1
00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,960
Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if

2
00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,360
Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,

3
00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:09,920
Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEARVFM dot com and

4
00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:11,680
Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter.

5
00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:15,040
Speaker 2: We could be reading your letter live on the air.

6
00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:17,040
Speaker 1: Just like we're going to read this one right here,

7
00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,720
Speaker 1: right now, and you never know, it could be yours.

8
00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:22,280
Speaker 3: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on type

9
00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:24,720
Speaker 3: guide it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter.

10
00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:28,760
Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject. If I don't do it, he

11
00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:33,479
Speaker 1: will leave me. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm twenty nine and

12
00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:36,840
Speaker 1: my husband is thirty, and we got married four months ago.

13
00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:39,640
Speaker 1: Our wedding was won for the books, and he was

14
00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,360
Speaker 1: perfect until two months ago when he tried to have

15
00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:46,920
Speaker 1: sex with me three times in one day. After he proposed,

16
00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:51,120
Speaker 1: I spoiled him more and we started having sex once

17
00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:53,840
Speaker 1: a day. That was great, and we learned a lot

18
00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:57,080
Speaker 1: about each other sexually, but I was terrified because we

19
00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:00,120
Speaker 1: are not ready to be parents yet. After the wed

20
00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:04,800
Speaker 1: he expected sex morning and night daily. I tried to

21
00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:08,679
Speaker 1: keep up, but I had anxiety and anxiety over not

22
00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:13,280
Speaker 1: being on any birth control and his refusal to use protection.

23
00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:15,920
Speaker 1: He said he didn't care about having a house full

24
00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:17,840
Speaker 1: of kids, but there's no way we can have a

25
00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:21,440
Speaker 1: baby with our current finance, with our current salaries. Things

26
00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:24,440
Speaker 1: got so bad that he started taking my clothes off

27
00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,200
Speaker 1: as soon as I got in from work. I'm worried

28
00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:30,840
Speaker 1: about getting pregnant, so I cannot concentrate what's going on.

29
00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:31,720
Speaker 2: What's going on.

30
00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:36,000
Speaker 1: Luckily for me and my sanity, our lease was up,

31
00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,280
Speaker 1: so I have been staying with my mother for the

32
00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:41,040
Speaker 1: past two weeks and he's been staying with his mom.

33
00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:44,279
Speaker 1: My mom lectured me about not staying with my husband

34
00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,240
Speaker 1: for two weeks, but I told her I need a break.

35
00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:49,880
Speaker 1: She has always advised me to give it up when

36
00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:53,920
Speaker 1: he wants it and wherever he wants it. She said

37
00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:57,520
Speaker 1: that's how she was married for twenty nine years. I

38
00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:00,800
Speaker 1: decided to tell my husband exactly how how I'm feeling.

39
00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:04,360
Speaker 1: His response was just like my mom's. He said that

40
00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:08,359
Speaker 1: as his wife, I'm supposed to please him, and if

41
00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,919
Speaker 1: I don't enjoy sex like he does, then we don't

42
00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,840
Speaker 1: need to stay married. I don't like how he said

43
00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:17,320
Speaker 1: that to me, but I get it. I'm willing to

44
00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:20,280
Speaker 1: compromise with him. But if I fall short on the

45
00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,160
Speaker 1: amount of sex he gets, will he cheat? Am I

46
00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:24,760
Speaker 1: a newlywed fool?

47
00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:26,000
Speaker 3: Wow?

48
00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:26,440
Speaker 2: Wow?

49
00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:30,760
Speaker 1: I don't think you're a newlywed fool, but you are

50
00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:34,760
Speaker 1: a newlywed and there are adjustments to be made. You, guys,

51
00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:38,440
Speaker 1: have only been married four months, and you know, you

52
00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,960
Speaker 1: got to kind of learn each other. And by the way,

53
00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,960
Speaker 1: you are his wife and not his properties, not just

54
00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:48,360
Speaker 1: what he says goes. You have a say in this

55
00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:50,600
Speaker 1: marriage and the sex and all of that, just like

56
00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:54,639
Speaker 1: he does. But instead you're running from him because he

57
00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:57,360
Speaker 1: wants sex three times a day or at least morning

58
00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,560
Speaker 1: and night, and you're not always with that your body

59
00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,120
Speaker 1: and he does not own you just because you're married

60
00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,800
Speaker 1: to him. You are right to be concerned about getting

61
00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:09,360
Speaker 1: pregnant if you're not ready, and especially if you, guys,

62
00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:14,000
Speaker 1: can't afford it. Your husband is controlling in this situation.

63
00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:18,400
Speaker 1: He's not considering you or your feelings and why you

64
00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:20,880
Speaker 1: feel the way you do. But here is the question,

65
00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:25,520
Speaker 1: is the only reason you're running from his constant sexual demands?

66
00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:28,200
Speaker 1: Is it because you're not on birth control and he

67
00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:32,640
Speaker 1: won't help by using protection himself. Now, that's where a

68
00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,280
Speaker 1: compromise comes in. You gotta work. You guys got to

69
00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:38,360
Speaker 1: try and work these things out. Why should the birth

70
00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:41,520
Speaker 1: control be just on you? He could wear condoms. I

71
00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,480
Speaker 1: know he said he wasn't, but he should. If you

72
00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:47,280
Speaker 1: guys aren't ready to get pregnant yet, you guys are

73
00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,800
Speaker 1: newly ways. I would hate to see you break up

74
00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:53,400
Speaker 1: over this sex thing. I really would, because he wants

75
00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,960
Speaker 1: more than you do. So I think you should please

76
00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,400
Speaker 1: leave your mom's house so you and your husband can

77
00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,720
Speaker 1: have a serious talk about this of your four year,

78
00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,520
Speaker 1: four month marriage. It's just not looking good right now,

79
00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,520
Speaker 1: this whole marriage between you guys, it's not looking good. Steve.

80
00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:11,560
Speaker 4: The subject is if I don't do it, he will

81
00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,960
Speaker 4: leave me. My answer to this letter is he gone.

82
00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:18,360
Speaker 4: It's hard to pick which bump to talk to you about.

83
00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,839
Speaker 4: But the bump you don't want to discuss is having

84
00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:25,840
Speaker 4: a baby. Was a bump up in sex. See hear

85
00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:29,080
Speaker 4: what happened? They had a wedding, she twenty nine. He

86
00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,280
Speaker 4: thought they had a wedding. That was one for the books,

87
00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:38,920
Speaker 4: she said, But sting started after two months ago. Now

88
00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:42,800
Speaker 4: what happened was see after he proposed she said, I

89
00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:47,400
Speaker 4: spoiled him more, and we started having sex once a day. See,

90
00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:53,080
Speaker 4: once she got the ring and a commitment, she said.

91
00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:55,080
Speaker 3: Let me lock it in.

92
00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:57,840
Speaker 4: By spoiling him more.

93
00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:01,240
Speaker 3: All right, so spall game went in.

94
00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:08,560
Speaker 4: Now they getting married, he's expecting that same spailing to continue.

95
00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:11,240
Speaker 4: As a matter of fact, he picking up the pace.

96
00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:16,280
Speaker 4: He wanted morning, night, afternoon.

97
00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:18,479
Speaker 3: Now.

98
00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:20,640
Speaker 4: And she said that was great because they learned a

99
00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,440
Speaker 4: lot about each other sexually and everything.

100
00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:28,599
Speaker 3: But after the wedding he wanted it daily. She said.

101
00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:30,720
Speaker 3: I tried to keep up, but I.

102
00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:34,600
Speaker 4: Had anxiety over not being on birth control and his

103
00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:37,839
Speaker 4: refusal to use protection. I don't even know how this

104
00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:42,800
Speaker 4: how we have in this discussion after the marriage, all

105
00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:46,600
Speaker 4: this birth control and protection, all that should have been covered.

106
00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:50,280
Speaker 4: If y'all having sex once a day, y'all ain't had

107
00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:55,640
Speaker 4: this conversation nowhere, and then you not on birth control,

108
00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,679
Speaker 4: and then he won't use a condom.

109
00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,520
Speaker 3: I thought, excuse me, was after you married?

110
00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:09,479
Speaker 4: I thought, most married people I know have unprotected sex.

111
00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:11,640
Speaker 3: That's most people I know.

112
00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,440
Speaker 4: But due to birth control, somebody's got to practice some

113
00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:16,800
Speaker 4: type of birth control measures.

114
00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:17,040
Speaker 1: Right?

115
00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:19,440
Speaker 3: Should it always be on the woman? Absolutely?

116
00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:22,599
Speaker 4: Not so it should be on him, but he don't

117
00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:26,440
Speaker 4: want to wear that and not Now y'all got a problem.

118
00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,000
Speaker 4: But he told you I don't care about having a

119
00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:29,960
Speaker 4: house full of kids.

120
00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:31,640
Speaker 3: Everybody say that to Hassei.

121
00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,080
Speaker 2: Hang on, hang on, yeah, Hodie, till you.

122
00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:37,240
Speaker 3: Get a house full of kids.

123
00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:38,800
Speaker 2: I'm killing right.

124
00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,960
Speaker 1: Well that part two of Steve's response coming up on

125
00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:45,000
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter at twenty three minutes after the hour.

126
00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:48,160
Speaker 1: The subject is if I don't do it, he will

127
00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:54,800
Speaker 1: leave me. We'll get back into it right after this. Hi,

128
00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:57,200
Speaker 1: this is Shirley Strawberry. And I don't know if you

129
00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,559
Speaker 1: know this, but I love my job. I love working

130
00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,440
Speaker 1: with Steve, Eve, and Tommy and Junior and Carla and

131
00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:06,240
Speaker 1: Monica and Dave. Of course I love all those guys.

132
00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:08,360
Speaker 1: We have a great time at work every day. Well,

133
00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,360
Speaker 1: if you're a business owner and you want to hire

134
00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,680
Speaker 1: experienced employees who love what they do too, where do

135
00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,400
Speaker 1: you find them? Could be a question you had. Well,

136
00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:20,560
Speaker 1: Zip recruiter is the answer. Ziprecruiters technology shows your job

137
00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:25,360
Speaker 1: to qualified candidates immediately, and ZipRecruiter smart technology finds top

138
00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:29,120
Speaker 1: talent fast. Go to ZipRecruiter dot com, slash Strawberry to

139
00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:33,000
Speaker 1: try it for free that ZipRecruiter dot com slash Strawberry.

140
00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,760
Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

141
00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:39,160
Speaker 2: The subject is if I don't do it, he will

142
00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:39,600
Speaker 2: leave me.

143
00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,360
Speaker 4: This letter is just about a woman and a man

144
00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,080
Speaker 4: that's married. She's twenty nine thirty and they have a

145
00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,160
Speaker 4: difference of opinion on how much sex to have. After

146
00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,400
Speaker 4: the man proposed to her, she picked a pace up

147
00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:53,200
Speaker 4: and they was having sex daily after they got married.

148
00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:56,440
Speaker 4: He wanted morning and night. She's having anxiety and he's

149
00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,920
Speaker 4: saving some anxiety over it because she don't want to

150
00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:01,560
Speaker 4: get pregnant, and because cause of their salaries, she don't

151
00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:04,960
Speaker 4: think this is the right time. He done said just

152
00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,280
Speaker 4: to have sex, I don't care. We have a house

153
00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:12,880
Speaker 4: full of kids. Well, homie, that's a nice statement to make.

154
00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,720
Speaker 4: But he They even had a TV show that said

155
00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:23,239
Speaker 4: eight years enough. I have a saying if you got fold,

156
00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:26,680
Speaker 4: why would you want more? We could do that TV show.

157
00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:32,880
Speaker 4: Then there's a new series coming out called too It's Plenty,

158
00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,679
Speaker 4: And then there's the mega hit show that's coming out.

159
00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:39,000
Speaker 4: I don't want the ones I got, So you know,

160
00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:43,320
Speaker 4: it's a lot that can't go on in here. So

161
00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:48,240
Speaker 4: now she started having anxiety over this. But they don't

162
00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:50,000
Speaker 4: want to have babies now here the thing where it

163
00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:53,600
Speaker 4: took a turn. Things got so bad. He started taking

164
00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:57,520
Speaker 4: my clothes off as soon as I got in from work. Damn,

165
00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:02,400
Speaker 4: you can do that, get a break. I had to

166
00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:06,280
Speaker 4: read that line five or six times. Really, he started

167
00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:08,360
Speaker 4: taking my clothes offs soon as I got.

168
00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:11,960
Speaker 3: In from work. You can do that. You can go

169
00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:13,800
Speaker 3: over to your wife and just take her closer.

170
00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:18,200
Speaker 2: What he's too controlling.

171
00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:18,640
Speaker 3: Hold of damp.

172
00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,840
Speaker 4: You can just walk up to your wife and start

173
00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:24,319
Speaker 4: taking her clothes off.

174
00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,120
Speaker 2: I didn't even put her purse down yet.

175
00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:28,600
Speaker 3: What is mad jack?

176
00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:37,440
Speaker 4: It's every dude listening to this going what. Luckily for

177
00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:40,200
Speaker 4: me and my sanity, our least was up. So I've

178
00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,320
Speaker 4: been staying with my mama for the past two weeks,

179
00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:45,679
Speaker 4: and he been staying with his mom. My mom lectured

180
00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,199
Speaker 4: me about not staying with my husband for two weeks,

181
00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:53,480
Speaker 4: but I told her I need a break. She's always

182
00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:57,600
Speaker 4: advised me giving up whenever he wanted, wherever he wanted.

183
00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:01,640
Speaker 4: She said, that's how she married for twenty nine years.

184
00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:10,120
Speaker 3: Give it up whenever and wherever. He won't it. Where

185
00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:11,560
Speaker 3: is this marriage at?

186
00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:14,800
Speaker 4: You can take her clothes off soon as you come

187
00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:17,280
Speaker 4: through the door, and you can get it whenever and

188
00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:18,160
Speaker 4: wherever you want it.

189
00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:22,400
Speaker 3: Where is this marriage? I ain't get the memo.

190
00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:26,160
Speaker 2: What I'm sitting.

191
00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:31,760
Speaker 3: This letter is astonishing to me. Now here we go.

192
00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:37,120
Speaker 4: I decided tell my husband exactly how I'm feeling. So

193
00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:41,960
Speaker 4: his response was, just like your mama, He said that

194
00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:47,679
Speaker 4: as your his wife, I'm supposed to please him.

195
00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:51,520
Speaker 3: That's true, but he is supposed to please you too.

196
00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:56,439
Speaker 4: And if I don't enjoy sex like he does, we

197
00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:57,680
Speaker 4: don't need to stay married.

198
00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:00,040
Speaker 3: Woo after four.

199
00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:04,880
Speaker 4: Now, listen to me. This is the fork in the

200
00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:08,959
Speaker 4: road right here. This is what this letter is all about.

201
00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:14,480
Speaker 4: If you don't like sex the way I do, we

202
00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:19,120
Speaker 4: don't need to stay married. She said, I don't like

203
00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:21,760
Speaker 4: how he said it to me, So let me tell

204
00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:28,120
Speaker 4: you what he said. Hey, look here, you heard your mama.

205
00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:37,440
Speaker 4: Huh what your mama say? Whenever? Wherever? Now, take your

206
00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:43,360
Speaker 4: damn clothes off. See that's this ain't gonna work.

207
00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:45,360
Speaker 3: I don't care how he said it.

208
00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,880
Speaker 4: Now, she said, I don't like the way he said

209
00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:53,120
Speaker 4: it to me. I'm willing to compromise with him. So

210
00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:58,920
Speaker 4: what is the compromise he wanted? Whenever, wherever, morning and night,

211
00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:00,439
Speaker 4: that before you go to work, as soon as you

212
00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:02,240
Speaker 4: get off, because he started taking clothes off soon as

213
00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:05,560
Speaker 4: you get in now, So what is the compromise you

214
00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:09,120
Speaker 4: gonna make. I'm gonna give you some at night. We

215
00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:11,160
Speaker 4: can't do this in the morning because you're gonna mess

216
00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:14,439
Speaker 4: up my hair, and we're gonna do it at night

217
00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:17,000
Speaker 4: after dinner. Stop taking my clothes off soon as I

218
00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:18,920
Speaker 4: walk through the door. I'm just trying to figure out

219
00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:23,920
Speaker 4: the compromise, right, But if I fall short on their

220
00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:27,160
Speaker 4: amount of sex he gets, will he cheat?

221
00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:27,880
Speaker 3: I think so?

222
00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:30,320
Speaker 4: I would?

223
00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:34,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, he will he cheat?

224
00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:36,079
Speaker 4: Yeah, that is what he's gonna do. Because if I'm

225
00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:39,199
Speaker 4: him thinking like this, he got cheat rolled on the wall.

226
00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,800
Speaker 4: It ain't no way he wanted whenever how he take

227
00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:44,240
Speaker 4: your clothes off soon as you come in the world

228
00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:48,320
Speaker 4: kind I'm marry at y'all got and my newly weird food.

229
00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:48,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

230
00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:54,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, but he is too though. I think he's a lot.

231
00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:59,720
Speaker 4: I think he's over the top. I don't see how

232
00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:03,200
Speaker 4: this is gonna work, right, I don't know what your.

233
00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:04,439
Speaker 3: Compromise it's gonna be.

234
00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:07,440
Speaker 4: I'd love to know what it is, but right now,

235
00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:11,720
Speaker 4: in his mind, whatever, wherever you walk through the door,

236
00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:13,360
Speaker 4: take your damn.

237
00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:14,720
Speaker 2: Clothes off and drop them.

238
00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:15,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

239
00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:19,760
Speaker 4: Now, y'all money ain't right because y'all lease up and

240
00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:22,240
Speaker 4: you living with your mama and he living with his mama.

241
00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:27,199
Speaker 4: Y'all need a stronger base. Yeah, damn get an ABB

242
00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:29,720
Speaker 4: and B when the lease is up for somewhere.

243
00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:30,000
Speaker 3: Y'all.

244
00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:35,320
Speaker 1: Thank you. Leave your comments on Today's letter on Instagram

245
00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:39,200
Speaker 1: and Facebook, and at Steve harveyfm dot com. You can

246
00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:42,600
Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app.

247
00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,880
Speaker 1: Coming up next it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right

248
00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:49,400
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show