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Speaker 1: Hey guys, and welcome back to another week of Gia diaries.

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Speaker 1: Someone hit my car and I don't know who it was,

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Speaker 1: but I was basically on my way to Pilate's this morning,

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Speaker 1: and basically every time I would break, like stopping at

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Speaker 1: a red light anything like that, the parking detector like censor,

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Speaker 1: you know when you get too close to a car

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Speaker 1: and your car starts beeping or if you're going to

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Speaker 1: hit something would constantly be going off and I was

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Speaker 1: nowhere near anybody, so and it was going off on

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Speaker 1: the left side of my car, like the left corner,

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Speaker 1: like by my bumper, like by my headlight, and I

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Speaker 1: was like what It was pissing me off so bad

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Speaker 1: because I just kept hearing beeping noises every time I

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Speaker 1: hit my brake. So then I was at the post

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Speaker 1: office and I was like, wait, let me go check

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Speaker 1: my car.

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Speaker 2: Somebody hit my car. No idea when this happened.

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Speaker 1: Because today it was the first day that I drove

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Speaker 1: my car. I was an LBI over the weekend. I

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Speaker 1: didn't get into an accident. Somebody must have hit it,

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Speaker 1: I guess last week. So there's no way of me

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Speaker 1: really going to a store or anything like that and

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Speaker 1: asking for the camera footage. I'm just I don't even

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Speaker 1: remember what I did last week. So yeah, somebody hit

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Speaker 1: my car. It's really really, really annoying and selfish. Somebody

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Speaker 1: should have called me or done something, left a courtesy

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Speaker 1: note or like name a number something, because now I'm

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Speaker 1: paying for my car.

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Speaker 2: And I've never done that.

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Speaker 1: I've gotten into like a little fender bender, but like,

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Speaker 1: did it properly and stopped, called the police, went through

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Speaker 1: insurance like normal protocol. But I mean, knock on wood,

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Speaker 1: I've never gotten into a serious accident before, and I've

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Speaker 1: only ever gotten into a little fender bender one and

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Speaker 1: the person was with me on the scene, so it

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Speaker 1: was a lot easier to take control of the situation

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Speaker 1: and know what happened. So I honestly feel like maybe

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Speaker 1: I was in a parking spot and somebody backed up

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Speaker 1: into my car, or maybe was pulling into a spot

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Speaker 1: and kind of swiped it. Because it's not a big dent.

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Speaker 1: I don't really even think it's dented at all, but

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Speaker 1: they definitely hit a censor on my car, which is

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Speaker 1: why that noise keeps going off. So yeah, now I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna have to fix the car and it's just like, honestly,

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Speaker 1: so good, annoying and rude. So whoever hit my car,

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Speaker 1: I'm really really mad at you. This weekend, I went

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Speaker 1: to Long Beach Island. My friend's family rents a house

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Speaker 1: every year for the week, and I was so happy

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Speaker 1: to go down there.

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Speaker 2: I grew up going to LBI.

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Speaker 1: My family had a shorehouse there from when I was

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Speaker 1: three years old up until eighth grade, and then my

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Speaker 1: mom down there for us when I was a freshman.

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Speaker 2: Then, you know, as I.

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Speaker 1: Started going through high school, everyone was always down in

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Speaker 1: the Lava at Ortley area, which then made us start

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Speaker 1: renting in Lava La and Ortly and now I rent

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Speaker 1: with my friends in the Manusquan Belmar area. But I

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Speaker 1: grew up going down to LBI. It is so beautiful

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Speaker 1: down there. The downside is it is a pretty far

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Speaker 1: drive from my house at home. It is double the

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Speaker 1: time to get to LBI than it is to get

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Speaker 1: to the Manusquan Belmar area, So if you're in traffic,

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Speaker 1: just a lot of driving.

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Speaker 2: But I love LBI. It's just such a beach town.

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Speaker 2: It's so cute.

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Speaker 1: The beaches are gorgeous and the houses are incredible. Everywhere

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Speaker 1: you look, the houses are beautiful.

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Speaker 2: They have their.

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Speaker 1: Famous spots like Skipper Dipper, the ice cream place, the

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Speaker 1: Sea which is a hotel, but they have a pool

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Speaker 1: and beach bar that is connected to the beach, so

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Speaker 1: we would go there all the time. When I was younger,

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Speaker 1: they have Fantasy Island and it's nothing like the Seaside Boardwalk.

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Speaker 1: It is kind of mainly for younger kids. So that's

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Speaker 1: why I loved growing up in LBI, because it's such

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Speaker 1: a family town and it's a really really cute spot

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Speaker 1: to bring your kids. So the rides are all like

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Speaker 1: baby rides, and they have Bay Village which is filled

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Speaker 1: And then when I was younger, they had this place

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Speaker 1: called Ketch, which was the best teen club ever.

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Speaker 2: We would take the LBI shuttle up.

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Speaker 1: And down the island and we would go to Ketch,

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Speaker 1: and I mean, ultimately it was a makeout fest, but

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Speaker 1: ca which. Ever, now they turned Ketch into Burd and Betties,

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Speaker 1: which is a twenty one and older bar, and we

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Speaker 1: actually ended up not going to Burden Betties that night

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Speaker 1: because we went to Daddio's, which is a hotel but

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Speaker 1: it has a rooftop and restaurant. We ended up going

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Speaker 1: to Daddio's and we just feasted. Me and my friend

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Speaker 1: sat there, ordered so much food, got so full, and

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Speaker 1: we were just like, now, let's go back to the house,

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Speaker 1: watch a movie, drink some wine. And that's exactly what

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Speaker 1: we did. So we just ate great food, hung out

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Speaker 1: and missed out on Burd and Betties, and Kevin Jonas

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Speaker 1: ended up coming to Burd and Betties that night that

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Speaker 1: we decided to go home be fat asses and not

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Speaker 1: go to Burd and Betties.

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Speaker 2: So my friends were so upset.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't that upset because I did just see the

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Speaker 1: Jonah's brothers at MetLife, so that kind of helped a

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Speaker 1: little bit. But yeah, of course the one night we

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Speaker 1: decided to be fat asses and just pick out and

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Speaker 1: But yeah, we went to the local, which was this

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Speaker 1: really cute coffee shop and had really good breakfast sandwiches

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Speaker 1: and pastries and it almost was like a Italian market,

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Speaker 1: like they had Rainbow cookies can only cookies. It was

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Speaker 2: Super cute. They had live music. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: LBI is just such a good vibe. Since I've been

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Speaker 1: down there, it pretty much has the same staple restaurants

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Speaker 1: and places. I think they put up a couple new

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Speaker 1: hotels like Hotel LBI and Redid the Ron John, But

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Speaker 1: it was just so nice to be.

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Speaker 2: Back down there. It really is so beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Next summer, I definitely want to just do a weekend

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Speaker 1: I really do love it down there.

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Speaker 2: It's so nice, so peaceful. So today, this.

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Speaker 1: Morning, Gabriella left for college. She's going into her junior

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Speaker 1: year at the University of Michigan. She's absolutely killing it

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Speaker 1: and I couldn't be more proud of her. She's living

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Speaker 1: so it's definitely a step up from living in the

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys, remember, but when I

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Speaker 1: don't know for whoever was in a sorority, A lot

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Speaker 1: that the sororities were doing, other sorority events, other events

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Speaker 1: old or anything like that. So freshman year, Gabriella grinded

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Speaker 1: so hard for these points that she got her own

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Speaker 1: was all she wanted because this one room there was

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Speaker 1: a million bunk beds, dressers everywhere, and I'm sure it

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Speaker 1: was so fun, but Gabriella has severe OCD does not

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Speaker 1: So the fact that Gabriella made it through the freshman

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Speaker 1: Gabriella would have to, you know, fix her roommate's bed

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Speaker 1: to make sure they were perfect. Like she's just so

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Speaker 1: cute but so particular about things. Definitely a little OCD

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Speaker 1: And that is why she grinded for those points her

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Speaker 1: Her sophomore year, she did that, she achieved it. Loved

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Speaker 2: There's just like.

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Speaker 1: Little things that Gabriella would never allow, like in her room.

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Speaker 1: So for example, you have to take off your shoes

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Speaker 1: So if Gabriella lived in the bunk bedroom in her

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Speaker 1: Everyone had to take their shoes off before entering her

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Speaker 1: freshman year dorm. Like I just it wouldn't have worked.

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Speaker 1: So this is why she grinded. She hustled for those

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Speaker 1: sorority points. And I will talk more about this on

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Speaker 1: my new podcast with Daisy Kent and Jen Fessler called

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Speaker 1: Dirty Rush because rush.

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Speaker 2: Is hot and heavy right now.

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Speaker 1: A lot of colleges are going through their rush process

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Speaker 1: right now. We have been seeing all of the tea

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Speaker 1: on TikTok. But yeah, so I'm super happy for her.

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Speaker 1: I cannot wait for her to crush her junior year.

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Speaker 1: And she's turning twenty one this year. Gabriella turns twenty

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Speaker 1: one in October, so she really wants me to go

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Speaker 1: visit her for her twenty first.

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Speaker 2: She loves her apartment building.

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Speaker 1: She has a little coffee shop, some conference rooms that

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Speaker 2: She left early this.

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Speaker 1: Morning and now she is in full organizing mode, unpacking

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Speaker 1: and move out process by herself. Milania needs a little

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Speaker 1: So my mom is leaving with Milania to move her

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Speaker 1: in at Tampa, so that.

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Speaker 2: Will definitely be sad.

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Speaker 1: The dynamic is just so different. Gabriella and I spent

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Speaker 1: a lot of time together this summer. Her and I

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Speaker 1: are super close, and Milania just keeps the house lively,

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Speaker 1: just keeps the house active. So with both of them gone,

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Speaker 1: it is always sad. And now it's just me and Audriana.

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely gonna have to help Milania. I know that

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Speaker 1: for a fact. When she was leaving last year, I

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Speaker 1: helped her pack her entire room, go through her entire closet, and.

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Speaker 2: She said that she packed apparently one suitcase.

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Speaker 1: Already, So I know I am going to be on

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Speaker 1: Malania duty before she leaves. But it, honestly, I love it.

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Speaker 1: It gives us the time to just kind of spend

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Speaker 1: time with each other and turn off anything else and

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Speaker 1: just you know, sit and chat. So I take.

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Speaker 2: Advantage of all of it.

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Speaker 1: There has been a lot of articles about Bella Thorne

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Speaker 1: she shouldn't even have to respond to the fans criticism

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Speaker 1: because honestly, I don't think it's strange. I don't think

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Speaker 2: And it was also different. A lot of people don't

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Speaker 2: She said to all the critics.

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Speaker 1: The comments on my post are hilarious, totally split down

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Speaker 2: Other half is like, yeah, girl power.

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Speaker 1: This is the sweetest I would say, I think now,

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Speaker 2: I don't know my for you page has been flooded with.

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Speaker 1: This how men in twenty twenty five are like the

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Speaker 1: I've been seeing that all over my for you page

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Speaker 2: What's happening right now, and men fix that.

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Speaker 1: Fix that be a gentleman, learn how to treat your

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Speaker 2: What Bella did?

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Speaker 1: I feel like that was really just showing her love

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Speaker 2: And our men need love too.

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Speaker 1: Like sometimes I'll complain about things to Christian and He'll

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Speaker 2: Because.

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Speaker 1: I always do that for Christian, especially around Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: Every single one of them.

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Speaker 1: Day, I went to Buildebert and I built him a

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Speaker 2: Happy Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: So no matter what, I always give him something on

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Speaker 2: Okay, and that is it.

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Speaker 1: For this week of Gea Diaries. I'll see you guys

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Speaker 1: next week. Love you guys.

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Speaker 2: Bye,