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Speaker 1: It's time to go around the room with Elvis Duran

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Speaker 1: in the morning show Around the room. Here we go,

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Speaker 1: let's see what's on your minds today. Scary, I'll start

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Speaker 1: with you. What's up?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 3: I know there's a lot of controversy about wedding gifts

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Speaker 3: and what kind of cash you would give for certain

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Speaker 3: but here's a new one.

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Speaker 1: If you're getting, is there any controversy about how much

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Speaker 1: you know the day of the week versus how much

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Speaker 1: they spend? Know that that's your controversial wrinkle.

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Speaker 3: What if you're getting What if you're getting invited to

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Speaker 3: a wedding where the person is being married getting married

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Speaker 3: for the second time?

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Speaker 2: Do you give a lesser gift for that?

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Speaker 1: Do you want them to be happy in their marriage?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to wish them?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 3: I do, but I also I also blew half my

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Speaker 3: paycheck on their first wedding.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know, and now that they're getting married a

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Speaker 3: second time, half your pa.

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Speaker 1: Let's make this clear. You're asking us what our opinion

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Speaker 1: is because you're about.

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Speaker 2: To get so what is your opinion on that?

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Speaker 1: My opinion is you're happy for them. You don't think

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Speaker 1: about what it costs you give them a gift then,

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Speaker 1: because you said you want in the way all happy,

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Speaker 1: I already gave you a gift. I'm not giving you

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Speaker 1: another one. That's your that's your attitude a little bit.

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Speaker 3: He's making out double on me now because I hit

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Speaker 3: him for this wedding ten years ago.

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Speaker 1: It's a hymn. So this is this is a true

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Speaker 1: story going on. What's his name. I'm not gonna say that,

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Speaker 1: but why not now I'm gonna if I if I

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Speaker 1: hit him a couple of years ago, now I gotta

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Speaker 1: he's gonna do another wedding. And now I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: say it out loud. No, but I just thought that

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Speaker 1: he knows who he is.

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Speaker 2: The lesser gift.

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Speaker 3: He hasn't even hit me once wet yet because I

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Speaker 3: never got married.

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Speaker 2: This is crazy. All this money's coming out of my pocket,

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Speaker 2: it's all out.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, Well then then you know, if that's how

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Speaker 1: you want to do it. Does anyone agree or disagree?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 6: I think he's just give him a good gift. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: of course time around, because what if that first marriage

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Speaker 6: didn't suit him, which obviously it didn't. He's in a

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Speaker 6: better place now, he's happier now, he's found somebody who's

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Speaker 6: a better match for him now, and you don't want

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Speaker 6: to celebrate it the same.

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Speaker 1: Okay question R. Let's say, for instance, our friend Scotty. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he decides he's gonna get on high set time. Okay,

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Speaker 1: he's not. But I'm sorry to say, our friend Scotty

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Speaker 1: is getting married for the second time. Yeah, are you

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Speaker 1: going to give him less of a gift second go

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Speaker 1: around because you've already given him a gift with another marriage,

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Speaker 1: is what you're saying. Scotty has give me the eye.

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Speaker 1: Look look at me in the eye right now.

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Speaker 3: Tell him that, Scotty Bee, as much as I love you,

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Speaker 3: I gave you a lot of money for your first wedding.

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Speaker 3: You're getting married a second time. I don't think I

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Speaker 3: should have to give you as much as.

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Speaker 1: I gave you for your first one. I agree. I

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Speaker 1: tell you, what, if you were at my first wedding,

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Speaker 1: then you don't have to give me as much for

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Speaker 1: the second one. You're giving him a discount, Yeah, yeah, newbies.

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Speaker 1: Newbies have to give the full gift, and if you

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Speaker 1: were at the first one, you get fifty percent.

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Speaker 2: I need a.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right, kind of makes sense.

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Speaker 2: Scotty.

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Speaker 4: Wow, we went from were going to really kill scary

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Speaker 4: to all of a sudden he makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Well, listen, if I get married again, I don't know

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Speaker 1: what to expect from you, because whatever you gave me

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Speaker 1: the first time wasn't all that much. To be honest,

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Speaker 1: do no. Let me tell you something. If if you

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Speaker 1: are comparing the amount of what you're giving it a

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Speaker 1: wedding to the amount of things you received that night,

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Speaker 1: you owe me a lot of money. Yeah, this is

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Speaker 1: purely on how you look at it. I don't you

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Speaker 2: You're right If you're looking at this as a business transaction,

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Speaker 2: you gave us the world. I'll never go to a

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Speaker 2: wedding as great as that wedding was.

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Speaker 1: I think I think I flew you out there? Did

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Speaker 1: I not?

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Speaker 7: You?

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Speaker 2: Did you?

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Speaker 1: Did you put you in a hotel room?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I put you in an hotel room. You had a

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Speaker 1: very expensive night. I'm not bragging. I'm just saying it

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Speaker 1: costs a lot of money that night.

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Speaker 7: He didn't win the car though.

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Speaker 1: I just want to point you from your from your

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Speaker 1: point of view, you owe me more money I do.

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Speaker 2: I do. That's fair. That's fair, and you will get

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Speaker 2: you know, it will be a windfall of cash when

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Speaker 2: you get married again.

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Speaker 1: Getting married again, if you again, I'm going to enforce

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Speaker 1: you now.

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Speaker 6: You need to do a wedding vowel renewal so that

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Speaker 6: he can pay you again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, this is my point. Doesn't it sounary diculous?

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Speaker 1: I'm saying this to someone. I think it does. I

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Speaker 1: think it's really rude to say, you know what, you

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Speaker 1: came to my wedding, you really didn't give a lot.

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Speaker 1: I really think you you give me more, because that's

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Speaker 1: the same thing you're saying, though, Isn't it exactly.

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Speaker 2: What I'm just talking about?

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Speaker 3: Second marriages? They're just like, you're really cashing in on you.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying second third marriages, a third marriage, you're

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Speaker 3: gonna give the same amount you get it for the

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Speaker 3: first one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right to say it? Uh, Danielle,

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Speaker 1: what's on your mind today? Bring it on.

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Speaker 5: So last night, my sister threw a little karaoke night.

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Speaker 5: H Yes, it was a Tuesday, but we did it anyway,

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Speaker 5: with drinks and with food, and we all had to

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Speaker 5: dress as one of our favorite musical icons female musical icons.

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Speaker 5: I chose Amy winehouse. I'm gonna post the pictures in

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Speaker 5: a few minutes. And last night Chare showed up, Britney Spears,

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Speaker 5: Avril Avine, Taylor Swift, read but Dolly Gaga, Madonna, Sia,

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Speaker 5: Janet Jackson. They were all in the house singing their

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Speaker 5: karaoke best. I know a lot of times we say, oh,

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Speaker 5: it's a Tuesday, I don't want to go I don't

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Speaker 5: want to go out. You never know what's gonna happen

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Speaker 5: and how much fun you're gonna have. I had the

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Speaker 5: best time. So go out on that Tuesday night and

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Speaker 5: have a blast. Thanks to my sister and to Mota

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Speaker 5: for throwing this fabulous karaoke party. My poor sister, And

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Speaker 5: how's getting out of the damn bed this morning with

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Speaker 1: But God bless her. You know what, Danielle, we always do.

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Speaker 1: We always drag as we always survive. It's good to

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Speaker 1: go out, have fun. Good for you. I'm heading for you,

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Speaker 1: so fun. Let's see, oh straight and eight, what's up

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Speaker 1: with you?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 7: So I don't care if you're twenty five, fifty five,

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Speaker 7: or seventy five. The advice I'm about to give you

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Speaker 7: applies no matter what age you are. You never really

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Speaker 7: figure it out. No matter how old you get, you

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Speaker 7: never really have the world figured out. I know when

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Speaker 7: you're young, you're like, oh, once i'm older, it's all

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Speaker 1: Never really does.

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Speaker 7: You just kind of always go through life and you're

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Speaker 7: always perpetually figuring it out. That is okay, just keep

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Speaker 7: that in mind. You never really have it figured out.

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Speaker 7: You just kind of find your way. It never fully clicks.

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Speaker 7: You just kind of figure it out, you know.

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Speaker 1: But even when you figure it out, you know, the

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Speaker 1: figure it out exactly right, exactly all right? So why

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Speaker 1: bother just slither through the world. Yeah, it doesn't even

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Speaker 1: pay attention to anything. That's my motto. I like that.

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Speaker 1: That's very good. Thank you, Nate. Hey, Froggy, what's up

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Speaker 1: with you today?

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Speaker 4: So I al was doing talking about food and everything else.

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Speaker 4: There is usually the pizza argument, like everybody, if somebody

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Speaker 4: has a pizza that they love, they'll argue with you

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Speaker 4: about which pizza is the best. Well, last time I

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Speaker 4: I love North Carolina barbecue because that's where I'm from,

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Speaker 4: It's what I grew up eating.

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Speaker 1: And man, did I get blasted that.

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Speaker 4: I was told that Texas barbecue and actually even the

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Speaker 4: Saint Louis Kansas City barbecue is actually better than any

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Speaker 4: other barbecue. It is superior. So I wanted to ask you,

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Speaker 4: because I've never had Saint Louis or Kansas City barbecue,

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Speaker 1: Look, I'm from Texas and people expect me to say

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna love it. I love barbecue from all points

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Speaker 1: of barbecue interests in the world I'm in. So I

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Speaker 4: It's wild. I mean, barbecue is one of those things.

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Speaker 4: It's like pizza. They will argue their region, what they believe,

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Speaker 4: I kind of like it all.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, we're supposed to be We're expected to

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Speaker 1: be pizza snobs here in New York and you know whatever.

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Speaker 1: I was in the mall yesterday and yeah, I did

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Speaker 1: stop by the California Pizza Kitchen almost walked in and

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Speaker 1: ordered a barbecue chicken pizza to go because I love

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Speaker 1: those so much. Exactly know what I'm talking about. It's,

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Speaker 1: you know, basically sugar and chicken on a pelt of pizza, candy, sauce.

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Speaker 1: It's one of my best. But you know what, if

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Speaker 1: you're a purest with pizza New York City, you would

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Speaker 1: turn your nose up at me and go, yeah, yeah, please,

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Speaker 1: I love it yep, So we can argue about that too.

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Speaker 1: Anyone else into the barbecue chicken pizza pizza kitchen, I

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Speaker 5: Most pizza I don't throw out the bed, so wow.

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Speaker 1: What a great place to have pizza. I agree with

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Speaker 1: that too, Hey, Preducer Sam, what's up with you? All right?

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Speaker 8: I mentioned last week that I started taking sauca lessons

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Speaker 8: with my husband, and it's a group activities. So there's

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Speaker 8: one instructor and a bunch of people who show up,

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Speaker 8: and in that group there are several people who are

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Speaker 8: just there solo. They didn't bring a partner. And I

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Speaker 8: know a lot of people need to hear this, especially

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Speaker 8: mister Jones in this room, but I want to point

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Speaker 8: out how you are really perceived by other people when

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Speaker 8: you are doing activities that are usually together alone. Those

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Speaker 1: Those people in the salsa class who showed.

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Speaker 8: Up without a partner just to learn and kind of

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Speaker 8: just like we admire them so much. I think it's

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Speaker 8: so great to do something and not let having a

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Speaker 8: I think as being way cooler and way more badass.

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Speaker 8: There's nothing embarrassing about it. So scared, go have dinner alone,

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Speaker 8: Go enjoy it, and keep doing activities by yourself. I

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Speaker 1: will open relationship. I said, salsa not swing class. All right, hey,

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Speaker 6: Today is Wednesday, so it's podcast day. If you want

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Speaker 6: to go listen to a new episode of Sauce on

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Speaker 6: the Side. Wherever you get your podcast. We like the

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Speaker 6: iHeartRadio app. But I was having a conversation with one

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Speaker 6: of the coolest things. We sent each other a ten

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Speaker 6: song playlist that we thought summarized our lives, not of

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Speaker 6: We both listened to them, and it just opened up

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Speaker 6: a whole new window of communication and questions and getting

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Speaker 6: them to send you their ten song playlists about their life,

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Speaker 1: It was great. I loved it. Wow, did you do

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Speaker 1: you want to share one or two from yours?

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Speaker 6: I'll share a couple from mine.

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Speaker 6: I really like Wildflowers by Tom Petty. I love Just

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Speaker 6: Around the River Bend from Pocahontas, And yeah, there are

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Speaker 6: a bunch of other ones on there. Myself.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I never thought of that. That's so cool. The

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Speaker 1: songs that are obviously very important to you, they're on

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Speaker 1: your list. Yeah, they describe the essence of you in

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Speaker 6: Maybe, Yeah, and then you know, with her, she sent

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Speaker 6: So yeah, I just urge all of you to try

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Speaker 6: see what that sparks in conversation.

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Speaker 1: It takes effort, but sometimes you must put effort into

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Speaker 1: things if you want to grow. I get it.