speaker 1: Here's the thing if it was if that, go on 484 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:40,560 Speaker 1: and tell. 485 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 2: My friend, my dearest friend. Her name's Candace. 486 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 3: We met in a kindergarten missus Condi's class at elementary 487 00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 3: where I got a lot of demerits for talking too much. 488 00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,399 Speaker 3: But I remember the first day of school. Well, I 489 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 3: saw Candace and she had a big bow in her hair, 490 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 3: and I told my mom I want to be friends 491 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:04,800 Speaker 3: with her and have. 492 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,360 Speaker 2: A playdate because she's cute. 493 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 3: So my mom approached Candace's mom, Kristin, and said, my 494 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 3: daughter thinks your daughter's cute. 495 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 2: Can we have a playdate. 496 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 3: Kristin at the time was pregnant, and this family, the 497 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 3: Russens at from that point on became like family. Our 498 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 3: moms are friends, our dads were dear friends. Bart always says, 499 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 3: you know, your dad really screwed up my retirement plan 500 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:35,400 Speaker 3: because we were supposed to retire together and go travel. 501 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 3: So Easton is friends with the sons. Candace is my 502 00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:44,359 Speaker 3: you know writer died that I have known for how long? 503 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:46,679 Speaker 2: Thirty years? Thirty one years? 504 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:50,159 Speaker 1: Thirty? I mean, yeah, I don't remember. What's crazy is 505 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 1: I don't remember a point in my life with them 506 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: not being in it. 507 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, me too, that's how Yeah, I think. I mean 508 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 3: kindergarten that's five years old. So I was so she 509 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,119 Speaker 3: and her husband Dane have been trying to have a 510 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 3: baby for eight years, eight years, and she is finally 511 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 3: pregnant and we're so excited, and she was having her 512 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 3: gender reveal that that Sunday. 513 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 1: I would say, if that wasn't going, I wouldn't have 514 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 1: made you guys like you guys not coming out, and 515 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: I would have flown home on like Sunday and then 516 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,680 Speaker 1: done my birthday here. Yeah, because I got like, I 517 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 1: got friend. 518 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 3: But I love seeing Brandon and Cheryl and seeing our 519 00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:31,399 Speaker 3: niece and nephew. 520 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:32,400 Speaker 2: I loved it. 521 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:37,040 Speaker 3: I want because I know some people listen to this podcast. 522 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:41,639 Speaker 3: I loved seeing all of my people right, which is Brandon, 523 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,680 Speaker 3: Cheryl and the kids, and then the reussence. 524 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 1: Those two are the only people that I still have 525 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 1: contact with in Utah. Okay, well I don't have. I 526 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,640 Speaker 1: only have two homies that I usually see, and that's 527 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,880 Speaker 1: Jake and Taylor. That's true. Yeah, those are the only homies. 528 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 1: Mom has many a friend there. 529 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,880 Speaker 3: She frolics in, friends sit there. So I'm so excited 530 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,399 Speaker 3: for her. Whether she had a boy or a girl, 531 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 3: she did not give one damn. She was just give 532 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 3: me a baby, give me a healthy baby. And nobody 533 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 3: on this planet. This is a very large statement I'm 534 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 3: about to make deserves to be a mom more than 535 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:18,360 Speaker 3: my friend. 536 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,919 Speaker 1: Candace now, and there's many. If you're lucky enough to 537 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:26,399 Speaker 1: know Candace, she ballroom teaches for seventh graders. She you know, 538 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 1: she is a stepmom to three beautiful children who she's 539 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 1: been hands on. She babysat for you. She babysat her 540 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 1: cousins when they were little. Like this, Candace, when I 541 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,639 Speaker 1: look at her. She is a mom that is a 542 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,960 Speaker 1: mom who's she's always been that way. Yes, and the 543 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 1: fact that she gets to do it with her own 544 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:49,400 Speaker 1: little bug is yeah, like I could cry. It gets 545 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 1: me up, like it's sweet. 546 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:54,560 Speaker 3: It was very sweet just the entire day. I mean, 547 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 3: I remember flying to Baltimore and us. I knew that 548 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 3: she was going in for her a point meant to see 549 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 3: if she was pregnant. And I called her and she 550 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:07,120 Speaker 3: was like, I'm telling you before I've even. 551 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 2: Told my mom. 552 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,679 Speaker 1: We just left and I was like, she was like, 553 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:13,720 Speaker 1: we're pregnant. And I told her. 554 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 3: I remember having so many conversations with her and she 555 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 3: would just be so sad. 556 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:23,240 Speaker 1: And I this because I know Barton m lessons. It 557 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: may come off bad, but like when she was going 558 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 1: through these things, I never thought of it because I 559 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,160 Speaker 1: knew what was going to happen, Like there wasn't when 560 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:32,480 Speaker 1: she was like we're going through this, I was like, 561 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,359 Speaker 1: she's getting pregnant. Like I never had a thought of 562 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 1: like this or that, like what if? What if? And 563 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 1: like I've never even thought about it because I just 564 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 1: knew that it was going to happen. 565 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 2: I looked at her. 566 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 3: Because Osha was losing her mind at dinner one night 567 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 3: the night before we left, we went to their house 568 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 3: and she was losing her mind, and I was like, 569 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 3: are you so excited to have a baby and a 570 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 3: birga baby? 571 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 1: Take a look. No, but I will say that right 572 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 1: there was like the best birthday gift for me of 573 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:01,960 Speaker 1: like seeing somebody get like that. 574 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, and the with what you said, like you had 575 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 3: this when she would be upset about it, and obviously 576 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 3: we're not her, but I would say to her, your 577 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 3: time is going to come, and you're going to remember 578 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 3: every time you tried and it failed, and when your 579 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 3: baby arrives, you're gonna remember all of that and how 580 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:28,160 Speaker 3: hard you tried to get this baby here. And you 581 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:32,000 Speaker 3: know when she said she was pregnant and she's still 582 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 3: you know, she gets nervous, which is normal, Like even 583 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:38,160 Speaker 3: a woman who hasn't had a struggle getting pregnant, you 584 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 3: do worry. And I've told her this is your time, baby, 585 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 3: like this baby is coming. It's normal to feel nervous. 586 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 3: I love that she has been sick. I'm like, yes, 587 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 3: every time you tell me that you're sick, I mean, 588 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 3: yet this baby, I'm exhausted, I'm nausey, and I'm. 589 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 1: Like, yese, get this baby growing. 590 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,239 Speaker 3: And I'm like I all normal feelings. I don't want 591 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 3: to take that from you. You're allowed to feel those things, 592 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:11,200 Speaker 3: but just know it is your time. And Chris Medina, 593 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 3: because when she was struggling, we were still in the apartment. 594 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 3: I said, I want you to see Chris Medina. He 595 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:19,400 Speaker 3: told her. I think he said June. He said, don't 596 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 3: fixate on it. I don't know what it means, but 597 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:25,239 Speaker 3: it is a day of significance for you, or a 598 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:27,680 Speaker 3: month of significance. I don't know when. I can't tell 599 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:30,000 Speaker 3: you a year, I can't tell you what is going 600 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 3: to be promised, but just know June. I'm seeing June 601 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 3: as a time. And that was the first doctor's appointment 602 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,080 Speaker 3: that she went to to get this little baby here. 603 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I don't know if you guys can tell, 604 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 1: but like we're kind of like a village family. One 605 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 1: person has a baby. It's our child, yes, yes, yes, 606 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 1: communal baby. Ye family here in the communal So yeah, 607 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 1: I know it's our child too. I was like, here's 608 00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:01,000 Speaker 1: my baby. I have fun. I know. I can't wait 609 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,000 Speaker 1: to go to his like sporting events and stuff too. 610 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 3: You know, I know it's gonna be so great, a 611 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 3: good one. The reason why it's triggering for me is 612 00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 3: going to Utah is I feel like it's a different lifetime. 613 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 3: When I lived there. You guys, we had our house 614 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 3: in Pair Blossom Circle. 615 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,960 Speaker 1: Nothing's changed there, by the way, So it feels like 616 00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:22,719 Speaker 1: you're going back into what's that one show with uh, 617 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 1: the Something show, The Truman Show. That's what it's like 618 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 1: going to Utah for me. 619 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 2: I haven't seen that movie in so long. 620 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,960 Speaker 1: Oh, you need to watch it. It's a reality TV 621 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 1: show pretty much based on Truman. Oh okay, his whole life. Wow. 622 00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 1: And he's in a dome. Oh it's yeah. That's how 623 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,320 Speaker 1: Utah feels for me, like a vortex a dome. Everybody's 624 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 1: in there like nothing has changed. 625 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 3: In the past. 626 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it does. 627 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:53,480 Speaker 3: There are things that I drive past, like in downtown 628 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,480 Speaker 3: Slig where I'm like, oh my gosh, this is new, 629 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 3: and this city. 630 00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 2: Is beautiful, you guys, it's really pretty. It is so clean. 631 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,040 Speaker 1: I actually really really love it there. 632 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,520 Speaker 3: The problem is is it represent well actually know there 633 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:11,000 Speaker 3: is a lot of traffic, it's grown significantly, but it 634 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:14,480 Speaker 3: just represents a time in my life where I lived 635 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 3: in this house when my mom and dad were both 636 00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 3: alive and well, where Easton was in high school or 637 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,080 Speaker 3: had just graduated, you were a few years out. And 638 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 3: then I moved to LA and it felt like home 639 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:33,240 Speaker 3: going back there because it was roots and grounded. And 640 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 3: then once my dad died, everything changed. My mom sold 641 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,160 Speaker 3: the house Easton and my mom bought a new house 642 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:40,800 Speaker 3: to live in, and then I would go to that 643 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:42,560 Speaker 3: house and I'm like, this is so weird that this 644 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 3: is my mom's house. 645 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 2: And I liked the house, but it just it doesn't 646 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 2: feel normal. 647 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 3: It didn't feel normal, and a lot of I had 648 00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,880 Speaker 3: this conversation the other day with people who had come 649 00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:56,960 Speaker 3: to LA and they're like, I don't really know where 650 00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 3: home is because my mom and dad sold our childhood home, 651 00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 3: but like I don't feel rooted here, and going back 652 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 3: to Utah, it's like, Wow, I finally feel that I 653 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:10,080 Speaker 3: am rooted on my own terms. In La, it feels 654 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 3: like home. I have created my life there, and when 655 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 3: I come back here, there's just something that feels a 656 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,920 Speaker 3: little bit off. Not saying that I don't enjoy seeing 657 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 3: all of my life, no you're my loved ones. But 658 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 3: there's something about the city that feels suffocating, like I 659 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 3: got to get out of here. 660 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 1: I don't know how to. Here's the thing, Utah is 661 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 1: like a tech Utah is very techy, very smart, very 662 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 1: book very that I'm a creative and I feel like 663 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,600 Speaker 1: you are too, and being creative in Utah, I feel 664 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 1: like there's a dead end. And I also don't know 665 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 1: if it's because me living there, losing my dad and 666 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 1: all of this where I feel like, and it's not 667 00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 1: like I've outgrown Utah, but it's I've outgrown the person 668 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 1: I was in Utah. Oh that makes sense. I like Utah. 669 00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm stuck because I'm that same person. Yeah. 670 00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 1: And when I'm there and there's no outlet because it's 671 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,640 Speaker 1: I'm just like I said, it's I feel creative. And 672 00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 1: when I'm in LA or New York or places like that, 673 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,160 Speaker 1: you feel like there's opportunity. Yeah, you feel in Utah, 674 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 1: you feel like kind of you did. And I think 675 00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 1: it may be due to losing dad and all of that. 676 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,239 Speaker 1: It represents a different lifetime for you too. 677 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,239 Speaker 3: Then your mom leaving and coming out to live with me, 678 00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,399 Speaker 3: and then you're solo there and you're like, where is home? 679 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,920 Speaker 1: Baby? So when you say I love going back, I 680 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 1: now know I love seeing the people there. I don't 681 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,799 Speaker 1: know if I love going back anymore. It's really the 682 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 1: last three days I was waking up like out of sleep, 683 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,320 Speaker 1: like I did on the plane, like I needed normalcy again, 684 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:43,960 Speaker 1: Like what am I doing here? Too long? I felt 685 00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 1: like I was in just like a box and I 686 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,200 Speaker 1: couldn't get out. Yeah, and it's who I was there 687 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 1: that I have to leave that place because of who 688 00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:54,479 Speaker 1: I was there. 689 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I that resonates with me a lot, and 690 00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,799 Speaker 3: you know, I was We went to this place called 691 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,799 Speaker 3: Moont Bakery, which is so good, you guys. It's off 692 00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 3: of Wastage Boulevard, but it was It's right, that's the 693 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,960 Speaker 3: area that I grew up in. So I drove Ocean 694 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 3: past our old house and like, the neighborhood looks exactly 695 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,400 Speaker 3: the same. The only thing different about our house is 696 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 3: that there's a ring camera. 697 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,959 Speaker 1: Yeah. Now, they haven't painted it, no garages, they haven't 698 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 1: even thrown up decorations. 699 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:23,680 Speaker 3: But I looked at it and I was like, I 700 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 3: this is where mommy grew up. And we just did 701 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,399 Speaker 3: like a very quick drive by, and I just could 702 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 3: not exit anything like christ Bench any quicker. The one 703 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,800 Speaker 3: thing that I did do that I was really into 704 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:50,680 Speaker 3: you guys. So I'm like, I really need to get lasered. 705 00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,799 Speaker 3: And I'm in Utah for like a long time. So 706 00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:57,279 Speaker 3: I text or I DM Heather Gay. I was like, hey, 707 00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 3: which was such a dumb question. It's beauty lab and 708 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,040 Speaker 3: laser and I said, my damn, or I go, do you. 709 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:04,640 Speaker 2: Guys do laser hair removal? 710 00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 1: She's like, uh yeh. 711 00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 3: I was like, I need my I want my armpits done, 712 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 3: my legs and my bits. 713 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 1: And she had someone contact me. We planned. 714 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 3: I went in uh Monday, the day before we came 715 00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:25,799 Speaker 3: back to LA. When I tell you, because I grew 716 00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,600 Speaker 3: up working out at the sports mall, right, the sports 717 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 3: Mall Sports the sports Mall. 718 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,640 Speaker 1: Beauty Lab is right across the street from that. I 719 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 1: drive in. 720 00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:36,800 Speaker 3: I was like, holy shit, this is the exact place, 721 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:40,520 Speaker 3: because you know she opened a second location in Riverton. 722 00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:41,880 Speaker 3: The one I went to was in Murray. 723 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:49,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, this is where jen Shaw was almost arrested. Yes, 724 00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:52,319 Speaker 1: that exact location hold up, And. 725 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:55,920 Speaker 3: I didn't want to be like a weird this is where, 726 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:58,439 Speaker 3: so we go in. 727 00:36:59,040 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 2: It's freaking one. 728 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:06,319 Speaker 3: Everyone is so kind, it's beautiful, such a vibe. I'm 729 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,279 Speaker 3: so like, I'm thinking of Heather Gain and I'm like, 730 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 3: what a bad bitch that this is like her business? 731 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,759 Speaker 2: Right, And keep in mind you guys. They told me, 732 00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:14,600 Speaker 2: they were like, hey. 733 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:17,319 Speaker 1: You're gonna be with Dallas. He's great, and I'm like, 734 00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:21,839 Speaker 1: oh fuck, it's like George Constanza getting a massage from 735 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:25,399 Speaker 1: a man. And I'm fine with it. I'm like, all right, 736 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,400 Speaker 1: he sounds great. Whatever. 737 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:29,680 Speaker 2: It's like having a baby. 738 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,000 Speaker 3: He delivered my baby, right, so I can deal with 739 00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 3: a heat down there doing things that are productive. So 740 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 3: this guy, he's like so yoked up at the front 741 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:42,000 Speaker 3: door and he's. 742 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:45,440 Speaker 1: Like, hey, he's the guy that's gonna laser me. 743 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:48,560 Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh no, not because I don't want 744 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,160 Speaker 3: him down there, Like that's totally fine. 745 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 2: But I was like, oh fuck, oh fuck. 746 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,920 Speaker 1: I wish I shaved Grand said. 747 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:55,480 Speaker 3: It was not him, because I know the guy that 748 00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 3: I'm seeing, his name is Dallas. Dallas comes out. He 749 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 3: couldn't be any cuter, any sweeter. I feel so comfortable 750 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:04,360 Speaker 3: with him. 751 00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:04,800 Speaker 1: Easton. 752 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 3: I'm sorry the audience or our listeners are going to think, 753 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,239 Speaker 3: you guys. He was just zapping those legs, zap in 754 00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:14,640 Speaker 3: those armpits. He was so sweet, and then it was 755 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,040 Speaker 3: time to get like real acquainted with each other. I 756 00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:21,360 Speaker 3: was like having a hold on my butch. Sorry Easton, 757 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,920 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but he was so he just made you 758 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:30,719 Speaker 3: feel so comfortable and I just adored the entire experience. 759 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:31,680 Speaker 1: And what was his name? 760 00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:32,640 Speaker 2: Dallas? 761 00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:35,800 Speaker 1: Okay, so Dallas who you walked into was not Dallas 762 00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:37,040 Speaker 1: and you thought he no, but. 763 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:38,880 Speaker 3: He he was there standing and it was time for 764 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 3: my appointments on my hair in Dallas. But that guy 765 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:48,560 Speaker 3: actually did injectables at Beauty Life, And as much as 766 00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:50,560 Speaker 3: I would have loved him to laser me, I was 767 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:54,160 Speaker 3: very thrilled I got Dallas. By the way, laser is 768 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:55,640 Speaker 3: so worth it. I don't care who you give me, 769 00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,879 Speaker 3: just get it done. So I highly recommend if you're 770 00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:02,040 Speaker 3: in Utah, they have the Riverton location, Anne Murray. After 771 00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:03,799 Speaker 3: I left, I was like, you know, I could come 772 00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:06,640 Speaker 3: back to Utah strictly to get lasered. 773 00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:10,279 Speaker 1: It's a good reason to go back at me Ens 774 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:14,000 Speaker 1: and Brandon. So I'm popping over my laser appointment would 775 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:15,879 Speaker 1: love to see you guys if you want to meet 776 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:17,640 Speaker 1: a beauty lab. No. 777 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:19,440 Speaker 2: I loved it. 778 00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:21,839 Speaker 1: Like I said, I love going back to Utah. I 779 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:26,480 Speaker 1: now found out that I do have a out. After 780 00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:28,919 Speaker 1: four or five days, I told mom. 781 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,399 Speaker 3: I was like, just so you know, girl, I if 782 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,839 Speaker 3: you want to stay until Monday, I'm popping in Friday night. 783 00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:37,799 Speaker 3: You want to stay until Sunday, I'll go is Thursday night. 784 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 1: Stay, I'd fly in Wednesday night, have Thursday, Friday, Saturday, 785 00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:42,520 Speaker 1: fly home Sunday night. 786 00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:45,400 Speaker 3: The last thing that I want to ask you, do 787 00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 3: you ever go to Swig when you're out there? Swig 788 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:49,759 Speaker 3: had just started a Swig had popped off after I. 789 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 1: Left, let me tell you and made it a big 790 00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 1: almost went to Swig and I will say they have another. 791 00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:58,640 Speaker 1: Do you remember where the old Shivers is? 792 00:39:59,120 --> 00:39:59,319 Speaker 3: Yeah? 793 00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,600 Speaker 1: What is that one called thirst? There's a whole bunch 794 00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:03,800 Speaker 1: out there that are like Swig. 795 00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:06,640 Speaker 3: And by the way, you there is a line as 796 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,200 Speaker 3: if it's a freaking star bus. 797 00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:10,480 Speaker 1: I'm telling you because you got to remember the Mormons 798 00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:13,640 Speaker 1: can't drink coffee, no, so they go there that is 799 00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 1: there because no caffeine? 800 00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:18,080 Speaker 2: How does that make any sense? 801 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,480 Speaker 1: Riddle me? That Ricky. So I did try to go, 802 00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,600 Speaker 1: but every time I looked into the line there were 803 00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:27,799 Speaker 1: about twenty five cars. So no, I did not get 804 00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,399 Speaker 1: a swig. But what I would have gotten is root 805 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:36,279 Speaker 1: beer with cream and coconut. That's what I usually get, 806 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:39,920 Speaker 1: and it is really good. But I can't. It's not 807 00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:41,600 Speaker 1: good enough to wait in a line, not. 808 00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,200 Speaker 3: At all, especially when I can go and I can 809 00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:46,279 Speaker 3: go to Harmon's Yeah and grab it and grab a 810 00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 3: diet coke and some coffee. Mate, my favorite is a 811 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 3: diet coke with a little vanilla creamer and a line. 812 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:57,480 Speaker 3: And there was a point in time where I was 813 00:40:57,520 --> 00:41:00,560 Speaker 3: consuming so many that it became a real big problem. 814 00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:01,480 Speaker 2: And I have not had. 815 00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:04,600 Speaker 1: One in Yeah. But I tried to go to Swig 816 00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:04,960 Speaker 1: I did. 817 00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,920 Speaker 2: Okay, I don't think you're missing out. You could. You 818 00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:08,919 Speaker 2: can create it right here. 819 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:10,680 Speaker 1: No, I'm not missing out. 820 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:11,719 Speaker 2: No, you're fine. 821 00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:13,319 Speaker 1: Experience of the big Swig cup, I guess. 822 00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,080 Speaker 3: Let me tell you what I was most bummed about 823 00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:19,359 Speaker 3: not going to Moocchiese Mood Cheese is known for their 824 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,600 Speaker 3: meatball sandwich. I don't get the meatball, I get a 825 00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:24,920 Speaker 3: different one. But Guy Fieri went there years ago, and 826 00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 3: like put them on the map. When I tell you, 827 00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:28,359 Speaker 3: me and my friend used to go every day like 828 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:33,959 Speaker 3: disgusting giant sandwiches. Yeah, I never got to get good. 829 00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 3: They've got like a like a rubin too. 830 00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:39,920 Speaker 1: I feel like that's what they're famous for. 831 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,080 Speaker 2: Those you wanted to take me, I did go to selling. 832 00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 1: You could have taken yourself. 833 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:51,560 Speaker 2: A lot of work, A lot of work for you, guys. 834 00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,640 Speaker 3: Thank you for listening to another episode of Untraditionally Lala. 835 00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,120 Speaker 3: This was an amazing episode. I'm so happy that you 836 00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:00,160 Speaker 3: guys got to hear about our little untraditional life and 837 00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:03,240 Speaker 3: getting to Utah and old man hitting on your girl. 838 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:08,040 Speaker 3: I hope you enjoyed it. I have the best rest 839 00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:10,040 Speaker 3: of the week. Happy hump Day. I'll catch you next 840 00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,000 Speaker 3: week and on Monday for the bonus