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Speaker 1: Welcome, Welcome to adulting. He made it across the burning Sands.

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Speaker 1: I'm Jordan Carlos, I'm here. That's always my co from

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Speaker 1: go Michelby to Hello Michelle. You look beauteous as always.

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Speaker 2: What is Casey Kaseum is going on? Is this bandstand

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Speaker 2: or is this.

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Speaker 3: Adulting American Bandstand? Yeah? Like I liked to I always

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Speaker 3: wanted to be that guy. I wanted to be that guy.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to be like you know, Meg Cow in

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Speaker 1: the morning or Casey Kaseum with a top forty countdown

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Speaker 1: and yes, and sometimes they bring a dollup and a

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Speaker 1: dab of that to our show.

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Speaker 3: Okay, And now Michael Bolton, now I.

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Speaker 2: Know why Jordan stopped drinking caffeine.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, Otis said fuck the other day.

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Speaker 2: What We're watching this movie Elemental, okay, and the little

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Speaker 2: fire girl goes what the and then Otis goes fuck

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Speaker 2: And I was like, what he just said fuck? I

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Speaker 2: was like, no, he didn't, and he goes, oh, it

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Speaker 2: is what you say. He goes fuck fuck and I

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Speaker 2: was like, oh, but the movie was so good. We're

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Speaker 2: like you shouldn't say it because it's a really He's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: and he was just watching the movie. And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I don't even know how to talk to a four

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Speaker 2: year old because their mind is everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're a little too cute to correct. Like, he

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Speaker 1: doesn't know what a bad word is yet. I mean,

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Speaker 1: my son, he'll remind me that I'm cursing in front

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Speaker 1: of him.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 1: He'll be like, Dad, you're using bad words. So I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 1: I won't do it, do you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that. He's a New York City kid.

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Speaker 1: He's bound to find these words out anyway. And if anything,

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Speaker 1: that story just tells me that the African American Diesperatic

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Speaker 1: Caribbean in him is strong. Because the column response was

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Speaker 1: right there, what the fuck?

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Speaker 3: He joined in? You know what I'm saying. The ancestors

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Speaker 3: were speaking out look.

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Speaker 4: Get with the rhythm the room. Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 2: The other day, Hazel's teacher told me that she called

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Speaker 2: him something mean, but you couldn't remember because we're also tired.

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Speaker 2: I was like, okay, and I asked her later and

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Speaker 2: she said a dummy head and I was like, oh, whoa.

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Speaker 2: His feelings were hurt and he was like yeah. She

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Speaker 2: was laughing like it was funny. And when she told me,

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Speaker 2: I was like, it's kind of funny because I'm a

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Speaker 2: stand up comedian, you know, And so how do I

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Speaker 4: You know, obviously yes, be nice, but like.

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Speaker 3: What did you tell her? What was the substance of

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Speaker 3: what you told her?

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Speaker 2: Sometimes we say things that hurt someone's feelings, and we

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Speaker 2: don't do that.

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Speaker 4: We don't hurt feelings. We lift people up.

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Speaker 2: Oh, if someone's being mean to you, then you can

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Speaker 2: tell them the fuck off. I mean, I'm trying, but

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be like, like, I'm not a

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Speaker 2: goop mom.

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Speaker 3: Right, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: But I want to ooh do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: How would you describe your m O, your motherhood MO?

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Speaker 3: In three words?

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Speaker 4: Three words? How fucking dare you? Those are?

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Speaker 3: Wait?

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Speaker 4: Three words? It's four words?

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Speaker 1: But like it's hard to know, it's hard to know

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Speaker 1: you're doing the right things. They're good kids. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: you know what it's.

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Speaker 4: Gonna compassion structure.

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Speaker 1: I oh my gosh, compassion structure joy the CSJ.

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Speaker 3: I love that. That's really good. Yeah, what about you?

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Speaker 3: Four words? More fun?

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Speaker 4: Why do you get four and I get three?

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Speaker 3: I just asked for them. It's it's we're just making it.

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Speaker 3: I can't do it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, fine, three words funner than mom, that's it.

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Speaker 3: Those are the three words.

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Speaker 2: If there was an air horn to blast in someone's

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Speaker 2: little ear pods right now, how fucking do it?

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Speaker 3: Michelle, you have no idea? On election day? Yeah, Challa

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Speaker 3: took over. It took over.

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Speaker 1: Jordan came alive, really jumped off the bench, like my

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Speaker 1: name was mj.

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Speaker 3: She was like, Jesus, take the wheels on Oprah. Yes.

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Speaker 2: So, typically in New York or I guess you're around

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Speaker 3: Can go vote. Right, yep, that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: They called voting poles is up, they're called right. And

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Speaker 2: so the kids are home and you decide to be

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Speaker 1: No, it's just that you could see the thousand yard

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Speaker 1: stairs from mom, you know, like you could see that

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Speaker 1: you could just it wasn't the it was the miles,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like moms are just so tired,

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Speaker 1: and like we have this really great kind of web

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Speaker 1: of like parents and like they call if they need

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Speaker 1: like a playdate, just some time off, but it was

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Speaker 1: like the lines were getting jammed. Do you see what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's like because everybody was off at the

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Speaker 1: same time. So I was like, let's just do this thing.

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Speaker 1: So we went to the city Butterflies Boom, butterflies. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Invisible World boom, Squid in the Whale boom. Then we

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Speaker 1: go across town Serendipity three boom hit them. Yeah, kids,

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Speaker 1: you want to go on the ski lift across the

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Speaker 1: Roosevelt on.

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Speaker 3: What is that? What's that? Get in the ski lift.

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Speaker 1: I got my kids and another kid, and we don't

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Speaker 1: come back till they ask for us.

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Speaker 3: Do you see what I'm saying. I love that.

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Speaker 4: I love that you make core memories.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, and it's really great that you step

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Speaker 2: in and make a great day.

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Speaker 3: We got to do it all the time as parents

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Speaker 3: for each other.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's all the time.

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Speaker 3: It's like, we got to do it all the time. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Man, at five pm, sometimes I get I feel a

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Speaker 2: little anxious because I'm like, there's so much more to

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Speaker 3: And you should you should be able to do that.

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Speaker 2: But I don't have time for that. I got to

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Speaker 2: make the dinner. He makes the dinner, and we like

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Speaker 2: hang out and then we eat the dinner, and then

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Speaker 2: we bathe and go to bed, and then you get

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Speaker 2: this like half hour to yourself. But it really isn't

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Speaker 2: to yourself, right, And then like for me, if I

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Speaker 2: have an event that night or a show, I do

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Speaker 2: and then I wake up in the morning.

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Speaker 4: You do the same thing.

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Speaker 2: So like, but I also, you know me, I'm a

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Speaker 2: big planner. That's why I'm just like, hey, y'all, what

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Speaker 2: you do in is date? We got have a party

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Speaker 2: because I like to also plan fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're a great host. That's where that's where you

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Speaker 1: shine and you love it. Yeah, but I wonder could

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Speaker 1: you ever and I know you do take naps for yourself,

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Speaker 1: but do you make a routine or a habit of

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Speaker 1: just like being like these thirty minutes no matter what

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Speaker 1: rain or shiner mine.

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Speaker 2: I mean when they're not home or like on the weekend. Yeah, right,

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Speaker 2: but like when they're back from school. No, it's hard. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I feel you. It's blood sport, Yeah it is. You

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Speaker 2: have the three or four hours before. Yeah, no, what

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Speaker 2: do you even mean?

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Speaker 3: Are they at least bringing their dish to the sink

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Speaker 3: at the end of dinner? No?

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Speaker 4: No, I try. I try. It's very hard. It's very hard.

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Speaker 2: At this point, it's more work for me to ask

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Speaker 2: them to take their dish to the sink.

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Speaker 3: Right, What a time to be alive.

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Speaker 4: What a boring fucking podcast.

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Speaker 3: It's not boring.

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Speaker 4: Shechelle is tied.

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Speaker 3: Michelle. This is this is real.

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Speaker 1: This is like what people want on No, they want

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Speaker 1: the bes oh please, they want the Butteau, oh please.

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Speaker 3: Behind the scenes. Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: Well I'm living. Well, here's what I will.

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Speaker 3: Say, get it out, get it out right.

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Speaker 4: Here's what I will.

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Speaker 2: Say at the end of the day when I sit

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Speaker 2: in my bed or I lay down in my bed

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Speaker 2: and I run it all back. I'm just like I

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Speaker 2: wouldn't have done it differently, Like I'd rather be tired

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Speaker 2: and present than like rested and missing stuff. Like I

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Speaker 2: take my spot days with my friends, I have my

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Speaker 2: little boozy brunches, and I have a really fun fucking job.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. But yeah, man, I feel I'm gonna be tired

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Speaker 5: either way.

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Speaker 2: So it's just like I'm also to be tired doing

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Speaker 2: something I love and be with someone I love, you

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, but ooh baby, it's the price.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I don't want to be like I don't wanna.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be that bitch that's always out

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Speaker 2: in public and just like I'm tired, you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean, Like, well what did you do?

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Speaker 4: There's always a competition.

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Speaker 2: I'm always just like winning because I'm better and I'm

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't want to be that bitch, right right?

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Speaker 3: I haven't slept in days, yeah, like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 2: But I also don't know how to be high with

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Speaker 2: my kids. Like I see some parents like and they

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Speaker 2: figured it out. I'm like, how are you use such

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Speaker 2: a good move? They're like shrooms and they have like

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Speaker 2: a little twinkle in their eye. I'm like, do you

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Speaker 2: just hug a tree with your kid? How did you

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Speaker 2: do that?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: My god?

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Speaker 2: Like, I'm just trying to fucking get a straight line

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Speaker 2: down my kid's head for pigtails.

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Speaker 3: But you become more like kid like when you get high.

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Speaker 1: You're fun already, but you get even more like childlike

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Speaker 1: and fun.

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Speaker 3: You do no, you do?

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Speaker 4: Oh? I do like one does or I do?

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Speaker 1: You know you do, Michelle Buteu. When you get nice,

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Speaker 1: you seem to.

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Speaker 4: Like, wait, like tipsy or high.

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Speaker 1: It's hard because they feel the same yeah with you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like and so I feel no.

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Speaker 4: When I'm high, is giving? Are we okay?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 4: Am I talking too much?

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Speaker 2: The last time I got high with you was in

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Speaker 2: Maine and we were at your friend's house that was

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Speaker 2: on the side of a mountain.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, we're all gonna roll down, and they.

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Speaker 2: Had a really sweet, huge German shepherd, yes, whose face

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Speaker 2: was just up in my children's face. I'm like, I'm cool, Bliss,

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Speaker 2: I'm cool, and it was a sweet dog.

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Speaker 1: Shout outs to Bliss. All right, So I understand. I

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Speaker 1: would just two point five milligrams THC. That's like taking

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they did do it because they didn't do anything

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Speaker 1: That's what they call the second shift. Like you're doing

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Speaker 2: Whatever you think that is. I understand all of that,

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Speaker 1: But there's this old picture of like a ballet dancer.

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Speaker 1: It's like I try to have these sweet moments.

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Speaker 2: I do feel, Yes, I do feel like a plus

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Speaker 4: Being busy is wild.

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Speaker 2: Being successful is different than being busy because you don't

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Speaker 2: and so sweet truly. I mean she gave us a job.

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Speaker 4: Yes she is.

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Speaker 2: She's the co host of my favorite murder. Yes, and

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Speaker 2: she's also the co owner of exactly Right Media exactly

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, don't at me.

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Speaker 3: We'll fix it in post.

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Speaker 2: And I'm so happy that she is available to sit

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Speaker 2: I'm really glad that she has just like found the

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Speaker 2: enjoy this episode of It's Adulting.

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Speaker 3: I was like, what's the name of the show is adult.

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Speaker 2: Please enjoy this episode with our guests.

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Speaker 1: Georgia heart start, Oh my god, put her on the

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Speaker 1: charging station.

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Speaker 3: Good lord, Oh.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god. It's so good to see you guys.

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Speaker 4: It's been so long.

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Speaker 2: I know, yeah, I don't even know when in person,

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Speaker 3: We were kids no children. We're different people.

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Speaker 4: I really was.

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Speaker 2: I believed in the elders that they would take care

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Speaker 3: Who Yeah, was that the journey?

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Speaker 4: Look, not to get into it. But here's the funk.

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Speaker 4: We are everyone.

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Speaker 2: I know, how many friends and or family members do

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Speaker 2: you think you have like stopped talking to AKA long

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Speaker 4: Unfortunately mine is like my mom and dad.

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Speaker 5: Oh so I'm not there yet to like totally cut off,

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Speaker 5: but I have worked very hard with boundaries, yes, how

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Speaker 5: to turn myself into a gray rock and not engage.

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Speaker 3: Wow, oh my god, gray rock, gray rock? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Do we call that the great shedding? Is that what

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Speaker 3: it is? People? The great shedding? That's wild.

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Speaker 1: I think it's like you almost quietly quit the people.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I'm such a like little nice guy

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Speaker 1: like Tim Robbins and Shawshank Redemption to get away from

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Speaker 3: But here we are, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember Jordan said something like years ago because like,

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Speaker 2: Jordan was like, friends are like garbage cans, Like you

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Speaker 3: They just roll around and roll back, or as some

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Speaker 2: And every time I take my trash shot, I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: wish friend, is this right?

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Speaker 5: Some have baggots in them and some need to be

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Speaker 3: And yeah, summer rubber maids.

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Speaker 1: Honestly you have to talk to the trash guy and

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Speaker 5: It right or something like your hook your neighbor was

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Speaker 5: steal so like you don't have to.

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Speaker 4: Deal with anymore.

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Speaker 3: Oh truly?

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Speaker 4: Yees, Oh my goodness. Yeah that's a good analogy.

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Speaker 2: I mean, come on, it's happening again. Yeah, with the

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Speaker 2: I don't I just how many waves of people in

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Ending Facebook has helped, Ending Facebook has I don't need

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Speaker 2: to know everyone's birthday?

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Speaker 4: What is this?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 3: What do I do to do your birthday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I honestly thought you were saying Facebook had ended.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what.

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Speaker 3: Ding dong?

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Speaker 1: The witches dead? Like, why are the munchkins not dancing?

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Speaker 1: I see what you're saying, getting off of social media

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I wish it was just my family that I could

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Speaker 5: what they're doing wrong. Yeah, but I can't do that

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Speaker 5: like on social media to strangers.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So it's hard, like almost like wish I.

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Speaker 5: Could keep Facebook, not really but that style and not

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how do you you maintain a healthy relationship with

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 3: I try.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I you know, everyone's like, don't read the comments. And

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Speaker 5: I don't know, like I got sick of sharing. It

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Speaker 4: It's like, why I just fucking enjoy yourself?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, because, I mean, we all work for Instagram.

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Speaker 1: I got my W two last year. I'm really excited

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Speaker 1: and just say, like Michelle Georgia, you're both like straight

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Speaker 4: Me, Yeah, I wasn't. I was in rehab.

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Speaker 3: You were not.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what would this double chin get out of here?

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Speaker 5: No, it's just I barely graduated high school and I

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Speaker 3: Oh that part okay? Cool? C coo coo cool? So

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Speaker 3: fuck me my theory.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, truly, I am a perfectionist though, You're right about that.

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Speaker 3: That's what I mean. That's what I mean.

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Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, what you're getting is instinct and truth.

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Speaker 2: That's what you're getting, and sometimes that's all you fucking

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Speaker 3: Right she did shed yeah wow.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So that's why, like when people are like, where are

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Speaker 2: It's fine exactly. I love that word.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

448
00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:44,000
Speaker 1: I feel the same way as long as my kids

449
00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,000
Speaker 1: either go to Smith or Brown, but go ahead.

450
00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:50,480
Speaker 5: But I am a perfectionist and I want to do

451
00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:52,439
Speaker 5: everything right. Like I saw me recently that was like

452
00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,280
Speaker 5: when I get to the TSA like line, I have

453
00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:56,760
Speaker 5: to be the best at it, and I want the

454
00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,080
Speaker 5: security guards to be like that girl is a legend.

455
00:18:59,160 --> 00:18:59,920
Speaker 4: She's so good.

456
00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,440
Speaker 5: Go Like, I want to do it all correctly and

457
00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:06,199
Speaker 5: best driving everything. So there is a part of me

458
00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:08,399
Speaker 5: that goes to social media like this has to be

459
00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:11,040
Speaker 5: the best post every da and it's exhausting.

460
00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:12,800
Speaker 3: I'm just so hung up on TSA.

461
00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:15,320
Speaker 1: But like, do you ever get a high five from

462
00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:17,960
Speaker 1: a TSA officer that's like you did that the best?

463
00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:19,520
Speaker 4: Is I should? I really should?

464
00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:20,720
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

465
00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:21,800
Speaker 4: You know that thing of like.

466
00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:24,080
Speaker 5: I'm doing it all right so I can complain about

467
00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,960
Speaker 5: other people. Well, you hope that people like will watch

468
00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,760
Speaker 5: you and be like, that's how it's done, right you.

469
00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,639
Speaker 1: Guys Like I raise my arms up and do that

470
00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:35,520
Speaker 1: little like whatever the diamond side to do the jay

471
00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:38,959
Speaker 1: Z sign above my head, perfect diamond and a smile,

472
00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:41,720
Speaker 1: and they're still like, we're gonna have to patch you down.

473
00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:43,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, but I did the diamond.

474
00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:46,000
Speaker 1: With a smile, you know, yeah, And it just hurts

475
00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,159
Speaker 1: my heart and I feel as though.

476
00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,080
Speaker 2: But don't you have metal in your body? Don't you

477
00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:53,120
Speaker 2: have like something like yeah, he's had like a back surgery.

478
00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:56,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, metal in my body.

479
00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. When I wear a bra with the wire, they're like,

480
00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:03,240
Speaker 2: call back up. I'm like, it's just double d's bitch.

481
00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:05,680
Speaker 2: The right one's bigger, if you must know, do you

482
00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:08,000
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Like, it's fucked up.

483
00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:08,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

484
00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:10,160
Speaker 2: The other day they had to check my daughter's hair

485
00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:13,400
Speaker 2: and I'm like, how fucking dare you what? I would

486
00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:15,280
Speaker 2: put drugs in my booty hole before I put it

487
00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:16,320
Speaker 2: in my little daughter's hair.

488
00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:17,280
Speaker 3: Fuck that noise?

489
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, she can't stay still anyways when I do her hair.

490
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 4: That's wild.

491
00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:23,879
Speaker 1: Sometimes there's like a family in front of me and

492
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:27,159
Speaker 1: if I'm flying solo. Then I'll just switch lines and

493
00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,560
Speaker 1: then like they'll look at me like, oh, you know

494
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,760
Speaker 1: the disrespect, you know. But I'm like, you've got a

495
00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,160
Speaker 1: three year old, you got a toddler? Yeah, and like

496
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:37,399
Speaker 1: leave me alone, like I have to do this, or

497
00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 1: when you're behind like old people like that's oh my gosh.

498
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,639
Speaker 2: Am I an angel because I sit and I watch

499
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:46,879
Speaker 2: and I wait for when they need help and I'm like,

500
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:47,480
Speaker 2: I got you.

501
00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:49,960
Speaker 4: What meds are you on? Because I need those?

502
00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:53,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm looking for some now I'm not on any

503
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,359
Speaker 2: Oh mine aren't working. I mean I straight up to

504
00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:59,520
Speaker 2: my job and I definitely have made my ass clench

505
00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:01,280
Speaker 2: so hard. I don't have an ass anymore. I should

506
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:03,960
Speaker 2: get a Brazilian butt lift at some point for Kwanta,

507
00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,119
Speaker 2: But you know, I'm gonna ride it out lol, and

508
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:11,639
Speaker 2: see if tired mom working booties are gonna come back,

509
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:15,760
Speaker 2: just like Crenoline, so you know we're bell bottoms.

510
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,680
Speaker 4: Everything finds its way back Krenaline. I love.

511
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 5: Yeah.

512
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:21,200
Speaker 2: I mean I try to be as patient as possible

513
00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 2: with people in the airport because I do realize this

514
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 2: is like a big undertaking for them. I know they

515
00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:28,960
Speaker 2: booked the trip they left their house. This isn't something

516
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:31,240
Speaker 2: they do often. Yeah, and so I just wait, watch

517
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,440
Speaker 2: and see. Because even my parents are really good travelers.

518
00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 2: They always like make jokes to my mom and my dad,

519
00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:38,440
Speaker 2: and I'm just like, if you would have believed in

520
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:42,920
Speaker 2: me the way Matthew Knowles believed in Beyonce and Solange, right,

521
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:45,359
Speaker 2: we could have been flying private. Bitch that part, No,

522
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 2: take your little with the pitic shoe off and put

523
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:48,080
Speaker 2: it in a fucking tray.

524
00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:50,600
Speaker 5: I don't think I could travel with children or my

525
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 5: parents like I would help people.

526
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:53,440
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

527
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

528
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 4: I don't want to seem like a total asshole.

529
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,119
Speaker 2: But no, that's okay. It is like an episode of

530
00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:00,800
Speaker 2: The Amazing Race with no fucking price. So that's why

531
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,320
Speaker 2: I'm just like, I can't read a map, my brain

532
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,000
Speaker 2: goes cuckoo, but I can travel with these dummies yea.

533
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 2: And also one time I travel with my friend's cat

534
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 2: because she has so many pets.

535
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 4: She went from New York.

536
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 2: To LA and her cat, Olivia Newton John, who gained

537
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 2: weight and didn't even fit in the bag. I was like,

538
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 2: I don't want a cat, shame, but you gain weight

539
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:21,959
Speaker 2: And we had a stuff from the bag. I was like,

540
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,639
Speaker 2: what in the Southwest is going on? This is not okay?

541
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 2: And I've never traveled with the cat before. They make

542
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,440
Speaker 2: you take it out, right, yeah?

543
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 5: How are there not more cats running around the airport?

544
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 2: Have you go into private room and then the cat

545
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 2: runs under like a fucking piece of equipment?

546
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 3: May yeah that was a cat.

547
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 1: I like the one where like the cat is like

548
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 1: stuck in a ball, like it's like this space ball

549
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 1: that they can look out.

550
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah yeah. Have you ever traveled that way

551
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 3: with your kiddie?

552
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 5: I No, I don't do I thankfully don't do that

553
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:58,119
Speaker 5: travel with the animals. But I can't imagine the cat

554
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 5: wants to see the outside world that much, right yeah, right,

555
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 5: Like the confusion of it seems a little intense, right right.

556
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 2: I have two questions you guys. Okay, have you guys

557
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,919
Speaker 2: met and or worked with a person who is not

558
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 2: necessarily at the top of their game but very talented,

559
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 2: like really talented, but just still so fucking miserable?

560
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 3: Oh my god?

561
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, why are you looking at me like that? Okay?

562
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 4: But I'm just I got way too personal.

563
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 2: But seriously, like I am starting to run into people

564
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 2: where I'm just like, is it trauma?

565
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 3: Yeah?

566
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:34,479
Speaker 4: What the fuck is it?

567
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:38,160
Speaker 2: Like I can understand someone who hasn't figured it out

568
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,600
Speaker 2: and they're like I know everything because they don't and

569
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 2: you figured them out, or like, you know, I don't

570
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,879
Speaker 2: know anything and I'm miserable because people have found me

571
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 2: out whatever it is. But like someone who's actually good

572
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 2: that brings the bad energy, I'm like, what where is

573
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 2: this coming from?

574
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 4: That's childhood trauma. I think that.

575
00:23:56,760 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 5: I think perfectionism is like a great way to be

576
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 5: miserable no matter what you achieve, you know, mm. I

577
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,879
Speaker 5: think that is a hard one to like get past.

578
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

579
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: I mean sometimes it's kind of like I understand it's

580
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 1: like it's so cautionary, but it's like I recently went

581
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:17,439
Speaker 1: to this like big old celebs apartment a flex a

582
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: Flex and it was Pinouts apartment and they were just like, yeah.

583
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 3: Man, I don't know, I don't know about stuff.

584
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, oh wow, you know, like that's

585
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 1: really cool. We're never gonna hang out, but this is

586
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: really cool. And to see this as like, dope, you

587
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: look remind me of Batman and I gotta go, you know,

588
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 1: Like it was like name names.

589
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 3: I can't do that.

590
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 4: They're not happy with what they had.

591
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: They were they were just they were not happy with

592
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 1: what they had and they wanted more. But this person

593
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,479
Speaker 1: is like so successful, so powerful in the game, and

594
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 1: they just still yeah, it's still not good enough. Like

595
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 1: I think my wildest dreams are their lowest expectations, and I'm.

596
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 5: Just like, this is crazy, Like I guess I don't

597
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 5: totally understand. And what's the word when you try really

598
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,360
Speaker 5: hard for things? You know, ambition? I don't get ambition,

599
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:10,400
Speaker 5: Like when people are super ambitious, and I'm like, don't

600
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:11,879
Speaker 5: you taking a nap?

601
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,159
Speaker 4: Like, have you heard of naps? Oh?

602
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 3: I love naps, you guys, now, I don't. I don't nap.

603
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:18,199
Speaker 4: I know I have to.

604
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,400
Speaker 3: What is so great about naps? You feel refreshed, don't

605
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 3: you answer?

606
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 4: Reset on your entire day? Yes, you feel refreshed. You

607
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 4: have the whole rest of the day to like it's

608
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 4: like having two days in one.

609
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 2: It is, And it's like it's the same thing as

610
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 2: like the way your first cup of coffee works for

611
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:38,919
Speaker 2: you. You're just like, let's go. That's what it just feels like,

612
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 2: like cold eye patches. You're just like mama runner.

613
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 1: That's so true, right, Okay, the napping order in my

614
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 1: house is like tied between my dog and my wife,

615
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,640
Speaker 1: and so like like who naps the longest?

616
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 3: She just wakes up.

617
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 1: It's oh no, She's like, I'm taking twenty minutes, I'm

618
00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 1: gonna go for a nap, Go ahead, comes down.

619
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 3: What the fuck is all this?

620
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: Is it?

621
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 4: Two hours later? Does she like?

622
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 3: No, she comes down twenty minutes later, maybe.

623
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 4: She meets two hours.

624
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, she can have them.

625
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 1: Let it go into a deep rim sleep, just like

626
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 1: let mama go.

627
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 3: You ever had those naps? Were just like I'm gonna

628
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 3: go all the way all night.

629
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you don't have to set an alarm nap.

630
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 4: That's amazing.

631
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh wow.

632
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 5: To me, that's my ambition is success to me means

633
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 5: I'm able to take a nap in the middle of

634
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:30,399
Speaker 5: the day. Like there was a long time in my

635
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 5: life that I couldn't. You know, I worked day jobs,

636
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,479
Speaker 5: so I could never do that. Yeah, I didn't think

637
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,639
Speaker 5: that would ever end. And so back then I'd be like,

638
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,199
Speaker 5: if I can take a nap every day, I'm successful.

639
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can full on take naps at the time.

640
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:43,880
Speaker 1: I've done that I've done it.

641
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, the naps and also having a car pick me up, oh.

642
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:50,640
Speaker 4: And go to like an event or to a show

643
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 4: or the airport.

644
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 3: Okay, that's a good nap.

645
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 4: That's a good nap.

646
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,199
Speaker 2: But that's also like a sign of success for me

647
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 2: where I'm just like I can take a nap in

648
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:57,840
Speaker 2: this car.

649
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 4: Yeah that's somebody else booked.

650
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 5: Totally a books car for you or a I'm getting

651
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 5: picked up. There will be no time in my life

652
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 5: we're seeing my name or my husband's name when we

653
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 5: walk off the airplane and someone's holding up a sign

654
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:13,919
Speaker 5: to be like here's your car, ma'am.

655
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, the best.

656
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 2: I almost want to take a picture every time, but

657
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm not going to me too, like pretend

658
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 2: you belong. And they're like what in the first rodeo

659
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 2: is going on? And I'm way too friendly to the drivers.

660
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, how is your weight?

661
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 3: Me too?

662
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 4: Do you don't have to carry my bag? I can

663
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 4: carry back. I know, stop being a hero. Here you go.

664
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 4: Did you wash your hands? Yuck? Yuck?

665
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 3: I know I do that all the time.

666
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, no, I'm from Brooklyn, so I take

667
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:42,439
Speaker 1: my own bags, you know.

668
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:49,360
Speaker 5: They're like, okay, oh no, you give them a dad joke. Okay, yeah, okay,

669
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, who's saved who? Ladies and gentlemen, non

670
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 5: binary royalty? Who's saved? Who?

671
00:27:59,480 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 4: Dad joke?

672
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 2: With the drivers. I have an uncle that's a driver,

673
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 2: and he lay la la dad jokes. He was driving

674
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 2: me years ago. Somebody jumped in front of like try

675
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 2: to make the light in New York and it was

676
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 2: a green light and he and he said, just like

677
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,440
Speaker 2: very gently out the window. He's like, you never see

678
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 2: a car in a hospital bed. And I was like, oh, okay,

679
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 2: I like that.

680
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

681
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 2: But he also said, like when I ordered her drinks, uh,

682
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 2: sex on the beach. She's like, you know what happens

683
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 2: when you have sex on the beach. I was like what, uncle, Oh,

684
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 2: like I.

685
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 4: Don't want to know. He's like, you get sand in

686
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 4: your ass.

687
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 2: I was like, I am leaving now, not just the restaurant,

688
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 2: the family, just the family.

689
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 5: The Facebook, the family Facebook. Yeah, I'll see you on

690
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 5: twenty three and me bye bye. What was your grandma's name?

691
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 5: I love grandma names. I do too, and this one's

692
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 5: a good one. Thelma, Grandma, Thelma.

693
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 3: Oh I know.

694
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 5: And Molly, Grandma Thelma and Molly like classic wish I

695
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 5: wanted kids because that would be their names. But yeah,

696
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 5: I mean my character, my grandma's name, which is Mavis.

697
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 2: Yes, I love it. She was my person. Yeah, but Thelma,

698
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 2: ooh baby Thelma.

699
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: My grandma's name was Eunice beautiful. Look, I mean that

700
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: is of a time.

701
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 4: That is vintage as a vintage blend. It is.

702
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 1: And my great grandmother's name was Elbetha whoa her sister,

703
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: her favorite sister's name was el Rethel. And my auntie's

704
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 1: name is sar Betha.

705
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 3: So you better write there.

706
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 4: What in the girl group that will never happen is

707
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 4: going on?

708
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,959
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, that is the SWV of the eighteen

709
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 2: hundred's was.

710
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 1: The Mississippi Delta was pumping out some names?

711
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 4: Truly?

712
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 2: Where is my tambourine bitch? I didn't know we were

713
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 2: going to church? Where is Viola Davis for the re books?

714
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 5: Have you ever met anyone with like in the wild

715
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 5: people with those names?

716
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 3: Hell? No, that was that was like color purple era names.

717
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 2: Look not unless I ran into somebody on rum Springer.

718
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, doesn't know, no, And no one's copied them since

719
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah, what say I am one of one?

720
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 4: Yes, I am the only one. I love it.

721
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 3: Those are those names and they are forever. We love them.

722
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 3: At some time it's beautiful.

723
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 2: Oh wow, what in the smucker's happy birthday is going on?

724
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: All?

725
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 3: Roka?

726
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 4: We need it?

727
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 3: Did I never told you that. I never told you that.

728
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Michelle, you.

729
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 2: Never told me. And this is the thing. I learned

730
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 2: something new every day. I was today, eight years old

731
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 2: when truths are coming out.

732
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 4: My dad's mom was a twin.

733
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 2: Wow, and they were named Cleo and Clearinore. And I'm like, huh,

734
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 2: how come no one took the time.

735
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 3: I love Cleo same, but what is the other one?

736
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 4: Clear Noor?

737
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 3: I've never heard that it's the same name.

738
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the longer of the he is the actual

739
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 2: version of the other thing.

740
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 3: People were wild back then.

741
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 4: They were.

742
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 2: It's like naming your twins Mish and Michelle. It's like,

743
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 2: did we not like?

744
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know.

745
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 2: It's probably really hard back in the day to be like,

746
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 2: oh my god, I didn't even know I was pregnant

747
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 2: with two.

748
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 4: Think of another one, So you didn't even like plan

749
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 4: on a name right away. No, I get.

750
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 5: It, but still Clara, Clara and Andy didn't have as

751
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 5: a boy or a girl, but I did.

752
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 2: I do love pet names because those are like real fun.

753
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 2: And I named my lab mastiff Lola Fallana because she's

754
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 2: a big, beautiful black bitch.

755
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 5: I named my most recent Moses. So that's where I'm

756
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 5: going with that.

757
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 3: Wow, what in.

758
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 4: The First Testament?

759
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 3: Genesis? Exodus?

760
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 4: Come on, Paltrow, let's go not religious.

761
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 5: I just like the name, and his name is now Mo,

762
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 5: so it's like not even that beautiful anymore.

763
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 4: Oh, it's great. Who doesn't love Moses?

764
00:31:58,760 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 3: Yeah?

765
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 4: Give it up for yeahweh.

766
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 2: We're doing it forty days, forty nights.

767
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

768
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: And if you have another cat, you can name them

769
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 1: like Ramgiliad or like Nebekinezer.

770
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:09,719
Speaker 3: Or something really deeply.

771
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 5: He could not wait. Yes, fucking say that. Someone finished college.

772
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 2: Unlike me, I adopted a boy and girl lab Pitmics

773
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 2: and named them Bobby and Whitney.

774
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 4: Oh that's all. That's sweet.

775
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 2: So this is the part of the show. Is this

776
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 2: the show? It's a podcast, but it's a podcast show?

777
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 3: Right?

778
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 4: Oh my god, are we recording?

779
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 3: The plane's going down? Don't worry, I got you.

780
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 4: Thank you.

781
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 2: Some days I do wake up and I do feel

782
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 2: like Denzel Washington at the end of every movie, I'm like,

783
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 2: can't I bring the train back on the tracks.

784
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 4: I gotta do it for my boy because he needs

785
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 4: a new heart.

786
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 3: You know what I mean? Is that chock you?

787
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 1: I don't know why were you watching jog all the

788
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: Didzell movies.

789
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 2: He's got to land the plane and go back to

790
00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 2: Rosario Dawson, who's his wife.

791
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 4: Now is the time, yes, to get brave and do

792
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 4: the thing.

793
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, get braved the thing.

794
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 4: Yeah. And then when I got really tired, I turned

795
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 4: to like Sam Jackson. I'm like what to say?

796
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 3: What? Because it's like, well, no one needs it, Okay,

797
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 3: let's go.

798
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 4: So we have fans, audience members.

799
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 2: They asked us questions about adulting, and we try to

800
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 2: answer them because we're.

801
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 5: Experts, experts, question mark adults, adults in some circles, adults

802
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 5: in tira bang.

803
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 4: It's five PM. Okay, we're done.

804
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 3: Do you want me to go first? Yeah, you have

805
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 3: the first question. Okay, So here goes.

806
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 1: So I am twenty eight and my mom got remarried,

807
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 1: happy for her double exclamation point, but she is asking

808
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 1: me to remove all of my belongings from her house.

809
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 1: I don't have space in my current living situation, but

810
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: I don't want to get rid of all my childhood memories. Oh,

811
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 1: how do I talk to my mom about this? I

812
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 1: understand she needs to make room for the new, but

813
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: I am hoping she can help me keep a little

814
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 1: bit of the old until I figure out my next steps.

815
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 5: Twenty eight huh wow, I wonder how much it really is.

816
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 5: Is it like hoarding situation or is it just like

817
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 5: it's like a box of my drawings mom?

818
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 4: You know?

819
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you want a little bit little flavor

820
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 1: of your children around. Yeah, and twenty eight is that's

821
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 1: really riding the line because it's getting Yeah, it is.

822
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,359
Speaker 4: It depends on what kind of twenty eight year old.

823
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I heard the question, But what I'm really feeling

824
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 2: is you're uncomfortable with the next phase of your mom's

825
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 2: life and being cut out. And I don't know how

826
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 2: old your mom is, but it also is time for

827
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 2: her to live her life. You know, I've always wanted

828
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 2: to be a mom, and now that I'm a mom,

829
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, holy shit, A lot of people should not

830
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,399
Speaker 2: be parents, Like, don't no one should be pressured into

831
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 2: being a parent because it.

832
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 4: Is so much it's so much.

833
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 5: Work, yeah, all the time, and like you just fight

834
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 5: to have your own thoughts in peace sometimes hence the

835
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 5: naps and so like it has been all about you

836
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 5: for a long time.

837
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:13,879
Speaker 2: Let this be all about her, right, And don't put

838
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,760
Speaker 2: some more shit on your mom. You're almost thirty. Figure

839
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 2: your shit out, get like a storage unit, right, sell

840
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 2: some of your shit. Have your mom have her space

841
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 2: back to make a new life, because you know what,

842
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 2: she ain't gonna be wet forever and she needs to

843
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 2: sit and spind all something while she's still camboboo.

844
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 4: That is a very good point.

845
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 5: It does feel like that this person's maybe a little

846
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 5: afraid that their mom is replacing them. Yes, yes, so

847
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 5: maybe the conversation is about that and not about your things,

848
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 5: because your things don't matter, like your pottery you maybe

849
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 5: in high school, like you can it's not that good

850
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 5: thrown out.

851
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:51,919
Speaker 4: Take a picture, thrown out, Take a picture and throwt out.

852
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, and now you can start a new tradition,

853
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 5: like your lunch can be your thing or you know,

854
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 5: the gifts you give each other. But it doesn't have

855
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 5: to be about replacing you. It can be exactly what

856
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 5: you said about moving on with her life.

857
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: But for me, the question that's not being answered is

858
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:08,240
Speaker 1: how evil is this new husband?

859
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 4: Right?

860
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 1: And are you stopping him, you know, from pulling off

861
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 1: his evil plan?

862
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 4: Okay, black Eyera Glass, let's go.

863
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 5: No.

864
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,919
Speaker 1: I just feel I just no one has asked the question. Yeah,

865
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: and I just feel like, you know, maybe this is

866
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 1: a good thing. Maybe you want to keep a recording

867
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,720
Speaker 1: device in the house.

868
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 4: Sure, shit, ask her? Has he broached the topic of

869
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:34,359
Speaker 4: life insurance one too many times with her?

870
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 3: Mm? Hm?

871
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 4: Oh shit?

872
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 2: Is this a lifetime movie? With Juda's like a shepherd?

873
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:40,800
Speaker 2: Is she like keeping Homer?

874
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 4: Does she need a camera in the living room to

875
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 4: see what's going on? Okay?

876
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 2: Like, the thing is too I hate to say it.

877
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 2: It's your mama's business, it ain't yours, right, Yeah, Like,

878
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 2: how many times have we told.

879
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 4: Our mom to butt out?

880
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:55,799
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean? So?

881
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 4: Like, but we're right, we're right though, you know what

882
00:36:59,200 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 4: I mean?

883
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 2: That's true, Like you had to figure it out, We

884
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 2: had to figure it out.

885
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 4: She got to figure it out. Yeah, truly, that's all

886
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 4: I'm saying.

887
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that sucks, especially if you're like super

888
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:11,440
Speaker 2: super close, but like bigger picture, it's tough.

889
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 5: Okay, wow, we really answered that. You guys, welcome to the.

890
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 2: View all the levels answer next question, Oh my god,

891
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:22,919
Speaker 2: this is like a mom. This is like a very

892
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:26,240
Speaker 2: mom heavy go for it. Okay, my single mom flirts

893
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 2: with my guy friends. How do I get her to stop?

894
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 2: It's so embarrassing.

895
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm just thinking about Amy Poehler in Oh

896
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 1: my God, what's that movie?

897
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 4: Oh and Mean Girls.

898
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:38,280
Speaker 3: Mean Girls.

899
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, she's like I'm cool.

900
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, I have the Cloe mop. I mean maybe she is.

901
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 5: Maybe she's the hot mom and the friends are like, cool, great,

902
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 5: we love it, you know what I mean.

903
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, that can be embarrassing so many ways. I mean

904
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 1: I didn't suffer from that, but I do remember the

905
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: really the hot mom, and it was just like.

906
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 3: I'm missus Turkles.

907
00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 1: You're just like, you know, you're just one of these

908
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 1: feelings in my bood.

909
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:03,880
Speaker 4: Like that is how there he is?

910
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 3: You know what.

911
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 4: I will never be the hot mom.

912
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 2: I'll be the mom that teaches you how to use

913
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 2: the tampon or a cup or whatever the fuck we're using.

914
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but yeah, it.

915
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 1: Was Texas in the early eighties, like the hair, yeah,

916
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 1: like Dallas.

917
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:21,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, oh good, Kyle Idel's mom.

918
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: You know, like every pool party was like nails and

919
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 1: iced tea and cigarettes, big curls and plastic surgery and you're.

920
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 5: Like, oh my god, that's it. And tanning beds, probably

921
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 5: tanning beds.

922
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 3: Before tanning beds. Oh god, wait.

923
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:40,439
Speaker 4: A minute, can I ask Georgia? Was there a hot dad?

924
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 5: No, hot brother? Yes? Yes, yes, you know yeah, the

925
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 5: older brother, the older brother of a friend would be that,

926
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 5: and they would just want us to leave them alone,

927
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 5: you know. Yeah, but I would say that my mom does, like,

928
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 5: can only talk to dudes in a way.

929
00:38:58,400 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 4: That's like flirtatious.

930
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, the waiter, the fuck it, you know, whatever it is,

931
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:06,480
Speaker 5: there's a flirtation, is your dad Okay, No, they're divorced.

932
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 4: No, uh, they are divorced.

933
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 3: So no, it.

934
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 5: Didn't That didn't go over well, and it's creepy when

935
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 5: you're young. But again, you can't do anything about it.

936
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 5: She's her own woman, right, that's true. Yeah, just don't

937
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:21,399
Speaker 5: bring your friends around her.

938
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 1: I guess I think telling her after she does it. Yeah,

939
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: like if she does it and you're like, mom, when

940
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: you do that. It makes me uncomfortable totally. It really

941
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 1: makes me uncomfortable, and I like it if you didn't

942
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: do it, at least in my presence. You know, that

943
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:38,439
Speaker 1: is the creating of a boundary, right, mm hmmm. It's

944
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 1: like when I'm around, this is what it's going to be.

945
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

946
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 1: And I've let you do it, and now you've hit

947
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: a point and that's it. Yeah, I feel like you're

948
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: within your your rights to do that.

949
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 5: And bringing up specific things too or is important, Like

950
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:54,439
Speaker 5: when you said this, that was flirtation, Like sometimes people

951
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 5: don't know that they're being flirty, you know what I mean. Yeah, yeah,

952
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 5: like this thing that you said. Or you touch his

953
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 5: arm and that was creepy.

954
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the arm touch. The unnecessary arm touch.

955
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, necessary arm touch.

956
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 2: I don't know a lot of rich people, but I

957
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:10,799
Speaker 2: went to like a comedian's wedding in South Pasadena, California.

958
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 2: It was giving eyes white shut but like at a barbecue,

959
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 2: and I had never.

960
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 4: Been around the rich white people before. Everyone was named Taylor.

961
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 4: Oh and just like but but bangs.

962
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,799
Speaker 2: I've never seen so many people with face responsibility. And

963
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 2: my husband and I were like just married and this

964
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 2: is like the first time I saw like really rich

965
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 2: people just all kiss each other on the mouth.

966
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 3: Oh you uh, now do they do that? What are

967
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 3: you talking about?

968
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 4: Do you know?

969
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 2: Like Jane Seymour in wedding crashers, like oh oh yes,

970
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:45,879
Speaker 2: like the mom who's like, oh my god, I love

971
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:49,320
Speaker 2: this tie and it's like what And so none of

972
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 2: that was to me.

973
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 4: But like I remember, I brought my husband.

974
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 2: We were married for like six months, We're still paid

975
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 2: for the wedding, and yeah, women were like kissing him

976
00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 2: hello on his lips and like we're like on his cheek,

977
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 2: like in the corner, like right near his lips. And

978
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, what the fuck is this? And

979
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 2: my friend was like this is how rich people do.

980
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 2: And I'm like what holy shit? Yeah, oh that would

981
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 2: creep me out on so much. Like even when a

982
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,919
Speaker 2: like a dude friend kisses me on the cheek, it's

983
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 2: so I'm not okay with it. It's so inappropriate to me,

984
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:19,799
Speaker 2: like do an air kiss. But I don't want your

985
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,320
Speaker 2: fucking mouth on my face.

986
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 4: Ew you know what I mean When.

987
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,879
Speaker 1: You put it that way, absolutely get your mouth off

988
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 1: my face.

989
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:26,879
Speaker 4: Yeah.

990
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 3: The title of this episode.

991
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 2: Can I tell you in Holland, where my husband's from.

992
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 2: They kiss on the cheek three times. Wow, oh my god.

993
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 4: Yeah.

994
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 2: So like when you walk into a party like it's

995
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,919
Speaker 2: just never ending, and I'm like, wow, can we end them?

996
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 4: No? No, lah.

997
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 2: And the first time I didn't know, and I was

998
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 2: pulling away and they were like and I was like,

999
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 2: this is too much.

1000
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 5: My family we do close cheek air kiss, so you

1001
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:56,800
Speaker 5: get them lot in your ear essentially, but your faces

1002
00:41:56,800 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 5: don't touch. It's very like hygienic, but but also withholding,

1003
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. It's that perfect amount of

1004
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,800
Speaker 5: like weirdness with comfort.

1005
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1006
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:10,920
Speaker 2: I didn't mind before, but now I really mind because

1007
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 2: now I don't really know what people are doing with

1008
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 2: their mouth.

1009
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:17,720
Speaker 4: Yeah. Post COVID's that's over. It's disgusting. Yeah.

1010
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,800
Speaker 2: The first time I smelled bad breath out of COVID,

1011
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 2: I was like, no, oh, this is how I get COVID,

1012
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 2: And I don't miss this at all.

1013
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 4: That's that's gone.

1014
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 5: Blowing out candles on a cake that should be gone completely.

1015
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, has it been bad, like a green flame shoots

1016
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 1: out of somebody's mouth.

1017
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 5: No, I just feel like you're blowing your germs. Look,

1018
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 5: I have a little bit of OCD. Okay, okay, it

1019
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 5: might be me a little bit gotcha, No, I love this.

1020
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 4: It might be me and not COVID. Let's talk about it.

1021
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 2: Because there's a lot of people that don't take their

1022
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 2: shoes off when they come in my house, and I'm

1023
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,839
Speaker 2: just like, oh, do you mind? And then like one

1024
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 2: person was like I don't really do it.

1025
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 5: I'm like okay, And then they got dog shit that

1026
00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 5: wasn't from my dog on my carpet, and I was like, this.

1027
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 4: Is why you take your fucking hoes off?

1028
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,759
Speaker 5: My god, Like, that's how plagues start. Literally, that's like,

1029
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 5: so I have such an issue with that.

1030
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 1: That's how the bubonic play started. Yes, people didn't take

1031
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 1: off their clogs?

1032
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 3: Is that what it was? You come into this house,

1033
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 3: you take off your clogs.

1034
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: I feel like, yes, okay, totally take your shoes off.

1035
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 3: Totally take your shoes off.

1036
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:28,479
Speaker 1: Sometimes though, uh people people's feet smells like that kind

1037
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 1: of like tang, and it's like that's what they're scared

1038
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 1: that they're putting into the atmosphere and just putting out there.

1039
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 4: I have to say, I.

1040
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 3: Will gladly take my shoes off. I have great smelling feet. Connect.

1041
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,239
Speaker 5: I don't find I don't mind other people leaving their

1042
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 5: shoes on when they come over.

1043
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:43,239
Speaker 4: Like, I'm just not gonna people do that.

1044
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:45,319
Speaker 5: But if you're going to, then like, have a pair

1045
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 5: of socks for people available, because I don't do bear.

1046
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 4: Feet on the floor. That grosses me out.

1047
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 5: Yeah right, and I don't want people staring at my

1048
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 5: grosser feet, you know, yeah, actually really cute feet, but

1049
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 5: they're not.

1050
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 4: They don't need to prove it. Wiki feet come through,

1051
00:43:59,280 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 4: do it?

1052
00:43:59,640 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 3: Wiki?

1053
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:00,800
Speaker 4: I have a wiki.

1054
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 3: You must have a wiki fee.

1055
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 4: I didn't start it, but there is a wiki feed.

1056
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1057
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 4: Socks, I have guest socks and I have guest slippers. Wow.

1058
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 2: And here's something that skives me out too, And then

1059
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 2: I have to get to the next question. But this

1060
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 2: really skies me out. Okay, and let me know if

1061
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 2: I'm alone eating in an airport restaurant and using the fork, oh,

1062
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 2: because I'm like, have they really cleaned this? How many

1063
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:26,440
Speaker 2: people have gone through this fork?

1064
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 3: Absolutely?

1065
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:28,960
Speaker 4: No? Ooh That's why I'm not mad at like a

1066
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 4: plastic fork.

1067
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 3: Sorry.

1068
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 2: I want to save the earth too, but I also

1069
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 2: want to save my face.

1070
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what, I won't do.

1071
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,799
Speaker 5: I won't drink out of a cup or like a

1072
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 5: glass in a hotel room. Never, they wipe it with

1073
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 5: the same towel that they use on the counters I've

1074
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:44,240
Speaker 5: seen twenty twenty.

1075
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1076
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 2: Never, don't put your mouth on anything in a hotel truly. Okay,

1077
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 2: we just don't do it. Worse to live by. Look,

1078
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:57,760
Speaker 2: that's the name of this episode. Good, Okay, next question?

1079
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 5: Okay, yes, ooh, this is a saucy santana question.

1080
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I don't even know how to Here

1081
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 3: we go.

1082
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: Okay, it's problematic because I'm looking at it too.

1083
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 3: Oh. No, do you want to do it together?

1084
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 5: No?

1085
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 3: I don't gather. I don't want together.

1086
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 4: No, I don't want to stay together and I don't

1087
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 4: want to do it together.

1088
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 2: Let me just do it, okay, ass play? Oh, I

1089
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:23,600
Speaker 2: want to get into it, but I don't know where

1090
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 2: to start. How do I begin? Like, first of all,

1091
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:27,880
Speaker 2: the fact that Jordan wanted to do that question with

1092
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 2: me troubles me.

1093
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: Together as friends, know you as your friend in this

1094
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 1: journey of ass play, that's what I do. As middle child,

1095
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: I am solving everything and I'm here for you, Oh

1096
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:39,919
Speaker 1: my god.

1097
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 3: And now the party can begin because I'm here so supportive.

1098
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 2: Yay, my god, I just got so thirsty. I just

1099
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 2: got so thirsty. Where's my yettie? I need my water?

1100
00:45:52,800 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 2: I am parched. Listen, I say nobody asked, but I'll start. Yes,

1101
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 2: I would go to a store and ask somebody that

1102
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 2: you sort of trust there, like what are the good

1103
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 2: things to start with if you don't know? Because if

1104
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 2: you don't know, you don't want to start at like

1105
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 2: a very difficult course.

1106
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 4: If you need something a little bit more intermediate. Do

1107
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 4: you know what I mean?

1108
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, you don't want to go on hot essentially, you

1109
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 5: want to go in warm this I'm blushing right now.

1110
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 5: I'm the wrong person to ask us because I just

1111
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 5: pretend that that part of my body doesn't exist.

1112
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 4: And in love.

1113
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 2: I love that we were just like I don't like

1114
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 2: my feet to touch the floor. Let's get a asplay

1115
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 2: because I'm sweeping the floor.

1116
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 4: Listen, there's something for everyone. But I would say do

1117
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 4: that go to us?

1118
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 2: Yes, once Jordan calms down, I'd say go to a store. Also, like,

1119
00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 2: watch some porn, do some research, you know, see what

1120
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 2: you might be into. Talk about it with your partner first. Yeah,

1121
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 2: because that's was on the menu. That's something you should

1122
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 2: talk about before ordering.

1123
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 4: For sure. I think being curious together is a good one.

1124
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 5: Yes, for this person's like I want to bring out

1125
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 5: all my stuff and it's like no, I want, I'm

1126
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 5: curious about it. And it's like kind of a fun

1127
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:16,839
Speaker 5: relationship thing to do. Is like, yeah, the porn thing

1128
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 5: is a great idea, Like let's watch and see what

1129
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 5: happens when people do that.

1130
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, right, And I think exploring, like to what

1131
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 1: degree do you want to be penetrated? To what degree

1132
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: do you want to penetrate somebody else likeing and what

1133
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 1: their comfort levels are.

1134
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 4: I love that he goes somebody else, you know, like.

1135
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 3: I had no idea. I didn't know.

1136
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I feel and hear.

1137
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 2: The roller coaster of emotions that is going on between

1138
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 2: those two moving blankets.

1139
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 4: I surprise. Penetration is not good for anyone.

1140
00:47:55,400 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 1: Look, not even if you yell like happy Kwanza. It's

1141
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 1: never fun anyway. I'll care you disrespect.

1142
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 2: December twenty six, Like done, coots, chuck away up?

1143
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 3: All right?

1144
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I feel like it's a conversation. Okay,

1145
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:14,799
Speaker 1: I'm just saying like.

1146
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:17,240
Speaker 5: It's a conversation that yeah, of course, like you should

1147
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 5: know those things about each other, right, Yeah, and if

1148
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 5: anything starts small.

1149
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 4: With beads, there you go.

1150
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 3: Absolutely.

1151
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 4: Next question, Jordan, call it what's your name? Where you

1152
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 4: calling from?

1153
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 1: Okay, my husband says a little bit, excuse.

1154
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 4: Me, Okay, let's take your breath. She put her arms up.

1155
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: Let's just the way the way this is written is

1156
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 1: very conversational. My husband, let's say, region doesn't smell great.

1157
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 1: Oh maybe it's his body wash that leaves a scent

1158
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 1: that makes me feel like gagging.

1159
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:54,400
Speaker 3: How do I approach this topic?

1160
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 5: You've gotten this far in your life and relationship with them,

1161
00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 5: and they don't know that, Like they're not like my

1162
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 5: neighbor friend or my husband.

1163
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, you got to open up lines of communication truly.

1164
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to talk about it because you know what,

1165
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,320
Speaker 2: I bet your husband would have no problem telling.

1166
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 3: You, right, you know what I mean.

1167
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,799
Speaker 2: So I'm just like, what is it? Does he need

1168
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 2: to use a different soap, eat something different? Is his

1169
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 2: pH balance off?

1170
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 5: Like? Well, the typical answer would be why don't you

1171
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,360
Speaker 5: try showering or taking it back together?

1172
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,720
Speaker 4: But really it's like you don't need a tiptoe?

1173
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 2: No, does your husband is your life partner, like getting married,

1174
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 2: Like your partner's crotch is like your roommate, Like like I.

1175
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 4: See that thing more than like my parents. Like for sure,

1176
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 4: you could pick it out of a lineup.

1177
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it matters, It matters. Yeah, come on, don't

1178
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 2: be a fucking hero. Don't do that to yourself. Totally

1179
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:48,720
Speaker 2: save yourself. I'm gonna ask another question, because we cannot

1180
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 2: end on someone's crotch, can't end on someone's end, and

1181
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 2: you can't end on someone's crotch.

1182
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

1183
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:55,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do.

1184
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:59,879
Speaker 2: Okay, here's the last question, and Georgia, you're walking into

1185
00:49:59,880 --> 00:50:04,840
Speaker 2: a okay, thank you. How do I go about investing?

1186
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 2: I've been living paycheck to paycheck for most of my adulthood,

1187
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 2: and now that I'm at a new company with a

1188
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 2: decent salary, I'm looking to maintain some financial security. It's

1189
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,760
Speaker 2: an intimidating hurdle, and I don't know where to start.

1190
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 3: I love that.

1191
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, that is so important. It is, and I totally

1192
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 4: understand that. One. I'll say, high yield savings accounts are

1193
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 4: a really good place to start.

1194
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, right now?

1195
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:29,359
Speaker 4: Was that high yield savings accounts? Huh?

1196
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 5: So there's savings accounts like at your bank or whatever,

1197
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 5: and those give you like a cheeny tiny percentage.

1198
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:36,120
Speaker 4: You'll not make any money off of that.

1199
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:39,359
Speaker 5: While you're waiting to figure it out and learning, Go

1200
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 5: google a high yield savings account in a safe banking

1201
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 5: institution and put your money in there while you wait,

1202
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:47,719
Speaker 5: and listen to a bunch of podcasts about finances.

1203
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, yeah, the compound and interest right now, some

1204
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: of the highest right now are like covering it about

1205
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:53,920
Speaker 1: four to five percent.

1206
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:54,479
Speaker 3: Now.

1207
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 1: Back in the day, I used to do that with

1208
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 1: my own money, and it was like when I first

1209
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 1: started in comedy. And then interest rates of course went

1210
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 1: down with the recession and COVID and all that. But

1211
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 1: now it's a good time to do it. Now it's

1212
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 1: a saving time and banks are begging for people's money

1213
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,280
Speaker 1: and they're savings savings account not not the commercial banks

1214
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 1: but banks like Ally and things like that.

1215
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 3: So you are so on the money. Amen to that, Georgia, like, yeah,

1216
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 3: do that shit.

1217
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 4: And there's so many pots. That's how I learned.

1218
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:25,719
Speaker 5: I don't know ton, but I know some basics, and

1219
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:29,799
Speaker 5: it's all from podcasts like financial podcasts out there. Oh

1220
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:31,959
Speaker 5: that's such a good piece of advice. Find the people

1221
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 5: you like, find the topics you like, and learn, but

1222
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:38,359
Speaker 5: go slow. Yeah, yeah, that's what I was just gonna say.

1223
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:40,800
Speaker 5: The emotional part of it is like it is huge.

1224
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 2: It's like waking up one day and just saying, I

1225
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 2: have to lose weight, right, And it feels overwhelming and

1226
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 2: daunting because you think you're just supposed to like drop

1227
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 2: this weight and be super healthy within like weeks. But

1228
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,839
Speaker 2: it takes time. And so if you're overwhelmed by this,

1229
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:59,280
Speaker 2: they use the word hurdle. Just one day at a time.

1230
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 3: Truly, you got this?

1231
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 4: Yeah you got this? Yeah?

1232
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, Well I'm so glad we ended on

1233
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:09,120
Speaker 2: an adult question, not about someone's stinky.

1234
00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 4: Dick funky spunk. We ask all our guests, what is.

1235
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:17,239
Speaker 2: What is the most adult thing you want to do

1236
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,000
Speaker 2: for yourself that you haven't had a chance to do yet?

1237
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 4: And it could be big or small or medium.

1238
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 5: Let me think I have completely lost the plot when

1239
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 5: it comes to being in shape in a way that

1240
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 5: like makes me feel old, you know what I mean,

1241
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 5: Like I'm forty three. I think that's not old at all. No,

1242
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:37,840
Speaker 5: but somehow I'm like, well that time's over for me

1243
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:41,600
Speaker 5: taking care of myself in that way, I know, and

1244
00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 5: I need, Yeah, I need to remember like people run

1245
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 5: marathons in their sixties and yeah, you know, And I

1246
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 5: just need to get that in my head because I'm

1247
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 5: such a like, I'm such a napper that I'm like, well,

1248
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:53,479
Speaker 5: I'm gonna go take a nap.

1249
00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:55,320
Speaker 4: No, I need to like discipline myself.

1250
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 5: And I talked about this in therapy all the time,

1251
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 5: where it's like, if you didn't have a lot of

1252
00:52:58,160 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 5: discipline as a child, you don't know how to do

1253
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 5: it to yourself as an adult.

1254
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:02,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you have to be you have to parent

1255
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 4: yourself and.

1256
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:04,919
Speaker 5: Be like, Okay, George, I know you want a nap

1257
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 5: right now, but a thirty minute walk is going to

1258
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:10,799
Speaker 5: make you feel better in so many ways. Yeah, you

1259
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 5: know what really worked for me, and I don't know

1260
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:15,879
Speaker 5: if it will work for you, but making plans with

1261
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 5: my friends to go for a walk or a jog

1262
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 5: or like a dance class or like whatever kind of

1263
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:22,799
Speaker 5: because I was like, I'm not gonna let my friend

1264
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 5: down right, I'll cancel all day long. I have a

1265
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:26,319
Speaker 5: palatine at home.

1266
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:28,439
Speaker 4: Are you kidding me? It's just oh, my god. Yeah,

1267
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 4: like I'm hanging shit on it at this point of course.

1268
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 2: But if I had a friend meet me at my

1269
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 2: bike every day, I'd be like, I'm coming because I

1270
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 2: don't want to let those motherfuckers down totally, right, So

1271
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:39,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe that would work.

1272
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 4: And then also I bought like new workout clothes at Target.

1273
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 2: That's a good one, right because I'm just like this

1274
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 2: shit looks like I'm mad at myself. Yeah, and so

1275
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 2: I just got like a new black one, you know

1276
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 2: what I mean.

1277
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 5: That's a really great point because the pants, the stretch

1278
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 5: pants I have, I love them, but the elastic is gone.

1279
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 4: Yep, yep, they fall off.

1280
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:00,319
Speaker 5: Well, I you know, work out to like have cute

1281
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 5: new outfit to like work out in is everything for sure.

1282
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, especially like in California. Everyone loves to hike. Yes,

1283
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 2: oh my god, bring some juices, go on a hike,

1284
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 2: do the little hot goss.

1285
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 5: That's a good one. Spill the tea. I haven't done

1286
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 5: that in years. It's a great idea.

1287
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 4: If I was there, I would do it with you.

1288
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:17,839
Speaker 4: I would love that.

1289
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 1: What's one kind of exercise routine you've never really done before,

1290
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 1: but like wanted to try.

1291
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:26,440
Speaker 4: Oh, there is an aerial.

1292
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:30,840
Speaker 5: Gymnastic place by my house, but I think it's a

1293
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:31,720
Speaker 5: way for children.

1294
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,759
Speaker 3: Oh wow, that is so cool, but I'm determined that.

1295
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that's cool.

1296
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,919
Speaker 4: It's giving Steve Corral realness. I want it.

1297
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, there is a pole dancing studio that I've never done.

1298
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 5: That I can't imagine. I could barely do a push up.

1299
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 5: I can't imagine I can do that, but it's a

1300
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 5: no for me. I'm just too top heavy. That's like

1301
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:52,360
Speaker 5: one of my heros.

1302
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:54,279
Speaker 2: That's the same the fact that I can tie my

1303
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:58,239
Speaker 2: own shoelace on camera and not always go like, give

1304
00:54:58,239 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 2: me an.

1305
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 1: Oscar, Michelle, what's up? I could see you, like with

1306
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:04,360
Speaker 1: Tanning Chatum whatever his name is.

1307
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 5: Yes, his name is Channing, but that's hilarious. Tanning, Tanning, Chadumann.

1308
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 5: I don't really watch a lot of his films, but

1309
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:15,480
Speaker 5: I could see you doing a little something in the

1310
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 5: n Z.

1311
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:19,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, what are we talking about.

1312
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:20,799
Speaker 1: I could see it for her in a film. I

1313
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: could see that for you for sure. Something I'm just saying.

1314
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, if that, if that is what you

1315
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:26,880
Speaker 1: wish her one.

1316
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:30,320
Speaker 2: I think you should try nobody said that. Nobody, Like literally,

1317
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 2: you said it and no one said it. I was

1318
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 2: talking about hiking.

1319
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:34,319
Speaker 3: I can see it.

1320
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:38,760
Speaker 4: Well, stop seeing it. That's on you talk about pole hiking.

1321
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 5: Is pole hiking the new trend in LA.

1322
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:44,880
Speaker 4: That's what old people do. Oh, you're right, that's just

1323
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 4: a walker with a walking stick. Oh.

1324
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 1: I thought you guys were talking about like strip poll

1325
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: and hiking at the same time.

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00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:54,000
Speaker 3: I was, she was, she was.

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00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:56,720
Speaker 2: But then there's like an actual poll that you take hiking.

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00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, this has been amazing. It was so

1329
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 2: fun hanging out with you. Thank you so much for

1330
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:07,279
Speaker 2: doing this silly little show. Thank you guys so much.

1331
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 2: I adore you both. I love the show.

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00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:12,400
Speaker 3: Oh, thank you so much. Thank you, Georgia.

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00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:13,320
Speaker 4: Thanks you guys.

1334
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:23,120
Speaker 3: Wow, we learned a lot, yeah about each other.

1335
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:26,919
Speaker 2: About people's holes, their wishes, their wants, questions, answers, more

1336
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 2: questions than answers.

1337
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:29,400
Speaker 3: More questions than answers.

1338
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 4: You have more questions and answers. This is what people have.

1339
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:32,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1340
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 2: I think the world would be a better place if

1341
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 2: we asked more questions, like what I mean, whether it

1342
00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:42,319
Speaker 2: comes to like federal funding or like who's running for what?

1343
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 2: Or like you know, civil rights, like fucking anything, like

1344
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 2: even like your body and like expectations, what your mom

1345
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 2: is doing or not like fucking anything to be honest.

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00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:54,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you.

1347
00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, my loveliest istant, Abbie just gave me

1348
00:56:58,000 --> 00:56:58,480
Speaker 2: a seltzer.

1349
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 4: Oh oh yeah, that's refreshing.

1350
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 3: Abby.

1351
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:08,800
Speaker 1: Did you just wish for that and she brought it?

1352
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 1: Or did you text her? Or like what happened?

1353
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 2: I texted her because I am I'm not lying. I

1354
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:15,800
Speaker 2: got really thirsty when I read the ask play question.

1355
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:20,440
Speaker 1: I understsdand do you I get it? You some someone

1356
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 1: I'm trying to imagine. No, come on now, Michelle, stay.

1357
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:26,440
Speaker 3: With us, Michelle.

1358
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 1: Michelle has been locked in a battle with this microphone

1359
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:33,160
Speaker 1: for the entirety of the flycast recorded.

1360
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 3: No, Michelle, no.

1361
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 4: Microphone is like that white kid and Lord of the Flies.

1362
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 4: Shut the fuck up and sit down. Oh my god.

1363
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 1: For the record, all the kids in Order the Flies

1364
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 1: were white. But that's trying to enter my mouth. No microphone. No,

1365
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:53,920
Speaker 1: maybe get a sandbag.

1366
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm just trying to help a sandbag.

1367
00:57:57,160 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 4: What did you call me?

1368
00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 3: I just want one normal interaction.

1369
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 4: What do you so us?

1370
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: Forget it? Forget it. That was so fun. Georgia was

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00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 1: so cool, so cool. I love anybody that can conduct

1372
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 1: an interview whilst also like with a pet, love it

1373
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 1: because I can't.

1374
00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 3: I can't do it with my dog. I can't do that.

1375
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:22,120
Speaker 4: I can.

1376
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have cool dogs, You have very cool dogs.

1377
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 1: My dog is a little more high energy, you know,

1378
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 1: is he?

1379
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 4: He always hies?

1380
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 3: I wouldn't know. Well, he's scared.

1381
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 1: I mean they they say that the owner's energy vibrates

1382
00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 1: through the dog, so that's probably he gets it from

1383
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 1: me unfortunately.

1384
00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 3: But you know, it is what it is. It is

1385
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 3: what it is, Okay.

1386
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 2: I don't know how this got sad so much for listening?

1387
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 2: Holy shit, God, Like.

1388
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 4: Can you is this? Is this? This is really you?

1389
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 3: Right?

1390
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 4: I mean I've known you for so long.

1391
00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, this really isn't how you possibly think of yourself?

1392
00:58:57,440 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 4: Is it?

1393
00:58:57,920 --> 00:58:58,280
Speaker 3: I think?

1394
00:58:58,280 --> 00:58:59,040
Speaker 4: Thank you so much?

1395
00:58:59,120 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 3: What are you getting now?

1396
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 4: I got a roll of toilet paper because I can't

1397
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:03,400
Speaker 4: find my tissues.

1398
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:09,000
Speaker 3: So aby just going on a worldwide scavenger.

1399
00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:17,840
Speaker 1: By Cherry Seltzer give me a whole seger girl.

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00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:20,520
Speaker 3: Sorry everyone, I love it.

1401
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 1: All right, listen, it's about that time too. You gotta

1402
00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 1: get your kids. So it is.

1403
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, great, good talk man, see you later, Okay, bye?

1404
00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 5: What like?

1405
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 4: I love the show, but I think I'm done. I

1406
00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 4: think it's done.

1407
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 3: This has been an exactly right production.

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00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 4: Our senior producer is g Howley.

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00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 3: Art Associate producer is Christina Chamberlain.

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00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 4: This episode was mixed by John Bradley.

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00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 3: Our guest booker is Patrick Cotner.

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00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 4: Additional production support from Hannah Kyle Crichton.

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00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 1: Theme song and live show DJing is by DJ don Will.

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00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 3: Artwork by Jamie.

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00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 4: Bechtel, Photography by Vander Moss.

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01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 1: Executive produced by Karen Kilgera, Georgia Hartstar and Danielle Kramer.

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01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 4: Follow the show on Instagram at Adulting the Pod.

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01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 1: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 3: Mmmm