1 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: Take a deep breath in through your nose. Holds it now, 2 00:00:37,360 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: release slowly again deep in, helle hold release, repeating internally 3 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: to yourself as you connect to my voice. I am 4 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 1: deeply deep Well. I am deeply well. I am deeply 5 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: I'm Debbie Brown and this is the Deeply Well Podcast. 6 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 1: Welcome to Deeply Well, a soft place to land on 7 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: your journey. A podcast for those that are curious, creative, 8 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: and ready to expand in higher consciousness and self care. 9 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: This is where we heal, this is where transcend. I'm 10 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: Debbie Brown. Welcome back to the show. Allmoth long, we 11 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 1: have been exploring a lot around regulation, supporting your needs 12 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: and being able to really see what is your energy 13 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,519 Speaker 1: and what is someone else's. We've been diving into rituals 14 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: and practices. We've had some special conversations with beautiful guests 15 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: like my friends David Elliott and Vish Chatterjy. And now 16 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: it is time to think ahead. So we're gearing up 17 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: to hop into this new year twenty twenty five. Right, 18 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: And I saw this meme that really made me laugh, 19 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: and I'm going to like butcher it a little bit, 20 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:43,839 Speaker 1: but it was so funny. It said I guess y'all 21 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 1: have learned your lesson. I haven't heard nobody talking about 22 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: twenty twenty five is my year. When I read that, 23 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 1: I started dying laughing. You know. It's like I think back, 24 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 1: I remember when twenty twenty launched, right, and just like 25 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: twenty twenty is kind of iconic numbering, but it was 26 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: before the pandemic was announced, and I remember everybody was 27 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: like twenty twenty vision, you know, like this my year, 28 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: And I think like the meme of the time was 29 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: like the illustrated girl walking up steps with like all 30 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: these bags on her shoulders and stepping on boxes that 31 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: had little names, and you know, it's watching kind of 32 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 1: the settling in over the last few years, I think 33 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: has actually been really beautiful because sometimes we can put 34 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: really performative expectations on this container of right now, this 35 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: bridge to the unknown, this bridge to the future, and 36 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: so it's really interesting to even be in this space now, 37 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: I think for so many and to see that meme, 38 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 1: and it's really not about you predicting wild success or 39 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: wild change in circumstance, right, It's not about out kind 40 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: of having to bump yourself up for how much bigger 41 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: you can be, or how much different it can be. 42 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:12,839 Speaker 1: I've never really personally connected with that. I think I'm 43 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 1: just I'm That's not my style of communication anyway about things, 44 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: But especially at the time of the new year. You know, 45 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: this idea of like this my year, watch what happens. 46 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 1: You know, it's like, it's sweet. I like the motivation 47 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: of that, But at the same time, I've always felt 48 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: that there was something that rang a little hollow about it, 49 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: and there was something that felt almost like it created 50 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: a limit, like it had so much expectation to it 51 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 1: that it also provided some level of limitation because there 52 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: wasn't space for God, there wasn't space even for maybe 53 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: the unknown or the unrealized. And so that's just something 54 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 1: I was thinking about as I saw that meme that 55 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: you know, that's funny. That is actually quite beautiful to me, 56 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 1: to create space for what you don't know. And that's 57 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 1: the piece that a lot of people I observe miss 58 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: on the journey, right there is this idea that you're 59 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: going to go on a journey with yourself, and you 60 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,479 Speaker 1: also already see the end result and the kind of 61 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 1: person it's going to make you. And sometimes visualizations can 62 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 1: be really powerful for that, Like, if you've had a 63 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 1: lot of pain, you can sit in a visualization and 64 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: say like I am imagining and I'm summing forward this 65 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:40,919 Speaker 1: person this feeling of having a different experience. But sometimes 66 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: we use that kind of futuristic vision to actually be 67 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 1: a tool of avoidance than a tool of restriction. It 68 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: gets us out of the present, it gets us out 69 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 1: of the work, and it turns it a little bit 70 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 1: more into performance. Right, But when we're doing work or 71 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: when we are creating our dreams, we also want to 72 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: be in our bodies as that's happening. Like, that's what 73 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: makes it real, That's what makes it your human lived experience. 74 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 1: That's what gives it deeper meaning. Right, it becomes those 75 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: core memories, this testimonies, those lessons that embodied wisdom. And 76 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 1: so when we're thinking about this new year, I really 77 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 1: want to call forward in general, before the new year 78 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: even gets here, an opportunity to maybe look at it 79 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: in a couple of different ways how you may want 80 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: to go about walking into this next year. For those 81 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: that are connected to human design too, I am a 82 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 1: non specific manifestor so my design under that system means 83 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 1: that I do a lot better to not ask for 84 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: specific things. I know sometimes on vision boards it's like 85 00:06:55,400 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: be a specific blue car, this exact amount of money, right, 86 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: red stress, this man, that girl, this job, that title 87 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: a lot of times, and that may be your style. 88 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 1: Depending on your human design, you may be a specific 89 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 1: manifestor I don't know, but I do find that that 90 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: level of specificity leaves God out and it leaves the 91 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 1: room for miraculous energy completely out of things right, because 92 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 1: it's still such a level of control that is one 93 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: hundred percent wrapped around your understanding of yourself in this 94 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 1: exact moment, your ego in this exact moment, your wants 95 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 1: and needs and desires in this exact specific moment. And 96 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: so if you are on a journey right, or if 97 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: you are calling forward a life that you just don't 98 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: know really well yet that you're kind of desiring and 99 00:07:57,040 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 1: needing and wanting to feel, I found that it can 100 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: actually be a lot more helpful and supportive to create 101 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: some space around what these goals and desires are. So 102 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: that's something that is even bigger or even more special 103 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 1: or more uniquely fit to you can appear if it's 104 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: supposed to. So for this year, as we get ready 105 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: to move into twenty twenty five. I want to consider 106 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 1: walking into the new year without a lot of projections, 107 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 1: without a lot of specificity, and without a lot of expectation. 108 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,199 Speaker 1: And what if we walk into this new year and 109 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: we actually choose to lean into our own unique intuition, 110 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 1: the whispers that we feel, the seeds that have been planted, 111 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:58,839 Speaker 1: the little pings that we're getting here and there about things, 112 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: And let's lean in to the mightiness of God. What 113 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: can God do in your life this year that you 114 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 1: couldn't even conceive to put on a vision board? Where 115 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: can you bring yourself this year? If you choose to 116 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:25,840 Speaker 1: detach and let go from all this planning and expectation 117 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: and follow the whispers, follow the symbols, follow the signs. 118 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 1: I know something that's been coming up for you. I 119 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 1: know things have been coming to you, especially in the 120 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: last few months. We've had so many astrological transits. There 121 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 1: are so many things brewing, so much is coming. But 122 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 1: if we stay so tight and so rigid to maybe 123 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: dreams that are outdated, people that are outdated, are we 124 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: really mean ourselves? The opportunity to transform, to be in purpose, 125 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 1: to have more, to be more deeply. Well, take a 126 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: second here, I invite you to gently close your eyes 127 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 1: as long as you are not driving, take a deep breath. 128 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: I want less to ask ourselves a couple questions before 129 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 1: we get a little more deeply into this deep breath in, 130 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:04,839 Speaker 1: before I get into some of the work of this episode, 131 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 1: let's just tap into those four soul questions that you 132 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 1: may have heard me share before. It's one of my 133 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: favorite meditations. And as I ask each question, you can listen. 134 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 1: You can ask yourself internally, but don't rush to fill 135 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 1: with an answer. Who am I? Who am I? Who 136 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 1: am I? What do I really want? What do I 137 00:11:55,240 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: really want? What am I grateful for? What am I 138 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: grateful for? How can I serve? How can I serve? 139 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:47,959 Speaker 1: All right, let's cleanse the palette now. I want to 140 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 1: bring forward five different ways that you can really interact 141 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 1: and co create with your new year energy. Ritualizing reflection 142 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 1: is my first thought on this. If you haven't already 143 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 1: done this, or if you have, do a refresh, because 144 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 1: the top of the year is a great time for 145 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: a refresh for this. But create a sacred space, create 146 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: a space that you were going to spend time in 147 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 1: all year long in some kind of a way, or 148 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: it can be an altar for your year. Light a candle, 149 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: set an intention, spend some dedicated time recapitulating or reviewing 150 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 1: your year before the new year begins. Great time to 151 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: do this is in a couple of weeks before the 152 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 1: new year starts, even a few days before the new 153 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 1: year starts. But try to get ahead of it so 154 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 1: you can have a little more time for creation and 155 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: really give yourself an opportunity to release any and all 156 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:52,680 Speaker 1: that happened and was experienced this year. But really review 157 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 1: your year just for the information of it. Take stock 158 00:13:57,160 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 1: what happened, How much time for grief did you have? 159 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 1: How much time for joy did you have? What did 160 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 1: community look like for you? Was this a building year? 161 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 1: Was this a harvesting year? Was this a rest here? 162 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: Was this an ide eating year? Just notice what did 163 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 1: it represent for you? What did you find? Was maybe 164 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: one of the bigger themes of what this year was 165 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 1: identify the theme, get it down on paper, notice it, 166 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: save this knowing and understanding for yourself and instead of 167 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 1: only listing maybe goals and looking from it from this 168 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: standpoint of like what did you hit? What did you 169 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: do it? Ask yourself, what did I learn? What was 170 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: a lesson this year? Macro and micro ask yourself, how 171 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: did I grow? Spiritually? Write it down, notice it or 172 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 1: record it into your phone for yourself. Transcribe it, keep it, 173 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: listen back to it in the future. How did I 174 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 1: grow emotionally? How did I grow mentally? Creating time for 175 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 1: reflection really transforms the way you relate to your life, 176 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 1: the way you relate to the experiences that have happened, 177 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 1: the way you relate to your memories. It gives the 178 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: space for the integration of what has transpired, and it 179 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 1: gives the space for it to be moved into the 180 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: wisdom of how you live your life. It gives you 181 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 1: the clarity to move forward with purpose, and it gives 182 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: you the beautiful release. Second on the list of how 183 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 1: to move into this next year with your intuition and 184 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: God as the guide, embrace spiritual surrender. What if you 185 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 1: allowed yourself to dream big, but to gently release the 186 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 1: details of it and leave it one hundred percent in 187 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 1: God's hands. It doesn't mean that you stop moving, doesn't 188 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 1: mean that you stop intending, doesn't mean that you stop working. 189 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 1: You're just holding your intentions lightly without too much put 190 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 1: in to what the result is going to be. And 191 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 1: sometimes and in some ways that we're moving through life, 192 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: it can be very important and very powerful to have 193 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 1: set goals that you were going after and that you 194 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 1: were checking off. For everyone that's listening, that really may 195 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 1: not be the intended nor necessary path for this year. 196 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 1: Notice for yourself what it represents and move accordingly. Is 197 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: this a goals year or is this a year that 198 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 1: there can be some space for new creations to emerge. 199 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:19,640 Speaker 1: There can be space for faith, there can be space 200 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:29,160 Speaker 1: for trust. You'll know what the answer is for yourself. Pray, meditate, 201 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:35,919 Speaker 1: or simply affirm I trust that what is meant for 202 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: me will not miss me. What is meant for me 203 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 1: is headed straight to me with urgency and ease. Surrendering 204 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: yourself in this way freeze you from the pressure of 205 00:17:57,000 --> 00:18:02,919 Speaker 1: having to control every single outcome, which you can't do anyways, 206 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 1: and it opens the door for some divine surprises. Third 207 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:18,159 Speaker 1: step surrendering your twenty twenty five to your intuition and 208 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:27,120 Speaker 1: to God, committing to the consistent inner work next year 209 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:36,119 Speaker 1: than your flames, turn on your inner oven, turn on 210 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:42,679 Speaker 1: that inner fire, grow for yourself, create for yourself a 211 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:47,119 Speaker 1: soulful routine. What that can look like is daily prayer, 212 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 1: daily journaling, mindful movement. What you're hearing and what I'm 213 00:18:52,240 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 1: saying is devote to your daily practice. And devote to 214 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 1: your daily practice. How can you meet your own needs 215 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 1: at the deepest level? Find practices that keep you spiritually 216 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 1: aligned and connected to your higher purpose. This consistent care 217 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 1: that you do for yourself, I just cannot overstate it 218 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 1: is what this show is about. I talk about it 219 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: twenty four seven, I talk about it on this show 220 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: twenty four to seven. But this is what sustains you, 221 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: right like having a practice like this that is really 222 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: deeply connected to your soul and is in service to 223 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 1: your mind and to your body and to your heart. 224 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 1: This is what builds your endurance for your purpose. This 225 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 1: is what sustains you through the times that are assured 226 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: to come that are challenging. We are always dancing between 227 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 1: grief and joy, and the practice this is what allows 228 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 1: you to move through either end of that extreme with grace, 229 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:16,719 Speaker 1: with ease, with joy, with purpose, with usefulness, with wisdom. 230 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 1: Fourth on the list, surrounding yourself with inspired community. Now 231 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: this is a big one. The last few years, we 232 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 1: have been diving into the individualistic journey. Right. We've been 233 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,199 Speaker 1: doing our individual work, which has been so important and 234 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 1: it has to be done. But when you do it, 235 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 1: then it's time to open back up to community. Right. 236 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 1: It's that closing of the circle. It's the completion. It 237 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 1: is the hero's journey from Joseph Campbell, or it's like 238 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 1: in The Alchemist where you slay your dragons. You have 239 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 1: your adventure, you have your experiences, and then you return 240 00:20:56,000 --> 00:21:00,639 Speaker 1: home to share them with your community, to bring them back, 241 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 1: to bring the learning back, to bring the knowledge back, 242 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: to bring the love back, to help everyone create something new. 243 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:11,479 Speaker 1: And that's what it really feels like we are ready 244 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:14,360 Speaker 1: for for those that have been doing the work right now, 245 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:17,879 Speaker 1: it's time to have the elevated community. So if you 246 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 1: want to carry divine purpose into the new year, intentionally 247 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 1: connect with communities, with mentors, with friends who share your 248 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 1: spiritual values and uplift your spirit. It's not about more, 249 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:37,120 Speaker 1: and it's not necessarily about new though sometimes it is. 250 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: It's really about the depth. Can you go deeper? Can 251 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:49,920 Speaker 1: you be deeper with those you're in community with, Can 252 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 1: the quality of the experience between you and what you share, 253 00:21:55,400 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 1: be higher, be in the presence of those who also 254 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:12,120 Speaker 1: embrace surrender and trust and can spark greater devotion and 255 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:16,880 Speaker 1: faith within you. That is really important. That is really important. 256 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:21,439 Speaker 1: You cannot be the most hopeful, optimistic person in your 257 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 1: friend group. Something is wrong. If that's the case, you're 258 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 1: a martyr. If that's the case, there's something way too 259 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 1: self righteous about it. If that's the case, that's not 260 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 1: what God's intended path is. It's not for you to 261 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 1: be the one of one of you in your space 262 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:42,879 Speaker 1: to the point where it's to your detriment being around 263 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 1: others that feel that way, that grow that way, that 264 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:50,160 Speaker 1: move that way. That is what community is. That is 265 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,359 Speaker 1: the path. You can dip your toe back onto the 266 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 1: other side. Right. You can do your good works with 267 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 1: people you care about, but when it comes to community, 268 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 1: it has to be it has to be mutually sustaining 269 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:11,159 Speaker 1: for all parties. And my final point for this episode 270 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:16,400 Speaker 1: and for this exercise is engage in heart centered service. 271 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 1: If the things that you are working on and the 272 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:22,199 Speaker 1: things that you are creating only benefit you, it is 273 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 1: too small. You must be a tree that bears fruit. 274 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 1: The things that you are creating should not be for 275 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 1: your own self aggrandizing. It should not be to fill 276 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:44,159 Speaker 1: that void of validation that you're craving. It should be 277 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 1: for the greater good of all. It should be for humanity. 278 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:54,160 Speaker 1: It should serve you, and it should be birthed from 279 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,920 Speaker 1: your creativity and your vision. And it should be beneficial 280 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:01,880 Speaker 1: to you as well. You deserve that. But if it's 281 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:07,119 Speaker 1: just for you, start over. Look again, If it's just 282 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 1: for you, there's some work to do. There's another way 283 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 1: that you can feel whole and loved inside the work 284 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,719 Speaker 1: of your life is for all, or it's too small. 285 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:20,920 Speaker 1: So think about that. Moving in to this new year 286 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty five, we are surrendering to our own 287 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 1: intuition and to God. That's it. That's it. Let's see 288 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:39,119 Speaker 1: what comes. You might be someone you never dreamed of. 289 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:44,800 Speaker 1: You might have experiences, You might have a purpose you 290 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 1: could never really think of yourself, because you created the 291 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: space to bring it in. You created the space for 292 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: something new, for something else. Be with that, sit in that. 293 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 1: So I'm going to go through those again, briefly ritualizing 294 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 1: your reflection number one, number two, embracing spiritual surrender Number three, 295 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 1: Committing to consistent inner work, number four surrounding yourself with 296 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:24,640 Speaker 1: inspired community, and number five engaging in heart centered service. 297 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 1: Take a deep breath here, let's let that settle in. 298 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 1: Here's an affirmation that I'd love to gift you and 299 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:55,439 Speaker 1: invite you to try on for yourself. I trust in 300 00:25:55,480 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: the Divine plan for my life. I am prepared, open 301 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 1: and ready to receive an affirmation for twenty twenty five. 302 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 1: I trust in the divine plan for my life. I 303 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 1: am prepared, open and ready to receive. I trust in 304 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 1: the Divine plan for my life. I am prepared, ready 305 00:26:40,520 --> 00:27:07,639 Speaker 1: and open to receive. Oh. I love that. That felt 306 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 1: so good. Dive into some of those, spend some time 307 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 1: with some of those, especially before this year. Get started 308 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,960 Speaker 1: something that we discuss last episode, which I just want 309 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,919 Speaker 1: to bring back up for review and invite you to 310 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 1: do if you haven't cleansed your spaces. One of my 311 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,679 Speaker 1: favorite things to do, especially before I head out to 312 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:29,360 Speaker 1: my sacred, sacred, sacred New Year in Mexico, to go 313 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 1: see my whales that y'all know about. I talk about 314 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,640 Speaker 1: them every year. You'll be in a whale episode soon. 315 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 1: I hope I get to see them this year. That 316 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 1: is my desire but something that I love to do 317 00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: this time of year is to just energetically cleanse. I 318 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 1: am given myself all the scalp treatments, gosh, shine my 319 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 1: whole body all the time, just letting myself detox. I'm 320 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:55,680 Speaker 1: giving myself lymph massage to continue to let my body detox. 321 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,360 Speaker 1: I typically like to eat a lot lighter this time 322 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 1: of the year, which is so counter intuitive because the sweets, 323 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:06,879 Speaker 1: My God, just everywhere is pie, like everywhere is something 324 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 1: so delicious filled with gluten. But I try to eat lighter. 325 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 1: I try to drink more water, drink more juice to 326 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 1: kind of counteract some of the other things that can 327 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,440 Speaker 1: feel destabilizing at this time of year. Right, we went 328 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:24,360 Speaker 1: over this last episode, the people, the amount of stimulation, 329 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,159 Speaker 1: the trauma, the memories, all of the things that happen, 330 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:35,160 Speaker 1: the expectations, also the fun. But it's a lot energetically physically, mind, body, 331 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 1: and soul. So I try to do a lot to 332 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 1: meet that need. As you're working through these exercises and 333 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 1: being with some of this curriculum, I want you to 334 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 1: think of it in that as well. Continue to support 335 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 1: this space that you're creating by also cleansing your energy, sage, incense, burns, 336 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 1: some smoke, some fire, pello, Santo capaul. Whatever is your pleasure, 337 00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:00,240 Speaker 1: whatever scent brings you to life and makes you feel 338 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,719 Speaker 1: good and more whole, Light it up, cleanse your energy, 339 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 1: light a fire, if you can, open your windows, if 340 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 1: you can Sometimes right, it might be snowing where you are, 341 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 1: But whatever's possible. Do what's possible. Cleanse your home, declutter, 342 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 1: clear out some space before the top of the new year. 343 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 1: Do the organizing that you wanted to do. Do the gifting, 344 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 1: do the good willhul do whatever you need to both 345 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 1: energetically physically. Make space. You're making space in the physical world. 346 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 1: Make space in your heart. You're making space in your heart. 347 00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 1: Make space in your mind. You're making space in your mind. 348 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 1: Make space in your body. You're making space in your body, 349 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 1: make space at your home. It all feeds itself, right, 350 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 1: All these different chambers always lead back to the whole picture. 351 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: So consider the facets, consider all the ways that you're 352 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: going to show up in those ways. Thank you so 353 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 1: much for joining this episode. I cannot wait to see 354 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:14,280 Speaker 1: you in the new year. 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