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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.

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Speaker 1: She couldn't. She cleaned and cared for her children and

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Speaker 1: the man of the house, and of course she didn't

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Speaker 1: talk back. She was both obeed, hint and soft by nature.

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Speaker 1: She was a good woman who always made.

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Speaker 2: Good choices that ship off. We're good mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 2: Two single mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all

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Speaker 2: their bad choices and sound out they were so bad.

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Speaker 2: After all, we're experts. Over shares and your new besties.

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Speaker 2: Sit back and enjoy the ride. I can do a

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Speaker 2: bad mom.

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Speaker 3: I can do an d me my Flowers. I can

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Speaker 3: play it back powers Powers plays.

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Speaker 2: A welcome back to good Mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 4: I'm Mela and I'm Erica, and.

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Speaker 2: We're back, motherfuckers. It's the ogs an uncensored motherhood. I

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Speaker 2: can do that. On my shout out to our new music.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys peeped, but we've had

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Speaker 2: the same music for over six years that we just

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Speaker 2: had to randomly buy because we were using license music.

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Speaker 2: But now we've leveled up and we got new music

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Speaker 2: that's personalized to us, with lyrics and artists and beats

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Speaker 2: and shit. So watch out. Good Moms is about to

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Speaker 2: drop an album.

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Speaker 4: Shout out to Renee and Trip who are on the track,

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Speaker 4: and to Anthem Enterprise Music who supported us.

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Speaker 2: With the production.

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Speaker 4: Shout out to them if you need any sort of

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Speaker 4: podcast music.

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Speaker 2: Really not just podcasts, any jingle because they're not even jingles.

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Speaker 2: They're like low.

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Speaker 5: Key, like amazing music producers.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I mean I'm going to start my music career,

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Speaker 4: my late life music career. Actually it's my reignited music career,

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Speaker 4: and I might have to hit them.

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Speaker 5: Up for some hot beats.

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Speaker 2: Our beat is pretty hot. I don't know if you

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Speaker 2: guys peeped it, but maybe we need to rewind and

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Speaker 2: hear it again. Here, I'll do it for you. I

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Speaker 2: can do bad all on my no for a new

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Speaker 2: appreciate Oh, and you can't hold me back. I can

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Speaker 2: do bad all on my own, and you can't hold

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Speaker 2: me back. Give me my flowers. I can make in

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Speaker 2: twenty four hours champagne showers. When I heard that, I

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Speaker 2: was like, yeah, yeah, I'm not a bad mom, but

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Speaker 2: a bad mom. We're gonna have to learn the rap.

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Speaker 2: You guys haven't heard the full song yet, because we're

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Speaker 2: gonna upload it on Spotify.

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Speaker 4: Caasting, and we can't put the whole thing even though

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Speaker 4: we thought about it.

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Speaker 2: We considered putting all three minutes, but we're gonna just

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Speaker 2: upload it separately on Spotify, So keep your eye out

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Speaker 2: or some custom bitches that we do custom shit. Everything

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Speaker 2: we do is custom. There's nothing we do that's not

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Speaker 2: custom because, like you said, champagne showers custom bitches, luxury. Okay,

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Speaker 2: no half passing over here Hererie twenty twenty five. Anyway, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 2: happy day, Happy Wednesday, Happy Hemp Day. How are you feeling.

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Speaker 2: I feel good.

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Speaker 4: I My titties are out for the utibe tubers. My

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Speaker 4: skin is clear, my hair I'd put a color deposit

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Speaker 4: in to just boost the red today, so we're boosted.

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Speaker 2: My jewel you know, I was thinking, how do you.

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Speaker 4: Guys feel about wearing jewelry from an egg, like not

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Speaker 4: from an ex but like represents like an X thing,

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Speaker 4: Like do you throw away jewelry that like someone gifted you?

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Speaker 4: Like yeah, sure if they gifted it to you, or

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Speaker 4: like you got it together, like do not wear the

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Speaker 2: I wear I will continue to wear whatever I want

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Speaker 2: if it's still cute. I don't feel like.

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Speaker 4: If Orlando had like a ring that an X gave him,

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Speaker 4: would you be mad he was wearing, or like a necklace.

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Speaker 2: Some ear rings. Yeah, I'll just hide it. Okay, where

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Speaker 2: is it? I don't know what are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: That's it was ugly anyway, I was thinking.

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Speaker 4: I was just I was just thinking about that because

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Speaker 4: I look down and I have this ring on that

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Speaker 4: and my my ex. And he lost his like the day,

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Speaker 2: He was in came from.

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Speaker 4: He was in Portugal at the Afro Beats, probably hoeing

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Speaker 4: and hearing, and he lost it in the sand. And

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Speaker 2: Was like, am I not supposed to wear this anymore?

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Speaker 2: Because I like it? I don't think it works that way.

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Speaker 2: He lost his? Fuck him, it's not even connected him.

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Speaker 2: Yours is connected to Portugal because we're supposed to go

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Speaker 2: there next year for the festival. That's what I really

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Speaker 5: Anyway, I'm good.

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Speaker 2: It's just kind of random thought because I looked down

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Speaker 2: that persons I'm not so I'm not supposed to wear this.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it works that way. I'm doing good.

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Speaker 2: I am really, really really excited to be leaving soon

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Speaker 2: to go to Costa Rica. I feel like this February

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Speaker 2: trip is always at a time where I really really

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what the fuck has happened? And I need

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Speaker 2: to reset and refill my jungle cup and eat real

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Speaker 2: And so I'm really looking forward to this. I'm looking

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Speaker 2: plugging from this bullshit and treating myself. And so if

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Speaker 2: you guys are listening and you're like, oh, it's too

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Speaker 2: late to go, wait away. I didn't. I didn't put

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Speaker 2: my deposit down because I'm so stupid. I bought I

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Speaker 2: bought all these presents for all these other niggas except myself.

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Speaker 2: I bought titties instead of a trip. Titties are nice,

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Speaker 2: that's a nice gift. I thought you were gonna say,

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Speaker 4: If you brought titties, you really need to come to

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Speaker 2: You know, somebody a couple of years ago, I got

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Speaker 2: but one of these trips I am going to debut

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Speaker 5: Maybe you should go, I'm Costa Rica.

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Speaker 2: To Colombia, I haven't heard a lot. Maybe go to Panama.

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Speaker 2: Do they have good plastic surgery and Panama? I don't know,

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Speaker 2: but probably they have everything in Panama. I need to

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Speaker 2: do more research. I feel like everyone even have good

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Speaker 2: I feel like Columbia people go for those those those

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Speaker 4: You don't even gotta go to Columbia for the big teeth, bitch,

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Speaker 2: But why would I pay all that money to get

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Speaker 2: Teeth my homegirls. Shut out to my homegirl, that'd be

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Speaker 2: called teeth. Shut out to Becky, she actually got big

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Speaker 2: teeth on purpose. She said, it's a sign of prestige.

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Speaker 2: Would you get new teeth? No? If you got a bag, no, okay,

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Speaker 2: if you won the lottery right now for four hundred

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Speaker 2: Invest I'm gonna take like a twenty four hour period

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Speaker 5: I thought you wanted me to tell me what I

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Speaker 5: was gonna do with my fucking money. Not like I'm

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Speaker 5: gonna go in meditation.

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Speaker 2: I'm just asking what was No.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go buy some properties, for sure, go buy

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Speaker 4: some land. I'm going to read you my whole wardrobe.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to Oh, I'm gonna buy I'm gonna buy

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Speaker 5: I'm going to get an old school car because.

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Speaker 2: I like my dream. I really want an old school

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Speaker 4: Yesterday and everyone me and everyone on a bike ride

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Speaker 4: and we were driving. We were like on our bikes

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Speaker 5: Is that what it's called.

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Speaker 4: I'm so bad with the names of the old if

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Speaker 4: He was like yeah, And I was like he's been

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Speaker 2: I've been dying to do an old timey shoot in

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Speaker 2: an old car. But it just hasn't happened yet. But

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Speaker 2: it's on our list in twenty twenty four, right, twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty five. Shit, I forgot that. It's twenty twenty five already,

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Speaker 2: sure is anyway? Oh, actually, one more thing about the lottery.

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Speaker 2: If you win the lottery, don't tell anyone, and you

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Speaker 2: have to don't sign the back of it. Actually claim

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Speaker 2: a state where they can't tell you. They can't it's

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Speaker 2: not public record who owns it, so don't say I

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Speaker 2: never touched for anything. Any daddy hides all his money.

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Speaker 4: Going by Oh, back to the retreat though, if you

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Speaker 4: guys do want to come to the retreat, we do

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Speaker 5: There's a link in this description.

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Speaker 2: We do have a special code for the last minute bitches,

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Speaker 2: because I know you're a last minute but last minute

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Speaker 2: bitches deserve luxury too. Yeah, use code Tribe for a substantial,

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Speaker 2: substantial discount if you really really want to come and

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Speaker 2: bring your bestie, and maybe we'll even give you a

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Speaker 2: better discount. Don't say good moms didn't give you anything

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Speaker 2: for the holiday season, because we're giving you the luxury

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Speaker 2: of rest. It's up to you if you take it.

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Speaker 2: You bitches want to give everything to everybody else except yourself,

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Speaker 2: but this is us telling you you are also worthy

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Speaker 2: and important of rest. Amen.

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Speaker 4: Hm. We have a segment on our show called bad

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Speaker 4: Choice of the Week, and last week I shared mine,

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Speaker 4: which was a sex injury, and you guys got a

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Speaker 4: big kick out of that, and we actually have a

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Speaker 4: submission for a bad choice of the week this week

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Speaker 4: straight from our Facebook group.

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Speaker 2: This bad choice of the week is.

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Speaker 4: So My bad choice of the week is I've been

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Speaker 4: entertaining my baby daddy, my current ex. I'm dating a

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Speaker 4: different new guy, but I let my baby daddy eat

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Speaker 4: the groceries and I think I'm in love again.

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Speaker 2: First of all, I just want to say it for

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Speaker 2: the record. You lying you ain't in love, bitch. No

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Speaker 2: for a reason you didn't just let him eat the groceries.

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Speaker 2: That is just as as an adult, it just doesn't exist.

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Speaker 2: I don't play those type of games. I learned early on.

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Speaker 2: For those who are wondering, No, I did not eat

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Speaker 5: Yes, the labi makes my my dick breakout, but not

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Speaker 2: Just make sure you don't get us lava in between

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Speaker 2: the guch and the dick. Is that what he said? No, sure, yes,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe he's like more vocal about just like being

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Speaker 2: sure that was the last time he ever told bitches

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Speaker 2: that's true. I mean we try, really, I try to

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Speaker 5: I'm a bitch on the podcast.

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Speaker 2: No, we're not bitches, we're nice ish. Well, my dear,

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Speaker 4: I know it's no fucks given January, but we gotta

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Speaker 2: You can't backslide. In twenty twenty five, we got to

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Speaker 2: move on. We have got to move on. She submitted this,

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Speaker 5: I know, yeah, because I'm sorry, I had a vision

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Speaker 2: I can't believe I can't believe it. I'll never get

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Speaker 4: Like you think that your story is like the only one, Like,

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Speaker 5: We have, And I promise you, I promise you, not only.

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Speaker 2: Will you get over it, it will be so much better.

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Speaker 4: You will get over your baby daddy. We are testaments

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Speaker 4: that nigga will be removed from your not your heart

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Speaker 4: It is true, Like I literally could not see a

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Speaker 5: In fact, I was on the blogs eating popcorn.

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Speaker 4: I'm totally cool with that. And in fact, like I

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Speaker 2: seeing her. I like seeing our friends go through break up.

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Speaker 5: Not this child's fault.

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Speaker 2: But you will get past it if you allow yourself to.

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Speaker 2: You have to allow yourself to. You have to remove

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Speaker 2: You have to stop trying.

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Speaker 2: Something has to change. And the sooner you release it,

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Speaker 2: and you keep praying, and you keep trying to raiki

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Speaker 2: You say, dear God, if this is not meant for me,

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Speaker 2: please make it so so bad that it's so clear

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Speaker 2: I don't even have a choice but to walk away

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00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:24,679
Speaker 2: from this nigga. And let me tell you, be careful

436
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:26,600
Speaker 2: before you say it out loud, because it only takes

437
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:29,200
Speaker 2: about zero to seven days. Listen. That's the opposite of

438
00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:33,000
Speaker 2: Sierra's prayer. Okay, and it works. You think Sierra's fucking

439
00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 2: prayer worked. This prayer, this prayer, this God he beat

440
00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,320
Speaker 2: angwing those prayers on the on fuckation.

441
00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:41,320
Speaker 4: And let me tell you it's not just for niggas,

442
00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 4: because we did this shit in our business. Literally, we

443
00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,119
Speaker 4: did this shit in our business and it happened the

444
00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:49,280
Speaker 4: next day. I did not realize that we did do

445
00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:50,480
Speaker 4: this in our business.

446
00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:54,359
Speaker 2: We talked about this last week literally, we said, if

447
00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:58,359
Speaker 2: it's not meant to be, remove it. Literally the next morning,

448
00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 2: poopoop I was like, okay, well, God said, so it's true.

449
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 2: It's just in general, like when you really asked whoever

450
00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 2: you believe in, God, the universe, whatever, Buddha, when you

451
00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 2: ask spirit to remove something that really is not conducive

452
00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 2: to whatever your goal is or your purpose and you say,

453
00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:19,760
Speaker 2: please remove it. Maybe you better believe it's gonna remove it.

454
00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:21,680
Speaker 2: And but you have to say the part make it

455
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,879
Speaker 2: so clear that I can't ignore it if I tried.

456
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:27,600
Speaker 4: And then the other side of that is when you

457
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,960
Speaker 4: don't listen and then you continue on. Just be prepared

458
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 4: for shit to go even worse because you went against God, bitch,

459
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 4: you went against.

460
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:38,119
Speaker 2: Your own ass. You went against God, you went against yourself,

461
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:41,200
Speaker 2: and you know better. You know better. One time that

462
00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,200
Speaker 2: I got the shit slap out of me after I

463
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 2: went against my own prayer, literally and I had to

464
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 2: tell Erica I got slacked. I remember that long drive

465
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 2: to go pick up those sweatsuits. Was that what it

466
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 2: was se going. I got in the car, She's like,

467
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Speaker 2: are you okay? And I was like, no, it's not funny.

468
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 5: I'm sorry.

469
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:06,960
Speaker 2: I shouldn't be laughing atastic violence. It was funny because

470
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 2: my dumb ass brought ass for it and I stayed,

471
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 2: and that's what I got. God said, oh, we bitch,

472
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 2: you want to play. I'm an ike bitch. I mean

473
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 2: I did the same ship. I did the same ship.

474
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,920
Speaker 2: So and then she got a there was a baby.

475
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,920
Speaker 2: So just just know that when you do that prayer.

476
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 2: It is going to come hard, It's going to come clear. Yeah,

477
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 2: not wishing that on you, my dear Facebook friend. I'm

478
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 2: just saying, stop playing, stop playing.

479
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 4: Stop playing with fire, because even fuck around and have

480
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 4: another baby with that nigga rum, you know.

481
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Speaker 2: Speaking and playing with fire and letting shit go. You know,

482
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,639
Speaker 2: we're in the year of twenty twenty five. There's a

483
00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:02,640
Speaker 2: lot of changes happening right now, including this bitch ass inauguration.

484
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Speaker 5: Oh Lord Jesus.

485
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 2: And I've been honest, I'm gonna be honest. I've been

486
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:10,440
Speaker 2: actively avoiding it mentally because it's the only way that

487
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 2: I can keep saying. Because about six months ago, I

488
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:14,879
Speaker 2: told Erica that we needed to be out of the

489
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,879
Speaker 2: country by the twenty fifth, and she obviously ignored me

490
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 2: because we were basically, well, we're gonna be out of

491
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 2: the country like three days later, but our kids are

492
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 2: not good mom's bad choices. What can somebody send the kids?

493
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 2: I watched way too many movies about the world ending

494
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,639
Speaker 2: and about now and be apocalypses and bad things, and

495
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 2: so my anxiety can be at an all time high.

496
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:41,679
Speaker 2: So I have I have to put on my blinders.

497
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 2: But how are you dealing in this time disassociation the name.

498
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 2: You know, I during the time, I was, you know,

499
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 2: when it all, when it all went down, I knew

500
00:23:58,680 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 2: Kamala was not gonna win.

501
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 4: You know, I know everyone's rallying for this black woman,

502
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 4: but if a white woman couldn't win, I didn't have

503
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 4: no faith in a black woman winning this election.

504
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:08,880
Speaker 2: So I was not surprised.

505
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 5: I guess what I was surprised. I can't even say

506
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 5: I'm surprised.

507
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 4: I guess my anger was like reactivated for some of

508
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:20,959
Speaker 4: the people in my life, especially just knowing me, knowing us,

509
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 4: knowing the world, taking like I don't know, taking care

510
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 4: of our children at times, our friends, just being in

511
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:29,239
Speaker 4: circle with us.

512
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Speaker 2: It just made me really realize how much we are

513
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 2: in such.

514
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 4: An individualistic society that and I don't know how we

515
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 4: go back to being in community in that way. People

516
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 4: vote for their own interests, they don't vote for the

517
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 4: greater good, and this has been a true example of that. Also,

518
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 4: me being Latina and watching my Latina and Latino people

519
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 4: vote read every year, which I've never shocked by everyone.

520
00:24:59,320 --> 00:24:59,880
Speaker 5: There are a lot of people.

521
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 2: Can you believe the Latin vote was blah? Blah blah.

522
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,160
Speaker 4: I'm like, of course it was, it's not every fucking

523
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 4: time because they're voting for one particular topic and it's

524
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:17,119
Speaker 4: like the topic religion, Okay, yeah, religion and abortion, and no,

525
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:18,479
Speaker 4: it's like like the god thing.

526
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 2: It's the God thing.

527
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 4: And also a lot of I feel like a lot

528
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,639
Speaker 4: of I don't want to say a lot, but the

529
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 4: majority of Latin people in this country, I feel like,

530
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 4: have been so whitewashed and they want to assimilate so badly.

531
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Speaker 4: They don't want to be looked at as those people.

532
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 4: They're not the people on the border, those are not them.

533
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 2: Well, a lot of people have fought and fought to

534
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:38,919
Speaker 2: be here and be equal.

535
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 4: So yeah, and they're not like them, even though they're whatever.

536
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 4: Maybe their ancestors were like them, or maybe their grandparents

537
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 4: were like them, but now they've they've made it, they

538
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 4: made it through and so they're not like that anymore.

539
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 4: Or they're so far removed from the passage over here

540
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 4: that they can't relate to that experience anymore. And so

541
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 4: they and because they're they're assimilation to whiteness is so severe.

542
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,199
Speaker 2: I mean, that's every every minority, because that's how it's

543
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 2: by design.

544
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 5: I wouldn't say that's every minority.

545
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 2: That's like, there's a lot of there's a lot of

546
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 2: Uncle Tom blacks, and I mean, I think.

547
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 4: I think, but even in this election, they wanted you

548
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,359
Speaker 4: to think that, and most of the black people didn't

549
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 4: vote for vote Republican, even though they wanted you to

550
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,360
Speaker 4: believe that that was what was happening. So I don't

551
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 4: I don't agree with that. I do agree though, that

552
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 4: a lot of Latin people I think, have been hit

553
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:32,199
Speaker 4: even more because we are part, we are of the Americas, Africa, Africa. Obviously,

554
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 4: like we were shipped here Mexican people, this is we

555
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 4: were on this land, this was our land, and so

556
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 4: I think the assimilation actually impacted us the most here

557
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 4: because this is our land and it was literally taken

558
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 4: from us here, we were brought from.

559
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Speaker 2: I would, I would, I would disagree only be I mean,

560
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Speaker 2: I just feel like in general, when you live in

561
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 2: a world globally that is euro cent, like euro European

562
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 2: centered in every capacity in media and beauty and everything like,

563
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 2: that is by design that you want to assimilate. You

564
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 2: want to feel like, you know, like my credit's high,

565
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 2: or I'm you know, you walk into a building. You

566
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:09,360
Speaker 2: don't you want to be associated with that for survival essentially,

567
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 2: And I think for Black people, yes, we were brought

568
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 2: over here and it's not necessarily the same land mass,

569
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 2: but I do feel like that's even more reason because

570
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 2: most African Americans have no direct connection to Africa except

571
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 2: that we know that via slavery. What they told is

572
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:27,879
Speaker 2: via history books.

573
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 4: But just imagine your culture being taken from you on

574
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 4: the land that your cure was creating.

575
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 2: But for Latino people, it hasn't been taken from them.

576
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 2: They have their music, they have they have their food.

577
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not I'm not I'm black. I'm not

578
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 4: debating about that. I'm just speaking for Latin people. I'm

579
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 4: speaking for Latin people that have Like it's so interesting

580
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 4: because during you know, during this time, I went on

581
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 4: this field trip with Iri. She's learning about the missions

582
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 4: and you know, we went to Solving. I don't know

583
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 4: if anyone is familiar with Solving, but it's where a

584
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 4: lot of the missions are Santa Barbara, San Diego, and

585
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 4: you know, they're teaching my daughter about these missions and

586
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 4: they wanted us to come on the field trip. But

587
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 4: I'm so glad that I went, because of course they're

588
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 4: whitewashing everything and they're skipping over a bunch of shit

589
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 4: because they don't want to like traumatize the kids. And

590
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 4: I'm sitting there pissed, and I's like, what's wrong, Mom,

591
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 4: And I'm like they're all lying, and like some of

592
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:16,640
Speaker 4: them parents are like yeah they are, and then.

593
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,479
Speaker 2: All the other, you know, the other parents like la

594
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 2: la la, la la.

595
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 4: But when I was sitting there listening to like just

596
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 4: revisiting what has been done and for me as a

597
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 4: Latina and watching my Mexican, the Mexican side of my

598
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 4: family completely assimilate to this side.

599
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 5: My grandmother doesn't like to be viewed as a certain time.

600
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 2: I think also with that is you they can black people,

601
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 2: you can't. You can't assimilate visually.

602
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 5: My grandmother can't assimilate as a white person.

603
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 2: She could like she's she's fair skin. She says, she

604
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 2: god have dark brown hair, like a black person doesn't

605
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 2: have the option. So that's true, but certain Latin people

606
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: can't assimilate either. It goes both ways. It goes both ways.

607
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 4: And I'm just saying that because the culture literally was

608
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 4: robbed from us, they were told this is wrong, this

609
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 4: is right, this is savage. Yes, that exact thing happened

610
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 4: to Black people, but it's different when it's on your land.

611
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 4: So I feel like the assimilation was more severe here.

612
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 4: And that's why a lot of Latin people they don't

613
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 4: like to be part of that. They don't like to

614
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 4: be part of that group, and so they're more inclined

615
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 4: to vote for these said reasons of religion, the religion

616
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 4: that they.

617
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 2: Were given that they hold on so dearly too, because

618
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 2: it was literally shoved.

619
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 4: Down their throat, and so this is literally so ingrained

620
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 4: in them, deeply, ingrained even more, I would say than

621
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 4: Black people, because Black people don't vote necessarily for religious purposes.

622
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 4: They didn't vote Republican because they wanted to vote because

623
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 4: they're anti abortion. Maybe some people did, but for the

624
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 4: most part, the Latin people that voted, that was like

625
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 4: the biggest reason religious base.

626
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 2: I think Black people have historically always been democratic, period.

627
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 4: But I'm just saying Latin people generally vote for religious purposes.

628
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 4: And you think about how that was one of the

629
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 4: biggest ways that they pilgrimized that culture, this culture Latin.

630
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 5: People, it was through religion, and so they're voting for that.

631
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Well, I understand like there's

632
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 2: very it's very heavily catholic, like you know, like abortions

633
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 2: or no, no, there's certain things I think also like

634
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 2: for us, it's like going back to the initial conversation

635
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 2: about like having realizations about people in our friends circle

636
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 2: or people that we you know, you feel close to,

637
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 2: and then you realize you pull back the curtain and

638
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 2: you're like, oh, you voted for this. I think like

639
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 2: a for anybody just joining the show or listening, or

640
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 2: who just doesn't know, who don't know. Eric and I

641
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 2: live Not only do we live in la we live

642
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 2: in the valley. We grew up in the valley. It

643
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 2: is predominantly white, you know what I mean. So I

644
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 2: think that I wasn't really a lot. I wasn't very

645
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 2: shocked to see some of our friends voting a certain way.

646
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 2: But maybe because I'm so, I'm conditioned to there's a

647
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 2: part of me to understand that some of my friends

648
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 2: are just never going to understand, you know what I mean.

649
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 2: Like there's a part of me like we can all

650
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 2: it's all it's all fun in games until some real

651
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 2: shit happens because for us, like for them, it's like

652
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 2: it's political, like everybody's racist. But for me, it's like

653
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 2: if this person promotes and encourages these racist whites to

654
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 2: uproar and like to feel comfortable and their racism, it

655
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 2: incites a different type of violence where if you're not

656
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 2: if you're not subscribed to it, or you're not a

657
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 2: target of it, you could just like pass it off

658
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 2: as just like it's just everybody is like that, you

659
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 2: know what I mean. Like when I talk to my friends,

660
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 2: which I'll be honest, I don't get really deep because

661
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 2: I know I'm gonna probably stop fucking with you. I

662
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 2: know you're not educated enough, You're not gonna understand. You

663
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 2: don't have my experience, and you obviously like your level

664
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 2: of understanding for what that like, what that means for me,

665
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 2: like just the energy of the world is not going

666
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 2: to be the same. And so intentionally I realized that,

667
00:31:56,120 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 2: like back in twenty twenty, I'm like, I'm just going

668
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 2: to cut the conversation here or else I'm not gonna

669
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 2: like you for real, for real, And because I just

670
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 2: don't want to even go through that or like have

671
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 2: to be like I'm blocking you or I'm not being

672
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 2: friends with you because you've voted this. I'm just not

673
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 2: going to have those conversations. But I know like that

674
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 2: our experience is so different that I don't really expect

675
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 2: you to get it, and.

676
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 4: I'm not even I think I was more so appalled

677
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:23,479
Speaker 4: because a lot of the things, because so much has

678
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 4: happened over the last eight years, and also like so

679
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 4: many of our rights as women have been taken away,

680
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 4: like roal versus way, Like so many of those rights

681
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 4: have been taken away that I would think that those

682
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 4: things at least.

683
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 2: Would perhaps change their perspective do it.

684
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 4: Like I know that there's certain things that they're voting for,

685
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 4: because like I said, we're living in this individualistic society,

686
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 4: but like as women, I thought, and as women, and

687
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 4: as the person that you're voting in, like knowing his

688
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 4: track record, it's just like common like that's what like

689
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 4: kind of that's not kind of That's what grossed me

690
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 4: out about the people that I know that we like,

691
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 4: that we know and like you.

692
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 2: Know, some of them got I know they were mad

693
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 2: at me. One of them is like I'm coming to

694
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 2: pick up my daughters or my son's jackets.

695
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 4: From her house and I'm like, okay, bitch, I don't

696
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 4: That's fine, I don't.

697
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 2: I don't hate you. I just don't guess what the

698
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 2: jacket picked up. Absolutely, it was immediately. It was immediately

699
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 2: after I unfollowed her.

700
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 4: Oh, I think that I just a I followed her

701
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 4: because she was posting shit, and I was like, I

702
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 4: don't want to see the ship. I followed two people

703
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 4: and I was like, I don't want to see your shit.

704
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 4: It's not that I hate you, It's just that I

705
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 4: don't think.

706
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 5: I don't.

707
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 4: We don't have anything that we actually relate on. Yes,

708
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 4: you're Are you a terrible person? No, I don't think

709
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 4: you're a teleproper person. Are you a danger to my child?

710
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 1: I don't know.

711
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 2: If the world were ending, like what kind of I

712
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 2: just feel like.

713
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 4: This election really highlighted just how much we differ in

714
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:05,719
Speaker 4: the values of the human race and society and us

715
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 4: as women, and I do believe that for me, I

716
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 4: have a lot of integrity about the people that I

717
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,360
Speaker 4: keep close to me. I am I'm a fucking territorial

718
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:17,320
Speaker 4: bitch when it comes to my friends. I don't just

719
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 4: I'm not friends with everybody, you know, and like if

720
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 4: we don't agree on certain things or we can't see

721
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 4: eye to eye on certain things, and you're gonna also

722
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 4: hide that's what That's another thing that I don't like

723
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 4: is that people like kind of like avoid the conversation

724
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 4: or just don't say anything, Like if you're gonna be

725
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,400
Speaker 4: about it, then just be about it, then say it.

726
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 4: Just be about it, you know. I feel like a

727
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 4: lot of people were so scared to like just say

728
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 4: this is why I'm voting, this is this is why

729
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 4: I'm voting for.

730
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 2: This first thing, until until it until you came into office,

731
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 2: until I I just really feel like, honestly, a part

732
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 2: of me feels like, are you dumb? This is someone

733
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 2: who is like he to me, he's a joke. Like

734
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 2: everything I co out of this man's mouth is a lie,

735
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 2: is a joke. And it's not even very well hidden,

736
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 2: like he's there's no like he's he's like, I'm there's

737
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 2: no problem, I'm not doing product twenty twenty six, twenty

738
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 2: twenty five. It's like this nigg is lying. He lied

739
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 2: about getting shot. He lied. He just lies. He's grabbing

740
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 2: bitches by the kouchy. He's a felon. So if this

741
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 2: is not enough to say I'm cool off this, nigga,

742
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 2: you're kind of slow, so then why keep those people

743
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 2: in your life. I don't feel like I have to

744
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 2: have deep conversations about people's political beliefs, because I honestly

745
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 2: don't even think that a lot of the people that

746
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 2: we're talking about specifically are even educated enough to even

747
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 2: defend themselves in a conversation. I think the things that

748
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 2: they would be talking about would be regurgitated information from

749
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 2: the Internet, and I don't think and I think with

750
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 2: this my things would go over their head and a

751
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 2: lot of those people, I mean not I don't know

752
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 2: if you're talking about the same two people, but I don't.

753
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:59,320
Speaker 2: I don't have deep conversations with anyway. It's it's very surface,

754
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 2: it's very how are you, it's very let's let the

755
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 2: kids play, so on those terms. Sure, I don't mind

756
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 2: that our kid our friend, our kids are our kids

757
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 2: are friends. They're not talking about political things. If things

758
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 2: come up, I'm glad to have a conversation. I know myself,

759
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,760
Speaker 2: and I just feel like i'd rather keep it surface.

760
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 2: And I'm okay with that because I'm not here to

761
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 2: necessarily be your best friend and go on trips together

762
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 2: and do certain things like I know where each person

763
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 2: in my life sits, stands and sits, and I'm okay

764
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 2: with that. I don't have to like remove you in

765
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:36,439
Speaker 2: order to understand that we have different goal like views

766
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 2: that way. I'm black, and especially as a black woman

767
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 2: growing up in this environment where most of my friends

768
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 2: haven't had the same experience as me, I've come to

769
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 2: the place where i'm I know where everybody sits in

770
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 2: my circle. I think I just I'm only interested in

771
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 2: in like integrity based friendships.

772
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 4: I don't care to even have small talk. I don't

773
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,800
Speaker 4: care to drop my kid off at your house just

774
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 4: because I need a break because whatever that I've known

775
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 4: you for, however.

776
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:07,720
Speaker 2: I don't know how to drop my kid off anywhere

777
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 2: and if they want to play. But like we see

778
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:10,879
Speaker 2: you in passing, see a birthday party.

779
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 5: I'm just speaking for myself.

780
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just and a lot of people, like I said,

781
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 2: I grew up here. A lot of my friends that

782
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 2: I've known twenty twenty five years. I there's nothing I

783
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 2: can tell you that's going to make you understand being

784
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 2: black in America. And I know you don't get it,

785
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 2: so it would be a waste of my time and

786
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 2: energy and breath to even attempt to start that conversation.

787
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 4: But it's not even just being black at this point,

788
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 4: it's about being a woman. At this point, you're voting

789
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 4: against my rights as a woman. And then I understand

790
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 4: that when you.

791
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 5: Need to fuck.

792
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:45,320
Speaker 2: I understand people being confused. Also, he also said in Milania,

793
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 2: whatever his wife said, she doesn't believe in the government

794
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 2: having having anything in her and in the terms of

795
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 2: her body. And so that's confusing. If if a nigga

796
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 2: is telling you, I'm not gonna do this, I'm not

797
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,359
Speaker 2: going to do that, but someone else is saying something else,

798
00:37:58,640 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 2: niggas are confused.

799
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:02,800
Speaker 4: But he doesn't look at it. Look at the actions

800
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 4: they overturned Roe versus Wad under his term he was.

801
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 2: That wasn't when he was there. Yes, it was when

802
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,439
Speaker 2: truck was in office. Yes, that wasn't during That wasn't

803
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 2: during Biden's term. That was recently. That was four years ago.

804
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 2: That was almost four years ago. Has it been four

805
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:20,959
Speaker 2: years yes? And thin it was. That was per state,

806
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 2: So federally is one thing. Per state is different. So

807
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 2: I think that within the state, a lot of these

808
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 2: backwards ass states did that, and he was basically saying

809
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 2: that federally, he's not going to be in women's birth business. Obviously,

810
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 2: there's a lot of lies that are being generated from

811
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 2: the entire political parties. Honestly, the thing about me is,

812
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 2: I'm not a government type of bitch. I'm a black

813
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:46,240
Speaker 2: person and I don't believe in any like American government

814
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 2: is fuck to me as an African American person, I believe.

815
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:52,320
Speaker 2: I know people keep saying this like the greater of

816
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 2: two evils. America's evil as fuck. It always has been.

817
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 2: It's not a secret. So I don't subscribe to either

818
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,319
Speaker 2: side just because I know they're both full of shit,

819
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 2: and it's both. It's both for profit and monetary gain.

820
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 2: It's not for the ethics or morals of the people

821
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:11,360
Speaker 2: that they contain. So with accepting that, it's like, I

822
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 2: live here and let's just keep it moving until I

823
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 2: can get to Costa Rica permanently forever. I want to know.

824
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:18,320
Speaker 2: I just for me, it's no new friends.

825
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 4: I got my friends, if you I mean, obviously, the

826
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 4: tribe is always the tribe. But when it comes oh

827
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 4: my god, actually there's a bitch in our who used

828
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 4: to be in our tribe that.

829
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 2: She blocked us on everything. Oh yeah, because we talked

830
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 2: about Palestine, and I'm like, wow, interesting. It's so it's

831
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,400
Speaker 2: such an interesting, fickle time, and you know it's so

832
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:45,800
Speaker 2: telling too that like the thing about it is like

833
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 2: people get in.

834
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 4: This is the thing and I'm guilty of this too,

835
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 4: is like we get in an uproar around around these topics, right,

836
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 4: and we get mad at our friends, and we get

837
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:57,280
Speaker 4: mad at the people that we deem as whatever friends, acquaintances,

838
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 4: and then time fizzles out and then we're back to

839
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:03,360
Speaker 4: going to brunch and then we're back to you know,

840
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 4: having play dates.

841
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 2: And it's like, did you go to brunch with any

842
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:06,479
Speaker 2: of those people?

843
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:09,240
Speaker 4: I'm not talking about them specifically, I'm just saying in general,

844
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 4: all of us like this, this is what happens. We

845
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 4: get it, We have this like outrage, and then we

846
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 4: go back to just whatever it feels normal again.

847
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 2: I think there was a turning point in my relationships

848
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:25,240
Speaker 2: where I was like over different as like as an adult,

849
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 2: and I've kept those people in those places. Maybe we

850
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 2: would have contact with me. But am I calling you

851
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 2: every day?

852
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 1: No?

853
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,320
Speaker 2: Am I keeping up with my life. No, I like,

854
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 2: as an adult as i've especially as a black woman

855
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 2: growing up in the valley, in certain situations, I was

856
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 2: just like, oh, okay, this is where I'll leave you forever.

857
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 2: Twelve degrees. You know, there's some people who are two

858
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 2: degrees or some people who are across the mountain around

859
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:50,320
Speaker 2: the corner, and I just know how to jeeal in

860
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 2: those those distances and not like take it very personally

861
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:55,440
Speaker 2: because then it's going to piss me the fuck off,

862
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:56,840
Speaker 2: and then I might have to punch you in the face.

863
00:40:57,840 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 2: And I don't want to punch somebody in the face.

864
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 2: Late in life, I could be getting in a fight

865
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 2: at thirty six years old. Can you imagine if I

866
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 2: called you so I got a fits fight, girl, come

867
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 2: give me. I had to be her ass, I could imagine. Actually,

868
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 2: I'm surprised I ain't got one of those calls yet.

869
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 2: Shut up, now, you trying to make me the violent friend,

870
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 2: not me thinking about it.

871
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:18,759
Speaker 1: I know.

872
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, when was your last physical altercation? Probably like when

873
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:30,240
Speaker 2: I live in Atlanta, I can think of two physical

874
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 2: altercations as an adult, Like once outside the club, this

875
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 2: bitch that was talking shit about me, and I saw

876
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 2: her in the club and I could not let it go.

877
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 2: I had to say something. And I was like, what

878
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 2: was that you said to so and so? And she

879
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 2: said we saw each other outside the club and we

880
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 2: got into a physical leducation. And then one time I

881
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 2: didn't I didn't really participate in it, but I was

882
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 2: talking shit because I have a really my gift is

883
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 2: talking shit with like a very straight face, with like

884
00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 2: a smile on my face. And I really pissed some

885
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 2: got my gift. I was just like jokingly but like

886
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 2: getting under this person's skin. And I was just talking

887
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 2: sitting on the bed. It was really late with a

888
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 2: bunch of people, and she jumped across the bed to

889
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 2: attack me. But that was it. That was about fifteen

890
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:14,320
Speaker 2: years ago, What about you.

891
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 4: My last one was about eleven years ago at Casa

892
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 4: Vega eleven.

893
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 2: That's not about actually wait no, it's not. Costaviga was

894
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 2: another Oh MEXICALI, oh right here, Ventre. Yeah, shout out

895
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:28,760
Speaker 2: to MEXICALI down why.

896
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 1: It was.

897
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 2: It was very uncalled for.

898
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,279
Speaker 4: Actually we were all there was a long it was

899
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:37,880
Speaker 4: single to mile. There was a very long ass fucket yeah, tequila.

900
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 2: There was Keep in mind these physical altercations removed by

901
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 2: domestic violent situations because that would have been more recent

902
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 2: for me.

903
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 4: There, yeah, there was uh oh yeah because second name

904
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 4: one of those two, because.

905
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:49,799
Speaker 5: That would be last year.

906
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 2: Oh sure, yeah for me. No wait, there was a

907
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:55,399
Speaker 2: long ass line.

908
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 4: We were all waiting to pee and this bitch was

909
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 4: in there for a fucking ever and I was next

910
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 4: up and I was knocking, like hello, bitch. She opened

911
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,359
Speaker 4: the doors swinging. No way, Yeah, she opened the door,

912
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 4: she fears lf. No, she opened the door because she

913
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 4: was mad. I was knocking trying to get in because

914
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 4: bitch took Lois in there. I don't know if she

915
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 4: was doing some fucking cocaine or what the fuck she

916
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 4: was doing, but she was taking too goddamn long and

917
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:19,279
Speaker 4: I had to pee and there was a long ass

918
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 4: line and everyone was like what the fuck.

919
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 5: So she came out swinging and we started fighting and

920
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 5: they had to break it.

921
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 2: Up and then that was it.

922
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 4: But that was that was my last physical altercation. I

923
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:30,400
Speaker 4: don't like to fight because I'm like my face, I

924
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 4: like it. I don't want to get my face hit.

925
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 4: I don't want to get scratched and I might black out.

926
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:35,839
Speaker 2: I don't I don't.

927
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 4: I don't trust myself in that situation. I haven't fought

928
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 4: a lot of bitches in my life. I fought more

929
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,439
Speaker 4: niggas in my life and the bitches.

930
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I just don't believe in getting in a

931
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 2: fight at this grown age, now, will I? I'm very

932
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 2: much have two parents from Philly. Absolutely, I'll fucking fight

933
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 2: you if need be. But I don't think it's classy

934
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:57,800
Speaker 2: as a fucking grown ass adult, and it's not my

935
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:00,280
Speaker 2: go to. However, there are a couple of things spinning

936
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 2: in my face. Certain words. Yeah, I'll beat your fucking

937
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 2: ass and it's gonna be go time, and I might

938
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 2: pull a knife or something. But other than that, you

939
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 2: got a knife, No, but I would break a glass

940
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 2: and make it a shank. I don't know. I've seen

941
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 2: movies Flash Bleach. You know, I'm ninety eight pounds. I

942
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 2: gotta do what I gotta do. Weapons all around can

943
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:18,240
Speaker 2: be weapons.

944
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 5: You know, there's the key with the key between the fingers.

945
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:23,400
Speaker 2: Listen, I'll bite all the things. I just would recommend

946
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 2: you get in a fight with a little person because

947
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 2: I'll go love not like Michelle obomb Michello, bombshell bomb Anyway,

948
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 2: it feels like a good time to segment into secrets Safe.

949
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 2: Is your secret safe that I might beat somebody's ass

950
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 2: with a shank?

951
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 1: Uh?

952
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 4: So this segment secret Safe is for you to write

953
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 4: in and share your secrets with us anonymously.

954
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,320
Speaker 2: We know how to keep a secret. So if you

955
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 2: are interested or.

956
00:44:57,360 --> 00:44:58,359
Speaker 5: Have something you want to share.

957
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 4: Maybe you can't tell the homies, maybe you can't even

958
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 4: bear to tell yourself, tell us.

959
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,240
Speaker 5: Go ahead and click the link in this episode description,

960
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:06,879
Speaker 5: or you can.

961
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 2: Just go to Good Momsbad Choices dot com and tell

962
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 2: us your secrets. We won't say your name if you

963
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 2: don't want us.

964
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 5: Tom, So, this was a write in question, a write

965
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 5: in secret?

966
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 2: Excuse me? Okay, please don't judge. Is this has been

967
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 2: hard enough already?

968
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 4: I just found out the guy I've been dating for

969
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 4: the last five months has a whole other secret life

970
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 4: with a wife and two kids. He doesn't know that

971
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 4: I know, and I haven't told his wife yet. Of course,

972
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 4: I'm not going to keep dating him, but I'm torn

973
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 4: on whether or not I should tell his wife. I'm

974
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 4: a little fearful of his retaliation, so I really don't.

975
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 2: Know what to do.

976
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 5: What would you do.

977
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 2: A I just really want to know, like how motherfucking

978
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:51,800
Speaker 2: spy wear all these niggas Because me, as a woman,

979
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:56,719
Speaker 2: my intuition is so high. I ask so many questions,

980
00:45:57,360 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 2: where do you live? All the things, so many questions.

981
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 2: I don't know if this could pass me, Like maybe

982
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 2: it was long distance. Oh, I mean even then nigga

983
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:13,359
Speaker 2: facetimey bitch. Yeah. This reminds with an episode he once

984
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 2: had I'm triggered, I'm dating a married man, where Erica

985
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 2: was stating a married man long distance because because niggas

986
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 2: are strange, and they kind of did research because we

987
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 2: tell all our business on the internet, and he knew

988
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 2: exactly what to do and say. He did and he

989
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 2: and he was facetiming, and he was facetiming me. He

990
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 2: was face timing me with his son, his son like

991
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:38,400
Speaker 2: saying hi, yeah, Yes. He was flying out like he

992
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 2: driving out to our show, like he was doing a lot.

993
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 1: What was that?

994
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:47,880
Speaker 2: Twenty nineteen of twenty nineteen, Please, if you guys have

995
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:50,720
Speaker 2: not dipped back in the archives, it is worth dipping

996
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 2: back in the archives to listen to I'm Dating a

997
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 2: married man. It is my my dear, dear, my best friend,

998
00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 2: my brother, shout out to Sebastian.

999
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 4: He really coached me through this very dark time in

1000
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 4: my life. And when as far as just like any good.

1001
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 5: Gay man would do, he wrote a letter to the

1002
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 5: wife for me.

1003
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 2: So you know, did you have done that? Had he

1004
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 2: not done it for you, would you have contacted her

1005
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 2: in any way? Or would just let it go? I

1006
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 2: would have contacted her. I mean I did. I threw him,

1007
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 2: you know, like that was my choice. I mean he didn't.

1008
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 2: He didn't do it on his own accord. I mean,

1009
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 2: I don't know sebas should be doing.

1010
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 4: I think that you know, and and and granted did

1011
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 4: it change the situation. No, the bitch was got pregnant

1012
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 4: and the probably.

1013
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 2: Still forgot She got pregnant right after that and had

1014
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:42,799
Speaker 2: a baby with him.

1015
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 4: And you know, I think sometimes women go like double

1016
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 4: down even more when that happens.

1017
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:51,440
Speaker 2: That's never, which is never a good look like ever,

1018
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 2: It's just never.

1019
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 4: But I don't know, like I think that as from

1020
00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 4: a woman to woman, I leave that she deserves to know.

1021
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 4: But do not be surprised if nothing changes you. You

1022
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 4: really need to wash your hands with this completely, like

1023
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 4: you said you are. I hope you have, But I

1024
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 4: would want to know.

1025
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:14,800
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna tell you just on the just on

1026
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 2: the karma in general. Whatever you choose to do with

1027
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 2: this information.

1028
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 4: Is on you.

1029
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 2: But I'm gonna let you know, bitch, this is what

1030
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 2: your nigga's doing. But yeah, I do. If I if

1031
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:25,400
Speaker 2: it was happening to me, I would want to know.

1032
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 2: I don't even know how my husband could ever think

1033
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,879
Speaker 2: he was having upside bitch because I'm a nosy bitch

1034
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:35,840
Speaker 2: on both sides. Yeah, laugh, because it's never happening. It

1035
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 2: would never happen because I am too nosy. I'm all

1036
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 2: up in your phone, I'm all up in your whereabouts,

1037
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 2: and I asked too many questions. But I do know

1038
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:46,759
Speaker 2: that they're sneaky double live leading men because I even

1039
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 2: met that guy. I met that guy who was she

1040
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 2: met to the podcast. She was talking to him for

1041
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:54,439
Speaker 2: a while. He was sending stuff, being kind, all types

1042
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 2: of shit. They were really dating. He took us to dinner,

1043
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 2: he came out to dinner. Was it? Who was I with? Ashley? Oh? Okay.

1044
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 2: But for the men who are listening and the men

1045
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,959
Speaker 2: who do shit like this, what the fuck is the point?

1046
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,960
Speaker 2: What are you doing? And if you're grown like to me,

1047
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 2: if you're a late in life cheater, like an old

1048
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 2: ass nigga that cheats, I don't think they're late in life.

1049
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 2: I think they've been doing this. I just feel like

1050
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 2: your I just feel your whole life's a lie and

1051
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:25,439
Speaker 2: that's on you, Like I don't. I think this even

1052
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:27,480
Speaker 2: goes to your ex. Like there's a couple of people

1053
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 2: I could think of specifically who go so hard to

1054
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:34,319
Speaker 2: to present as one thing and then when you find

1055
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 2: out you're not. You know what I think also for

1056
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 2: us as podcasters. For us as podcasters, we talk so

1057
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:41,920
Speaker 2: honestly all the time, even the things that are not

1058
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 2: so desirable. You know, like I'm gonna say some shit

1059
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 2: even if I know it's going to make a nigga

1060
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 2: judge me, but I'm still gonna say it because it's

1061
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:50,439
Speaker 2: the truth. So if somebody goes so far to hide

1062
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 2: who they are, it makes me know that you don't

1063
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 2: really like yourself or what you represent, and you hate

1064
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 2: it so much that you'd create a whole facade over

1065
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 2: who it is. So it's always just like, damn, I

1066
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 2: feel bad for you because you really dislike yourself and

1067
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,359
Speaker 2: you don't have any self love and that's something even

1068
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 2: deeper that you have to go on the journey into.

1069
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 2: And I have no time for it and no guidance,

1070
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,840
Speaker 2: but it does make me feel like, damn, what a

1071
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 2: sad life to live. Long story short, bitch, Tell her, yeah,

1072
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 2: tell her and make sure she gets the message. Yeah,

1073
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 2: like email her directly, like Sebastian did. Yeah. As a

1074
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 2: matter of fact, can we play that clip? Yeah? I

1075
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 2: think Orlando. Can we insert Yeah? I think we need

1076
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:35,399
Speaker 2: to insert the clip.

1077
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 4: We need to insert the clip of Sebastian reading the

1078
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 4: message to Kishan Khan.

1079
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 2: That was his name. Oh Sean, I should have known. God,

1080
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:52,840
Speaker 2: his voice bothered me. Yeah, beautiful. Before we before we

1081
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 2: let go of this topic, let me talking about Kishan.

1082
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 2: It was around Halloween time and he told Erica that

1083
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 2: he was dressing up as Martin. Shut up, and I said, girl,

1084
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 2: you know good and god damn, well, no one's dressing

1085
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:06,879
Speaker 2: up as Martin without Gina. You knew he was married,

1086
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,359
Speaker 2: because how the fuck you just gonna be Martin? What's

1087
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:13,359
Speaker 2: she gonna wear? You have to have Gina. And sure enough,

1088
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,920
Speaker 2: well we finally got into this, got into the files.

1089
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 2: There was a picture of him because no one's gonna

1090
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 2: be just fucking Keishawn as Martin. No one's gonna know

1091
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 2: who you are. The fact that we say his government name,

1092
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:27,800
Speaker 2: that's what the fuck? You get? What the fun I

1093
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 2: should say your last name? What was it? The b damn?

1094
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 2: All her friends are gonna know he's where was he?

1095
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 5: North Carolina?

1096
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:38,760
Speaker 2: Always get the Carolina, one of the Carolinas. There's bored

1097
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 2: as states where you've got nothing to do. No, sorry,

1098
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 2: I didn't mean to say that. There's a lot of

1099
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 2: stuff to do there. It's just him, lots of things

1100
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 2: to do. You go with your state statism. Sorry, guys,

1101
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 2: Oh we didn't pull a card? Or is it terrible?

1102
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:57,839
Speaker 2: Or did we not smoke a joint?

1103
00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 4: Okay, well hold on, oh speaking of this joint, I

1104
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 4: didn't get to tell you last episode.

1105
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 5: This is a very very special strain.

1106
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 2: You did start with saying that, and then you never

1107
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:15,280
Speaker 2: never shared why why. This comes straight from my parents' backyard,

1108
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 2: actually not the backyard, my brother's bedroom where my stepfather

1109
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 2: was cultivating cannabis because my brother went to college, so

1110
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:25,760
Speaker 2: he made I don't think you should tell their business.

1111
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 5: But okay, that's fine, schol we're in fororing we're in

1112
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 5: Cali for.

1113
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:31,720
Speaker 2: Anyway.

1114
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 4: Fine, anyway, he grew this. It took about a thousand years,

1115
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 4: and that does not take two months. It took forever

1116
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 4: because he takes forever, and this is forever does He's slow.

1117
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 4: He's slow. I love him dearly, but everything he does

1118
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:49,399
Speaker 4: is slow. He cooks slow, he talks slow, he thinks slow.

1119
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 2: And he's a great man. And the cannabis. But you

1120
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:54,600
Speaker 2: know what I will say, when people take their time,

1121
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 2: they make good product. I do, and the product is

1122
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:01,879
Speaker 2: is good product. Taking the shout out to Rory smells good.

1123
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 2: I don't know what strain this is. It's so it

1124
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 2: feels like a hybrid. Actually, no, this seems like a og.

1125
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 2: Basically that all the weed people tell me that everything's

1126
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 2: a hybrid. Don't get it twisted, which I could see

1127
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:32,399
Speaker 2: all contaminating each other. Okay, yeah, I've been wheezing lately.

1128
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 2: Probably I mean me too, probably because we've probably at

1129
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 2: some point you need to stop smoking weed.

1130
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:37,840
Speaker 5: But no, I think it's allergies.

1131
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 2: Okay, couldn't be weed. Nope, it's allergies.

1132
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:47,320
Speaker 4: Let me just take a moment to cleanse the palate

1133
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 4: after all the shit talking we did a little palette.

1134
00:53:51,440 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 2: Cleanser wherever you are, just take a few deep breaths, sounds,

1135
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 2: remove the tension from your body. That's nice what you

1136
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 2: do with wheed. Oh yeah, using weed with the breath

1137
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 2: work is actually a clutch.

1138
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 1: Too.

1139
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:31,799
Speaker 2: Can do weed and breath work together in Costa Rica

1140
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:36,840
Speaker 2: with me and Jamila February first through the sixth in

1141
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:41,800
Speaker 2: Costa Rica near the Black Sand beaches. That's strong on

1142
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 2: the Caribbean side, yuess.

1143
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:43,360
Speaker 1: It is.

1144
00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:46,800
Speaker 2: For those of you who smoke cannabis.

1145
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:48,280
Speaker 5: It's also available.

1146
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,080
Speaker 4: I know people always ask me, can we smoke weed?

1147
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 4: I'm in Costa Rica, yes, and but in fact we

1148
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:54,800
Speaker 4: will provide it for you.

1149
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,759
Speaker 2: Don't you worry. You've got everything, everything you need, You've

1150
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:01,160
Speaker 2: took it, taken care of it. Breathing for you. Pick

1151
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 2: a card, my love. King of Pentacles, hmmm, the King

1152
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:12,919
Speaker 2: of Pentacles. That's the King of the Money.

1153
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 4: He looks like he's he's really proud of himself, like

1154
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:20,280
Speaker 4: he's he's accomplished things.

1155
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:24,400
Speaker 5: He looks like fairness and show the camera luxury.

1156
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 2: He stands for wealth, business, leadership, security, discipline, and abundance.

1157
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 2: The King of Pentacles represents material wealth, financial abundance and

1158
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 2: worldly success. This king is a faithful provider. He uses

1159
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 2: his ambition and confidence to create wealth for himself and others,

1160
00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:43,759
Speaker 2: and generates his self worth from what he has accumulated

1161
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:46,760
Speaker 2: and can share with others. He is also a fatherly

1162
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 2: figure who provides others with advice, guidance, wisdom, especially in

1163
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 2: financial and work related matters. When the King of Pentacles

1164
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 2: appears in a terror reading, you are confident and successful

1165
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 2: at attracting and managing wealth. Not only do you identify

1166
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 2: opportunities for growth and success, but you also draw upon

1167
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 2: your self discipline and control to manage your wealth and

1168
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 2: invest in wisely for the long term. Hmm my four

1169
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:11,400
Speaker 2: hundred million dollars. The King of Pentacles indicates that you

1170
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 2: can translate your vision into something tangible, practical, and often

1171
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 2: very lucrative. You are the ultimate business owner. Amen, Amen, Amen, Yes, yes,

1172
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:26,960
Speaker 2: I'll take that. Twenty twenty five. We've gotten some good

1173
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:30,399
Speaker 2: cards this last two weeks. You standing on business, stand

1174
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 2: on business. Did y'all see our trailer because we stand

1175
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:36,360
Speaker 2: on BABS trailer. You saw it right and now you

1176
00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:38,279
Speaker 2: saw it. You liked it, didn't you? You did it?

1177
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 2: You saw it we're bossy, right. We've she was acting,

1178
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 2: saw her acting debut. She was not our acting debut.

1179
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 2: We've been acted so many times, bitch, We've had a

1180
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 2: two women show. It's not acting, it's real life, but

1181
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 2: it is entertaining. Yeah. I think we were talking about

1182
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 2: before we start this episode that a lot of times,

1183
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 2: at a certain age, people people cap their passions and

1184
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 2: their creativity and the things that they can tap into.

1185
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 2: And I just want to say, because sometimes I fall

1186
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 2: victim to this too, Because society, you could be a

1187
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 2: late in life whatever you want to be, except a

1188
00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 2: bad person, that would be a waste of time. But like,

1189
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 2: if you want to act late in life, like even

1190
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 2: the guy both Well, one of the gentlemen who was

1191
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 2: in our art. Wait, we got to stop calling it

1192
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 2: late in life. You know where that came from. I

1193
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 2: know where it comes from, the late life lesbian. One

1194
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 2: time somebody wrote us in and they were like, I'm

1195
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 2: a late in life lesbian lesbian, and ever since then

1196
00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 2: we've been like late in life, porn style, late in life, Peter,

1197
00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 2: everything's late in life. Shout out to that girl. I

1198
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:53,600
Speaker 2: wonder if she's still lesbian. Oh my god, I hope

1199
00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 2: she is I just live in her truth, or maybe

1200
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:59,560
Speaker 2: you fall out of lesbianism like me. Maybe she seemed

1201
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 2: like she was really she really needed to go in

1202
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 2: there for a while. Can you relate this for me? Absolutely?

1203
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 2: I know, But I just feel like sometimes later in

1204
00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 2: the latter years, people have a lot of fear about

1205
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 2: starting something new because there's this expectation that you have

1206
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:16,439
Speaker 2: to be wildly successful or make a lot of money.

1207
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 2: And I think it's ridiculous, and I have experienced this,

1208
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 2: like this year I forgot I mean, I started a

1209
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 2: podcast with Orlando called Love Like This. Go listen to it.

1210
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 2: But I had a lot of anxiety around it, even

1211
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 2: though obviously I know I already podcast, but I only

1212
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:29,880
Speaker 2: do it with Erica, and it's so I'm used to

1213
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 2: doing with Erica. And it was very it was very

1214
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:34,800
Speaker 2: telling for me that I had so much fear around

1215
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 2: it and like anxiety, and I was like, Pitch, you

1216
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 2: didn't have fear where you were sitting in the dining

1217
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 2: room with Erica, and I just had to like do it.

1218
00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 2: And it took some time to feel like, to realize that.

1219
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 2: And it's just like even with my sexology and my

1220
00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 2: tantric practitionership is like even with writing a book, you know,

1221
00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 2: it's just like we tell ourselves so many lies and

1222
00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 2: it really handicaps us from like expanding and doing other

1223
00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 2: things and literally having fun doing it and like discovering

1224
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:06,880
Speaker 2: parts of ourselves that we haven't honored. And so I

1225
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:09,840
Speaker 2: just want to say, if you're late in life anything,

1226
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 2: do it. I agreed.

1227
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 4: I've been really thinking about that a lot lately too,

1228
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:19,400
Speaker 4: because I've recently got back into acting, and you know,

1229
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:23,919
Speaker 4: acting kind of like broke my heart for a while

1230
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 4: because I've been auditioning and acting for the majority of

1231
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 4: my life. And actually it's so crazy now that I'm

1232
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 4: getting back into it, because it feels like I was.

1233
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:35,160
Speaker 5: Like, oh my god, that was a whole lifetime of.

1234
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 4: This thing until like it started to give me so

1235
00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:40,000
Speaker 4: much anxiety that I needed to take a break. And

1236
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:42,680
Speaker 4: I think there's also that is like not being afraid

1237
00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 4: to take a break from something and thinking it's the

1238
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 4: end because you need to go focus on that late

1239
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 4: in life whatever, you know what I mean, like being

1240
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 4: able to also dissect that idea as well, because some

1241
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 4: of that is being fear of quitting your job and

1242
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 4: switching careers. Some of that is like, oh, I'm actually

1243
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 4: in the art and I'm doing things, but I actually

1244
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:03,520
Speaker 4: don't want to do this anymore.

1245
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 2: Well I'm successful at it, like why would I stop?

1246
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 2: Or you know what, it's just also starting something at

1247
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:14,280
Speaker 2: the beginning, it can be overwhelmed, it could be intimidating.

1248
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:17,960
Speaker 2: And because we do have this idea socially that at

1249
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 2: a certain age you have to be an expert. But

1250
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:21,760
Speaker 2: guess what, you don't have to be an expert at

1251
01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:24,760
Speaker 2: anything as long as you genuinely enjoy it.

1252
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you become an expert because you're going

1253
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 4: to be actively doing it, because you're really going to

1254
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:34,920
Speaker 4: embody it at some point, even if at first you're

1255
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 4: just learning what it is, you know. So yeah, And

1256
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 4: I've been seeing other women kind of tap into that,

1257
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 4: Like I'm seeing some of the women that are in

1258
01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 4: my life and in my circle starting to.

1259
01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 2: Explore themselves in that way.

1260
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:50,920
Speaker 4: And I think that is also a telling sign of

1261
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 4: like a woman that women that have agreed to.

1262
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:56,920
Speaker 5: Have chosen to heal and know themselves.

1263
01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 4: You start to be able to give yourself permission to

1264
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:02,840
Speaker 4: even con that, you know, like sometimes the block is so.

1265
01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:06,080
Speaker 5: Deep you can't even consider you want to be what

1266
01:01:06,240 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 5: you want to sing? Bitch, what are you talking about?

1267
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:11,200
Speaker 2: Well, the mind is such a like like the mind,

1268
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 2: like the the the energetic weight we give other people's

1269
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:19,320
Speaker 2: opinions that actually, like it's an illusion, No it doesn't matter,

1270
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:23,200
Speaker 2: but like the opinions of others is such a heavy

1271
01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:28,600
Speaker 2: energetic weight sometimes that it literally paralyzes us from the

1272
01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 2: expansion that is sometimes necessary to like tap into the

1273
01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:35,560
Speaker 2: get to the next realm, the next level. Yeah. No,

1274
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:37,400
Speaker 2: I was the other day.

1275
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 4: So my partner, he sings, and he's been like wanting

1276
01:01:41,440 --> 01:01:43,960
Speaker 4: to me to sing on songs with him, and you know,

1277
01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:46,280
Speaker 4: I love singing, but I don't know.

1278
01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 2: Like again, I was like, that's done.

1279
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 4: I actively told myself I'm cool, Like I love music,

1280
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:53,959
Speaker 4: you know, I have really great taste in music. Sound

1281
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:58,360
Speaker 4: is really important to me. But I'm not that anymore.

1282
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 4: And so he was like asked me to sing. We did,

1283
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:02,160
Speaker 4: and then he was like giving me notes that I

1284
01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 4: can feel myself like the critique like wanting to paralyze

1285
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 4: me and even like like.

1286
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:07,240
Speaker 2: To say not even do it.

1287
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:11,320
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, And I was like, huh breathe.

1288
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:12,760
Speaker 2: Like why a you're taking it this, Like why a

1289
01:02:12,800 --> 01:02:13,720
Speaker 2: you're taking it personally.

1290
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:17,280
Speaker 4: It's not that like having to walk myself through and

1291
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 4: experience like that, especially like this person loves me, like

1292
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Speaker 4: he's only he wants to be here.

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Speaker 2: But observing that your initial reaction to those, like to

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Speaker 2: certain words, even though you get, you had that, you

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Speaker 2: had that moment where you get you get to choose

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Speaker 2: if it means this or.

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Speaker 4: That, but taking that pause and then but also because

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Speaker 4: I'm so connected to my body, I can feel how

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Speaker 4: my body like what it started to do.

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Speaker 5: And I was like, damn, Whereas before I wouldn't even

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Speaker 5: feel it. I wouldn't even know it was happening.

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Speaker 2: I would literally just flee right Like I feel my

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Speaker 2: body going into flight mode. You can identify it, and

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Speaker 2: you can you can reverse I can reverse it, like

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Speaker 2: I can really truly do that. Yeah, re read redirect

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Speaker 2: the energy and say, hey, this is not real. Your

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01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 2: mind just told you that. Let's redirect it here and

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Speaker 2: let it. That's a really good friend. It was cool. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and I'm still working through it and I'm going to

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Speaker 2: keep doing it because it was fun and I found

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Speaker 2: it good being good, good.

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Speaker 5: Hello after you.

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Speaker 2: Took the notes willingly so funny it's true, but like

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Speaker 2: you know that that's that's the perka being later on

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Speaker 2: in life and being aware and intentional. It's like, am

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Speaker 2: I staying in the same programming or am I taking

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Speaker 2: the time to observe how I feel and like why

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Speaker 2: I feel that way and how I'm showing up and

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Speaker 2: then like once I figure that out, do I continue

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Speaker 2: because it's comfortable, or do I then do this thing

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Speaker 2: that's like I'm resisting from because I'm so used to

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Speaker 2: doing this. That's how I protect myself.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 4: It was even more like it's an added layer and

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Speaker 4: it was probably the thing that kept me going was

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Speaker 4: Irie like she came she's I realized she was witnessing me.

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Speaker 4: She was there, she was in the house, and then

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Speaker 4: she came in, was like, what are you doing? And

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Speaker 4: she's like I want to hear and you know, it's

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Speaker 4: like she's witnessing me do something she's never seen me do,

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Speaker 4: and like she's never she's heard of that.

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Speaker 2: But you get to make an example exactly, and if

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Speaker 2: you flee, she'll when she something comes up for her.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why I was like, Okay, no, this is

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Speaker 4: this is actually even more important right now, it's not

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Speaker 4: even about me.

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Speaker 2: Yes it is, and it's all going to be good.

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01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:39,040
Speaker 2: Only good is going to come from this if I

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01:04:39,080 --> 01:04:39,520
Speaker 2: say yes.

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Speaker 4: So you know it's yeah, it was interesting, it's interesting,

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01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:45,720
Speaker 4: and that's also I'm like, okay, so then.

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Speaker 2: I have now I have to commit and how you

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01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:48,920
Speaker 2: grow out of it too? Because even Luna was talking

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01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:51,080
Speaker 2: she wants to like do Broadway. She's obsessed with Hamilton.

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01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:52,920
Speaker 2: And we went to Ashley's and we were they were like,

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01:04:52,920 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 2: we were waiting for you, for you guys to do karaoke,

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01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 2: and I was like she called me. I was like,

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01:04:56,640 --> 01:04:58,000
Speaker 2: you called me about carry because she's like, yeah, you

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01:04:58,080 --> 01:04:59,920
Speaker 2: guys hear it. So I turned out was like Luna,

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01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 2: what are you going to do it? I'm like, do

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01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:02,600
Speaker 2: something for a Hambleton. She's like, no, I'm not going

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01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 2: to do it. And I was like, how are you

1354
01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:05,960
Speaker 2: going to do Broadway if you won't do the thing,

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01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 2: And she's like and I was like, listen, you know

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Speaker 2: it's like me and Erica we do shows. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm scared every single time. I'm nervous. I was like,

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01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:16,360
Speaker 2: but then I just have to do it. And I

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01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:17,600
Speaker 2: was like there comes au point you're gonna have to

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Speaker 2: just do it. And she's just like I can see

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01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:21,080
Speaker 2: it all in her head, like she's heady because at

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Speaker 2: home with us singing, dancing like vibrant, and I'm like,

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01:05:24,760 --> 01:05:27,960
Speaker 2: it's so interesting, you know, And it's like, truly we're

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Speaker 2: just child versions of ourselves, because truly, I'm so nervous

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Speaker 2: when we do shows, Like I'm telling Eric, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm so nervous, like shaking, you know, fifth time we

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01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 2: did it that week, you know, but still it's like

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Speaker 2: something you may not ever get over the nerves. But

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Speaker 2: it's like, but are you going to be the bit

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01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:46,320
Speaker 2: she says, fuck it and I do it anyway? Are

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Speaker 2: you going to be let it like debilitate you to

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Speaker 2: not move? And then you have regrets? Yeah, I feel

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Speaker 2: like I've done both. As a kid, I've frozen.

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Speaker 4: As an adult, I've put through, I've pushed through, but

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Speaker 4: felt frozen.

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01:06:04,480 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 2: The whole time and knew it was horrible.

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Speaker 4: Have you ever known that you never had that feeling

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01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:13,720
Speaker 4: where you're like, this is going bad, but you're not

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01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:18,920
Speaker 4: going well at all, And then it's yeah, and then

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01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:21,280
Speaker 4: maybe you've even fleeed, you know, you like try to

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01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:24,720
Speaker 4: forget about that ever happening, and just like keeping and

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01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:27,400
Speaker 4: putting it away and drawer at the bottom.

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Speaker 2: Feelings are so much got I'm so sometimes I'm over them,

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01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:33,720
Speaker 2: but I know that's no way to get over them.

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01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:36,400
Speaker 2: You gotta go in them. Yeah, I gotta run in

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01:06:38,680 --> 01:06:42,720
Speaker 2: that shit is. That's the journey. That's what else are

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01:06:42,760 --> 01:06:44,280
Speaker 2: we supposed to be doing here? We'd be bored as

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01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:48,840
Speaker 2: hell doing everything was safe. If our nervous system was regulated,

1389
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:51,800
Speaker 2: we'd be fucked. If I don't, there'd be no drama.

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01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:55,200
Speaker 2: There'd be no drama, there'd be no love stories. What

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01:06:55,280 --> 01:07:00,400
Speaker 2: would be doing We'll be watching Day Along and ship right,

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01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 2: you're right. The whole life is all about learning to

1393
01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 2: understand your nervous system and learning to regulate it very much.

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01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 2: But there's always going to be predator. There's always going

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01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:15,280
Speaker 2: to be the good, the bad, the duality of both. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, that's for another episode.

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Speaker 4: I have a whole episode, because, bitch, we were talking

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01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 4: about the ancestors and the oh my god, the drama

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01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:27,800
Speaker 4: of the ancestors, and like, how there's duality up there

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Speaker 4: in that space, that there's duality in every is that

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01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 4: the heaven realm. It's like in between, like because you're

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01:07:34,240 --> 01:07:38,560
Speaker 4: an ancestor not, you're not necessarily like a fucking like

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01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:41,800
Speaker 4: a master teacher. You're just up there hoping that you're

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01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 4: hoping that your descendants are feeding you like they're thirsty

1405
01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 4: up there too. There's like probably a graveyard of ancestors

1406
01:07:48,680 --> 01:07:52,400
Speaker 4: just underfed, and shit, no one's saying hi, giving offering anything.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, anyway, that's that's a whole other conversation, but

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Speaker 2: yes it is. Join me on an episode of Erica's

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01:07:59,640 --> 01:08:09,280
Speaker 2: Deep High Thoughts, the drama Ancestors. There's a hotel novella

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01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 2: happening up there anyway.

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Speaker 5: Well, this is Smaniel affirmation affirmation.

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Speaker 2: There was one I had with.

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01:08:22,240 --> 01:08:24,720
Speaker 5: No new friends, just the ones that accept you.

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01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:28,000
Speaker 2: No new friends, just the ones I.

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Speaker 1: Think, like you.

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01:08:30,160 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 2: Just want to think, just think just like you. I'm

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Speaker 2: so high. I think it's affirmation time. You guys were high.

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Speaker 2: Today's affirmation is the only fucks I have to give

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01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 2: are the ones that serve my mind, body and soul.

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01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:55,000
Speaker 2: The only fucks I have to give are the ones

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01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:59,360
Speaker 2: that serve my mind, body and soul and soul. And

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Speaker 2: so tray, Thank you, guys, for joining us today. It

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Speaker 2: has been another pleasure, another pleasure. My Stepdaddy's weed got

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Speaker 2: us a little toasted. It's gonna be a little slow,

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01:09:15,040 --> 01:09:18,000
Speaker 2: made me feel slow. Damn God, damn, thank you.

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Speaker 5: Pick more from the garden.

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